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[@nikunjshah4802]

someone once told me “A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.” and changed my life too much and then i realisd that True friendship multiplies the good in life and divides its evils.

[@Honey-Kan]

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[@waytosuccess18]

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[@trap351]

don't have one:(

[@sweedelnishadsa]

@@trap351 Same 💔

[@beautydiys8793]

💯💯

[@sachie0412]

I spent 11 years in my school without a friend. I'm now so used to it. I learnt how to live alone. Now I'm 17 and I don't need anyone to keep me happy. I can live alone and I know my family will be in my side in any kind of situation. So, why do I need friends. I have a nice family. I'm so thankful to the students who bullied me. They taught a valuable lesson to me. They taught me how to live by my own. They taught me to be kind to others. I know how does it feels when people do not value your thoughts. So, I know how to treat people. Anyway, I'm in 12th grade now and I found a good friend in my new class.

[@_not.swadha_11]

Stay strong and happy❤👑

[@nanunanu4659]

Great yar

[@muzammilahmed8799]

Even I also don't have friends, I'm tired of being alone from school to graduation in engineering and I'm 23 years old and still I dont have friends.

[@adityaranjan935]

Stay strong friend

[@MelodyVibes2001]

@@muzammilahmed8799 +++

[@ishikagupta2870]

This story of yours directly touched my heart !! all i know is that being alone wont kill us and enjoying our own company is much better than being with the people who dont value us ...........😁

[@9lirika]

Being alone is actually good...but in schools,gangs are projected as cool n friendships are romanticised in movies...actually being in the right company is better...if not, best ng alone is the best ..

[@anushkats2777]

💯

[@Honey-Kan]

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[@waytosuccess18]

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[@seethalekshmi9009]

100% true

[@kanchanassudani]

"Be friends with yourself" so damn true

[@sakshigupta7569]

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[@riyasharma7299]

Yeah 😌

[@bangtanarmygirl7963]

😃💜

[@aish7711]

Just remember "You're enough for yourself !!!" BE CONFIDENT 🙂

[@sakshigupta7569]

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[@iamajustababa2000s]

Welu

[@sushmanomula9800]

Yes

[@Not.ur_business788]

I've no one with me in my class... nobody does talk to me even when I'm friendly.....they really ignore and avoid me .. it's too 😣 sad/uneasy Most of times i sit alone on bench whereas rest all benches are occupied.. PLS SUGGEST WHAT TO DO???

[@Samitanayakmuni]

@@Not.ur_business788 I can be your friend

[@Sanket_shanbhag]

I also faced same situation in my life. When I was in my school days everyone used to tease me make fun of me bully me. I was a stammer in the school. I don't know why people make fun of others. Why these people take advantage of the weakness of person. I believe in karma those who made fun of me will suffer the same thing

[@AnwesaChaudhury]

Well I was sometimes lonely in school

[@Sanket_shanbhag]

@@AnwesaChaudhury Same here

[@raghulkannan2986]

Same here bro

[@Honey-Kan]

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[@priyajs7364]

Yessss u r right... I m also facing like this in my family

[@anmoljain1707]

most introverts face this problem, very good video and up to point

[@jaishreeram9734]

Very inspiring for the introverts who are not socially well accepted. Many fall a prey to humiliation especially during the teens and middle age. I was one of them. Good issue taken up.

[@thefitfun1234]

She was not introvert

[@priyagowari8503]

@@thefitfun1234 I wasn't introvert also. But I got someone else instead of someone else. Either this or that.

[@self-improvement2166]

​@@priyagowari8503Different thinking different places.Trauma is bitch.

[@Raghuvir-polyglot]

Growing up I had no friends,I wanted to befriends with people who're around me but they found me nerdy and boring. That's when I motivated myself and boosted my confidence to achieve my goals.On top of it having more friends is not a qualification or criteria in life. We should feel proud of our existence that we are self sufficient in life. Eklo cholo re 👍🏻

[@anmoljain1707]

yes u r right

[@nikitanagekar7264]

Ekla Chalo re......Tht song always make me realise tht its okay to hve no frnds.......Btw you are bengali

[@Raghuvir-polyglot]

@@nikitanagekar7264No ! Tumhi maharashtrian ahat ka ?

[@manu-lj4qi]

I feel you too❤️

[@AshishKumar-ul7ex]

@@Raghuvir-polyglot how you make yourself motivated

[@lofibeatforever]

being alone is a way better option than staying surrounded by fake people 🖤

[@Not.ur_business788]

Correct

[@ankitk_here]

Agreed

[@ArjunYadav-n9s]

I also want to live alone forever!!!! 😐

[@pavitrachary6.8.9]

These problems seem very minute and tackleable by extroverts .but for introverts these minute hurdles are obstacles disturbing their life ,keeping them away from achieving their dreams .Thank you for making such helpful videos...and encouraging us through it ...looking forward to such more videos..👍💖

[@anju8923]

True 👏👏👏

[@ankitpatil9568]

True

[@sushmanomula9800]

True

[@gurucharanmaurya8649]

Its happening with me

[@hannahraj1893]

With Me too😞

[@Taffy-ew2le]

Same problem I am facing in school and when told the same to my parents they say that it’s my fault , not even trying to understand me. Now I am isolating myself from everything else and just trying to me alone in my room…

[@nolimits7495]

Your parents are toxic. Things will change..don't let your parents decide your career. Your parents sound controlling and close minded. They should understand you but are bullying you even more.

