This Is For You IF Your Kingdom Spouse Has An Avoidant Heart. ❤️

[@created-in_hisimage5320]

I needed to hear this ive asked God over and over to take this cup from me if its not from him. he shows me everytime to remain faithful but i need to love myself too

[@pinkyfish6850]

Jesus is coming❤❤❤❤

[@turbo1gts]

God has shown me that the things she has done have been from her being hurt, not evil. But, I have to admit that I did cause some of the pain, so i just have to let Jesus wash my pain away with His blood. Learning to trust Him more. Thanks Christa, shalom.

[@NothandoZungu-e7s]

This is a confirmation beloved in the Lord😭I've been sensing that my spouse is hurt from the past and be often gets angry out of nowhere and takes it out on me causing me pain purposely, treating me bad breaking up with me and coming back to apologize again and again, it's been going on for a while now and I'm tired so after what he did to me this time I only told him to stop taking out his frustration on me and I distanced myself after that.... And after this word I realized that I can still love him from afar and keep praying for him to find his way back to the Lord, i will no settle unless he gives himself time and heal from whatever is hurting him. Thank you Beloved Sis for this timely Word I feel encouraged thank you.🙇‍♀️🙏😭😭😭

[@anointed777]

Amen! Jesus can heal his heart and your prayers can definitely help!

[@emmapopa_]

my person has an avoidant attachment style so this resonates heavily

[@CherylCook-u4j]

Blessings precious sister. InJesus I am worthy. Much love sister. Jesus is my blessed hope. My value comes from Jesus. Remembering others in my prayers. Praying always in Jesus holy name. God is in control of all things.

[@stephaniesommerkamp-ei5xc]

Thank you! This was very helpful. This has been a tough journey. I know God is healing us both.

[@jakeboynz]

Yet again your video spoke to me and left me almost in 😢. Please pray for my wife Joanne who has an avoidant ❤ towards God, myself and also my family. Past trauma in her life that hasn't been healed completely. It's painful to not feel loved by her but yes my true identity is not found in her but in Jesus. God has been calling me back to keep sitting with him this NY 2025. Trusting him is all I have and all I can do. God bless you sister!

[@anointed777]

I prayed for you and your wife. Yes, sit with the Lord and ask him to guide you.

[@jakeboynz]

@anointed777 Thankyou!!! God bless you

[@JoannaEtter-u2c]

I come in agreement in faith for my kingdom spouse Brian I declare and decree in Jesus Christ Almighty name Amen

[@Sheislove144]

This is my partner right now 😮 I've been praying for guidance 🙏 I could say more but I'm exhausted! To say the least I am grateful for this message !

[@addison5113]

I’ve got nothing left… my tears don’t stop, huge drops fall from My eyes daily.. it seems like I’m invisible. I pray we can have a breakthrough testimony soon. I just feel aweful because I might have to step away from what and where I love because I don’t know if I look like what I’m going through and he see it, and that’s pushing him away more. I love him, I miss him.. but he ……😮‍💨😭

[@anointed777]

Your strength is in the Lord. He can redeem anything.

[@anointed777]

@@addison5113let the Lord fight for you. Don’t chase after a man. Chase after Jesus and he can bring redemption to your story. Pray strategically. If you need help, email me.

[@addison5113]

@@anointed777❤ thank you

[@addison5113]

@@anointed777 thank you, I’m not chasing him anymore… I do seek the Lord. For I know where my strength comes from and I know the Word says that God is near to the broken hearted and He binds up their wound. Thank you for replying ❤

[@JBMann-m7p]

Please pray for me for causing damage to my future kingdom spouse. I feel like I've overstepped her boundaries and harmed her beyond repair.... I've been so oblivious until now... looking back I am horrified by my actions and words. Please ask God for us to find a path back. I want to love her the way she deserves. No matter what that is. If I could I'd beg her forgiveness on my knees. More importantly, I wish to live in a way that shows her I treasure her precious heart and soul. Jesus is the focus. I'm discovering how to honor and love her like Christ loved the church. Thank you in advance for any prayers. and God bless you. ✝️

[@anointed777]

God can redeem it. Sit with the Lord and ask him to change your heart and to help you be the husband he wants you to be. I’ll pray.

[@aimeedupre2466]

Everything is truth. Ty Lord for everything. Glory to God 🙏

[@dailydevotionals2405]

I needed this so much! Thank you sis!❤

[@LeeannaBedford-j7x]

Thank you! This matches my husband and our story to the T. The things you said is exactly what I've been praying for.my spouse. God is so good and always on time. Thank you sister for releasing this word

[@praiseprincess2836]

Sister Thank you for this. 🎯🙏🏼🔥God knows I needed to hear this today 🙏🏼💞I have gained strength and hope after listening and the capacity to move forward in the correct way. I will not give up. What God has joined let no man put asunder🔥Glory to God 💥🙏🏼💞

[@isaac-22-22]

🩵💙💚🩶 You have a kind heart and sweet anointing. Yes, this Word applies to me.

