This has really transformed my life! Massive Closet Declutter and transformation

This has really transformed my life! Watch me declutter my closet and have order over my clothes. It has been so helpful to just see everything I have and need. Decluttering and organizing my clothes, hair products, bathing suits, suitcases and everything else in my closet has saved me so much time.
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Hi! WELCOME! Thanks for stopping by! My name is Jia. Hubby’s name is Charles. Our little ones are Zara (11) and Ava (8). If you need motivation on decluttering, cleaning, organizing and just getting it done, you are in the right place. This is Real life. Real messes. Real moments. And Real love. Did I mention, I love to shop. So tons of Shop with me’s, Costco hauls, and much more. Of course on a budget, because we live a debt free life. If you need help with that, we talk about that too! As a working mom, I share what works for us. I hope to inspire, encourage, and learn. Join me on this journey!

[@canncor3]

So motivating!! And nice to see a declutter/reorganize that didn't require $200 worth of matching bins to look good!!!

[@lizharley5723]

I love this quote: "If you're not using the stuff in your home, get rid of it. You're not going to start using it more by shoving it in a closet somewhere". Congrats on your transformation, I enjoyed your video. Keep it up!!!!

[@bornagainchristian3742]

Well this is an Amen or Ouch quote😂

[@craftsbycarmen]

When you said you felt like you did so much and absolutely nothing at the same time I felt that in my spirit.. that is me everytime I try to tackle my clutter.😢

[@KellyJelly9976]

This came out so well!! I love the fact that when you showed us the 9 bags that you decluttered you said that you were immediately going to take the bags out of the house. I think that's where a lot of us go wrong - we don't get the bags out of the house which can sometimes rob you of the sense of accomplishment because the stuff is still in the house. Thanks for sharing.

[@elizabeth1758]

Or you end up going back through it and picking the odd bit out!! 🙄😭🤣

[@susanwelch9496]

That clothing could bless women in shelters that are trying to make a new life for themselves.

[@organizerofthingsandstuff]

Im a professional organizer and you did so good. It is perfect, perfect for you and that is all that matters. you’re blessed to be a blessing!

[@KISSmartie]

Jia, I'm sure there are many of us here who are really proud of you! You did remove a lot! Great job, it is not easy to let go of things for so many reasons. Thank you for the inspiration to do it. 😊 Love this curly/wavy look on you too! ❤

[@thatwendygirl68]

Again, inspiring!! "No part of me wants to do this". I feel this so much about the clutter. I'm going to get moving on my clutter TODAY because of you!!!

[@elisahamilton73]

Clothing i wear only at certain times of the year i put into vacuum bags. Sometimes clothes sitting around for a long time have a smell and need to be rewashed to wear.

[@aleinad4522]

Don't feel bad ,many of us have the same issues. I heard a lady saying "for every new item for the closet ,one has to go".I should do that too.

[@stellabobbins5226]

Good heavens, what a huge cupboard, that’s the same size as a third bedroom here in the UK

[@joannemuturi_purposecultivator]

Exactly what I was thinking!! Our tiny British rooms!

[@amatullahsaafir685]

I'm about to tackle my closet and i needed inspiration and i found it. Let's do this!!!!!!! 🎉🎉🎉

[@CarolinaDorrough]

I'm so happy to see progress! I would add that those belongings you are not ready to let go, you can put on a "time will tell" bin. If you don't touch it or remember what is in it, it goes directly to donation.

[@secretheiress]

Jia, girl- I feel so validated right now! I feel like my closet is total chaos, when in reality there's no house with proper storage. I'm in the same boat- I do my own nails, my own hair, waxing, etc. but there's nowhere to put things without my closet looking like a flea market! Like you, I've been on the purging/decluttering kick this year but I know there's still so much left to do and it's really overwhelming. Props to you!

[@jodyrightnow]

Proud of you! One of my phrases for this year is: just because it’s hard doesn’t mean it’s not worth doing. ❤

[@Sparklesuz]

Happy Mother's Day ! Just want to tell you how much I appreciate your REAL LIFE project, and how inspired I am. You go girl !!

[@angeladawson8424]

You did a great job reducing your closet. I have been watching a few of your decluttering videos and I am enjoying them all.

