Ladies, please, please, please learn how to be a whole person on your own BEFORE getting into a relationship. Without being a whole person and loving yourself, you do not have a hope of being able to love anyone else completely. Don't buy into the lie Disney sold us all. Happiness is not found in another person, a pill, a bottle, a baby, or a pot of gold. It can only come from yourself and finding your own path and your own peace. Please know that if anyone makes you feel bad, you don't need them it is unhealthy for you and walk away. It is better to have peace alone than be miserable with someone.
@Chommikenya11 күн бұрын
Thank you for saying that 💯❤️
@marshaaragon233611 күн бұрын
@Chommikenya many, many hard lessons learned the very hard way. If my tears and lessons can help just one....that is worth it all.
@DanataD18 күн бұрын
This is the saddest thing. I hope they love themselves now, low self esteem is terrifying.
@NatzTalk17 күн бұрын
Sometimes its not even low self esteem. Sometimes ppl play on your emotions/compassion/empathy. I am pretty self assured. I have insecurities, sure, everyone does but he exploited my empathy/compassion.
@TyraHigh17 күн бұрын
What’s sadder is that this can happen to confident women who are bamboozled by men that bait and switch to abusive behaviors.
@DanataD17 күн бұрын
@@TyraHigh Yes!
@gorgeousfrazier590317 күн бұрын
Child this is so sad 😢
@monamariin75017 күн бұрын
The parents and the envoirment didn’t do their job it is all their faults.
@crystaldiaz90118 күн бұрын
May all these women be blessed with love, peace and kindness. We are fighting a spiritual war and must stay strong.
@lallasultana103716 күн бұрын
Yes ❤
@ypanso14 күн бұрын
yes! previous generations were totally ok with all of this bs
@mmxw229417 күн бұрын
This is just abuse. This really explains why most of them I meet think that they can talk to me however they want and then get cut off immediately
@Livingrentfreeinyomind7716 күн бұрын
I will never speak to them again, ever 😂
@bunnybeetle130417 күн бұрын
interactions like these are why i just block and delete at the first red flag now.
@masquerade88217 күн бұрын
That's the way to be. I love seeing people stand up for themselves!
@Black2bProud15 күн бұрын
Yes protect your peace , I learnt the hard way to stop giving men the benefit of the doubt .
@themalawiandiner18018 күн бұрын
So much shocking stuff, to the point of blocking your own father!! I hope this video will give any woman going through any of this, the strength to leave, staying only crushes one's self esteem even further. No woman deserves such treatment.
@Chommikenya18 күн бұрын
I agree! No woman deserves any of this Thank you for watching ❤️
@cosmicgirl728816 күн бұрын
Why do these men feel the need to point out their girl is fat, or unattractive, or how prettier their exes were when you’re the one with this girl?! LOL. I would’ve told them I guess you can’t do better than me huh?. Never. Just never, that’s why self worth is IMPORTANT Ladies!
@sammyz4eva16 күн бұрын
Because the ex didn’t put up with his BS 😂 then he got with anyone just to not feel alone
@cosmicgirl728816 күн бұрын
@@sammyz4eva oh heck yeah! I believe you! Ain’t no way in hell I’d put up with that either.
@ВаряВетренная15 күн бұрын
Because they wanna see only perfection
@carriebell35666 күн бұрын
Because they don’t want them to see who they are actually are and leave their worthless asses.
@hampstercrazy16 күн бұрын
Suddenly, my husband’s biggest flaw of leaving his laundry on the floor is no big deal.
@amandal145015 күн бұрын
Mix it with his clean clothes. Mine tried this trick on me and after talking to him about this 3 times, i just picked them and put them on his side of the closet. He woke up very fast from that child slumber
@Alixir122814 күн бұрын
Their stories do not justify weaponized incompetence.
@tan8928414 күн бұрын
Nah that’s still bad 😢
@ItsAllWavyBaby11 күн бұрын
Weaponized incompetence is not a flex…😢
@hampstercrazy11 күн бұрын
Y’all are too serious! Every couple of days he eventually puts them in the hamper and helps with the laundry (the right way). I was just pointing out that when you start to focus on trivial things in a relationship, you lose site of how lucky you are. The boys in this video are a mess, a man who forgets to to something once in a while is not like the boys in this video.
