This Is How SHE Wants You To Approach HER | 10 Tips for approaching women in public places

[@Theattractiveman]

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[@PedroCMeraz]

Hello, Pretty Woman! Been watching your videos on how to approach a woman, I have a question for you? What kind of advise can you give me. I be working out in the Gym three to 4 days a week in Bodybuilding, at BodyWork GYM. an their is this very beautiful lady, she is also a Trainer in the Gym, an I notice that sometimes I turn around from doing sets of raps and she is checking me out, and sometime I be doing the some thing, We be catching each other looking at each other. She is a Trainer, very sexy, lovely, and attractive beautiful lady. She is like you an attractive woman. I desire approach her.

[@Theattractiveman]

+Pedro C.Meraz Hey man, that’s a really long question and hard to answer here, so I recommend asking on the next Academy coaching call. Are you a member of the Academy?

[@Gauntlet1985]

OK... As far as holding a gaze with a woman... I like this lady I see near a place I go every week to work out. She is a business type woman who is involved in sales. She went from her head down, always on her phone seeming to avoid me after I talked to her one day, to not on her phone, head up, shoulders back and giving me the intense gaze now when I caught her eye. She stared at me, no smile just locked on me so I locked my gaze on her.... I nodded at her but she just stared at me so I thought OK.... I think you're sexy lady, but I'm not going to break eye contact. About 7 seconds she finally broke eye contact. After that I walked by her store where she works and she is talking with a guy... I look her way to see if maybe it's her man.... She must have read my mind because she suddenly stands in front of him blocking his view from me.... Locks a gaze with me again.... So this time we share another intense gaze but in my thoughts as I look at her I project.... You are one beautiful and amazing woman. At that moment, she gives me a slow full virticle scan of my body, then does a flirty spin with her body to face the guy again to talk to him..... The following week I see her but she looked busy working but back to no eye contact and appearing reserved again. My question is..... Is she just messing with my mind and playing games OR is she interested in me?

[@Theattractiveman]

@Micah777 I recommend sending Matt an email about your issue [e-mail]

[@beholder2012]

This is kinda "rocket science"; no wonder homosexuality is on the rise nowadays.

[@brownmamba6538]

It's crazy how much work the guy has to do when it comes dating and approaching someone of the opposite sex. Women literally just have to sit there and decide whether they like the guy or not.

[@Theattractiveman]

Or maybe it depends on who's really up for the challenge. And just to be fair, women has struggles as well when it comes to dating.

[@johnlopez7650]

@@Theattractiveman To me the only problem women have when it comes to dating is believing there is "the one" somewhere out there. Its a never ending screening process for something that doesn't exist.

[@aftrdrk7263]

The Attractive Man females have struggles when it comes to dating! Like what? With the number of hoops they expect us to jump through, no thanks. Woman need to learn the skills of pick up the same as we men.

[@brownmamba6538]

@@Theattractiveman It's easy for a woman to judge a guy based on how he handles dates or interactions but it's also harder on the guy's part. Guys are the ones who are expected to make the first move. Guys are expected to approach women. Guys are expected to get phone numbers. Guys are expected to ask the girl out. Guys are expected to pay for dinner and making sure the date goes smoothly. Guys are expected to choose their words carefully and not offend her. A woman will never have to go through any of this trouble.

[@HarrisHonda]

Worst thing to do as a man is act a victim, be a man and make that approach. Women are the way they are and it will never change, of course you need to make the move, of course you have to ask them out, of course you have to get the number and of course sometimes you should buy dinner because that's what real men without insecurities do. Be a real man plain and simple

[@clydebk]

Note to women, if you want to be approached, don't stay on the smart phone constantly.

[@keyrovenlozano2933]

Bro its a challenge on how you can get her attention.

[@kamilmusalat]

Keyroven Lozano I agreed to this for a long time, but over the years I changed my mind, I notice most women who constantly sit on their smart phones are just generally not the kind of girl to be with.....

[@audiovisualz3925]

@@kamilmusalat Facts!

[@HarrisHonda]

100%, I spent a week with a girl abroad recently. She hardly ever looked at her phone... now that's a good girl 👌... they exist 😉

[@kamilmusalat]

Paul Harris 👍

[@cable3E]

#11 Be social to everyone, not just beautiful women, in order to be perceived as someone harmless and interesting

[@libertylovinglibertarian2528]

And friendly!

