This Is The Hardest Part Of Parenting

In this candid vlog, join me as I navigate the challenges of parenting while addressing the sensitive issue of managing my baby's eczema flare-ups. As a parent, I know firsthand the overwhelming emotions that come with witnessing your little one's discomfort. Through this video, I share my experiences, tips, and insights on how to handle eczema outbreaks effectively, from soothing techniques to skincare routines. Join the conversation and discover that you're not alone in facing this common parenting hurdle. Let's empower each other through knowledge and empathy. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more honest discussions on parenting struggles and triumphs. #ParentingStruggles #EczemaAwareness #MomLife
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Hi we are the Varney Family. Our names are Kaylie and Mason and we have three daughters: Kinsley, Aria and Isla.
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[@Usr24b18]

I am telling this from experience. Having kids is the most beautiful and most heart breaking experience ever. There will always be struggles, there just keep changing as they grow up. Always remember that you both are best parents your daughters could ever have. Where do get all this wisdom and so much patience, while being so young. Your daughter are blessed to have parents like you both and vice versa. Kids have a magical way of growing up. It seems hard, but it will get better.

[@theresa9925]

Bless Isla's heart & yours. Hang in there pretty, sweet, kind, loving Kaylie. Your kids are so lucky to have you & Mason as their parents. I have a list of people I pray for each day...your family is on my list. Sending hugs & love!

[@theclumsyyme]

Don't feel low kaylie! Isla being so hard and clingy will definitely make you and mason more patient and better parents. Who knows maybe your grandchildren will be more clingy and hard. ❤❤

[@VarneyFamily]

Her clingyness can definitely be hard at times. But the hardest part of parenting for me is dealing with her eczema & allergies 🥺 I feel so bad for her. But I know I’ll miss my clingy baby when she gets older ❤ I love getting extra cuddles

[@TheRandomnesschannel26]

@@VarneyFamily Kaylie, you are a gorgeous woman, and such a loving Mom. I know you can do this. Using hydro-cortizone cream always helps when I have flare ups. If that doesn't work, aquaphor or Vaseline should help. I hope this helps ☺

[@helenkvale3515]

you are the most amazing parents love the easter baskets and the hunt and aria getting so funny she was almost pretendting she didnt see everything earlier it will get better with isla i believe it those pj are a great idea to sooth her skin God is with you to make you strong to handle this issue

[@b.maaouiamarwa7798]

you are the best mom ever ❤ she will be perfectly fine ❤❤❤

[@kathyhuffman8419]

I AM PRAYING THAT ISLA GETS BETTER YOU AND MASON ARE GREAT PARENTS TAKE CARE

[@vanessabravo8712]

Awe 😢😢 So sorry Kaylie and Mason!! It's so scary as a parent when something like that happens! 😭 Soy allergies are so difficult, my heart goes out to you guys! Unfortunately, it is in soooooo many foods. My kids and I are really sensitive to it too. It's a struggle, but you get better at scanning labels. And don't worry about school, most schools are good about protecting kids with allergies. I bet her Eczema gets tons better once you eliminate the soy from her diet. Watch for soy lecithin too, I can't even have that in small amounts. 😢 You've got this guys, you're wonderful caring parents and we're all praying for you!! 💜💜💜

[@mrs.dinahsaur7195]

Isla is soooooooo excited about anything!!

[@Carr081411]

I am so sorry! I hope she does grow out of it. Keep staying strong for her and keep yourself educated and journal everything

[@lorifoster6777]

So you know Isla is probably clingy partly because she is so uncomfortable with the eczema. You know you are doing everything you can to treat or get rid of the problem. Isla is only one so please don’t worry about school, yet. Keep praying and your subscribers that pray, will pray with you for Isla and have faith she will get better. I know it’s easy for me to say as I’m not her parent, but I had worrisome issues with my kids, like depression and anxiety for my daughter and Asperger’s with my son and now they are both fully adjusted adults. Keep up your faith and God will take care of you and Isla. Bless you and your sweet family. I believe things are all going to work out.

