Things They Don't Tell You - Work | Episode 28

[@Rhenadhis]

Some things they do't tell you about work are: 1.Just like campus, there are some sleeping their way to the top; you'll need to be smart on how you handle your career progression while facing such outright unfairness 2. You will be smarter than some of your bosses yet you have to work under them so you'll need to find your balance so you are not always seeming like you are outshining them. 3. Think through what you want for your life and don't be afraid to quit a job that will not lead you where you want to go. Also, don't be afraid to take less money at another job that will lead you in the path that life needs to head in. 4. Your expectations about salary will need to be adjusted, you may earn 'little' for a while longer than you thought you would; they say you don't have enough experience to be paid those numbers you've cooked up in your head 5. Finally, most of these points i have made here really boil down to one point, you will need to learn to be diplomatic; learn to give just the right amount of push needed to get your career to the next level while maintaining the right amount of calm and peace

[@penelopemissp3783]

i agree

[@samuelmwangala7665]

💯

[@FranEJ]

Very wise

[@deaconwarren8610]

I know Im kinda randomly asking but do anybody know of a good place to stream newly released tv shows online ?

[@Rhenadhis]

@@deaconwarren8610 i honestly don't know

[@emilyonyango8920]

i love this channel the most,am only 22 already in the corporate world,its my first job after internship and mahhnnn the shit i see...sometimes i feel like just quiting..thanks for this ladies,this is like having a sit down with my older sisters...

[@kendih362]

I was UBER SHOCKED when I started working and the sexual assault was just so normal in the office!!!So I am that chick that has my boundaries SUPER clear from day one and I have no apologies.

[@Kibenwa]

One important piece of advice I can add to this, for all the young ladies joining the corporate world. Avoid office romances; that can really jeopardise your chances of career advancement. And like Ivy said, having morals is sooo important, even if they think you're "pretending to' have morals, that's alright. Be secure in who you are. The RIGHT kind of people will notice you. Eventually, good things do come around for us good girls, just have a lot of faith and patience. Hold yourself in high regard, work hard, work really hard and you'll reach your goals.

[@teresamakokha9263]

Ladies you have given me life,being an entry level nutritionist is tough as hell,in school we were meant to believe once you get your license its easy,am shook! I am turning 26 today ,graduation 2 years later,a one year unpaid internship still doing part time Jobs I wish someone told me I needed a long wait...but with age is wisdom

[@maureenmungasia9397]

Teresa Makokha happy Birthday my twin turning 26 too today..

[@wanjikukimani3462]

Thank you so much for this!!!!! This is so needed especially for women who are just starting out in the workplace. I would recommend the book "Nice girls don't get the corner office" to anyone that is starting off or struggling in their workplace. It really changed my perspective and has touched alot of the things you mentioned!! Also thank you being such sweethearts, i bumped into you in person and y'all were so nice and friendly.. squads scare me because they are so tight knight and they forget to be welcoming to others but yall were amazinnnggg

[@overtwentyfive7805]

You are too sweet Wanjiku. Thanks doll!

[@georgekala9849]

The ‘YEAH’ episode 😂😂

[@lmuchemi14]

George Kala 😂😂😂 guilty!

[@terryhirsty7525]

😂😂😂

[@barbaramkok3009]

George Kala yeah yeaaaaah

[@neens8109]

great ep leo. so good to have covered this and are shining light in the frustrating environment that men create at work when all you want to do I just go to work and work n go home.

[@mercymutune9980]

I loved this topic. Very insightful. Felt like Lorna and Shikie could say more. Always love Ivy. She is so real and I always feel like i am Jules in my group of friends. Anyway. Keep bringing more topics on life's real issues. Maybe do a part 2 on this topic or do more of teaching silly techniques, games perhaps, or even make a biography video. I mean, you are already on you tube. Telling us more about yourselves wouldn't hurt.

[@lauranthenya7521]

Over 25 Rocks Whoop Whoop!! Those corporate things they don't tell... its so so true kwanza hio ya private life.. Wah! Thank God for my mentor...You can find yourself as the breaking news everyday... lol!!