[@BAlvn-yr6ej]

yes, women do pay attention to everything that goes on around them..they are very perceptive, and they also tend to act like a herd of deer or ground squirrels...if one of them senses something they all know almost immediately... and they are constantly sharing information with each other in about a million different ways..

[@numayrhamidullah828]

Buy stock in strip clubs.

[@paul_particularlyunhappynut]

#12 ask out guys too

[@saleemchoudry5922]

Basically be cringy and annoying...

[@mindw0rking]

"Most of the time we dont wanna be touched. Unless we wanna be touched". Women are tough to understand sometimes >

[@antoniorodriguez8705]

Meaning if she likes the guy

[@SpockaZoid]

Touched???? Wtf are you talking about? Hahahahahaha

[@chucknorris9511]

She is definitely right about women wanting to meet people face-to-face than a dating app. I was terrified of asking women out in person, still am but have improved quite a bit. I recently had chickened out from asking this beautiful woman at her workplace... Now I am regretting it as always... Every woman I have approached has taken the situation in a positive manner even if she isn’t single. You just have to be yourself and get straight to the point why you are talking to her.

[@Theattractiveman]

Solid advice man. Kudos. Thanks for sharing!

[@chucknorris9511]

@@Theattractiveman I don’t have a problem with rejection. Most of the time I assume she has a boyfriend... My biggest fear is creeping them out... When I see a beautiful woman it takes me anywhere from 5-10 minutes trying to figure out if I want to ask her out on a date. I think during this time I make it obvious that I am checking her out. Lol What would you do in a situation when a woman is at her workplace and she is interacting with her coworkers? Would you approach her or wait until she is by herself?

[@Theattractiveman]

Good question! Its tough to help you out through KZbin comments, though 😅. Check out our links in the description, join our FB community or DM Matt on IG so we can help you out better!

[@chucknorris9511]

@@Theattractiveman Thanks, will do.

[@egonjensen6506]

damn, so much to consider when approaching and dealing with women while they never care if they do or say anything wrong or come across as creepy. No matter what women do, men don't mind or will tolerate it. Women live on recruit difficulty. That is until they hit their 30s, have a kid, are divorced, their SMV drops and suddenly they don't care if you approached them from behind, if you smiled, if your first compliment was perfect. Suddenly they become down-to-earth.

[@IamJean-Miguel]

Essentially this video was catered to the 25 yrs and under, at least from my understanding.

[@AsadKhan-lm6yr]

Interesting point!

[@johnwolf1475]

Damn, easier to raise goats...

[@johnwolf1475]

@Amateur Troll hugh?

[@B1gDevin]

Sad need all these different techniques to become successful with women I'm staying single and play video games

[@aftrdrk7263]

😂😂😂

[@shaolinpowerranger5008]

Hello eye. Nice to meet you

[@enniswhalen2428]

@@B1gDevin- Easy as draining the Pacific . . . with a fork!

[@mgtowlite7414]

0:38 Sadly, I *_do_* understand women - more and more Men are waking up. Never in the history of Mankind have women had so little to offer... ...and yet they are demanding more of us than ever!

[@benloesch2012]

Christ dude. Maybe complaining in a KZbin comment just shows how little you have to offer 😂

[@Alex-xz2bz]

True true true true

[@MegaBobbaker]

They demand so much -they want a person to act like ( how they want you to act ) what if men required woman to act a sort of way ...

[@MegaBobbaker]

GUYS here is the best advice ever ...Look at woman as if they are men with vaginas ..What if u meet some guys and they demanded you to act as like this list is in order to get acceptance with them ..... You would be like the fuck with yalll im gonna be me .... ok end of story she is teaching mind controlling over a woman's nature ..... Another thing all you have to see is a woman drooling over a man she already think is hot with out him having to do any of these things on this list He can approach how ever & her uncontrollable un logic mind still will fall 4 him .....You will then see most woman are shallow ...

[@libertylovinglibertarian2528]

As long as you don't get married then your fine.

[@owenpf6548]

2:11 so this is what the world has come to - people encouraging the message that, and I quote, " just because you see her (a woman), again, it doesn't mean you *have the right to go up and actually start talking to her* ". Sorry, but I DO have the right to talk to people, just because you're a woman doesn't mean you're an all-powerful leader.

[@Chevifier]

Gotta watch again. Wasnt paying attention 😅

[@Kaloutini]

Best comment yet!

