Things Women Say But Don't Actually Mean (TIER LIST)

In this tier list I rank everything women say but don't actually mean, based on the truth value of the statement. Let me know if you agree with me in the comments.
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[@FerencBreuer]

"I am busy" is the biggest cap of all time. Remember, if she is busy she just does not want to spend her time with you. If she likes you, she would make time for you.

[@Goku467-w3i]

@@FerencBreuer fr what do girls even do to be busy some of them say their hobby is makeup 😂🤦‍♂️.

[@toptiercrip]

no girl busy lol she dont want you

[@Pswayze23]

99% of girls below 24, their most important priority is their man

[@attroenergizer8115]

so true i texted like 5 times and eveeeery time she was busy or doing something else hahaha damn i was a dumb kid

[@toptiercrip]

@@attroenergizer8115 u learnt atleast bro 🔥

[@KuramochiKomix]

"Women are never busy for the guys they want, they're only busy for the guys they don't want." My mans fucking spitting FAX

[@slide6314]

Common knowledge

[@corunga6465]

It's true in platonic relationships too. If they always busy they don't want to hang.

[@KuramochiKomix]

@@slide6314 It might seem like it is, but most guys don't understand that concept

[@YourRecoveryDealer]

​@@KuramochiKomixthey must be really, really slow

[@KuramochiKomix]

@@YourRecoveryDealer Yea most guys are slow, this isn't anything new

[@TheShyArmy]

If she invites u over and says we’re not having sex always bring condoms 😂

[@Antonio_Todd]

“We’re not having sex” means they want to have sex with you and they’re dying for you to make the move.

[@yfnhunt]

facts its always "dont expect nun tho"

[@Faustianspirit88]

Repent

[@Cthight]

Well in my case she didnt say that. She was a mother in a relationship and we met at her home. I wasnt expecting sex because i never met her before we only talked and facetimed over instagram. I messed up a opportunity and didnt know at the moment. So we watched TV and talked a bit while her little Daughter was around. She dropped one sentence after a while: "I want to show you my bedroom you didnt saw this room yet". I was thinking thats a really nice room. Now i know that would be my chance to foke even she was in relationshiop. Well the kid also followed us in the room so i didnt even think of it. Who is so shameless? There were never a chance for a second date at my place. She always said: Oh i have so much to do. The kid needs me now and sort of stuff. She blocked me because i confronted her to not playing games with me. Long Story short. If she wants to show you her sleeping or bedroom then its also a green light to go.

[@pksinhal8376]

@@Faustianspirit88 not everyone christian lil bro

[@LON4mpYr]

"open up to me" NEVER EVER DO THAT! EVER!

[@MrMozkoZrout]

I mean when you are in a serious relationship it's a good test of its future potential and of your partner's toxicity. When you are in a serious relationship that you actually mean seriously, it's good to just switch off and be 100% yourself. Open up if she wants it, let her go to parties with friends and all, don't be jealous or controlling and trust her completely. and if this doesn't work then good, the learned that the relationship didn't have potential. Cause would you want to be building a future with someone you can't even open up to or be vulnerable with ? Of course not.

[@RaffieFaffie]

@@MrMozkoZrout Nah this isn't redpilled enough bro you have to constantly hold frame and strain yourself into being someone completely different in order to have sex with some woman you think wouldn't even like the real you if your revealed yourself honestly to her, constantly hiding what you're really like in order to please women is alpha actually.

[@FistfulOfGabagool]

It's a trap. She wants you to expose how weak you are so she can know if she has to start looking for a real man to replace you. It's like when a cop asks you if you have anything illegal in the car 'just be honest and we won't have a problem' 🧢🤣

[@xfactor5269]

100 percent. I used to open up, then it come bite me in the ass.

[@bannedmann4469]

You can drip feed that, but yeah..

[@MohammadAminKiaee-lb5me]

"If you're attractive, that's confidance if you're unattractive, that's arrogance"

[@Michael_the_Drunkard]

Relative to the woman in question, yes

[@JackoBanon1]

If you're attractive, that's sweet if you're unattractive, that's weird

[@KadenFinity]

@@JackoBanon1fr

[@staybased9320]

if you're attractive you're sexy if you're unattractive you're a sex offender

[@datuputi777]

It's the same they only say arrogance if you don't look at them. Aka its a bitter lash out.

[@nammi895]

5:58 I met a girl who was logical and interested in science, philosophy, and psychology. She deactivated her Instagram 3 years ago & was into reading books & some decent hobbies and we talked for hours about these topics. I thought, "Finally, someone I can have deep conversations with." I really enjoyed those convo But she got bored and left. My mistake was focusing too much on logic. Even with the most logical women, you can only talk about logic for 50% of the time; the rest of the time, you need to connect emotionally, or they’ll lose interest

[@Goku467-w3i]

You gotta dumb yourself down with them.

[@eternity6991]

Exactly, whenever you have common interests with a girl it's really gonna be a boost but you still have to attract her emotionally and physically

[@angadgrewal9324]

or she probably just wasn’t attracted to you

[@nammi895]

@@angadgrewal9324 Yes, that might also be possible. But I think it's mostly emotional. As I passed the looks test IMO

[@bestintheworld4850]

They are not naturally interested in thouse topics, they’d much rather talk about people. But honestly it seems she might have pretended to give a F about all that to talk wirh you, but she learned you liked another girl or weren’t romantically interested in her and she said “f it all” and “bye bye”

[@ericbaxter3944]

Women are never too busy to respond to a text or message to the point they don't get back to you within 30 mins to an hour. I see them with their phones in their faces all day even during work. Unless she is a firefighter, police officer or any job the requires precision or life saving skills, she is talking to other guys.

