9 Things Men Should Keep PRIVATE

There are certain things if kept to yourself, will lead to better results in your life. In today's video, Jeff from The Style O.G. discusses 9 things men should keep private.
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[@trueblak1]

1. Personal plans/goals 0:45 2. Intimate relationships 1:45 3. Personal struggles 2:39 4. Workplace issues 3:32 5. Shared Confidentiality 4:28 6. Financial information 5:23 7. Political beliefs 6:23 8. Sexual Preference 7:18 9. Uninformed opinions 8:19

[@LorenzO-305]

#Band4band 5:23

[@ScrotusMaximus666]

So pretty much everything that makes someone an individual, got it

[@elliotv5354]

These youtubers think we have all the time in the world. Our days are rapid in 2024 let's go!

[@SharonElizabethWhitfield]

Some of these things could be very important if you want a relationship. Such as political beliefs and your sexual preference.

[@terry_willis]

@@ScrotusMaximus666 My thought too. All you're left with is discussing the weather. :-)

[@davidbooker8319]

“It’s better to be silent and thought a fool, than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.” This has always been, and will always be great advice. The only way to learn is by listening.

[@TheStyleOG]

For real !

[@BH6242KCh]

Very true. Critical thinking is almost a dying art. This is an age of shouted slogans, meaningless jargon, and vapid buzzwords.

[@HughJorgan09]

Two ears, one mouth, because, one should be listening TWICE AS MUCH as one should be talking

[@mitchell00711]

[thinking] What does that mean? Better say something or they'll think you're stupid. Takes one to know one.

[@CooLin1stPlace]

TRUE.

[@Hitman4seven-zv1pu]

Big thumbs up for this video! I‘m in my 30s and used to overshare informations about myself in my 20s only to realize that i damaged my reputation. Now i keep everything secret.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@McCoyReginald]

Hey I'm In My Age Of 30s Too Been There Done That Back My Age Of 20s I Know How You Feel.

[@HughJorgan09]

at least, you learned. making the mistake isn't the terrible thing that most people fear it to be. to err IS human, and, us ALL being human, therefore,... the harm comes in not learning the lesson, gaining the wisdom of experience, because, if we don't learn the lessons of history's mistakes, we are DOOMED to repeat them.

[@McCoyReginald]

@HughJorgan09 Hey Your Possitively Right About That Thank You So Very Much For Reminding Me About Learning From Mistakes And Not To Be Repeated Best Believe That's The Honest Truth.

[@OMONEY09]

In my 40s and I must say definitely keep your business to your self that extra information can come back around and bite you

[@Reed___]

As someone who’s in their early 20s, this is something I’m still learning - keeping certain things to myself.

[@rellyrell043]

Glad we got guys like this, or our OG's giving knowledge to the youth that may not know or need to know

[@surfghost9121]

As someone in their early 60s, I wish I learned this in my twenties. Good on you for getting on this young. Wish I had a Style O.G. when I was 20 :-(

[@TheSoCalledAngryBlackMan]

Don't take your work issues to HR, they work for the company, they WILL lie and screw you over.

[@professionalpookie]

Facts

[@itsDjjayyArt]

😅😅😅

[@mackaready1]

HR depts are basically the KGB.

[@Woeisme2]

That's why you work for a union so if there's any issues you talk to your shop steward or call your business agent

[@sen74diehard]

All true facts from real experience!

[@northstar-7575]

Keep to your self. Old school saying " Tell them what they want to hear, tell them what they need to know".

[@anthonytucker5279]

I always heard that saying growing

[@DealwiththeReal]

Exactly why I dumped social media apps. More hate then connection is all it causes

[@artmallory970]

*than

[@JJPHILLYLG]

Being an introvert helped me naturally not talk about these things with others.👍🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

I feel that !

[@paulmbahrt]

Bruhhh

[@surfghost9121]

@@TheStyleOG O.G., are you saying you're an introvert? I wouldn't guess....

[@HNXMedia]

Facts!

[@CLE619]

One of few channels of healthy masculinity being encouraged properly. Salute to you my g!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute !

[@professionalpookie]

Stupid comment

[@CooLin1stPlace]

💪

[@jackcarraway4707]

4:09 I'm going to STRONGLY disagree here. Going to HR about a problem 99% of the time is a VERY bad idea. HR is not your friend and are there to mitigate the company's liability. A lot of the time if you go to them about a problem YOU become the problem. Speaking of work, where you work is another thing you should generally keep private. One time I found this chick posting extremely offensive things about religion, a protected group in discrimination cases, on FB and the very first result when I Google her name is her LinkedIn profile that states where she works and all of the organizations she is associated with. All someone would have to do to potentially screw her over big time is screenshot those comments and share them with her employer and those organizations.

[@keithr.hammonds6653]

Facts….HR will always side with management and do what’s best for the company.

[@HughJorgan09]

I am SO glad that you made mention of the problem with going to HR with a problem! It's one of those catch-22 situations, where, when the problem comes to light, they'll say that you should have come to HR with it, but, like you said, I've seen that not turn out right for some folks, as well as having had not-so-satisfactory results, myself, from thinking that involving HR would be a reasonable approach to a conflict. Of course, I guess that if you're the person on the other side of the outcome, the one who's not disappointed, then, I guess THAT person would say that involving HR is indeed the preferred means of conflict resolution. So,...

[@jackcarraway4707]

​​@@HughJorgan09Generally with work problems it is usually either just deal with it or get another job. I'm a firm believer your compensation is for putting up with jerks and idiots for a third of your day, not just for your output. Now if the company is doing something illegal, get a lawyer and blindside the crap out of them.

[@tigernotwoods914]

Most jobs don’t even have HR.

[@abyde]

💯

[@DLG24]

I keep everything to myself. Even good news. Most power comes from the unknown.

[@TheStyleOG]

Like it !

[@BO_Knows143]

we have 2 ears and one mouth for a good reason. Talk less, ask better questions , be present and listen to understand not just to reply. You will win people over most if not all of the time. Great video brother!

[@TheStyleOG]

Well said!

[@mateaukalua4426]

I try to stay quiet about my goals. I don't talk about the women I have talked to. I don't have a therapist. I work in Corporate America. We can't do anything. I am quitting soon. The environment especially while being black is very restricting.

[@captured_agent5714]

Use that health insurance and get a therapist. It helps. Don't gotta be deep every session

[@mateaukalua4426]

@@captured_agent5714 I hear you.

[@abroadstateofmind5571]

I’ve been watching this brother for a very long time. Truly appreciate this kind of content especially when you’re not connecting to a solid support system of men.

[@docrichspeaks]

This is an awesome video. I would like to suggest ONE thing in that you I advise against sharing workplace issues with HR as they do not function for the employees, they function as a staff entity to protect the company and they are NOT confidential. Their loyalty resides with the executive staff. If you have workplace issues, consult a lawyer as at that point; once you hire said lawyer, you have attorney/client privilege.

[@bhead8001]

Keep everything to yourself!! My grandfather shared that with me back in 1975 and he didnt lead me the wrong way!! The only person one should share with, is YOURSELF & only YOURSELF!!!

[@leroy592]

Great video Jeff I totally agree with this!! I tell people 3 things you should keep private; money, romantic life and your next move. If you can keep those parts of your life private you'll live a pretty peaceful life.

[@TheStyleOG]

Well said!

[@istp1967]

"Don't talk about it, be about it!" -- Style GG. Awesome quote. 😎👍👍

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@TheLegend-uq1gz]

These are great points. I only discuss sports, weather, food & similar stuff. Nothing more.

[@caipirinha_king1632]

The workplace advice is vital… When you keep your opinions of the work environment to yourself, you’re able to stand on your own. Once you start bitching, complaining, and gossiping, you are becoming part of a clique with common thoughts. You will also stunt your professional growth.

[@isaiahedwards6586]

TK Kirkland said never discuss Religion and Politics💯

[@TheStyleOG]

Wise advice!

[@bruceblackerby3742]

Agreed! Religious belief (or lack thereof) is no one else's business.

[@tomare6479]

Nah if people can talk about their stupid secularistic religion, while telling us not to talk about accountability, is hypocritical, talk about religion all you need to, especially when healed personally

[@Southernguy41]

@@TheStyleOGNo it’s not. You don’t call out atheists, but you call out other religions? That’s not what we’re told to do as Christians, but tell yourself whatever you need to.