[@omarmohammadatya3269]

Cuz u paid attention for… what we all paid for😂

[@indowithbadenglish5677]

All the woman probably have watch this video anyway

[@covenantpiano]

You were paying attention to something... but it wasn't her mouth. 🤣

[@sosaJH]

Eye contact 101

[@Formulared]

I pick up plenty of women in person and this is actually spot on. What I found is that if a women wants you to approach her she will give you “that look”. If you walk past a women and she doesn’t even acknowledge you then don’t even try. For women they speak through their eyes first, the body language and mannerisms come second.

[@Malhaloc]

"We don't want to be touched unless we want to be touched" and women wonder why we need these videos.

[@blackdarkdarkerbleach7100]

Never in my 4 years of studying Astrophysics have been so dumbfounded than by watching this video

[@ghostf6321]

My nuclear engineering class is easier to understand than this lol.

[@shodak9445]

@@ghostf6321 for nerds who can't get pussy

[@saleemchoudry5922]

Getting into Medical School has been easier than this convoluted shit

[@nikelangelo5123]

Shoda K unlike Chads without a decent job and with a bunch of stds

[@Silvertongue8]

Yeah I'm learning chopin's nocturne Op. 27: No.2 in d flat major, it's post grade 8 and that's easier than understanding this too 😂

[@libertylovinglibertarian2528]

If a woman really does have beautiful eyes then you DO NOT want to compliment her eyes, (everyone uses that line on her) it's always better to compliment her choices rather than her physical features. When you compliment her choices ( hairstyle, clothes, makeup, car etc) you are saying "I like that too, see we have things in common" when you complement someones eyes you are saying "I want to have sex with you" it's a compliment that needs to be said a little later on in the conversation at the very least.

[@claudiu_npd]

Very good point mate

[@nalinpatinayake8150]

This sounds like a lot of work and a lot to remember. It's like a military operation. I really don't think I could be bothered, tbh.

[@arielvagus1618]

A confident walk with a relaxed, deep eye contact is one of the best ways for approaching her. Also, make sure about the proximity so you don't come off too strong.

[@sloebone7399]

Your Alpha Dude - wait, can I see your professional dating coach license... or diploma... or whatever... certificate?

[@MattGarcyaDC]

Your Alpha Dude what do you mean make sure about proximity?

[@randomdude2287]

Lol... Your a #metoo case waiting to happen

[@supermancable]

a million rejections gives you the best confidence, then you won't care as much approaching any woman. it's part of the game men, then you'll eventually make your own good approach

[@danvaca199]

Approach them the same way you would approach a cobra

[@ChuckWortman]

With fear and trepidation, sweating for fear of experiencing severe pain pain?

[@Chehan17]

Tf would u approach a cobra? 😂

[@MajesticFerret]

"Don't touch. Wait for the girl to start touching first" This is great day game advice, but terrible night game advice. Most night time scenes are so loud and chaotic and alcohol infused, most women honestly seem to think you aren't confident if you don't start using some touch pretty early and it expedites the process. Shouldn't straight jump a girl's bones, but if you're in a scene where it's loud and everyone is chaotic, lack of touching just makes you look insecure tbh.

[@johnfaller8681]

Maybe just leave them alone. Ever thought that maybe not every woman wants to be touched by a strange man they don't know?

[@barryabumarley4121]

Who is watching and at the same Time reading Comments 😂

[@fubol783]

Barry Abumarley me lol

[@rneshan6484]

Voila!

[@TheBonesReaperShow]

The funny thing is, if you made a video on how women should approach men it would be less than a minute. Just say hi to him. loooool

[@nordica8008]

Haha! Right )))

[@trevorwilliams8190]

FACTS!

[@johngonzalez4298]

Smiling opens up opportunities.

[@wheretheheckismykummerspec7218]

John Gonzalez Bullshit

[@johngonzalez4298]

@@wheretheheckismykummerspec7218 Everyone has different personalities and I respect your opinion.

[@Luemm3l]

strangely enough, studies suppose to suggest that most women rate smiling men less attractive... I think it is a 50:50 thing, depending on what individual is in front of your nose

[@Orgizo08]

Luemm3l I think it’s about the right kind of smile. Men that smile too hard or are cheesing are perceived less attractive.

[@songsofthecentury3909]

Smiling makes you look friendly.

[@opaz6149]

OMG!!! So much work!!! In the end, women bring nothing but drama and arguments. Then they divorce you, as soon as real life kicks in. Best to stay single.