@LedyE15 күн бұрын
That mother in law was so real for telling that girl her son is terrible and he won't change
@loyaltyb7105210 күн бұрын
Yes, I applaud the mother for not coddling. I pray the young lady has found self preservation because his actions prior should have been enough before his mother intervened and she still stayed after. Men don't care about how they abuse and rarely want help or even see anything wrong with how they treat women. With that said, we need to find peace within so we don't accept their disrespect, because they definitely or rarely accept it from women and they shouldn't!
@sunnysunshine627117 күн бұрын
I don't know what disturbs me more....the stories...or the laughter of the story tellers.
@DanataD17 күн бұрын
@@sunnysunshine6271 Right. I was thinking the same. Then I figured the laughing was a coping mechanism. Laughing to keep from crying.
@JadeW111117 күн бұрын
It could be disbelief as they realize the stupidity that they endured
@dijauneaiymuan983417 күн бұрын
Well they’re laughing bc they are over it and they’ve learned a lesson . If you think back about a situation that hurt you once and you get mad and angry all over again . That means you’re not over it . I joke and laugh about all the bs I put up back then too bc like wtf 😂😂 it’s really just us reflecting in disbelief and laughing bc we’re over it. I still can’t believe half of the things I went through.
@dijauneaiymuan983417 күн бұрын
@@DanataD it’s opposite love lol I do it all the time. If you think about a situation and it makes you mad and sad all over again you’re not over it. BUT if you can think about it and chuckle then yeah you’ve healed and moved on. I do it all the time . Cause wtf was that 😂
@ToniaAlex1316 күн бұрын
Exactly, happens to me all the time. The realization of how stupid I was and since I'm now over it, it's funny to some extent. @@dijauneaiymuan9834
@butterscotch208617 күн бұрын
Yet there are men complaining about women’s high standards all over social media smh
@s0me0ne1se15 күн бұрын
I think both are looking in the wrong direction when choosing partners…
@KurosakiLuvar0115 күн бұрын
@@s0me0ne1seboth my black azz. That’s not what the original poster said so shut tf up.
@keithsmith531015 күн бұрын
The most basic standards would help them avoid this stuff though 🤣. Excuses, excuses. Put character first, and date ppl that actually like you. I know, that's too much to ask.
@NileGoddess14 күн бұрын
@@s0me0ne1seit’s not both men expect women to be angels yet they are far from angels women try their best to be angels for men
@s0me0ne1se14 күн бұрын
@@NileGoddess you’re talking exclusively about your own experience and your own perspective. How old are you, 15? Plenty of other men look for women with values and they’ve been crushed by girls who date several guys at the time, humiliate them, verbally and physically abuse them, etc. Look for the Courtney Clenney case and figure it out for yourself.
@SisterKittyD17 күн бұрын
To any FEMALES reading these comments, PLEASE look up "breadcrumbing" and "dread games" or "how to dread her" or something to that effect. Listen ladies....these men are TEACHING each other to do this to us! It's a game to them!!! 😮😢
@GlockPeace17 күн бұрын
Facts! I’ve heard the conversations amongst them. My own son in a long term relationship had his friends encouraging him to cheat. Like what’s wrong with men.
@s0me0ne1se15 күн бұрын
@@GlockPeaceto be fair I was once with a sick man like those, but healthy men never “follow” those psychopathic advices or behaviors.
@ypanso14 күн бұрын
@@GlockPeace everything is wrong with them.
@kalonecho18 күн бұрын
the audacity is unreal that's why they stayed it didn't seem real
@fruitypopwhickle680618 күн бұрын
100%! My ex said much of the vile things the first lady listed. And when I confronted him he would tell me to calm down and that I can't take a joke. The insanity and audacity truly is on an unbelievable level.
@oldmanemptyhouse765917 күн бұрын
It's a new trend we're women read stuff from anonymous reddit posters while doing makeup. Every time they get confronted about it they say they're just rasing awareness. So yeah a bunch of it is fake and just drama for toxic chicks to get all emotional about.
@thepineapple843417 күн бұрын
Just wanted to post the same.Some behaviour is so crazy that one can’t believe that actually just happened
@zucchinikindaslayed16 күн бұрын
@@oldmanemptyhouse7659The cope in this one is unreal
@tbyrdrandom16 күн бұрын
This! It isn't always low self-esteem. Sometimes, the audacity is just shocking.
@Wilkies_Wife15 күн бұрын
This speaks volumes as to how low self esteem can affect ppl.
