THIS is How Women WANT You to Flirt With Them!

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Marni, the Wing Girl, is back to answer some of the most burning questions you guys have. So one of the things that a lot of guys struggle with is anxiety when talking to a woman. Marni has an incredible method of approaching and talking to somebody you're interested in.
How to approach a woman
Marni recommends the following method: observe, share, and ask (OSA), which cuts out the first few minutes of fluff. Also, OSA has you approaching her as if you already know her - not as if you are asking for permission.
So for the 'observe' part, you make an observation about the world around you. Then 'share' about that observation, which expands on the why behind the observation. You're going to say why you made that observation and how it pertains to you, which is an area that's so difficult for many men because they have to ask question after question to get a woman to open up. But instead, the man should lead by example. During the sharing, he should open himself up first to give little tidbits about himself.
Check out her examples of this OSA method, which I act out with her. You'll see how this method pulls it all together rather than using the direct approach. Marni also recommends another way to approach women: going up to her and saying that you love her vibe or her energy.
Compliments, Non-verbal communication, and Assumptions
At the end of the day, every woman likes a compliment, but it's not going to be that hurdle that will get her to open up and start chatting with you. But absolutely, you can go up to her and be bold and give her a compliment. Very few things are off-limits to compliment.
Remember, it's not WHAT is said but HOW it is said. 85% of communication is nonverbal. Nonverbal communication is a more significant piece of the attraction equation than what is actually said.
A woman can drop a barrier if you continue to ask questions without actually you opening up. So instead of asking questions, make assumptions. She can't help but engage and respond to that. She can simply answer questions and then move away. Making assumptions is also a great way to start teasing and escalating, as well.

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[@acup420]

Alpha G💪

[@Joelsunil80382]

Alpha ji fan from INDIA 🇮🇳 🇮🇳 🇮🇳

[@richcampbell6808]

Both of you are annoying AF

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

OK bro

[@Iwillroastthesocksoffyoass]

If she's not attracted to you whatever you say is gonna come off as awkward. I guess she forgot to mention that part.

[@ImdduzIt]

Facts

[@jcramirez77]

so true lmao and in 2023 women judge critically and quick

[@TheCoolwhipped]

Mostly true, but there's a bunch of ugly dudes who pull just because they can make women laugh and feel comfortable talking to them. It's tough, if you're anxious and uncomfortable.

[@Filthy_Larry]

I’m awkward. Sue me.

[@The_007]

Aannnnd that’s why you should never take dating advice from a woman.

[@Nick-zh5gc]

If she’s not initially attracted to you then none of this matters, that’s really how it is

[@landsraad9745]

@@gg41r which she could decipher as, "he makes a good friend".

[@bkind2182]

Agreed, but you could use what they said for what to say when you do sense a spark between you, like eye contact that's mutually held or a nice smile that's returned...

[@seanthetraveler]

It does matter. This isn’t how to pick up any woman. This is WHAT to say to a woman to break the ice

[@Nick-zh5gc]

@@seanthetraveler yeah I get what you are saying and I agree that you still need confidence and good conversation. But majority of the time girls are too quick to judge and don’t even give you any ice to break to begin with. And secondly nowadays girls think every guy trying to talk to them is “creepy,” and the only way around that is if you’re initially attractive to the girl.

[@dep7up]

Wrong. One word. "Roofies"

[@danielmp-007]

Telling a woman that she is beautiful when she knows she is beautiful only works if she is attracted to you.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

You definitely tell a woman she is beautiful

[@m.i.a473]

Cannot stop smiling watching these 2 awesome people talking 🤣

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Me too lmao 🤣 😂

[@milangautamofficial]

The best about the video is that they both have their views and opinions. So it's more of a conversation. Nice Stuff!

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Hell yeah it is

[@DAVYT_dbreezy]

Thank you Alpha for bringing in more help than just yourself. You are a G!

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Definitely thank you

[@romeeh1364]

thats definitley one of the most informative videos i ever saw on that topic and you two make it so funny and entertaining to watch

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Yes she does

[@jmagnuson95]

Thanks for sharing. I consider myself awkward, and struggle to connect with people. However, the other day, I used this approach and the conversation flowed really well!

