Thirty Things That We Don't Buy To Save Money - Extreme Frugality in 2022

Today I tell you the thirty things that I don't have or don't do that enable me to keep ahead in my frugal life.
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[@moonviolet27]

I can’t believe you don’t wear makeup- you are a natural beauty!

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

I know, I’m stunning

[@RhondaLorch]

Our list is almost, the same as yours with the exception of our Community Supported Agriculture (CSA) subscription in the summer. Basically we buy shares in a local farm and every week we get a delivery of whatever is in season. Makes me be creative to use up whatever is delivered and it supports a small farmer. Probably not the cheapest way to buy vegetables but it is our way to buy local and support our farmer.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Sounds like a great idea

[@catseyes8377]

How do you buy shares in the CSA farm. Is it by becoming a member?

[@RhondaLorch]

@@catseyes8377 Basically yes. We pay a share amount established by the farmer (about $500 in our case) and in return we get 10 weekly deliveries of enough veggies for a family of 4 along with a dozen eggs. It is picked the day it is delivered so really fresh.

[@helenmak5663]

Great idea to support local farmers and small businesses, they are struggling too.

[@belindacopson2390]

Great ideas Jane, I am with you on most of these but I do like an old fashioned home made pudding at the weekend! Mine are usually crumbles or baked fruit sponges , using the fruit from our own garden, so practically free.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Very nice, I can no longer manage a second course

[@kerstinkiel5314]

I went through the comments and saw a couple that didn't agree with your lifestyle. I ticked off most of your list except for make up and my moisturiser is good old E45 cream. I enjoy saving as much as i can and tackling any issues for as little money as possible. I'm not saving for anything special but the thought of having money behind me in the form of savings gives me a stress free comfortable life. I don't need to spend to feel fulfilled with my life, like you I find the simple pleasures in life make me happy..it's nice to stop and smell the roses instead of competing with the rat race or keeping up with the Jonse's .Great vid Jane and Mike.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Absolutely, each to their own. We’re not hurting anyone and we’re perfectly happy

[@lynnhensley4326]

I have found holiday items, Christmas or birthday cards at my church's thrift shop. We buy casual clothes and I buy earrings there. I also donate. They put the money back into the community and local charities.😊

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

That is awesome!

[@melindabardwell6511]

I got a very good score today. My weakness is with paper towels when cooking, and going through a drive through about once a month.

[@bria2596]

I hadn't really thought about it, but I don't buy any of the things you listed, either. Isn't it interesting that I still have a very rich life, own and use beautiful things. None of those things on your thoughtful list would add to my quality of life. I have plenty to do, I have more than I need. I can buy anything I need for my home, travel, or personal interests, but I keep all of that simple and uncomplicated. Learning what constitutes "enough" for my way of living, and making sure I meet my baseline for satisfaction and contentment, but not going beyond that, was important. Understanding my soul deep priorities took away a lot of superficial "wants." My personal "wealth" (which is more than just money), keeps expanding in unexpected ways, due to not wasting my resources. Thanks for helping put all of that life knowledge and useful, productive actions into perspective with your videos.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

a beautiful philosophy

[@wendywilson9638]

Well I was going to put up a comment but you've already said it all so well! 😊 I don't buy bottled water or magazines etc from an ecological viewpoint as much as anything. And I have switched from buying piles of cheap clothes (here in NZ we've made shabby clothes into an artform) to buying ONE or TWO really nice pieces in the sale. We never buy a brand new car.

[@tracyd2320]

I've got to review my wants verses my needs verses the people I have in my circle. I am rather a simple soul at heart.That said I need to confidently use the age old winner called"No". Thank You for your time.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

You’re welcome and thanks very much for watching

[@elizabethhelen3326]

I got to the end of your 30 items - realised I was holding my breath a bit…..and I was so happy because I don’t buy any of them either! I felt like you’d approve 😂 Another great video, thank you 😊🇫🇷🇫🇷

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

None of the are something we’d miss

[@nicolascott672]

Ironic that there was a Clinique ad in the middle of that! Loved those tips and wondering why I always feel the need to have a 'nice dress' hanging in the wardrobe when I hardly wear them.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Yep, that was me, I had clothes I didn’t wear, never again,

[@janetstonerook4552]

I rarely, if ever, order anything on line. Perhaps twice in the last 5 years, during Covid, I placed an order for a small item. But I no longer do now that I can get out and shop locally. I prefer to pay with cash and in person.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

That’s great Janet

[@Denise-mu1si]

Love your photos, tried quite a few of your recipes.Your videos and advice inspire me. Thank you.

