they said lose weight, he said ok

[@Crow0fEarth]

My man didn’t hear an insult, he heard a challenge. Making your “flaws” a list and checking them off one by one is the ultimate chad move.

[@TheSpicyLeg]

Correct. I had an apprentice that was overweight, didn’t keep himself cleaned up, lazy, etc. He bitched and moaned that he couldn’t get a girlfriend, so I started challenging him. He got so mad that he quit. But he must have had a revelation, because I ran into him and his girlfriend at the grocery store. He got a haircut, cut 60 pounds, and got his shit together. Was the girl a supermodel? No. But she was very feminine and kind, by all appearances a great girl. He thanked me for kicking him in the pants.

[@thecipher8495]

BASED sensei@@TheSpicyLeg

[@Ldenlord]

@@TheSpicyLeg that leg you used to kick him in the pants does live up to your name 🔥🔥🔥😂😂😂

[@tsukuneboy]

It's a good damn mentality tbh. It can be toxic so you should draw a line when to call the challenge but overall it's good to motivate you to become better

[@Christian-CTDC]

Reverse psychology

[@Laerei]

If enough people would have told him to get a million dollars, he would have said "Okay." and show up a millionaire a month later. Dude's hella determined.

[@InfiniteDarkMass]

Now I really wanna see what Asmongold could become if he watched his diet, worked out and got a haircut.

[@SkorpionSSs]

@@InfiniteDarkMass the world is not ready for the chadness

[@DoppelgangerTH]

​@@SkorpionSSsI don't know about chadness, but the world is certainly not ready.

[@vayokekita8223]

Yeah people really missed their chance to tell him to become god and save the world

[@Hhhh22222-w]

​@@InfiniteDarkMasshe's already a millionaire

[@takarahayashi4124]

just from base personality, he's a seriously nice guy and receptive. good on him for real.

[@PSYMEDIC]

Wouldn't surprise me that he just took the insults, squeezed the inch of truth out of it and worked with it. This guy is chinese, he lives in a toxic controlling place where you either fail or improve. We western people have really developed the habit to rather complain about our problems than do anything about, just out of embarrassment of failure. Most people can look good if they put the effort in it. But rather than taking the bycicle, it is easier to launch some campaign about accepting a medical problem. In my opinion there should be public gym's where most people are forced or heavily encouraged through whatever system to go. Sport is the best thing for mind as well body.

[@内田朝陽-e6h]

@@PSYMEDIC this is also true where im from, honestly it seems like westerners dont understand just how good they have it so they have to go out of the way to search for any reason to feel like they're oppressed

[@内田朝陽-e6h]

sometimes to grow you need to be in a toxic environment, just like in nature its survival of the fittest

[@iverbrnstad791]

@@内田朝陽-e6h I have a hypothesis that the brain will serve roughly the same level of anxiety, regardless of circumstances. It is our actions, not our situation, that decides how neurotic we get. If you have to grind to stay afloat you don't have the time or energy to sit and wallow. I've seen people come from nothing, make it, and then all of sudden get overwhelming anxiety once they don't have any clear goal to strive for anymore.

[@内田朝陽-e6h]

@@iverbrnstad791 ive had periods of having no goal and ive never had anxiety so probably entirely relative to the person

[@nichtsistkostenlos6565]

This dude is reason why humility and mental resilience is so valuable. He saw comments shitting on him and just ignored the hostility, but extracted the substance of the criticism, then used that for self improvement. This is how everyone should aspire to be.

[@raze956]

what does any of this has to do with humility? and would his transformation any less impressive if he didnt show "humility"? i dont think so.

[@Neighbor8773]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@raze956if he had no humility he would have taken everyone’s criticism with a grain of salt and went on with life saying the problem is not me but the society and women around me, still fat, still unstylish, and still upset he doesn’t have a girlfriend. So in my opinion he wouldn’t have even gone through this journey without that humility. So many people have such inflated egos they can’t take any self-accountability, choosing to just blame the world without trying to improve themselves.

[@raze956]

@@Neighbor8773 "So many people have such inflated egos they can’t take any self-accountability, choosing to just blame the world without trying to improve themselves." i completely agree with that. in regards to change and humility however, i dont. personally im not a humble person at all. i dont brag either, but im not humble. yet i listen to criticism and think if its actually valid, and if it is, AND if it also bothers me, i do something to change. being able to recognize flaws in oneself and accepting valid critique has nothing to do with being humble, in my opinion. what you described with "hearing criticism and just moving on" sounds more like what a narcissist would do. yet i do know many a-holes and people who like to brag, but they are able to accept critique when its valid. in my opinion, humility is way overrated and made a virtue when its not. if you are competent at something, you have every right to show and talk about it. imagine elon musk "nah, my corporations aint that great" or mike tyson in his prime "yeah, im somewhat decent at boxing". its ridiculous. if you are really good at something and you "downplay" it, its outright dishonesty, and thus a negative character trait in my opinion ,and has nothing to do with humility at all. thats how i see it.

[@Me-th3gj]

I'd like to see this comment pinned to the top.

[@syaredzaashrafi1101]

@@raze956 u mad bro? chill

[@Jos_zi]

This man does not cope, sees the hard road ahead and walks it. He has all of my respect.

[@Komatsulawl]

They told him to get a 6pack... he got 8pack! Absolute winner :D :D

[@daniamataka5377]

I think a key factor in this was he ignored all the negative comments because they weren't being helpful or giving any advice, he listened to those who told him "do this, this, and this" and he went "yep I'll do those things", and then he fucking did it! He didn't deserve or feel entitled to happiness, he asked how to get it and then he earned it!

[@TricoliciSerghei]

Best comment!

[@TacticalDimples]

Yup. One of the best skills in life is to be able to accept anything that’s positive while disregarding everything that’s negative. Sadly not everyone thinks this way as it requires you to look beyond black and white.