[@miss_e23]

The most relatable and realistic declutter video I’ve ever seen. I have to figure out my hair products and piles too. Can’t part with them yet lol! Thank you so much for sharing this. Now I’m a new fan and follower. 😊

[@pen5532]

Super motivating! I have a small bin for Disney only clothing:). Also, I am a Business Professor and there are so many women that need professional attire and there are organizations out there that need clothing to be able to help all the women. .

[@AlexaLikes]

This is fantastic! And I totally related to what you said in the beginning, as the quote says “everything is hard before it is easy.” - Goethe

[@ddet4913]

LOVED the Limited!! My daughter kept one maternity shirt to prevent pregnancy :)

[@shayshay80808]

I had that same purple coach purse. I gave it away to my mom when I decluttered. 💜

[@rickismith1259]

You did a really good job. I felt you when you wanted to quit. It feels good to start but figuring out how to organize and throwing things out can be a challenge. It gets so overwhelming but the end result is rewarding

[@kathleensarran7785]

Hi, my motto is if you don't use it for 3 months get rid of it. I did a declutter recently also.

[@sharonsomers5513]

Closet looks good. Decluttering can be very overwhelming,but the end result is so worth it.

[@deannaw9657]

Jia!!! I am feeling you on SO many levels!! Corporate America!!! 30 years of my life until I got sick and couldn't keep it up. Had SO MANY THINGS that were so HARD to let go of. 😢 They were part of a walk in closet that I was forced to downsize due to a move to a very small apartment. It just broke my heart. But I DID THE THING!! And four years later, im still working on it. Better is always better. You did amazingly well. Keep peeling that onion and I'll be here cheering you on!! ❤

[@tonigeorge1727]

Great job!…..I can totally relate. Suggestion: putting like color clothes together - that makes finding things easier and can get ready faster also ❤

[@MsYoast]

"I feel like I've done so much and nothing at the same time" I can relate to this on so many levels. Good to see you girl! Long time since I've commented!!! ❤

[@mylifeinrealtime]

AMEN! I have to tell myself that the woman I am striving to become would not subject herself to this!

[@storminight]

Really Girl! Look at Dana K White! She’s all about not making a mess while declaring!!!! You are doing a great job! And it’s so motivating! Great job!!!!

[@sharonlong9576]

The limited was my favorite. You can find some items from them online still.

[@jadejade5303]

Declutter closet can be very overwhelming , when i first started declutter my closet it took me days just to get rid of a few things then i just put most of the stuffs back to where they were. It took me years to get rid of 75% of what i own. I think you did a great job!!!

[@briellescherr9898]

I wanted to truly thank you for your openness and vulnerability in making this video! Myself (and so many others) are right there with you on how much stuff has piled up and it’s suffocating! I am a Amazon Vine reviewer and get 8 free products a day if I want which has been a blessing and curse since I already had problems my entire life having too many clothes and “stuff” and this has just added to the problem! But I have watched your video and it gave me the motivation to start the process of decluttering and minimizing and continue to push forward until it’s complete! It’s been almost my entire life I’ve always had to many clothes and now at age 37 (and thanks to your video) I FINALLY FINALLY FINALLY purged my clothes and I have an organized everything and room feels AMAZING! I’ve watched countless of other videos, but yours was the one that just clicked something inside of me and ignited my motivation! So thank you thank you thank you! And you did such a wonderful job with your space!!!

[@MsSassyMT]

Get a clear bin for the hair so it will be contained in one location and you'll be able to see it. This will also help you have a confined amount of space for it so that you don't buy outside of that dedicated space. For all of the travel items, set up a travel location. We initially had travel items all over and it was a nightmare when getting ready to travel. I took one of the entryway closets and turned it into a travel closet. Luggage on the bottom, travel bags on top and we have another shelf that I added to hold bins with small travel items. I'm slowly working on my closet. Kudos to you.

[@sheamom]

i'm at 11:21, when I get frustrated or overwhelmed - wanting to stop- I take the trash out, and bag up the donations. take them down to the car. you'll see what's leaving as you fill the car! you'll come back to empty space! it's really inspiring and exciting.

[@alakazoola1]

A classic example of how much stuff can take up our time X

[@kurifurinkan]

every time i watch one of your videos, i go and make something else in my house pretty. it never fails.