[@janfoster9583]

Your never-buy list is much like mine, with a few exceptions. I feel blessed that shopping has never appealed to me as recreation. Going to most stores to find something to spend money on just isn’t fun for me. I think your list will open some eyes.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Thanks, it might but what’s important to others is just that and we’re all for choice

[@mlu18]

Love your video. Unfortunately, I'm not as frugal but more frugal than my friends and family .I love listening to you. In 5 to 6 years, I plan to retire. I live in the United States in a very large city, but I find ways to cut back. ( trying to pay off my house)I have friends and family members to give me the luxury items I don't buy as a gift. I am natural with my hair . I don't wear makeup, only lipstick from the dollar store. My SUV is 13 years old, with 80,000 miles . Thanks again for sharing good helpful information.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Welcome Mia and thanks for sharing

[@suematile9078]

Congratulations on a your lovely list. I read this as I got back from a hair cut, my first since March. I had to stop at Walgreens to pick up a prescription and bought chocolate and chips. I will soon be on my way to getting a pedicure. We will be leaving for a months's vacation in Florida. Your beginning list of items made me smile, because I was doing things you do not do. Truly though much of what you have on your list we, likewise, do. Your list is full of your own personal choices. What we do not buy is furniture. Much of what we have was given to us by relatives of that we bought used. As always you did another great job showing us how you live. Sue

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Thanks Sue, enjoy the sunshine

[@adaly5115]

Hi Jane and Mike great video as usual, making life so simple without the spending on such mindless items. I do serve fruit as a dessert though at the weekend only what is in season. You were right about no gluten free flour in the UK and so many othere items missing from the shelves in all shops. I am going to recommend this video to a number of friends that are moaning about everything going up in price and they would purchase everything in your list. Thanks again for another wonderful video. Take care from a very cold night in Belfast.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Thanks, I’d go broke very quickly if I was buying those items

[@adaly5115]

@@FrugalQueeninFrance we would too lol 😆 😂

[@ninajohnson6578]

I don’t pay for off site storage units. Very common in the US for people to pay to store things. Nope

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

If the stuff isn’t being used in their house, they might not need it anyway?

[@karenashbrook2345]

For most of the video it could’ve been me talking! I think I used to follow your blog, so I’m really pleased to have found you here xx 🙃

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

I’m glad you’re here too. Thanks for watching

[@rickiwinter1587]

My goodness you are both super frugal . I found myself feeling a little disappointed about being not so frugal. I am sitting here justifying why I buy certain things but realise that its about keeping within my personal budget. A couple of things others have mentioned that I also do are never buying new cars or new furniture these days. I also no longer buy books new , but make use of the library more. I never buy disposable wipes , this is also about the environment.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Hi Ricki, we don't miss any of those and we don't hide that the channel is all about extreme frugality to save money. We live off relatively low amounts, if we were not frugal then we'd soon be broke.

[@heidijanuary3286]

I really like your list.An inspiration! I do like a occasional dessert though 😁

[@sue1577]

I'm waiting but popping off and on x

[@christybrown6404]

This is a great list!! I have to say, though, that I couldn't go so long without some kind of chocolate, although I do try to restrict it to once a month. I've lost 190 pounds so far so I can have hip replacement surgery, so if I stick to my strict diet then a small amount of chocolate once a month is something to look forward to. Since I've lost all that weight I'm more interested in wearing more attractive clothes (doesn't have to be expensive) and some makeup (also not expensive). Before I didn't care how I looked but now I want to experiment frugally. I also have to have some smell goods. I love scented candles but I use them conservatively and I don't buy expensive candles. I also love scented lotions but I never buy them for myself.. In fact, everyone knows the best gifts to buy me for Christmas and birthdays are "smell-goods". Not that I expect gifts, but I'm easy to shop for. In reference to number 30, no sales, I wonder do you look at food sales ads to plan meals and shop when you need to or do you get whatever you want?

[@sandrafennell6927]

Well done on your weight loss . You are amazing, and all the best for your surgery

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Hi, we use the words sales differently. Food is on offer or reduced. Americans call that on sale. The sales, in a English English is a noun, I am going to the sales. Shops selling furniture, electrical goods, clothing have periodic sales at predetermined times of the year. People go to them to look for bargains. We don’t, unless it coincided with something beyond repair or at the end of its life. Thanks for watching.

[@motorcyclehair]

I'm with you with many of the same things on your list. Especially makeup, dresses, seasonal clothing. No ugly Christmas sweaters for Jane! lol

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Thanks Di

[@kerryjames4026]

Wise advice I will be doing this thank you

[@decdavey6470]

Thank you so much for your prompt reply. It was so nice to see you when I turned my phone on! Another question:. How does one seaon wood? Let it set for a certain period of time after it's cut?

[@decdavey6470]

season

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

You stack in the dry and leave it, each wood dries at a different rate.

[@frugalhappy9572]

Well done frugal queen!

[@sandrafennell6927]

I used to pay for lawn mowing when I was working full time, but now that I am retired I do all yard work myself. Also, I never pay for car cleaning (washing,vacuuming) services. I do that myself Over the years I have bought my cars brand new ( when I became financially able to do so) and always have them services and maintained so that I have them at least 12 to 13 years. I feel that I get my money's worth from them.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

You certainly do get good value from. New car if you keep it for a long time

[@eilidhml6323]

Great video and very thought provoking. I do wonder though, if you was to be invited to a formal event, would you hire an outfit? Or maybe just not go!? Thanks for the video:)

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Never been invited to a formal event in my entire life….doubt if I ever will

[@moonviolet27]

What about weddings and funerals?

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

@@moonviolet27 I got married in my ordinary clothes, I go to funerals and weddings in my ordinary clothes.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

@@moonviolet27 We got married in the clothes we already owned, nothing fancy just loose summer clothes. The same with weddings or funerals, we just wear our regular clothes.

