Things That Just BROKE People

[@alexcorvin3612]

"People" who blame victims of sexual abuse (or any kind of abuse) deserve worst things to happen to them.

[@E7XEE]

I hate people with a burning passion that blame VICTIMS for being assaulted as if they wanted this

[@anyonenoone9968]

Yeah, it's so sh*t that victims are blamed like they did it themselves. The only person to blame is the criminal, not the person who actually got hurt.

[@Floofy_3421]

My sisters church teacher says stuff like that.For example she says kids who get r@ped its *their* fault.Its absolutely disgusting.

[@SammyLammy1D]

Yeah. I was sexually assaulted by my close friend. Yes, I was at his house. Yes, we were home alone. But it wasn't my fault. I thought he was my friend. He knew I am not interested in guys and I thought we had established boundaries. Unfortunately, a lot of people told me it was my fault/it wasn't that serious, and I did not report him. He dated a 13 year old a year later (he was 19), and he did end up r***** her. I am no longer feeling like it's my fault, but I can't help but think that if people had listened to me and helped me report what he did to me, he would not have been able to r-word that child a year later.

[@ADPROFUNDIS123]

​@@Floofy_3421another reason im an atheist added to the list

[@Idk-uk2oq]

@@SammyLammy1D I’m so glad you no longer see it as fault of your own. You may think that if you’d had support to report him then he wouldn’t have attacked that child but how do you know he wouldn’t have gotten away with it even if he was reported? The ratio of reported cases to criminals behind bars is depressingly disproportionate. Sometimes you may feel like “oh if only I had reported it, maybe it would’ve been prevented” but nobody can be certain of that. That vile assailant is evidently an awful person that no amount of good or punishment can change. The fact you’re able to share this shows how resilient you are, you didn’t get the support you deserved after being subjected to such an appalling crime and yet you have the courage to share your experience with others, it’s commendable. I hope you’re doing better now, I hope you’re surrounded by people who support and care for you and if not, I hope that soon you will be :)

[@jimmyanngladfelter9659]

My grandmother was on hospice care, surrounded by her family and the nurse called time of death but she was still breathing. I snatched away his stethoscope to listen to her heart and heard her last heartbeat. It was profound, the sound of her heart that used to lull me to sleep as a child, and I was the one to hear the last beat, profound

[@maze_runner098]

she sounds very sweet may her soul rest in peace

[@jimmyanngladfelter9659]

@@maze_runner098 thank you, I appreciate that.

[@mohsinAli-hq1nd]

f***, that's beautiful

[@_thewildwolf_]

All of these stories are so sad and heartbreaking. But at the same time, and I know it might be selfish of me, it’s nice to know that I’m not the only that suffers from the loss of a loved one so badly. I lost one of my best friends in a car accident. It was sudden. No warning. One minute, she’s driving and everything’s fine, the next, swerved into another car and instantly dead. Now, we’re only six feet apart but can never hug or joke again. We were going to graduate this year. Now she’ll never get to. I think that’s what breaks me down the worst. The fact that our lives were just beginning and hers got cut short.

[@nekomataumbreon]

Regarding the first story, a properly run test can detect meningitis before the symptoms even show up. Those doctors very clearly half-assed it at best. Edit: I know some types can go undetected for a long while, but there are also types that can easily be detected

[@car17yn71]

I went to the ER TWICE in 5 hours. They did blood work the first time and the doctor said it was all normal and that I had the stomach virus going around. When I returned a few hours later, they didn't even put me in a bed. They put me in the consult room. The doctor came in. I asked for a CT Scan. He said that the blood work was normal, so he had no reason to do a CT scan. He sent me home AGAIN. 2 hours later, I went to a different ER. They did a CT scan. They sent me to the "big" university hospital in the area. I had emergency hernia surgery.

[@juliebiggerbear7300]

Story time. On my daughter’s third birthday, I originally had half the day off, and the plan was to pick her up and have a fun little party at home with me her my sister. As I was pulling out of the parking lot from work, this feeling came over me that picking her up right away was a bad idea, so I followed the bad idea, and got myself something to eat, followed by a trip to the store to get things for her birthday celebration. I picked her up around 4 PM, and when we got home, this is what we saw. Me and my sister and my daughter lived in a garden level apartment. The parking for our building was up an embankment just above our windows. My upstairs neighbors came home, and accidentally hit the gas instead of the breaks, and launched the car over the curb and sidewalk, down the embankment, through our living room window, and into the chair I always sat in. We would have been there, but for two things: my sister getting off work late, and that feeling I had. Premonition is a thing, and when it pokes you in the side about something, the best thing is to pay head to it! It kept my daughter and I out of danger that day. And you couldn’t pay me enough to live in another garden level apartment!

[@chici8566]

Can we appreciate how Kyutie’s makeup is always spot on! 😮😮😮

[@DiabolicGoth]

Right?!

[@samamerie]

her lipstick doesnt go on the curve on her upper lip right 😭😭😩😩

[@dumnerdsdumbness2470]

​@@samamerieyeah she kinda draws it above her lips also?