[@MarriageMotherhood]

😘😘😘

[@Y3w3lz]

Starting is always the hardest step. Piece of advice for the stuff that you are unsure of, put them in a tub or a box and put a deadline on the top... if you dont reach for anything in that box within the period of time you gave yourself you can just grab the container and donate everything. That's what has worked for me when I find myself hesitanting while decluterring. Plus you did a good job pushing through the decision fatigue, that's definitely something to be proud about.

[@PiscesRus]

Finally a closet I can relate to lol. Mine looks like this or worse. The time has come 😩

[@annettekelley1035]

Oh my goodness you're a gift from our Father! Thank you so much. I have looked at a lot of video to declutter. Your video is more like me and how I am when I tackle a stressful task. You made something so overwhelming, less stressful, and doable. I asked the angels to send a video to me that is more like who I am. My prayers were answered. Thank you for sharing. You have me motivated. ❤

[@TheMeganExperience]

This was fun to watch - you just need to splurge on some organizational totes with lids that will help store your items and also protect them from dust n such :)

[@christineadams796]

Jia I am so proud of you I knew you could do it look so very nice now

[@renitas.7973]

Working on my closet. The limited is still my jam....they are available at Belk.

[@gerthealshanks1194]

Hello Jia, for hair organization just a suggestion, my grandmother growing up used to keep all her hair in a suitcase to keep it organized and contained and labeled that suitcase as the hair suitcase. I do this method to this day to keep all my synthetic and human hair organized.

[@lucyroberts2800]

I put a coat rack up and displayed some of my nice handbags this gives me pleasure in looking at them and also puts limits as to how many I can have 😊

[@MarriageMotherhood]

Great idea

[@beatricedaly8220]

I want to thank you for posting this. I actually started doing my closet while playing your video. I felt like you were here with me so I was not by myself tackling something that pulls you away from other things that need to be done for the family and the house. And I just want to let you know today’s Mother’s Day and this is what I’m doing, but it is a gift for me and that’s how I have to look at it. Thank you again for sharing. Hugs.

[@sueworland5618]

Great job! Just something which might help is to reverse all of your hangers. Once you wear an item then turn the hanger back the right way. After an amount of time (each season or 6 months etc), look through the items which are still turned the wrong way and ask yourself why you haven’t reached for it. It might be that you still want to keep it or it might not be something that you will wear again.

[@budgetingcouponinganddebt8079]

Love you seeing you flex your decluttering muscles by yourself. You did a great job. So proud!

[@bessburkhardt2093]

Rock Star!!! I’m helping my daughter with her closet right now. And I’m with you it’s so hard to keep pushing.

[@dwillardo6119]

Great job!! Your closet looks so much better but how you feel about yourself and what you did is the real joy!!! Love you girl ❤

[@learningthroughplaywithkay3597]

Jia you have done so well with all your decluttering x Don't know if this would be any help , but there is a free standing mirror that opens up and inside there is space for your jewelry, hairbrush ect xx

[@hannahsauer7804]

I bet it felt like Christmas decluttering that! You did amazing! My favorite videos of yours!! 🥰

[@MarriageMotherhood]

Yes! It’s so nice!

[@jessicaf7236]

Good on you for taking the time and putting in the effort to make your space match your needs and vision!! Hopefully it makes your life better from here on out :)

[@fendiboots4481]

Great job! I put the donation pile in my car right away to clear space and discourage me from changing my mind.

[@GrammyChrissy]

I'm so proud of you. This is the first, you alone video, I've seen where you aren't, sorry not sorry, whining about being overwhelmed/ decision fatigue. 🎉🎉 I was always cheering you on to keep going. And was frustrated when you stopped. It looks amazing!!!

[@momacdonald1]

All your videos of cleaning out got me so motivated. Hubs and I cleaned out the closets over the last couple of weeks. Sooooo many bags donated, 'missing" items found, and the ridiculous number of duplicate items in my closet...thank you so much for putting yourself out there because it has motivated many of us to join you!!!!

[@MarriageMotherhood]

This is awesome girl! We got this

[@BREE1126]

@@MarriageMotherhood Hi, where did you find that brown shoe rack organizer in your closet?