[@perisgithinji6049]

One more thing SB never told me is that being a good intern after qualifying with a diploma, will not guarantee you that job you did perfectly well after you qualify with a degree.esp mine was a 1st class.However I just got over it with time and afterwards I just decided I never want to be employed and just join the family business in the jua Cali sector.All I can say is that being your own boss comes in many packages, just be open minded.

[@perisgithinji6049]

I can now happily say that at 26 I am my own boss , with no office politics , cruel bosses, doing a job i hate n writing reports .

[@lizgathu7098]

My favourite episode yet.....One thing I learnt when I started working was....ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS follow up conversations with emails, coz people will ruck you 100 ft and you'll be the only one looking bad especially if you have lazy coworkers and line managers.

[@oscarscar2591]

hio top ya jules imemsumbua sana

[@neshavelli]

And the "YEAHS" have it..lol

[@angellah5790]

😂 Lol

[@lilymoraa1853]

Totally love your channel..This particular one is so informative.I wish i had watched such a video while starting my career some years back.Much appreciated

[@faithmukabi3564]

Very important talk...everything you said is true!!!

[@BassBabeTari]

Something else they don't tell you - no one's going to hands you anything on a silver platter - NO ONE. Even the good boss who looks out for you has to fight for you based on something. Your quality of work speaks for you. Yes, there are cases where you work you ass off and people still screw you over but hard work and work ethic always pays off in the end - always! The part for mafisi though, yooooooo!!!!! Those be too darn many! And they don't back down for nothing! Keep your bizniz discrete because that lot's the type to kiss and tell!

[@ihearturdad4137]

Lol you girlssss are amazing.....love....and bless you all

[@joykhalayi4427]

I'm nineteen guys a university student and I really love you guys, your shows are so informative, fun and interesting, a big fan❤️

[@zayk100]

This is a good topic.Keep such convo going...Go ladies.

[@wambuinganga4143]

Whoop whoop notification gang yeeeii.. The corporate world wuuui tiga to but I feel you Juelz.... Shout out to you girls....

[@nabifwo]

This video is soooo informative. Great job ladies!

[@kkkirera]

Glad you mentioned the part of not telling your co-workers about your private life.That's one thing i have been told by many after recently graduating. AOB: Hope to one day meet you all or even join you in one of the episodes.

[@wanjiruchege]

So informative ...gonna be so ready for work life with these pointers :)

[@njerin2355]

#teamusiu 🙌... The one thing I wish I knew was that this line "do this we won't pay you BUT you'll get exposure/experience" is bu#!! S#!@. People out here will take advantage of you if you allow them.

[@dorismwendwa3249]

Ivy, what color and brand is your lipstick? Looking good ❤

[@penelopemissp3783]

hehe nice one.. i deal with alot of this bullshit in our office n i dont entertain nonsense n pple respect me for that an having known your rights this helps create boundaries.. PS. ivy you have a powerful voice hehe.. commanding lol..it will scare the fisis away.anyway yall look beautiful as always

[@Kalizzy21]

This is quite a mature discourse, good job ladies, its ogling though lol.

[@babonjuguini1563]

Love the channel. Esp Jules! But girl, please let the others talk too. Great content

[@vanessaler3578]

I always feel like the videos are too short, but thats cause i enjoy the videos tooooo much.Love you guys

[@MsThe1girl]

Y'all are so preety it hurts. Anyway ,When i enter the corporate world I'll wear a wedding ring; even if im single as a pringle! It may not keep away all the Fisi , but it may make it easier.

[@bintimrembo]

I used to do that! I wore a fake engagement ring lol. Cant remember if it worked... But it gave me some confidence for a while

[@simonayoo3377]

Fisis love to see those rings, it catapults/propels the game

[@moistureloverhair2603]

eh! where I work (Australia) there are so many rules on how to behave in the work place that I thought that it was an OVERKILL - but watching these, I see that it is NECESSARY!!

[@angeltoway]

Good job ... very audible and you all did not loose track or talk over each other :)

[@priscillakoi7209]

hey.. thanks for this, very eye opening .. could we get solutions that have worked for you guys or ways to go through this?

[@GraceNdiege]

I've had the same struggle in one my internships where anytime i wore heels my supervisor would start making sounds anytime I walked into their open plan office. He's like, "Eh ebu walk, walk walk. First leave so I can see you walking away are you going to walk all over with those heels in bed." Back then I was too scared to say anything, my partner at the time told me next time he tries that not to smile stare at him sternly and state that I do not appreciate being objectified. The thing about this when you say it after you leave the room said person is left laughing with other male colleague about how you are prude, these days I don't mind i don't have a problem establishing boundaries.