[@NS-uq9st]

That's sad.. You need to enjoy your own company

[@kashishprasad6970]

I am so sorry to hear that... I have also gone through a similar type of behaviour from my parents in my childhood. But afterwards, I realised that it was hardly my fault that others didn't become my friends. They all were wrong about me. The reality was that the world wasn't good towards me before. But afterwards, I tried to improve my social skills a little and made myself involved in things that I like to do. According to that, I found some online support and I am still carrying on with the improvement. I still can't say that I have very close friends but I am confident that I am not bullied or hated by anyone anymore. So, in your case, I would recommend you to focus on whatever interests you the most and try to find other people with similar interests. Then try talking to them and also try to become nice and helpful towards them. One day you will have friends for sure if you follow this. And also, do your best to ignore those people who don't understand you.

[@waytosuccess18]

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[@Shaina_singh_amrita]

Lucky are the ones who have good friends and relationships in the life !!

[@gurpreetkaur-sz5gi]

True dat even friends and good ppl some ppl are not lucky to get.

[@SahilArora21]

Indeed! Befriending with yourself first is the best thing ❤

[@sakshigupta7569]

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[@iramayub1857]

Being alone gives you a time to stay away frm the world and connect with your lord❤

[@lalita_soren]

Yes I had also no friends till my college life, bcz no body liked me bcz of my looks, and no body would accompany me with them to college and I also just like Ekla challo. Now I became a doctor,but they could not be doctors or Engineers . All of them are having jobs lower than me,so don't judge anybody bcz of looks or of status.

[@Nic-co6ot]

This just sounds like hypocrisy to me. You're exactly judging their status by calling it "lower" because you are a doctor, the same way they judged you in the past because of your looks. Maybe word it better next time.

[@subhashdavid5933]

Help them and say karma is a boomerang you will feel better

[@aksinha7655]

Madam apne ye baat keh kar meri tuti hui himmat ko fir se bada di hai thank you 🙏 bhagwan aapko promotion dila de

[@subhashdavid5933]

@STUDY BLOW there is a saying the greatest motivators are our haters cause they keep you engaged 🤩

[@prarthanapathak8100]

@@Nic-co6ot well said

[@sangeetanair3643]

Was in a similar situation but in a different scenario...It's heart breakening to realise u are alone and would always be alone...but acceptance makes it easier

[@rahathussain4716]

I m with you

[@aradhanapandey8583]

Been there and experienced the same in few of my companies, where I used to run behind ppl and feel inferior assuming I don't fit in there. It's soul crushing feeling when colleagues corner you. But what I learnt is life later after many years is exactly what is told in the message. You be confident abt urself and Be You!! Whoever likes you will eventually become your friend might not be hanging with a gang of friends but 1 -2 who understand your value is more than enough!!! Most of the time when we run behind ppl they run away but when we are comfortable with ourselves that's when magic happens. It's not easy to be alone and being comfortable while set of colleagues are hanging out and chit chatting and having fun. But you will ultimately find one such friend when you are You

[@rahathussain4716]

I m with you

[@Jennifer-lb9wi]

I had tears when I saw your comment. More power to you, girl.

[@venkatammakutti5141]

This video got in correct time..where I was trying to make good friends for me...but all I should do is first of all I should be confident about my self

[@Blurufoodaz]

This is my story during my undergraduation…. I had no friends at all and the people were very cunning and self centered….. and it’s true that I happened to compromise with my self respect at times to make friends….. and at one point I even thought something must be really wrong with me that people aren’t friends with me and I tried to change myself….. later once I moved on and went to postgraduation, I found friends and everything was okay…. Later I realised that nothing is wrong with me but others

[@chethanareddy4112]

True I feel same like something is wrong with me that even when I have good intentions they don't stay

[@Not.ur_business788]

Yaah ..... I've no one with me in my class... nobody does talk to me even when I'm friendly.....they really ignore and avoid me .. it's too 😣 sad/uneasy Most of times i sit alone on bench whereas rest all benches are occupied.. PLS SUGGEST WHAT TO DO???

[@Not.ur_business788]

I wish even I get accompanied with good company like u got now.....well I'm olin 11th now

[@Blurufoodaz]

@@Not.ur_business788 these tips exclusively for 11th and 12th - Take part in cultures, sports - If you are studious, don’t hesitate to show that you are studious and make friends with studious people and discuss topics with them - Invite friends to your home and offer them a study night or something - plan to join friends on some events that they are looking upto - I used to go to tutions after the college, so I had friends outside the college too ….. it’s like you go more places , increases your chance of making more friends. - ultimately still you can’t get to make any friends, better chuck and study well so that you get into good graduation …. Bcos next college you have higher chance of making more friends

[@AmarnathReddyGanta]

Well, even I don't have friends at my undergraduation. Honestly, I felt lonely most of times and didn't know what went wrong. I mean I tried to make friends but they too made fun of me and cornered making me feel like I don't belong in this world. Like any advice you have on making friends?

