They controlled this child with ease all their life.

[@thelmavanrensburgcontempor5447]

I was mind blown at the long term deceit she played and looking back everything she did to sabotage my life for decades 👿😡

[@rosie7152]

Yep, after 36 years I realised my "mother" is a covert narcissist with an unhealthy attachment to me. In recent months a judgement was definitely cast after she exposed herself through a massive rage/meltdown. We haven't spoken since and the only thing I feel is release from a huge burden.

[@I_love_everything10]

Wow… thank you Jess!!! This reading strongly resonates with a situation I’m experiencing. To those who resonate with this reading as the “child”: You are strong and resilient. This is a tough karmic lesson that is not chosen by many souls. It will make you stronger and teach you how to conquer all your doubts & fears. It may not happen overnight, but in the end you will rise like the phoenix you are and soar!

[@pragmaticpoet]

Most of society has been infantilized in attempt to create dependencies

[@Kryonsmommy]

I feel like poverty causes infantilization, dependencies and oppression .

[@Anna-ValentineLeeBeneficiary]

​@@Kryonsmommyyep didn't someone say something about control a persons money, you then control the person?

[@AJ-ow7xi]

This is exactly what I got away from. And when it hit me it was his mother I was floored. She ruined him.

[@hollyrichardson144]

My friends always used to say I have such a cool mom. My response was always, "you don't know her". I have more memories of parenting from my grandparents than my parents. They always tried to pull me back home to siphon my energy. I wanted to work away when I was 20 and they talked me out of it so I could work for them. Everytime I had a breakup they lured me back home. I finally broke away for good early last year and haven't spoken to them since. I was a great observer and put my life on hold too many times for them.

[@phoebeknyx]

This. 🎯

[@leilaflood7078]

My ex dear lord, his mother is a menace

[@debrachambers1554]

My daughter's boyfriend lives in this situation. He's been controlled all his life and put down. He's very childish and many issues. He was raised to be a servant to work and answer to the Father. Very controlling and manipulating parents.

[@sankofaspeaks777]

Jess telling on the wicked parental figures now! ✨👏🏾👏🏾♾️⚖️✊🏾❤️☀️☮️✨ Bravo Justice be to all!

[@aprilmarie1824]

He did demolished my car ...it was absolutely mind-blowing. Hey I'm April by the way and I just found your channel and EVERYTHING has been on pointe ! Which is so nice to be understood in a way ...thankyou for what you do !!

[@mallorywayt9553]

Brooooo I just got done talking to my therapist about the weird stuff my mom does! I appreciate you so much Jess, tysm

[@vivian123-w7s]

That's so me. After college, I was manipulated back into coming back home, several people and strategies were used to bring me, Finally, after 10 long years breaking free again. Even in that 10 years whenever I left again some sort of game play was done. Emotional manipulation is really dangerous. It often comes from the person you love and trust the most. When it comes to parents, we don't even imagine things going so dark. Thanks Jess 💖💖💖

[@LoraBlazina]

Thank you so much for this!! This is my life and my ex’s life

[@Elise91069]

His mother hated me.. family owned business. I can definitely see this dynamic

[@aquasol333]

I knew that was his mom's energy in like 5 minutes.

[@EvaPascual-z7b]

Exactly as my Niece, and my Sister's relationship... My sister even got jealous about the relationship between my niece and Me ( her Aunt)... That She once told Me out of the blue... " That is my Child "... In a teasing way, and I was so in awe, but I could immediately realize her jealousy, and felt so much compation for her, that I only could look at her in that same very serious awe, signifying : " Are you kidding Me, with that immaturity of yours " 😯????... Like... " WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT🧐🤔????... My sister probably understood that I was evaluating the sanity of her attitude...✨

[@lanaja6075]

Omggg that's my mom 🤣 Yesterday I had a fight with her and put mu boundaries ❤

[@ellecee]