[@dolphineakoth]

Grace Ndiege Some supervisors though🙄

[@SandyJoan]

Oi! Rude! And completely unprofessional.

[@wairimutororey6614]

I'm so sorry you experienced that and I'm so glad you have grown to the point where you can just politely tell them to fuck off with their objectification. The thing is when you are starting out, you don't know how to handle these things and like they totally catch you by surprise.

[@christabelndunge5829]

woishe pole.

[@wam1549]

It's more tricky when it's your superior. Like this person can get you fired. Do you comply coz you need the income or do you stand your ground and hope he leaves the company?

[@aggiew6359]

This was really enlightening. I'm shook!

[@magdalenekariuki9246]

Kwanza that one on not sharing on personal life..... wa wa wa wa....I was like "big high five yo"......... I learnt the hard way and paid for it dearly. Keep your private life exactly that.... PRIVATE!

[@denisgichuhi4398]

Every time they say "yeah", I take a shot, I'm so gone 😂😂😂

[@gathonim7396]

You all remind me of me at that over 25 age!! 😊. I love the content of your shows... very real!!

[@kitoomathendu7699]

I definatley love you guys.

[@sandramarondo2165]

i bet you i lost count on the many times Lorna would say 'yeah' when Ivy was talking...lol

[@lmuchemi14]

LOLOL I was just really agreeing haha. U guys should be used to the yeahs by now :D

[@sandramarondo2165]

Always a fan💕

[@benedictkariuki6765]

Sandra Wanja. I know you 😂..

[@sandramarondo2165]

Young Wayne ofcourse you do😂😂😂😂

[@benedictkariuki6765]

Sandra Wanja Did you school at kyeni girls..?..

[@paulinenderitu1389]

I am a fun........you guys are so real, lovely.

[@dianahspencer3405]

Nice discussion!!! What did you ladies study, and what do you do?

[@wendynjoroge6998]

One more, you need to negotiate with no apologies

[@missmwotei4799]

So true... the sexual violences at the work place is so there but most of us fear speaking out so you just smile through that awkward moment

[@joylaoshe2481]

The advice, 👌

[@njerigicharu2051]

Good advice. Thanks

[@carolineininga]

Awwwww. Nice work girls. My takeaways are the side hustles thing and office sexual embarrassment.

[@ninakosen9165]

Yeees!Preach.... so much truth to this.

[@ritabonbon9121]

Interesting video...The chorus "yeahs' are so many though..

[@lmuchemi14]

LOL i knooowww.. u just have to get used to it ;D

[@Torihappyness]

True,its off putting to me,sounds more like women under 25 not over 25.

[@faithmwanda9818]

The dark lady, I love your makeup. What products did you use please.

[@joylaoshe2481]

Ivy's voice though.😍I love how you ladies are always Killin it.❤❤

[@missmwotei4799]

At the rate Lorna is saying "yeah" am gonna make a drinking game out of it hehehehe

[@Jothnyash]

I thought am the only one who heard that.

[@michelleodo2356]

Truuueee😂 Love her though!

[@missmwotei4799]

i love her too

[@overtwentyfive7805]

YEAAAAAAAAH! (Also, we love the Yeah... Try it)

[@lmuchemi14]

Miss Mwotei that would be a legit drinking game haha

[@nimukashii3873]

Yooo....sexual harrasment in the corporate world is so real.Its disgusting!

[@ronniepage736]

YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kettykaimenyi1582]

Team 2021💚 I love this

[@daisymasinde1330]

If we played a drinking game for every time lorna says 'yeah'😂😂

[@lmuchemi14]

Daisy Masinde lolol aki i will also play this game haha too many! I was really agreeing with Ivez

[@MinikLarmoi]

Lorna were you in Quabbz.....that's the place you most likely picked your "yeah yeah" 😂😂😂love you ladies

[@bohrcyber1175]

I continue to face many of the challenges you have been discussing. I work at home.

