THIS IS NOT OKAY!!! | DIVORCE, THE CHURCH AND THE SOCIETY

[@funmiadegoke5741]

Words of wisdom...God bless you darling daughter and God bless the womb that gave birth to you. ...Amen.

[@eseojiekhudu6770]

Tolulope solutions mom in the comment section I guess,you are blessed ma for birthing solutions she's simply an incredible gift to humanity👌

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Thank you Mum!! I love uuuu ❤️❤️❤️

[@Davidpraise3320]

@@TolulopeSolutions I really love you so much, God bless you

[@nanaaddae8623]

Amen oooh!

[@eseojiekhudu6770]

@@abbas_jewel it's not,her mom-in-law is Rev funke Adejumo

[@erdooinspiringwomen]

Thank you for this, I truly appreciate this, I was being abused for almost 9 years with four kids as a senior pastor's wife, but I left against all odds and four years down the line I am much better happier and at peace now with my children.

[@jareya]

Thank God you left. God bless and continually provide for you and the children.

[@erdooinspiringwomen]

Amen.. thank you.

[@TheStalwartLovers]

Sincerely, well said. We are the church, we are the people, and we can surely do better! ❤️

[@eseojiekhudu6770]

The stalwart lovers, congratulations to you guys on your relocation to Canada.Hope you get to meet with solutions soon.God bless

[@jasminewilson6715]

What an amazing word(s). Just what we need to hear on this resurrection Sunday. I am lady in my 60s & my husband & myself are raising (from birth) 3 year old twin girls....Long story! Even at my age, I am learning something from you. You have spoken the truth in love. Keep on doing what you're doing as the Holy Spirit leads. God bless you & your family.

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Amen! Thank you Ma 🙏🏿🧡🤗

[@MyJoy]

Word!!! Thanks for sharing, I am raised by a single mum and I am forever grateful she left 24yrs ago and I still have someone to call Mum.

[@sandraabbey4392]

A woman who left an abusive marriage said "the church is the only place where they shoot the wounded" and I felt that. Too much judgement from the place which is suppose to exhume love

[@tiwalopeonipede1511]

Tolulope we should also be thankful for Rev’d Adejumo for being a good father and worthy of emulation for his sons. Both parents have the responsibility for instilling positivity into their kids.

[@timeoutwithebzzy01]

Hummm sis. My mother almost lost her life to an abusive marriage 24 years ago. Pastor told her to stay. She did. Well, long story short she single handedly raised 4 of us with God's help. What did the society not do? Getting a house in Nigeria was hard for her, the church nko? But thank God we all turned out good. It took a torn on me and I wouldn't talk about it for long because people will tell me that *children raised by single parents are the bad eggs in the society* I am always like excuse me, if I don't tell you, you won't know. I still thank my mother everyday for leaving.

[@TolulopeSolutions]

I salute her! It’s always quite the opposite really as I’ve seen a lot of success stories with children raised by single moms

[@Tbells]

Preach sis!! This video is full of power and wisdom. As a Muslim, I enjoyed every bit of it. Though, divorce is frowned upon in Islam but it’s not a sin. Get a divorce if you have to, waiting in an abusive relationship and getting killed is suicide which is a great sim. May God give everyone who is going through this tough time the strength to do the right thing and seek refuge in God. And May God continue to increase your knowledge, Tolulope.

[@thebeloveth7734]

Hi tolulope, there is a type of abuse that's not usually addressed much, financial abuse. When one spouse is engrossed in addictions like gambling,and piling on debts in massive amounts and lies, deception,promises to change over and over.. the family finances in ruin...when kids are involved also, the decision to leave seems unwise but in the depth of your heart you know the marriage is not healthy in any way,it has become toxic,no trust, no faithfulness ,husband steals from wife, apologies are numerous, but no change behavior etc. It's unclear the way forward, prayers don't seem to bring the change desired. The question is, what's the best thing to do?