[@Lightyagami44444]

This is the cutes and emotional video i have seen in whole day 😢

[@beckydurham3366]

You guys are doing everything possible AND without a support group nearby! I can't believe that the doctors aren't finding answers for you! Have you exhausted every medical option? Despite all of the challenges that have come your way lately you have created a fun and loving atmosphere for the kids - as for us! I know it's hard to remind yourself that it won't be this way forever. There are so many "what ifs". I've got grandkids and I've found that the thing that works for me is to remember how many low points we've had over the years and yet we recovered over and over again and are still going. Love to you all.🐥🐥🐣🐣🐣

[@susieangelique2669]

I am praying for you, for your whole family, but especially, Isla. I pray she is miraculously cured or just grows out of it.

[@SabrinaMarie123.]

The quietness is REAL when all the kiddos are in bed! lol , and cute little baskets! ❤️

[@lauraanderson6255]

You are amazing mom and dad❤happy Easter

[@Bee26894]

It was 9:29 when I was watching this, that’s crazy, but kailey, don’t worry I’m I’m always here for you even though we’re probably never going to see each other but trust me I support you through the screen and I understand well I kind of think I was a clingy baby too. I wouldn’t stop breastfeeding until I was two so don’t worry, my mum went through the same thing you’ll get through it but just soaking all the moments that you have kids and babies then they don’t like to get picked up anymore and be cuddled, mostly on the phone all the time.❤❤

[@hangwithfi]

Your girls are so incredibly lucky to have parents who love and care about them as deeply as you and Mason do ❤

[@baburaoganpatraoapte7417]

U guys r doing well with 3 daughters May God give U even more then what U desired 🙂 🙏

[@jilliepalladino4951]

This is going to sound crazy, I don't know if anybody's ever told you but breast milk on eczema actually helps. I know it sounds nuts but if you wanna try putting your breastmilk on where she has a bad patch just to see if it would work. It won't harm her, but just to see if it would work because I know a lot of people have done it and it helped but again it all depends your baby and everything like that but don't for a second feel like you are less than anything. You are an amazing mother and you live your life for your three babies and you take care of them amazingly you are an amazing mother what you have to learn to start doing is taking a little time for yourself , not only do you need it? You deserve it. I've been watching you from the beginning. You've got this and you're an amazing family. God bless you all.

[@AntonioWilson-e3s]

Happy mother's day to you and the rest of your family

[@foofooberrygurl]

I understand your fears. School is still a bit a way. Try to just live in the moment take it minute by minute day by day. Sending lots of love and positive vibes your way ❤

[@kml7867]

It cracks me up how Kaylie always does the 🦞🦞pincher thing with her hands🦞🦞. It reminds me of a little kids song!🤣🤣

[@VarneyFamily]

Hahaha😂 idk why I do it when I watch it back i look like a crab.

[@brittanycoolidge4101]

So, I did not have this as a baby with soy but I did with lactose. If this helps to know, its going to be hard and I feel this pain because I was in pain as a baby too and they didn't test me for lactose allergy. Finally we figured it out and we had other options for dairy, but it was a long road. Just know you are doing the best you can an hopefully if this does continue as she gets older Isla will be able to vocalize fabrics and lotions that feel good on her so it is easier for you to help her be comfortable.

[@Tabby116]

The kids are all so cute getting excited over Easter 🐣

[@OshadiRansara]

Bless you sweet baby ❤❤ love you❤

[@moub72]

No worries. My daughter had eczema in childhood and it went away as she grew up. She has lactose intolerance though.