[@Johan-hm5uc]

He didn't ignore negative comments "you are too fat" is a negative comment and he learned from those that he should lose weight. You can learn a lot from such negative comments, they are often the most honest. This is even more important when "you need to lose weight" is today seen as a negative comment, it is really hard to tell someone to lose weight without saying something like that. So anyone who ignores "negative comments" will have a hard time getting the "lose weight" advice.

[@Bash70]

@@Johan-hm5uc Let's be honest, "you need to lose weight" comment is only considered negative when it's directed towards overweight women; it's treated as completely fine when directed towards overweight men. The hypocritical double standard is so blatant and rampant throughout society and media. People can't ingenuously stick to one side and flip-flop on principles whenever it suites their own bias.

[@acutelilmint8035]

So true. If we ignore the negative comments.. those are just trolls.. but listen to the ones trying to help.. i thnk that would really help us all.

[@ColinHarding]

This man took control of the situation.

[@ivyr336]

The opposite tbh. He let others take control which was a good idea considering he was stuck up til then.

[@CentrisAce]

@@ivyr336 It takes a shit ton of control and dedication; no amount of advice matters if you don't go through with it.

[@bert7560]

@@ivyr336 He chose to listen to the good advice. People can say a lot of things to you, but if you choose to not listen, none will make you change. He ignored/acknowledged the harsh comments, judged them with common sense, took the good advice, and made the efforts to work on himself.

[@giraffeorganic]

@@ivyr336 not really

[@ISituationHD]

@@giraffeorganic He literally gave all control to a small portion of people. Its needs some intelligence to filter useless information.

[@cynricng]

My man straight up crowd-sourced a meta build

[@DanielOcean-xn1ts]

well said, this guy utilized the social media in the most positive manner possible, where cynical bystanders just shit and piss and not doing anything, he went down there working his asses off, don't mind the pain and dirt, comeback with treasure box like true winner.

[@fakeletobr730]

@@DanielOcean-xn1ts he picked the honey inside all the commentarys and changed his life for the better

[@CrazyBanana203]

What is a meta build?

[@389OpiE]

​@@CrazyBanana203Meta is a video game term meaning "meta-game" where when you're done with a game you now have people to play against 'PvP' A meta build is a very common and copied strategy or set up that is very successful and consistently wins tournaments and ranked matchups and has very little weaknesses

[@drunkpiano_4537]

hahahahahahhahahahahahahahhahahahhaa

[@ZakkuW]

Man said 'hold my beer' and never took it back

[@RavenMobile]

Good comment, clever, lol.

[@km077]

"Hold mah beer." "but..." "It's yours now. adiós"

[@thegreatkhan.]

😂😂😂​@@km077

[@christianmarly]

Hold my protein shaker

[@JstJaybeingJay]

"He's a man of sheer will, focus and commitment." But seriously though he got that commitment.

[@blue-phoenix115]

AI out here fooling everyone

[@StormierNik]

Bro, not only did he look better, but he did all that shit FAST. "This will improve my life and chances? Alright, I'll do it." The fact that he went and did it without looking back even for a moment shows true DRIVE and determination. This guy can just go places if he wants to. I don't think he realizes how powerful that is.

[@orimu836]

The fact that he accepted the criticisms is also something very amazing. People these days gets offended so easily. This guy has the right mindset.

[@noahthenormal]

Yeah, gives the impression he was always willing to put in the work, but genuinely didn't understand where to put his energy without guidance

[@Guzzlerinos]

i wouldnt even know where to find the time to do all that

[@orimu836]

@@Guzzlerinos That's my reasoning to. But there's definitely a way to fit this in your sched if you're willing to sacrifice a portion of your time ex: gaming or watching stuff.

[@Nanohamage]

@@Guzzlerinos if you have 30min a day that is enough for workout , as for fashion and hairstyle u just need one free weekend it's rly just about motivation this guy rly wanted gf and tried everything people told him most other people just aren't motivated enough

[@BuiHieuDong]

The guy really had one of the most successful glow-ups ever.

[@pillowhead4456]

When you've hit rock bottom, it cant get any worse than that

[@themore-you-know]

@@pillowhead4456 , if you'd watch China Insight and coverage of Chinese events... this is tens of miles above rock bottom.

[@chheray1705]

The GOAT has returned.

[@addy1294]

cause its fake

[@MClaudiusMarcellus]

@@addy1294 I guess it doesn't matter, the moral is good regardless, but absolutely not the same guy before and after unless he had a lot of plastic surgery or something.

[@ELdASenSei]

Mad respect! He tanked 90% of all the criticism and flipped them the finger

[@darkwyve]

Well one of the best way to get back at haters is simply to prove them wrong and live a productive and happy life. (Gives the haters more to hate about too, so since haters like to hate, it's a win/win? ;) haha...

[@gamdanyunizar7849]

Yep best way is to hate the hater it's perfect

[@deepdarksecretful]

from his demeanor, he probably bowed and thanked them for giving honest advice. that's true chad/healthy masculinity right there . =)

[@benjaminl4524]

No he didn’t flip them a finger like most would do, he put away his dignity and accepts what’s up and started grinding, he listens to the criticism and it’s fueling him to become a better version of himself, too many people are sheep and get offended so easily, they are just making excuses for themselves, weak. And this man right here, he’s strong, and earned all of his achievements

[@mindyours752]

I don't think he even considered the insults hate but blamed himself so he just kept improving himself till people guided him to the ideal look they thought made him attractive.

[@ReeceJohnson-v7p]

love how he is smiling in both the before and after

[@busyphilosopher6078]

Man is HAPPY

[@IgnitionP]

“Worse she can say is no” 2:28

[@morgziliuz1972]

😭😭😭

[@davidsantiago7808]

It was other guys bashing him tho, chinese neets

[@Erodent]

If I could just get 1% of this man’s self discipline and determination to better himself. Maybe I’d be a functioning adult human.

[@Erodent]

But instead I do exactly as asmon says. I post my problems online to get them off my chest and ultimately do nothing to fix it. It’s a loop I’ve been in for over a decade and idk what to do anymore.