[@c0r5e]

well lets hope a med student actually in this category

[@st54nanolea68]

"maybe" - never in a million years "I will text you" - you will never hear from me again

[@mehakverma7043]

We don't want to hurt your feelings. Or, we don't want you to get angry at us because that could be potentially dangerous.

[@Cthight]

No "maybe" doent mean in never. Its a "im unsure at the moment". I dated one girl were she said maybe. You have to put a little more work into it at a maybe but not too much. It only works if the girls is shy. She was 19.

[@mehakverma7043]

@@Cthight It is true that women take time to become familiar with men to fall in love, whereas men fall in love at first sight, and it's difficult to change their his mind if he did not find a girl attractive from the very start. Usually, if you humour her and shower her with your wealth and/or ambition, she may fall for you. It's usually why women tend to wait with a boy and keep him as an option, aka a friend, in case he does become a competent man (depending on how young she is. If she is older, she may not be willing to wait for you to grow your career). However, if you watch Hoe_math, his chart examines that this would put the man, highest at the "husband" category, and lowest somewhere between the "Settled for" and "friendzone" categories. The Prince Charming category is reserved to a man she is attracted to physically, along with his other features.

[@mtauren1]

​@@mehakverma7043it's the second but it is dumb. Now the guy will be waiting and as nothing happens his feelings will be hurt and he will get angry at the woman blatantly lying to him showing no respect.

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@mehakverma7043we don’t give a fuck. You always complain about hurt feelings from men like me that you like. You’re the problem

[@lucavenn]

You forgot “I want a guy who’s never seen or touched a girl before, doesn’t go out, nerdy and awkward”.

[@MrMozkoZrout]

What does this one mean ? That she has a delusional idea of a cute geek/nerd but must look like Hanry Cavill and not what actual nerds/geeks usually look like ?

[@tusk9901]

@@MrMozkoZroutExactly

[@justsomeguywithatoupee8244]

​@@MrMozkoZroutYup

[@txdang2009]

biggest cap

[@cabbiecarmvp145]

@@MrMozkoZroutimo it’s usually what twitch streamers say to make simps keep donating them money

[@Nightlight7]

If you’re shy and unnatractive, you’re weird and creepy, if you’re shy and attractive, you’re mysterious

[@itsmesanjay6597]

😂😂

[@datuputi777]

If you don't give them the time of day or at least the top of pecking order of women you'll also be added on the weird list.

[@Truthseekingorb]

“I never done this before” 😂😂😂😂

[@6lav]

Nice seeing you here 😂😂😂

[@Truthseekingorb]

@ Salutations Comrade 🫡 😂 Great minds think alike, These tier list are on point man. gotta love it 🫡

[@jamescox1805]

I had a girl that told me she's not ready for a relationship and she literally got with some other guy the following week. It happens.

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@jamescox1805 based on your picture, I can tell it’s because you’re not attractive or masculine. You have to project a respectable image for them to have interest

[@jamescox1805]

@marcusmcgraw3519 damn bro, you don't got to come at me like that. We are supposed to support each other and lift each other up not tear people down. I have had good looking girlfriends as well. But I was definitely not projecting good energy at that time. I'm 6'2" some women find very attractive. And it's all about self confidence.

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@jamescox1805 I agree, but I've been torn down for much, MUCH less wrong doing. And I never recovered from it mentally. That's why I take it out on everyone around me. I see myself as more deserving of what I want than other men who do nothing but kick and scream and beg for it. And it's why I hate them for it

[@jamescox1805]

@marcusmcgraw3519 I never begged for it that's for damn sure 👍

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@jamescox1805 and I can appreciate that aspect of your personality, that’s for sure. The photo really wasn’t that bad, I was more speaking to girls looking for a certain archetype instead of personally calling you ugly. Sorry if it came across that way. Hope you have a good one

[@alminecrafteano]

pinoccihoe is so wild Edit: I swear some women deserve to be called that along many other things. A long time ago I had a "girlfriend", she told me "right person, wrong time" as an excuse to stop texting me (saw her with one of my close friends that same week)

[@Depressed_until_dead]

I personally loved it instantly

[@spartanghost9713]

The name 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 !

[@_Hero_Link_]

i am Writingt his Down

[@phoeni3902]

"Close friend" Nah brother, any guy who'd seriously be willing to do that was never a friend to begin with, not a real one You deserve better friends than that, actual friends

[@fgcpeak9591]

LMFAO!!

[@53cconadailee46]

''It just happened'' is kind of true for them tho. They just stand around and things happen to them. But in reality the guys make it happen.

[@Michael_the_Drunkard]

They are reacting in a certain way. They say that to brush off acountability and to prevent shaming from her peers. Basically plausible deniability

[@justsomeguywithatoupee8244]

​@@Michael_the_DrunkardThey can't handle the idea of responsibility

[@uhuihiuhuihi]

If she says this and you go into her chats I'd put money that theres at least a couple weeks of sexting. Things don't just happen, it starts with talking and flirting and she doesn't do anything to stop it. Then it gets more aggressive and sexually charged and she doesn't do anything to stop it. Then he invites her over and they fk and she does nothing to stop it. It didn't just happen it was a process and she had multiple opportunities to say no but didn't. Saying it just happened is a lie that absolves her of responsibity which is why they like to use it.

[@53cconadailee46]

@@uhuihiuhuihi I think you have a specific scenario in your mind. They can say ''it just happened'' to a new relationship that bloomed wherever, doesn't have to be online, doesn't have to be a relationship and it doesn't have to be cheating and it doesn't have to be wrong. To them things happen because they get to be *PASSIVE*. Guys have to be active.

