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The Tea on NPD and Relationships

The Tea on NPD and Relationships

Күн бұрын

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@fosterjanine5112
@fosterjanine5112 Жыл бұрын
Don't allow loneliness, voids and insecurities pressure you to be with someone who isn't good for you! You deserve so much more.
@jawansherrod4581
@jawansherrod4581 Жыл бұрын
Foster connection
@mariareresutton2859
@mariareresutton2859 Жыл бұрын
That is so true!
@kimbamw6713
@kimbamw6713 Жыл бұрын
So true. Let a temporary person stay too long!
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 Жыл бұрын
Yes yes and yes
@kimcalhoun7835
@kimcalhoun7835 Жыл бұрын
Amen!❤
@thebigh9635
@thebigh9635 Жыл бұрын
As empaths we are naturally soul searching , constantly questioning ourselves , and admit to our mistakes , but those suckers forever see themselves as all knowing , perfect and well-adjusted , and THAT' has to be the most dangerous thing about them ! The only good thing is that , despite all the chances they spent pulling us apart and tearing is down , in the end they UNINTENTIONALLY help us to become a stronger version of ourselves ! Now isn't THAT IRONIC ! 🤔😂💪❤️
@Breauxmann
@Breauxmann Жыл бұрын
Dang, that’s insightful! Great post! Big H, they will never do the inner work required to be whole because they see themselves as already perfect. But I never saw that in the end, if we do the work, we will be better people having gone through this mess. Blessings and Shalom.
@courtney3468
@courtney3468 Жыл бұрын
‼️‼️❤️
@danielleking8920
@danielleking8920 Жыл бұрын
Excellent response!!
@Onlyforagoodtime
@Onlyforagoodtime 2 ай бұрын
Heck YAAAASSSSS!!! You nailed that one
@wandarios5440
@wandarios5440 Ай бұрын
🔥💯%🎯🔥
@clusterbfreekaryn7685
@clusterbfreekaryn7685 Жыл бұрын
Remaining no contact & letting. that reprobate be shocked. New cell # & moved three times - he can't find me.
@karriesaunders8597
@karriesaunders8597 Жыл бұрын
😆lol,I'll be moving again in a year or two,drives ya mad how many people ask where ya live. As if I don't know why. No one is coming in my house except a handful of people so why they all want to know where I live
@Breauxmann
@Breauxmann Жыл бұрын
Ah…so I’m not alone. I be telling companies not to give out my information to nobody. #findingWaldo
@karriesaunders8597
@karriesaunders8597 Жыл бұрын
@@Breauxmann I don't know where or how I'm going to do the next move yet but I can't keep living like this, struggling with our child on my own just to work 20 hours a week and with the narc and his new supply playing happy families with her kids. The whole world has gone completely mad with all these narcissists and psychopaths.
@clusterbfreekaryn7685
@clusterbfreekaryn7685 Жыл бұрын
@@karriesaunders8597 Sounds like some flying monkeys. Keep & protect your peace.
@clusterbfreekaryn7685
@clusterbfreekaryn7685 Жыл бұрын
@@karriesaunders8597 artsandbudget._ has all kinds of side hustles & work from home. Facebook has work from home & Customer Service jobs. Update your resume & be ready to attach it . Temporary County assistance is possible with only 20 hrs work. Cash, SNAP (EBT/Foodstamps) benefits. Also County Medical Insurance for you & your child. Don't worry about the Narcissist as he will be acting out & cheating on her before you know it. Don't watch their lives & heal.👍🏽😊🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🥰
@Kristalwalker1972
@Kristalwalker1972 Жыл бұрын
He discarded me but it hurt him more than it hurt me. Cause the domestic battery got him arrested. When he went to jail, my family came and got me and EVERYTHING I bought for him or the apt, I took!!!He came home to dang near emptiness. I still laugh about it because you gon discard me and think all that I invested into you was going to be kept?????! NOPE!!! I left his key on the table. That day I deleted every text, photo, video, and blocked every way he could contact me. It’s been since August. I’m good. And you are right. He made his choice and I’m making sure he lives with his decisions!!! ✌️✌️✌️
@kynathomas4809
@kynathomas4809 Жыл бұрын
💣💣💣💥💥💥💯❤
@cmockingjay7265
@cmockingjay7265 Жыл бұрын
Truth!
