THINGS NOT TO DO AS A LADY 1.DONT CHASE THE MAN. 2.DONT INITIATE LOVE TO THE MAN. 3.DONT BE AVAILABLE. 4.DONT COMPROMISE YOUR VALUES FOR THE SAKE OF SETTLING DOWN WITH A MAN.
@muyangkellyserah92852 ай бұрын
❤
@musokiemily3362 ай бұрын
Thanks. This always helps
@inthefarm1232 ай бұрын
Thanks saved my time
@JamesKithekaJimmy3 ай бұрын
Good conversation Benjamin and Lilian. Thank you for the content.
@charitymokeira2 ай бұрын
I love Lily .... She is so interesting, real and vulnerable. Very real. God bless you Lily and may God bring you the right person 😊
@Stefribe3mary2 ай бұрын
Vulnerable to what?
@Mr.Articulate1462 ай бұрын
Vulnerable....i think she meant that she is open &speaks without having her own life experiences sieged up fiercely (she is expressive & real...she mixes professionalism with a student's mentality...she still shows that she is one of us.........Thanks Lily 🇺🇬.
@yayoolulope3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this episode Benjamin and Lilly. Can we have an episode about self-love please.
@stellaatuti22832 ай бұрын
Powerful talk Ben and Lily keep it up
@marrionapio91943 ай бұрын
They were looking for less and got more hahaha yes I will run with that.
@dorisabuko2 ай бұрын
Wow, this girl looks very beautiful in Yellow!
@estherloma157Ай бұрын
Entrance sets the tone, exit sets the legacy!
@jaqueKN3 ай бұрын
Ladies never do that Swthrts😢 I did a shot 1.5yrs this guy never gives anything not outings not leadership he's jst relaxingr plzz, don't 😢
@jaqueKN3 ай бұрын
He wasn't prepared for anything yet he responded positively 😢
@JennyMwaura2 ай бұрын
I feel you it's the most draining tng ever😢
@florencewanjiru156425 күн бұрын
It's well sweet heart you gonna find your match soon 🫂
@wanjikunaomi1573 ай бұрын
Thanks Benjamin u have helped me.
@nancytasha47493 ай бұрын
Thankyou Lilly for taking one for the team 😂 👊❤
@ruthwanzala67783 ай бұрын
Great message to me.
@evakiniu33643 ай бұрын
Wow!! This is sooo deep Mr. Benjamin. So timely and profound.
@monicahjames73083 ай бұрын
Insightful topic
@vidankansah81432 ай бұрын
Please I am Ghana and how do I get a copy of this book..
@benjaminzuluglobal2 ай бұрын
@@vidankansah8143 please WhatsApp us on +254701299333
@titanimagalasi51393 ай бұрын
I am 31..I recently met a guy who is 35.. immediately upon meeting him he started saying he loves me, wants me to marry him and stuff.. he keeps talking about having kids and stuff.. I have a kid, he has a kid.. I think I took time to heal from my last relationship but I feel this is too fast.. I am a Law student, second bachelors degree, and I am open to dating but nothing to do with marriage right now. Help
@Queenvalle3 ай бұрын
Take it slow don't rush
@titanimagalasi51393 ай бұрын
@@Queenvalle I edited it.. lol
@TheBabadogo3 ай бұрын
You already know the right answer. Don't fall for the devil's advocate in your head that is telling you, "...what if he genuinely loves you".
@titanimagalasi51393 ай бұрын
@@TheBabadogo that's exactly it . Lol
@titanimagalasi51393 ай бұрын
@TheBabadogo like what if he is really just eesdy to settle down and I am the kne not used to it.. it took me 4 years to heal from a past relationship..I just feel the urgency is a red flag
@JanetNjihia2 ай бұрын
This is so interesting and informative
@especialTVrolls2 ай бұрын
Lilly stop the agreeing sounds... validating everything your guest is saying...."hmmm, yeah, sure yeah" , etc. Be more professional by not accepting rather do follow up questions.
@LydiaOuma-cf4nzАй бұрын
I was wondering of the same she is making the show boring
@agathamuthoki540111 күн бұрын
She tried
@HassanMwavita2 ай бұрын
Am 24 years and am dating this guy who is 37 years old.the man has 2 baby mamas .please help me with advice pliz
@ruthawuor48762 ай бұрын
RUN away as fast as possible
@dorcasmathau30292 ай бұрын
Run for your dear life
@lilianonega99822 ай бұрын
Flee
@yvonneorwanda42922 ай бұрын
Unless you want to be the third baby mama ......😮 Run
@rosesiambe44652 ай бұрын
Run, run, run,run now!
@InspirationalBirds-dz6qoАй бұрын
Host seems to need help in forming leading questions and interjection for this interview... Or is it just me. Good effort though.
@Lee_Nolo3 ай бұрын
Powerful from the beginning yooh, i'm already feeling convicted. "The path of truth is always narrow and it goes uphill"...yooh I felt that.