[@gauthamguddera8830]

I am almost a person who has almost 70% of the character in myself. And also I am happy without even having friends. Almost in this world, many run behind another but can never along together.✌✌✌ great content indeed

[@Honey-Kan]

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[@zaid6283]

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[@zaid6283]

@British vlog 👍

[@zaid6283]

@British vlog lets make new friends in comment section

[@zaid6283]

@British vlog whats your real name and instagram id....I'll share u memes

[@NT-tj2eo]

I was a college representative and used to participate in many events despite all ....at my 1st job i had experienced sort of the same situation. It took me 1.5-2yrs, i was literally bullied saying "she doesn't have confidence, she can't do it, it's difficult to survive in corporate"etc. It was a bad phase i didn't give up. Now I have 10+yrs of experience, have worked with big 4, well known MNCs and my clients and my colleagues give compliments to me being a perfect Business Analyst... My ex colleague from my 1st job (bunch of seniors) im thankful for giving me the worst experience to learn better

[@ranjanaramesh2240]

People themselves are afraid hence they tend to take that out on us

[@alexprice8339]

I am alone since childhood Even my family never understand me and called me i am lazy and useless ... I started living alone in separate apartment since last 10 years Doing very good in my career, earning money, Living my life on my own terms But still i am alone

[@aakankshagaikwad1749]

Happy for you buddy Even I'm an introvert I made just two best friends in five years of college still I'm happy

[@cute_girl_3843]

Haj let's be Friends

[@donotdisturb8684]

Living alone is better than living with a nonsense crowd....

[@Raina_Agarwal]

I can relate. Though I'm still a teenager and living with my parents. Life is very hard this way. A couple of days back I came to my maternal uncle's house as my grandfather passed away. We have to spend 15 days here. And it's getting so tough for me. My other cousins who are ever older than me are busy with their own mobile phones, doing minimal amount of work, while me, who is taking care of little children, assisting in other chores, still am useless. I'm feeling terrible. Perhaps I'm destined to be this way where anyone can come and make fun of me. Even when I'm good in literally everything. And it's more miserable that way ...

[@shibinashibi8365]

I too an introvert. It's better to be alone than having fake friends and spouse.

[@amaanofficial4201]

Be urself and be confident....you are enough for ur self ....

[@Arjun70275]

When I was in school there were some creepy girls who always said that I can never achieve anything in my life, no one will marry me I will be forever be a burden to my parents etc..... they spoke all these things to me without any reason..... But I am thankful to all those girls because they taught me how to live alone nicely without any friends.....

[@heybuddy5421]

When u see they are not responding you, just take a leave. Maintain ur standard, ur aura . They'll come back to u. Stay confident.

[@akshaykashyap7473]

When you found yourself in such situation , Trust me it is great time for you to bring revolution and transform your life , You stopped getting influenced by thoughts of society and becoming more focused toward your goal , It is blessing in Disguise.

[@Rythmica375]

Yes, you need to be friends with yourself and accept who you are and look for ways to keep yourself happy. But in an office atmosphere when you are working on a group project and the team members isolate you, what do you do? There is this dependency factor which makes things difficult and creates stress. Your boss most of the times will not understand you and since majority are ignoring you, he/she will only think that there is something wrong with you. We can't be 100% self sufficient or independent. We do need someone to help and support us. When that is missing things become difficult.

[@siddharthpattanaik1078]

Confidence in onself is the biggest thing one can reward himself. But I would like to add a point - "Don't force anything be it friendship/relationship bcoz upon whom you are pouring all your energy dosen't want yours". For they become toxic to you and start treating you as their puppet making you feel unworthy and guilty.

[@mikelaandrews746]

Treat everyone with respect don't look down on anyone because you never know one day you might need that same person

[@userkeerthu]

Listen friends...always lonely people will get success in life.. so if you are alone ,wait for the success to come into your life 🧬❤️.

[@vimalediwal7745]

Hmm

[@axley444]

This is so true. I have trouble getting close to people and the people I trust have always betrayed me and made me feel lonely. Honestly, being alone at school is a horrible feeling but sometimes, it's better to be alone than with fake people. Observe people, do your work, spend time with yourself, embrace solitude. If you fear being alone then you need to face that fear and not run away from it. Facing it means you have to spend time with yourself and running away is that you're constantly seeking company of people and you're letting others validate you. Love yourself, embrace solitude, work on yourself. This is my plan too. It's hard but when you finally reach that stage where you know your self worth, you'll automatically have close, good friends.

[@AbhixQ224]

You don't know, this video has become life changing video of all time now, I am blessed that I clicked this one🤗.

[@anonymousanonymous7208]

Actually it’s not about being underconfident……it’s mostly that people feel lonely and they want people to share experiences with in their life.