[@hitbyligtning9661]

the women come into most relationships with nothing and leave with everything!

[@yankeedoodle6293]

Will obtain a degree in psychology and start the approach.

[@mosavage8897]

Key points: women love to be told they're beautiful and approach like you're an old friend. BAZINGA!

[@Foomanlol]

NEVER get your dating advise from a woman. All these damn confusing rules. You see a girl you like, just talk to her and ask her out and she says yes or no. That's all there is to it.

[@dreadone6894]

Remember, this doesn’t always work, Don’t force it. Some people just don’t like you. Get over it.

[@beardlong8235]

Her eyes and that accent are way too special for me to really absorb the content of this video! God really blessed you, girl

[@normalstories8540]

The whole point of soccer is to score even tho there is a goalie

[@lightcycle7]

Too many rules, and I give up! More easier to put a rocket into space.

[@shadowswithin702]

Definitely like this lady, straight to the point. She has a way of speaking I just get, really helpful so thank you.

[@lightcycle7]

The only instructions to a blow up doll "Do not over inflate" 😁

[@ryanbasilio9548]

Renee,you've hit the nail on the head honey.🔨🔨📍 In my experience laughter is one of the keys to a girls heart. ...and a sense of humour.

[@Theattractiveman]

You can make a girl laugh, you've already done 50% of the job!

[@JoelRabe-DJ]

Solid content... def had me laughing when Renee starting talking about things NOT to do! It sounded like she had WAAAY TO MANY dudes creeping her out in the past.. OMG I was DYING - thanks for the great laugh!! "don't go up and say "hey I like your boobs". LOL and the best one.. don't come up behind us and creep us out" seriously, crying!

[@jamescoffman8096]

It's amazing how evil they get when you don't give them the time of day.....not even the energy of a gaze or a smile. Bat shit crazy I tell ya. It's hilarious

[@CaliforniaArchitect]

That's denying them validation. They think you owe it to them and they get mad when they learn that more and more men simply won't give them attention regardless of how pretty they are.

[@ryan124007]

Hey girls: approach men, see how hard it is.

[@enniswhalen2428]

r -As you can see, they will say anything, do anything and shame men as best they can, to get guys to approach, since more and more men just wait to be approached by women.This way,they at least know that she is interested.

[@songsofthecentury3909]

A beautiful 10 will Never approach you.

[@sloebone7399]

Over 2 minutes in and she’s still telling us about what she’s going to be telling us about. If a wedding ring means she’s completely off limits, somebody needs to tell the women.

[@petajohnson9668]

YEAH, LOOK AT THE"STATS", THEY SHOULD GIVE A"NATION WIDE, IN SERVICE"SEMINAR ! ABOUT WHAT A MARRIAGE COMMITMENT MEANS ! AMEN ! AMEN !

[@Geforcepat]

I love this chicks energy and talking/accent .

[@Theattractiveman]

Thanks for the comment! She's eloquent, isn't she?

[@eddyk4515]

Harder than pythagoras theorem🤣🤣😋😋😋😋😋

[@beautifulchlorophyll2285]

10:30 I get your point, but that's a striking example of woman language "we don't want to be touched.. unless we want to be touched"

[@Orgizo08]

Everything Renee is saying is true. For some all this information may sound complicated, but it’s not when you actually have experience. The more you approach, the more you see what she’s saying is legit. Love this channel.

[@irfancan2264]

This lady teaches to fear/ avoid rejection and focus on too many deteals. Unlike What she says Get rejected it is the bullet proof confidence builer....

[@acesanders5035]

Never listen to a women's advice not even hers

[@publicpoet]

How all these videos talk as if the Woman is the prize. SMH. No, sweetheart. I'm the prize.

[@Jwiwjwn]

@@yanni.aldrich facts

[@Frawstynipplez]

@@yanni.aldrich if you don't think you're a prize at all times, then you're doing it wrong

[@kingfrozt2305]

@@yanni.aldrich Let me guess. Your gay?

[@vishalgoel360]

I mean women are full of drama without any content!! So it’s much better if a women approach man. Man are not drama queens. They are a man of substance!!

[@WayneZalinksy]

VISHAL GOEL but then how will you ever get laid?

[@vishalgoel360]

Birdy Twerdy they and their drama is not worth it.

[@WayneZalinksy]

VISHAL GOEL That’s true.. So just out of curiosity, what drew you to this particular video?