[@SaffariRose]

Then maybe just do the 1%? Breakdown your problems into the smallest parts possible and just do 0.1 of it at a time. Be consistent and it slowly builds up in time. Sometimes we're too fixated on the end result but think we have to jump a mountain to get there. Just do the smallest you can possibly do without extreme or unnecessary pain and keep going. I used to be like this too. Instead of small achievable goals, I'd fixate on how large the issue is, be discouraged and end up not moving at all. You can't move if you don't take atleast just one step. And everyone can take that one small step; even you. Good Luck!

[@hansenliu9081]

Change takes time, brother. I've had many many failed attempts to change myself during university, and ultimately what I realized after graduation was that, even though I knew I shouldn't be setting goals too high and should have more patience, I was still setting goals that take too much effort to reach, burn myself out too fast, all the while also focusing on how far I am from where I think my potential is at. All of these are ingredients for failure in change and self-improvement. For most of us average ppl, you just gotta change what you can, put in real effort but not over exert yourself, and focus on how much has changed and have faith in yourself, instead of focusing on how far you are from your fullest potential or thinking to yourself you don't have potential at all. Best of luck brother.

[@dylanblue9201]

​@@hansenliu9081Well said.

[@jerichojones2722]

@@Erodent i remember reading this thing that said the problem with posting your problems online, is that it sort of tricks your brain into thinking you're doing something about it. like posting how you're gonna go on a diet, and having people congratulate you, will give you damn near the same feeling as actually going on a diet and having people compliment your progress. its important that if you notice you're one of those people, stop posting things like that online.

[@kuratse205]

Actual real life gigachad. He went from like a 4.7 to a 9.5 that he could basically date anyone he wanted. The fact that he looked completely average before, and became super handsome through hard work is just amazing. It goes to show that literally anyone could become far greater than they ever were by putting in the work. He went from an average 40 year old businessman to a 26 year old supermodel in merely 2 years.

[@LONKULADE]

How do you rate so precisely lol 4.7? 😂

[@callmelou5397]

@@LONKULADE a 5/10 is basically an average looking dude in the first pic he looks slightly below average i would give a 4.5 and in the end bro became a model fr

[@ma.2089]

Dude didn’t even look bad at first. A 4.7 seems kinda low lol. 6 or 6.5 seems more apt to me.

[@0redfr0g0]

@@ma.2089 You're going off the scale that most people tend to give a 7 as average. Regardless of the number, the before photo was a bit below average looks and the after is significantly above average.

[@sebrij]

exactly and dude even went overkill, with a good haircut, lossing some weight and finding good clothes is more than enough for 60% of the time but he also lost weight and got shredded

[@gintokikintoki4965]

Holy shit man. Thx for those 10% who believe and helped. And congrats for the guy🎉

[@stephen6605]

Also it is great that he focused on these 10% to listen to them not to be upset and complain about other 90%.

[@Digifier]

The fact that only 10% of people actually wanted to help him, says a lot about our current society.

[@mortaldao8044]

Everything in your own life is your fault

[@miracookie444]

@@Digifier That's just a reflection of chinese society, they have it much harder and it's still 3rd world country. They don't even have enough girls (thx to one child policy) and dowry is still a thing there lol. Their society is very different to our western society.

[@Magnum_Express]

@@mortaldao8044 hardly. unless you control the government, control your income, control your friends, your family, nature, etc. Most things that go bad in our lives is the fault of our decisions, i will admit, but not everything.

[@askingwhyisfree7436]

Bro actually accepted quests from random strangers wtf.

[@AndRei-yc3ti]

Bro treats life like an rpg

[@splechor4069]

@@AndRei-yc3ti and actually leveled up from level 1 pleb to level 99 boss

[@gilcraftsource]

He understood the assignment ... Really beautiful outcome

[@sarethdarva]

As a fat Asian dude I admit I find this really inspiring. I'm making some progress in losing weight already (30 lbs in the last year) but he did it way faster and with way more drip to boot. Shows the power of actually working on yourself seriously! That he got married is just a bonus. Being healthier just makes you feel better in every way regardless.

[@albingranquist8290]

Trust me after you loose the weight your self confidence, energy and drive improves alot. Keep goin

[@lukashenrique4295]

as guy above says, helps a lot with self confience, getting a girl will def become easier because when u have more self esteem u start acting nicer, confident, and people really like that.

[@JKingSniper]

I cut back on soda and some food and lost 10lb but still too lazy to exercise lol

[@GItoKeG]

Bro even if not for losing weight...working out just makes you feel really fucking good. And above all else, character is everything after you get swole.

[@marannebbeling9799]

If losing weight is your goal, then tbh exercise is near irrelevant (calorie-wise). But, as you know obviously, for health reasons I would definitely consider exercising haha from experience I can tell you that that laziness REALLY only happens before you start, and maybe the first week -- after that it's honestly not that hard to go anymore. When you stop going, the hurdle to get back to it seems insurmountable, but after returning 1 time you're back. In hindsight, it never really was laziness as much as it was procrastination & lack of motivation (I'm lazy as hell too, but the difficulty I faced was mostly because I couldn't convince myself why going TODAY was so important -- tomorrow really wouldn't make a big difference) @@JKingSniper

[@greglane501]

Crazy story. He actually put in the work and got a really attractive wife.

[@BlacKi-nd4uy]

for how long? there was a reason why he looked like this before. if you dont do the changes in your life for yourself, then its not lasting to long.

[@zee9709]

@@BlacKi-nd4uy yeah he should stay miserable instead.......

[@MrHihihiji]

@@BlacKi-nd4uy what do you mean for how long? dude transformed his life over multiple years and found what he was ultimately looking for. why would he go back on that? he was just an average dude who was tired of being mundane so he did something about it. if he was strong willed enough to change his life around then he's strong willed enough to keep it going.

[@VacuousCat]

In my opinion he's a tier higher than his wife.