[@mrs.dinahsaur7195]

I loved Easter baskets, didn't stop until they were 30! They demanded them @😂😂😂❤❤

[@Tabby116]

You are a strong mom don’t feel bad you are a great mom Kaylie ❤❤❤

[@monicadevraj8138]

15:08 I need Arias eyelash routine :D

[@VarneyFamily]

Same 😂

[@gnostic268]

Idk if you will see this but I would try to find a functional medicine doctor who takes pediatric patients. I had eczema out of the blue several years ago although I'm an adult. I have had episodes periodically throughout my life and no one could help me. I also went to an allergy doctor who was absolutely no help. I am allergic to certain things which I already knew about. Anyway, I started researching and found out that I was having histamine over-reactions from food. This often won't show up in allergy tests however but the histamine levels in food are much higher the older food is as in frozen, canned, fermented, etc. Salicylates and oxalates also can affect histamine levels. There are a lot of Facebook groups that have great ideas how to FOD map for foods that can cause reactions. Good luck to Isla!

[@kathleenKnight1312]

My husband had really bad eczema when he was baby and he would cry all the time from it. He wasn’t diagnosed with it until he was two. It took doctors a while to figure out what it was. He did grow out of it. I hope she grows out of it as well! You are doing an amazing job and are a great mom! I just wanted to leave a comment to give a little bit of hope.

[@alicechamberlain6411]

You two are very lucky you have three beautiful girls !!! Bless you all!!!!!

[@traceyl7519]

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[@jodiegatz4191]

My daughter had skin issues at an early but it just cleared up. It was much milder than Isla’s but I hope it goes away too! ❤

[@dampam4273]

Great video...Isla biting the table...sweet girl! ❤❤

[@darthbooks2005]

U guys are amazing ❤❤❤ hope baby Isla is okay xx

[@Amanda__Gaming]

have a great happy Easter fun your family break?😍😍

[@mystarry9684]

Kaylie, you and Mason are great parents. I know you are so worried about Isla and her future. However by then she may have outgrown much of this. And if she does have allergies, she will learn and so will you, to have alternatives. You really don't want to pity her. Babies are smart, and Isla is really smart, and pity just causes more issues. And it all causes unhappiness. How about walking this burden up to God and asking him to take it. It's so much on you, and leaving it to God creates new avenues of healing for everyone. I've lived with a disease called mast cell. I have constant rashes, eczema and allergies. Honestly Kaylie I've learned organic food, fragrance free products, especially for sheet and creams and showers help a lot. I've not been tested for soy but I stay away from it. You may want to read up on GMO foods. Honestly Kaylie, in the end Isla may help everyone be healthier and wiser. My prayers are with you friend. You're not alone. And such a beautiful Easter you and Mason did for the kids.

[@VarneyFamily]

Thank you sooo much ❤

[@preetamshetty6679]

Wishing darling Isla a super speedy recovery... Har Har Mahadev 🙏

[@lisakeeton9982]

Yal are in my prayers

[@aubreycayson6410]

We will also be praying for our boss baby 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@safiabashir5929]

@varneyfam first off I'm so sorry for isla's eczema and allergies poor baby and second you and Mason are doing a great job feeding her and getting rid of her itchy hands if you see this message please send me a comment and I love you all so much

[@gobinda4130]

I am a regular viewer of ur channel and based on your info shared in the video I can vouch that please for once try ayurvedic medicine and come and visit India so that Isla can be ok for her whole life and not worry about it as a regular viewer of ur channel i urge you guys to come India and try ayurvedic medicine and treatment for the little baby❤

[@nakuruist]

I think they can find this Indian community in USA. 🙏 ❤Because in USA huge diversity of nations and different communities

[@mareahgoody8546]

Hi have you tried an oat bath for her it works wonders on my grandkids exmaza you can get it from health shops or on line its all natural ingredients with extractes of camomile hope thus helps ❤

[@Soso_Sonne]

Isla is cute tho 🥹💖😍

[@christinawitzka4855]

I live with tons of allergies i hate when this happens i get scared and refuse to try new things because of them :(

[@noeminkemachor5324]

With allergies she shouldn't eat out in the restaurant, it is hard but rather bring her food from home which you can control and know what is in the food.She is still small ,you can easily figure out what food she can't eat, but I am sure you did research on how to deal with the allergies. Don't worry too much it will get better when you will know how to deal with it.