[@trw45q]

maybe become gay if you don't like how women are!

[@shodak9445]

Just cuz you can't get pussy doesn't mean the rest of us alphas cant keep being beta

[@frankboon8318]

Why is it if a woman was sitting back watching with glasses she wouldn't be called creepy she can follow him around and it's not creepy but he does anything that comes close to that and he's creepy

[@88informa]

i really want to go through all these steps to talk to the girl of my dreams but the major problem that you misse here is shyness ,, how do i even get the courage to begin all this if i'm super shy

[@toxicmasculinity3447]

You are a man are you not? Your problem can be conquered by yourself. Remember that any man can be the leader of the pack, but it takes you to bring yourself there. Confidence comes naturally, and it feels amazing when you develop it.

[@danmel3978]

No, this is all wrong. What you wanna do is wear a trench coat with nothing underneath, then when you see a pretty lady run up to her, flash her and then run away

[@ranndino]

Dan Mel You know, multiple women told me recently that they'd really like to know what a guy is packing before getting involved. So you might be onto something. Minus the running away part.

[@mayadeeb8293]

Dan Mel h

[@michaelanthonyg.galaura6173]

I laughed way too hard at this

[@B3burner]

Thank God I’m in my 50’s, 25 pounds overweight, and totally out of touch with everything that is hip, trendy, and important to attractive women these days! 🤣 I remember my single days and they truly were the most stressful, maligned days of my life. I don’t miss the thrill of the chase at all. Better to have, keep, and be out of the game; than to constantly be on the lookout.

[@Theattractiveman]

Everyone has their own choices in life and we respect that, man. But to us, there is nothing more satisfying than a truly deep relationship with a woman that respects you for who you are. Nothing shallow or fake. We help guys be the best version of themselves for that.

[@bradrichards9164]

Wow! I wanna watch more videos and advice from Renee! Great looking and awesome accent but I want to hear the advice from a woman!

[@snuffygrunt2842]

Just walk up and ask "You workin'..?"

[@poeticnation6251]

Love this video, and the way that you broke everything down - Thank you - But there was/is a TON of things to understand, that appear to be very complex when you add everything up. This seems more difficult than climbing Mount Everest, lol. Us guys are WAY MORE simple than this. I've been told by many girlfriend's that I've had through the years, that I am terrible at stepping up to the plate, but amazing after I get on first base... Don't get me wrong, females are absolutely, pure, beauty - But why are women so complicated?

[@clintpethick216]

This is like asking a fish how to fish

[@lifeisagameofknowingyourro6327]

Lmao

[@telescopereplicator]

So what if she's married? You usually don't know until you get close and look at her hands... And if her husband is not in the same room, again...so what? You can still have a nice conversation !! Every man needs to keep practising, needs to keep up his confidence. Married or not, just talk to her. There's nothing wrong with having a decent conversation. 8:41 ... Longer than one syllable. Beautiful has three syllables, already..... Besides all that.... great video. Good advice. Really. Thank you, Renee !!

[@britondarius9444]

Men eat clean food have a job workout, smell fresh never care about girls will care about you try to be a happy 😊 funny 😂 guy period

[@lifeisagameofknowingyourro6327]

Job for who? for what? cut that shit out

[@bryanmccallum4614]

Perfect Information to know! Thank you The Attractive Man!

[@toxicmasculinity3447]

7:34 literally what I said about her earlier in the video.

[@Theattractiveman]

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[@toxicmasculinity3447]

The Attractive Man I said what she said not to say, but I said it before she said what she said about appropriate compliments.

[@themessenger4898]

I'm just going to treat her like a coworker, very professional, no attachment at all. She must do all the work,

[@danielvaughn1048]

all I have to say is that, girls are like a puzzle and a maze combined together 😖

[@claudiu_npd]

A mazzle

[@cupidkid2009]

This video and other like it are like debtor's giving debt collectors instructions/ advice on how to get their money back, try to imagine how that would go. 1) Call us to let us know your coming first. 2) Be kind and talk to us softly (be compassionate about our struggle) 3) if we say we're busy or not at home.. Don't come over! 4) Give us ample time to consider if we might want to pay or not. 5) if we decide we don't, then don't force it it a no is a no! Etc etc.. The reality is men have made a woman's job in the house far too easy.. Washing machine instead of rock by the stream.. Stoves instead of fireside.. Shower instead of dip on the river.. And the list goes on.. We have made our selves obsolete. With our tool they can effortlessly do what we can, and the government offers mass protection so now we're obsolete.