[@joydonas-l6b]

Addiction is not a joke. Stopping forgiving him without putting your foot down and ensuring he goes for therapy, go for deliverance and give his love to Christ. If he refuses then he can never change. Do not pamper this situation before that man ruins your life

[@beckyfrancis481]

Work on being financially independent, then separate to heal

[@Dupesvlog]

People can be very careless with their words. More disappointingly, people in the church. I went through something unpleasant two months ago and my mental health was in the literal gutters. Many people tried to be there for me and all. But there was this lady from the CHURCH who was supposed to be a sister (she may even be watching this video). She didn't try to help, instead she went to her WhatsApp status to throw shade and said something very unpleasant about it. It broke me so much and I'm still praying God helps me forgive her. People go through stuff. If you can't help them, why make it worse for them? I pray that God helps us, especially ladies, to stop judging and making people feel bad. The church should be a safe place for us all. I know people who had to leave church because of these kind of hurt.

[@iamsosasmama]

This lovely daughter of Zion, I have always let you know how much I respect your wisdom. This is another evidence. Thank you for always speaking up As disheartening as it may sound, Christians are the most judgemental. God help us do better.

[@eseojiekhudu6770]

Thank you Tolu for this words,you are indeed blessed with great wisdom.Now just to add to this,outside the fact that we are all running this christian race together and all that,alot of people,christians in particular don't realize that you aren't going to be judged by God on the last day on how you lived your life but also you are also going to be held accountable for the way you treated his son(husband)or daughter (wife) he placed in your hands.So the judgement day is definitely going to be one with so many surprises,it not all about I didn't steal,I didn't commit adultery,I didn't do this and I didn't do that,it's still going to be a day where you will be judged according to how you took care of the spouse, children etc he placed in your care.The earlier we realize it,the better for us

[@selawoka]

Thank you so much Tolu for this much needed message. And please don't ever get tired of fulfilling your purpose. If some of us had such influx of messages a few years ago, we wouldn't have made the mistakes we made. When I was battling postpartum depression and was contemplating separation due to abuse (emotional, psychological and financial) in marriage, I thought to myself 'let me stay in the marriage for the sake of my son'. Few weeks down the line when we relocated to another country (Nigeria), the narrative changed. I started thinking rather let me leave for the sake of my son. I couldn't bear to have him witness such constant arguments from his parents. It was not healthy. Thank God for making a way of escape and making the separation possible. You can't imagine the PEACE I have been enjoying, ever since I took that bold decision. Life couldn't have been any better with my son and I back in Ghana. So Tolu, don't get tired of saying these things. There're lots of women out there who need to hear it over and over again. It would definitely sink in at some point. Thank you and God bless you. So looking forward to the programme on Abuse this week.

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Thank you for sharing your truth and I’m glad you had the courage! The Lord strengthens you continually

[@selawoka]

@@TolulopeSolutions Amen!

[@AndreaAjiboye]

This is so amazing solutions, I could remember when my mum really want to work for God and she joined the ushering department and then the district pastor came for service one time and called all the work force and when he sighted my mum he said my mum can't join the work force because she's from a polygamous family and that she's even the second wife ,hence she cannot join the work force. So my mum quit This hurt so much,even in the church of God,too much judgemental people. IT IS WELL more anointing solutions

[@euniceobi6477]

You’re damned if you do and damned if you don’t! One thing is for sure every individual has the right to choose, but we have to be mindful of the part WE play in the decision they make. Let’s all be mindful of what we say and do and just be a welcoming, supportive light🙏🏾💕 May God bless, guide and protect us all🙏🏾

[@nditemehmaritza5767]

After listening to this, I stood up and started clapping. MRS TOLULOPE SOLUTIONS, you are a VESSEL OF HONOUR and WISDOM🔥🔥🔥🔥 PURPOSE is SERVICE unto others.