[@shashikantdwivedi2772]

Same thing always used to happen with me in office. I was lost my self respect in order to make friends. I am CA Student pursuing 3 year of my training in a CA office. One of the person senior to me. He was senior just because he worked in that office for past 7 year and his qualification is just B Com. I was more knowledgeable than him. But he has more understanding of environment of office. That's why I don't want to make him angry. He always used to insult me in front of all staff members, mocking me everytime. Seeing him doing this behaviour to me, other seniors also don't want to talk to me. They also behave roudly to me. Whenever any unofficial discussion held during lunch between seniors and other junior, and I have to ask something just to get understanding and to learn something, then he always said "apne kaam se kaam rkh, seniors k beech m mat bola kr". Their behaviour was good for other juniors, and I don't what the reason was. I completely lost my self respect in order to make them good friends. I was completely fed up with this type of behavior. I feel inferiority complex. One day I decided to commit suicide. But this was not the solution, I'll got free from my problem but what about my mom and sister. Because whatever the person I was at that time is just because of my mom and elder sister. I quit my decision. Thanks to Komal my colleague, she is the only one person who fought for me. And now I decided that I have to take my stand on my own feet. Now or Never. One day he again insult me in front of others, this was now not tolerable for me. I shout at him in response. Mai theek se jawab nhi de pata tha kisi ko but usse koi farq nhi padne wala tha mujhe because mujhe kuchh to aisa Krna tha jisse ye lage ki mai phle wala insan nhi rha. Us waqt mere mind m jo bhi aaya bol diya. Kisi ki parwah nhi ki. Us din k baad mai bilkul badal chuka tha, mature ho chuka tha khush rhne laga tha. Man kr rha tha hawa m udne lagu. Meri productivity badh gyi thi, energy se bhara hua feel krne laga tha. Us din k baad se kabhi kisi ki himmat nhi hui mujhe insult krne ki. Kisi filmy story ki trh lgti mujhe meri story. Jab bhi kisi ko sunata hu to. Lekin ye sab sach h.

[@susantapadhi6359]

Very good 😊👍

[@shibani1111]

👌 wow beautiful

[@akhilj4586]

All the best CA Sashikanth.... Just remember articleship is just part of CA Cirucullam.... You have more way to go.. More goals to reach....all the very best... I too faced similar problem during my articleship and that alone didn't stop me.... Raise above... Don't stop... All the very best... Waiting to see you as proud CA

[@deadbody4588]

I have cleared both groups and i am about to start my articleship next month. I am doing IT training right now

[@animeshsharma9128]

God bless you 🙂😇

[@Veda_ansh]

Excellent lesson for the people who feel like this and this time this type of lesson is very important for those, who are alone . You are doing a great job sir and ur story is so inspiring .

[@abhishekbhagat9263]

jo bhi mere dimag mei ata hai aplog us par pehle se hi video banaye rakhte ho aur coincidently youtube mujhe wo reccomend kar deta hai bina kuch search kiye :) Great work keep spreading your positive vibes:)

[@mr_jay2119]

In reality, It always happens with boys not for girls. And if situations are really like this for anyone there's always an option to resign. Mental well-being is always more important than a job.

[@manu-lj4qi]

Well I am a teenage girl and this happens with me

[@sudhirkumar559]

@@manu-lj4qi tb v sis girls ke sath jyade nhi hota Aisa ....

[@prarthanapathak8100]

Boys or girls-it does not matter!!!a boy can be introvert and cannot express himself,a girl also faces similar situation....being an introvert girl,I have faced it

[@sudhirkumar559]

@@prarthanapathak8100 oooooo sis....

[@saswatapaladhi4608]

Because girls will always get attention from desperate simps no matter how "ugly" they look

[@arathysj3406]

This is the same situation I face in my school ....

[@ishaanchandel6966]

Sed

[@waytosuccess18]

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[@myyeschannel]

Same ,I took admission in this school in 3rd grade and now I am in 11th , still I have no friends . In 3rd my classmates used to bully me. sometimes I even used to cry . They took advantage of my introverted nature. I am in 11th in the same school still I have no friends . I eat lunch alone , they eat in groups, they roam in corridors with their friends and I just sit in class , they play with their friends in the ground. I stand in the corner. I am happy that there are no offline schools . Online schools are less miserable

[@sanjana6931]

@@myyeschannel I faced the same situation when I joined a new school in 8th grade. I even got social anxiety because they used to always make fun of me and I didn't have a single friend. Fortunately left that school from 11th , now things are much better in my new school! But I can never forget how much disturbed I had become back then.

[@twinklestar2490]

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[@poojaawasthi9232]

I felt so relatable ,,exactly similar cornering occurs with me in my college. ,but I try not to bother ,,such people are everywhere ,,if u are right don't prove urself again and again ,coz u never will be able to prove to such people,,just be with ur self or people who make u happy ,,u are whole for ur own

[@KrishnPriyh]

I was same in my school days . And I was sad . Every Body was like that devil and my mom is only will me and every one cornering me then I felt do ..but now I understand ..I am my best friend ❤️

[@GauravSharma-ww1dd]

Nijo sir, ur own acting and the work of all the actors and actresses associated with you are commendable. Which makes our society aware.✌👍

[@vanuhassan1441]

True. Even I don't have any friends. But still I am happy. Bcoz I don't want to talk too much, my work talks.

[@Mahalakshmi-ie6wf]

The thumbnail told me this was my story. The video told me I am suffering less..

[@angelbabu6409]

Im 26 now.wen i was working i experienced the same thing in office especially der were 2 ladies who use isolate me i left my job after some time coz of being ignored .in school and college i always went behind my classmate and i got non of them still iam like dat but now i wont .thank u Nijo sir for this video

[@Agnet_Faze]

I face this everyday with people 🤷🤷🤷 but I don't care. It's ok not to have friends. It's better to be alone than being with the wrong people. If they don't want to be your friend, then it's their choice, you cannot control people. If someone has to like you, they will.