[@armylisgatwiri9275]

I totally relate with this whole video👏 .Especially the sexual harrasment part ,the married men are the ones who misbehave around us .The worst part is that you can do nothing about it 😩

[@wendyatemo3978]

Yaaay.. missed you guys. Clicked on the video so fast lol

[@janetricavictoria1658]

Wendy Atemo Wendee you are also here😀 you're everywhere I am on KZbin😂😂

[@wendyatemo3978]

Janetrica Victoria hahahaha we clearly love the same things...

[@janetricavictoria1658]

Wendy Atemo great minds think alike 👌

[@marykibe2655]

Lorna, yeah 😄 ×100

[@yvonneanyango7139]

"High Five" for being the Realest ! Woop!

[@hadassperez494]

Topic is yeah yeah 😂😂😂😂. Love you ladies 😊

[@barbaramkok3009]

Learnt so much...loved this episode Thanks dolls 😘😘

[@asuemuthui]

"The ladder is not as fast as you think" I felt that on a personal level.

[@kantaramasale3844]

U guys are amazing 😍😍😍😍

[@lindamacharia7141]

You guys are real i love that about you,keep doing your thing

[@ngugi-]

I think educating people on what sexual harassment really is will help prevent it. Cause I think in most cases, people don't realize they are harassing someone or even been harassed.

[@abigaileva1141]

I wish this topic was longer, love it! So true about work bitches and unwanted advances, real!!!!!

[@marionnecakeske5823]

My favorite all times..love u guys

[@gibsongithaiga5406]

great vid.....lots of love to u jules n crew

[@perisgithinji6049]

One more thing you forgot is that you should only risk an office romance if you are ready to work with your ex or even quit working there if the policy doesn't allow.Considering the fact that they say you can find love 'anywhere'

[@kagwinjeri]

Skia Cathy kakicheka huko nyuma. lol.

[@portiashamu2359]

I must say, l trully enjoyed this video, thank you for sharing, ♡♡♡♡

[@zoekibui8179]

I needed this segment because I have entered such a world. ❤

[@gracewanjiru9023]

i came late today ,i will just say i have learnt one or two things...thanks

[@julietakoth]

you guys get Julz a fan aki

[@maureenw.m2677]

wow.....this was really helpful. As a uni student who is almost entering the workspace,,,thanks sana

[@janeasava9211]

What great piece!!!Money is never enough join saccos to have a credit source to develop yourself.

[@vianneykr]

"You're getting the business cause you allowed him to touch your ass" 😂😂😂😂😂

[@justmo6896]

Fire for whaaaaaat?!😂😂😂 Julia Julia

[@mukamimungania2881]

Miss these girls together 😢

[@chebet]

Single 'O', single 'G'... OGLE

[@imugoable]

Vivian Chebet Correct! Thank you! Not sure what I was looking at at the time ... 🤦‍♂️

[@zenarashid4422]

Cathy is the best 😂😂

[@MusindeKE]

Yass! That ladder is short for some of us.

[@wanjikucindy4675]

Shiku how do you do your hair ?

[@ivynjuru]

Love this channel

[@cindygodiah8022]

please have do a part two of work

[@Mali-km6cd]

OK Lorna from now on wewe ni "YEAH"

[@ngaruakamuya8657]

I think university is important but not from the stand point most here look at it. It's supposed to open up one's way of thinking because of the interactions one has while on campus. The degree is important but I think for life, the uni experience is the greatest. My opinion of course.

[@gladyskomu1321]

Ng'arua Kamuya I was looking this comment. On the same page!

[@rosa629]

asanteni jamani...

[@_wanuri_]

Aki Lorna 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 the number of times you've said 'yeah' 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@irenesituma553]

Hi Jules which lippie is that you're wearing? btw i loved this episode, It really hit home ESPECIALLY the office politics.

[@minkrasi]

hehehehe...this is a great topic!!

[@SafariByHal]

I love this vlog so much it’s so educational and greeeaat I love 💕 you all dolls

[@rymscal]

I like the show.....very informative.....and probably you should get sponsorship from savanna the cider you really like

[@mabutingugi206]

Ivy...😍😍😍😍

[@nanaimbuga628]

Lorna 😍😍

[@siloalapei2448]

i feel like shiko is more practical but yall are right that's how offices are.

[@pendoochola5902]

Ivy.. Your Dreeeessss!! 😍