@bonniemorgan7215
@bonniemorgan7215 Жыл бұрын
Mine since August too. Some days are better than others. He was arrested for DV as well. Just wanted me gone cause he found new supply. It's been a nightmare. Just horrible
@Breauxmann
@Breauxmann Жыл бұрын
I love this post! Good on you. Praying for your successful recovery!😉
@Kristalwalker1972
@Kristalwalker1972 Жыл бұрын
@@bonniemorgan7215 it’s still hard. Some days it still feels like hell. But keep you head up and keep pushing forward. Your healing began the day you left!!! There is a purpose for your pain!!!
@msthang5366
@msthang5366 Жыл бұрын
That smirk is something I will never forget.
@houssembencheikh3709
@houssembencheikh3709 Жыл бұрын
Yep every puzzle piece is complete now since i studied about it i tough i was hallicunating when i told her but you said you want to change and then she said but i dont want to change and that fast smile of 1seconds came up i will never forget that i tough i was losing my mind
@Agheel963
@Agheel963 4 ай бұрын
💯 when they think they got 1 over you
@viewerwatching5712
@viewerwatching5712 2 ай бұрын
That demonic smirk like the Grinch and those black eyes. Can't unsee what is seen!
@mint_soup9743
@mint_soup9743 10 күн бұрын
​​​@@viewerwatching5712yes!! Ive always thought that cartoon grinch smirk was exactly the pictoral representation of what I saw!! 😮 crazy someone else recognizes it too!
@patricebeene646
@patricebeene646 Жыл бұрын
Yes he stole from me. Petty hobo. I will recover because I have Jesus. Hallelujah 🙌 Praise God.
@Modish25
@Modish25 Жыл бұрын
“Manipulation is NOT power.” Say it again for the people in the back.
@healthymindcounselingwelln5411
@healthymindcounselingwelln5411 Жыл бұрын
They'll cause drama and a discard around a death. They feed off of trying to take blows when you have special events or even tragedy. What they do not realize is that God is going to exalt you above it all. The wrath of God will take care of them.
@Ferrys1220
@Ferrys1220 Жыл бұрын
Facts 💯
@Glitter504
@Glitter504 Жыл бұрын
I got a death threat letter yesterday from my ex my lawyer is taking it to court for full investigation
@jeanmarie3258
@jeanmarie3258 Жыл бұрын
Took me 3 months to get outa bed after my disgard. Then I was going for cycles, doing reiki and learning about NPD🙏 when he hoovered he was stunned that I was not as damaged as I was meant to be, and my light was coming back. I was to strong for him,I won 🏆 💜
@msthang5366
@msthang5366 Жыл бұрын
You went back to the basics.. That’s something he can never do. Was just hoovered, and I refused to even engage.
@jeanmarie3258
@jeanmarie3258 Жыл бұрын
@@msthang5366 that's why they try and destroy us, cause they can't ever be us. They want our light 🙏 proud of your beautiful, you got this 💜🙏
@msthang5366
@msthang5366 Жыл бұрын
@@jeanmarie3258 EVER!!
@deannahudson6294
@deannahudson6294 Жыл бұрын
I'm so happy for you!!!🎉🎉🎉
@3RedHearts
@3RedHearts Жыл бұрын
Similar story, Sister! So proud of you...I went back and the 2nd discard was faster...messed me up for months, but not as long as the first one. NEVER AGAIN! 🙏 It's gets better with time and distance.
@usatodaywife
@usatodaywife Жыл бұрын
I now live 1,200 miles away from my ex-narcissist. Any time I need to pray to bind up a demon whispering nonsense in my ear, I pray the demon is sent to where the narcissist lives, never to return to where I am. I figure the demons and the narcissist have so much in common they can all keep each other company.
@michelleleeschaeffer3482
@michelleleeschaeffer3482 Жыл бұрын
Omg lol” your a trip!
@lorrainem8234
@lorrainem8234 Жыл бұрын
🤣😂🤣👊
@eringobragh7
@eringobragh7 10 ай бұрын
The last thing I said to him is; “You’re the problem”…”You’re sick and need help”! 🙏🏼💪🏼💥
@cmockingjay7265
@cmockingjay7265 Жыл бұрын
She was shocked because I discarded her first and went straight to divorce (found out about her affair) snd no contact! God intervened and it was quick so I’m sure she was shocked!