[@VeraHull1966]

Thank you dear sister. I needed this today. X

[@aforjesus2413]

This is confirmation and so knowing the reminder before the restoring. I had thoughts of not wanting to be with ex- wife no more and focus on God's ministry but I've been having a change of heart the last couple of months while divorce 2.3 years and separate nearly 4 years. Everything said is right on. Thank you and blessings ❤NZ

[@Honestofficialpage]

Thanks love ❤❤ loved this messaged

[@marnelia22]

This was such an amazing message. I journaled so much during this message. Thank you for allowing God to use you.

[@VictoriaSimmons-g9g]

Thank you Christa x❤XOXO

[@nicoleschowalter2820]

Thank you sister！ Thank you LORD！ That is me. Please help my boyfriend to commit to LORD. Give him a soft heart！ LORD Jesus. You are Able. Amen❤

[@JiaLena27]

This message is for me ❤ I needed to hear this, I'm struggling right now with my avoidant husband. I hope God will guide me

[@FaneshiaScott]

Its not for the weak at all amen i say that all the time

[@kaytlyn0525]

Right on time word for me! Thank you 🩷

[@jeffrichardson8896]

I am so thankful for you sharing! I needed to hear this!

[@Ministry_withTee]

❤❤ thank you

[@riasheart111]

Perfect.❤

[@FaneshiaScott]

I definitely needed this word god bless u

[@juliatamalo7916]

Thank you for the insightful advice, Christa. Truly appreciate it. Have a wonderful day and God bless you abundantly 🤞🏻🕯️

[@jeffrichardson8896]

Thank you so much for addressing this most important topic!

[@bereniceduran620]

Amen sis! 🙏🏻

[@FaneshiaScott]

Thank u sooo much

[@StrengthNLove]

Pray for that unhealed person and let God deal with them take care of yourself and you get close to God yourself

[@adarasaltar]

Those who are shepherding me think I am in idolatry. It hurts because never in my life have I had to surrender anything as much as this. I obeyed every instruction God gave me. I let go every time God told me to let go. But over and over again, “IDOLATRY.” It truly hurts like hell to hear that. I question if God is on my side when this is the accusation that keeps coming against me. Every time I hear that, my hope is tested. I am tired. Why weren’t the things that were truly idols in my life being called out like that? Why is it the thing that God has not released me from no matter how many times I have cried and begged for Him to? I still don’t know if their accusations are true or not.

[@anointed777]

@@adarasaltar things are only idolatry if we put them above God. I don’t know your situation, but we have to surrender the issue and just wait on him. If you’re not resting in the Lord and you’re striving, that could be idolatry but talk to the Lord. If you’re needing some encouragement, send me an email. ❤️

[@subiblue9686]

Thanks sister

[@ellieon]

Thanks for this msg.

[@WestsiderSC]

Ty ❤ 🙏

[@turbo1gts]

We have to learn also that words(only) are manipulation, realize that deception should result in disqualification, and accept only performance, not promises, especially long unfulfilled ones. Enforce godly boundaries and trust God, not fearing man or woman and stop people pleasing. Trust God to protect you from any acting out or revenge.

[@anointed777]

Boundaries are important but if God says the situation will be redeemed, it will happen. God can erase the deception and show the avoidant hearts the truth.

[@findmylostsheep]

Yes. It's confirmation, she was abused and I've tried my best to be patient. Been 5 years so far, waiting for her to stop being childish and see real value.

[@anointed777]

@@findmylostsheep keep praying and declare that she has the eyes/ears to walk in humility and in truth.

[@heidiharris-re2yb]

Maybe you should stop viewing her as a child and start viewing her as a woman. Through your comment, I don't see any "real value." I see someone who is insecure and trying to prove their worth, which makes you the childish one. Maybe you should see her as the one with, real value. Then maybe you will win. Since that is what you really want anyway. To win.

[@Krissyfromthebronx]

Sensational 💙

[@findmylostsheep]

@heidiharris-re2yb I don't view her as a child, she is a woman, but she does things that are childish. I see the value in her when she doesn't let her past or circumstances effect Her behavior. She's amazing when she's walking in her true self. I forgive your presumptions sister.

[@findmylostsheep]

@heidiharris-re2yb tho I know you're an AI bot.

