THIS IS HOW TO KNOW A WOMAN WHO WILL GIVE YOU PEACE AT HOME - FEMI LAZARUS

THIS IS HOW TO KNOW A WOMAN WHO WILL GIVE YOU PEACE AT HOME - FEMI LAZARUS
#femilazarus #peace

[@micht5358]

I used to be a contentious rude women because i carried the traumatic experiences i encountered as a daughter. It didnt help that my husband was a sinner and cheated.I have since forgiven, released the pain with the help of the Holy Spirit. My husband is still not born again but the Holy Spirit changed something inside of me, i am at peace and give that same peace to my husband. I thank God for the deliverance. My husband and i are best friends and we cant wait to apend time together. I would have never seen his love. God is faithful, moreover He is on his way to repent. My home is peaceful now and i would never do that again.

[@akinwaledehbrah690]

Hmmm! This is the love of God in marriage

[@micht5358]

@@akinwaledehbrah690 indeed🤗

[@TOLUWANIMIADEPOJU]

God bless you Ma

[@nwidobiesudor9973]

​@@akinwaledehbrah690 True

[@Blueberries1984]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@victorugochukwu8265]

I wish I heard this message before I got married September 2022 and today I’m divorced. I didn’t judge her base off coming from an abusive parents that fought with weapons. I thought she would have known better after she said she went for a therapy. This girl wasn’t just physically abusive to hit or slap me both in public and home, she was emotionally and financially abusive. I was against her watching House wives of Potomac, House wives of this and that but it always end up In a fight and I stopped voicing out. She turned me against my family, friends and anyone she perceives that’s not RICH around me.The day she hit me with a bottle and I saw myself bleed, was the day I chose to walk out of the marriage and that was the end. She was never remorseful in any way. Today , I’m happy as I have learned to forgive her so I could grow. I’m saying this because what Apostle is saying is 200% true. Never ignore the signs and her family background if you perceive any of the things her parents went through in her life. I am a witness.

[@awakennnnnnn]

@@victorugochukwu8265 May God give you total healing sir

[@Ro_shanK]

Hugs 🫂 Brother. May you receive complete and total healing.

[@ponijada3697]

Sorry, may God heal your heart.

[@ruthisaac6293]

May God grant you strength and total healing. You see this family background is very important to check and never ignore negative signs of family background

[@obiekene9649]

Wow. What a revelation 😢

[@olajumokeakintola339]

Best is to work with Holy Spirit. Situations of life or husband’s behavior can change a woman. A house summited to Christ and Holy Spirit will keep peace in the home

[@akinwaledehbrah690]

I agree

[@ndivhuwotshivhase792]

I used to be so temperamental with my fiance for more than 3 years until I seeked the holy spirit for guidance the way I changed even I can't recognise myself God is good.

[@emmanuelameh3017]

Thank God

[@osadareireti]

I will not destroy my husband,I will do him good all the days of my life🙏

[@sharonisah451]

1. I will do my spouse good all his days, I won’t make him miserable, I will be a peaceful wife, I will make him happy always.

[@olanrewajuadedamolaolumide3429]

Are you single?????

[@EmmanuelOguama-d4s]

I need to know you dear Are you single?

[@DamiAjayi-h8v]

@@olanrewajuadedamolaolumide3429😁

[@lifeinsights7695]

This man doesn't shout but i will be shouting whenever im listening to him

[@promiseefughu3509]

Looool...shouter. calm down.

[@roselineiloduba7577]

I will not stress my future husband.I will make the home a peaceful one in Jesus name amen.

[@happy_health]

We should get marry ❤

[@zackh9722]

I woul like to know you more@roseline

[@walteremekaanoruo]

I forgive my father

[@jamespickford658]

God bless you brother, sending hugs ❤

[@ElizabethOmale-o3s]

Thank you pastor but I think we all have temperaments and I was not so filled with the Holy spirit before I got married but after I got married my husband helped me in controlling my temper and now I'm not just at peace but a pastor if he didn't marry me then because we quarrel Alot in our relationship we wouldn't have married so I feel sometimes God joined us for people to help us thank you sir

[@abayomiafolayan864]

Good!But that's IF you God chose your spouse for you in the beginning.Many chose against the will of Godor don't even bother praying & they are now complaining. If God sent you into the marriage,He will remove the weakness of your spouse & also give you wisdom & strength to cope till He perfects His work...but if not,the pains will be unbearable and may take longer than expected to see the changes

[@templeosigwe3545]

This is very deep indeed!