@kimberlys347
@kimberlys347 Жыл бұрын
Oh yea she was shocked! I love making moves in silence. Ppl always think they have one over on you when you stay quiet, but when it’s time to act and you snatch that grid?!?! Most satisfying feeling ever!
@sirjg5160
@sirjg5160 Жыл бұрын
THE DEVIL IS A LIAR
@ambitiouslady8005
@ambitiouslady8005 Жыл бұрын
Powergrid snatcher here! Good video!
@maristahuddleston6213
@maristahuddleston6213 Жыл бұрын
Let them keep running on their demonic battery. 2023 so moving forward because their battery is running low and lost the best jumping cable of their life. Blessings everyone let go and keep it moving. ❤
@nedradubose5431
@nedradubose5431 Жыл бұрын
Yes he tried to do the discard when I had a stroke a couple of months ago. My god is so almighty I recovered in 3 weeks and I made the choice to discard him last week, he threatened to kill me I had him arrested the day I went to court I got a call saying I have a new place the last thing I told him is I walk by faith amen.
@bibble1389
@bibble1389 Жыл бұрын
Wow!!! Praise God you are recovered and free of your abuser. May God continue to bless and protect you
@nedradubose5431
@nedradubose5431 Жыл бұрын
@@bibble1389 not yet I am still in our old house my new one won't be ready for me to move in for 2 weeks. The courts let him out Friday but I been staying prayed up I walk by faith. I believe God will see me threw this.
@bibble1389
@bibble1389 Жыл бұрын
@@nedradubose5431 Ok i see. No weapon formed against you shall prosper sister in Christ 🙏🏼 Im leaving in a week myself. God be with you 💛💛
@nedradubose5431
@nedradubose5431 Жыл бұрын
@@bibble1389 amen my friend thanjs
@bibble1389
@bibble1389 Жыл бұрын
@@nedradubose5431 💜🙏🏼
@Breauxmann
@Breauxmann Жыл бұрын
I’m truly fascinated by this video. “Manipulation is not power” Narcissist won’t do inventory. They don’t need to. In their unteachable, reprobate minds, they are perfect. In the last step of my inventory, I examine what part I played and take responsibility for it (adulting). For me, my responsibility was not missing the red flags early on, it was ignoring their significance. I had never been loved bombed before. I knew in my spirit this relationship wasn’t right, but I let it go on. ( she seemed so nice and sweet) In the end, I was fighting for my life. #truecolors
@ajstyles1551
@ajstyles1551 Жыл бұрын
Yes True story Peace and blessings to you
@asiyanasir2014
@asiyanasir2014 Жыл бұрын
Received the first hoover attempt by my ex narc after a year and a half...my block game is 💪🏽and my no contact is just that! NO CONTACT! Telsha, you said it could be a long time and I really thought I was home free after a year and a half! Technically I am because I have NO intentions on responding. He made a donation to my Non Profit, I guess he thought I would reach out to say thank you...well that's not happening.
@back2thebasicsx
@back2thebasicsx Жыл бұрын
Backward walking giraffe 🦒, 😆🤣😊. The joy of the LORD is our strength ya’ll 🙏🏾
@tyreewilliams7954
@tyreewilliams7954 Жыл бұрын
God bless you Ms.Telsha, it'll be 2 years no contact February 21st 2023. Thank you so much for EVERYTHING. I started listening to you two and a half years ago . I woke up October 2020, left her February 21st 2021. You have blessed me with your knowledge of this . I never knew what narcissism was at all. She told me years ago that her family crazy I figured oh well, I did not know she wanted my soul to take to Satan. Accountability yes I went back twice and saw the red flags I tell you what people this also wakes us up , our own generational curses, and because we haven't prayed to get those curses removed we're in these transaction ships, so we have to remove our own curses and fleshly habits out of our lives. I have boundaries now that I didn't have before in my 20s 30s and 40s. I have become more bolder in everything I do now. This had to happen to us FAM. Remember we were picked. Peace Ms. Telsha 💯🙏🏿
@empress9857
@empress9857 Жыл бұрын
🥂
@tonibanks271
@tonibanks271 Жыл бұрын
My same story. I realized Oct 2021 I was in a bad situation. We ended Feb 2022. No contact works! My life is so much better. There was a blessing in the discard.
@kynathomas4809
@kynathomas4809 Жыл бұрын
When I finally had enough of the narcissists and let her know it she replied "I'm shocked at you ". I replied " I don't know why"!!! She speedily walked out the door.