[@bhargovbora9145]

Btw how is your communication skills

[@sadiksha904]

I don't have any friends !I have run behind people since many years . Even though they don't respect me but I used to run behind the people searching for happiness .But eventually one incident has happened in my life every person came and go back after their work has done .That hurt me alot .But after that I feel like I am only the person to make myself happy and started to enjoy my own company ! Nowadays I don't whether people are with me or not but I am always with me .❤️I jst think that god has some purpose in my life !

[@bhavaharini9265]

I faced the same situation. I was also not having friends. I used to try to make friends but they used to make fjn of me. I neglected at a stage. When I move on I met new people. We were actually a good companion. I have very few friends. But they are the best. People including family members used to corner me for not having and they used to tell that I am having some problem sk that no one is talking to me. But I haven't done anything bad or worse. Then when I moved on people around me changed and the situation also changes. So don't worry about some cheap bullying person. Just don't mind move on. Have a great life

[@suankitasaathi]

This video also should have included how this girl learns to stop compromising with her self respect .

[@shaiknayyararif3492]

I am relatable For years am facing the problem I don't know why people get bored of me I would impress them with all my energy.... At the end am depressed.. Still today every one is using me as a puppet But I have two kids who know what I am... I know they stand behind me till the end

[@krishnapriyaa.99]

Relatable...as an introvert,I don't know why I am always alone,but now I am a bit extrovert,so things are bit different,but self worth is what important.tnx for this video,this video sum Up's my life till plus two . But I got some friends in college. be friend with yourself.that's it

[@SRIDEVIG5236]

Yes... First we have to believe in ourselves and we have to be brave enough and confident enough to be alone bcoz not all be present at our hard times so we just have to be strong and it's very hard process to digest that we r alone

[@hazelaggarwal1999]

I am facing the same situation in my college. I literally have no friends. I have always been an extrovert but this pandemic changed me a lot.

[@realzhella6817]

Add to that limerence,heartbreak,depression and chronic loneliness and then you get me

[@rohinisharma810]

Same here 💔

[@shalomraj3782]

What a Friend we have in Jesus.........

[@Regina_1897]

Right 😊

[@snehatekam1610]

Yes

[@hkstudy]

Very nice approach by the kind man who really showed girl a way to be strong and be confident

[@vaishnavi2773]

Once Seneca said: What progress , you ask , have i made? I have begun to be a friend to myself. So true so underated and so direct 😊

[@lopamudradas8707]

Thank you for teaching a great lesson through this video It was really inspiring Keep it up make more motivational videos

[@jyo3136]

Mostly introverts face these type of situations.Maybe they are cautious about how they look,will people like them or not and so many things come in their mind. But such people have their unique thoughts which are not accepted by general public and so they get left alone by others.And it’s right that we should first make friendship with ourselves and stay happy 😊

[@hellogoodies]

This film story somewhere is connected to my life,after being accepting myself,then also I am unable to make friends and lack social skills despite of being surrounded by people or positive vibes I feel lonely and sad

[@kamathprajna]

I feel more alone between people rather than in empty room

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[@mubashirjaved7017]

Thanks sir ye video Mai aj se 1.5 year pehle dekha tha or abhi thanks karne k Liye dekh rha Apka tricks ki wajah se ap mujhe Kisi dosre ki zaroorat nhi parti Na hi Mai koi Hope rakhta ho Or na hi Mai apne Pasand ki cheezeen, harkateen Karne Mai Khud ko weird Samjhta hi Mujhe farq nhi parta Mujhe dore weird kahe or na hi Mai Khud ko social pretend Karta ho Mai jis cheez Mai Khush hota ho os cheez par dosre weird bole mujhe farq nhi parta For example, Mai cats k Sath rehta ho, onhe hath se pakar kar Khana deta ho mujh farq nhi parta Mujhe log dekh kar Hans rhy ya weird bole or na hi Mai dosre se BAAT k Liye approach karta Mai Khud Mai itna happy rehta ho ab dosre approach krne ki khoshish Karte lekin Mai onhe lift nhi deta Jo mere Sath comfortable feel nhi Karte thy pehle Or ap ke jitna thanks Mai apne cats ka ho Cats se Mujhe inspiration Mila or apse trickt

[@sumbulhalim1396]

So what I am very happy without friends. If friends are not with you in your difficult times. Then no need for friends

[@mahalakshmiachari710]

It’s great message bcs even I face same issue at my office now I completed successfully 1 year but to learn the process I struggled a lot bcs seniors were doing same with me … today I remembered those bad days🎉🎉

[@parvathikarmuri]

My school life is almost a reflection to this video. The situation is just as similar to it. They just show my negativity to everyone in the class. Because of that i didn't have any friends.Everyone used to blame me. On vexed of the Situation, I became silent. I never cared about anyone. Even in the lunch breaks i used to eat my lunch in my place and sleep after it. Later my parents prepared me in such a way that i started loving myself and my family and never cared about having a friend. Now i don't have any friends. Of course everyone talks to me, everyone knows me. I behaved like an extrovert in the college later. But when it comes to friends i don't have any. My family became the main thing. Now my family knows about me about everything that every bff knows about their friend

[@034punnagbose7]

This story just described my childhood hat's off to you Nijo Sir for picking this topic and making video in this.