[@omothefavoured]

Anyone you refuse to forgive amongst your parent is the one you end up looking like .#deep

[@beautyisaiah6106]

Hanging bad attitude to menstrual periods, or menopausal changes is really not right. Thank you Sir

[@THEGIFTED101]

Honestly it’s witchcraft

[@chineduokonkwor494]

I love you sir. You’re a gift to our generation. Thanks sir

[@DavidOyebisi_DeGraced]

Kaiiiiiiiiii! God continue to bless you sir

[@awakennnnnnn]

@@DavidOyebisi_DeGraced Amen 🙏

[@chrisharris2367]

This is true both ways There are some really abusive men out there

[@oluwatomisinmogaji9802]

I pray this video finds that man or woman who is in a relationship with a contentious partner but can’t find the strength to break it; The Lord delivers you from every potential pitfalls today in Jesus name!

[@thesecretlifewithKateEdwards30]

What if the man is cheating and you know, because I get really mad at cheating.i am really supportive in many ways. But as soon as I know he's cheating I get mad, should I just leave instead of making both of us miserable?

[@oluwatomisinmogaji9802]

@ you could seek counselling as matters like this can be quite difficult. Consult with people who you both are accountable to

[@tee4ChristJ]

Hmmm, i like this ... don't judge people because they come from a dysfunctional background, provided they have taken responsibility and learn differently. But if they refuse to learn differently, judge them by their background

[@GloryNwachukwu-jo7ri]

I will give him peace all the days of his life

[@ayomideadewunmi6586]

I find this message interesting considering the fact of the knowledge of traumatic upbringing that defines the woman and men too, also are the issues of women hormones that affects their moods, which is how God created them to be. In questioning the challenges of women based on their hormonal disruptions, he is saying what God has created is NOT GOOD. Those hormonal distruptions are God's ideas and the basis of the very high intuitiveness in women. A MAN WHO HAS NEVER FELT or3 CARRIED A PREGNANCY OR GIVEN BIRTH IS NOT COMPETENT TO OFFER AN EXPERT OPINION TO PREGNANT WOMAN, THIS IS WHAT PASTOR FEMI HAS DONE HERE, WITH ALL DUE RESPECT TO HIM. Most importantly is the issue of God's choice of partners in marriage in the light of NEW TESTAMENT SCRIPTURES THAT DEALS WITH THE NEW CREATION IN CHRIST JESUS. Psalm 139:16, Ephesians 2:10. IF THESE TEACHINGS ARE TO BE ADHERED TO, JESUS WOULD NOT HAVE HAD MERCY ON THE WOMAN CAUGHT IN ADULTERY OR THE WOMAN AT THE WELL OF SAMARIA. God DOES NOT REJECT WOMEN ON THE BASIS OF PASTOR FEMI LAZARUS'S POSTULATIONS. THEY ARE SOULISH EXPRESSIONS AND HIS OWN IDEA OF HOW THINGS TO BE, WITH ALL DUE RESPECT TO HIM. Pastor Femi Lazarus is a man of God but NOT GRACED TO TALK ON THE ISSUES OF MARRIAGE and this teaching is NOT SCRIPTURE BASED. He speaks as a Yoruba man based on his experience. HE SAID NOTHING ABOUT THE EPHESIAN SCRIPTURES THAT TALKS TO MEN ABOUT LOVING THEIR WIVES, WHICH IS WHAT BRINGS PUT THE BEST IN THEM. FURTHERMORE IT'S NOT ABOUT THE WOMEN ALONE BUT ABOUT THE MAN TOO. OUR AFRICAN CULTURE IS A DYSFUNCTIONAL CULTURE IN TERMS OF THE UPBRINGING OF MEN. PLEASE LET SCRIPTURE BE THE BASIS FOR TEACHINGS ON MARRIAGE, EQUALLY, RIGHTLY DIVIDING THE WORD OF TRUTH AS STATED IN THE NEW TESTAMENT. SOLOMON, BASED ON HIS OWN EXPERIENCE WROTE PROVERBS SCRIPTURES, LET'S LOOK AT WHAT THE NEW TESTAMENT TALKS ABOUT THE NEW CREATION IN CHRIST AND BALANCE OUT ISSUES. I hope he reads this comment.

[@emmanuelameh3017]

May it be so ooooooo

[@ladepodare8801]

Amazing shots. Calling a spade a spade is what I've known you for pastor.

[@TheSktch]

well said.