[@dexterspeights3484]

Discussing your politics makes enemies instead of friends 9 times out 10!

[@brendanthompson2082]

Slight correction - Be careful sharing with HR (4;19). HR is there to protect your employer, not you. They are NOT your friend.

[@jahrules8674]

Don't share nuffin with em.....I try to avoid em like the po-lice.

[@mikesperanza6794]

One of the best pieces of advice was from my grandmothers, many years ago. She said, “Don’t let nobody know your business!” Every time you use a credit card, you are letting the world “know your business”! Use cash whenever possible!

[@StoicMind707]

✨

[@mikeprice8307]

Lost me at credit card vs cash

[@mikesperanza6794]

When you use a credit card, you are letting the world know where you are, and what you are buying! You are also giving the world your credit card number. You are letting the world “ know your business”! When you use cash, they don’t know nothing! I do not use a credit card unless I absolutely have to! Like a car rental or airline reservation. When I shop on line, I use PayPal exclusively. Don’t you watch police shows? How many folks were proven guilty through credit car activity?

[@user-360johnn]

wouldn't whipping out wads of cash make things more obvious?

[@mikes6490]

SALUTE my brother. Good seeing you.

[@McCoyReginald]

Yes He Hit The Nail With The Hammer On This One:"No One Wants To Hear You Bragg About Your Money BecauseThen People Are Going To Have Their Hands Out." Thank You 👏🏾 💯

[@ernestcarter7073]

💯 agree with this, especially your private relationship. Not kissing and telling about your relationship between you and your woman !

[@MrKronus1]

Do bad women don’t do the same😂

[@ernestcarter7073]

@@MrKronus1 I doubt it lol

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed !

[@E4439Qv5]

​@@MrKronus1Bad women *do.*

[@captured_agent5714]

Keeping private the confidence of others is so key in life!

[@Quicknick82]

Very informative video ..Thank you! Keeping these topics to yourself is important to your mental wellbeing as well as protecting others in your own life. It also makes you a better man because you soon start to learn how to filter your thoughts and conversations with others on a daily basis.

[@ryanpierce5460]

I'm in my 40s and learned this year ago and found it a good refresher. Well said, great job on your content.

[@RobynJ729]

Don't talk about it, be about it 🔥 Right on Jeff, on all of those 👏🏾👏🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@andrewmack3670]

I’m 39 now. Just learned this a few years ago. Great lessons!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@DJ279V]

Good stuff. Especially good to not share your work issues with family members as they tend to keep reminding you of past issues if you encounter new conflicts on a different job.

[@ShaddyraddyNY]

One of the greatest channels regarding the importance of young men. Salute👍🏿

[@the.dirty.pigeon]

That last saying that you mentioned… my grandparents had it in a little frame on a wall in their home back in the day. I used to think, “Nah, that’s lame… it’s better to always speak your mind..” Now I get it, though.

[@kgee8814]

Big thanks OG been following you for years now. Yep be about it.

[@noName-kn1lx]

Amen keep your issues to yourself, too many self centered narcissists who think everyone cares about their lives

[@TheStyleOG]

Indeed !

[@professionalpookie]

Are you a licensed psychologist?

[@noName-kn1lx]

@@professionalpookie lol dont need a license to know not everyone needs a picture of you eating a taco

[@professionalpookie]

@@noName-kn1lx I asked a yes or no question. Provide an answer

[@professionalpookie]

@@noName-kn1lx answer the question

[@octomoda]

Excellent video and awesome advice. Please keep up the great work.

[@earsuljordan9688]

FACCTZ! Great topic keep up the great work 👏🏾👏🏾

[@carpediem673]

Words of wisdom. These things used to be common sense before the internet but now everyone is expected to share everything :(

[@vincentb9159]

Great ones and we should always move in silence! 👍🏾 💯 💪🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

Truth!

[@wk4max263]

Hi Style O.G ..😎. MAX from England here ....this is some great advice sir!😁 liked and Subbed mate!

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks and welcome!