[@Hide_and_silk]

We went out for a lovely family dinner to celebrate my son qualifying as a chartered accountant. I wore a little black dress, black patent pumps and felt a million dollars. The evening was wonderful. My son hugged me and thanked me for taking the trouble to dress up for him and for looking beautiful. I will treasure the memories of that evening forever and wouldn't swap it for all the bargain shopping hauls in the world. For us, life is about memory investment. We don't spend profligately but rather where we feel it adds value to our life and to the lives of those we love. I don't understand why you'd live as some sort of hair shirted puritan if there is no aim or purpose at the end? Maybe you could share what your long term savings are for as that might help add context to your videos??

[@davidjenson7773]

I was only guilty of one Amazon prime. I’m am inspired every time I listen to you and marvel on your positive attitude. David

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

You’re welcome

[@arlenemohandeson16]

I live here in the US. We don’t have rationing yet. However one of the things that we have always done is to be sure that if we are not using a room turn off the lights. There’s no need for the entire house to be lit up if you are not using that space.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Good point

[@arlenemohandeson16]

@@FrugalQueeninFrance Another tip to completely use shampoo and other plastic and bottle containers is just add a-small amount of water and shake. Sometimes you’ll find there is still quite a bit of product left at the very bottom that is just to thick to drain out.

[@terriginsberg6856]

Wow!! No dessert??

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Nope , we fill up with vegetables

[@monicaambs]

@@FrugalQueeninFrance Me too

[@Masterclassonlife]

You have lovely quilts and I admire your skill but how do you collect material to make a quilt? Do you have an enormous stash of material?

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

I go to the recycling centre and buy old shirts, clothes, bedding, table clothes and buy a huge sac of fabric for 5€ That’s usually enough to make a quilt. My only real expense is batting.

[@arlettepozzoli1820]

😉😉great video jane!!I don’t buy olive oil...cause i make it by myself 😋when God is kind 😅

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

How great, I love olive oil

[@rebacarmack8335]

I just unsubscribed to an auto renewal ( for discounts) at a book store! I don’t buy enough now for that to be a money saver. We shouldn’t have to buy a discount! Have a couple more to get rid of that I don’t use very often anymore.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Thanks very much for sharing

[@lynningram9171]

Finally someone else who doesn't wear wedding rings. Huge expense that isn't really needed. We're still married! We got married outside my front door right after Covid started. We gave away gift bags with toilet paper, water and snacks. My friends brought their lawn chairs. Almost free and very frugal. My dress cost $16.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Perfect! Our wedding cost us the cost of the paperwork

[@reginasemenenko148]

We have our original ones in a safe, but we bought very inexpensive fake ones for every day.

[@corinneleppard1933]

Fantastic video again. I also don't understand the "seasonal dress" or "seasonal home" trends. Think there is even a "colour trend" thing for each Christmas. Don't do any of this. I'm lucky to live rurally, so of I want to go seasonal, I just collect whatever I find when out walking. I also grow flowers, many come up year after year, so they decorate my house and also provide their own scent. I absolutely detest air fresheners and the like, our windows are open for a while every day, even in winter. Have a big win here as my OH loves fizzy drinks and sweets, but after showing him the weekly, then monthly, then annual cost of his habit - I rather cruelly also provided a total for the last 5 years - he switched to sparkling water and now just drinks tap water. I bake a lot to deal with any treats - for a sweet-toothed OH and teen son who doesn't stop growing! I also still have bath towels and a lot of bedding we bought when we first had our own home (1996). They are (mostly) still going strong and I have a sentimental attachment to them as I remember how we had to save to get anything for our first home together.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Thanks for sharing Corinne. My sparkling water was 24c a bottle and Mike’s fruit cordial was 2€! Between us, we were drinking 10€ of soft drinks a month. We switched to tap. water

[@jackieconrad4500]

Most of my friends get there nails done. I don't. I think i'm very much like yourselves, except i do own a couple of dresses.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

You and me don’t need it, we’re just fine

[@ruthiegross6718]

Paper towels!

[@decdavey6470]

In my fantasy life I make a quilt like your backsplash.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Me too

[@kerryjames4026]

I don't buy sponges to wash the dishes any more I use material wash clothes

[@ShoestringJane]

Good list but you are more disciplined than me. We love a dessert!

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

I’ll let you into a secret, I’ve never eaten dessert, it’s not something I’ve given up.

[@bkj2508]

Do you buy deodorant, perfume ,toothpaste? Just curious. I do buy paper products for when we are sick, such as with COVID, flu, or anything like that. I think I will try some of your ideas. What about the cakes and cookies you make, aren't they considered desserts or treats? Or do you consider them part of your meals? Thanks for sharing your life with us. I enjoy them.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Yes Brenda, we buy toiletries as part of our supermarket budget. We do not eat dessert so we have a main meal with no first or second course. We don’t have cakes or treats all year round and I was using up Christmas supplies such as dates, ginger, brown sugar and fruit. I don’t make cheesecake, or puddings or buy ice-creams. We do make an exception if we are hosting guests and cooking dinner, then we might have fish or pate as a starter, a main course and a dessert. We socialize entirely at home or at the homes of friends, it’s good to offer a piece of cake or take a cake. Thanks for watching.

