This broke me. I've closed my eBay store.

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Back from Burnout

Back from Burnout

Күн бұрын

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@winterfawn2341
@winterfawn2341 3 күн бұрын
Seeing your last video broke my heart. I know I'm not only speaking for myself when I say I wish I could have been there to help you. But I do want to remind you- you are strong, you are resilient and you are loved. It is absolutely OK to cry in those hard times. But guess what you did? You NEVER GAVE UP. Prayers and love from Dallas, Texas. ❤❤❤
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you so much, I appreciate that ❤
@c.d.epling3335
@c.d.epling3335 3 күн бұрын
Beautifully said.
@judymorrow3500
@judymorrow3500 2 күн бұрын
perfectly stated, prayers and love for another Texan.
@sharibrewster4153
@sharibrewster4153 2 күн бұрын
Always listen to that inner voice! Mel, I think you have come through this splendidly. But your body is warning you to lessen the pace a little. Remember the old totoise and the hare story we learnt as kids? And even God had to rest on the seventh day! Congratulations on your wonderful achievement over recent weeks. And - HAPPY NEW YEAR!
@terrystexastreasures6809
@terrystexastreasures6809 3 күн бұрын
You made a great decision closing your store. Time to heal and to finish setting everything up. I suggest turning your listings back on in phases, so that the algorithym thinks they are new listings. Don't flood the market in just 1-2 days. Good luck and HAPPY NEW YEAR!!
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Hmmmm something to consider. Thank you
@Theresa_Stretten
@Theresa_Stretten 3 күн бұрын
@@backfromburnout Shelf by shelf as you inventory them. A fresh start. Happy New Year! I suspect 2025 will be your best year ever!
@terrystexastreasures6809
@terrystexastreasures6809 3 күн бұрын
@@Theresa_Stretten great idea
@leilanimr
@leilanimr 3 күн бұрын
You are one of the very few resellers I watch because you show us all, working for yourself can get physically and mentally messy. Thanks Mel for being yourself! 😊
@andeebee2530
@andeebee2530 3 күн бұрын
Showing the reality of the move made great videos. I’m amazed at what you accomplished, I would have been crying and giving up the first day just looking at how many books needed moving. I’m so proud of you for finally taking a “break”. Your health and well being is super important.
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you so much, I appreciate that.
@vincehernandez
@vincehernandez 3 күн бұрын
I've sold on ebay for over 16 years as a high volume seller of books and really enjoy your channel. Glad to see you're taking the time for yourself to reset and get yourself right. One of the biggest issues I see with sellers is that they don't give themselves time to breathe and scale too much too soon. It can cause undue stress very quickly. Don't ever sacrifice your health for your business, in the end the sales will still be there but it's tougher to recover from putting so much stress on yourself. You're doing great and know what you're doing. I know you'll be great in the long run.
@sallybundock1179
@sallybundock1179 3 күн бұрын
I'm in UK and selling books here on Ebay is a waste of time. Because of the postage costs books are being practically given away just for the cost of postage so there is no profit to be made at all. I have just junked over 40 books with more to go.
@debbieholt8261
@debbieholt8261 3 күн бұрын
You know it’s very easy for us viewers to become “armchair quarterbacks” but we weren’t in the trenches with you! Your generous sharing of the struggles in moving such a large inventory business all by yourself is extremely helpful to others. I too felt admiration as well as sorrow in watching all you went through. Hindsight is so easy but I’m sure had you known what a toll moving this way and in a such short timeframe would have done to you, you would have made some modifications. Valuable lessons have been learned and as I say, you have helped us all by sharing your struggles and successes with us! You are a natural on camera and your sweet personality keeps us all watching. Best of luck in your new location and I look forward to watching more videos. You inspire me to work harder in my own ebay store!
@sarahc2533
@sarahc2533 9 минут бұрын
Well done Mel for taking a break when you needed it. Your body was letting you know you needed a break, and in the long run resting and recovering means you can do more in the future as if you'd got ill, nothing would get done. I look forward to your updates, thanks for sharing with us x
@taniawillis4951
@taniawillis4951 3 күн бұрын
Good for you Mel. I love your honesty. Going through a move myself and I understand that sick feeling. Thank you for being so open and honest. Its the main reason I keep coming back to watch you. Stay strong and follow that gut feeling.