[@2912teddytweety2016]

You need to love yourself as you are. Self esteem is very important. It's that power that makes others jealous so they will purposely say bad things to make you feel bad. Just ignore such people.

[@mubashirjaved7017]

Thanks sir ye video Mai aj se 1.5 year pehle dekha tha or abhi thanks karne k Liye dekh rha Apka tricks ki wajah se ap mujhe Kisi dosre ki zaroorat nhi parti Na hi Mai koi Hope rakhta ho Or na hi Mai apne Pasand ki cheezeen, harkateen Karne Mai Khud ko weird Samjhta hi Mujhe farq nhi parta Mujhe dore weird kahe or na hi Mai Khud ko social pretend Karta ho Mai jis cheez Mai Khush hota ho os cheez par dosre weird bole mujhe farq nhi parta For example, Mai cats k Sath rehta ho, onhe hath se pakar kar Khana deta ho mujh farq nhi parta Mujhe log dekh kar Hans rhy ya weird bole or na hi Mai dosre se BAAT k Liye approach karta Mai Khud Mai itna happy rehta ho ab dosre approach krne ki khoshish Karte lekin Mai onhe lift nhi deta Jo mere Sath comfortable feel nhi Karte thy pehle Or ap ke jitna thanks Mai apne cats ka ho Cats se Mujhe inspiration Mila or apse trick

[@PrabhakarKumar]

*I'm addicted to this channel for the amazing morals and Stories which i really connects from my heart ❤️*

[@ravijeeverma876]

Straightway case of untouchability should have been filed against people who try to boycott the single person. These are the bullies

[@peyalaanitha1754]

Literally i got tears😢 . I'm deeply connect to this concept.very inspiring thank you # 🖤

[@dwaramaswani2608]

Hi brother mojo, Thank you so much such a great story which make me realize since I have been spending in school without my friends for 12 years. But now I have a few friends by having talent, confident. Moral :- confident is the key which makes man's perfect.

[@gaurisingh4709]

Just got it randomly while scrolling and again got a chance to meet myself. Thank you 😊

[@runabalid5048]

You must tie up with co-operate office's HR these videos and this content and training will help groom the behaviour of not so professional individuals at workplace

[@rajithamahanthu3470]

Thank you so much...i was in the same situation till now but God gave me the confidence by making me see ur video at right time Thank u...thank you so much 💕

[@akshara4809]

It's actually really hard to go through this. I'm the one who faced this s**t and resigned from my office. I feel regret only in which I missed the opportunity to become a good and smart worker. There's 2 female senior workers who supervise us, and we were worked as a trainee. These two ladies literally avoided my actual existence. Evelyn and Mary. I'll never forget them and Im sure that one day they will get realise that how much cruel are they. And they should pay for it. Now I'm looking for an another good job. It's been 2 months after resigning. I'm mentally completely week now. I wish nobody could go through this pain. Make your own way. God bless you all 💕💫

[@shahanaraakter1073]

Exactly that was happened when i was a scl girl.i remember how lonely was that time.it's very hard to become confident without other help.Btw this video is very helpful

[@ankitatongya4345]

For the first tym I am writing comment ,I see vedios on you tube but I never give response to any vedio and it is just becoz I think this is my story ,that you r telling ,same thing is happening with me and the result is I am losting my self , sometimes I overthink what is the problem of people around me and why they left me even after hurting me from so many tym I am feeling alone being a college student yet I did not enjoyed and lived as student of my age group live their life I cried infornt of mother but never understand how to tell her the reason some tym being alone also become the reason of depression ...we are going through but how to express it so that we can ask for help become difficult but this story also make me learn one thing their is no need to run around people if u r strong enough then they will come to u ..very nice script and nicely presented..

[@himeshray4834]

I don't think girls will feel lonely because there would be someone to talk to you even if you are introvert.Being a boy and introvert,it is much more difficult...

[@Shizuka1809]

Thank You so much Sir ... ❤️..Bcoz...From the last few years till now I am going through this phase ... 😭😭😭😔😔😔 I have no friend to talk ..even I have no friend to share my feelings 😭...I am too depressed 😭 Everyone igonre me 😭 ..Dua for Me I am preparing for competitive exam .. May Allah Bless you ..sir ..Thank You Ameen for such kind of video .. ❤️

[@Darogaayaaa]

hey i was finding u only..i am also like you ....if u don't mind shall we become friends

[@Shizuka1809]

@@Darogaayaaa okay !

[@Shizuka1809]

But.. where nd how ??we can talk to each other ?!

[@Darogaayaaa]

@@Shizuka1809 on Instagram ☺️ sorry i comment u late . so are u on insta

[@Shizuka1809]

@@Darogaayaaa it's okay ...But i have only telegram I'd ...!!