@saudah17832 ай бұрын
But I being honest, when u truly love someone, something are hard to play like not being available to him ,u really think too much abt him ,u wanna be closed to him all the time then how can u disappear when he invits or gives u an appointment !! Love sometimes has no sense😊 us ladies sometimes we can play it hard before falling in love but once get so deep with him my friend...no control abt anything again
@anneongadi25252 ай бұрын
Gospel truth,
@solangemuhayimana92912 ай бұрын
@@anneongadi2525 The time you get so deep you are done
@stylemadesimple2364Ай бұрын
If you invest in having a full life with hobbies and things to do you won't need to pretend you're going to naturally not be so available all the time. You're engaged with school, church, activities, volunteer work etc.
@ak3leni7688Ай бұрын
My advice for you would be to get some hobbies dear... That way you don't have him occupying your mind 24/7
@cynthiaawuor12223 ай бұрын
Great conversation 😊
@christinewanjiru7602 ай бұрын
The problem of interviewing a genius. Everytime you're like,"ooow, mmmm, yeah"😂 Sorry Lilly, up your interview game😢
@amounahenry90202 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂staaaaap
@Serah-j2v2 ай бұрын
She tried though
@latifaabdalla8883Ай бұрын
Ikr🤣🤣🤣🤣
@cresentwaruingi6294Ай бұрын
I was looking for this comment I was a big fun of this show until I realized this woman has no opinion🙄😏😏😏yaaaah....mnnnh....huuuu..sure...not even a question? Yawa hizi ni ngapi🚮🚮🚮
@cresentwaruingi6294Ай бұрын
I was looking for this comment I was a big fun of this show until I realized this woman has no opinion🙄😏😏😏yaaaah....mnnnh....huuuu..sure...not even a question? Yawa hizi ni ngapi🚮🚮🚮
@MarieStephanie-jy8po2 ай бұрын
Wueh, this sank so deep. Told my crush that I liked him and that's how I lost him despite him showing interest too before then.
@estheroluka85983 ай бұрын
Him: You are the one who wanted me.. hehe. Insightful talk. Well done Zulu, and Lilly.
@shilalumumba40422 ай бұрын
where do you get your outfit Benjamin I would love to buy for my husband
@kachamabanda68783 ай бұрын
This one I have felt 🤧🤧🔥
@daisychepkorir75793 ай бұрын
Thank you Benjamin !
@lucysamsonow496325 күн бұрын
Let Brnjamin talk stop the wow wow wow lady .Nyamaza stop affirming you are interrupting
@millanmose6343Ай бұрын
I am 28 years old ,i am dating this lady, she's 31 years old . Initially it all started well .But currently she tells me she has friend to visit ,and most of the time are men .I feel stressed.what should i do ?
@Users-r9z2 ай бұрын
Wow, great lessons there; for me its loving myself the way God does. The lady host though can spook someone with her sudden screams and she almost turned this into a personal therapy session...
@MagdalineMwanake-o3u12 күн бұрын
Waaooh that's great and very powerful
@jackiesithole41852 ай бұрын
Thank you, Benjamin, for talking slowly. I can now understand you well. I love your show. Watching from CapeTown
@teresianjeri-k7l3 ай бұрын
Wow,thanks for this information
@varliekesh83983 ай бұрын
Glad i listened to this
@Queenvalle3 ай бұрын
Very nice Mr Benjamin
@Janice-sd7hl3 ай бұрын
Thx benja ad lily, tis is show is informative, so priceless ad timeless.
@shefferzvibes96433 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Queenvalle3 ай бұрын
Woooooo❤
@hellenwegesa26203 ай бұрын
Benjamin you are right
@phelistuskangu2 ай бұрын
Very true... Hadi huwa najicheka tuu😂
@chepkiruilangat97252 ай бұрын
Yeah
@chepkiruilangat97252 ай бұрын
Waw
@velmaanangwe421720 күн бұрын
Eloi Eloi ...Thanks for this Benjamin!
@shilalumumba40422 ай бұрын
great message
@mosesotieno183 ай бұрын
Lily I like your last question thanks
@liyahibrahim88093 ай бұрын
Okay would you please stop with the snaps
@lovemezay3 ай бұрын
As a so called man of God, learn to listen and handle your business in a Godly way. Just because I called you out on your nonsense post, you blocked me. Was it not the truth? Are you going to keep misleading people?
@jmtestifies2 ай бұрын
Truth is subjective. Your truth isn’t someone else’s truth. Stay in your lane, keep to your truth and keep off Benjamin’s lane. Those of us who follow Benjamin are glad being ‘misled’, what’s your problem and we’re not even using your data or gadgets! Heal heal heal from whatever you’re going through and stop bleeding on people who are not responsible of your problems
@lovemezay2 ай бұрын
@jmtestifies I hope you can learn to MIND YOUR BUSINESS AND FOCUS ON FIGHTING YOUR OWN BATTLES. A fully functional adult in the public sphere is capable of speaking for themselves 😅
@davidngigi98432 ай бұрын
Very true. Over the years, i have tried to understand this man and the basis of his theories that have , in my opinion failed especially to the older generation. More particularly, he is a woman's man and has no regard to the feelings and values of boychild. Truly, i dought his masculinity.