[@DiemwalkbyFaith]

Wow that’s true .yes I know the devil was deceived me to get away from him. Yes i was broken so bad .we haven’t talk together. Yes thank you yep

[@karinmacaskill]

AMEN

[@tcw5611]

Christa, I know it's been a while since I've commented, but I felt immediately guided to write here. 😊 Please pray for guidance on this. At 12:59 you STARTED to say something, but stopped - YOU took over and changed what HE had put into your heart, and even onto your lips! (Isaiah 59:21 and Matthew 10:19 correspond to this). But, you let your BRAIN take over, obviously saying to yourself "this isn't right, not what I was TAUGHT." Reread your words and pray: "...trust me, son, I did not send this woman into your life to hurt you. Trust me daughter, I did not send My So(n) [you stopped here]...I did not send this man to come hurt and you..." Consider all of Paul's words in 1 Thessalonians 5:19-22. I say this as ENCOURAGEMENT to you, because what you said is indeed "good", but what originally came out was DIVINE!!! Ask Him to reveal the "why" to you. "Do NOT STIFLE the Holy Spirit. Do not scoff at prophecies, but test everything that is said. Hold on to what is good. Stay away from every kind of evil." Take care, Christa. -Tim

[@anointed777]

Thanks, Tim! What was on my heart was for people to trust in the Lord, but I don’t know why the words didn’t form. I appreciate you. Sometimes, I need to reflect for just a moment so the words can come.

[@tenea24]

Wow this was for me… 😮‍💨

[@christybradley9471]

I am literally begging God to take this cup from me.

[@adarasaltar]

I’ve been begging the same for six months now. The unbelieving hearts of people around me accusing me of idolatry in the midst of all else has been what has been burdening me the most in this season.

[@doreenmarks2025]

🙏🏼♥️🙏🏼

[@jannejac]

❤

[@kathymaxted9485]

Im gutted noone finds me attractive heartbroken

[@anointed777]

@@kathymaxted9485 I think you’re beautiful! Keep praying and the Lord open the right doors for you. Look in the mirror and fix your crown.👑

[@womensupportministrymentor5761]

Confirmation 😢😮😢 very avoidant behavior

[@Katherine_02]

My avoidant spouse left me for another woman. He's in limerence. This hurts soooooo bad!

[@ElgieJohnson-y8z]

Thank you.. God bless I know that.. I have waited about 3 years for my Kingdom spouse. I have had God and 4 or 5 Prophets tell me not to go back to her. Why do I get 3 or 4 words that I am to move or a Kingdom spouse has been located for me, And then its just forgotten. I was told over 2 years ago that my Kingdom spouse will be younger than me. My X wife of 26 years left me.She is still not saved nor do she want be,

[@anointed777]

Are you getting these words just from prophetic voices? You need to hear directly from the Lord himself.

[@brantajerha6536]

A lot of this video speaks to me ive been asking the father to take her out of my life cause of shes not for me or from the fatheror shes not the one the lord intends for me to be married with im more than ok moving on it just sucks haven't gotten an answer if she is or isn't

[@KingstonsWorld17]

Ladies, I’ve been through the foolishness.. please learn to love yourselves and wait for a good man. There’s men out there that want a good woman. I don’t believe God desires us to sit around and wait on a man to get it together. By accepting men as she describes and putting up with the nonsense, it displays low self worth and low self esteem. When we value ourselves, others will too. Let this type of man go and pray for him.

[@standstrong6587]

How to love your spouse from afar ???

[@anointed777]

Being separate from each other. Your prayers is a way to love on them.

[@Audrey-k2h]

I don't deal with emotionally broken people God showed me someone that avoidant and I said No thanks Alot of avoidant men are enmeshed with their Mom so don't believe their sad stories People need to do their own work and heal instead of just finding new partners that don't know they are toxic

[@lulatula64]

Is this also like narcissism?

[@anointed777]

@@lulatula64 it appears so. The behavior controls and manipulates to their benefit, leaving you alone, which is abandonment.

[@lulatula64]

@anointed777 exactly the situation I'm in. I have poured and poured the love of God into this person for what feels like for nothing 💔

[@HiddenTreasure-v2n]

It's really hard when we're expected to have to have sex with the spouse and they are abusive and refuse to show any love. When they choose to let the wounds of other women decide that they they trust us. Then after abuse us and showing no trust they expect us to have the ability to have sex when them and enjoy it. Is anyone else having to go through this while having to be right there with the spouse or are they standing for their marriage while separated and actually getting a chance to heal?

[@anointed777]

@@HiddenTreasure-v2n God can do anything but it’s the separation that brings healing, correction, and humility. Keep knocking on the Lord’s door.

[@FaneshiaScott]

Im separated from my spouse and he just stopped talking too me out the blue but god keeps reminding me how he doesn't know how too love me the way god does and he has too do re construction so I'm stepping out of God's way and cover my kingdom husband in the Gap I understand my assignment and purpose for my kingdom husband and I want him whole bold and healed in Jesus mighty name amen

[@anointed777]

@ Amen! Yes, God is the only one who can teach him how to love you. It will be worth the wait. ❤️

[@FaneshiaScott]

@anointed777 amen it's definitely worth it thank u 🙏

[@danilaroche1156]

God hates seeing his children abused. I'd separate, sis. Your in danger.

[@tammysutton9805]

Do not care about this. From my perspective, don't want who I see .... don't care...