@loyaltyb7105210 күн бұрын
Also, how people behave when they feel like they have the power. It takes a solid person to have power and NOT misuse it!
@Wilkies_Wife10 күн бұрын
@@loyaltyb71052 I agree.
@carriebell35666 күн бұрын
Yes!
@Khanyotoo17 күн бұрын
Wow people put up with far too much BS in relationships 😮😮😢! Low self esteem is a problem and can be damaging. We all need to keep working on ourselves and love ourselves more.
@laceysaije837116 күн бұрын
I really believe it's bad relationships with their fathers is why
@Halo4beatsB0214 күн бұрын
Girls will put up with a lot of things if the guy is attractive enough
@nickim27017 күн бұрын
Yup and the terrifying thing is you could think you are strong, confident, independent and all that jazz and next thing you know you are flat on your face, a broken disillusioned mess. All it takes is that one bad situation or person.
@shanicrystal867116 күн бұрын
Absolutely 💯 this is me now one bad turn one bad choice
@courtneymiszczak641317 күн бұрын
Literally the most beautiful women 😭😭 these insecure BOYS
@Livingrentfreeinyomind7716 күн бұрын
Women need to familiarize themselves with the block feature. Block and delete at the first sign.
@cup_o_TMarie18 күн бұрын
Oh darlings I’ve been through some shameful shit as well🤦♀️ Sending love & healing to you all🤍🤍🤍
@alicec.619516 күн бұрын
Ex 1: I found out he was education himself online with videos and forums on how to psychologically abuse me. Ex 2: I found out that during the 3 year relationship he was on dating apps pretending to be a woman to talk dirty to men, using pictures of real women in his life such as co-workers, ex girlfriend, friends' wives, etc. The second one is very recent and traumatized me for life, no idea how I will get out of this.
@matinaki164416 күн бұрын
OmG he was a psychopath, hope you are alright! You dodged a bullet!
@carriebell35666 күн бұрын
😳 Whatever you do, please make sure their title in your life remains forever.
@Mgardener784917 күн бұрын
We all need to start trusting our intuition. When it says leave them alone.
@LiaVargas-p8r10 күн бұрын
There needs to be more education on this from mother to daughter so that we understand this. Unfortunately they always teach us to not trust our intuition.
@Latte-dq1tb17 күн бұрын
I hope parents see this video and teach their kids form a young age to love and respect themselves.
@blossomingfreesia18 күн бұрын
the way this is making my blood boil
@jonquilgemstone17 күн бұрын
The women: *actual torture and near-death experiences* The men: "She paid slightly more attention to other men than I was comfortable with"
@someusername412916 күн бұрын
Ya the men had me rolling my eyes. Him:"She wouldn't drop her male friends for me" Her: "he chased me with a knife and hit me in the head with a frying pan" Men are a menace to civilization.
@Livingrentfreeinyomind7716 күн бұрын
I was looking for this comment.
@Da_bear-ij9gm15 күн бұрын
Literally especially the dude who got mad that his girl received any attention even when she rejected the guy. All about their egos
@mabel970114 күн бұрын
Biggest lesson for a woman: NEVER tolerate bs and disrespect from a man. Leave the first time. Be “the one that got away”.
@courtneymiszczak641317 күн бұрын
These dudes hate these women 😭
@Halo4beatsB0214 күн бұрын
I had a friend that was in relationships with girls that seemed like they hated him. He was good looking though so the girls might have put up with his antics just because they like the way he looked.
@LiaVargas-p8r10 күн бұрын
Yes I was going to say a lot of guys actually have severe mother wounds and they just hate women. They’re trying to take out their wounds and hurts from their mothers on women.
@DevilsParadox4518 күн бұрын
Bless these women
@katiecurtis973014 күн бұрын
All of these men sound like they need to be in jail for psychological abuse.
@loyaltyb7105210 күн бұрын
13 yrs ago I discovered the actual meaning of cluster b personality. I wrote on so many creators pages to gather petitions to get a law for deliberate mental abuse. It's sad the majority of men go through life mentally destroying women. We need self love but when we don't it's no excuse that so many men seek us to destroy us!