[@livinwiththeedges8283]

I've been out of the work place for 8.5 years and just now got rid of the last of my blazers. It felt great, but took a long time.

[@MarriageMotherhood]

I understand sis! Its hard to let go

[@SpicyChannelShoutOuts]

Wow you really created yourself alot of work, hopefully you remember how much you hate cleaning and organizing it so you remember to keep it organized and just pick up after yourself. But with that said, it looks amazing and I'm proud of you for coming more into your womanhood and wifehood of getting it together.

[@catherinecarreiro3955]

You got this ! Each step is part of the journey.

[@lindamargolies7759]

U inspire me…. ❤

[@MarriageMotherhood]

😘😘😘

[@saralynlewis]

Way to go!!!! You did it! 😊 And, your smile is absolutely gorgeous! I love your positivity through it all. It's not easy to organize and declutter!

[@MarriageMotherhood]

Thanks love 😘

[@lindsayjordan4161]

You did soooo good! Your attitude towards it of NO PART of you wanting to dive into it and being consumed in it is very much me! And not being ready to let go of corp clothing. I just became a SAHM last year, had 3rd baby and now pregnant with 4th and I all those clothes I know I wont be ready to let go of some. Plus the maternity and tons of baby clothes i have in cliset that I cant get rid of yet. And I store Christmas decor in my closet, and share with my husband! I hate it, so much stuff, no room and no motivation!😂

[@tonietteh2015]

One suggestion:: a clear crate just to hold all the hair products So its all in one place when it comes time to do hair for you and the kids The clear crate idea is key...so you can see its contents ❤

[@ktrayan1]

This is the hard thing about building a home you stay in for years and years! I never had a lot of stuff until we settled down and now I feel like a hoarder 🤣🤣 A blessing and a curse 😁

[@gloriaflannigan]

A much needed video. I'm inspired 😊

[@bethbranson9050]

Progress is always a WIN!! You are starting to get those declutter muscles!😉👍

[@christinekeleher3578]

You did such a good job. You can just tell that you are just so excited with what you have done. You inspire me to push myself. Just the other day I know I needed to go for my walk I just didn’t want to. I put on your video just for couple minutes before I knew it I was putting on my walking shoes. Omg it was the best walk. So thanks so much.

[@stacyh1839]

Great job! Thank you for leaving the parts in where you admit you just want to quit and then force yourself to push thru instead of just being rah, rah, rah...

[@LynetteYoung]

What amazing work! You inspired me… I paused the video 3/4 through and collected two laundry baskets of stuff for consignment!

[@leeandpatch8848]

I’m impressed! You should feel proud of yourself!

[@aryelleperez9612]

Been waiting for this one 🙌

[@dorcas.smiles]

I just tackled my closet in my room, which is two built-in wardrobes that go from the ceiling to the floor and take up a wall. I have four trash bags of old clothes that are going out. I'm embarrassed, but extremely good to see space in my closet. I have been putting this off. But today, I came across a video about the Swedish death cleaning and it was inspiring enough to make me get up and at least start. I'm so happy to have decluttered my room today. It feels so very great and it didn't take anywhere as much time as I would have thought. I'm on a mission to live more simply. After I watched that video, yours came up and so I'm watching it now. Next, I will tackle my daughters' closets to declutter and get rid of things. They have entirely too many toys and just things.

[@monacodelancey725]

Thank you for showing how hard it is to do this work! It's a struggle and you don't hide that - I feel that if you can power thru it, I can too!

[@debbieherigstad8984]

Thank you for the inspiration for me to clean out my closet and bless someone with all my excess clothes. Thanks for being so down to earth in your conversation.😍

[@karengreene1999]

I often think what you said, “There is NO part of me that wants to do this”. It really does feel extra good after those things are done.

[@MsBettyRubble]

I loved The Limited. So sad when it closed. You've done such a great job. I'm starting my closet declutter today. I'm both scared and excited.

[@annetteordonez5403]

Closet looks great! So proud of you!!❤

[@pamelacallaway3922]

I remember the Limited. That shop had a lot of nice clothes and accessories.