[@53cconadailee46]

@@Michael_the_Drunkard What way? Girls get to be passive, hence, things happen to them.

[@FistfulOfGabagool]

"i'm not looking for a relationship right now" is definitely S-tier cap. If she's breathing she's looking for a relationship 🤣

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@FistfulOfGabagool why would she be able to get a relationship without value?

[@FistfulOfGabagool]

@@marcusmcgraw3519 I suppose she wouldn't.. What are you trying to say?

[@mrperfectcell1350]

"I saw your message, I just forgot to reply to it for a week" = I literally do not give a shit about you, even if I said I loved you a while ago, I just loved you back then. I'm on my phone all the time chatting with my friends that I act like a hivemind with, I don't respect you to respond to you anymore, and I won't even give you the bare minimum but I will still be polite because I try to be diplomatic even with people they don't like cuz I don't wanna be controversial and face any retaliation, and even if it's a week later, I will still text you because I kinda don't want you to stop chasing me, and I crave attention from men cuz my dad didn't give me any

[@Slydime917]

Brutal truth... time to go to the gym

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

How is that fair to me that I have to be perfect, but she gets to be horrible?

[@someoneinthecrowd4313]

@@marcusmcgraw3519 There is no point in thinking about fairness. Just accept it and move on. It saves you a lot of depression.

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@ why would I do that when you guys keep enabling things to be fair for them without making them fair for yourself? You’re creating the problem you complain about. Do you see why you’re hypocritical?

[@someoneinthecrowd4313]

@@marcusmcgraw3519 I don't see how I'm hypocritical. The world is unfair, wallow in it if you want or you can move on.

[@Klinfran]

"Open up to me" is a red flag for borderline, histrionic or narcisistic personality disorders, especially if its done very early in any kind of relationship, be it friendship or romantic, it applies to both sexes in almost any kind of social early situation. If someone you know for months or years tells you to open up its fine, but if someone you barely know tells you to open up be careful, set boundaries, if they keep pushing to bypass the boundaries and/or get offended its red alert, extreme care is required when dealing with said person, odds are you are interacting with a cluster B and believe me, you dont want clusters B in your life EVER, no matter how pretty they are or how good is the sex, RUN.

[@pimvl3866]

Wish I knew that sooner

[@123Osaka456]

Very true, but cluster Bs are great for a hookup, they be wild in bed

[@MichiganGunNut]

My dad said he is going to the store to get milk. After 15 years I'm starting to think he was capping.

[@ybctoocold]

I think so too bro

[@smallcube-zn2mm]

nah man, wait for some more time

[@deanchur]

He had to get a job to get enough money to start a dairy farm to milk cows in order to get milk, that's why he's taking so long.

[@oblivion5390]

We need dad quotes tier list

[@MissiFull]

Those are feminine dads. No jokes.

[@Dzulian]

"let's be friends" actually means, go off yourself 🥰

[@AUSTIN-ss2zd]

Then y does Andrew Tate says his girls can't have men friends?

[@denislol2429]

After 20 matches in total on Hinge and a few dates in real life, I can confirm all these Tierlists. It's just exhausting to date someone nowadays, there are always games to be played. I have no energy for this tbh

[@spartanghost9713]

Understand you 💯 !

[@3UM6A6BE]

рофлан ебало... такая же беда

[@user-mh4uv]

Nah this making me deadass rethink life

[@ChristiaanvanJaarsveld-o1i]

Its very sad bro, but the flipside is theirs a brighter side to life.

[@ChristiaanvanJaarsveld-o1i]

Theres more to life. . its called being content with who you are regardless of others actions.

[@dfredankey]

Truth hurts and some of this is delivered in an absolute way but there are many variables that go into partnership.

[@sesshonuyasha]

Don't worry this poisoned female culture of ours doesn't extend to phillipines/thailand/brazil - passport bro is the way

[@GivenUpDSBM]

women are just not worth ur time anymore

[@indertat3104]

Imagine having a girl friend and she's constantly shit testing you all the time. Absolute nightmare. And the best move would be to get rid of her. Woman like playing these games and testing you as a man thats fine to some extent but if shes constantly annoying you with this shit and testing you as a man it's best to move on. Woman like this only wait for you to slip up and give her the "ick" once and then she will dump you anyway. Best to beat her to this and dump her first. A relationship shouldn't be a constant struggle. It should make your Life easier. You already got enough problems as is. No need to invite a woman into your life if she makes your life more difficult. Woman don't understand this for some reason. For any woman reading this all you have to do to make a man like you is being there for him and supporting him. It's that simple. Somehow it seems that woman are incapable of doing this.

[@BigT182]

i'm with you on this brother

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@BigT182what I did the other way around was play all their games in reverse. It works wonders with them when they can’t bluff control and when you hold them to the same standard as they hold you to. Nothing is unfair about it

[@GdeVseSvobodnyeNiki]

Are you sure you're trying to get girls that are on the same level as you? They probably have way more interesting options than you. So, when you're revealing your true self, they turn off. Greater the distance between your lvls of attractiveness, the tougher it gets.

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@GdeVseSvobodnyeNiki girls bluff options all the time. I had one girl who had 2000 likes on OKCupid compared to my 200 (which still isn’t a bad total). She said I was only the 3rd person on there she met up with, and she saw me multiple times. That shows how much more worthy I am than “options”, and that’s the value I expect to be treated with. Don’t let them think they’re too good for anyone. They’re completely unqualified to reject most of these men

[@michikatsutsugikuni4096]

Back in my high school days, my crush was a 5'2 asian girl (I'm a 5'4 asian guy) and she prefers 6'0+ white guys. She was my dream girl and I chased her for years only to get brutally rejected. Now she's married to a 6'2 white guy and they have 2 kids. When girls say they want a 6'0 guy, they want someone at least a head taller than them. There are girls who would prob date a 5'9 guy but it doesn't change the fact that the overwhelming majority of girls won't date short guys (5'4 and below)

[@blakbear6528]

If 5’6 is already pretty fcking short for the majority of women , I cannot imagine what being 5’4 must be like. Brutal life. Sending prayers.