[@nxalaticharlottemashego9238]

I thank you for this video ,I left my marriage at 26 and the first person I ran to was my pastor and he begged me not to say anything cos people will talk ,he said he will pray with me ,at that time his whole family was abusing me and harassing me.Thank God for a Nigerian pastor who was visiting our church and I made an appointment with him and he told me you will die if you stay he said rather pray from a distance.

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Sigh! Thank God for those who give light

[@animasaunjesumijuwonlo6448]

Solutions Mama!!!😍 God bless you so much for this ma. The highlights for me is that the same effort put into training the girl child should also be put into training a boy child. And girls should also be trained for more than just been wives🤷. There's more to life than wife(hood). Let's focus on building ladies of purpose, who are too valuable for their generation to ignore!

[@vivian.eni.official]

Don’t doctor’s get sick word!!! I’m come to the conclusion for myself that I’m in no place to judge because hey have you seen my life?! I’m in no place to judge. I’m just grateful for Gods mercies .

[@abusednotdefiled]

Thumbs up for this video Solutions... am not even married yet but even before now i have asked God for two boys and a girl because i have seen how very irresponsible alot of men are these days and i told God that i wanted the boys so i would train them to be better examples of what Men should be.

[@preciousadepetu4774]

This is absolutely me...

[@akingbadeoluwakemi2161]

I've never cried watching someone's content, but i can't control it i had to start reaching out to the wounded, the castigated in my church to extend hands of love to them. I'm a bit relief the lord bless you and your home ♥️

[@dinmadivine7068]

Some of Our parents also place their reputation against their own children’s safety and happiness . They don’t want to be seen as ‘that mother her daughter divorced ‘ they insist their children stay despite anything

[@ozythriftwears]

In some situations leaving is not easy, some men can come after you to do something evil to you. They will not just let go because they think you want to bring shame to them.

[@olayinka982]

Well said. Our society puts too much pressure on men and women about marriage and relationships. We need to love and be kind to each other and treat everyone equally. Single, married, divorced or single parents all divorce kindness and love. We should encourage people to leave toxic marriages and relationships.

[@GlobalGroupCrypto7]

Tolulope you are blessed and highly favoured🙏 You have a mummy in London. I love you and l admire you so much! I was praying that you would come out and talk about this. God bless 🙏💕🥰💋👌

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Amen ma! Thank u

[@annachandipo465]

Spoken from the heart. I love!! The Church needs to give sound guidance under all circumstances. Even Christ had to beat them up when He found them converting the church building into a market place.

[@chinwesdiary9175]

Please do one for emotional abuse, most people dont even know one when they see it.💕

[@theblessingdamilola]

This is golden. Your perspective, approach to issues, and manner of presentation are always unique and commendable. Your wisdom is so palpable! Thank you for raising the banner high and being an excellent Christian creative. You inspire me a lot, Ma'am.

[@4southern1]

This vlog is so amazing. I am newly married and I am from the US. I have seen so many single mothers doing amazing things and loving there babies with all they have. I have also seen two parent households in shambles where the kids are screaming in silence. I am an educator and I have seen first hand what children go through. I can tell you this... kids see and hear EVERYTHING. If you think you are hiding your pain from them, you are not. They are sharing it with you and they will often times grow up to DO or eENDURE the same. My mother always said to me, "no one will treat you like your momma, no one will love you like your momma." Please stay alive if not for you then for your babies, their opinion of you is the only one that should matter.

[@TolulopeSolutions]

All u said 🔥! Thank u

[@Oluwumi]

Purpose mainly is for others. It's about serving others. That hit! Even in our comfort, purpose continues.

[@TheDynamicFamily6]

Very well said my dear. You nailed it on the spot. Happy Easter to you and everyone on this beautiful platform

[@bettyscorner5837]

The woman actually opened up to some people but still made them promise not to let the information out to anyone, which they have to do for her cause it's a marriage situation. I think the solution starts with the church letting the women know God loves them as much as he loves the men. God has taught me that and I don't let anyone in church or outside church take that away from me.