@user-yk9sk7pg6v15 күн бұрын
'... bear in mind, he was almost bald' 🤣🤣🤣
@sewarkilani35815 күн бұрын
Meanwhile me getting rid of man when I don't like his tone when he speaks to me 😂😂😂
@suigeneris519317 күн бұрын
Begged him to brush his teeth?????🥲😭😭😭
@hollyroseXOX17 күн бұрын
😂
@Black2bProud15 күн бұрын
Someone of these were really bad and these men were very manipulative but not brushing his teeth floored me 😂 cause sis why ?!? And how did she even kiss him 😂
@brooketaylor79917 күн бұрын
Tried to trick me into taking an abortion pill and when that didn’t work said he wish me and my baby died. My baby came prematurely, spent 6 weeks in the Nicu, grew to 2.3lbs then passed away. Have several more but too embarrassed to make a TikTok.
@SM7SM7SM717 күн бұрын
Oh my gosh I’m so so sorry for the loss of your baby 😢 I hope you take time to heal. This is so hard to deal with.
@brooketaylor79916 күн бұрын
@@SM7SM7SM7 thank you and it’s day by day. 🌹
@nataliaalfonso266214 күн бұрын
And you STAYED?😮 I mean….. thank god the lord didn’t let the baby stay in such a hellish life. The little soul went up to heaven and hopefully was reborn to human parents. Not a demon and a doormat. You were….. going to let your child be around someone that wanted it to die????????????
@brooketaylor79914 күн бұрын
@@nataliaalfonso2662 walk a footstep in my shoes babygirl. I pray for better for all of you.
@b.m.jmooren397313 күн бұрын
I am so sorry for you...losing a child is the most hurtful experience a woman van experience. You are worthy of a lovable man with a good heart. Much love to you and your Angel baby
@IntellectuallyKurious13 күн бұрын
If that was my daughter calling to tell me, i need to venmo her BF $$ for food, or she's not gonna eat??? My response would be "Send me your location, I'm coming to get you. we got food in the house." Girls/young women need to know early what abuse looks and sounds like."
@Chommikenya13 күн бұрын
Absolutely agree with that!!! I'm coming to get you... Thank you for watching ❤️
@Wandfigur18 күн бұрын
I didn't know this was a trend. Ive got soooo many fuvked up and absolutely bonkers ones!
@eileenhatton524017 күн бұрын
Right!? These ladies are brave for sharing.
@shanicrystal867116 күн бұрын
I’d be embarrassed to share what I’ve put up with!
@perfectimperfectness351914 күн бұрын
I understand the laughing as a woman who has stayed. You look back and you can say like one did, wtf was wrong with me. You can look back now with peace and truly acknowledge and appreciate the journey 💓
@girlhh390816 күн бұрын
I hope all these women learned not to put up with this crap again just to avoid being single. They were never loved by these narcissists. Be strong out there. 😊
@wildhalo276912 күн бұрын
As painful as this is to watch, I can not imagine the pain they felt going through all of that. But it was incredibly brave of them to go on social media to reveal this.
@amandal145015 күн бұрын
Girls girls😮😢we can be too sweet, too kind that we lose ourselves sometimes unknowingly😢
@Mbalenhle_Salvatoris17 күн бұрын
This is just heartbreaking 💔
@samco6317 күн бұрын
Ugh. The second girl reminded me of me - I stayed through breaks and don’t question his disappearing because he spoiled me and pays for things - thinking I can’t get any better in my late 30s. I need some self worth
@lcct63517 күн бұрын
This was really The most normal of this video. He's paying The bills, so os better that most of this that have violence, abuse, and poor higine.
@samco6317 күн бұрын
@@lcct635 that’s true I guess. Though I guess the emotional abuse of them leaving over night and cheating does wreck your self esteem after a while
@foodie_nightos16 күн бұрын
@@lcct635it's not like she would literally starve if he doesn't pay for her... Unless she worked as an esčôrt for too long(puts up with men for money), why would she put up with that.
@samco6315 күн бұрын
@@foodie_nightos yea exactly; that was more my point too - they wear you down and make you think you rely on them So you end up excusing bad behaviour. Was a wake-up call for me
@modisedaeswatiniprincess694416 күн бұрын
I dont wanna be mean/disrespectful but most of these are happening as a result of lack of self esteem and respect. How do you go back to someone who talks to you like that? Treats you like you mean nothing? I wish more of you could get some dignity and self love. HEAL before you go into these relationships. When you love yourself you wont allow anyone speak to you in that tone or cheat on you multiple times. Yall dont leave these trash men because you view yourself so lowly that you genuinely think nobody can love you better or that you deserve better. Not a single human on Earth who doesn't believe that they're bottom of the barrel scrap would allow people to treat them like trash.