[@mackjay1777]

Great advice!. Less is more, when it comes to revealing things about yourself

[@TheStyleOG]

So true!

[@bigcozz89]

Great video!!!! I also need to work on to not share too much information too soon, which can cause people to turn away from me

[@PipeFighter83]

Style O.G, This was a great video. I'm 41 years old and have made countless error rooted in the topics you've highlighted here. Keep up the good work! Best, Sanchez

[@stevenstone307]

This is so important in this day and age. I'm so sick of seeing every detail of peoples lives everywhere I go online. There are people that share so much that you can basically track what they did, where they were for the whole past month, each day, it's crazy. I read this book years ago called something like Rules for Life, and literally the first rule always stuck with me. 'Keep it under your hat'. Basically, keep your life to yourself.

[@TheStyleOG]

Tell em Steven!

[@emiliorperez6309]

Thank you, Jeff Style O.G., for sharing your knowledge.

[@TheStyleOG]

My pleasure!

[@wyrlismike]

This guys cool, first vid of his I've seen but I subscribed. Just everyday advice

[@terrancewoods3463]

Hey Jeff. Great video again. What kind of cardigan is that?

[@jmorgan0829]

Yes!!!!💯💯💯🫶 luv all 9 things!!especially political finances,relations along with your struggles 💯

[@rbean1954]

Excellent advice 🎯💯

[@ChrisS-k4l]

I been watching for awhile in background but I had like and subscribe

[@NaimaDreamz]

Hey Jeff, I’ve been a subbie for years. Wanted to applaud you on your perspective on the male ethos. It’s refreshing & balanced. This channel is helpful to men, women & those in relationships with men. Salute 😊

[@TheStyleOG]

I appreciate that!

[@ItsIsaan]

LOL I got called out on that last one. Definitely something I gotta work on. Thanks for the great vid as usual.

[@carldoss4195]

Great content and advice

[@JohnGardnerJr]

Couldn’t agree more with his suggestions. Especially with folks at work. Believe me; keep it all to yourself!!!!

[@demographicsinc543]

Lesson 101... Excellent video

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks!

[@sprezzatura8755]

Very informative!

[@laurice8056]

This is sage advice for anyone. Not just for men. Thanks for sharing this message.

[@TheStyleOG]

You are so welcome

[@albertcelini3413]

Excellent advice OG!

[@thelighthousefjcproduction5597]

Very sound advice thanks a lot man. God Bless

[@TheStyleOG]

Blessings!

[@NUGG1169]

OG!! you forgot "Prayer List" you should NEVER tell anyone what you're praying about...

[@E4439Qv5]

Church-approved gossip chain.

[@robertnew8978]

Wish I could like this video more than once. Great advice OG

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate that !

[@TheOriginalLaPaul]

Solid Content 👌🏽

[@jaleeleojohnson6410]

You definitely just gained a new subscriber 🙋🏾‍♂️😎

[@TheStyleOG]

Welcome aboard!

[@gd70693]

Always good advice from the Style O.G.

[@ChristnThms]

100%, thank you. I wish someone had this talk with me 40 yrs ago.

[@pharaohkingchampion8464]

Pharaoh-king Champion. I appreciate your channel

[@BH6242KCh]

Normally nothing good comes from discussing Religion and Politics, but in a relationship or a potential mate, it's important to look for compatibility. These topics will come up eventually. Better to cut bait early than be disappointed later on.

[@xavcuttinoakatheinspiratio4353]

This was Platinum information ℹ️ 🎉🎉🎉I myself kept secret from literally everyone when I chose to make a career change and I feel all the better for it

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@draconian45]

Words of wisdom. More people should watch this video and follow the advice.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate it !

[@Andre2199CE]

💯 Great video new to your channel. Where do you get that aqua green button down sweater? That’s a clean sweater Brother.

[@doommega]

Bless up brother w this fantastic Vid - fantastic Points i hope men can take this into account.

[@TheStyleOG]

Bless up!

[@vvolfflovv]

good looking out as always

[@jamesdunn1641]

Great show!