[@judithm2992]

Well articulated baby girl 👏👏👏I hear you very well because I was once in an abusive marriage for 15 years. Think of an kind of abuse I lived it until the grace of God pulled me out of it . Not easy to leave an abuser.society will condemn, call you names even isolate yourself. Women are actually not good at their fellow women . They throw stones and not give a helping hand . The body of Christ the church is too quiet about it even if you report. I beg , let the church change the way it deals with this subject . There’s need of preaching about this . After all many abusers are in the church. Lastly but not the lest my advice to my fellow women; marriage does not complete you as a woman . If you find yourself in an abusive marriage or relationship leave . Run for your life 🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️. I ran for mine even though it wasn’t easy but It is doable. Don’t stay there and die in the form of keeping a marriage or because of the children. It’s not a healthy situation for you and them too . You such an inspiration to many young women, mothers and wives . God bless you and keep you long . I love you ❤️😘💕

[@bonyanamzizi8625]

Tolu even in families i ve noticed stigma of divorces women but same does not happen to men.

[@expliciteseoghene5695]

What u said today really calmed me down with what I faced today am strong from this and stronger when I look at my baby's eye

[@thepeculiarperson]

My big sister, thank you ma for always speaking from your heart and not shying away from addressing things that need a head on approach. God bless you❤

[@commentersname8576]

been watching you silently, but after watching this video I've decided to comment and like. Nice one.

[@expliciteseoghene5695]

What I know abt domestic violence is that it's not only about beating but there are words that are stronger than beating that literally leads to depression. Love u ma

[@Nana-lj5pu]

God bless you for this madam solutions. People should learn to make their words heal and not hurt others, remember there are some chapters of your own lives too, that you don't want anyone reading out loud, and if you might be lucky to have it smooth, don't say hurtful words to others, you could be an angel of change in other people's lives,and they will forever be grateful to you and God will always reward you for it. Lots of love from me to you 💖💖💖

[@folakemioshinnaya3775]

I have shared this video on my whats app status. I hope they watch and feel better with themselves. Your purpose has just began because if they ask me questions I am sure directing them to you Solutions

[@patriciaonyenuru3276]

Nice words Tolulope. Ignore the negative people and their comments. Do not make them push you into sin by insulting them or altering words that are not glorifying. People will remember your words and forget their comments. Keep preaching. Love you.

[@Beloved_Boahemaah]

The way you consistently handle such serious issues with grace and wisdom is truly inspiring Mama Tolu! Thank you for bringing this to the light and challenging us to acknowledge the role we play indirectly/directly. God bless you and your family. Looking forward to watching the videos you said you’d release. I’m always learning from this channel!

[@fhedhorha2651]

You just communicated my thought on this whole issue.

[@debbieikpuri3422]

Exactly my point....we the society makes it hard for the women too

[@masahminang4202]

You have spoken well Mama Soteria. Honestly,we are so quick to judge people going through stuff simply because our own story is not yet out there so we feel we have the power and audacity to condemn others. Well,may God help us to be slow to speak and quick to pray.

[@Nimahslove123]

God Almighty bless you so much. I always enjoy your videos. This is a very serious issue. Some people stayed because they have been threatened to be killed or hurt by their abuser. There are so many instances when they leave and yet abuser look for them and harm/kill them. It takes God cuz it’s not easy for some people. More blessings to u n your family ❤

[@adarex6354]

Thank you Tolu, I used to have that fear about a boy child, but listening to you. I hear you and I understand it. God help us

[@estherforson5687]

Woman,woman,woman!!!God bless you so much Solutions.Exactly my thoughts and principles about raising my children both boys and girls that the Lord will bless me with.I am really learning a lot.Give us more content.❤🙏😘

[@EmpressLayo]