[@ericalewis1084]

First time watching and commenting. Good job. I just donated a bag of clothes that was in my trunk for 🤐 amount of time. 😊

[@MarriageMotherhood]

Thanks for watching 😘😘😘

[@ladywarrior2365]

One of the best decluttering videos I’ve seen. I love how you take it by sections . Great motivation

[@itsbittersweetest]

Rolling carts, drawers for nail stuff, hair and hair tools, makeup, etc.

[@jackie_jrml]

Gia! It looks amazing! What a huge difference! This was inspiring. I’m in desperate need of a closet declutter!! 😭 The Limited was my jam! In 2001 I had a job at the Ritz Carlton I had to wear suits. I got a Limited credit card and an Express card and of course went bananas with the nice suit jackets and pants. The Limited had the best silky knit sweater cami tank and cardigan sets. Ughh good times!! I really really miss early 2000’s Limited Express and NY&Co too. (Though I was in cc debt in my 20’s with all those cards! 😂 )

[@gaillangford280]

Great job. I feel your pain lol. I am going to work on my closet. Thanks for your video.

[@levcath13]

GOOD FOR YOU, IT LOOKS GREAT ❤❤❤

[@lacewigdesigner]

The hair- too relatable. I used to make wigs back in the day so I have everything under the sun. I’m currently a stay at home mom but former teacher so I have a lot of professional clothes and have a hard time getting rid of stuff cause I’m like if I return to work I can use it but the truth is I can start fresh as well. I appreciate this video. I need to do some serious decluttering.

[@christylovetimmy5429]

Ohhh yes girl it took me 3 days to figure out jewelry,,,i need to purge half my house...my husband has no confidence in me..but im gonna do thus if it takes mr a year..plus i work 40 hrs .and my energy is gone after work....

[@RaeC5280]

So glad you are keeping those yellow shoes! I spied them right away and was like, dang those are cute! ❤ You did an awesome job

[@findingaway5512]

I have been wanting to watch this video for so long!!! Life has been so crazy. So glad to get a chance to see it. It was one i wanted to watch and not just listen to. I love all the things you are taking charge of this year. You have been killing it in so many areas. I am really proud of you and need to get my life together too!!! 😊 My closet is minimal.... My house... Nope. 😂. I gotta hit it all over. Life is getting in the way though. It needs to back off and chill out! Leave me alone so i can get my crap together. 😂

[@melissasallard7642]

Ma'am I'm right there with you. The amount of hair in my closet could start a small pop-up shop!! You helping me out momma.

[@lorraineas1888]

Jia, what an amazing job you did! That was hard work but totally worth it.

[@fayettefavors5472]

I HOPE i can declutter my closet- thanks for the inspiration 😅😅

[@camis.1347]

Hi Jia! Great job and yes God wants us to be people of order as He is a God of order. Also being good stewards of what He blesses us with is important. Also, a smart tip for luggage is to store other bags in there when you're not packing/traveling like duffel bags, purses, backpacks, knapsacks, etc. in case you hadn't thought of that. You had a ton of bags girl! Thank you for donating stuff instead of trashing it. I have seen soooo many videos or talked to people and they just throw away usable stuff, like it just disappears into the abyss. Nope, it sits in a landfill. Yessss to the Batman tee and Marvel fan here too. God bless!!

[@alittlemother]

I loved The Limited when I was working!

[@pepperderr1388]

Thanks for posting this and encouraging me to get busy. I need to finish up the downstairs and I have 6 days before the exterminator comes. They come every 4 months. I want to make sure it is all done before he gets here. I have been putting it off! I just need to push myself to keep working at it because I know I will be so happy when it is done!

[@melaniewalker8423]

Great job. I am sure that your home will be completely organized to your liking very soon. Keep up the good work 👏

[@adjackson68]

Girl. Thank you. My house is good but my closet is a mess. I am about to go tackle it. It's time. Thank you for being an inspiration.

[@russanymonsalve3732]

I love your vibe and the realistic woman and mother you are.....your house looks just gorgeous and clutter-free. kuddos

[@annwilliams9214]

Amazing progress! Your closet looks great and so easy to see what you have. It's like you can breathe now. Congrats 🎉❤😊

[@happycamper4045]

Girl! I love your channel!!! So glad I found you!

[@katieforeman5436]

Jia, I love how real you are!! You're amazing ❤❤