[@rubyjools]

Bonjour! Tissues, I stopped buying tissues & went back to using pretty hankies. Bought in charity shops funnily enough because no-one seems to want them any more 😊. For me personally I've cut down on toilet rolls drastically. I cut up old flannels, hemmed them with a zig zag on the sewing machine stash them in a pretty box in the loo & use them instead. Pop them in the washing machine with towels & undies, job done.

[@joannapatterson4625]

Similar. I have no subscriptions, no cable. I watch You tube for free. No takeout coffees. I still buy takeout, maybe once a month. I don’t buy snacks. No expensive clothing, no pedicures, manicures. No drinking, smoking, home decor, knick knacks.

[@jc10907Sealy]

I stopped drinking alcohol 🍺 so unhealthy and expensive- don’t miss it

[@AllieTheVibe]

I made it through the first 4 and decided that a life where I NEVER get a pedicure, an ice cold Coke and a takeaway pizza, with tiramisu for dessert is NOT the retirement I want, early and debt free or not! I'm frugal but I allow myself my pleasures! I do use Groupon and student salons, and always make it clear for those wanting to gift me something that I love spa days, date nights,etc. Which helps make it thrifty and budget friendly. Kudos to being able to live such a disciplined life and I'm glad it makes you happy!!! I need a few more pleasures-- and an iced latte! 😂 I'll work a few more years and drive my cars for 12-15 years, etc. And make my budget accommodate my loves! ❤️

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Hi Alice, it’s not done out of discipline I can assure you. I don’t think, we should NOT do the things that we love or make us happy to save money. We actually don’t want to eat out, I hate make up, nail paint and banal chat In salons. It’s not sacrificing anything, it’s our choice. I’ve never like sweet food, or junk food or alcohol so we’re not missing any of that.

[@AllieTheVibe]

@@FrugalQueeninFrance to me it takes discipline to adhere to things so strictly, but I don't mean it in a bad way at all! I admire it, it's a trait I would do well to develop, whether it's called discipline or something else...I enjoy far too many creature comforts-- love a good pedi (but also have crippling arthritis that makes it hard for me to do my own nails, so I rationalize it that way! 😂) And I love a good creme brulee or Thai takeaway; I'm a bit indulgent- but I do follow a frugal, cash only budget with my savings maxed. I didn't mean my comment in a hateful way-- I ADMIRE that you can do these things. I may try to pick one to work on this next quarter and see if I can cut at least ONE item out of my own budget. Again, I pay you on the back-- I KNOW I couldn't do all of this, at least not now! Warmest wishes from Florida to you and your husband! Thanks for sharing!

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

@@AllieTheVibe as I said, it isn’t discipline, it’s choice. You do you,

[@AllieTheVibe]

@@FrugalQueeninFrance as I said, TO ME it is discipline; I appreciate that it isn't to you, and I stated that I admire that about you. Not sure why you're being hostile when I am complimenting you but bless your little heart. You do you as well, I'll stop watching your channel as it's clear speaking about my opinion is too much. Bless your heart!

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

@@AllieTheVibe I’m not being hostile at all. If you watched to the end of the video, you’ll see I clearly said we are making our own choices and have no criticisms at all of anyone making choices. We don’t like desserts is an example. I actually feel as if I have to defend my choices so no one can accuse us of living a parsimonious or unhappy life. We are living our best life.

[@susanjaco1548]

Do you have any hobbies?

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Yes, I’m a quilter.

[@susanjaco1548]

@@FrugalQueeninFrance awesome, me too. The reason I ask is because often times our hobbies are where we can loose track of the money we spend. I love your channel and your tips and was wondering how you deal with costs especially when buying fabric which can be pricey. Thanks🙃

[@susanpontow-lopez2800]

I'm confused. I'm new at watching you. The very first video I watched of yours was Cakes, Cakes, Cakes. You made 3 different desserts, but yet you say in this one that you don't eat dessert.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Hi in the UK, dessert is a course at a meal, so a British meal can consist of a starter, main course and a dessert. At meal times, we fill up on a main meal. We don’t buy or have desserts such as trifle, ice cream, apple crumble and custard. you watched our things we don’t buy video, I said, we do have treats at Christmas. The baking goods were all leftover from Christmas baking. Would you rather I threw them away? Let’s get on to tea and cake. That’s is a meal called teatime in the UK and late afternoon people might take tea with cake. Cake isn’t eaten after a bowl of casserole, roast potatoes and three types of vegetables as we’re full up. Also, cake is offered. To guests who drop by for tea. It would be utterly miserly to offer someone a cup of tea and no cake. So, British people don’t eat a piece of fruit cake, gingerbread or date slice as a dessert.

[@cindyjolly9114]

You lost me at desserts

[@QuiltingCrow]

We started living really frugally and mindfully one year ago. Until then, we already did a lot right, but since then, a lot has changed. We no longer have our hair cut, we do it ourselves. No more meals out, no more visits to the cinema (Corona helped with that one :)), and so on. Today, we have checked how much we saved in this one year. I could not believe it! It's so much that I can say: I have never had so much money on my bank account before (I'm 44). You are a big inspiration for me and my husband!