[@BlacKi-nd4uy]

@@MrHihihiji the point is: he did that not for himself, he found himself ok before the change. so i think he will look like the old version in some time again, because he allready got what he wanted, a girl.

[@toukavacation6612]

In a lot of Chinese Manhua, there are stories where the main character starts out weak and looking like a loser. They then get some secret powers and after a few chapters, completely change in looks. I've always found that implausible and thought of it as 'Oh, the author drew him more handsome because they wanted a more cool looking main character'. Now, I know that's actually possible in real life. This dude is the true weak-to-strong main character.

[@Mrpokpokza]

But that is like in manhua. He didn't get cheat skill. He only have one life and no redo. But he listened to the right advices. He took action to better himself. He is the goat.

[@dlite9655]

I feel bad for anyone who reads Trashua

[@axellyann5085]

​@@dlite9655sure kid, take your cookie

[@PSYMEDIC]

@@Mrpokpokza I hate these fucking redo stories. At the core the message is always that you need another chance to do something with yourself rather than doing it yourself. Escaping from a unfavorable situation rather than dealing with it. Literally the cowards way of life. Imagine Guts died in the eclipse and got a redo in a new world with cheats skills and a definitely not underage girl taking up 80% of the screen time. Nobody would give a damn about Berserk if that were the case. Not just because it is boring, but because Berserk is the story of a man getting back his life.

[@LuckyPed10]

@@PSYMEDIC that's Japanese ones tho, the Chinese ones rarely have underage girls. Japanese stories 90% happen in high school age so the girls are 15~17 most of the times. while Chinese stories usually have 18~28 years olds girls, like 90% of the Manhua i read had around university ages or even older. but I agree the whole Cheat skill shit just ruin the whole "Redo" premise lmao. that's why it's cheap power fantasy

[@RonSwex]

I actually shed a tear when I saw him get married. Omg 😢so happy for him. You earned it.

[@GapModel1]

Well at least he don't live in America. Because if hes from America, marriage might not be such a good idea considering he would have a 50% chance of losing everything he ever work for.

[@VoidHxnter]

​@GapModel1 Way to bring negativity into something positive, keep it up man!

[@GapModel1]

@@VoidHxnter Well I don't really care about "feelings". Just stating a fact that in America, marriage have a good chance to do more harm than good.

[@momoware]

@@GapModel1 It's the same in China. But you could sign a prenup. However, this guy is a blue-collar worker so doesn't have a lot of property.

[@johnjohnjohnson7720]

@@GapModel1 If a fact has a net negative outcome than that fact is useless.

[@yoshiwhere148]

anyone who can be that honest and genuine with his answers and looking to improve through all that toxicity gets my utmost respect

[@Absinthexx7]

gonna be honest, I fully watched this video expecting after all his hard work he wasnt gonna get shit from it, and when he got married after 2 years it made me really happy. This is an awesome story and video

[@nawab256]

And let’s be honest he probably got that girlfriend about a year ago. No way did he just become handsome and then ask some random girl to marry him.

[@pillowhead4456]

@@nawab256 congratulation, you just corrected asmon point on this topic

[@N3K0Cloud]

@@nawab256 People in Asia don't usually date much, they usually ask a girl to get married and that's it, if she accepts > marriage soon! And I think this is what happened here.

[@nhutang433]

​@@N3K0CloudThere's still dating steps first. But as peole get older, the dating durations simply get shorter.

[@johnwong5317]

In China, 26 years old or over is the "LEFT OVER" women, so lots of girls also got pressure to marry before that. Thus lots of relationship got fast track.

[@shazaz1059]

"ok" is the perfect embodiment of what he did Bro understood the task given and fucking committed to it like it was nothing, really a beacon for what human determination can get you with enough hard work on yourself

[@elikyiael8740]

damn that guy got both insulted and got some good advice, and he literally just took the advice and actually bettered himself for his own sake while being polite i wonder how the world would change if that was the norm

[@lukashenrique4295]

so true

[@andyb9664]

nah, I wonder how the world would change if the norm changed to 90% positive comments and only 10% negative. Coz that is the problem.

[@elikyiael8740]

@@andyb9664 nah, 90 to 10 ratio wouldn't change much, worse case it'd be even worse for yourself to have constantly 10% of people absolutelly hating you like take 10% of 100 and it'd be 10 people hating on you 10% of 1 million.... prepare for the zombie apocalypse, and the brain fixate on the negative part because it think it need fixing and that this part is "wrong", it's just that people can literally hate on you for no reason or multiple and your brain can't comprehend that also adversity builds strenght, i'd prefer people insulting me rather than be unhelpful or falsly supportive of me or what i'm doing

[@itsez1129]

I got more interested in this dude as we don't know anything about him, his jurney or his motivation. What everyone is doing is seeing the progress and filling in all the rest. He could have been anything from a fed up incel, a Goggins machine, a motivational gigachad, a looser who finally got hit by the oh so rare 180. What I've learned is that if you do the work quietly then it doesn't matter if you did it to be healthier, look better or just desperately want to fuck. It's the result what matters.

[@xue.0w0]

dude deserves a great life. He is determined, an overall nice guy, turned criticisms into his own strength and worked hard to build himself into his best version. I wish him all the best

[@柴江泽-m4y]

He legit looks like a celebrity at the end, that is amzing

[@jbg1575]

The guy made social media his build guide, hes a goddamn genius!

[@zee9709]

not gonna lie, he can make a good living after that viral. He can make channel about self improve or streaming some stuff and attract ads

[@Laughing_Chinaman]

turns out crowd sourcing works for social problems

[@darkwyve]

@@Laughing_Chinaman Though doing it that way is a lot like mining... you have to wade through countless dark and potentially toxic areas just to find the occasional gem. ;)

[@biawak-dilondaniel7034]

I only did it for my game characters, never thought I also could do it for my real life🤣🤣

[@andreanecchi5930]

I hope to lose weight as well as him, for now I'm going decently from 111.7 kg to 95kg , I started the diet on June 30th

[@direwolf3972]

Don't call it a diet but a life style change.. its not temporary hopefully.. Congrats as well.. keep it up!