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you so much, I appreciate that.
@unityangels2291
@unityangels2291 3 күн бұрын
Mel - you don’t have to explain yourself. You handled the whole situation way better that most of us would have done! Take some time - new beginnings! Big hugs 🤗
@Cicero7593
@Cicero7593 Күн бұрын
So proud of you Mel. You can visibly see you’re happier and doing better after this break. I’m glad you were able to do that as you needed it and deserved it :)
@karenslovelymess2538
@karenslovelymess2538 3 күн бұрын
Surely I’m not the only one who has been here since Mel moved from her house to the attached garage, to the storage units, to her expanded garage/shed, to toms warehouse, now to this larger warehouse unit. Thanks for taking us along on your Girl Boss journey. It’s been said “you either work to make YOUR dreams come true or you work to make someone else’s”. Here’s hoping 2025 is everything you dream of. 🎉
@jonchan.meaningful
@jonchan.meaningful 2 күн бұрын
You've been transparent and raw throughout your journey and I'm so thankful you're listening to your body and resting. Business can wait. And it's the most liberating feeling to walk away for a bit, recharge, come back and build from where you left off. I've done this a couple of times and sure the sales stop when the store reopens but after a few weeks of activity from listing, shipping and repeating, the drop in sales doesn't even feel like a setback at all. Like nobody ever thinks their meal took a backwards step just because the meat had to thaw before cooking :p Love ya and super excited you get to work with more space now!
@angelsvintagetreasures
@angelsvintagetreasures 3 күн бұрын
Close the store or be broken. Seems like a good suggestion by the voice. I had to move my home of 17 years in about 3 weeks. When my partner came to be my truck driver, I cried. I know how you felt! I'm glad you kept in those parts. It's reality. Remember all the reasons why you're doing this. Bigger warehouse, more room, maybe another store for low end books, or whatever. Glad you called you mom and saw the doc. All good things. Oh, and thanks again, Thom.
@beachysands4036
@beachysands4036 3 күн бұрын
I’m so glad you made the decision to take a break. This was too much to do solo. Happy you are feeling better!
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you
@anthonysolis8933
@anthonysolis8933 3 күн бұрын
I turned off my store for 6 months and when I turned it back on and listed everyday for 2 weeks it started to get sales every day again. You should be okay. 😀
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thanks that’s great to know!
@tracyforister3207
@tracyforister3207 3 күн бұрын
Mel, you have always been real and honest and open. Thank you for that . I'm glad you have had time to breathe since turning your store off. It was very much needed for your health and sanity . The tears were a release, and that's OK. We all need a good cry . There's nothing wrong with that . I hope Q1 will gain momentum . I'm looking forward to your content . Happy New Year🎉 Big hugs
@technsports
@technsports 2 күн бұрын
Be good to yourself. You got this Mel.
@Puckette1984
@Puckette1984 3 күн бұрын
I knew when you'd closed the store & was HAPPY you did that for yourself! It was 1000% needed. Time away is great but I know personally, its still pressure when you can see the orders growing fast. You have just done a huge move, mostly alone & it's no surprise you hit rock bottom. But Q1 you'll be off & racing. Well done Mel, you are awesome xx
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you
@boldfinds
@boldfinds 3 күн бұрын
Enjoyed the honest chat Mel ❤
@1991windsor
@1991windsor 3 күн бұрын
I think you have so many reselling friends around the world who would have loved to be close by to have helped you. I'm so glad that you decided to take a break. Being physically and mentally drained is no joke. I think your store will be just fine and probably better than ever!❤🤗
@casswilson3964
@casswilson3964 2 күн бұрын
The honest and raw emotion you included in your videos felt so real and relatable-very, very relatable!!! I appreciate the authenticity.
@SBurkart
@SBurkart 3 күн бұрын
You look like a different person now. Healthy. I hope a new pace will be work so you aren’t in a panicked painful rush so much. You made the right decisions.