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Cheers and stupendous work there on the savings

[@patmartin9727]

At 44 you still have time to turn your life around and benefit from your frugality in your future life. I look at any money I save this money is money I will have for harder times. I know in retirement that my income will be halved so I know by saving today I will increase my income in retirement. I don’t go without now and I allocate money entertainment but I keep it with the allocated budget.

[@ashleybosvik3031]

Everyone talks about frugality but don't forget to have some fun

[@mariaevans5046]

Well what a relief to find someone who doesn't buy all these things either - I've never found them necessary, prefer to keep my money. And I'm certainly not deprived Thank you Jane

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

So true!

[@lindajacquot5391]

It was hard to come up with something we don't buy (which is why I watch your channel as I need to be far more frugal than I am). I did come up with two, though. We don't buy new furniture, except for mattresses, and we don't buy cars new. We research, and find the vehicle with the lowest miles and most reliability. It inevitably ends up being a Toyota. Good video Jane and Michael - very thought provoking. Thank you!

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Love that!

[@tamarasmith288]

I have never had a mani/pedi either. People are so shocked when I tell them that 🤣 Thank you for sharing your list....you always give inspiration and great ideas.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

I do know anyone who has manicures or pedicures

[@karenlouise2156]

I cut my own hair. Learned how to do it on KZbin years ago. This has saved me thousands of dollars over the years. I had to purchase a $10 pair of cutting sheers

[@heathertucker7056]

Great video as always! I can relate to the vast majority of your “no buy” items but we have a dessert everyday usually fruit, yoghurt or home made crumble etc! My pet hate is to see people buying vast quantities of bottled water! I just can’t see the point when tap water is readily available and safe to drink! Bonkers! Keep these great videos coming!

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Thanks Heather, we never say never, if we have guests, I make a dessert for them

[@dianachick7887]

Thank for once again providing such informed and valuable advice. I was a habitual purchaser , feeling a little low go on treat yourself ….. not once a month but three or four times a week . Had to stop . Cold turkey was the only way . It certainly wasn’t easy as I am retired but with no debt but dwindling savings I needed all the encouragement I could find . Where did I find this…..? not friends, not family but your channel. I binge watch . With my morning cuppa I say “Good Morning Jane “ and I am set for the day. My life is calmer, richer and I have found joy in the simplest of pleasures…. Reading, walking ,lifting weights in my bathroom…..if it doesn’t cost money I am IN. The only piece of advice I can give is for people to look long and hard at their pension funds ….whatever you think you need to live on in retirement double or triple it. You are never too young to start. By the way I have stopped using my range cooker . Slow cooker . Small oven or microwave….the way to go . Thank you again you are so appreciated. I am more than surviving but then I only have myself to please 💕🥰💕 Bless you both 💕🥰💕

[@marilys3549]

Great video, lots to think about. I've never had a new car. Right now I have a 2003 Honda Element with 250,000 miles on it . My brother is a mechanic, so he helps me keep it in tip top running shape. I don't wear expensive clothes around the house just warm ones this time of year. I do quilt and by the odd piece of fabric now and again. I also knit but I buy very little yarn. I love to knit scarfs, hats, and baby sweaters. Most the patterns are free online. I don't buy expensive cuts of meat but everything has gotten so expensive. I buy 2nd hand shoes on ebay. I only run the dish washer when it's full... same with the laundry. I do buy a few fuchsia starts, geraniums and annuals for my flower pots every spring. I cut flowers from my yard for bouquet 💐 on my table. So lot of cost cutting around my house. I don't feel deprived at all. I feel blessed with contentment. God bless you, for sharing your tips with us. 😉

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

I agree with everything, we do the same

[@mak2867]

We did not do the no spend January. Instead, we purchased, a bread machine, bidet, kitchen towels, cupcake pan, breakfast grill, pens, blue beanie, 5 energy saving white lamps, 14 outside solar lights, veggie seeds, 6 throws, 5 long sleeved tees, 1 sweater, electric grooming shaver, sugar, self rising flour, baking powder, at 50% off. We needed some replacements. We purchased distilled water to drink if we are ill and use it in our floor steamer. Thank You for the useful content.

[@francismacdonald4569]

I’ve been retired since I was 56 I’m 60 now. I’m not a huge spender but share a few of those things on your list. I don’t think I’ll ever be frugal. I do pick up a lot of good ideas from you and definitely do try to follow them. I love your meal videos and have enjoyed making some of your recipes. It’s nice to see how people live in other countries. Interesting to see what food, housing and other things cost. The prices of most everything have shot up in the past two years. Rent has pretty much doubled, we are home owners so I consider myself very fortunate. Houses have gone up to 1 to 2 times what they were a couple years ago. Food prices are ridiculous!

[@francismacdonald4569]

Sorry quick on the thumb! Thank you for sharing parts of your life. Sincerely, Debby NS Canada

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

People are struggling, the cost of living is so high

[@janinemcdonnell9221]

@@francismacdonald4569 Yes Debby, I have noticed as well that food prices have increased unbelievably. We grow bananas in our back yard and I have just started to grow lettuces using hydroponics. The sun is a bit harsh for lettuces and possums like them as well.