[@poopyedit1899]

@@samamerie that’s her style..

[@chici8566]

I don’t know a lot about makeup but I think she looks beautiful regardless

[@anonymousina9210]

People have no common sense to blame a literal victim for something horrible that happened to them

[@kakeyshagarcia3683]

The first story is really sad but we need to remember doctors aren't perfect. They make mistakes too. I feel like maybe the test came out wrong this is why you should always ask for a second opinion just to be sure. I am really sorry that he lost his fiance

[@mads7262]

I kind of dislike what kyutie said about them. It wasn't that they neglected the patients, the tests came back negative, they couldn't have done anything.

[@lucidfangirl1030]

@@mads7262 they still failed her. The tests failed her, whatever

[@tiffanyhaddox7499]

This kind of thing is, sadly extremely common in America for women. 😢

[@chloeeng6811]

I feel really bad for him

[@carssontoxin]

Kyutiee tried her best not to cry..her eyes looked like she was on verge to cry

[@lauralove528]

Oh my gosh. The last story made me tear up. That was so sweet of the kid.

[@Amberlily9207]

I’m just curious if the doctor says your fine and sends you home then you die does your family have the right to sue?

[@nancyomalley6286]

I would think so!

[@Mayoooooooooooooo]

I would hope so. that is really f'd up

[@PrettysureyouneedaHug]

First story: someone needs to get fired.

[@valeriebrathwaite8541]

It's possible to get a negative in the first few hours. Sometimes even takes a day to register. But they could have kept her for observations.

[@nancyomalley6286]

@@valeriebrathwaite8541 *THEY SHOULD HAVE!*

[@chenelagerwall409]

The story with the cops. They treat you so nice as a kid till your 18 then your a cashcow ready to be milked by the "justice system"

[@Mayoooooooooooooo]

I woke up feeling really numb. thanks for making me feel something, even if that something is the burning desire to punch somebody in the stomach.

[@sxmmersnxw8829]

“Seeing someone who you have complete faith in, just turn on you and actively try to hurt you” my ex bsf

[@karissa-tkacz]

mine too

[@kallinskai1427]

The whole switch up situation was this whole day with my over a decade best friend switching up on myself and hurting me pretty badly

[@nancyomalley6286]

The first story-Sounds like someone messed up the test results!

[@fifi-bc6sh]

Actually in the first story the doctors knew that she is dying and they couldn't do anything it was too late, so they asked them to go home so she can go peacefully and surrounded by her loved ones

[@lucidfangirl1030]

They shouldve told him so

[@kaylapounds1359]

They why did the guy say the tests cane back negative?

[@kaylapounds1359]

@@lucidfangirl1030 you'd think of she at least knew, she'd want to see it talk to other people she was close to.

[@architdubey1910]

i really miss the days when Kyutie used to play games . I've been watching you for over 5-6 years and its been such a great experience so far

[@gamergirlmimi263]

Don’t let no one kill your vibes guys 🤗💕🤪

[@Yipyipyay]

Mt Great grandfather had a twin brother. They got separated as kids and grandpa never saw him again. It destroyed him. Every time he saw a set of twins he'd get so upset, and when my twin brother and I were born, he cried. Mi abuelo told us that grandpa promised that we would never get separated, and he would protect us.

[@goddessoffood7870]

BRO YOU ARE MY CHILDHOOOD I WAS LIKE SO SURPRISING TO SEE YOU IN MY RECOMMENDATION

[@Msfeathers7]

They were dancing their wedding first dance and she had a heart attack and died in his arms. She was in her 30's. Sad.

[@ayakendil1337]

this made me think that I'm messed up too. After my father died when I was 17 I've never been the same again, he was the closest person to me. Now I'm always scared someone close to me will die, some nights I have anexiety attack because I'm scared my mother or my sister or my brothers will be dead while I'm away. I have anexiety attacks every time someone snores near me, because that was the only sign I got before I lost my dad so suddenly. And apart from my immidiate family I don't feel anything when something bad happens to other people, someone could die in front of me and deep inside I won't feel anything, I mean I lost one of my closest people ever and I'm okay, so what's the point of worrying for other people. I'm very respectful, I always try to be there for my friends and colleges, but sometimes I find myself pretending to react and feel sad while deep inside I don't really care that much.

[@jaime01090]

the first story is so sad

[@shadowboxer1]

First! Here's your gold medal! ====> 🥇

[@Emmaz1st]

Finally found you after years omg!!