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Hell yeah

[@TSierra]

If she’s not attracted to you, none of this really matters. It doesn’t matter what you say, she’s going to be quick to judge and think you’re a creep lol

[@JeremiahDaniel1995]

And the truth is he don’t care 🤷‍♂️ at least he shouldn’t ✌️

[@chrisfabre23]

Then they'll cap about how you shouldn't 'judge a book by its cover.' 🤦‍♂️ You can't make this stuff up bro.

[@amlc4626]

Get attractive then

[@mylovesongs2429]

​@@amlc4626 LOL it's easier said than done, for me!

[@milkmanx]

She’s not attracted because you care what she and women think of you.

[@nycdontstop8719]

That was a bit of an abrupt ending Alpha. Great to see the collaboration with Marni. Love her content.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

So do i

[@eddiecesar481]

Loving the energy in this video

[@carloscasillas8104]

4:34 that reaction had me dead. I wouldn’t know how to react if someone especially a girl said that to me.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Same her bro

[@DjKumchez]

Alpha thank you fam I watch your vids all the time and I appreciate you 💯

[@nuanceatnoon]

This video was chaotic! I LOVED IT! 😂

[@thezenhappydad]

Thank you for the tips guys. This is something I have always struggled with this. I am not big on online dating and approaching is my favorite way to meet women so these tips were very helpful :)

[@yasinsugway5817]

Mi favorite dating coaches together i can't believe continue doing more videos we love you 🥰🙏

[@johngonzalez4298]

Alpha M, you and Marni have a great collaboration

[@voggue]

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[@bigguccisouljamike191]

Yooo alpha this was a good video! Bring her back and plz do the escalating video ! Hahaha 👍🔥

[@danielm.2377]

For those saying none of the advice matters if the person is not attracted to you, is partially wrong IMO. I think the most important thing is to strike up a conversation which this video is somewhat helpful with. We are people first and all wish to form some type of connection with others, even if it's a brief interaction. You can find out if a person is interested or attracted to you simply by engaging in conversation or by being subtle with your flirting (takes practice). If they're not interested then just reframe your focus from getting digits to gaining experience holding a conversation. Rather than not trying at all, consider it practice for when you do find a person who is attracted or interested in you.

[@KrishnaYadav-xz3fj]

Can I get your email Daniel? You seem like a genius.

[@danielm.2377]

@@KrishnaYadav-xz3fj Thanks but I'm not a genius. I'm just a guy with lots of life experience.

[@KrishnaYadav-xz3fj]

@@danielm.2377 Great. Have a good day !

[@CouncilofPerseus]

Yeah but this is about getting a date … so your wrong

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Im going to practice

[@rahulkhanvilkar5227]

Great video

[@seanthetraveler]

It’s not about if she’s attracted to me or not, I just need to know what to say as an initial ice breaker instead of saying “hey how are you, what’s your name?”. So her info just gave me the ability to be creative with it. I think it’s different coming from a woman telling you what women want to hear.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Yes it is

[@Cooper349]

That smile after her saying wanting that muffin in her mouth😂. Priceless!

[@Roman-bg8zb]

😄😄😄I had a lot of fun!

[@studentstudent5044]

Hey big brother Alpha!❤️

[@choochtech]

epic duo, keep her around

[@canman87]

It really doesn't even have to be this complicated, honestly. The stupidest line that ever worked for me was when I walked up to a woman sitting at the bar that had the same beer I did and said, "Hey, nice beer." Within a couple hours of that completely stupid opener, we were back at my place. It's not necessarily what you say, but how you say it and your ability to carry on from there.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Yes it does

[@jasonsubhan8479]

I don't know if I learnt anything watching this video, but it was certainly entertaining. I love the banter between Aaron and Marnie.

[@malone4735]

Alpha M The Man ❤👍

[@saidikafumbe]

YOU ADVISE IS THE BEST

[@TheCreeture66]

Hmmm maybe the muffin line might just be crazy enough to work 🤔😅

[@jeffreyospina1503]

The crossover episode I never expected to see...but awesome

[@Osabi]

Using similar tactics as to what I learned in sales feels kinda weird but it makes sense

[@brandonryce6801]

I can't help but see a bosley ad here 😂

[@GQWSolutions]

this video really shows that every woman is different. You can see Aaron trying to help her generalize some things so it applies everywhere, but it really digs deep into how men should approach women

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Yes it is

[@cristhiandp]

I don't know of the numbers are showing. But you must continue this dynamic duo. Successful videos.

