your hair IS going to loc. I'm annoyed that she would say that. Months 3, 4, & 5 were all pretty rough for me. Like you said, my hair has taught me to let go + stop trying to control what is going to happen... not only with my hair but in life in general. I'm a few weeks from being one year loc'd and I'm glad I didn't give up. Don't get my wrong, I have my days where I wanna cut all this shit off lol but I LOVE my hair. and I know you'll be happy you stuck it out. Your hair is beautiful and I'm learning to embrace every stage of the journey. Sending you love, Vic.
@robynnmelzar69813 жыл бұрын
“I will adjust to the hair , the hair is not adjusting to me “ lol literally!!! I’m currently on my loc journey and had to come to the same realization
@patrickluka85133 жыл бұрын
pro trick: you can watch series at Flixzone. Me and my gf have been using them for watching lots of of movies during the lockdown.
@clarkarturo5793 жыл бұрын
@Patrick Luka Yup, I have been watching on Flixzone for since december myself =)
@PeaceNotPerfextion Жыл бұрын
That’s really the bottom line...
@arielhairston21933 жыл бұрын
I LOVE your greys!! So glad you're embracing them. The fact that the lady tried to tell you that your hair isn't going to loc... it will definitely loc. Your hair is beautiful.
@itsdejalynn3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why I stick to doing my own. Everybody would tell me the same thing. I have the exact same hair texture you have and it's sucks to not know what to do. But this encouraged me to not give up. 🙌🏾
@PurposefulPursuits3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the loc update. I’m glad you are hanging in there and your friend was eventually able to help.
@donicaclark728310 ай бұрын
Girl I understand everything !!!!!!!!im bout to be on month 3 it’s been real
@LaurenKentBrown3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for such a real, transparent video. I had struggles with liking my loc journey as well. It’s hard not having any real control over what your hair does. But like you I had to just accept what my hair chose to do and go with the flow. I love it here now. 8 months in. 💕 your hair is budding beautifully.
@CocoJ Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad I found your channel! I am heavily considering locing my hair, and I have this same type of hair. Thank you for sharing your journey!
@PeaceNotPerfextion Жыл бұрын
So accurate, the hair does what it wants to do... I have 3b/4a hair and don’t trip the roots unraveling; in fact, after watching so many loc videos, I’m not expecting anything in terms of a permanent look for at least a year or two into the journey... as for people telling you “your hair won’t lock” bla bla bla... keep ignoring them, they think locs are only for tight coiled, coarse hair🙄 I’ve seen countless women with your texture rocking beautifully coiled locs✌🏾
@t.chauma3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love the look on April 11th! Your texture is giving that boho/goddess locs look and it’s stunning to see it on natural hair w/o extensions! 🤎🤎
@TheDigitalPew7 ай бұрын
Erin put you in the game sis ❤
@surayyahspears84508 ай бұрын
Your videos are the REALEST and your hair is beautiful…but girl you had me dying laughing LOL. I felt your pain 🤣🤣🤣. I just loc’d YESTERDAY…pray fa me!!!
@IslandKingLocs3 жыл бұрын
I think it really looks good, it’s just gone take a little time an patience.
@allurarayford24613 жыл бұрын
*patience 😁
@laurenlocd31803 жыл бұрын
What kinda patients children or adults ?😂😂
@breezy1198m3 жыл бұрын
Sooooo glad I found your video! My hair is exact same texture as yours. This week started month two and whew its been a week. Like you the front just doesnt seem to like this AT ALL! I do have a great loctician that knows how to work with 3a/3b hair so her positivity keeps me going.
@shannoncurtis21073 жыл бұрын
If you have this type of hair. Keep it in a style. LEAVE it ALONE. Tie it up at night and wait it out. This is doing to much. Ask for a pin up and live it alone
@lx90372 жыл бұрын
exactly. i have this hair texture and use one product. wash it once a week. used to separate them but stopped. they form as they please. no longer into longer trying to compare because if it's one thing this taught me is to love my uniqueness. getting locked is not the goal for me anymore. although that has happened. it's truly letting go of the constant need to maintain and style it. it does it eventually. just enjoy life and chill.
@las9582 Жыл бұрын
I'd say she messed up the process constantly putting her hair up.
@tiffanyk9469 Жыл бұрын
@@las9582This legit happened to me. Pulling it up constantly messed the process up. Combed them out & hopefully starting again in August !