@TheDfg201115 күн бұрын
My exact thoughts. Sorry but thats the harsh truth.
@redrumblond15 күн бұрын
Some people aren't taught self esteem or learn how to love themselves because their parents or parent didn't love themself. Also abuse and trauma at a young age are contributing factors to staying in these types of relationships. Obviously when these women realized what was going on and finally learned to have self respect they got out. It's easy to judge if you've always had confidence and self esteem but those things have to be taught from a young age.
@lydia-jamilabeloued704816 күн бұрын
omg. can we all please stop putting men on a pedestal. I'm so sorry for all the women in the video. It's not your fault. But we just need to stop giving them so much attention. THEY NEED TO WORK FOR US. We are the prize OKAY? These bare minimum low effort men. I hope no other women opens the door for them. Let them dry out!
@Alixir122814 күн бұрын
We are brainwashed, unfortunately.
@Halo4beatsB0214 күн бұрын
@Alixir1228 u say until the 6 ft 8 giga chad Greek god come into your view, then all your morals and values go out the window.
@FearfullyandWonderfullyMade.16 күн бұрын
Your personal friendship and relationship with Jesus is the most important relationship you will ever have in your entire life. He is love and He is the author of healing. Never allow anyone to come between this friendship. When I was unsaved and undelivered, I used to go through all kinds of turmoil in my relationships. There’s an unseen realm and a daily spiritual battle happening for our lives. Saved people will understand this message. The hate we are seeing in these stories are demonic. Protect your mind, body and soul. If God wants you married, nothing can stop Him. Not everyone is called to marriage.
@kleaflume8 күн бұрын
I agree 100% it's rare to hear someone who gets this. He actually intended for us to do as he did when Jesus walked the earth he did not marry. He only permitted marriage to those who could not do as he did. Who needed a partner. As a way to not perish with the desires of the flesh. To me, this means that because God knows each of us more than we could ever fathom he knows which ones of us are strong enough or will be strong enough to do as he did. I believe that God intended for the majority to do as he did. I mean that is the real goal here, to be like Christ. but the enemy has the world convinced that marriage is in fact for everyone when it is not and he packaged it up in Disney movies and has us idolizing the idea of it instead of seeking after the true Author of love Jesus
@meghanfaith218517 күн бұрын
my ex said once that I was like "having a really cool older sister." ....
@cosmicgirl728816 күн бұрын
🤢
@amandal145015 күн бұрын
💔oh gosh
@sakshiverma765917 күн бұрын
I stayed even after he told me we have no future. I stayed even when he promise me to take someplace and went there with his friends instead. I stayed even when after 9months of being together, he said he can't say I love you, and he is still planning to say it and need some time. I stayed even when he ignored me in front of his friends, the same one he boasted about me. People can do worst and still manage to make you think that maybe you are asking for too much and too perfect. I wish he gets what he did to me. Hope, with time, I heal
@nomessnostress18 күн бұрын
Wow I thought I've accepted some bs before but yeesh
@beautifullyblessedandnatur745717 күн бұрын
The second story had me rolling with the curling iron 🤣
@MalahaSmith18 күн бұрын
Oh my goodness this is Ashley crazy honestly, we deserve better, but we also have to demand it but also you don’t need to demand it. If it’s from a good man, he’s gonna give it to you either way. He’s gonna stay here and loving to you to all things that is well, as soon as they treat you like shit cause if they do do it again if you don’t keep doing it
@TheDivineblessin16 күн бұрын
Damn….I didn’t have exs in my early 20s I had people who think they were my boyfriend 😂😂😂 I always had a back up man so when nonsense like this happened I blocked and deleted I’m out…I been married now with 2 kids 😂
@instagamrr13 күн бұрын
Idk how these women were so strong. Any one of these incidents would have wrecked me 😭
@nicolehunt582717 күн бұрын
This can't be real😮 Im rendered speechless 😯
@missmadelinesadventures327816 күн бұрын
It's up to us to keep our standards high
@yepimtray60116 күн бұрын
No one should go through these things
@alexs84737 күн бұрын
Big hugs to all the girlies out there living this way, I support you and pray for your escape and glowup. ❤
@cruellasdog17 күн бұрын
When im in a hate myself and worship men competition and my competition is a straight women
@shanicrystal867116 күн бұрын
Heavy on it
@LiminalDrag16 күн бұрын
Good god, psychopathy is not that rare after all. Some of these are full on sadistic psychopaths.😱
@fruitsarelife707317 күн бұрын
Jesus Christ 😢😢 That’s pure abuse.