[@scorpiojustice1368]

Only people has gone through such situations can understand the pain. Wherever you go u can see people with groups n gangs! Only thing you can do is ignore. But i hv seen people who are single n stay focused on self are more attractive😍 nice story 🙏

[@shreyadhar7155]

I face the same problem in college now everyday , honestly I was never an introvert in school life but as soon as I stepped into college I became extremely introvert and I just cry frequently wishing to have a genuine friend. I sit alone while eating food in the mess all the time ,whenever I try to talk to one person and their friends comes in they just leave me behind and go away with their friends,whenever I try to join a friends group all of the members don’t warm welcome me ,the one I use to call friends say please don’t invite Shreya along with us for outing or hangouts orelse I’m not going ,whenever I initiate plans to meet or go out with my friends they refuse to go out with me or they just give an excuse that I’m busy ,my hi and hello in their chat box is always unseen for many’s days ,whenever I meet new people I overshare about my life and later regret it ,people do talk behind my back even about me and my life but nobody talks to me .I wish I was never in this college but it was extremely hard path to reach here ,I failed in 9th grade 2 times in same school and my friends parents use to tell their children don’t make friends with such a failure like Shreya or else you will become like her and not study and also many of my friends left me for the same reason and I always use to constantly hide my ID card so nobody knows my real age ,so for me this college is a blessing but you always have to pay the price and I guess this was the price ,loneliness and forcefully being an introvert .Though I’m good in studies and doing things to compensate my failures but life isn’t bed of roses and it will never be.

[@purnima106]

Focus on some other intrest of ur mine and spent time to make ur skill best ..after some time u will see many of people will be ur friend

[@himeshray4834]

You are a strong person...Never let anyone decide you who you are...

[@kasturigoswami1402]

Beautiful story. The moral is to love oneself. Only then will know thyself fall in place. Thanks for sharing.

[@veereshvastrad3501]

She is so beautiful like a doll😍❤️, how can someone befriend her😠

[@ArchismanMozumder]

This is a very well made and relevant episode. Thank you The lady, enacting the main character, has essayed the role very competently. Kudos.

[@manishanaik9656]

An impressive video,sir.... In today's times, better to be a loner. rather than compromising self respect and being part of a group which promotes gossiping,passing derogatory & demotivating comments for reasons best known to them( jealousy, insecurity etc)...It's my personal experience to be a lone wolf and have limited but. loyal friends,. Being part of a big group invites headache, tension etc

[@roshnid5596]

I don't have many friends. So much trauma happened in my life by my own family that it's hard to make friends. But it's my own family that judges you and look down on you like you are nothing.

[@nehaavasthi5180]

So true . Love yourself iand understand yourself is the most important thing. Thank you so much for sharing this story it will really inspire lots of people .

[@swetajh9008]

Since like I was in 7th Class, I've had no friends, my best friend left me for a better group of friends. I've been a good friend but was always shy and quiet and sadly, people don't want good friends, they want fun friends. In college too, I had just one friend who was so toxic. And now I'm studying for jobs, so I don't have anywhere to go and make friends at. I'm always home and I feel so lonely that I don't have a social life or friends and I'm 27 years old. I ask God when will I even have friends finally?? But I'm positive. I know I've to work on myself first. For year's, I've felt bad about my social life and that bad feeling has stopped me from focusing on other areas of my life too. My grades have been very bad. I've not exercised. I've let one sad area of my life affect another area. But now I want to become successful and healthy and wealthy in my life and keep a positive mind that good friends and a loving partner will show up in my life soon.

[@himeshray4834]

How are u dealing with all these as I am also going through the same phase...

[@Travel_Junkie007]

Jst be yourself rest will follow 😊

[@moonriser464]

you are not alone. there is hope for people like us

[@sudarshandeshpande7428]

Actually it is happening with me also.

[@royalboy850]

Same here

[@ysbyuvasri1624]

really appreciate you taking effort to help people like this.... I was critized from school and college days... But I had inferior complex that being poor students all r giggling.... But even failure students too doing that to me. So once I decided without reason if u r treated poor... Then go ahead u don't want them.... But in office inspite of my performance I was cornered, like school students massly they stopped talking... But I never worried... All I said 9 hours work, salary this will do.... My family never understood they said how all will be against u,,? U have to change now more befriend despite odds... Really same thing as boss I said never if it's my fault will change, apologize... It's not me... Still no best friends to share hang out but I strongly believe in God that I press every thing to him... Guts will make you feel better no guilt... Guys c orphans, differently challenged people.. Count ur blessings.. Never think u as odd as others corner-store. Instead b proud that u r different and way ahead that they r jealous....

[@KrishnPriyh]

This is true and felt that in my school

[@manjushaganne629]

I also faced same situation in my school and college. But later when examination marks announced and found that I am one of the best, all members surrounded me and try to make friendship with me.

[@saisri-me8vx]

This is very sad for me I also faced this.....when I was in a Btech engineering 😢 😔 😞 that situations really hurts to me 😒 but now I'm doing job IBPS PO Now I'm Rockstar 😎😎😎 don't dispoint anyone accept everything

[@sowmyaparthasarathy9267]

This expectation of having a friend or company is the real issue for sadness,why can't you enjoy your company first and if someone is really fond of u let them make a position in ur special corner.... Being alone is not a shame ,start seeing it's positive and think and work independently 😊

[@vaanirao6482]

Thank u soo much sir for this video. It meant a lot to me. 😌😔

[@vidhyaarvindkrishnan3301]

This is my story. Superb video.

[@katekate5583]

Be a single lion rather than a wolf in a pack. The first lesson of spirituality is being alone.