[@EdBarton31]

So you've got 5 second to assess everything she's going through, read her mind, come up with a good line, show her that your the perfect man, be charming, confident, come up with the right angle approach from the side, relax, mind your body language, be friendly, make a joke be open, not too close, not too far, listen, be mysterious make her feel special and smile.... And all they need to do is stand there. All that so you can get a chance of being manipulated into a horrible toxic relationship which ends with you bearly walking away with your life while the cow grows increasing unattractive lazy and fat by the second and if you try to escape end up being enslaved to child support having to pay for her most expensive lawyer to rape you for everything that you have and pay his massive legal bill. Sound like a good plan? No bitch, drink your drink and stay the fk away from me and my boys. Enjoy your cats, we are the prize.

[@randomdude2287]

Facts

[@andreibuda165]

Most amazing comment ever :)

[@tomlee6263]

I just cut through red tape and say hi. I'm polite and respectful and usually within a minute or two know how to progress. You gotta be carefree, genuine, and kind of spontaneous. It's fun!

[@dh12.]

Not giving a fuck if you score or not takes all the pressure off. Then it's about practice and repetition until you get what you want.

[@sylviacorbin1831]

Tom Lee where are you located and what do you do in your city

[@dimllc]

99% of these videos on this channel is teaching boys how to be the best woman they can be. Lol You want to be a man? A real man? Have self respect, be courteous to women, make a life for yourself, and don’t take BS from no one!

[@mdixongross]

Great perspective, definitely right about that

[@diyfilmmakerplus7491]

I like that

[@foreigncreations1793]

Amen

[@robg8784]

,,,,i could have used this great Advice in the 80's ........

[@HPS2O31]

So you don't want me to approach you in a dark alley way...

[@vinsin328]

I did exactly what she said. I listened and paid attention to what the girl was saying and my Colleague just stopped her every thing that she has to say. Know what - the guy who was a bad listener got laid and I am still virgin at 37. But I got first date of life after approaching 70 girls and getting close to 20 phone numbers.

[@claudiu_npd]

"We don't want to be touched. Unless we want to." I wish I was gay rn

[@johnfaller8681]

Women wish you were gay too

[@clydebk]

Renee, most of these suggestions are good common sense and show good manners. My problem is what to say after I tell her she has a pretty dress or pretty eyes. She then says thanks and smiles and then I usually run out of things to say.

[@murphsviews]

Clyde Kimsey what Coach Corey Wayne for instance recommends, or says is fine, is that you don't actually stick around to have a conversation with her- as that's not usually what you actually want. Instead, just be direct and give her the compliment and then go straight to asking her out, no beating around the bush. That's likely to give you much more chance of things going somewhere with her than you just standing there, fumbling around for something else to say- and making her more and more uncomfortable by the second. At least on a date you'll have a better idea of what to say (as there's no shortage of advice for what to talk about on dates on the internet), so until you get a better idea of what to say after your initial compliment when you first approach a girl you're attracted to, probably best to just keep it short and sweet and just say the things you know you want to say- like "I find you really attractive and I've got to run, but I'd love to take you out some time, when are you free?"

[@AR7271]

1. Be fit. 2. Be tall. 3. Have a nice looking face. 4. Be wealthy. 5. Approach her and say hi Ok guys I think I got this wish me luck!

[@CCCC-tq8yo]

7 months later...

[@ztwntyn8]

I’m a great catch but a bit of diamond in the rough. I hope someday someone sees my shine, picks me up and holds me until I’m clean enough to go full glow... before they drop me and don’t notice... again. I’m in though. Challenge accepted. This time I’m coming right, when I do. Believe that. 💯💪🏼✌🏼😈

[@Theattractiveman]

Remember, everyday is always a chance to become a better version of yourself. Plus, you won't meet your ideal girl if you stay put. Go out there and show the world how awesome you are.

[@peteroscar]

How can a fish teach how to fish? Very strange!

[@jeromedelacruz7428]

She's not fish. You know the difference between human and fish? We have knowledge

[@NextScamdemic]

Good point. I was going to give her a chance, but 3 and a half minutes in and she's already given some really shit advice- for example, "just because you see her doesn't give you the right to approach" this has nothing to do with helping the guy get laid, but it's telling men "not to make women uncomfortable" which she's only saying it because she's a woman but its no help in terms of getting the guy laid. And bullshit- there will be time you have to bold and risk pushing the envelope. Fuck you, lady, if we have to do all the work, then you'll have to put up with some approaches that make you feel uncomfortable now and then.