@Sunny_45615 күн бұрын
After listening to the women’s story hearing the guy talk just made my blood boil
@hollyroseXOX17 күн бұрын
in todays episode of THE AUDACITY
@LedyE15 күн бұрын
Off topic but I admire all of these women ability to put on lipstick while talking
@CleverandClassy14 күн бұрын
It's crazy to think that people put up with that. Trauma bonding is real. So it's true what they say, narcissists don't like to shower and brush their teeth. It's scary that 1 out of 6 people are narcissists!
@LiaVargas-p8r10 күн бұрын
I just want to say, all these women are so beautiful. I’m so sorry guys guys have gone through this. Seriously breaks my heart the shyt that we are going through. This is the reason why us women become more masculine… and are then still criticized for it. This world needs healing. The unfortunate thing is guys don’t care to heal. It’s their last resort after ruining multiple lives and don’t realize they are the common denominator
@Chommikenya10 күн бұрын
This world needs healing for sure!!! Thank you for watching ❤️
@Led_By_Christ15 күн бұрын
Woman to Women we need to stop using social media to vent like this; say less God Bless 🙏🏾
@totesmcgoats43517 күн бұрын
I love when the best friends share these together.
@ThobileMacaws5 күн бұрын
Horrifying stories... The 4th lady's husband was a worse case of a sick narcissist.
@mr.melontoyou15 күн бұрын
4:31 the guys a monster! Everytime i feel sad about the way my ex treated me and im in public, im not good at hiding my emotions but, what i have noticed is every time i feel down a guy will hit on me! As if i want to be hit on when im feeling down.
@perfectimperfectness351914 күн бұрын
How did these people get access to us in the first place
@kailimagdalena15 күн бұрын
I just wanna throw this out there for anyone watching, please don't drink when you're taking antibiotics! It sounds ridiculous, but it can both affect how you act when you're drunk AND make the antibiotics less effective. It's not that way for every person or with every type of antibiotic, but the issues are common enough that the general guidance is not to drink on antibiotics. LOVE YOU ALL & don't let yourselves get tied down by losers! We deserve better!!💖
@paulagabriele351213 күн бұрын
Single life is awesome life.
@lcct63517 күн бұрын
That's why Man complain today about some women having standarts, só many took everything for tem that they because aloud to do whoever.
@EileenC-n3n17 күн бұрын
You should have never put up with anything you just said in your relationships. Just don’t put up with any crap from a man ever.
@juca165814 күн бұрын
You stayed & had more kids with him? Ooh no
@lalywindland576412 күн бұрын
Her first child was disabled and she probably couldn't afford to leave...
@keithsmith531015 күн бұрын
I just love the fact that "and i still stayed" is included in the challenge 🙏🏾💯
@starlingswallow16 күн бұрын
6:52 THIS is DARVO!!!!
@fireponyyy15 күн бұрын
Staying after he got an 18 yo pregnant damn. No judgement but my heart breaks for us. Thank god for deliverance fr. I stayed after his friends made racist jokes to me about killing black women and my x said nothing (I am a bw..)
@MelanatednNature18 күн бұрын
Wtf
@Chommikenya18 күн бұрын
Yeah!!!!!
@paulagabriele351213 күн бұрын
Aaaand what we learned today? Have self love!
@Chommikenya13 күн бұрын
Absolutely! 💯
@moviemusicjunkie0076 күн бұрын
Girls run!!! You deserve so much better!!!! It's your time u don't need a player !!!
@rocketchico.214916 күн бұрын
This shouldn’t be shocking. Next do a video on things my husband did and I’m still married
@ashleyw616011 күн бұрын
The laughing may seem dumb or weird, but yall know the saying, "u gotta laugh about it to keep from crying about it"? These are good examples! I know exactly how they feel, but we gotta know our worth & love ourselves more than that yall! My ex messed me up so bad & made me feel so low about myself (while also abusing me in every way possible)...8 yrs later, I still struggle w self confidence & worth, but I'm on my healing journey, thankfully! It's a lot better than it used to be bc my current husband loves & respects all of me for me(ofc, that's mutual). That's the way it should be...don't let anyone convince u that u don't deserve that, bc U DO!!! 💖
@kushinaa1XD4 күн бұрын
Those men's obsession with weight is crazy to me.