[@emmanuelhaba2057]

I almost divorced last Saturday. Not having togetherness in taking decisions, finances...... taking alone family decisions on my back and I've to always solve the repercussions.....

[@awakennnnnnn]

@@emmanuelhaba2057 it is well, may God grant you wisdom on how to go about it. God bless you

[@esthergladysamevo7227]

Are you

[@nogieolotu9185]

I'll not DESTROY my HUSBAND I'll GIVE my HUSBAND PEACE ALL HIS DAYS.

[@thevoiceoftheholyspirit242]

Thank you so much for this sermon, the Lord will increase you more sir

[@awakennnnnnn]

@@thevoiceoftheholyspirit242 🙏🙏

[@JESUS_IS_KING_7.0]

THANK YOU LORD FOR THIS WONDERFUL MESSAGE AMEN 🙏

[@awakennnnnnn]

@JESUS_IS_KING_7.0 God bless you

[@ajayiruth8174]

I will not stress him in Jesus name. I will do you good all my days.

[@MemoryLungutomizodwa]

Speechless and glad thanks

[@TrustCaroline]

Thank you so muchvsir. Was surely blessed

[@osuefolake6447]

I will do my husband good all the days of my life,I will give him peace

[@ezedinonso2620]

Thank You SIR

[@elizachideya7815]

Don't judge ppo on their background but if they don't take responsibility to change then judge them on it ☺️🎉

[@israelkingsleyraphael2660]

17th December this makes one year my wife and I has been separated. One year I saw my son last, she dropped her ring and left my home with my about two year son. Everything papa says here is true. She left by herself. Marriage got to this level as a result of Disrespect, involvement of third party...the mother came and my marriage became something else, not appreciating and comparison.

[@awakennnnnnn]

@@israelkingsleyraphael2660 It is well with you sir

[@The_message_925]

I forgive my father 😢 Even though what he has done is very unbearable

[@nelsonoluyemi9169]

May God help you while you're at it

[@Ajarosydegreat]

Nice one

[@awakennnnnnn]

@@Ajarosydegreat 🙏

[@MichaelAkinkuotu]

Wow, spirit-filled message

[@Johngospel11]

Beautiful one

[@moukamcarine8564]

I will do my spouse good all his days I will be a supportive wife I will bring him peace

[@bellor7167]

Doing this will bring you a genuine life, and devil will not take advantage of your home. Regardless of what u see in a man, value him, a true responsible man will never let u down...

[@moukamcarine8564]

@bellor7167 by God's grace I am working on myself and with his help, I meet a good man, and trust me I will shower him with love and respect.

[@westbellisyfx]

God bless you Sir.

[@olanikestella7118]

God bless you sir

[@awakennnnnnn]

@@olanikestella7118 God bless you

[@IwuanyanwuRejoiceRS]

I will do my spouse good all his days ,i will not stress him ,i will not bring him harm

[@maryannobande9239]

Thank you sir....

[@vidoramichelle]

My husband will not destroy me MICHELLE JEHOVAH IMMANUEL and I will not destroy HIM JESUS CHRIST In the physical with HOLY SPIRIT in JESUS NAME AMEN. JESUS CHRIST IS LORD OVER TO THE HOLY SPIRIT

[@DFavouredHomes]

This is powerful ❤

[@vidoramichelle]

My husband will do me MICHELLE JEHOVAH IMMANUEL good and I will do my husband good in JESUS NAME AMEN. JESUS CHRIST IS LORD OVER TO THE HOLY SPIRIT

[@JenniferOcheme]

God bless you sir for this great words sir I reayyl have learnt a lot

[@fiyinfoluwaawopetu1559]

My wordddd Thank you sir ❤❤❤

[@ngozieze7826]

Nice one but it's vice versa. God bless you

[@Kingjothamglobal]

Yeah, totally. Hope it blesses your heart

[@ngozieze7826]

@@Kingjothamglobal oh yes☺️

[@Persongr]

Ngozi your lifestyle is rebellious! Change

[@WinieNiimanys]

Thank you man f God 🙏

[@odellmassaquoi423]

Powerful but it needs to be vice versa so that it will balance because even when the king saw Esther he asked her a question and the question was will be obedient and loyal to me and her response was if only you promise to be a loving and caring husband to me I promise to obey u all the days of my life so some man are the problem like while some women no one is perfect man or woman thank

[@mrbennett]

Please provide reference.

[@AsuzuEdozieBartholomew]

This one is already comparing herself at par a maN

[@jamesuche4301]

🤦🏾 which story book did you read this?

[@fedora-couture]

Esther chapter what?