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Yes, some rest has helped x
@liekealexandra6505
@liekealexandra6505 3 күн бұрын
Hi Mel! Been silently watching all your videos the past year and I just wanted to jump in now and say that I admire you! Actually, you've inspired me to start working on my own second-hand bookstore. I'm just starting with selling my own books that I no longer want to keep, and hopefully I can source other books soon. Combining my love for books and logistics (which is also my 9-5 job) is the ultimate dream, so thank you for inspiring me! I'm proud of you!
@michellecd4722
@michellecd4722 Күн бұрын
Mel you are SO SO AMAZING and trust me, TRUST ME we will watch/listen to you read the darn alphabet so please keep a KZbin channel doing anything you want. You're a natural on camera & as a YTber!!
@sweetgirl4u247
@sweetgirl4u247 3 күн бұрын
Put the store on vacation until next year. Take your time. Update everything. You got this. ❤
@RebeccaMorris-v6m
@RebeccaMorris-v6m 3 күн бұрын
We all wished we could give you a help out watching you struggle. I'm happy you're resting up and destressing. Next time you have a big move or chore you need to just hire help. Trying to do everything by yourself basically is too much. I'm half way through my move now and watching you struggle has made me enlist help every day. There's no way I could do what you did and I have a lot less inventory. Im currently moving into a place a little bit smaller than your old warehouse. I have room to grow and you're my inspiration to work harder. I'm glad you're planning on continuing to upload more because I love your videos ❤
@theobsessedcollector
@theobsessedcollector 3 күн бұрын
Mel, never feel sorry for saying how tired and stressed you are. What you have taken on with day to day life, running the business, and a MASSIVE move, the fact you can still speak coherently is an achievement. It's actually refreshing hearing a real person speak the truth about how hard it can all be. I'm a bit tired of KZbinrs who just go on about how they are getting rich, how simple it is, they have they the magic "trick" etc etc. Being self-aware, listening to yourself, and knowing how best to care for yourself is a learned skill. Congrats on knowing what is best for you and for acting on it. 😊
@brendadeprefontaine3661
@brendadeprefontaine3661 3 күн бұрын
Bravo Mel, I'm so proud of you!! It takes a lot of courage to let your fear go and do what is important for your well being. God is in this, know that he is taking care of you and your family. I've been totally amazed at how he always provides , don't worry about your store it will come back with a vengeance. Girl love your openness you can cry all you want it just shows some of us how to be real. Don't forget that as you're relaxing and enjoying it. Let your mind relax also. Xxxx from the states
@pstep691
@pstep691 3 күн бұрын
If I could give this comment ten thumbs up I would. Couldn’t agree more with everything you said.
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
@@theobsessedcollector thank you so much for the lovely comment. I appreciate you x
@jesseenixon
@jesseenixon 2 күн бұрын
the magic trick is getting us to buy their coaching program and getting views, its not even reselling anymore :(
@farmlifethrifter5732
@farmlifethrifter5732 3 күн бұрын
Being vulnerable is just being real. Hang in there. Blue is your color. You look great and rested
@danafindwell
@danafindwell 2 күн бұрын
Great decision Mel, trusting yourself is sooooo important! You and your store will come back better than ever! 🥰❤
@kellygalea9697
@kellygalea9697 3 күн бұрын
Mel, we all love watching you and are appreciative of everything you share no matter how raw and real it is. You are always so encouraging even when you are feeling down. Taking time for yourself is definitely needed. I am 43 with Rheumatoid Arthritis. I sell from home mostly DVD's but also books and other bits and bobs. I definitely know the pain when I try to do too much. Keep smiling and take your time coming back :)
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!
@gloriaprimeau7318
@gloriaprimeau7318 3 күн бұрын
Missed you very much, your real ,crying is normal part of life when things get overwhelm
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Yes. Thank you.
@dshrank911
@dshrank911 3 күн бұрын
You really live up to your KZbin name, Mel! I’m so glad you got a break-you need that from time to time for your health. You can run sales on your dead stock and if they don’t sell at 50-75% off, remove them from your inventory and take the tax break for donation. Love your videos! Prayers for a prosperous New Year!