[@moniquehuijskens1950]

Hello Frugal Queen, I dont buy books. I get them for free in little book cupboards in front gardens of houses. Its called bookhoppers. You can take books , sometimes also magazines and put yours into them. Al for free; I read very much and love this way of discovering other writers. So I gave up being member of the library. Love my weekly tour among the bookhoppers. Kindest regards from the Netherlands.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

I love the book idea.

[@lorrainehunter5646]

keeping it real simple. We dont need all the stuff to have a good life

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

I agree, we need nothing but each other to be happy.

[@beautifulheart3849]

I’m always shocked when I see the huge slabs of litre bottles of water people buy in the supermarket. Our tap water here in Ireland is 100% safe. I guess people have their reasons. New subscriber by the way so am catching up on (and liking 👍) all your vids. Many thanks. ❤️❤️❤️🇫🇷🇮🇪

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Hi and thanks for watching

[@rosaestrada41]

Hi Beautiful Heart Unfortunately in L A the water is not safe to drink so I do buy Bottle water and I recycled too.

[@2Beldam]

We live in a factory town & our water is not safe to drink straight from the tap. I honestly hate having to use it to wash clothes and take showers in 😢👎 Bottle water til politicians care to do something about it…so it’s not going to change in the foreseeable future 😉 bottled water for us

[@CharlesAvilaMeasInst]

After thinking I can share that we don’t buy anything that’s disposable. That saves us loads of money!

[@butterflyj1967]

I don't buy ready meals...I make and freeze my own .

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Like wise

[@BrianEYoung]

I enjoyed this video! I feel like I wouldn't miss most of these things. Saving sweets for when they're special sounds like a great idea to enjoy them more

[@susiespider7]

Another interesting video Jane, one thing I don’t buy is fabric conditioner

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Nice

[@tinalemna7998]

Interesting list. I don’t buy most of these things but I do buy a little bit of makeup and I crave chocolate too much to give it up.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Each to their own and I’m happy that people are happy

[@wendywilson9638]

Lol. Towels! Oh dear Jane, I had an obsession with towels for a while; it was bordering on unhealthy. 🤣 I would stroke them in the store & next thing, they were in my cupboard! AND mostly, but not completely, they were white. Go figure. I still struggle a bit in linen departments but it's getting easier. Pray for me lol.

[@angelaworrell2974]

I have the same obsession....didn't think that there was another person who felt the way I do about towels and bed linens. I'm desperately 😫 trying to break free lol 😆😅

[@jewelgaither1504]

My mother-in-law has that towel/tea towel obsession, too! AND, I am the grateful recipient of her "cast offs"--she buys towels really often and I have lots of towels and tea towels on hand. I don't think I will have to buy any for years and years. I use them until they're truly for the "rag sack"!

[@wendywilson9638]

I'm sure I feel my pupils dilate in the towel department still but I've been purchase free for a few years now.🤣

[@ashjoma]

I like towels that are thin and scratchy.. I do have an obsession with finding the right ones and I bought a lot of cheap, clearance ikea towels that were the cheapest ones, unbleached and thin.. I think they were around $4 aus each.. don’t regret them at all. Have enough to last me out. I can’t stand the feel of thick, plush towels, so I am not tempted there at all.. so, other towel obsession ladies, you are safe from me in the shops. I do like Laura Ashley bedding as it’s 100% cotton and I am guilty of buying several doona covers from eBay.. I can’t sleep well on anything that’s a polyester/cotton mix.. But, I’m telling myself I have more than enough.

[@sandrafennell6927]

I know where you are coming from I have an obsession for quilts for my bed. I love them

[@rosaestrada41]

Hi Jane I’m with you! The only thing I do buy is bottled water since the water in LA is not drinkable. My friends buy a new model car or phone once it comes on the market and I don’t do that. I take care of my things and I’m starting to buy what I need from thrift shops or garage sales. Thank you for your informative video. Have a glorious day.

[@robinfinicle3040]

Wow ! I'm with you on 29 of the "don't buys!" I do have Netflix for under $10 a month. That's my entertainment as I don't go to movies, plays or concerts. And I'm doing No Spend January. And it really feels good!! :) I enjoy your content very much! Especially the recipes .

[@karenbowden552]

As always, great video with thought provoking and top tips :). I never buy shower gel, I much prefer a bar of soap in the shower, loads cheaper! Especially if you need to go 'soap free' for your skin.

[@rosemarydoran9907]

I buy most of the items in your list; however, many are very infrequent purchases. For example, I don't typically buy soda pop, but occasionally I get a taste for a ginger ale or a coca cola, do I will buy a small bottle and that satisfies me. I eat out/get takeout maybe once or twice monthly for a small amount. I pay for You Tube TV but I don't add on any movie channels or subscribe to Netflix or Amazon Prime. I only grocery shop every 2 weeks. I am disabled and rely on a delivery service to get my groceries. I shop at Walmart and pay an annual fee for unlimited free deliveries. I have found by shopping every other week I do save myself over $100/month and that really helps with the budget. I will usually need another gallon of milk in between but a neighbor is always kind to pick it up for me in between my shopping trips. Thanks for giving us so many things to consider eliminating or at least cutting way back on.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