[@thomasmacdonough288]

Haha see I'm a 6'3" half asian guy and when I was in HS my last crush was this tall and pretty 5'11" white girl. Much to my ire she told me that she found shorter guys cute, and I found out she wasn't lying since every guy she's dated since has been nigh half a head shorter than her and usually hispanic descendant. Now, I know my case is probably far more an anomaly than yours but I just find it funny we had directly opposite experiences.

[@UserRobot215]

@@blakbear6528I’m 5’4 and ugly, that’s why I gave up. My fate was decided the day I was conceived

[@UserRobot215]

@@blakbear6528I’m 5’4, I had to give up trying since I’m undesirable to women

[@excalibro8365]

A head taller is a good estimate.

[@micronisia8295]

"open up to me" is good for creating a fake outlaw archetype in her head, that way you give her a reason to try to "fix you", just dont get to emotional then it can backfire

[@User8vfjhejf]

This is all true. Women run hot and cold within minutes of each other. After dates she'll basically say to herself "I had such a great time with this guy, I hope I never see him again" Then complain men have it easy when it comes to dating

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

If men have it easy, that means it’s because we can attract them. That means that her desire doesn’t matter in all of this. And it’s how you get her to desire you, by portraying yourself as someone who should have it easy because you’ve earned it

[@dreypez]

“I Don’t Need A Man” is so cap

[@smallcube-zn2mm]

yeah , toys and real body has different experience (I am virgin)

[@slide6314]

@@smallcube-zn2mm we aint even talkin about sexual things, in general women want a man that ofc has it all

[@corunga6465]

Nah YBC was right on this one. Well adjusted women don't need men anymore. Well adjusted man doesn't need a woman either. It's a want not a need and that's actually healthy.

[@QWERTY-gp8fd]

@@corunga6465 i dont need men = rely on men but doesnt admit it. womanese 101. it is impossible to live without 'needing' another human being. cops are men, doctors are men. how u going to survive in emergency without men

[@michikatsutsugikuni4096]

@@corunga6465 Women need men to survive. The worlds infrastructure is built, created and maintained by men. Most women are not physically capable of doing mens job (laying roads, building skyscrapers/houses, maintaining a power plant, roughneck jobs, etc...)

[@nosleepers11]

Men also do the “I’m busy” thing. Like I be asking my homies to hang out and it’s always I’m busy. But they never wanna follow up and reschedule.

[@SevenThe11thhhhhh]

But the difference is men are actually busy 😭😭😭

[@enriqueperezarce5485]

@@SevenThe11thhhhhhexactly, men we fill stuff up with things we enjoy

[@SevenThe11thhhhhh]

@@enriqueperezarce5485 yes, dhits thst important, following a goal or work

[@austinkrause5421]

fr bruh, people kinda suck

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

I find my lack of response much worse from men than women. Men are the problem with the world

[@chemical_28]

The pic of Destiny has me dead ☠️

[@Yut00bisSUS]

I fell off the couch when it popped up

[@mike17gr]

"I hAvE a BoYfRiEnD" I'd estimate 90% cap, 10% true and from that 10%, 5% means: "I have but you're not enough to make me cheat" Disclaimer: I've never approached women, it's just a guess I guess

[@txdang2009]

you are pretty accurate though

[@michikatsutsugikuni4096]

In my experience, girls who actually have a boyfriend never say they have one

[@risegaming2047]

Never before has a nail been this accurately hit on its head.

[@Germany-cy9cu]

They'd say it in a subtle way.Basically let you figure out on your own

[@joninator7858]

Statistically most women when you reach a certain age are in a relationship. Do you have any actual evidence of your claim or are you just making up theoretical nonsense that sounds good in theory but has no actual basis in reality?

[@hagmax1531]

I'd say they like romantic behavior if it's very sparingly, if they earned it themselfes or after some time of emotional unavailability. It hits like crack for them when they get a taste of commitment. But obviously the currency devalues very fast.

[@user-qg3ow9hf1s]

"I need some space" is underrated. I had a guilty laugh and cringed at the same time.

[@PlebiteBaller]

= I need to get ran through really bad by Chad(s)

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@PlebiteBallerwhy would she be able to get ran through by anyone when she has no value to attract them with?

[@PlebiteBaller]

@@marcusmcgraw3519 well I'm speaking from experience. She even bragged about it and how many guys Just to crush me/"revenge" I guess. Hooking up on tinder is not a thing of effort for an above avg looking girl. She could have a new guy pretty much any day of the week

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@ I’m an attractive man, so could I. Why would I believe I have to try more than women? You’re sad for giving value to someone who never earned it

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@ women lie about how many options they have, just to try to get you to play on their terms. Stop falling for it. You will never be attractive to them if you do

[@kyleholguin0227]

"i'm fine" has to be number 1

[@trevorwalkerjr.9375]

we got women quote tier list before gta 6. this generation is screwed

[@omgwind5217]

Normally when ppl make tier lists i brace for the worst but this was spot on

[@pawe1721]

Great mindset that many men should take into consideration. Girl should be like a cherry on top of your amazing life, not a main/only course.