Whoa! Thank you for this reading. It’s spot on. I’ve been dating someone for 18 months and his father is a real piece of work, a womanizer who is verbally abusive. My boyfriend had moved back in with his father after he and his ex split up, but now he’s seemingly stuck there. When I met him (the father), he seemed nice enough. But my boyfriend and I were hanging out upstairs, listening to music and dancing, totally innocent activities. I live in the USA and they live in the UK so we were staying in a hotel, and we had zero interest in doing the deed at his dad’s house. But when we went downstairs later, his dad told him, in front of me, that one of his girlfriends was coming down to visit him because “You’re not the only one getting laid in this house!” WHAT?! How rude!!! He’s got his son under his thumb and has somehow convinced him that he’s a worthless POS. My boyfriend was recently mugged on his way home from the pub, and was beat up pretty badly and had his keys and phone and wallet stolen, after which his dad started treating him like a child, giving him a strict curfew and rules. So when you said that he could’ve paid someone to cause harm, that really struck me. Could he have been in on that? I wouldn’t put it past him, tbh. When I met his mom, she knew I’d already met his dad, and she just tore into him, saying what an awful person he is. I do a lot of energy work and pendulum work and recently was asking about energetic cords between him and his dad and I saw a huge one going straight to his crown chakra. My man is so psychic and creative but his dad has been blocking all of that. We have been talking about marriage and I will bet that, if his dad did pay some thugs off, he was terrified of losing his live-in housekeeper and whipping boy. I have had dreams about going to his dad’s funeral and that’s where I meet his extended family. I’m wondering when that’s going to happen. I have seen his dad lock him into all sorts of stupid things like pointless errands and stuff, loading him up with things to do when we were supposed to be together on vacation in his hometown. He has ghosted me a few times, and it’s always during times of crisis with his dad. Wow, Jess, this is really good intel. I always ask my pendulum if a video has a message for me before I watch it, and this one was an emphatic yes. Thanks again, this helps me strategize.

[@NewPathTarot]

Jess you are on fire. You uploaded this 10 days ago and released it to us today. How many of these do you have in the queue lol

[@jesspucketttarot]

🥰 I'm a little ahead for the first time in a while but it helps make room to work on other cool things for y'all!! 💞

[@NewPathTarot]

@jesspucketttarot I wrote that comment before listening. This one blew me away. You are amazing. No words. Even a day later I'm still processing.

[@ourfamilyencounter]

Passive aggressive behavior sucks

[@sweetscent2622]

My parents and entire family whom I no longer speak with. Feel so free x

[@JF-ev7xg]

It feels like the past few readings have been geared towards our old person because we all checked out already lol at this point I’m just waiting to hear about the new person

[@Tia-f8z8i]

That’s his gf, his mom and his sister. All those women including his employees. God bless this man! I hope he finds his true identity.

[@bankrolldame]

This is exactly what happened.. 26 and had to move back at 24… I’m trying to break free from the cage

[@winmdyer]

Wow, I recognize us all.

[@jessica-courtney]

This is my story…the way you explain it is everything I have tried to say but don’t know how…

[@K8thaGr888]

Mom & sister are narcs my dad's an explosive spectrum undiagnosed So much abuse So much infantilizing I had to fight for every basic adult freedom From cigarettes- to learning to drive And That abuse had me feeling and acting insane I was put ò disability at 16 and she got so mad when I became my own payee Then hacked into my new bank account and paid herself rent When I asked her she denied it Made like I was gonna call the bank And she got really mad and confessed😅 Got my license at 27 I'm 36 I'm all boundaries now And I want my dad's business

[@pragmaticpoet]

Enmeshed Family Dynamics = Arranged or Forced Marriages

[@Susiqempath]

Thank u ❤❤ so sad I can relate though as my mother is a bit of a narcissist too 😢💔

[@SunnyniteDesigns]

Yup, very Manichurian Candidate with all 5 of her sons but especially him. He's the oldest.

[@SunnyniteDesigns]

He left, played that same game that his mother played with on the new partner, the partner left, then he went back, got stuck , etc. 😂😂 nearly 5 years ago.

[@CollectivePoetryReadings]

Deep diving, thank you for sharing. Appreciate you. Blessings

[@AlexKGameson]

Great job lady, let it be known.... true for me and was true for him too... the catalyst that changed everything.

[@nika21nika89]

Well this is my story and his. I tried to move to Alaska early on and received a note saying she needed me and a litany of reasons it would not work. My belongings went to Alaska without me. It looks to the outside world that I have been the problem when in fact she has manipulated me my entire life. He has the same issue from my perspective.

[@Sagittariluna999]

I am said child, I don’t talk to my mom my sister or my father they are all alike. Just the way you are describing. They used me for what they could and now I’m free from them and they don’t see my children and I will never let them around my kids again.

[@SunnyniteDesigns]

19:44 Yes, I called her out to the detriment of our connection but at least someone said something. 😂😂🤷🏿‍♀️

[@rupalisarda]

MIL , She forced us to come back to our hometown, Highly manipulative person I have ever met in my life.

[@gia-144]

Ex Mother In Law coordinated an assault on her pregnant ex daughter in law, using her own son by dominating and manipulating her adult son. Resonates! And you correct, he not only participated, but then left and had lit. 22 years later, he’s divorced again. Very self centred by the mother for sure.