[@glennuendo]

went from 102 to 70 by just quitting alcohol fully and switching out most of the pasta and bread for vegetables. a lot of walking too. good luck, you can do it!

[@CKSiLoYT]

well done bro, we're proud of you

[@Peanuts1000]

Good job, bro.

[@CommonWealth13]

I'm proud of you bro

[@renwicknz]

I love the fact that he was able to sort through all the noise and negative comments and focus on the people who were being positive. Props to this young gentleman for his stoicism, focus and determination. Being confident in yourself is one of the most attractive traits.

[@meetjeric]

the guy was like "my life is not over yet, i just want a girlfriend, what went wrong?" he took all the insults lightly but instead looking for nice pieces of advice one by one. as per the good and promising advices, he started to post his improvements a textbook example of "as long as you live there is hope"

[@yuutokasane3332]

Well if this dude can do it, then so can i. Time to get rid of them debts.

[@Grievv1902]

I think what this highlights the most is that a desire to improve oneself and enough humility to ask for help and listen to advice will get you in the right mindset to be a good partner.

[@RebelGiga]

Yeah! Dude didn't ignore any of the hate comments and took them to heart and truly improved himself. Didn't smack talk, didn't complain, just nodded and did the work.

[@ggrimmfield5529]

And life rewarded him

[@marannebbeling9799]

Exactly. It takes a big person to say to yourself ''you know what, what you're doing clearly isn't working. I'm probably wrong and have no idea what to do" and to then post a picture, knowing full well that you'll get shit on, not defend yourself but instead listen with humility and then not just 'try' to work on it but actually 1-shot all your goals in a year. It's actually crazy how seemingly effortlessly he went through the whole checklist lmao

[@PicesQ]

Man asked the internet for side quests and cleared it all.

[@nulnoh219]

More like He asked the internet for the guide for his Main Quest line. He wanted to get the girl. He got the girl. Quest completed.

[@kfk4441]

He got married!! Huge respect ,he took the responsibility like a man and did it

[@DTreatz]

The marriage was a mistake, he'll pay for that mistake years from now unfortunately, it's no secret how bad marriage is in the east just like the west for dudes, damn shame 🤣

[@vicvic2081]

He got married wow

[@Celestialbeing21]

It's Great that he did, but we need to acknowledge the elephant in the room that people did not have to be mean to him to get the point across as well. Spitting on someone is not a sign of respect. Society would do well to remember that and contribute in a positive and tangible manner.

[@naknampucha5236]

​​@@Celestialbeing21why doesn't need to be mean? Society will always be Society,. it will be always be harsh and unruly but it does not represent the "personal" value of an individual. How you love and take care of yourself is what really matters. Don't blame society on this, it's never been perfect but it's not the issue., the issue is people don't really care about themselves or know their own worth... catering to what the society dictates means you don't really know who you are and what you wants in your life. If people loved and take care of themselves,. then the society itself can be better.

[@Pollymichaelis]

@@Celestialbeing21 also Chinese netizens are not necessarily mean, just brutally honest. We don’t sugarcoat things

[@bmo3778]

he genuinely asked a question, so any answer he gets, he just accepted it and tried to change it.

[@Umeshukitsune]

Honestly, if incels committed and worked on themselves instead of being bitter... They would find a girlfriend. Also this man is asking Asians for advice which is infinitely more brutal and he took it like a champ.

[@12SickOne34]

What an actual gigachad. kudos to him

[@famitsus987]

How can a East Asian man be a gigachad gigachad is about Caucasian men

[@canhnguyennguyen6878]

@@famitsus987racism much ?

[@beeman4266]

​@@canhnguyennguyen6878How? Chad is typically a white guy name. There's asian equivalents to gigachads, they're just not called gigachads.

[@Hhhh22222-w]

​@@beeman4266he's not talking about the name but about the race, do you not notice?

[@beeman4266]

@haruyanto8085 He literally says gigachad is about caucasian men. What exactly is wrong with that? You know any tall east Asian men named Chad? I'm sure east Asians along with every other race and people have names for men that are the equivalent to gigachad.

[@squallneko]

I'm very happy for the guy. He took all the harsh blow, look at the positive constructive comments and got his wish. Kudos to himself and also the good people who suggested the things that he need to improve on.

[@lowecypher8761]

The dude was a soldier on a mission and returned back home with highest honors. He deserves a Chad award cause he definitely face slapped those 90% toxic naysayers. He deserves all the reward for his hard work. 🍾

[@Simca0503]

Dude has my respect. He made changes and worked hard towards self-improvement. I'm very happy for him

[@ThisIsArty]

"You need to lose weight." "ok." actual gigachad

[@XanderZ0ne]

Terminally online Twitter users could NEVER lmao

[@annormal1414]

Reminds me about that japanese guy who was giving inspiring speech while standing in the cold water

[@TheKnightofAwesomeness]

NEVER GIVE UP!!!

[@optimistprime3192]

*Don’t Lose Your Way Instrumental intensifies*

[@Adi-oc7vu]

NEVER GIVE UP !!

[@Adi-oc7vu]

NEVER GIVE UP !!

[@moonnaah3064]

Nevagivap

[@clay2889]

This was so wholesome and it actually made my day to see. I don't even know this guy but I'm so happy for him that he was able to turn his life around. He looks great and is an inspiration for all men in a similar boat to his first post!

[@mistadopeman]

Thats a real MF’er right there. Respect. Reminds me of what I did in my early twenties. Got tired of not getting dates. Got to the gym, got jacked. Learned to talk better and gained tons of confidence. Now I’ve evened back out to a more realistic and sustainable level. This guy is awesome.

