I love that you say that also I am an Aries. He feels that I am very masculine and I like to be in control. When I relax and allow him to have control, he chooses bad things to do and or ends up allowing distractions of his life to get in the way of our plans. Like his family, they will be arguing or something about something. Silly typically that he is looking at in the most upside down way. so I am very masculine. I do know how to be feminine, but he really did not create a safe environment for that. Anytime I would allow my guard down and or try to share a light just to help guide him I will be met with aggression typically. So I just had to bounce, and it was very messy because we worked together, I am a writer and creative and casting Director for a film production team that he is one of the actors on lol plus we are friends with the same people… let’s just say I’m finally learned some lessons the hard way. But I also found out some good things too like that I can get pregnant and I should be more careful with my body and who I share my energy with.
@_SerenitysPlaceАй бұрын
Woke up and turned this on at 2:22, I left my boyfriend back in July maybe a week or so before his birthday. I went home. I had basically been at his house helping to support him because he had gotten himself in a lot of trouble. Mind you we really started to hating him March so very much so toxic behavior on both our ends very codependent. I realize that this was a trap that I was falling in once again and I decided to pull back when I pulled back this time however I found out I was pregnant, I was excited about the pregnancy because I didn’t think I could get pregnant and 30 he’s 45. He has a child I do not. And I thought to myself I can make this work. I finally told him exactly what I thought he would, I decided that that wouldn’t be best and I haven’t spoken to him. He doesn’t have a really good conflict. Resolution feels that women are not superior to men or equal he operates differently is very back-and-forth, but he likes to throw tantrums. It gives narcissist to be honest with you. He was raised by one. It was way too much, and I had way too much going on and too much to accomplish to be distracted by yet again anothercodependent relationship. It hurt to leave because I really do enjoy him when he is not in his shadow self, but he has a lot of healing to do and I cannot do it for him.
@caitkelly2664Ай бұрын
this message had me laughing so so so hard
@chelse6139Ай бұрын
Same, Gemini cross watching for my Aries ex who is a habitual liar and cheater and the first three years were great like on all levels but since things went side ways, we can't get it back .. I'm a Leo rising and we're both Libra moons and I just feel like this is finally the end because our cycles are shorter and shorter and there's so much blood in the water there's just no trust anymore
@brerobinson3817Ай бұрын
Can the roles be reversed? Seems opposite for my story .Cross watcher here Scorpio sun, Taurus moon, Libra rising
@MytarottherapistАй бұрын
They most certainly can be!
@OmyamOАй бұрын
Yep thta s both true and semsed it early on and still now.. and let me tell u there is no future there for me. Enough with the sleezes. Money hungry b t ch z
@_SerenitysPlaceАй бұрын
I love that you say that also I am an Aries. He feels that I am very masculine and I like to be in control. When I relax and allow him to have control, he chooses bad things to do and or ends up allowing distractions of his life to get in the way of our plans. Like his family, they will be arguing or something about something. Silly typically that he is looking at in the most upside down way. so I am very masculine. I do know how to be feminine, but he really did not create a safe environment for that. Anytime I would allow my guard down and or try to share a light just to help guide him I will be met with aggression typically. So I just had to bounce, and it was very messy because we worked together, I am a writer and creative and casting Director for a film production team that he is one of the actors on lol plus we are friends with the same people… let’s just say I’m finally learned some lessons the hard way. But I also found out some good things too like that I can get pregnant and I should be more careful with my body and who I share my energy with.