@smilkshake0073 жыл бұрын
Keep going gurl. The struggle is real but It will happen. Imperfectly perfect. Try spraying daily with salt water that helps it loc too and also no conditioner until its really locced. Just water and oil daily. I have 4a, 4b hair, it took 6 months to see any budding but I am a year now and so happy, my ends are waving and curly, butterfly looking locs and I started them myself and retwist myself. My 11 year old daughter has the same texture as you and I am going to try to loc her up this month. Learn to retwist yourself too, it is an empowering experience. Good luck.
@beautifulwolf36053 жыл бұрын
Freeform Queen!! All organic! You will have thick, healthy locs within a year or 2 if u are patient! I'm 8 months in & I have a mix of 3c-4a hair texture. The journey is worth the thick & healthy locs! Retwisting is counter productive to me. It's only for aesthetic purposes only & won't last no matter what u do. Be mindful of the products u use if u do choose to consistently retwist. Avoid heavy waxes & gels! Oil & water works best! I do coldwater rinses 2-3 times a week & I wash my locs with raw african black soap about once every 2 weeks, sometimes once a month. I spritz with my own herbal rose water daily & I put rose/lavender oil with a little vitamin e occasionally when needed! I recently did an acv/baking soda soak during month 7 to remove all buildup & rebalance the ph levels of my scalp! I wish u the best on your journey!! Peace & blessings! ❤️
@reelsforthereal90382 жыл бұрын
This video is essential😩 I see what’s to come for Me🤟🏾Thank you
@lextvcy3 жыл бұрын
I have the same hair texture, I’m 10 months in, it definitely starts forming and doing it own thing. The ends and roots for me are still the hardest to deal with bc my roots, like yours, don’t want to stay twisted and the ends are still super loose and curly. Bright side, it looks cool like natural goddess locs 😂
@yusepe10673 жыл бұрын
Hows it going?
@LethalWeapon732 жыл бұрын
Yes it does. Love it
@dene37173 жыл бұрын
I love how honest and in depth you are. I'm excited to keep track of your journey and your hair. I just subscribed ☺️
@katherine62273 жыл бұрын
Raw and real. .love it
@LetsTalkAboutItwithErikaPitts2 жыл бұрын
I hate when stylist are haters on the finer hair textures
@harral41152 жыл бұрын
I jus love how you’re showing every emotion of the journey I’m so excited to start mine
@desaraecarter20963 жыл бұрын
I am in this same space rn. I paid someone to do my hair and they just did what they wanted. I retwisted my own hair and almost shaved my head. I have the same texture hair and the struggle has been real so thank you for this update I know I’m not crazy it is a crazy process
@ambervazquez49263 жыл бұрын
Leave it alone !! You keep fiddling with it, touching, running your fingers through, styling, brushing etc… 🤦🏽♀️ leave it alone and trust the process
@VictoriaLouisaSanders3 жыл бұрын
Oh I know, but what I do for work requires me to be in front of a camera, so I have to have it styled (sometimes I’m not allowed to wear scarves or hats)
@pjz963 жыл бұрын
@@VictoriaLouisaSanders ask your loctician to plait it then. The fiddling and styling is basically unraveling your hair big time.
@laurenlocd31803 жыл бұрын
Your roots aren’t going to be locked ... ever . It’s new growth.
@jayelynsworld91152 жыл бұрын
You are so pretty! Thanks for sharing your journey with us, I just started my loc journey Wednesday. 😍🧡
@icqdestiny2 жыл бұрын
Finally someone who has hair like me
@ashlynnmank13443 жыл бұрын
My hair is more dense, however I am growing back a side cut that I’m covering with my starter locs. I started my love journey at the beginning of February. I have 3b hair and I also had to crochet because the frizz!!!
@Brownmahfun3 жыл бұрын
LOC SMITHING is also good for looser type textures.
@sheirahwilson4126 Жыл бұрын
So sorry you had those unpleasant experiences getting your locs started. Locs are fascinating to look at and I definitely get the obsession with putting your hands in it or putting product in it so that it doesn't look unruly. But my loctician said don't get it wet and just let your hair do it's thing. The whole reason I got locs was to not be in my hair. Even when my hair was loose I really wasn't in it a whole lot except to wash it, but I was a product junky. 4 months into my journey and I am learning to let go of controlling my hair and letting go of products that no longer serve my hair. Keep it simple. Check out Yannie, the Locologist. She shares such wisdom on caring for your locs.