@mathieubluijs
@mathieubluijs 3 күн бұрын
Hi Mel, I am so proud of you that you finally chose for yourself again, even though you may have been too late at that moment. And the choice to take your store offline and give yourself time to recover is really great! I have been at home with a burnout for about 8 months (fortunately you are not suffering from that now) so I understand what it is like to continue while the body and brain send out different signals. I can only really appreciate that you are honest in your flogs and that there are also days that don't go as well. When setting up your store and creating your flogs, think about yourself first. We have been spoiled with many flogs in recent weeks, but this does not have to be so often in the future. You come first, then your personal life, then your store and then you might think about your flogs. I (We) will continue to follow you from the Netherlands and you are a real example to me in terms of your cheerfulness, your enthusiasm, your laugh, your honesty and the strength to bounce back from a difficult period. You're great Mel!
@jeanettedeblois7878
@jeanettedeblois7878 3 күн бұрын
Mel, you are much happier now. I am so happy that you took the time to recover. Arthritis is tough to deal with. I am 78 and still go deep sea fishing. I take Tylenol for Arthritis before I go because the next day would be torture after spending 10 hours fishing.
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you! I just couldn’t understand why the pain wasn’t going away even after I stopped. It made sense as soon as she said it and why I was sore in the places I was. Deep sea fishing at 78, go you!!!
@maeganmc8800
@maeganmc8800 3 күн бұрын
Thank you for being so real! I have been in the same general situation before and it honestly makes me feel less alone to know that other people have felt the same. I can't wait until your store opens again. I love books and would love to see what all you have available.... When you are ready to open back up of course.
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you. It’s nice to know we’re not alone sometimes when things feel hard x
@stephanieh7967
@stephanieh7967 3 күн бұрын
While they were hard to watch, at times, I’ve enjoyed watching your story unfold this month. So glad to took the time off to care for yourself! Best wishes for the new year! I think your store will be just fine.
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you so much for watching
@aliasmarkus
@aliasmarkus 3 күн бұрын
Awesome vlog Mel. We've all been so worried about you. You've definitely made the right decision and look so much healthier now. Don't worry about what might happen when you turn it back on, it is what it is and you will make it work again. I can't wait to see the next video. Good luck honey and have a great New Year 🙂
@DRventura333
@DRventura333 2 күн бұрын
So glad to hear you heeded all of our suggestions and listened to your body to take time to Rest, Relax, Reset, Re-organize. Life is too short to cause more stress on ourselves. Happy New Year to you.
@Mrs-Resell
@Mrs-Resell 3 күн бұрын
Your store will be fine Mel..I had to turn my store off a few times during crisis times..I think at one stage it was off for a couple of months..and it only took a week or 2 at the most to start clicking over again. So glad you listened to that voice! It sounds very much to me like it was your Heavenly Father to whom you are very preicous 🙏 💖
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
I hope mine bounces back also. Thank you x
@magicalmemorytour144
@magicalmemorytour144 3 күн бұрын
Congrats on making the decision to rest, take care of your body, and make a fresh start in January, Mel! I'm looking forward to seeing your new warehouse, and it would be interesting to watch you cull the books you no longer want to keep in your inventory, if that's do-able. No pressure, lol!! I think you made the right decision, closing your store while you get re-organized. Thanks for the videos! ☺
@justineh4792
@justineh4792 3 күн бұрын
Hi Mel it’s so good to see you happy & positive again! I was so sad for you watching the move videos. You have done an amazingly and it will all be worth it in the end. You have set yourself up for bigger & better things! Well done!! Love seeing your progress xx
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@michellethroneburg2120
@michellethroneburg2120 3 күн бұрын
Good for you Mel -prioritizing taking care of yourself is so important. You’ve got this. Happy New Year to you and yours.
@ba3140
@ba3140 3 күн бұрын
I am so happy you took a break, Mel. Lovely to see you glowing and taking care of yourself 💜
@KTTreasures
@KTTreasures 3 күн бұрын
Man way to go Mel. This series make me scared so much for the new building we have coming and moving ours and making it all happen and about that time Tim is having a knee replacement so will be on my own.
@kd7872
@kd7872 3 күн бұрын
Way to go Mel...good for you for listening to your body and those voices! It's wonderful to see you looking refreshed and more rested. Now you'll be ready to start fresh for the New Year, and hopefully you'll actually look forward to returning to the new space rather than dreading going there. Even if the algorithm starts out slow, I have faith you'll pick up momentum. Maybe a gradual return to those large sales would be better than being bombarded right out of the gate. You've got this!