[@samuelmirie1667]

She is actually telling us what to avoid inorder to catch a fish...cause she is a fish herself.

[@sinjint13]

I long for the simple times back in the day, when all you had to do to get the girl was to embark in some voyage that most likely would kill you, slain a dragon or singlehandedly face the army of death. Today with all these fucking rules might as well switch teams and go gay. Btw, gay dudes have it way easy. Good grief

[@claudiu_npd]

This is deep man

[@raylocke282]

To overcome some shyness I practiced on ordinary women instead of absolute " Morgan Fairchild" types.What I discovered that the hot ones were easier to aquire than the plain ones because they felt more secure.

[@Theattractiveman]

Exactly!

[@kreaturecreature7685]

Please invest in sound panels. That echo is pretty gnarly.

[@Theattractiveman]

We appreciate your suggestion, Azazel :)

[@chobintaku3315]

You were so made for this

[@Theattractiveman]

Thanks!

[@B1gDevin]

These videos are so funny

[@mmaog2722]

Thank you matttttt!!!

[@alexisminchaca4140]

Watched this, went to the bathroom, saw myself in the mirror... (self throat-punched myself)

[@randomdude2287]

Bwahahaha

[@hamishmcmonkeypants5672]

Saw two today, one was with a friend and they got the hell out of there. The other was on the damn phone, she gave me some time to approach but she was in the truck and I couldn't think of anything.

[@DaeDaeTV]

The conversation cheat sheet doesn’t exist my guy.

[@Theattractiveman]

Have you tried updating your browser and, download it again? Tried it earlier and it works. Let us know.

[@irvv4373]

Jesus love u ..repent & know him plz..

[@DaeDaeTV]

The Attractive Man my nigga I doesn’t appear maybe cause I live in Canada?

[@tacotruck7995]

Very good. Thank you.

[@rbar1234567]

Omg I thought this video was a joke. If a nerd needs this help, he doesn’t deserve to get laid.

[@alltheworldsastage4785]

I have every right to go up to and speak to whomsoever I please, it's up to the other person to respond or not, and if they don't want to respond, then you move on to someone else who is actually worth your time.

[@vishalgoel360]

Don’t u think Women approaching man is much better option without any drama.

[@Theattractiveman]

What do you mean?

[@alltheworldsastage4785]

@@Theattractiveman I mean, his comment, though worded a bit strange, (English is most likely not his first language, and that's understandable) was pretty straighforward, he's asking if you think that it is much better and less dramatic for the man to be approached by the woman instead of the other way around.

[@Theattractiveman]

It is not in a woman's nature to approach a man. Men are hunters and conquerers, not women. Women can do it but it is not in their nature. And a high quality/attractive women would have so many options she would never need to approach.

[@alltheworldsastage4785]

The Attractive Man Well, I absolutely agree with the "Men are hunters and conquerers" part.

[@ranndino]

The Attractive Man Here's the funny part. I have quite a few attractive female friends and they're sick of guys approaching because they end up with cocky assholes. Since those are the only ones who have the balls to approach. They say they want to choose not be chosen.

[@lasmluclasm3781]

Thanks for making me even more anxious about approaching women. So many details way too complicated. I think I'll just become a monk

[@jeromechauvet6488]

Hot chick talking too much (I'm feeling dizzy now)

[@ryan124007]

not that hot

[@konykon5534]

YOU'RE QUITE RIGHT & BY THE WAY I JUST LOVE THAT LITLE MIC YOU ARE USING !! #KK

[@dllort69]

Attraction isn't a choice... but do you know what that means? that means that a woman cannot logically decide to be attracted to you because if she isn't she simply won't be. You literally don't have to do ANYTHING to attract a woman...the women that are MEANT to be attracted to you and are WIRED for you will be attracted inexplicably to you without you moving a finger... stop wasting your time chasing women that are wired to love other men but you. Go out and keep those that get wet just by seeing you smile!

[@sammylenjou4235]

Renee is a beautiful woman, and she proves the point : women are talkative :) Does this señiorita makes videos regularly on you channel ?

[@jeremiahjohnson3047]

I don’t want a woman teaching me advice

[@addictedtonothing23]

Sexist ?