[@DanielOcean-xn1ts]

I was a super simp who got a rejected 3 times straight, don’t have girl friend in real sense till 23. I got so desperate and went to the gym while observing my super attractive friend flirting with girls, what I find is that you don’t need tons of money or Brad Pitt level looks to talk to girls, i started approaching girls in gym, in my own university, etc. Sometimes on dating apps. Never had problems dating girls ever since.All you have to do is fraction of this guy did, show the capabilities and potential to change for the better.

[@strangerdaysss]

such an inspiration even for me a female. this guy just took every negativity and never dodged it instead went with it diligently without being sidetracked. standing ovation for him.

[@jdzazz4155]

So people in other countries take responsibility for themselves? I keep hearing folks in my country blame others for their lack of success. This guy sets a great example of how hard work pays off. Love this story, so inspiring!

[@aaacl08]

I’m Chinese growing up between China and the states and I can say that people in China are a lot more open to constructive criticism and they don’t take other’s comments as insults . Growing up I was always taught to be humble and learn the goods from others and always look at myself to see what I can improve on. Chinese cultures are developed based on the Confucius principle so that maybe why

[@badart3204]

@@aaacl08a big part of it is that the eastern mindset is more that anyone can be good at anything if they practice hard enough. Western mindset is more heavily emphasized on find your natural talent and only do that. Honestly it’s a very interesting parallel in how sports and academics are valued in which the west values sports much more and that genuinely is determined by birth while the east emphasizes academics which genuinely rewards effort. Idk it’s interesting

[@tanjw1222]

​@@badart3204 not every1 can take it. High expectation in everyway possible (no matter social, family or work) and hierarchy mindset are quite soul crushing. Look at the high suicide rate in east asia. Tho i have to say being an outsider/visitors can b pleasing bec of efficiency. My sister recently just move to canada due to work n she could'nt get use to how slow every1 works. LOL

[@doggoswampu1450]

@@tanjw1222 The "high suicide rate" in east asia is not exclusive to east asia. The U.S actually has a higher suicide rate than Japan, where the U.S is rank 31 whilst Japan is rank 49.

[@jasonnash4452]

this is what it looks like when a man truely wants to change. he doesnt try to make excuses or delay. he sees what he needs to do to make himself better and wants that to start as soon as possible. truely inspiring.

[@JamesW609]

my man went from salary man to k - pop star in 2 years respect

[@lawliet617]

Honestly what this guy went through is the best thing ever He got pure proper honesty from people and he took it well and committed to it and changed

[@wakaneut]

To be fair, asking the internet "Why can't I have a GF?" is basically "Hurt me plenty!"

[@ChromePyramid]

6:06 is a wild transformation I was worried there because in other pictures he seemed to be losing that smile he originally had but by the end his smile came back in the pictures

[@SYBxxxxxxxxx]

[@NicoENVT]

I've been diagnosed with BPD, ADHD, Anxiety, depression, insomnia, and so many other issues due to a really fucked up past. I've taken anti-depressants, and of course birth control because women in her 20s. Both medicines, alongside just being too sad to do anything ever, I gained a ton of weight during my life time. At my highest weight, I was 297lbs, earlier this year in April. I was SHOCKED and terrified. Never did I ever want it to start with a 3. Been working on getting more protein, more veggies, more water, more vitamins, walking everyday I count that shit DAILY, I'm almost at 300 miles now and Since April 22nd I've lost 61lbs. I'm really anxious in public either way, so I do go the treadmill route. The loud noises, harsh lights, and lack of privacy in public really bother me so I do prefer the comfort of my own room, but even so I feel wanting comfort is doable while still pushing yourself! Cooking for myself, cutting out sweets and limiting myself to 1 can of soda a day, and walking 3 miles a day has resulted in 61lbs weight lost. The treadmill feels better than any medicine, food, or therapist ever made me feel. Exercising and taking control of your health and your body is the best use of time you could possibly do. It's never a waste of time taking care of your health I'm really grateful more youtubers are posting about stuff like this. I think the biggest issue with mental health is in direct correlation with how dissconnected we are from our bodies now. If our bodies feel like shit, we'll feel like shit. But I can definitely say, with doing the workouts and having a routine it's made things so much easier, better, healthier and managable. My sleep is better, my skin is better, my confidence and attention span are better. Absolutely have done anything I could to improve things. Lowkey Asmon, if you ever want some completely random Q&A story time stuff hmu lmao. I am so passionate about comfy weight lost stuff at home and self love while still embrassing the inner pained parts of ourself, it'd be cool to talk to someone who's a lot more knowledgable and see if there's anymore I can add to my perspectives to continue to grow. either way, more health encouragment videos. Even if some of the stuff is rude, over all your health is the best thing you could take care of. Just do it with love and care.

[@carlesriberaberenguer7469]

You can try to eat the protein raw, including organs. Hard step but generous outcome.

[@GItoKeG]

This is such a good video man. If someone is genuinely asking for help. Help them. I don't understand how people get a kick out of talking shit when someone is being authentic. Like how fucking toxic are you? I think the rest of us feel this way but if another guy reaches out for help that brotherhood just takes over and you give him all the help he can get. Right now I'm like probably 20 pounds overweight. Years ago I realized I was pretty overweight. Got fit. That was the over the course of 7 years. Pre-covid I was a solid tank.... After being mentally and emotionally wrecked through being in lockdown and also unemployed to job hopping like crazy, I gained a lot of weight. For someone who has "been there"...twice. I'm motivated and inspired by this guy. Good fucking job for him. Any success he deserve because of the hard work he put in.

[@oof7734]

Youth in China are quite tall nowadays, also it depends on the region. Average height is around 5 ft 9 in the north. I’m 5ft 10 and last time I visited loads of young dudes were taller than me

[@artiepov512]

The most amazing thing he did (in my opinion) is how he can sepearate hate and actually take critics that ithe toxic ones didnt get him. Instead he took control of people and at the end most people end up cheering for him. . Can u imagine doing the same? My self esteem would be DESTROYED by hate comments, even trolls. Serious props to him! 😮

[@Jamoca5020]

HE simply did what he had to do. Amazing.