Wo my sister, you are blessing to souls. Block toxic people & their bad comments. They obviously don't belong here. May God heal them

[@tomiakinbo]

Thanks T for this angle. We need to check ourselves first, now I feel slightly guilty. God help us

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Acceptable is the first step towards change. No need to feel guilty

[@onyekaeluwa3649]

👍

[@stellaj4719]

Well said Sis! The Church is very judgemental indeed!...May God help us all to do better and be more like Christ ...i also love your view on raising our girls to be confident of themselves and have self-worth..this is fundamental...equally important is raising our boys well to honor women! More grace to you

[@oyeyemiolusayo4847]

First time dropping a real comment. This is mind blowing. You inspire Solutions . Thanks for talking about these things, it's enlightening. I'm blessed

[@estheronoja4916]

Essential information, a lot of people are less concerned about the well-being of others, so it is easy to blab about what is not supposed to be their business. Also, love is lacking in the world. That's why it is easy to judge and not feel remorseful. Thanks for sharing.

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Totally!!!

[@makinghomehere1682]

Amen to these words! Haaaaaaaaa!! People are not serious, I hear, "her cup of sorrow" Not if its your daughter or son. May God open our eyes and allow us see that life is greater than anything else and that life can not be compromised. Not even., for marriage. 💁🏾‍♀️🙌🏿

[@junetobi2179]

Wow, you may be young but have so much wisdom. You are truly blessed!!!

[@junetobi2179]

Hi I was just wondering if you got my post since I did not see any response from you.....

[@gbemialabi]

May God deliver anyone who has imbibed the idea that DIVORCE will seperate them from the love of God. Not ever.... Thanks Tolu.... For explicitly stating this....

[@tansahasonyu1071]

This is a great piece especially with children. Imagine you calling Sauteria to the kitchen and the brother is playing video games....this is what we grew up seeing. We need to correct this. thank you for this

[@blique7427]

This is one of my favourite videos of you Mama❤️. You're wisdom personified

[@greatfaith2304]

Hmmm... "Don't let people will talk lead to people telling you RIP" ... I love that... More grace momma ❤️

[@Busayo_O]

Thank you ma'am for these "Blessed " words on a day like this...GOD BLESS YOU MA..

[@tukuruestherprincess1758]

So much WISDOM in this video👏👏👏👏👏👏👏. Happy Resurrection Sunday to you and your beautiful family ❤️❤️❤️

[@ekhatoredosaa957]

Thanks for this video I hope this will sink into the hearts of those hypocrites ... so they stop judging and condemning people 👍

[@ingutumubyanambewe]

🔥🔥 Solutions mama didn't come to play today and we love it 🙌 Thank you for yeilding to God.

[@olive710]

God bless you more. Sending you many E- hugs.

[@joancadeton356]

Well said I like the word ' we ' because the real culprit are we , the way we judged others. . Thank you solution mama

[@darafadeyibi5480]

Tolu, you look really good in this video! I also love your background! Thank you for speaking up and sharing your wisdom.

[@bakarefunmi5934]

How I wish I can like the video a million times, don't even the doctors get sick Exactly

[@TheAdenikeOye]

I've been waiting for You to talk about this whole stuff.....Thank you for everything You do.

[@TolulopeSolutions]

I did on IG but not as intense as this

[@TheAdenikeOye]

@@TolulopeSolutions Thank You for always sharing here too

[@anneauthentic3593]

Happy Easter mama & your beautiful family. Yes Jesus took it all for US!! I'm happy how vocal you are about your faith, that encourages me too to keep making Jesus shine too . We are in this together🙌💕

[@nkjv12]

Well said. What will people, say? Who are people if not you and I. It is really worth taking time to reflect on this because majority of the time people live their life based on what people, will say and as much as that is their own business, women need to start going into marriage with the focus on raising children that have not being subject to trauma and emotional abuse as supposed to focusing on a having a perfect marriage. We can't expect to be raising Godly children when the foundations are so wrong and it is a shame that most children who grew up in this type of household end up resenting anything to do with churches when they grow up because as far as they are concerned the church is part,of the reason the mum stayed and never left. Church is a trigger for a lot of traumatised children and hopefully the church as a whole can start to make changes and understand this.