[@sleazybtd]

Feel free to click the "X" in the upper right hand corner.

[@darthtron5804]

@@addictedtonothing23 STFU you sjw moron.

[@sammccourt2949]

getting tips from another point of view is always a good idea women know women we know men other perspectives can work wonders

[@haithamgharibjumamuhammeda9651]

That red dress really suits your personality well

[@msmeonlineplatform2251]

7th century 🐖

[@JezaLoki]

All these "tips" are nonsense. Gentlemen, be a solid 10 or don't approach. Women take it as an insult if anything less than a 10 approaches them. They hate it. Do them a favour, leave them well alone.

[@ryana-6762]

8:28 what no that is completely wrong, if you tell a girl she's beautiful she'll think your too nice and boring

[@michaelcummings6178]

I understand what you’re trying to say on one level or another alarm off it seems unrealistic yeah I just seen what I’ve seen of my own personal experiences and it just seems that this seems to be a new type of women that are looking out for themselves they don’t seem to care about anybody but themselves they even trash their own children at times and it always just seems to be Bizzarre women out there are too many psychological problems and issues and you hear about this all over the Internet about women coloring their hair and getting tattoos in it just seems to me like women are trained at birth to be narcissists whether they’re good or whether they’re bad they’re trained in society to be absolute narcissistic I don’t know what else want to say now even society itself you’re with Disneyland then make narcissism out of women just a lot of stuff on TV life is not the Brady Bunch with a Partridge family this is the real world just there a dangerous woman out there and the matter what you do or how are you try to appease them they just seem to Over exploit their condition

[@CyberBunStudio]

Dating apps feel like a plan that sounded good on paper yet was executed absolutely carelessly. They're broken really.

[@Theattractiveman]

We've had most of our clients supplement their dating lives with apps. It should have been a great concept only that nowadays its hard for men to find success using apps especially if you rely on that alone. What was your experience?

[@CyberBunStudio]

@@Theattractiveman That and being pretty damn ugly. Which actually makes it feel impossible to approach a gal in public. Like, that idea is equivalent to approaching a zombie with no plan. lol I'll fail. Epically.

[@Theattractiveman]

Thats why you need to have a plan, brother. Yeah the genetically good looking guys tend to have it easier..but that doesnt mean everyone else has to fail. Try watching more of our videos! I recommend you watch our "how ugly guys get beautiful women" video over on the channel, it might enlighten you up a bit 😁

[@trent2178]

con artist stop promoting that FREE convo cheat sheet when u cant get it unless you buy into something also those tips make close to no sense

[@MP--li3el]

Why's it become difficult

[@yashabh1538]

Yes guys, we women love to get approached like this. Every thing she said in the video is 100% right.😊 I hope she thought you guys something cuz guys like this are really rare, hard to find nowadays Matt artisan is the best of the best 😍

[@Theattractiveman]

Thanks for the support, Angelina!

[@skylersilva6135]

I'm confident ,have a job, nice(not too too nice),and goodlooking and I'm still single , y'all women suck in this generation ,like for real. .. follow my insta tho its -skylersilva99

[@aftrdrk7263]

Oh get over yourself, get off your ass and do something about it instead of expecting men to do all the work.

[@irvv4373]

Add me on snap Irvinvargas

[@markkunikkanen]

I think I have THE WORST approach anxiety ever. I really need professional help bad. When ever I talk to a gorgeus woman, I feel like I want to run away. I mean I want to talk to them and approach them, but there's something emotionally wrong in me, and I can't put my finger on it. It feels like it is wrong for me to approach them, that it's forbidden. Luckilly I have an appointment reserved. I hope I can get over this "challenge", because I see how women look at me and would like me to approach them. I feel I'm wasting my life away for fear. Thank You for these awesome videos!

[@Theattractiveman]

Thanks as well for watching our videos! If you would like us to help you with your approach anxiety, feel free to checkout theattractiveman.com

[@darkneji190]

I feel the same but in my case is people in general but females make it twice as hard for some reason, I try to do little things like randomly ask people for the time or directions, it helps temporarily but It doesn’t stick which is something I want to have down packed and approach and talk to people effortlessly.

[@naminabantu]

I can relate... never dated or even approached a girl at the age of 23.

[@hindolohalloway2722]

First Lady

[@moortat8175]

Hindolo Halloway Well Maybe Im the first man

[@rincewindtwoflower3989]

I love the "don't do this" footage!