[@Alex-gt5ho]

They're not the cherry on top They're shit u step on lmao

[@danieltriana1937]

Bro, could you make a tier list about: 1. Men red flags 2. Men green flags 3. Men habits 4. Men careers You know, just to have an ideal to kinda aim for

[@smallcube-zn2mm]

this channel not for women

[@danieltriana1937]

@@smallcube-zn2mm I know, but this videos could also be directed towards men as advice or a reality check

[@Zozz-tw9vn]

@@smallcube-zn2mmwe need reality checks fr

[@blakbear6528]

11:47 man ive seen hotter girls treat guys like him better, that was honestly pretty brutal for a 5/10 girl

[@ybctoocold]

So brutal man, don’t know who she thinks she is

[@juanpaz5124]

brootalmaxxing

[@gl3mmy903]

@@ybctoocoldshe was lowkey more like a 4/10 and the guy was atleast a 6/10 lmao that was kinda funny icl

[@oblivion5390]

the truth is, most people on the lower end of looks, are usually the ones with the most toxic personality.

[@Takashii85]

​@@gl3mmy903I'd say they were more on the same level

[@Imthatguy8797]

Dude I’m exhausted.

[@mihajlohranisavljevic6412]

Me to my friend, me to...

[@jonathanmarkham1998]

I know sometimes we can get caught in a bad algorithm but try to stop watching videos by guys that hate women. It will only get you down.

[@Imthatguy8797]

@@jonathanmarkham1998 i do agree but sometimes women themselves are confusing as well on what they want and how they are wired to be emotional they vary .

[@lansvance4870]

Could you do a video of red and green flags for men? Many women get ruined because they don’t have a good eye, which also has the effect of ruining the dating “market” for everybody else.

[@ybctoocold]

👍🏻👍🏻

[@lansvance4870]

@@ybctoocold🙂🙂

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@ybctoocold women didn’t ruin the dating market. Men ruined the dating market by enabling women. When will men fix the mess they made? Because until then, I’m just gonna keep taking your girls from you

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@ybctoocold women didn’t ruin the dating market. Men ruined the dating market by enabling women, then having the nerve to complain about it. Point the finger where it belongs, cuz the blame falls squarely on your shoulders. It will not fix itself until you do

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@ybctoocold women didn’t ruin the dating market. Men ruined the dating market by enabling them, then having the nerve to complain about it. Point the finger where it belongs, cuz the blame falls squarely on your shoulders. It will not fix itself until you do

[@JordanJJereb]

The biggest advice I have for men: People vote with their feet.

[@MK-gm2mq]

As a woman....this guy is unfortunately way too accurate

[@ybctoocold]

Thank you

[@MK-gm2mq]

Can you recommend a female version of your channel...I need to understand men

[@ybctoocold]

@@MK-gm2mq Psychacks. He makes vids for both genders.

[@eresoup7229]

@@ybctoocoldpsychacks is the goat

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@@ybctoocold psychacks is awful. He tricks men into playing a game that favors women and says the solution is to “just become a top 5% man”. He leads you to a problem that he frames as the solution. And these desperate men eat it up

[@fgcpeak9591]

You know when a girl doesnt reply to your message on a dating app? It's NEVER, EVER because she is "overwhelmed" with matches. It's because youre simply not HOT ENOUGH in her list of matches. When she takes her time to reply to your messages and says she is busy, also cap. Anything she is doing that doesn't make it easy for you to access her is CAP.

[@danp2306]

Imho, 2 or 3 most common/given: 1) I'm busy; 2) I'm not looking for a relationship right now (sometimes accompanied by 'I recently got out of a bad relationship/breakup; 3) I have a bf

[@Michael_the_Drunkard]

3:17 I wouldn't put it that far up. Romanticism can work on some women under certain circumstances: - she has to be attracted to you on a physical and emotional level - the relationship should be atleast a few months old (experiences should be made) - in a secluded location with a nice view, where you are alone with her (example: campfire, exotic country) - romanticism is more than just dropping compliments: reminiscence of common memories, making her open up emotionally and comforting if she cries (that's where the compliments and jokes come in). - mix it up with some teasing (emotional rollercoaster) - when you propose to a woman, you are automatically being romantic - should be done on certain occasions only

[@MrMozkoZrout]

I mean it doesn't even have to be any grand gestures like this. It's as simple as sometimes buying her a flower, opening doors and shit. Depends on how you do it but yeah. When is somebody trying to be romantic tho, it's also very important not to come across as desperate or simpy. I think that is the biggest problem of a lot of guys who are like this.

[@enriqueperezarce5485]

@@MrMozkoZroutSolution is to do it very sparsely throughout the relationship

[@Burgerplayer3920]

At this point, it's better to just be alone with family or good friends all life. "Love" nowadays isn't worth it with the low chance that it actually is true love. Just be happy with your self, love your self and be your own best friend kinda. That's true happiness!

[@Phantom-bh5ru]

I don’t think “I like romantic men” should be that high. The problem is not that they don’t actually like romantic men it’s that they like it in MODERATION.

[@enriqueperezarce5485]

Nah just don’t be romantic with someone when going on dates, relationships should be very little and should be in doses. It supposed to be exciting when you do it, not expected by her

[@johnlewis8934]

“Women’s emotions are more volatile then crypto” That’s the mf truth

[@Yut00bisSUS]

Women are attracted to the men who don't like them back

[@parkercornwall4253]

Romantic men is partially true. If the wrong guy tries it, it don’t work, it’s like a needy weak dude tryna be alpha, it’s like wyd bro. Play to your strengths, there are certain guys who can pull it off, guys who aren’t insecure at all, there can be no ego and sensitivity involved, not simpy, just a genuine display of passion for the woman. Turns girls on if done right, can’t change my mind on that.