@Agheel963
@Agheel963 4 ай бұрын
An awakened empath is dangerous once we know its game over. 😂😂
@bonniemorgan7215
@bonniemorgan7215 Жыл бұрын
Discarded me and kept all the things I bought to fix up "our" home furniture, furnishings, you name it. He left me with nothing. Our children, his own mother, family no one speaks to him. He only has his friends and hook ups. Maybe they will figure out what kind of creep he really is.
@karriesaunders8597
@karriesaunders8597 Жыл бұрын
If there is one thing I know about the friends and hook ups,they are horrible people.
@bonniemorgan7215
@bonniemorgan7215 Жыл бұрын
@@karriesaunders8597 Thank You
@Breauxmann
@Breauxmann Жыл бұрын
Trusting you’re safe and okay Bonnie. At least you’re free and can heal. One day at a time.
@bonniemorgan7215
@bonniemorgan7215 Жыл бұрын
Charlotte
@bonniemorgan7215
@bonniemorgan7215 Жыл бұрын
Horrible
@GreenClean662
@GreenClean662 Жыл бұрын
They cannot destroy what they did not build..Common!!!!
@scoesixtray2457
@scoesixtray2457 Жыл бұрын
"Backwards walking giraffes". 😭😭😭😭😭
@diannekevwitch6958
@diannekevwitch6958 Жыл бұрын
"You keep that foot in that chest!" Love that!
@Breauxmann
@Breauxmann Жыл бұрын
This video right here. Please be aware there are two parts of the narcissist adventure. One you can see with your natural eyes, the other you can’t. In the spiritual dimension, where you can’t see with your natural eyes, our NPD’s are actually under assignment from the entities that control them and assign them to target us and to conduct spiritual warfare against us. Did you ever wonder how people could share their experience and you felt they were talking about you and your situation? That’s because the operators behind these individuals fall under the demonic hierarchy of Satan himself. That’s why it doesn’t matter your color, your geographical location, belief system and the like. It’s world wide demon activity perpetrated against people with great potential for good, light and righteousness. Jesus Christ has authority over Satan and every demon. He delegates that authority to his followers. Operating in this delegated authority is the only way to defeat the dark spirits that control these people. The Bible tells Christ followers to put on spiritual armor because there is a war going on and you have no choice about participating. I have lived with and engaged this community of demons up close and personal and so have you. Declare them under your feet and subject to the power and authority delegated to Christ followers and they must respond. If you’re not a Christ follower and you try this, they will just laugh at you. Don’t play around, get in Christ and begin your victory walk.
@1010QUEEN7
@1010QUEEN7 Жыл бұрын
Well said 🎯🎯🎯
@11GodsGirl11
@11GodsGirl11 Жыл бұрын
Amen!
@mattd8868
@mattd8868 Жыл бұрын
Amen. That is correct the bible saids in Eph 6:12 We wrestle not against flesh & blood but against principalities & powers, against rulers of darkness of this age against spiritual host of wickedness in high places. In other words its not the person aka narcissistic but what behind them spiritually. Only the power of Jesus Christ can subdue them. You in & of yourself can not. The demonic entity will just laugh at you. You must fight with spiritual weapons. 2 Corinthians 10:3-5
@MrBogeyman00
@MrBogeyman00 Жыл бұрын
I was discarded 2 years ago on December 27th. One year later on the exact same day of the discard, I was hoovered by Messenger. She said I had certain bills at her place which was totally bulls**t cause to this day I have no idea where she lives. I immediately blocked her on there. This was obviously a test on how I felt about her still...
@shaylanewlife
@shaylanewlife Жыл бұрын
Lol haha 🤣 narcissists are so pathetic
@aphavoc4479
@aphavoc4479 Жыл бұрын
I love her videos then she be dressed so beautiful. ♥️♥️♥️ 10/10
@abigailthompson7265
@abigailthompson7265 Жыл бұрын
YES, LORD, I THANK YOU! I left that narcissist SHOCKED! ELECTROCUTED FOR LIFE!
@melanieperry3787
@melanieperry3787 Жыл бұрын
Sistah say that in 2023 we ARE NOT PLAYING. Staying NO CONTACT. I told the NARC that I was dealing with 2 years ago that God wasn’t going to let him touch me cause I’m a Child of the Most High God. Yes that NARC is very shocked -and now scared.