You’re welcome Rosemary, as I say each to their own and we’re all for personal choice

[@margaretlopez7672]

My husband and I will be married 50 yrs in June, all these years I have cut his hair and my own and I do my own manicures and pedicures. We have slways done our own housework, gardening etc. Many of our friends and family hire out all these services but we don’t live up to the Jonesses. We are now retired and rarely eat out. Again, many friends and family perceive this as strange, or cheap but we really enjoy our home cooked meals and like to stay away from noisy crowded restaurants.When we worked we took our lunch to work from dinner leftovers or homemade sandwiches. We live simply but a very satisfying, frugal, debt free, mortgage free life for which we are immensely grateful. We were not Alwsys good about managing our money but life and Dave Ramsey as well as channels like your have taught us a lot the last 30 years. Thank you for your inspiring videos!

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Thanks Margaret

[@MsPeppersmom]

I used to really enjoy magazines. My library had a place where you could drop off magazines and I could pick what I wanted for free.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

That’s a good way to recycle too

[@glow15]

No subscriptions, non-feative seasonal decor, magazines, games or single use items for me either. 😊 And I haven't bought any books for the past year, still have a whole pile to finish before I allow myself to get any more...😂 I do enjoy manicures but just do them myself at home, it's so much cheaper!

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Great to hear that

[@lakesidehomesteadwithdavea5757]

I don't do mani or pedicures either....we live a very modest life...we don't buy cloths unless something wears out...and then we check the thrift stores first. It really is a mind set. Thank you and take care from the chilly North of Ontario Canada.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Great bargains in thrift stores

[@joani2675]

Hi Jane and Mike what can I say another great video I also don't buy anything only if I need it this stems back when growing up in a large family mum didn't spend she was so good with managing money which was not much as my dad was a docker that was only source income . So what we didn't have didn't bother us we just thought it was the normal . X

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

I grew up,like that too, I was an adult before I knew I had a poor childhood, we were just like every other family I knew

[@deborahhobsonwasdubber2405]

Great video, we have been sorting our finances over the last few months and feeling very happy with our progress after watching this, only a couple of bits to work on 😀 Thank you for all your videos and all the great tips xxx

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Great to hear you’re doing well

[@dappleddays4546]

We find it easier to drink enough water if it has a bit of fizz but don't want to buy it because of the the cost and the single use plastic. Our son bought us a Soda Stream a couple of years ago. What a marvellous thing! We have 2 litres of water a day for 7 months a year for about £25 worth of gas.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Nice, I miss sparking water but it was too expensive

[@Hide_and_silk]

The only issue with Sodastream is that it is a *very* unethical company operating from illegal settlements built on stolen land in the West Bank.

[@GinaStanyerBooks]

I love my soda stream too.

[@jc10907Sealy]

I’m 62 before I got myself under control after a housefire took everything I realized I didn’t care about things my life is what matters. New home from insurance and now I’m living in half my paycheck looking be retired at 65 debt mortgage free. It’s an amazing feeling. So blessed with your content for encouragement.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Thank you

[@trudyorth6037]

Never thought how frugal we are until I started watching your channel. Wish we had the no waste law in USA. The food box you got for 1.50 euro was amazing. I do see you make desserts like apple pie if you have apples to use up. Chocolate banana muffins are delicious! Guess your goodies are at tea time. Keep up the good work! Several friends and relatives are watching now.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Yep, apple pie gets made when we get anti waste boxes,

[@yukofreeman4483]

I have an extremely economical bidet and only buy T. P. for guests.

[@lakesidehomesteadwithdavea5757]

Most of those things apply to me...but I don't get rid of things I have for the sake of getting rid of them ...such as hair clips...Daves good suit....my old dresses (that I still wear) .I don't believe in getting rid of perfectly good items. When they wear out or break...i don't replace...but for the most part...I use it till I loose it...LOL..

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Thanks for sharing

[@bex438]

Great list Jane, there's quite a few things I don't but either - I no longer buy commerial cleaning products on the whole as I make my own where I can, I also don't buy deoderant anymore as I use baking powder (which was recommended on another frugal channel) and it works perfectly fine for me and there's no more chemicals or plastic containers to worry about.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Great tips there Bex, thanks for sharing.

[@melaniebaker2233]

Never say never! It’s hard to say I never buy something as occasionally I would get some of the things on your list but definitely don’t buy them regularly. Over Christmas we had Netflix for the month and really enjoyed watching some films and series, it was a treat. It’s now cancelled. We also have subscribed to Riverford veg box in the past and I love to support a company like that which campaigns for better practices in farming and food. For now, it’s not in my budget and I will be growing my own veg for the first time this year. I love your videos, always so interesting and thought provoking, thanks Jane and Mike.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

We had riverford boxes in the distant past. I also used to see their massive lorries rolling off the French ferries into Plymouth daily as they have or had farms in France too. We’ve met Guy, nice man. He is passionate but had no idea that people can’t afford a £16 free range organic chicken. We were given a tour of the whole operation when I was writing. We went to the on-site restaurant too for a tour and free lunch. We came to our senses that we had middle class aspirations with working class money and shopped in Aldi instead.