[@birchgarden2238]

Grats on the 10k sub, bro. It's well deserved. With your no bs content, you're helping out a lot of guys here.

[@ybctoocold]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@Flcracker921]

“Chivalry is dead.” - yeah cause you killed it! Fckn G O L D.

[@DoporaBHe6o]

alright this video is very based there is nothing I can argue about after watching which rarely happens keep going, I am liking your vids just not to lose them and to reference them in the future, very good summary of different aspects of dating

[@ybctoocold]

Glad you had trouble disagreeing with anything lmao, usually I get at least half the people disagreeing with takes but that’s to be expected. Thanks for the support bro 🤝

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Understanding the difference between words and actions is key to better communication in any relationship.*

[@eagle5818]

Ig we’re just making a tier list off anything now? Based tbh

[@DoubleYouDeeFourty9991]

Spitting facts, other than "He's just a friend", I feel like that should be higher

[@marcosromo7640]

Watched this with my wife. She clapped throughout the whole video. Said you were spitting straight facts and you are too dangerous to be left alive 😂

[@ybctoocold]

Haha I’m glad to hear you both enjoyed the video! Send her my regards.

[@Averagelifestyle-u1f]

Women’s emotions are more volatile than crypto is crazy 🤣

[@jxivanx]

"I'm not looking for a relationship" Debatible. I'm going out frequently with a woman who doesn 't like physicall contact ,she is timid and tends to travel to her natal home some times, so she stays in the city some periods of time. Each "date" I touch her by a friendship hug or say hello/goodbye with a hug and she slowly is having physicall contact by her own and not being me the one taking initiative. Also I'm learning with her loving by detachment and not needly show love by a relationship. Sorry if my english is bad, is not my native language and BTW good tierlists

[@rhysmendozavilla2378]

“I was busy” oh she was busy alright

[@c_l_a_d_d_i_x]

I’m not even single but I just enjoy watching this shit and hearing you vent. Keep up the good work mate!

[@joehlloyd]

"I don't need a man" is at best partially true. They don't need men to survive, but they do need men to be happy. Don't get it backwards - men and women need each other, and we shouldn't pretend otherwise.

[@sageofsparda3764]

Most of these were right, but the biggest one i have to call you out for being wrong for is, "i need some space". I'm married, and sometimes when we're fighting I'll say this, or she'll say this and we'll either go on a drive away from the other person or we'll go in another room just to get away for a minute. Trust me when I say, you don't want to push that conversation after she says this especially if you know it's already getting heated. It'll just turn into you both screaming at each other and attacking each other and nothing about the initial conflict will get resolved. I stress this to any dude who asks me my advice on the whole giving space thing.. give the woman her space. Come back to the conversation once you both have a better head on your shoulders because I promise you if you continue to push the problem and you don't give her space, you'll most definitely regret it, and actually, that might be the thing that drives her out of the relationship as a whole.

[@blooeagle5118]

That bit about engaging a woman's array of emotions is actually pretty true, women want their men to engage them emotionally in order to feel like she is bonding with him, but if he doesn't give her enough space to be emotional she can't bond and loses interest

[@alynereck]

as a woman, i feel exposed but understood by that man wow - he understands what i mean when i say things better than i do😂 but its true what he is saying - but the open up part... i have to say that if a man really never opens up, its very unattractive... it just means he doesnt trust and doesnt care and doesnt want a relationship, so thats offputting after a certain time. and by opening up i dont mean tell me all your fears and emotions and struggles, more so open up about your desires, dreams, thoughts, challenges and a little bit your worries but back if off with a: but i will handle it for sure, dont worry

[@ybctoocold]

Thank you for the honesty. And yes I agree with your point that’s why I said in the video being too romantic is bad, whereas doing it sparingly here and there is fine. As far as opening up, I’m referring to spilling all your feelings to her, which usually never ends well.

[@supremekingowl9350]

This shit doesnt matter in my cases where im th only one sharing my ambitions

[@orangemanlemonstand9640]

Imagine my surprise when I heard, "I have a girlfriend!" 😂 Too bad that one isn't on the list, because 95% of the time it's no cap. I was surprised beyond belief, more than I had ever been in my entire life. That was a month ago, and I'm actually still very confused by it. For context I had known this girl for a while, and we met for a lunch that had somehow evolved into what I thought was a date. Everything went really well. I kissed her forehead at the end of the date, and she seemed okay. In fact, before I had kissed her she had even said she wanted to meet with me for food again sometime. Well, 2 weeks went by after I told her I liked going out with her in the DMs, so I was confused why she hadn't replied back. Later I found out from her that she had gone quiet because she didn't know how to break the news to me that she was already in a committed relationship with her girlfriend! I don't know if that was more awkward for me or for her, and we left everything on more than good terms, so I've never been more confused. She really likes me, so that makes the whole situation a lot more odd. Needless to say, this last month I've been working on myself, and I've just been trying to forget the dating scene for a while. Think I'm gonna need some time lmao

[@parkercornwall4253]

It’s also crazy how different this list would look if talking about woman from certain countries.

[@konradjurgiewicz3598]

"He's just a friend" - sometimes it's not even true for a mid guy. Friend of mine was left for a low test, bald older dude that was "just a friend" she met at work, now they have a daughter. It was all his fault to be frank, but even the ugly one can be dangerous if you don't take good care of her.