@deewarr278
@deewarr278 Жыл бұрын
🙋🏽‍♀️ I can testify. You hit the head on the nail. We’re not playing in 2023 🙏🏽
@elyonrg5062
@elyonrg5062 Жыл бұрын
💯‼️
@powerdynamics4life
@powerdynamics4life Жыл бұрын
Love the beret Telsha! You had me rollin’ with “let them birds stay electrified” ‼️😂😂😂
@yaniyan916
@yaniyan916 Жыл бұрын
Today makes 15 months that I went black out on the narcissist & his bird family. Every day I feel more empowered because it took his WHOLE entire family to devalue/ discard me and he still couldn’t destroy me. I KNOW he’s sitting over there in disbelief 😂
@johnholmes6741
@johnholmes6741 Жыл бұрын
God either is, or he isn’t. if your choice is that he is, then there is no way - that you can be with a narc.
@demarcusweeks
@demarcusweeks Жыл бұрын
Wow!! This is Powerful My Ex is a narcissist I never knew of such world it’s wild people really like this definitely feel this.. God is Amazing!!
@HonestyIsAVirtue7
@HonestyIsAVirtue7 Жыл бұрын
Brilliantly & Beautifully said with such logical explanation Telsha! And, that WHOLE outfit looks absolutely smashing on you! You are ROCKING it!
@Bubbles_10
@Bubbles_10 Жыл бұрын
Miss Telsha styling and gorgeous up in here 🤗
@HonestyIsAVirtue7
@HonestyIsAVirtue7 Жыл бұрын
@@Bubbles_10 Yes! She is looking so SHARP!
@back2thebasicsx
@back2thebasicsx Жыл бұрын
I signed the final document pertaining to the divorce agreement and sent the email. Afterwards, I blocked that old bird. Gentlemen and ladies don’t be ashamed to close the door permanently to these alleged demons. Remember Jeremiah 29:11, The Most High wants us to have hope and an expected end (future) ❤️. Be and stay encouraged ❤️.
@princessmandy1757
@princessmandy1757 Жыл бұрын
Amen God is always protecting... Amazing Jesus, my best friend...
@zeetee5346
@zeetee5346 Жыл бұрын
Exactly what happened to me. No contact, removed the plug and worked hard, starting a teaching job at a high school tomorrow, he is shocked at the transformation since he threw me out like garbage.
@suecal7741
@suecal7741 Жыл бұрын
I’m finally loving myself! Stay strong everyone! God bless! 10:04
@cupsoflove1245
@cupsoflove1245 Жыл бұрын
He is hoovering so hard in an entitled kind of way ..like I'm playing hard to get but really I'm done ..thank you for help getting me strong and keeping me strong.🙏❤️I love you so much .
@OMGAcademy2020
@OMGAcademy2020 10 ай бұрын
When your presence does not importance, your absence will a lessons.
@susantodd7169
@susantodd7169 Жыл бұрын
I love it@13:55/ “That big clump of dirt, trying to dump their dust on you.” They are nothing but a big pile of dirt for sure… MESSY, MESSY , MESSY. GOOD RIDDANCE!
@change5156
@change5156 Жыл бұрын
Amen! God is more powerful than the devil! Thank you God for you love and protection, lord knows hunny! He put a hurting on me and still trying, but God got me that's for doggone sure, amen!
@nydarbreihs3554
@nydarbreihs3554 Жыл бұрын
The narcissists are even madder cuz I discarded them. I'm living and loving life now! To all champions of their abuse, brighter days are just behind the clouds. Let it rain, feel the feels, move into the light!
@teshajackson3095
@teshajackson3095 Жыл бұрын
I praise God Literally…Daily 😂🤷🏽‍♀️💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@peacefaith560
@peacefaith560 Жыл бұрын
These giraffes with combat boots 🥾!!! 😅 !!
@sandiepartin830
@sandiepartin830 Ай бұрын
I take full accountability for what I have done but in my defense I was manipulated and tricked and God knows it !
@houseoflolo
@houseoflolo Жыл бұрын
“Do not gloat over me, my enemy! Though I have fallen, I will rise. Though I sit in darkness, the LORD will be my light.” -Micah 7:8
@lorrainesanabria0472
@lorrainesanabria0472 Жыл бұрын
You Said It!!! They are backwards walking giraffes for sure. I am enjoying my ex Narc shocking moments. God is bigger than the evil spirits this person carries around.