@youngladylay2 жыл бұрын
We have the same hair texture but I am a year and 5 months in I started on longer hair so I had some bunching but we good now
@rami92742 жыл бұрын
damn i liked how the coils looked more than the backcomb
@MysTaria873 жыл бұрын
Your hair might just be a tad bit looser in texture than mine. My loctician started my locs by interlocking mine.. have you considered doing that? Our texture has the tendency to unravel and interlocking is a cool option.
@pjz963 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing!! I’m a total noob in all my research and just got my hair coiled today so take what I say with a grain of salt but, it seems like you weren’t given proper instruction for upkeep. Our hair type requires very very little manipulation, otherwise it’ll just keep unraveling. My loctician and a few other videos told me to LEAVE IT ALONE. You were touching, wetting, styling, and even brushing which is a huge no. Anyone else with 3C just ask for the locs to be French braided and LEAVE IT ALONE. Only products you should use until it’s locked is peppermint, tea tree oil and rose water.
@ImFlorid3 жыл бұрын
You got the same hair texture as me just continue doing what your doing there looking good our hair takes longer to lock up but it’s worth it trust meeee if you can’t be bothered waiting can always just use a crochet
@ImFlorid3 жыл бұрын
Wear a sating Durag or bonnet of a night time tooo that will help it lock up faster
@shannoncurtis21073 жыл бұрын
Do you have any pic
@chinagrose5096 Жыл бұрын
this video describes my exact frustration i've had people tell me that it won't loc like keep your opinions to yourself then
@marceitagillum7449 Жыл бұрын
You just needed to go to someone who really knows what they doing hence the friend in LA
@ajamoody94122 жыл бұрын
I know why your hair isn’t locking. They method that your loctitian used DOES work but because she used so much moisturizer it would take 6 months to a year without any manipulation. You and I have the same hair type. I did mine dry with no moisturizer, only oils to the scalp when needed. But when I formed them I washed them thoroughly and informed them dry. Our kind of hair will not loc with loc gel or whatever she used. The twists are the proper method. I know it seems like that’s not what you asked for but what they did was correct. If you leave it in those twists, your hair will turn into locs in about a month
@munchedmuffin Жыл бұрын
Yeah I have the same texture as her (and thinking about starting my locks) and I’m wondering why she chose the coil method over the twist method?
@staceythinn87256 ай бұрын
Have it interlocked..your roots will do better then just retwisting
@andipinkuni7 ай бұрын
Thank you
@___.jill.___10133 жыл бұрын
Wow! I thought it was only me 😩 I had instant locs installed…thought I’d come out cute coz the few I crotchet myself were cute and puffy. But LAWD!!! Brother man that did my hair had me looking like some spider spawn or something 😭 I asked for half my money back and got blocked. I went in with specific instructions: Diamond pattern, locs same size as the ones I had done myself. He said okay but I ended up with so many parting shapes I looked like the Tetris game 💔 I’m busy combing them out now so that I can have my hair parted properly and start with coils instead. Thank you for this honest unfiltered journey!!! I’d rather have this than to look like a damn spider spawn again 🥴💔
@shannoncurtis21073 жыл бұрын
Do you have pic. Square parting is the best
@blackrose2952 жыл бұрын
Wow i wanted to do the instant loc process i have curly fine hair as well so your comment made me sad
@andreadefour68993 жыл бұрын
thank you for sharing. I was wondering how to loc my hair which is a similar texture to urs. I luv ur hair and ur journey thus far. I didn't know if to coil or w trend. I'm going to play with it🙌🏽
@ITSTRISHSANGELL2 жыл бұрын
omg I love your locs, goals
@pursuitofadequacy3 жыл бұрын
I'm LOLing @ your attitude with the woman telling you three months ago that your hair wasn't going to loc, and you opening this video basically saying "so I've accepted that my roots aren't going to loc." Agree with the other commenter about interlocking, you seem to really want your hair to be neat, interlocking might get you there faster? My sister and I have 3b hair, hers locked after several SEVERAL months because she left it alone. Mine seems to be coming along faster but I back comb and lightly palm roll regularly (too much). I never stretch the roots to put my hair "up" as that seems counter productive. In your next update, can you share a pic of what you expected your dreads to mature into?