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you. It will be quite interesting to see how quickly the store recovers. I think many people are often scared to take a break for this reason.
@kathrynconard2905
@kathrynconard2905 Күн бұрын
I’m so glad you got a break and I can’t wait to see more videos. I’ve been watching you from the beginning in your house and I just want to reach through the phone and give you a hug. Have a fantastic new year and can’t wait to watch more ❤
@VitavonVintage
@VitavonVintage 3 күн бұрын
Thank you for the great authentic videos. Listening to inner voice was the right thing to do!
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching x
@comperoo
@comperoo 2 күн бұрын
It is good to see you finally listened to your inner self and looked after you. You look so much better 😊
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 2 күн бұрын
😊 thank you
@Tat71
@Tat71 3 күн бұрын
Thank you for being so raw with all your videos. It’s refreshing watching someone being authentic. Glad that you listened to your inner voice, it’s so important. I hope the New Year brings you much happiness , good health and lots of Sales!
@tonialford5999
@tonialford5999 3 күн бұрын
You did what most people don’t do, listen to your body and inner self. Glad it is all coming together!!
@victoriamcmillan8190
@victoriamcmillan8190 3 күн бұрын
Yay - good news ! i was so worried about you, so pleased you heeded the 'gut' knowing to take a proper break from the store being active. Good on you Mel ! Looking forward to the following vids now without feeling stressed for you - may the healing continue :)
@wsparks335
@wsparks335 3 күн бұрын
Oh Mel, well done on doing what you needed to do. It is wonderful to see you looking more rested and less stressed. I'm looking forward to seeing how the new warehouse looks now but when you are ready 😊
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you
@brianhenry2385
@brianhenry2385 3 күн бұрын
Stock Take: doing a full stock take is one of the next logical steps after a full move. I still need to do one for myself, which I've avoided since we moved to our current location. The issue is balance. Setting aside that much time is a big commitment, but if done well it can fix many small, daily issues. Stock in the wrong location, listings that eBay has deleted that should still be active, but are not and a chance to cull or lot up old stock. Looking forward to those videos. I should be doing mine at the same time you will be doing yours. LOL
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
I know after moving there was stock on those shelves that was not listed. A full inventory stock take is needed.
@brianhenry2385
@brianhenry2385 3 күн бұрын
@@backfromburnout So far I've only done partial stock takes since our move and the number of items I've found in those smaller samples that should be listed because they were in my active stock bins, but are no longer in my eBay store is frightening and costing me money too. 😉
@LisaCarey-yw2uf
@LisaCarey-yw2uf 2 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry you went through that. We could feel your frustration and pain. Good move shutting down your store and letting yourself heal. Best wishes in the bigger warehouse!!
@poptablady
@poptablady 3 күн бұрын
I just want to say, good for you for setting down such a heavy load and giving yourself the time you needed to recover. I watched your pick and pack video, and like so many, I just wanted to give you a big hug. Is that weird? We're on different continents (United States) and I've never met you in person. Still, I wanted to help ease your struggle and pain. As part of my own goals this year, I'm declaring an indefinite KZbin fast starting in January to allow for more time and less distraction. Still, I've enjoyed your videos. As an avid reader who works in a library, I love seeing a room full of organized books and watching the flow of inventory in and out! Also, Australia...what fun! Keep at it! A fresh start will likely bring new energy. And you have so much support. Sending love your way.
@liannehill748
@liannehill748 3 күн бұрын
Glad you are coming out the other side. It was distressing to watch but it was real. Hope the store kicks back to the same level quickly. Happy New Year to you & Thom x
@sherfinds
@sherfinds 3 күн бұрын
I too was worried about you after the last video. I understand that level of exhaustion. I also relate completely to the pain and onset arthritis. With the store turned off, it's a great time to do inventory to make sure all those books you moved are actually all listed. May all that undesireable inventory work for bundles, or be easy to cull. And Mel, Happy New Year! May 2025 be your best year yet!