[@Grace_x082]

My mum went into a&e with pains that she’d had for a while that got worse they sent her home after 7 hours of waiting, she was still in lots of pain so went back the next day, got admitted, stayed in for a few days then emergency surgery was needed to take her gall bladder out she had the op and was really dehydrated she knew soemthing was wrong and told the nurses but they shrugged it off a few days later after not receiving any help and being starved on and off with not much water she found out she had sepsis so she had an op to wash her out and had a cardiac arrest on the table. She ended up in ICU for 3 days and when they tried to wake her up her heart beat dropped luckily she got woke up and is now safe and sound and this was only a year ago

[@mrushiro7601]

Am I wrong for leaving college in the middle of second year? So here's the story, I'm a 22y girl and was doing engineering and recently I took leaving from college as I was not be able to concentrate, it was not my field as I was more interested in arts(fine arts). I struggled during my first year to pass in the exams and it really affected my mental health as I felt I won't be able to do anything. Three months back my family had some financial issues so during that time I couldn't concentrate on my studies and unfortunately I got fail in 5 subjects. ( in my college you can still clear the failing subjects answering them again). Then there came time where we have to create groups for projects and sadly no one wanted me to join their group as I was weak in the subjects. It really affected me as some of my friends rejected me to join and I felt left out . And some of my teachers tend to insult any student if they can't solve any codes or program so they really thought I was dumb. I had already told my parents about me leaving and now that some of my relatives got to know about it they are saying I won't be able to be anything in my life and that I should have used my brain MORE . Now I'm thinking of taking admission in fine arts but my parents don't support me in this as they think it is a waste of time. I belong to a Indian middle class family which means they want me to get married after 3-4 years(which I don't want) and now my parents are taunting me about my choice of leaving college. Am I wrong?

[@ayushiraj8750]

I think sometimes doctors can't immediately talk about what's wrong with the patient because of symptoms that may not be clearly visible, or they misunderstood the symptoms for something else or the patient couldn't deliver the right info about the symptoms which makes it even harder for doctors to diagnose because a lot of diseases can't be diagnosed until the final stage is there and the patient is just alive for few more hours. Afterall doctors are humans too.

[@Nicholaspimpinsohard]

How are you doing sweetie? How are you feeling? In the very first story, he should sue the sh*t out of the hospital for being negligent, reckless, and just uncaring too. It is all their fault as to why that man lost his fiance. That hospital completely infuriated and traumatized him too. the second story, Witnessing something like that would make you completely paranoid from then on and it would definitely make you start to develop ocd too in order to keep and prevent something like that from ever happening again. In the fourth story, going through something like that is just so unbearable and extremely hard to take. That is such a very sad thing to have happen to you. In this story right here, the therapist should just quit her job because her words have just traumatized that man for a very long time. In this story right here, this story pisses me of to the fullest because if my future child ever told me something like that, I would definitely be seeing red and wanting to hurt whoever did that to my child very badly. I love you so much!! Stay safe!!

[@louisejohnson6057]

The tests came back negative. If this happened in the States, the cost of staying in the hospital when the medical tests were negative would probably cause most people to return home.

[@lovelia69]

you're sooo cute ellen!

[@rosecrook558]

My friend that passed away 10 years it broke me .she died from medcal condion my son was less then one year .hes 10 now .its not been the same .

[@ashleywilce4685]

I went to the ER on my 20th birthday worst time ever

[@jctrstn]

OK BUT KYUTIES MAKEUP??!?!?!?

[@karymee9695]

KYUTIEEE

[@blobbythepotato7062]

❤

[@shadowboxer1]

Second! Here's your silver medal! ====> 🥈

[@naely_gonzzz4064]

I got a story it’s about me ofc-..(I trust this girl of mine let’s call her M, M was one of my close friends but after like 5yrs she became distant and ghosted me honestly till this year on January 3rd or so she came over wanting to talk with me and go out to ride horses but she had her little sister and I decided to go on the front and her in the back while M had a different horse so while on the horse it was running but the little sister said she couldn’t hold on to me and the thing is I’m extremely skinny to say and she had more size not trying to be rude ofc-…so we both fell from the horse and M was behind us but when we fell I was the only one that got hurt for some reason-…I fell on my back and hit my head pretty hard to the point I blacked out and as well for some miracle I didn’t break my neck it was only fractured in a way and had to wear something so it would heal-..but while being unconscious the last thing I saw was M still on the horse and her sister kinda sit up looking at me but didn’t help me at all till I fainted as if she was trying to kill me-..I knocked out for 10mins or so and forgot what happened and ask them what was going on since I didn’t remember why I was with them and we were still riding but I was in the back thankfully because after that I didn’t trust them as much-..after that happened few days passed and she didn’t text me nor anything after so so it makes me believe more that she did want to-..) but that’s about it there more but idk

[@akikoa198]

You look so beautiful today...

[@tr_in]

hi kyu !

[@limelightmixjen6491]

Where do you read all these stories from?

[@idontwannabemeanymore]

am i early??? wowow that pretty cool....anyways love ur work ellen

[@ATM2306]

Hello Everyone!

[@shadowboxer1]

Third! Here's your bronze medal! ====> 🥉

[@yasminab1843]

Again an early bird!

[@imseansleader8098]

First

[@shadowboxer1]

Sixth.

[@life-is-here]

This video is a heartbreaking reminder of how fragile life can be. Thanks, @life-is-here

[@RaidenMeii]

HI❤

[@js8303]

I was just watching your videos waiting for a new one! 🫶🏻