@juneLuKane3 жыл бұрын
Crochet that shit
@staceythinn87256 ай бұрын
Do you tie your hair down before you go to bed? Not looking like it, you have to
@dorismiller94633 жыл бұрын
have you ever thought about trying instant loccing? I have similar type hair and the front my head won't loc either.
@pettyracer87722 жыл бұрын
that lady is kind of right, however, experience is better than anything else// I am currently annoyed I might have to cut all of my hair off because wash and retwist is hell... my advice is not to wash it until its loc and just use oil to seperate...
@kaylaharris71723 жыл бұрын
Did Your Stylist Combined Any Of Your Locs? Started With 132
@angelogalindo10873 жыл бұрын
Hey can someone please help me. I want to give myself just 2 dreads in the front of my face and I washed my hair and used oil and used a rat tail comb to coil my hair. Do I just wait for my hair to lock and do I need crochet it? My hair texture is 3c.
@purecar6on3 жыл бұрын
Sea salt water helps to loc you hair faster. My hair texture is the same as yours
@LethalWeapon732 жыл бұрын
Will that mess up her curly ends
@destinyehima2 жыл бұрын
Ma'am I think u should do it ur self so he looks more naturally but he depends on I, but keep pushing 🔥🔥
@angelface04282 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂girl you be looking electrocuted in some of these videos lol 😂 still pretty though. We definitely have the same hair texture. I’m on month 3 in my journey.❤
@VictoriaLouisaSanders10 ай бұрын
Lmaoooo. I wanted to keep it as real as possible.
3 жыл бұрын
Absolute perfection!
@athenaholmes1063 жыл бұрын
Have you used a crochet needle?
@latriceramsey74783 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love love your vids! Did you look into interlocking? ❤️
@VictoriaLouisaSanders3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! If you watch the video, you’ll see that’s basically what I ended up doing. 😩.
@latriceramsey74783 жыл бұрын
Yesss!! I love it!! ❤️
@laurenlocd31803 жыл бұрын
I feel like you should’ve started with braids or twist or you should’ve done instant locing.When this is all said and done girllllll you better not cut it cause this gonna be a process
@michaelparfitt84433 жыл бұрын
do you still do deep conditioning treatments and stuff , I am 5 months locked and I dont know if I should or not
@staphth73593 жыл бұрын
It's ok to condition your hair. But make sure you wash it out completely
@hannahchocobanana32652 жыл бұрын
i want to see your hair now 😫🙏🏼
@VictoriaLouisaSanders Жыл бұрын
I just added a new video! You can see my hair now
@msknox082 жыл бұрын
If trusting the process was a person….it would be you!
@JustNailz9013 жыл бұрын
I promise promise you we like went try the same struggle everything you said I finished your sentences.. I am in my 1month and 2 weeks. But your hair is beautiful I know mine has thought me patients and I have time to focus on meee and mines not my hair so much do yeah thanks for the video❤️❤️
@ItsDaQueen782 жыл бұрын
Peace Queen....can we get a loc journey update?
@VictoriaLouisaSanders10 ай бұрын
Hiiii! I FINALLY uploaded one kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqq7oa14gbagoq8si=9bw5slB6hXqsDrHT
@tibown3 жыл бұрын
9:50 😳 lol
@jahbarialbenjones2672 жыл бұрын
Update us please
@VictoriaLouisaSanders Жыл бұрын
I JUST uploaded an entire 1 year update for ya ❤
@sheiokoegipt25263 жыл бұрын
this is a hot mess
@VictoriaLouisaSanders3 жыл бұрын
Oh love, I pray you find some kindness and learn to place your energy somewhere else instead of spreading negativity and planting seeds of insecurity on the internet. 💚✨
@sheiokoegipt25263 жыл бұрын
@@VictoriaLouisaSanders bestie i have locs too and its not as hard as your making it seem LOVE
@melanintea16613 жыл бұрын
@@sheiokoegipt2526 everybodys journey is different boo 😭✋🏽 u cant be this miserable lmao go outside, touch some grass or sumn✋🏽
@sheiokoegipt25263 жыл бұрын
@@melanintea1661 babe my mom is a loctian
@sheiokoegipt25263 жыл бұрын
And we watched this together and she was cringe the whole video you are not supposed to style your starter locs that much period.
@iitsx3samie3 жыл бұрын
What method seemed to work best for you? I have similar textured hair and my biggest thing is stylists are ignoring me the moment I mention I have 3c hair...