[@rose29huang]

Though I think people who giving him advice don't give a f on his happiness or life, they just simply want to bully and humiliate a guy to make themselves felt "not behind", he still took those great ones and truly upgraded himself, what a determined man.

[@1Invinc]

I think what is most impressive is he managed to wade through the 90% of insults, and find the 10% of genuine advice that he followed through completely. That's some serious determination and emotional maturity.

[@beewest5704]

I'm sure there were ones who genuinely wanted to help him.

[@imbadatdis]

Not really there were bullies when he posted the first post, but seeing him actually accepting the advices and put them to work and posting fed backs has really drawn ppls attention, after few fed backs no one was criticizing him anymore and really wanted to help him.

[@fjorddenierbear4832]

He went to Azshara alone and grinded for 2 years and practiced his verbal skills on charmed mermaids. Then he posted a photo of a different person, or he had ear surgery...

[@reemjessicagu]

Not really. Many people are genuinely helping him, especially Chinese girls. They taught him how to do skincare and style himself with limited budgets on clothes. They even encouraged him to improve his Mandarin Chinese pronunciation and do more talking vlogs and make a personal channel. This man has showed them out and gave them credits on his xiaohongshu homepage

[@arosbastion7052]

Remember: Fat shaming is morally right.

[@dzvw]

Fat shaming is a moral obligation.

[@karmalama6693]

thats part of it, have to remember the people also helping and supporting him

[@nicksosicc]

I agree, but it is also important to be constructive at the same time.

[@haydencantthink]

Fat shaming is mostly, logically inept as most instances it serves to demotivate people. It's also really pathetic to fat shame individuals if you're desperately trying to feel better about yourself. Everyones' body's are different and thus the storage of fat is also different. Some people store more fat than others in certain places, some people can have faster or slower metabolisms. Asmon for example likely has a very high metabolism and if his was slower, he would definitely be morbidly obese. But yeah, In conclusion: fat shaming is moronic and pathetic

[@dzvw]

@@haydencantthink I bet you think sloot-shaming is bad too, don't you?

[@RaiosSephi]

"Just be yourself" is no longer applicable.

[@MNMNT_OG]

The main reason why so many guys don't have a girlfriend is simply because they don't get in action to actually get one. Not too ugly, not too poor, not too short. Just insecure.

[@Shlrine]

Love this story. He shows and proves that if you improve yourself, you get what you deserve, no more, no less.

[@LxrdDaryus]

The internet really did a makeover for this guy and it was with good intentions

[@aureliusmarcusantoninus3441]

Homie made it!

[@Nekon3k0]

The 10% at least...😅

[@SriAnrod]

​@@Nekon3k0the 90% gave him motivation and 10% advice it's a win-win situation

[@atlas1542]

Right. 50% weight loss 50% plastic surgery or filter china is known for. Fat doesn’t make your eyelids higher or change ur nose bone 😂

[@hiraethgamer2819]

Stand up and clap for this man. What a fucking unit!

[@Will_Fong]

I was the same as him slightly below average look ,abit on heavy side , not obese but also not really fit, never had any gf, got so depress at one point i give up feeling sorry for myself, join martial art class, go swimming, learn latin dance, join local small charity groups, got very fit, drop 2 size of clothing, and behold found love of my life in a charity event. Now married, had a family with her since. It not impossible, only thing stopping u , is well you. Im not saying looks are only thing that is important, no but rather the mentality and outlook in life, if u take care your body, put yourself out there to meet people esp good ones not in clubs or dodgy places, the chances of finding a love for life are very high. Good luck folks i was once a shut in that keep waiting at home, feeling sorry for myself, once day i just decide NO.

[@kawaranai9743]

He LISTENED

[@TheCAB207]

What makes this even more impressive is that in China the ratio of guys to girls is nuts so it make it way harder than here in the west. Dude made huge improvements and im glad it all worked out for him.

[@danmbradley]

You’re In control of your own destiny.

[@The_Endless_Now]

"Believe media controls you if you don't act Nothing ventured, nothing gained But when we speak, listen and act There's nothing we can't change All things can change"

[@nuke2099]

Yes and no. Most of the time your own destiny is being controlled by forces outside of your control. Like the government and their decisions or your parents from a early age.

[@SquishyEggo]

Good for him. I wish him and his wife many happy and prosperous years.

[@cheatbluevii9123]

Dude came from salary man to k-pop stat

[@katechaste]

This dude is so awesome. He took the critique, good and bad, listened to it and improved his life

[@1983simi]

Wow, what a story. It takes a very upright and strong character to not just recoil in the face of personal criticism by strangers, but instead try to take something positive from it and push yourself into another direction. It's an insane and very admirable achievement without a doubt. That being said, from my life experience looks are really not the make or break for your rizz, no matter if you're a man or a woman. I've known both obese women and men who never were without a partner from their late teens. Many of them now have families and children. Let's not even start talking about style. I've also known plenty of people who couldn't have cared less about their drip, still they always found people to connect to. The question of whether you're going to find a gf/bf or even spouse really depends on two things. Are you a person sociable enough that people enjoy being around you and chilling with you, and not to a little extent in connection to this, are you a person who is at ease with yourself and thus carries some confidence and emotional stability. Do you like yourself? Are you okay yourself with how you look? Would you date you? And that last one is a big one, because if you have a realistic view of yourself, but you're okay with yourself you will be open to dating people of a similar level of attractiveness as you. However, if you're not really satisfied with yourself AND you're only eyeing people way out of your league... well... then you better take that personal criticism and try to push yourself upwards a few numbers in rating like this guy. Otherwise, you better acknowledge what you yourself are bringing to the table and accept that you cannot expect more of a potential partner either. That's basically the two options you have. But generally, if you don't like yourself at least a little finding a partner is very very hard and even those you find usually won't be those who are good for you. Entering a relationship with major insecurities is always a recipe for disaster. This guy though did everything right. He was longing for something he felt he couldnt get. He took people's feedback seriously but didn't let it put him down. He turned himself around, gained real confidence, and finally found love.