[@ceozachs]

People like you arw the problems, where do you read this one from

[@viviananthony2455]

Deep😢

[@AyoguEmmanuelChima]

Thank you so much for this video.

[@sedoofaith]

Peace ❤

[@happinesschidinma641]

I will do my husband good all the days of his Life and he will do me good too in Jesus name 🙏🙏

[@toluwalopeawodoye1821]

I will do my future husband good. I will not make his miserable. I will bring my husband peace in Jesus name.

[@tarzohosilas-m1p]

Lack of peace is a Master key of destruction in a family 😢

[@precywagnar144]

💯💯💯

[@omobowalefakoyaedionwe8906]

Message title pls?

[@Capt_Blue]

Two people cant be angry at the same time... if a man refuses to talk ... and it makes the woman keep saying all sort ...

[@malachiosobase9796]

sometimes to have peaçe to mean to keep quiet

[@HolySpiritInspired]

No speak through the Holy Ghost

[@chiderapromise4605]

❤❤❤❤

[@AyoguEmmanuelChima]

Please, how do I get that background sound?

[@charlestechy1]

Please, full message link

[@okeoghenemarookozi309]

Hmmnnn

[@fiyinfoluwaawopetu1559]

HE CANNOT THINK OF YOUR REPLACEMENT

[@goodnessajet3766]

Please what is the title of this preaching?

[@Kingjothamglobal]

That's not how to rub the head😂. Kaiii

[@tee4ChristJ]

Haaa, is there anything wrong with watching Nollywood?😅 there are things to learn in some of the movies now

[@JoshuaAmeh-mh9sx]

Don't let the negative parts rub off on you

[@nedunna1580]

See message

[@oluwakemiakosile4434]

I will do My Husband GOOD All the Days of our life together 👄🙏

[@BelieveGod334]

🤍🤍🤍

[@baisinbu98]

I agree to some degree with what Pastor Femi is saying but disagree with some of his positions. I can see it comes from his African orientation of the woman being socialised for domestic work without a thought for men to be just as self-sufficient and useful at home. He is always placing domestic work at the feet of the women. Can men not also play host to guests? Can men not also cook and clean the house? In this day and age where both spouses work, they need to work in partnership too on the domestic front. The woman cannot be the only homebuilder. Men have a role to play too as the dynamics in the home are not always static. I also find that most Nigerian men view feminism negatively and I guess this is down to their lack of education on what feminism really is about. Your wife, sister, mother and female relatives can hold office jobs, go to school and own bank accounts thanks to feminism. We do not throw the baby out with the dirty bathwater now.

[@anthonygideon4633]

I don't think the last point on feminism is correct.

[@Ad-Lo]

@@anthonygideon4633 it is.

[@Jibovi]

Uhmm

[@Oaaa-w5q]

If you are easily angered, check your thyroid levels. Not everything is spiritual. Careful listening to these pastors. Lots of health conditions can cause irritability.

[@user-nl3uv6yz9c]

If the man knows how to treat his woman well, he will get peace.

[@PreciousIrabor-q6v]

Listen to what the pastor is saying

[@24f78]

There's foolishness in your heart. This message was to teach us how to be peaceful women. The men have their own part, but that has nothing to do with us.

[@VERONICADANLADI-ti9eq]

I wonder how far your spirit is, from God. You are such a sorry

[@tee4ChristJ]

You are ryt. Did others hear what Apostle said at 10mins +? If you fight, call each other names, or even if it is the husband who is unforgiven, calls the wife names etc, how easy can she bring him peace? 😢

[@IjeomaBCI]

How do you manage a man that is a narcissist. Whatever do you does not please him, and he is happy seeing his wife sad. Whatever you suggest does not make sense, except it is his own idea. He loves to have low self-esteem.

[@kirabosarah6130]

He is under captive he needs deliverance

[@somikmusic]

Just do your part and leave the rest to God. Never let anyone turn you to a monster. Maintain your Godly traits, pray and watch God turn your situation around.

[@PreciousIrabor-q6v]

Give him unconditional peace first and be patient

[@gistwithidimma7688]

Run away! He needs help, if he listens and starts to seel it, support him through it. God is with you ❤

[@paulkenney7167]

This is how to handle such a person. Believe in yourself, start acting confident. Keep on suggesting but tell him he thinks about it and decide for himself. Don't cry or show weakness in their presence. They get excited when you exhibit weakness in their presence. Bottom line, get your self esteem back.

[@danladibenjamin6974]

God bless you sir.