@btp122
@btp122 Жыл бұрын
I haven’t heard from her since her attempt to Hoover by wishing me happy birthday back in December. She hurt me but the damage was minimal. I didn’t give her the opportunity to fully get a chance to mount her discarding strategy…I left, and quickly started no contact. It was the end of the lease, so we both were free to go. I had completely moved out, but she had not started yet. We were originally supposed to keep that place together…we had in the beginning decided to grow the relationship, and eventually get married. It went from total euphoria with her heavily love bombing me to gradually telling me that she didn’t want to get married, and she wanted to be alone….in a matter of a month. Her “friends”would call wanting to go places and do things, her phone constantly “chirped” with fb notifications and text messages. I didn’t understand it. One night I told her EXACTLY about what she was doing, ( I knew very little that what I was accusing her of were things that Narcissists do)…down to her breaking up with me with another guy!! I think that one reason why I haven’t heard from her in weeks is because I kinda exposed her…I’m thankful and grateful that my Heavenly Father designed my get away and I was obedient enough to listen! Gave me the time to heal…Shalom!
@Linz_n702
@Linz_n702 5 ай бұрын
Exactly! Mine left on my daughters 17th birthday. Took all sorts of sentimental belongings of mine and my daughters. 8 months no contact. I woke up and pulled the plugs out of no where. Walking away is the only way.
@henry33h34
@henry33h34 Жыл бұрын
I love it, NO BIRD'S ALLOWED!🐦🐧🐔🐦🐤🐓🦃🦆🦅 LOl 😄😂😆🤓🤗🤣🤣🤣
@sadehaley2589
@sadehaley2589 Жыл бұрын
He discarded me for his kids mother, that man was going to take me for a ride if I didn’t put him out my house he got his shit and never talked to me again! It’s been 7 days.
@scoesixtray2457
@scoesixtray2457 Жыл бұрын
Looks like I responded to everything by the book, even though I was clueless about narcissism. Nobody is that "lucky." God definitely had & has his hand on me
@terridameron2074
@terridameron2074 Жыл бұрын
What really blow their mind was that you were able to have courage and wisdom enough to leave yes run for your life for for that's just what they were trying to destroy you were their assignment and they failed and you know how they feel about that and then you have the nerve to elevate continue to be prosperous successful Victorious without them.....
@TeamJC4624
@TeamJC4624 Жыл бұрын
THAT PART!!!🔥🔥🔥🙌
@praywithme-godanswerspraye3423
@praywithme-godanswerspraye3423 Жыл бұрын
Thursday is live, live all the way live don’t even have to walk don’t even have to drive. just forget about your troubles and your 9 to 5 and just sail on -just sail on. This is a quote from the song Fantastic Voyage from Lakeside. This needs to be your new theme song for Thursdays just like “if cha rocks which ya girl”!
@joshrivera8123
@joshrivera8123 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad you made it out well from that situation! God bless you sister Thelsa! Yes...I've seen this myself They are shocked about how they couldn't destroy you! Going and maintaining no contact is absolutely lifesaving.
@traciereynolds3057
@traciereynolds3057 Жыл бұрын
Hun , I’ve not been here for awhile because I healed actually with the support of you , yes you ….. you help give me insight and support , thank you so so much beautiful ❤
@Breauxmann
@Breauxmann Жыл бұрын
Awesome!
@definedradiance9199
@definedradiance9199 Жыл бұрын
Praise the Most High ❤🎉 for His protection . Sending love to you sis from GA 💝
@michaelrolland6245
@michaelrolland6245 Ай бұрын
When I left i left unannounced no contact no social media no nothing don't worry about what those clowns do or who they are with let go and let God because the only thing clown do is find another clown so keep it moving
@otisross2218
@otisross2218 Жыл бұрын
Hey Beautiful Telsha! Looking Good in that Beret❤ You Doing It!🔥🔥🔥
@kiyaxiong622
@kiyaxiong622 Жыл бұрын
He discarded me and I am homeless now, but this time I took action.. got a restraining order against him finally, pls pray for me and my kids. I know God is in control and he will take care of us.
@neeksweeks
@neeksweeks Жыл бұрын
I left the Narc. after a 13 year relationship then he hoovered me as a "friend".... treated me like a queen for a couple weeks then he "borrowed " money from me and Disappeared two days after i came out of the hospital. Talk about a Discard...