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Very well said! Words on marble ✍️

[@abisolaolorungbeja4031]

It was so bad that everybody, literally everyone blamed or now blames the late minister for not leaving before her death instead of addressing the circumstances around it. Suddenly, she was the culprit and the church "culpritier"! I love you mama, there's just a way you balance the society on God's words. Keep doing God and He will continue to do you 😘

[@wunmiemmanuel3896]

Very very sound and solid view on marriage

[@phookiedang3533]

Thank you so much for putting this hear. I hope that we listen and learn. This isn't only about failed marriages, people have become so nosy and quick to judge and I honestly dont know of what use the information the get is to them like you pointed.

[@fehinabidemi3384]

The passion is fire.I love you my solutions

[@adesolaolaleye7136]

Well articulated sis. I appreciate your maturity too. I bless God for people like you. More Healthy forums like this we pray for. More Grace. Love your family.

[@elizabethjulianah]

Your Mum is a gem for the way she raised you. Well done

[@Jojo111]

EXACTLY TOLU… I WAS SO SHOCKED 😮 THAT NO ONE ☝️ IN THE CHURCH ⛪️ SHE TRUSTED. I WILL LIKE FOR ALL PASTORS WIVES SHOULD COME DOWN TO MEMBERS LEVELS INTERACT WITH THOSE IN AUXILIARIES. BE FRIENDLY AND LET THEM TELL YOU THEIR WRONGS AND DO NOT JUDGE 👩‍⚖️. SHOW THEM LOVE 💗 YOU ARE NOT THERE TO COLLECT FROM THEM ONLY. HELP MEMBERS, IN CHURCH THAT IS WHERE WE SHOULD BE SO LOVING 🥰 BUT INSTEAD THEY GOSSIP AND USED MEMBERS PROBLEMS AS SERMONS. MAY OSINACHI AND ALL THAT DEPARTED IN SUCH MANNER REST IN PERFECT 👍 PEACE ✌️ HAPPY EASTER 🐣 TOLU TO U AND YOUR FAMILY

[@olajumokeakosile1386]

Thank you ma. Thank you for the words. Kai. So much wisdom I was getting emotional.

[@KianaMcKenzie]

Tolulope. This is a conversation we needed to have

[@foluthebridge5269]

Rich rich video!! May God help us all to do better...Amen!

[@vivian.eni.official]

This is a whole message. Thank you Solutions for this message

[@Moren_chronicles]

Thanks for saying the reality and spiritual part of this. A whole pastor said that is her cup of suffering like what???

[@sandrabaweze2352]

Come to think of it.... sometimes we make people do what they do... you're super right that's e truth

[@phoebe_toria4337]

Well done Mama. You made me love KZbin ever since I started following you here in 2019, your vlogs are really Inspiring, I just can't help but watch some more than once. Thank you for being an advocate of healthy love and good values. Your consistency through the years is beautiful to see. Been here since 30k plus subscribers and will still be here at 200k and more! I look forward to Soteria and Pastor Gbemiga's birthday and all and your five years wedding anniversary celebration as well.😅 Well done woman of God. I pray that you are strengthened and are encouraged whenever you need to be. Thank you so much.

[@estherojo6165]

God bless you, Tolu for these words. We christians need to do better.