@michaeladown7211
@michaeladown7211 3 күн бұрын
Aww so sorry to hear how difficult it has been for you with the move. I love to see what you’re up to, glad you’re feeling ready to get back to selling your books and open your store again. You’re doing great, you made the right decision now you will come back stronger. Love n hugs from Welsh Wales 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 ❤
@FrugalFunMum
@FrugalFunMum 3 күн бұрын
Appreciate you sharing! I feel that there were a few things out of your control which held you up to be honest and while it doesn't help now that it's past I just wanted to say I can see why there were some issues with things, waiting for the lights, waiting for the office, water damage to be fixed, no internet. All the little things add up like you say! Thom as been a great help in some areas like when he told you to take a break you were done as I said before my heart broke for you but as they say hindsight is a wonderful thing. I feel that you would have been able to do it in the time without the issues. It was great Maisy helped you! I could see in videos how stressed you were that something might be messed up and so I'm sure that everyone appreciates you sharing! It would have taken me a lot longer to move but I'm ADHD too so having to double check things are ok it all takes time LOL. *hugs* Mel x onto 2025!!!
@kimberlyporter3281
@kimberlyporter3281 3 күн бұрын
So proud of you Mel you are such a hard worker and you look really refreshed. Love your videos. Wishing you all the best for 2025!
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thanks so much, I really appreciate your support.
@raia9
@raia9 3 күн бұрын
That blue really suits you Mel :)
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Oh thank you! 🩵
@gbbthrift7931
@gbbthrift7931 3 күн бұрын
I really appreciate that you keep it real. 😊
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you x
@AussieJill
@AussieJill 3 күн бұрын
Good on you for doing what was best for you. Look forward to the next video(s) and for seeing your store back up and running when you're ready!!
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you!
@nickibair999
@nickibair999 Күн бұрын
Glad to see you refreshed and smiling. Girl, pretty sure all of us was hurting and crying along with you for the moving of a warehouse of all that into another warehouse mansion all by yourself can take the life out of you physically and mentally. Yes, when we all look at it through the lense of just a phone camera its hard to understand the "why did you put them that way and such". Glad though you listened to the inner voice. Me personally believes that that was God speaking to you and saying to shut it down and to just walk in it by faith. It had gotten to you by us as people to want to do it all ourselves not realizing that God wants us to lean on him and allow Him to step in and take the wheel. Trust me. I know. I have myself dealt with a lot of "doing it myself" issues and thinking that God is too busy for me to help when there are others that maybe have their lives in such much more dire issues than what I think is gonna kill me in the now moment. I did see your store opened, lol, but when I had gone back to look at all your things then it was just gone. lol. Must have been when you listened to the voice and took action. :) Happy New Year, Mel. You are such an inspiration. Sending warm hugs, prayers and love from Wapakoneta, Ohio.
@LloydieResells
@LloydieResells 2 күн бұрын
Mel you are amazing, you are an inspiration to me and so many others, I have been watching your videos since you were a clothing seller, and I have watched you grow and flourish over the years. Thank you for sharing your journey with us, the good, the bad, and the ugly. Thank you for being so raw and authentic and true. After everything you have accomplished and been through and I'm not just talking about the move, you thoroughly deserve to take time out for yourself to recuperate and allow yourself to come back stronger than ever, I am confident your eBay store will recover and us KZbin subscribers will always be here for you, rooting for you when you come Back from Burn out in 2025 :)
@denisefleming3919
@denisefleming3919 3 күн бұрын
Mel I am so proud of you and for you. So glad you listened to that inner voice. I was like nooooooo! When you said you were closing the store. Brilliant alternative! And an inspiration in helping me get motivated again. You had to break so you could step back and just be. Never apologize for crying or stressing or breaking - you have to go through it to come out stronger on the other side. Great series and looking forward to the next chapter of your story. Thank you!
@pfoneil1
@pfoneil1 3 күн бұрын
Mel, I think it is to your credit that you posted the vlog. It shows the hard part of being a sole trader is and that business is hard. Good luck with your future progress and I hope you continue to be able to grow your business while balancing with your own life. Thanks for the vlogs.
@gloomyvale3671
@gloomyvale3671 3 күн бұрын
I always say if the thing your passionate about becomes something you start to hate you need to stop and rest
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Yeah and I have never hated it, but I was definitely exhausted and needed a break away from the orders, listing and customer service. I’m looking forward now to coming back and rebuilding it in the new warehouse.