@gramenou
@gramenou Жыл бұрын
Love ❤️ from Greece
@433455062
@433455062 Жыл бұрын
Why do they break up with you or discard you on a significant day?? My ex Discard me on the day I got a new job as Home Health Care Nurse this pass May, and this past August, a day before my birthday; 12 hrs to be exact, he broke up with me. I’ve never been discard/abandoned on a significant occasion let alone a man ending a 7 yr relationship the day before my birthday!! It’s so Demonic and hurtful. From here on out, I will always remember, that the man I gave my all to broke up with me on my 42nd birthday. I’ll NEVER EVER FORGET THAT
@talentedt5080
@talentedt5080 Жыл бұрын
YESSS SIS💪🏽🙏🏽💯 i’m a keep my foot on third neck with that no contact no narc allowed I’m standing on my power that I took back💪🏽STAY💯 SHOCKED🙅🏽‍♀️I 👿WINNN 🤡NO LOOKING BACK ✅ITS ONLY UP FROM HERE🙏🏽☮️💜
@gogettajo
@gogettajo Жыл бұрын
It’s funny that they discard on important dates, I actually told him to leave a month after my birthday we had went to Hawaii and had such a amazing time there, a month later I caught him talking to other woman again…I had enough!! Seems like I beat him to it because I dropped him in sept his birthday is in November and of course the holidays came and I found out he had another woman at his place on thanksgiving but he was telling me how I didn’t offer to spend that day with him!! the nerve!! I’m so glad I’m the one that told him to go even though I did go in a crazy rage because he seemed to have moved on so quickly it really hurt especially when the holidays came but I’m slowly healing and taking my healing day by day 💛
@vanessaking5123
@vanessaking5123 11 ай бұрын
This will always hit home with leaving you with nothing...
@grimekinder
@grimekinder 3 ай бұрын
They could not destroy what they did not build ❤💥 Sage advice
@TraciBinIT
@TraciBinIT Ай бұрын
After my ex narc cheated, I instantly saw them for the trash they were. I lost respect for them completely and showed them the door. It broke my heart, but I wanted them gone asap so I could mourn and begin the healing process.
@Phoenix-tr1kh
@Phoenix-tr1kh Жыл бұрын
Love your style and the way you say it Telsha x
@akhughes8
@akhughes8 Жыл бұрын
No birds allowed!!!
@donnahale1011
@donnahale1011 Жыл бұрын
Thank God Ms. Tea ALL IS WELL!!!
@Firstoneshere13
@Firstoneshere13 Жыл бұрын
You look wonderful Telsha
@eriqbailee9446
@eriqbailee9446 Жыл бұрын
Street ministries: " AWAKE ⏰️ out of our sleep [ EPHESIANS 5:14 ] And also, We are QUICKDENED [ EPHESIANS 2:1-5 ] NOW let your lights shine
@Breauxmann
@Breauxmann Жыл бұрын
Yes Sir!!❤
@sarahsamuels9088
@sarahsamuels9088 Жыл бұрын
Wow!!!Speechless!This is what I call coaching,encouragement.TRUTH!!!
@crosskross
@crosskross Жыл бұрын
Backward flying pigeons lolz 😁😁😁
@mariajessielocklear8246
@mariajessielocklear8246 Жыл бұрын
I hit that like button because I RRRooocks with YOU girl🦋😇
@mattb253
@mattb253 Жыл бұрын
U told the truth 5 years ago and she has been acting up ever since
@melissaquestelles7380
@melissaquestelles7380 Жыл бұрын
Yes Tea, I hear you! Keep on hitting the nail right on the head!
@Peacealways247
@Peacealways247 Жыл бұрын
You're exactly right, discard was Thanksgiving 2 years ago, he made it really seem like he wanted things to work. He was acting so weird, I confronted him about what was going on. He didn't expect for me to pack up everything I had at his home, put in my car. Before I got in the car, I asked for my house keys and he got his back once mine were in my hands secured and he was shocked..yes sir, that's OVER for real!! The next week, he acted like he was mad..lol!! I ignored him big time. When I'm done, I'm DONE! His anger afterwards was crazy for real. He damaged church property, rude to people..wwooww, Thank God for deliverance from that. I mean, it was crazy. People are always nice to me and when he was around, oh it burned him up...I am very much a people person and the very people he tried to isolate me from continued to support me and he could NOT deal with that. And don't let a guy pass by and say hello or exchange chit chat...ohh he was boiling. All of that was eating him alive. These birds are crraaayyy crraayyy. I have a supportive family and friends, he had neither and I realize that he was very very jealous of that. It's something how much these folks have such jealousy/envy in them.