[@BloomwithChi]

Thank you Tolulope Solutions for this Easter message! Praying for more of God's wisdom in your life. 🙏🏾

[@toulackbonwi6836]

Happy Easter solutions mama. I love you!❤

[@rebeccabagulo5645]

Well said mama 👍🏻 love you ❤️

[@olufunke]

Thanks Tolu this is a healing message

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Love to hear it! Thank u

[@VicDaramola]

Same mind Mum! I reminded my siblings earlier today of a very popular minister of God in Nigeria, who divorced his wife. I reminded them of the uproar in the society and said, the same society that said the woman should have left her marriage crucified the man of God for divorcing his wife, then. Throughout this agitations, my words remain that, no one has an idea! Her fame is one of those things that silenced her and kept her in the relationship.

[@LaurieKayIntl]

"Do you know the role you've played in making her stay?" Mercy Lord. God have mercy on us all

[@Floralhairtouch]

God bless you momma

[@estherelufowoju3166]

Tolu I'm glad you addressed the issue with wisdom and if anything that is one of your gifts. In terms of those judging your sisters what is wrong with them, they are young girls living life not wayward, secondly we all live different lives and our journey/walk in Christ is different. Just today on FB I read something which not just shocked me but everyone who read this persons comment. It is to do with Ooni of Ife's wife Silekunayomi who celebrated her 29th birthday few days ago, the. author who posted the story now said "The Queen Naomi causes commotion on her 29th birthday". Guess what this persons comments were and I quote from the comment box "What is so special about her, what commotion has she caused? You better don't deceive her. A single parent evangelist" Hmm so look at that. A lot of people have been blaming Osinach but one thing I have been saying is these kind of statements is what made her endure and because Africans are so backward its hard for people live their lives without putting other people first. This is a woman who was the breadwinner sometimes when things like this happen to women we think its because they are not financially independent but this woman was, all she needed to do was to separate like you said she didn't even need to divorce, get her mum to live with her so she can keep an eye on the children when she goes to hassle. Divorce would have killed her career because I watched a reaction video on this same U-tube where a minister narrated how even her own church blocked her from ministering in church and even other places where she was invited, she got a call from a place where she was meant to go and minister last minute just for them to say sorry it had to be cancelled as they have just been informed by the church that she is divorced🤔.

[@sunshine2041]

This post! This is exactly my thought! Thank you!

[@AdjoaJosephine7724]

I'm here Solutions mama 💕..... We as human beings and Christians should be empathetic..... God bless and give you strength to fulfill that purpose. You are loved.....

[@jumokevictoria2503]

God bless you mama TS God is your exceedingly great reward Your relevance is preserved

[@Maame_Tee18]

Wow this message is deep and powerful. I learnt so much. Thank you Solution Mama for sharing this with us.

[@kemiishola564]

You're fire....nice one....keep it up. God Almighty will give you directions for your passion. Love your content....this can only be God.

[@gwendolinendi7063]

Great message ma. Thank you. Its not ours to condemn and throw away people loved by God. It doesn't mean we condone with sin but as bible instructs, the one who is responsive to and controlled by the Holy Spirit should adress the trespass yet restore them gently....What more of people suffering but can't help themselves because of what we would say??? Galatians 6:1 (Message Bible)Live creatively, friends. If someone falls into sin, forgivingly restore him, saving your critical comments for yourself. You might be needing forgiveness before the day's out. Stoop down and reach out to those who are oppressed. Share their burdens, and so complete Christ's law. If you think you are too good for that, you are badly deceived. It's so painful we expect God to continually be gracious to us yet we can't show that same grace to others. GOD HAVE MERCY

[@sweetlychee269]

Hi Tolu I hear what you're saying and just to add I'm in my 50s and i separated from my ex over 15yrs ago marriage is difficult it is also a beautiful thing also it is an institution of empowerment whether good or bad everything works well for the glory of God live or die where ever your marriage is seek wisdom of God and raise good children according to the will of God that is the lesson to take away from this story we cant speak on behalf of individual marriages DNA is never the same and ultimately the divine plan of is never within our reach that woman could have been me but divine plan and wisdom took care of that so that I'm alive and thriving today many look down on me, especially in my own group God has taught me to see such people as small-minded and he exalts my head every day

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