@beverlyb5144
@beverlyb5144 2 күн бұрын
Nah you did not kill your store. It will be back to normal in about 18 days or so. Luckily you were able to take that time off. The Goal number is just a number - that to me would be a stressor. The sales will be slow but thankfully it will give you time to ease into First Quarter. I hope your stock take will work out for you. Looking forward to a happier, healthier New Year for not only you but for those who follow you too. ENJOY NEW YEARS EVE AND DAY and then onto the workload. Definitely keep doing those massages. BEST WISHES FOR THE NEW YEARS MEL.
@daisyzuniga5186
@daisyzuniga5186 3 күн бұрын
Hi Mel! The light blue color looks so pretty on you! 🩵
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Oh thank you!🩵
@grantham-sut
@grantham-sut 3 күн бұрын
Worst possible time of year to move and turn-off the store. The bit between Christmas and New Year is the best time of year for book sellers. People sat at home with time to browse for the books they plan to read in the New Year. What you could have done, was set everything to 0 and then update stock as and when each shelf was moved. The last week of book sales for me has been the best for years !!
@tiffanygaydos8997
@tiffanygaydos8997 3 күн бұрын
Mel, I can't imagine how difficult this task was, and I actually teared up listening to you talk about how your body was just not recovering. Cronic pain really plays with our minds after a prolonged period of time. I am so glad you have finally gotten some relief. Even though it was hard for me to watch you struggle through all of this hard work, I watched every minute of every video as a way to support you, your business and all of your efforts. I also found myself wishing I could be there to help you. You are an inspiration!! Big hug from Minneapolis, MN USA!!
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you so much, this means a lot. I really really appreciate your support ❤ And yes, my heart goes out to anyone suffering chronic pain. It is so depressing and effects all aspects of your life while suffering.
@julielosh8526
@julielosh8526 Күн бұрын
Your last video broke my heart for you. I’m glad you took much needed break to do some self care. I look forward to the new you in 2025!! Much love!
@2ndrepeat622
@2ndrepeat622 3 күн бұрын
Mel, you have put in an unbelievably big effort to improve all aspects of your business and I am sure it will be worth it in the long run. Love watching your channel, look after yourself and I am sure 2025 will be life changing year for you.
@fantasmasnolaboratorio
@fantasmasnolaboratorio 3 күн бұрын
Proud. Just proud of all you have done not sorry! You did it!! ❤
@Marlene7388
@Marlene7388 3 күн бұрын
Mel you are doing great, you are definitely a trooper! I always follow my intuition...it will never let you down 🙂 Keep your chin up, you got this! Thank you for sharing and always being real! Los Angeles, California - USA - Happy New Year!!
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you for the kind words! I really appreciate it.
@Marlene7388
@Marlene7388 2 күн бұрын
@@backfromburnout anytime!
@judyc7786
@judyc7786 3 күн бұрын
I've been watching your move. I want to thank you for your honesty. I'm moving as well so I put my store in time away with no sales for a month and will probably do it another month. You're truly an inspiration and thanks again
@lubyard6057
@lubyard6057 3 күн бұрын
Thank God... that's who helped you and all of us who were so worried about you. Go girl. Your life is worth far more. Xx
@FindandFlip
@FindandFlip 3 күн бұрын
Hey Mel You are awesome and what you are doing is fabulous and quite a journey. There is only so much to go around and when you are running on so little you have to do what is necessary to get through. I am sure the store will be fine and we will all be supportive of you on your journey. Hugs.
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you for the support!
@hobson2207
@hobson2207 3 күн бұрын
Thank you for being genuine! Love is sent from Iowa.
@cathycarbone1503
@cathycarbone1503 3 күн бұрын
Best video ever... Pure and honest follower from USA (aka philly phlipper's channel, when you came here.) We love you Mel, you did the right thing!! we are proud of you!! ❤
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you ♥️
@RobinL4715
@RobinL4715 3 күн бұрын
Well done Mel! Much respect for choosing your mental and physical health over work! You have many regular customers who will return, it will be up to eBay’s algorithm to give you a break also. Can’t wait to see the next videos!