@crosskross
@crosskross Жыл бұрын
Thank you so very much for sharing ❤️🙏❤️
@leandraherring1824
@leandraherring1824 Жыл бұрын
MRS. TELSHA 💖💖 I LOVE GETTING THE KNOWLEDGE AND WISDOM FROM A QUEEN 👑👑 LIKE YOUR SELF WHEN I LEFT THAT BIRD.. I WAS FULL OF TEARS BUT THROUGH MY PAIN I WAS ABLE YOU STILL MOVE IN SILENCE AND RAISE ABOVE THAT. I'MMA KEEP SHOCKING THESE DUCKS WITH THAT NO CONTACT.. THESE APES BETTER STAY IN THERE PLACE. IVE ALLOWED MYSELF TO STAY IN THAT MESS.. NOW ITS TIME FOR ME TO REPLACE THAT MESS.. FAMILY WE HOLD THE POWER STAY NO CONTACT 💯💯 RIGHT MRS TELSHA NO BIRDS ALLOWED #2023 💖💖 LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA.. WE WINN FAMILY 💯❤️
@clarissalpeterson2830
@clarissalpeterson2830 Жыл бұрын
OMG‼️😱YOU ARE TELLING THE TRUTH THE WHOLE TRUTH AND NOTHING BUT THE TRUTH‼️🙏🏾🙌🏾✌🏾♥️
@brotherhype-maninchristjes2766
@brotherhype-maninchristjes2766 Жыл бұрын
+The Tea on NPD and Relationships Praise the LORD amen, sister Telsha. no birds allowed. let them stay shocked. amen, sister Telsha. God bless. Agape love❤
@butterflyj8873
@butterflyj8873 Жыл бұрын
Listen, let them go ahead on and toast! My no contact has been since 2019 and this narc still won’t let go. They will use any excuse.. kids, dog, etc etc I don’t think they’ll ever stop so protect yourself good people ❤
@angelofgod7386
@angelofgod7386 8 ай бұрын
We need more discard videos like this bc thus is the most sensitive intense moment for the Empath
@soniafarley5457
@soniafarley5457 Ай бұрын
Yes that’s what happened to me around the holidays!!! Thank you so much for this information!!
@DonnaS-q9s
@DonnaS-q9s 5 ай бұрын
I was more shocked the way he treated me and my kids when he left
@oneofthemmnms4231
@oneofthemmnms4231 Жыл бұрын
Backward flying Birds. it's like they're not going anywhere or changing and evolving
@latishanurse7643
@latishanurse7643 Жыл бұрын
I can related to what you are saying right now in a custody Battle for my children í know the God I serve don't Lie he speak a word and I trust in his report for our lives Even now I decree and declare Victory in the mighty name of Jesus . Satan you can't prevail Satan you have to FAIL .The King of Kings and the Lord of Lords never lost a Battle.
@preecommunications369
@preecommunications369 Жыл бұрын
Lovely, classy lady. Empowering message.
@johnoulds3003
@johnoulds3003 Жыл бұрын
Sitting back and getting that knowledge from you. Love that hat. Greatest 💯💯💯
@jamieconrad3739
@jamieconrad3739 Жыл бұрын
My narc husband had the audacity to say that he was the easiest person to get alone with, 😮I froze and melted all at the same time mercy I’m a Leo and he is a Taurus 😢
@bioncadixon1989
@bioncadixon1989 Жыл бұрын
The devil is a liar 🙏🏾 Amen
@janedavenport9007
@janedavenport9007 Жыл бұрын
It's been 7 weeks since I discarded him. I found out he had a new supply for 2 months and I now know he was going to discarded me. I have blocked him and I'm working thru the trauma bond. But last night I had an acquaintance say she knew the minute she met him, he thought he was God's gift to women. I felt like she was judging me since I was with him 5yrs. Some old insecurities came back. I didn't reply. What is the best way to handle remarks like this?
@queenchica6623
@queenchica6623 Жыл бұрын
Ignore them
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