[@edouardatangana4195]

I’m about to try haha

[@davekogut4053]

A healthy balance sheet and high-paying job are great ice breakers

[@fat.shamer]

Alpha's definitely piping her box

[@Chael0007]

🤣these two finally colab. I've been watching your individual channels for a long time..

[@bodhitones23]

Love the advice, personally I'm a bubbly and genuine guy who loves talking to people when it comes to things like chruch and work since I'm a waiter even though I'm not asking ppl out I get to talk to beautiful women and it makes me feel more confident,just talking to them. But outside of these my shy and ask ppl out. I'm 22 and last time I asked someone out was when I was a JNR in highschool I asked two different ppl out at different times and I wasn't phased when they said no thanks ect, but haven't asked out anyone since. It's not that reason I've never asked anyone out but personally i don't go out to coffee shops, pubs ect. I go out with friends but even then I'm there to have good time with them and not focus on anyone else. Hopefully this can help me Abit Even if I go up to one person. But is there a way on which you can get ppl to come up to you even if it's just to have a conversation that will lead me to hopefully ask them out if I find them attractive so I helps break the awkward feeling of going up to anyone.

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

Did it work?

[@AGMSaint]

I didn’t see Marni’s link in your bio?

[@visibility443]

Just go into the coffee shop as a comedy duo ( like in this video ) and perform your routine ( 😂😂😂 )

[@franktoledo9355]

Hey Alpha, what’s your hairstyle called?

[@keshavsharma7621]

I was not able to roll my eyes over from Marni

[@benito7911]

Where you get your t-shirt s

[@benjaminsciascia6975]

How does this approach work on some one that you know?

[@israelguerrero8253]

😅😅SHE IS VERY FUNNY AND SO DO YOU ALPHA,I WILL SUSCRIBE TO HER CHANNEL!!😅👍

[@mylovesongs2429]

i've been outta the game for so long. wow! i just wish i could have the last 30 years of my life back. i learned so much from Tripp Kramer, Alpha M, Marni Your Personal Wing Girl, etc. I am simply too old to get back in the game, but i love these videos that teach the younger crowd! when my time is up, and God calls me home, i so can't wait to ask God which females were interested in me in my life. I just wouldn't want Him to call her over and talk about it. LOL

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

So have i

[@gotgamegod4143]

GOAT of MAN

[@peterk3556]

You look like brother and sister wow the synergie of you is crazy

[@bruceowens2930]

Real Top G 💪💪

[@sovietelmo3000]

Fuck no

[@Gave-rf1hr]

"Saying it the right way you can get away" this is true but I have been in both sides of the spectrum , now that I'm more developed after years of gym , grooming , etc I can confidently say I can get away with most stuff BUT years ago I just got weird looks and a straight poker face .

[@TravisAndrews-lb1kk]

So have i

[@Schneider069]

The problem is that am introvert 💀

[@nixx7912]

Being an introvert does not mean you lack social skills. Don’t use it as an excuse

[@FlavioThepianist]

Same but just make yourself talk

[@justscratch2842]

I never tell a woman that a outfit she has on makes her look amazing I always tell a woman that she makes that outfit look amazing 🤩

[@lifeafterkings6315]

That's too much

[@justscratch2842]

What do you mean that’s to much I don’t say all of that I just say you make that outfit look amazing

[@PhilHug1]

@@justscratch2842 does it work for you to get dates out of curiosity?

[@lifeafterkings6315]

@@justscratch2842 it's good for an English literature romance writing in school like "remoe and Juliet" but romance is no longer alive in this day and age. If you say this to a woman in the 23rd century you will be labelled as a "simp" my advice to you is stay silent, be hard to get and speak less.

[@justscratch2842]

Lol I don’t take it seriously I just say it if she likes it we talk if not I go it’s not like I say it and if it doesn’t work I keep trying

[@vinniemartinez6125]

Yo Marni let me get them digits hun 😁

[@ObeyyShadesz]

The OG OF KZbin ❤

[@NileshR12]

Can we use “You look like you’re from Nashville, because you’re the only ten I see (Tennessee)” 😂😂

[@mbank3832]

Aaron, whenever you invite her to your vid, you should name this series as beta m., since she is pretty much dominating the conversation here and you can't even finish your sentences haha

[@Hoopfan83]

Is that Dylan Mulvaney in the thumb??? Lol

[@owaismaqbool6969]

*if she doesn't like you , nothing is gon work*

[@ahnafhossain5565]

Alpha posting alpha video.