[@Zionlee-v5e]

Dang this is my daughters mom and her mom 😩🫠🥹and she def ruined everything

[@Laura_Devine_333]

Wow, makes so much sense.

[@Kryonsmommy]

This can’t be my parents . They got over being my parent when I was 15. Both were orphaned young so 15 was like I was a grown adult .

[@JoytheEnchantress]

This is my MIL...100% She ruined our marriage on purpose. Sad but a good lesson for me- painful but necessary. I called her out!! I was out casted lol

[@motherofsamson]

I knew this Thank you ❤

[@katherynemero4118]

At 9:00: “…They paid someone to vandalize this person’s car several times to make this person afraid…” Holy cow. My car was vandalized TWICE at my workplace. The last time I saw him, he asked a lot of questions about my car. We work for the same company, just in different states. And it might sound far fetched to believe this, even paranoid. But- truly- he has this inner strength that I find alarming. Sometimes I think he manifested me; he brought me into his existence. I’m pretty certain I dreamed about him months before I met him. At the end of October, I had another dream that I am absolutely certain was his. It was an anxiety dream. I was in the dream but I was not me. My actions were not mine. That’s never happened to me before. It really appears like some kind of magic. I don’t think he knows that he does it, but it feels very real. Some weird stuff is going on, even if it looks like it be explained away.

[@EarthAngelStarseed]

This is my life

[@katherinerentschler694]

My mom wants to see me alone and sad.

[@TheresaPichardo]

“Spirit of confusion! Slim Shady step up! Latter days are getting old.. Mayhem! “Hail Mary “ ✨Peace Love Light✨

[@hajar.altiner]

She made him responsable for her in all of her suicide scares. He become a monster for her. She can't stand losing his whole focused life-long celf-centred attention.

[@hajar.altiner]

And it is f***ing oeadipal

[@Solitarywitch]

Please post the other video i need clarity before i move into her house in another state away from my family

[@LesG985]

DONT. If you're asking advice on the internet something inside you is telling you it's a bad idea!!

[@JesseBoroughs-rr6xy]

This energy is my mother it makes me super uncomfortable

[@kristinpita8381]

Without a doubt, my ex's mom. EVIL DEVIL!!! SHE HATES ME....Cuz I think for the first time, he wqs able to experience what it feels like to be genuinely loved ❤ so sad... even when he was in the hospital, she tried to get a nurse To go out with him while I was deathly sick with food poisoning...probably from her!!! Thank you, Jess 🩷

[@motherlands777]

Ooof- Chills on this one This is way too familiar on my side -father wound and I suspect his side-mother wound There is an older sister on both our sides I empowered him, that’s why she separated us- she couldn’t control him if he chose me. I think she was in his ear and he couldn’t communicate with me His mother would not meet me. She knew I would see right through her.

[@SoutheastDivine]

Trust in God. He will lead you out of there to me. My biological mother was psychotic, too. Don't worry. I walked away from my insane psychopath when I left for college at 18, and I made sure I never had to go back. Ride or die. That is why my circle is so small. Very few know about my family or what I have been through. I am shocked at what my biological mother has done now. I am willing to be a witness on the stand FOR my brothers against my biological mother. Work in silence. Tell no one anything. If they do not know, then they cannot throw bricks in your path. ~ KRH ~

[@pragmaticpoet]

I consider non-consent as the root of all evil ⚔️😎⚖️

[@crptnite]

If you're concerned about your image, you should just be a good person.

[@julzPiflaks]

We can't be forced by fear. To do anything in this universe ever that is just cruel. And karma is gonna bite the fool that forces using fear. As a tactic, mother father comes say it to my face so I can have front row seats via from karmas cinema moments 5:18 🎉 blessed best, best safe, be safe, compassionnnnnnn

[@hailymysticmoon-74]

Uep that sums it all up. Thats not beautiful motherly love that crap is just sick.

[@DonnaSweet-nq6hj]

Could this possibly be reversed? Like. The grown child would be the parent in this story. And the parent is the puppet?

[@pragmaticpoet]

Didn't Buddhas father use this tactic?

[@phoebeknyx]

🎯

[@TheresaPichardo]

So, I take it! while he was in China 🇨🇳 what the Hell” did he comeback with! Spare the rod spoil the child he should’ve lived and learned a long time ago! Excuses some grown peeps can never grow up! Seek the kingdom of God and everything shall awaken! Remember Universe gives out! Ripple effect..

[@TamTheEnlightenedAuntie]

It took me a LOOOOONG TIME to see the truth 🥹 You read my whole childhood and adult life. She had been trying to undermine my marriage and my LIFE. It took going no contact to make me see.