[@melaniebaker2233]

@@FrugalQueeninFrance ooh how interesting! Yes I agree that for most families, it would be way too expensive. I’m a Lidl girl now and there are organic and sustainable options so much more accessible. There’s always some cost unless u can grow almost everything yourself which again isn’t something everyone can do. Do what u can is a good strategy. Love your stories x

[@guyal2332]

I dont buy, magazines, hair stuff, new clothes, food subscriptions, face stuff, hair dyes, pedicures or manicures(what a WASTE!!!)....new furniture, new cars, and several of the other things you mentioned. We have a barbque which is over 30 years old, ditto for our stereo and our Lazy Boy. We find things other people have put at the curb and we e ither fix them up and use them or give them to others to use (which is very popular in the case of useful older bicycles!!!) We just want to see the least amount of waste possible in our beautiful world and this is our gesture towards making that happen. Keep up your great work, Jane and Mike. You ROCK!!!

[@chrisfiller465]

Hi J& M. I so look forward to your videos of an evening,it’s most disappointing to find that there isn’t one. I looked this evening in the hope that you had posted and you had! Love 30 things you don’t buy. You guys must be swimming in cash after all that saving . Well done. No chocolate or sweeties. Well done. Blimey.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

I wish we were. We’ve been consistently saving for years. It hasn’t amounted to much though.

[@jonnaborosky8836]

I love listening to you. So far as I can tell, you and I live very similar financial lives. I used to spend more, but I was always a saver. Now that I'm medically retired and on Social Security Disability Income, which is very low, I'm basically on a no-spend rest of my life. I buy only the most minimal needs. I, too, keep using what I already have until it's totally used up and not fixable any more. Then, I figure out if I can still use any parts. Example: if a piece of clothing is too threadbare yo wear anymore,I cut out the parts that are not threadbare, and use those bits for something else, like baby and child clothing, napkins, place mats, table runners, sometimes wrapping cloth instead of wrapping paper, cleaning cloths, etc. I do that with everything. I might be a bit extreme in my approach, but I don't have money to spend anymore...well I do give myself a little pocket money, about $10 a month. I'm do used to not spending that I don't spend it, though. It warms my heart to hear that you and Mike live very similarly. My guess is that you're not extreme like I am, but we are certainly on the same wavelength!

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Thanks Jonna. We appreciate you sharing, you don’t sound extreme just good old fashioned thrifty. Good for you.

[@jonnaborosky8836]

@@FrugalQueeninFrance Thank you. That's very kind of you to say.

[@sarahwebster9817]

Jane your Pink Scarfe is so beautiful 💗 you should wear it all the time xxxx

[@suzanneroberge494]

I don't pay for subscriptions of any kind & haven't had cable tv or tv services for 30 + years.

[@sandrafennell6927]

I have NEVER paid for someone else to clean my home.

[@monicaambs]

Super impressed with your list of no buy items. You got me on the paper napkins. I buy the recycled paper napkins 1000 for $2.49 in Canada. Yes I have cloth napkins but I just hate stains on them. Oil or tomato sauce so difficult to remove. I reserve the cloth for guests. Since I live alone, a 1000 paper napkins goes a long way. I have loads of makeup from years gone by. No need to buy more. Any dresses or skirts I have, where bought at thrift shops and as I am in my second year of paying off my house, clothes are on the no spend list. Got plenty of clothes. Great job with this. Loved it.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

You are so close to paying off that mortgage

[@jeannestott1456]

You shouldn't need to buy shopping bags, you can get them replaced in the larger supermarkets when they wear out,even in the French ones. Bath and hand towels these days are really poor quality, I have a bath sheet from 1974 it was given to me by a friend after my son was born, it is still in good condition .I bought some when we had a new bathroom fitted 3 years ago and they are already on the way out,getting thin and threads pulling!!

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

I bought all ours in charity shops, or Matalan or Ikea and they are going strong

[@jeannestott1456]

Next time I buy towels I will have to try one of those shops

[@mkhuntstreasure3192]

I don’t buy plants, I get starts from people who have a plant I really like. I do buy seeds and freeze those I don’t use right away.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Bargains.

[@davidjenson7773]

Love this podcast! The winter scenes are so wonderful. David . Chicago

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Thanks David, that was last winter, we sometimes get snow just before spring

[@alycemaloney2982]

All of my female co-workers are getting their hair & nails done every 2 weeks. I cut my own hair, and I don't like long nails, so I trim them myself also.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

I’ve never had my nails done, I get my hair cut once a year.

[@anntaylor4247]

I just don't understand this craze for seasonal decoration except for Christmas. I thought I lived in the UK not the USA!

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Indeed, I think it’s because someone somewhere can squeeze a quid out of someone by selling them spring decor.

[@govegan6112]

I love your list except for two things, make-up and the sometime junk food. I love living frugally and stress free.

[@mytinyketolife6797]

I love the music in your videos

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Thanks very much and thanks for watching

[@juttadestiny6810]

Same here😺🇦🇺 beautiful music! 💜❤️💙💚💜

[@mytinyketolife6797]

I don’t buy mayonnaise anymore because I always have on egg and a cup of oil.

[@FrugalQueeninFrance]

Nothing better than homemade mayonnaise