[@supremekingowl9350]

To be fair that bald guy must of have status max being in a superiority position or something

[@konradjurgiewicz3598]

@supremekingowl9350 nothing special to be honest, but my friend is younger than her and was acting accordingly while she wanted to settle, so the other guy had it easy

[@jahigains9201]

I don’t fear being vulnerable with a woman who’s earned it, because I know I’ll be good with or without her

[@ilcorbellodipianoia8646]

bro i dont need a man is cap they want validation attention money the status they get from being with a high value man ecc thats cap af. the same sentence but reverted for men: yeah you need a woman. you need intimacy and sexual satisfaction those are basic human needs.You should not beg but eventually you need a woman.

[@MrMozkoZrout]

I mean usually when they say they don't need a man it is said in this sort of empowered feminist sense you know. It kinda means that they can be a strong independent woman and can make enough money on their own and don't need anybody to take care of them. Or at least that is what is the primary meaning of this phrase. And i kinda agree with it being true. Women have the same opportunities today as men and they can do just fine without the need to be gold diggers. I know people where the girl is the one who makes more money in the relationship. But i mean yeah, i don't think this sentence was supposed to be taken literally. Like everyone needs a romantic partner eventually as you say.

[@imperiumoccidentis7351]

@@MrMozkoZrout Except they have to be pumped up on SSRIs and other drugs to even remotely cope, and even then they fall apart mentally after about a decade if they don't have a male partner to bail them out before then.

[@BonglordMcCloud420]

It disturbs me how many of these I have actually encountered and have proven to be exactly as described. Bravo sir. Biblical

[@Rampage0303]

Dam, this has to be the most, cold, factional list. Thank you for the wisdom. Also, if I am understanding correctly, women don't actually tell you the truth when they are saying truth. It's just what they is the truth.

[@Squigglet23]

“Sorry I was asleep” when she’s ignores you for 17 hours

[@yeyofamoelguerosalvaje6861]

You actually made me change my mind on “i don’t need no man” , you wow a sub

[@ybctoocold]

👑

[@GaryTheSnail-j2e]

YBCTooCold I need your help once again! I have a dilemma: Sould we men settle for girls that want us but that we find unattractive/ugly just so that we can be in a relationship/have sex? Or is it better to wait until through many cold approaches, rejections, flirting, talking with girls ect we FINALLY find a girl where the feelings are mutual? (We are both attracted to each other) If we settle we get girls quickly but if we don't we risk being single for years. But if we continue trying we wait but eventually get a girl that we want and thus a more fulfilling experience? Also how about a mixed method where we settle so that we aren't single but at the same time be on the lookout for Better options? Much like what women themselves are doing to us men actually with their Hypergamy BS. Then again if you aren't truly attracted to a girl what's the point? You won't be single but it's gonna feel like you are! You won't ever feel fulfilled. Heck i don't even know if an erection would be possible? 😂 I ask all of this cause it has happened to me. I could be in a relationship with like 5 girls through out the years if i accepted their advances. But i didn't find them attractive i swear to god! And why the girls i don't want to F are always the ones attracted to me and the ones i want to F find me ugly or something? 😂 Due to my indifference towards them perhaps? IDK. Please Answer and if you want make a video on this very topic. 🙏 PS. Sorry for the Long A$$ comment.

[@TileBitan]

the 'i'll let you know' one is soo true. I dated for a bit recently and every single time this happened, nothing came out of it. I'd prefer if they said I'm not interested and left it at that, but the world doesn't work in that way

[@JoeyLewy30]

Aye ybc bro idk how u know so much but your on point my dawg I'm feeling this channel I see big potential man

[@ybctoocold]

🔥🔥

[@Slydime917]

This is so true. Experienced this as well, especially with opening up (they all hate it) and them telling they aren't looking for anyone (they are, just not you). Biggest takeaway - you just have to be attractive and "vibe" with her.

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

Women don’t control dating. Stop accepting their terms in hopes of getting one. You will never succeed in that manner. Force them to like you by being attractive and aloof towards others instead

[@Slydime917]

@marcusmcgraw3519 that's not how it works. She either likes you or not. You can't make her like you. At best it'll be a loveless companionship

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@ ok the same applies the other way around. The problem is that you keep showing how willing you are to lower the bar for them when they never earned it, while enabling her to hold you to a higher standard. You sound so weak. Women don’t control dating, you just treat them as if they do, and that’s why they don’t like you. Have you figured the issue out by now?

[@Slydime917]

@@marcusmcgraw3519 what do you mean lowering the bar? What does that look like even? No, I haven't figured out the issue

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

@ “lowering the bar” = giving less standards to women. For example, they have to trust you to want you, but men don’t have to trust a woman, they only require her to look good. Therefore, men shouldn’t be surprised when they like the girl much quicker than the girl likes them. And it’s men’s fault for having no standards, because it inhibits them from being attractive

[@SrbendaNo1]

"I am busy (for you)" "I am not ready for a relationship (with you)". Etc etc...

[@icalivy]

Emotional intimacy is to be used sparingly. You dont overwater a flower you just treat it adequately to what it needs as long as you can forsee what will happen when u do x y z

[@Atom224]

Doesn't justify the other cap tho

[@royalobasi1938]

Ngl bro, these tier list remind me of ethanoneverything and i like it, We need more

[@kebman]

There is one woman who said she loves me. The way she did it... I _knew_ she was telling the truth. Too bad I didn't love her back, so I left.

[@night_wander]

okay so some random man really thinks he understands what women mean by saying particular things based on what...? His personal experience based on conversations with a FEW women? On his guesses? on his clairvoyance? As a woman, I can say that only half of this is true, the rest of segmentation is absolute bullshit, especially about "being romantic" and "treating her nice" stuff. I can fully agree only with "i am busy", "I'll let you know" and "I have a boyfriend" stuff as a polite form of rejection. But you know what? Women are different, some would mean what they say, some would lie to you because it's easier. It's absolutely hilarious how a man judges about the whole womanhood and he is not even a woman. Based on his brilliant logic, people who like to get gifts from their lovers are gold-diggers? People who have friends of opposite sex are cheaters? Apply all of these statements to men and you see how stupid this sounds. Please guys think critically. Not every man in youtube talking bullshit about women is right.