[@igriffith30921]

0:47 - goals and plans 1:47 - intimate relationship 2:39 - personal struggles 3:32 - workplace issues 4:30 - other confidences shares with you 5:20 - financial information 6:23 - political beliefs 7:15 - sexual activity 8:20 - uninformed opinions

[@micknificent]

Here’s 10 more things men might consider keeping to themselves. 1. Health Issues: Specific details about personal health problems unless necessary. 2. Past Mistakes: Certain regrets or past actions that are best left in the past. 3. Criticisms of Others: Negative opinions or criticisms about colleagues, friends, or family. 4. Dislikes and Pet Peeves: Specific things that bother them which may not be relevant to share. 5. Personal Insecurities: Deep-seated insecurities that could be exploited or misunderstood. 6. Family Disputes: Internal family disagreements or conflicts. 7. Unsolicited Advice: Giving advice when it hasn’t been asked for. 8. Legal Issues: Details of ongoing or past legal troubles. 9. Social Media Gripes: Complaints or rants about social media interactions. 10. Detailed Daily Routines: Mundane details about their everyday schedule.

[@learningisfun2108]

Great list! 👍👍

[@Stocksavvydad]

I agree with your first point, especially with all of the haters out there. I will say finding a good mentor or accountability partner can be a big help though. You don't have to tell them everything but it's nice to have someone who will "check" you if you fall off track.

[@TheStyleOG]

Agreed !

[@gregorysimpson8629]

Very good advice.Thanks

[@TreFKennedy]

Dope vid Og

[@mebeasensei]

I need to listen to this ten times. But I also know - keeping it to yourself is said to be a source of pressure - but can swinging the other way.

[@titanjake8640]

I approve this video x 💯. As HV man it is extremely important to protect everything and let loose the minimum

[@laundalesmith2244]

Great list!

[@waynenice]

Weekend knowledge love It!!

[@TheStyleOG]

Boom!

[@bluefig797]

I agree with every single one of these. This is pure wisdom.

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate the feedback!

[@mmarsaw1]

Actually is great advice for anyone.

[@dbdouglas]

Coming from nothing, I've proudly accomplished some financial milestones over the years & I think sometimes want to tell everyone. Can't tell everyone everything, 100% correct!!!

[@willsteele9249]

Love your videos Big OG! Always dropping facts!

[@TheStyleOG]

Appreciate that!

[@jonathanmarois9009]

These are solid.

[@McCoyReginald]

Financial Information Is Always The Main Key No One Needs To Know About and That Goes For Me Too I Be Telling My Friends Whatever You Got Going On Financially Idk, Don't Wanna Know, Its Not My Concern, and Best Believe Its None Of My Business.

[@kevintowns7124]

That was Killer Old School OG playa!

[@TheStyleOG]

Salute!

[@forthdimension686]

Can you do a video of what you SHOULD talk about? Im confused

[@marlboropiked]

I can honestly say that i was taught each of these rules but ignored them as time went on for social interaction & acceptance. Follow these rules & your life will be less complicated…

[@TheStyleOG]

Tell em!

[@epykness]

i do almost all of these rn. before i had anything to lose it didn’t matter, but now,, lots of misunderstanding. great video at the perfect time. retraining my brain to learn to stfu again

[@NobleLeeNixonIII]

Speaking truth Unc...Great Video 🫡

[@TheStyleOG]

💯

[@melangreathouse2209]

I agree with your save wisdom on all nine points ( except #3)! A person going through a stage of mental illness “ needs” to communicate with an experienced and licensed professional, who can help guide them through this tough season of life. Keeping deep seated issues and problems to yourself is like pouring salt on an open wound.

[@artmallory970]

What do 'psychiatrists' know? Very little about the real world & less about you. Most are as mad as March hares...

[@derrolvrij7540]

Nice sweater! What brand is that?

[@TheStyleOG]

J Crew

[@aaronwilson8381]

All great points thanks ✊🏾✊🏾

[@TheStyleOG]

No problem!!

[@gintster8368]

Great video, Jeff… one of the very best you’ve ever done.

[@TheStyleOG]

Thanks 👍

[@edkin2013]

Thanks OG solid content 👍🏾

[@rolondorivas6562]

This Is Extremely Necessary & Relevant in this Day and Age. #SALUTE