@opulence_prime17 күн бұрын
The friend asking questions is the friend we all need and need to be. Homegirl was either lying or still not taking it as seriously as it is. She wasn’t laughing bcus she was embarrassed she’s laughing bcus she likes mess and think it’s cute.
@AmazMe111117 күн бұрын
The ignorance of these stories! I’m sorry ladies 🙄🤦🏽♀️ I would not stay for such BS‼️‼️‼️ EVER‼️
@ameee16 күн бұрын
the brushing teeth one is the one that got me. omg. the fact that i stayed with my ex for as long as i did and he was doing that shit too ICK
@WaterKatara15 күн бұрын
Honestly I can't believe these women put up with this...Not sure how these horrible signs are not dealt with immediately.
@loyaltyb7105210 күн бұрын
Agreed but I know many that are treated this way and still stayed/currently staying!
@peanutbutteryummyyummy12 сағат бұрын
They were all younger, people somehow are afraid of the unknown then and stick around
@korynnef739216 күн бұрын
I feel bad for the guy too 😭 a good reminder that abuse and manipulation exists in both sexes Also, for the people who wanna say he's just controlling, some people have different boundaries and thats ok. I sure as hell wouldn't put up with that if i was in his shoes and im a girl
@Kate-el5xg6 күн бұрын
Never choose your love for someone else over love for yourself.
@Chommikenya5 күн бұрын
Oooooh my this is deep & I looove love love it!!!
@Zuleyka12115 күн бұрын
The curling iron story was too funny 😂 😂😂
@teziraabura72916 күн бұрын
"And i still stayed" 😂😂😂
@collettelefebvre839217 күн бұрын
An X on N/Y Eve 🤮VOMITED in my Leather Handbag ,,,,, & I Still Stayed 🙄
@minas.83112 күн бұрын
Let’s not forget we women didn’t get rights to work and be paid till recently only men got to eat
@loyaltyb7105210 күн бұрын
So sad to see what life looks like for women when men are in control. Just because you have the power doesn't mean you should abuse with it!
@tajakjejtam13 күн бұрын
The least lady - my God, you can sink in her blue 💙 eyes
@Piriyagengaram14 күн бұрын
Thanks for reminding me and bringing to light that my marriage was abusive as well.... Because many of the things mentioned here were done to me...
@bellobel166210 күн бұрын
How did u managing with him not brushing his teeth 😂😂😂
@Chommikenya10 күн бұрын
Things people tolerate!!!
@KarenA-d2e17 күн бұрын
My guy said I'd be hot if i were 10 lbs heavier 😢 nothing is good enough for some peole and yeah I'm skinny but i can't put weight on like everyone else. Nothing i can do about that
@loyaltyb7105210 күн бұрын
Yes there is something you can do, get rid of the person you're claiming as a boyfriend and learn to live yourself. Next time anyone comes at you this way, you'll identify it as disrespect and leave their company!
@yamkelamajikela191510 күн бұрын
Deeeeeengggg watching what these reeeeeally attractive ladies went through, is just... Idk. I know physical beauty doesn't maintain a relationship, but it really makes me wonder what the people that mistreated them actually looked like 😭😭bruh my jaw is on the floor.
@majas8413 күн бұрын
All these are definitions of narcissism, please look it up girls!!!!
@ReginaelizabethFrancis17 күн бұрын
The things the woman be saying are terrifying. The ones told by the first and second dude are just dumb lol.
@s0me0ne1se15 күн бұрын
No, both are abuse.
@moviemusicjunkie0076 күн бұрын
As longer u have to suffer!!!!! You stay in suffering! The more u stay the more u loose your self worth and feeling strong feelings- run go u are better without HIM
@Chommikenya5 күн бұрын
Ooooh I agree with you
@moviemusicjunkie0075 күн бұрын
Sometimes we can not get away...but we have the self responsibility to leave❤️we we make ourselves a victime...and don't change something it comes to a point when it's selfsabotage
@anastasiab-x2t17 күн бұрын
I dont know why this is so sad but also so funny at the same time loool
@yamkelamajikela191510 күн бұрын
So real. Idk if I was laughing in disbelief or what