THIS Is How To Handle A Hostile Ex

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Chris Seiter

Chris Seiter

Күн бұрын

Over 90% of the individuals who visit this website have been broken up with by their exes and yet, the irony is that they are often on the receiving end of an exes hostility. Today, I’d like to talk about why that is and really dive into what’s behind an exes anger.
In this In-Depth guide you’re going to learn,
Why hostility can make your ex feel better about breaking up with you
The impact guilt has on all of this
A new wave of tantrum hostility
How to handle an exes hostility

Пікірлер: 25
@eggs3015
@eggs3015 Жыл бұрын
Chris: “Think of your ex as a dog” Me: “Hmm, you might be on to something” 🤔 lol
@lmfisher650
@lmfisher650 8 ай бұрын
My husband suddenly turned hostile, angry and ghosted me. I blocked him and now I've hired a lawyer to divide up our assests. He cheated on me with his coworker and I've literally done nothing wrong. I can see this is how he treated his exes. I also suspect the coworker is spurring him on. He will learn that he made a mistake because I've been nothing but good to him.
@nataliemores
@nataliemores 7 ай бұрын
Guy sounds awful :(
@TheSREBOLLAR
@TheSREBOLLAR Жыл бұрын
This was amazing. You described my ex and my current situation to the last detail. My ex is angry says he hates me that he’s not my friend says he only wants me physically and to never tell people I loved him. Trying to stay positive and present but sometimes I react with hostility and then he says there it is and I’m fake nice smh crazy
@OldMovieFan1973
@OldMovieFan1973 19 күн бұрын
When dealing with a hostile ex...always remember (1) Keep contact minimal, text, email and keep answers short and on point.. yes, no, and just answer questions short to the point (2) if you must speak on the phone, ABR(Always Be Recording) and save those recordings (3) NEVER allow ex to your residence, or in your residence. (4) if she violates custody agreement or child visitation, report it... yes, nothing will happen but it will create a paper trail..and eventually if continued the Judge will have to address it. (5) Get an attorney and make certain you keep them informed of everything
@picanhapapi
@picanhapapi Жыл бұрын
Why is my ex going out of her way to make me jealous, even though she broke up with me. Told me she’s moved on… she’s trying get with a co worker/mutual friend. He works with me… I’ve been playing dumb or act like I don’t know or care but she’s getting more ballsy
@jamiewilliams8107
@jamiewilliams8107 10 ай бұрын
My ex girlfriend couldnt acceot that i no longer wanted to be with her,we were going in different directions in life and connection came to an halt,thankfully im no longer in contact with her but when i last spoke to her i could feel her anger through the text messages as she said her life is f@@@@d because i didnt want to move out of town with her.
@sliceofloving
@sliceofloving 3 ай бұрын
How do I deal w an ex that stalks me and harasses my partner, but I was the cheater during that time. It doesnt matter if I feel bad for what I did, he still needs to persistently sabotage my current relationship, and friendships. Its like he wants me to feel guilty about having anyone love me in my life.
@gloriakhembo7511
@gloriakhembo7511 5 ай бұрын
My X cheated on me and he chose another girl over me and i told him to stay with the girl he chose and made it clear it was over. But he got angry and started talking trash saying he never loved me. Am not a good looking woman. These words drained me. I decided to block him every where since he was toxic
@ToothpasteKisses6345
@ToothpasteKisses6345 2 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry that you experienced that 😢
@slyfly4829
@slyfly4829 8 ай бұрын
My ex did alot of fucked up things that i won't get into. But the just of it. Jail, court, custody. Accusations. Anyways . What started the chaos was when i no longer was heart broken over her. When i started moving on, with i became content with my life. N i just cut her out. She went ballistic. Probably jealousy fueled. But the loss of control. It made her seek any means necessary to put a leash around my neck, aka family court, child support
@Datvirgo23
@Datvirgo23 21 күн бұрын
I went on 2 dates with a guy over a year ago. Today I woke up to threatening messages from him such as “I know where you live” “I hope your mother dies” “I’m gonna beat you up when I see you” etc. what’s this about? I completely forgot about this guy and I’m in a relationship at the moment.
@kimmikaelhansen4492
@kimmikaelhansen4492 Жыл бұрын
I will suggest that in my case, I almost was the female at home in hope and thinking that this will create a more peacful place at home when i come home.. Reason being that that she acts like the guy who dumped me.
@KoolT
@KoolT Жыл бұрын
Brilliant advice ❤❤❤❤❤
@darlingnikki869
@darlingnikki869 Жыл бұрын
I am the dumper (EXTREME dismissive avoidant ex), did it in a very soft way, yet since it's certainly confirming his beliefs that love does not last and others are not trustful, he is very hostile when we see each other at common meetings. I'm avoiding those for a while and focus on other social stuff. And no contact. I don't believe that it will make him start to acknowledge that he has a problem, but at least it keeps him at a distance. I'm still sad, but it won't last.
@stardustsparkles22
@stardustsparkles22 Жыл бұрын
You're so strong. My ex is angry that I won't date him again. He took advantage of me at one point. Then he drugged me to make me fail a drug test. Then he stuck me with a needle when I was sleeping, again to discredit me and make me look like a needle using druggie. I am now being threatened with jail. He's just causing me a lot of angst. I can't get a restraining order because he doesn't hit me. I live with him still, and have no place to go. Shelter is not available to me. So exhausted. So frustrating. I just don't know how to deal with him anymore. I feel like I'm in danger but have zero bruises to show anyone. The last time I complained they commited me to a psych ward. It's hard when no one believes you.
@SS-in1ts
@SS-in1ts Жыл бұрын
@@stardustsparkles22 you could join a church and explain your situation. You need to get help.
@KoolT
@KoolT Жыл бұрын
So no DUCT TAPE
@lemagloria
@lemagloria Жыл бұрын
Unless you cheated on that ex or he/she was a narcissistic or mmature partner,I don't see why he would be hostile if you did not do anything wrong
@EmilyGloeggler7984
@EmilyGloeggler7984 Жыл бұрын
There is no such thing as a toxic ex.
@lemagloria
@lemagloria Жыл бұрын
@@EmilyGloeggler7984 lol sure buddy
@assplundah
@assplundah Жыл бұрын
@@EmilyGloeggler7984 that’s quite a strange thing to say Emily, I’m interested to know what you mean by it?
@jenn3652
@jenn3652 11 ай бұрын
Yep exactly, I'm the dumper and this is why
@Wildanimal864.
@Wildanimal864. 3 ай бұрын
How to handle: you don’t handle @ all.
@appleroad112
@appleroad112 6 ай бұрын
I hear hoovering, how fitting to the video. 😛
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