[@danielaivanova1498]

Not just the looks, though, the whole story shows that he's at least humble and disciplined, which is already more than one can say about a lot of people out there. Kuddos for him!

[@Kayin520]

I used to be 189 lbs. started training Brazilian Jiu Jitsu at the age of 23. 14 years passed, I am now a black belt and 149 lbs.

[@TheMrBonzz]

The irony of getting a very inspirational content from a lady lying on her own bed talking to a phone with a minimally edited video is pretty funny, props for the guy he's awesome.

[@Sofiaode18]

Irony? Does she have to be all dolled up or something? She’s just translating, homie.

[@fishleaf1093]

She could at least sit up.

[@AneXineohp]

6:40 legit story that has the same formula on what's posted on tumblr where it ends with everyone clapping because the mc is just so great lmao bro won, props to him and i bet his life moving forward is only up from there absolute stranger, obviously, but this is one of those moments of being proud to see fellow humans succeed.

[@8darktraveler8]

A major problem for most guys, is just bad advice from parents, especially mothers because most of them are obviously biased. You're a goodboy, you're handsome etc, just sets the average guy up for major suffering and a hard reality check. He finally got good advice, even if it was brutally honest in the beginning.

[@bradmangaming9993]

Dude literally became a anime character. “Oh I am the protagonists.”

[@FlynnFromTaiga]

Damn that's an inspiration, dude finished his quest. Losing weight and getting in shape was my best life decision. I feel great, my jeans are not tearing apart, i have a lot of energy, i don't have cravings for shitty stuff (well, except occasional urge to play Diablo 4), i feel confident, i don't have neck or knee pain. Stay safe,guys

[@Kakashihae111]

"a man of focus, commitment and sheer will"

[@Riku-Leela]

Dude looked like he de-aged 20 years holy gigachad

[@zen7RZ]

I have never been this excited to see someone else's progress in self-improvement. He's a prime example of what working on yourself does to you. And his determination & humility is GODLY! He didn't wallow in his shortcomings. And took the 10% constructive advice and blasted it through the roof in such a short time! Most people just look at the 90% hate comments, run with it, make excuses, reinforce their delusions with a fragile ego and drown in misery.

[@prinstyrio0]

Love this story, I had a similar transition but instead just was honest with myself. I barely showered, my hairstyle was bad, I was chubby, bad fashion and other stuff like bad posture or talking I did the "um" "uh" etc a lot, and generally had a negative outlook on things with a pretty cringe way of speaking to people, so similarly I sought out help but more online and studying people more popular. And honestly rather than give up or try double down and think "This is who I am", even personality wise, it's not what I wanted. I did go through depression at the time but changing myself helped get out of it, practicing a lot on getting rid of bad habits of speaking or what I hated about how I interacted with people. Now I'm not perfect nowadays or married, but it got me out of feeling miserable, disliking myself and feeling I had no chances for relationships I wanted. There's a lot you can do if you have an open mind, both from yourself and others, and listen to each advice. Whether people are hypocrites for giving you advice or not, don't compare what they say to them, compare what they say with yourself, and then ofcourse just be honest that your current self sucks and there's a different "you" that can be much better. Most importantly though, take it slow and don't rush, don't get overwhelmed by the changes and work on each one until it feels comfortable, a habit and apart of you.

[@lukashenrique4295]

this is some solid advice, I went through the exact kind of thing as u I'm thinking. had a lot of issues interacting with people, my self esteem was awful because I never rly liked how I looked and I used to copy how other people, famous people interacted to make it my personality but after many failures because it wasn't genuine, I've finally after some time of thinking and getting to understand myself through experiences, got to know how I really am and accept myself. when u accept yourself, everything changes. it's okay if you want to say "uhh" a lot, if that's how u really feel, and in my case, I did stop saying "umm" all the time. still do it ocasionally, which is normal, but most of the time my brain works better now, and to respond to people just comes naturally without having "to think" much. instead of thinking, if u just act, the brain after some interactions like these, will adapt, and it will feel natural to be yourself again. crazy how the brain works, it adapts quickly after u've made a decision to change. I was so weird I didn't even comment on youtube before. used to write stuff in here, then erase all of it. now I write college essays because that's how I express myself, and who cares if most people don't bother to read, someone might, and it's to that person where I'm aiming my messages.

[@rexe30k]

it's crazy how much a person can achieve in a short time when they don't create their own obstacle in their mind to do what's necessary and procrastinate (like what im doing while typing this comment), 2 years to achieve that is beyond admirable.

[@silver7198]

This dude is awesome, he showed everyone that complaining is not going to help you in any way, but acting on it will

[@mikebare9711]

He looks happier before.

[@Somerled_Pox]

People like this are GOATed Incredible man, I hope his life gets to be honest, fruitful and long

[@milmil5350]

He looks really good now! Amazing transformation. He went from looking mid to looking like a handsome chad. GG. Taking care of your health is truly all you need. ❤️

[@GamingDreamer]

1:20 or like Asmongold

[@madeyez]

In China, it is very practical to the point, it all about money. If you don't have a house and a car, don't even think about having a relationship.

[@Sm1th1997]

The best part about this is that he Truly got rid of his bad food habits, and slowly replaced them with good ones! If him and his Wife have children, they will be in good hands. Transformed his entire life with 2+ years of hard work!

[@Deviant-Blades]

Legit went from a 4 to a solid 8 and continued to climb, good on him.

[@gyul6380]

I think the funniest thing about this is some of the people who criticized him are probably also in his situation and then after 2 years, this guy changed and they are still at the start refusing to put effort 😂

[@dablueren]

I physically clapped after watching this. This is super inspirational and I’m genuinely happy for him. He took those comments like an absolute champ 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏😁🥹🫡

[@thedislikebutton3564]

bro said "bet"

[@i3looi2]

Dude . the transformation is uncanny .. From average Joe straight to Korean Drama actor.