[@Atom224]

Lol, stop the cap.

[@steampunksilver7]

After a long period of time in my life, I was isolated and far from relationships, despite their presence and availability around me everywhere, but I was always trying to preserve myself, and this was because I did not want anything. I only wanted a girl who looked like me and resembled the way my family raised me, and after I finished middle school and high school and arrived at university. Finally, I found her to be a respectable girl, who is similar to me in many things, the same upbringing, the same childhood stage, the same middle class, and her family is similar to my family, and she loves what I love, and she also plays video games like me even the same family problems that we go through are the same, but unfortunately not everything we like or want we can have in this life. In the end, after I confessed my crush on her, she refused and it seemed that she did not feel the same feelings and said that we are just friends. This was like a big break that happened in my heart. There is nothing I can do but accept the truth of the matter. I do not know how to explain what is inside me, but I feel that everything has become black and I have become isolated again from the world. Although I tried to be apart for a long period of time, which was 4 months, but it seems that there is no change that has happened to me, I still love her and miss her very much, and currently we are still friends, and yesterday she and I returned from university after a long day talking and laughing, and it seemed that there was nothing going on. But in reality, I am very sad inside, and it seems that my confession and my feelings have been buried. When we sit together and I look at her, I look at her beauty, her personality, her laugh, and her eyes. All of this will be received by someone else. I am even sadder. There's nothing I can do but watch from afar or tell her I have to leave.

[@Az00069]

1:24 but wait! What if the first guy is really confident and has good game? 😱 You've got a touch of the black pill in ya after all. 😏 We all do. 👍

[@ybctoocold]

Maybe I do 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@paulsmith5611]

More common rejection for me living in a big liberal US city isn't the "I have a boyfriend", it's "I'm gay" or "My girlfriend/wife.....", or "I'm a lesbian". Most of them aren't gay even though there is a large gay population in this area, but it's an easy way for single women to shut down all dating conversations.

[@hyabusa22]

14:49 truest bars in here. She will use that shit against you or it will turn her off that you are too vulnerable. My first hand experience can attest to this. 😂

[@MohammedKin99]

Ybc w another banger upload

[@ybctoocold]

💯💯

[@mr.wolfiepack5516]

If she says "I have a bf" it can go two ways 1: "I have a bf" (with a straight face/ serious face) = she have a bf 2: "I have a bf" (saying it in a way like a animation with a smile or high pitch voice ) = she doesn't have one

[@JRR1804]

This man never misses

[@ybctoocold]

🔥🔥

[@none1426]

"Eventually I began to hate them."

[@pho_en_ix_dk3715]

Love this channel for it’s uniqueness, jokes and atmosphere, name of every tier is also something special 😂

[@ybctoocold]

Thank you for all the support, I’ll do my best to continue being unique 🤝

[@Werday-bv7eh]

if u r handsome, event married woman never busy too u, i swear its true 😅

[@sumrandomguy4860]

Just wanna stop and say being romantic worked for me, you just can't come across needy(doing it cause you think you have to) or don't overdo it. Also diesagree with protection - know plenty of women scared to go out alone or walk home when it's dark. Shit still happens far too frequently

[@Dae_Dae_Drip]

I tell women i be busy as well alot of men dont understand how women act like its best to avoid them and go about your own damn life. They will start chasing later trust me. Men shouldnt chase women anymore unless if you are a a very attractive guy that have money then yea but if your ugly or poor or dont meet the standards of women then they dont want your ass. People will learn the hard way 🤷🏾

[@davidsantiago7808]

11:48 that poor guy hes so out of her league but shes manipulating him like that ffs

[@JUNSKULLY.]

how do you know so much about female nature at such a young age? Do you have experience or sum?

[@ybctoocold]

Experience and being observant/reflecting + reading and studying.

[@parkercornwall4253]

Sometimes I feel bad for red pill guys. My girl thick Brazilian.. is obsessed with me, like severely attached, been together almost 3 years. Maybe im accidentally doing everything else right without knowing I am but I’ve broken like all the rules lmao. I’m 5’11 and fit but pretty skinny, don’t make good money, extreme social anxiety, tons of family issues, I’ve got decent features but I’m def not a model. I’ve opened up to my girl with many things, she knows everything. Don’t gossip and complain all day everyday like a girl and come home sobbing to her. But if you can’t open up sometimes without her taking advantage or falling out of love…FIND ANOTHER GIRL. Holy fuck. Girls like a touch of humanity, gives them something to be soft towards. What I can recommend is learn how to get good at sex. Learn her body, what she likes. Being funny helps a lot. Learn martial arts, turns girls on so much to watch you train all sweaty and shit, also makes you more based and less insecure.

[@aligmal5031]

the "i don't need a man" is the highest cap not true same women who say that are angry of passport bros

[@extremebass9195]

What if she says that he is good looking, cute ,etc to any random guy whenever she is with you

[@ybctoocold]

She’s testing to see if you’ll go jealous or lose composure. Don’t react at all or play it cool

[@pointthirteen2234]

“How much they are willing to compromise for the right guy” no actually we know full well how much they are willing to settle with after they have hit the wall. So every woman wants a tall man but of course not everyone can get him. So they settle for the 5’9 guy and say that he has “charisma” to make him look better, classic sign she settled, first thing she mentions of the guy is his character.