@juliesweeney8655
@juliesweeney8655 Күн бұрын
Woohoo glad you did that!!!! You look refreshed.❤❤❤ from America
@jmac1814
@jmac1814 2 күн бұрын
Thanks foe for sharing Mel i am so glad you took time off for you my heart broke seeing you in that last video ❤❤ i am getting ready to do a big move and i am dreading it. I am looking forward to seeing you and your videos in the new year 🎊 love from the states ❤️
@kazjetluver
@kazjetluver 3 күн бұрын
I've been watching all of your videos over the last few weeks. I dont even know how i came across you! I admire your strength and independence. Looking forward to ordering when you return ❤
@bandsunnamed
@bandsunnamed 3 күн бұрын
Proud of you, Mel! Keep listening to that inner voice. It only has the best of intentions. I'm still working on listening to it myself ❤
@joanprince733
@joanprince733 3 күн бұрын
Hi Mel. So nice to see you rested and back to normal. Closing your shop was the right thing to do under the circumstances. You really needed the rest. January 1st will come soon enough. Good luck with the reopening. Best wishes to you, your family and Thom for 2025. May it be a very successful year for you both. xxxxx
@jey5781
@jey5781 3 күн бұрын
You did the right thing Mel, anybody could see you were on the verge so I am sooooo happy to hear you taken a well earned break. Start a fresh in the new year with a rested body, mind and soul. Big hugs and all the best for 2025! Jennie x
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thanks Jennie x
@BiBi_Aussiesales
@BiBi_Aussiesales 3 күн бұрын
Good on you for listening to your inner voice & taking some time off. Life is short - got to enjoy the ride!
@JennyinGero
@JennyinGero 3 күн бұрын
You are an inspiration, Mel! You are showing others it’s OK!!! It’s OK to do what you feel is right for you - and following your gut is what you did! Your gut never lets you down!! EBay is always there, your high standards are always there, and your integrity is always there so you’ll always do well at whatever you decide! Looking forward to seeing what happens next - glad you have time off! 🥰💕💐🌸💃🏽🌻😘😘😘
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you so much, your kind words mean a lot
@19hen70
@19hen70 3 күн бұрын
you are so so brave to share this...... that shows you are a human and not a robot😘👍🏼
@Cindy7777777
@Cindy7777777 3 күн бұрын
This sounds like the best move you've ever made, taking a break!!! From now on, when you feel you're overdoing it, stop and take as long a break as you need!!! That is a lot of books to move, a lot of physical work, anyone would get burnt out!!!!! Thanks for keeping it real!!!!! Poor Tom lol Hope you made it up to him lol
@onemanstrash8233
@onemanstrash8233 3 сағат бұрын
Your store will come back alive! It will be fine!
@shareebailey5441
@shareebailey5441 3 күн бұрын
Well done you for listening to your inner voice Mel. At least you get help when you need it. Happy New year to you.
@lindaintheoc
@lindaintheoc 3 күн бұрын
Hi Mel! I am so happy that you’re thinking about you! I will always be here and know others will too! Mel time is so important and as a mother we tend to forget about ourselves. Always rooting for you..Go Mel Go😊🌻
@tdsportscards
@tdsportscards 3 күн бұрын
Keep it rocking Mel....a peace of mind is immeasurable
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you so much, I appreciate that. ♥️
@brdgetwalsh9992
@brdgetwalsh9992 3 күн бұрын
Mel,you work so hard. I am watching you at night here in lreland after my busy day at work having a team helping me. I think you are so hard on yourself.Take time and enjoy your life and your work will be there in the new year.Happy new year.
@backfromburnout
@backfromburnout 3 күн бұрын
Thank you. I am definitely hard on myself. I seem to always self sabotage myself so I don’t get the results I desire. ♥️
@barbwissmann5576
@barbwissmann5576 3 күн бұрын
I appreciate your willingness to share your journey. Hope you get internet soon. ❤
@mariewebb2840
@mariewebb2840 3 күн бұрын
Everyone deserves a break when they are tired. You're amazing. Out of all the resellers, you always make me smile. Don't feel bad about doings what you needed to do. Happy New Year and make sure to celebrate your amazing achievements 🎉.
@BohoSocialHouse
@BohoSocialHouse 3 күн бұрын
Good for you Mel. Mental and physical health first, always. Hope you had a great Christmas with your kids.
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