[@DrummerLittleBrother]

Another problem is that most people that you actually want to interact with walks around with headphones on..

[@sujitbharati9657]

Where's the summary guy?

[@vinniemartinez6125]

I love your vibe Marni. I'm from California baybay

[@milekrizman]

Is this woman also italian? I can feel the vibe ☺️👌😉🙏❤️

[@EnterpriseKnight]

Oh my god that's Marni!

[@noorgill0707]

You guys are the best collab

[@georgesparks7833]

🤣 funny

[@galenthomas7322]

Ahh yes, the coffee shop, where apparently every successful relationship has ever started

[@BrendenBaker30]

Listen to her without interrupting, Aaron.

[@pricelessx421]

Alpha gettin on the marna buns

[@ryanhandley382]

Colab of the century

[@Foozlebass]

These two would be great on family feud

[@are919]

I already found mine

[@christopherball8073]

Go Birds Aaron!

[@salehalfarhan6417]

How about getting physically fit , mentally intelligent , and financially secure. Then approaching whoever you want to approach

[@beastly_brisket_man6249]

Do marriage advice some of us are married because of you! Haha.

[@travman162]

I have a personal rule to not take seriously anyone who refers to the Super Bowl as "The Big Game"

[@charliemedina6362]

Alpha I was thinking of what if you flip-flop your roles and start to give women advice on your channel for what men really want and need from a woman. Maybe a few videos to make for women to come to your channel.

[@Filthy_Larry]

That’s what we men need. Women perhaps need to be taught by men on what men want because we know best. Look nice Act nice Be good. That’s all we ask of women.

[@firsthelix6726]

That’s quite a stupid idea, it never worked since we’re not the same. This is modern society crap, trying to think we are all the same. A woman is never gonna tell you what she really needs - YOU have to evolve by a man, like women need to evolve by a woman, period.

[@alexp601]

These two are like the male and female version of the exact same person 😆

[@Joelsunil80382]

Asking Hitler how to kill Hitler!😂😂😂

[@DanielRamirez-jc1xf]

I see you Aaron 😏

[@alejandromartinez5737]

Hello

[@idolbass]

Oh wow, you two know each other. Marni is my fav, I like Sassy too. I like secretaries too! Type harder! lol

[@PedraamJam]

This video teaches by EXAMPLE

[@user-CR505]

Your friends have any account?

[@souveekghosh5481]

Is that Celeste Star?

[@TheeSamuelNelson]

I worked at a movie theatre. And I’ve seen Latinos with face tattoos come in with the most beautiful women.. I was shocked

[@gabrielmanyati8630]

Hilarious😅

[@Singlehand_Music]

Haha great collab, you are awesome 👍

[@darkvalue505]

Why do I feel like this lady is the 'man' of the house, not alpha m.

[@Pinkipoddar1994]

Woman maintain relationship and man maintain attraction

[@DoodleBug7895]

My god I love Marni😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@whosunluqy]

ok

[@ianjamesxxxx]

This is how I’m imagining it: Him: You’re typing so hard!! Her: put your headphone on Him: when I’m trying this hard it means I’m serious about what I’m doing Her: oh yeah? Considering you established that, then stop disturbing me

[@javiercisternasnajle]

Never ask a fish how to catch a fish

[@victorc8804]

You both or one at a time need to go on the fresh and fit podcast in Miami for sure I'm sure Myron Gaines the host would be okay with that

[@sovietelmo3000]

Oh god no. Fresh and Fit 👎👎👎

[@kobebenoradv4300]

🍓 השילוב בין מרני לאלפא M מעולה ! אני אוהב את שניהם. פשוט מעולה !

[@shaftzilla22]

Some woman in a coffee shop is working and typing loudly. Man approaches and says " Wow! You are typing really loudly." End of encounter. Marni is unbelievably annoying

[@kasparovthegodofwar]

A fish teaching a fisherman how catch fish? The Grift NEVER STOPS 🙄