[@Raghav-Ulags]

Same resembles myself.In earlier days I was also alone in early school days.But later school days I started getting friends who accepted me as I am. I believe whatever we may be we should be ourselves try to be our best selves.Then we will get our people gradually

[@AnastasiaSaenz]

This resonated with me - except I think I push people further away because I don't talk with those who don't share classes with me nor do I talk with those I don't work with and come across as intimidating(I do this, to weed out those who judge me for being "intimidating", and those who would like to get to know me behind the "hard and cold" exterior...I suppose that backfired. It's difficult to trust people - which is why I carry that exterior. Whenever I'm surrounded by those I associate with, within my classes and my workplace, I make conversation with them, but I, being taught that "true friends approach you to request to hang out with you and get to know you", hadn't taken that initiative in wanting to hang out with them - especially those at work. I feel left out of conversations from my classmates when they're not talking about the assignments to work on - since I don't watch the popular shows or movies, nor do I listen to the same music as them, nor play the same video games as they do, nor share the same general hobbies as them. All my life, I've struggled making friends because of them judging me for how I looked, the way I thought and came across and because of my weaknesses. I would have thought that in college and university, things would have been different. On the upside, this video seemed to have motivated me to be a friend to myself, first. If I was cloned, I'd get out of my comfort zone and do other stuff: take on a new sport, look for volunteer programs that peak my interest, go to job fairs and browse for other job offers(job fairs, volunteer programs and new sports, all occur at university, so I think it's a good start)...but finding something to talk about, other than history, politics, culture and language(which others seem to know more than I do)? At the moment, I feel like it's near impossible(it's like betraying myself to become someone else I DON'T associate with nor would like)...

[@Raina_Agarwal]

Can relate. Though I'm still a teenager and living with my parents. Life is very hard this way. A couple of days back I came to my maternal uncle's house as my grandfather passed away. We have to spend 15 days here. And it's getting so tough for me. My other cousins who are ever older than me are busy with their own mobile phones, doing minimal amount of work, while me, who is taking care of little children, assisting in other chores, still am useless. I'm feeling terrible. Perhaps I'm destined to be this way where anyone can come and make fun of me. Even when I'm good in literally everything. And it's more miserable that way ... And I've adopted this personality where I'm just cold and unapproachable.. It's like a guard which protects me. Because it would be better if I never allow anyone to come in, so that I can never get sidelined..

[@AnastasiaSaenz]

@@Raina_Agarwal jeez... now, you sound like me; I used to go around my dad's side of the family, for get-togethers - but, being that I'm not only the eldest among cousins, grandchildren and my dad's eldest child, but I'm the only one born within a decade, so I watched my 2 of my younger cousins have fun with going to concerts, dating and all that goes along with being an adult within 18-21, but not old enough to discuss topics of business or financial stuff (my aunts, uncle and dad's age gap), or even the heydays of being younger (my grandparents' generation) I felt left out...I worked as a housekeeper at a hotel and therefore, felt inferior to them (in addition, being "special needs"). After my grandpa died and because I knew I'd only be left out, and I'd only be there to help out, and, it'd be the same ol' boring conversations and same ol' snobby people with whom my dad's relatives consisted with, I stopped going to the family get-togethers. I have another menial job, cleaning the main area of a restaurant while I'm attending university, majoring in languages and minoring in East Asian Studies. Now, I know it may seem like it's easy for me to say that "this too, shall pass" or anything of the sort, to you... and it probably will be (you stated you were a teenager, and I don't know how much longer you think you have until you can move out and be your own person and love yourself for who you are), but... for starters, look at what you like to do for hobbies. If you have interest in some sort of sports - baseball, basketball, wakeboarding, football (soccer) - arts - playing and/or listening to music, drawing, painting, dancing, singing, doing 3D arts on computers, stitching, crocheting, writing/typing stories, or anything in general - playing with a pet, reading books, doing random research on anything that sparks your interest (I love history, psychology, health (psychological, I think is part of the spectrum). You're not worthless. You seem to be surrounded by people who don't and haven't acknowledged you nor showed that you matter to them - and not just being their personal slave. You have a purpose which you haven't yet discovered, but it doesn't mean that you never will. Being around people who see more than just a personal domestic servant, can and should be able to give a more positive influence. I hope I was able to give you at least a little bit of advice and was able to empathize with you on some sort of level... If you also want someone to talk to (you seem like you're all alone, fighting this negativity that you live with), I'm available (I'm en route to work, right now).

[@Raina_Agarwal]

@@AnastasiaSaenz wow! Thanks for this elaborative and kind comment! It means a lot. I understand how you must have felt, because I go through the same. But it's really inspiring to see you getting past that and being independent and so fulfilled. I got your advice, and I'll try to be on the same line. Also would love to connect with you! If it's okay for you.. do tell me. 🙂

[@AnastasiaSaenz]

@@Raina_Agarwal You're very welcome, Raina. It's okay by me, to connect with you, as well. 🙂

[@waytosuccess18]

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[@ishadixit508]

I loved this story ,I needed this many times to fit in we try to be someone we are not while we dim our own soul's light and seek help from others but they never understand ,I've realized I don't need anyone .

[@umasasikumar9870]

I like this concept and it increases confidence in inside me

[@hemajasmy5407]

This story broken my heart because I'm facing this kind of issues in my office😢

[@chakithaponnala9869]

It was my story when I first joined office. Same now...but since wfh...no problem 😂😂

[@shashankdas4237]

Going through same and this video came randomly and boosted my confidence. ❤️❤️❤️