[@aprilkearby6963]

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[@calstokes1984]

I would get a second opionion for the allergist and take her to a dermatologist and tell them you dont want steroid treatments there are treatments they can do. Light treatments helped my kids. You just have to be firm with the doctors and make sure they know you know your not a complete idiot but you know you dont know enough to do what she needs to get better. You are doing what you need to to help your daughter get better.

[@izzy12285]

Yea I second this. Bamboo sleepers and creams Will help with the symptoms but won't solve the root of the problem. She needs to get a second opinion from a dermatologist, preferably a pediatric dermatologist who will find other solutions and she needs to get a full allergen test because once you cut out all of her allergens her eczema will go away. You have to be firm and stand up for your kids because doctors will just shoo you away

[@josephanton6099]

Most schools have kids with allergies sit at a separate table during lunch just so they don’t eat anything they are allergic too. Plus you can give the school nurse an epi pen and they will give it to her if she has an allergic reaction. One of my granddaughters had eczema as a baby and it was pretty awful. But it miraculously went away when she turned one. Now she gets patches of it on her hands and legs now and they are hardly noticeable when she does get it. Please stop saying how clingy she is. She will be looking at these videos when she gets older and it may make her feel better. Plus now that she walks she seems to be more independent.

[@tonijohnson5606]

I've read that eczema is an inflammatory condition and related to Candida overgrowth in the digestive system (Candidiasis). So high sugar foods, highly processed foods, breads, sweats, baked goods and even very sweet fruits can exacerbate this condition. An anti-candida diet can help keep the overgrowth in check and bring back balance to the gut's microbiome, eliminating eczema and other topical flare ups. Topical remedies like creams and lotions will NOT get to the root of the issue. Please, please, please do some research around Candida overgrowth and how it impacts the body. Then talk to a physician before moving forward.

[@inavziolanam3748]

🥺 Isla is clingy for a reason she needs extra care of you guys you can just homeschool her like you suggested until she can fully understand that she cannot accept food from anyone because of the possible ingredients that will cause a severe allergic reaction to her

[@MultiAtlantagirl]

Cute baskets

[@falloutgirl6551]

Soo cute

[@IssReeverrBeaverr]

I’m Muslim I do not celebrate Easter but happy easter

[@aubreycayson6410]

Oooooooooh no moo cow is crying, 😭 😭 😭 😭 😭 we feel your pain. we wish we can take the pain from THE BOSS BABY.🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂🙂☺️☺️☺️

[@jillmuscat4983]

There's Facebook group for kids with allergies and excema that might be helpful. I know you had a bad experience with an allergist, but I would try going to a different allergist and a new pediatrician.

[@KalyanJKB]

😄

[@CharlesWhitford]

It _is_ unfair, cause Isla's just a baby. Almost brought me to tears. And yes, DO homeschool her. Just remember, even _with_ both parents at her side in the Japanese restaurant, something unforeseeable happened. It happens. But sending her off to school will magnify the "unforseeable" a hundredfold. You cannot guarantee that the school will adhere to your instructions (about not giving her anything with soy) 100% of the time. These things can't be left to chance.

[@ajk8653]

Isla is running already. She was just walking

[@patriciajuarez9142]

Amen Jesus gots you and all the things your dealing with…

[@linglingmanzano1443]

Don’t worry your a good Mom, maybe visit a dermatologist for Baby Isla’s excema to treat it

[@genevievegosselin3217]

Go see a different allergist, and the moment you get in that office you tell them “this is what happened with this other person. Here are my expectations. If you don’t agree with what I want please explain to me why instead of dismissing my concerns.” You’re a young mom of three and you’re gonna have to be assertive because there will always be people to dismiss you. It sucks, but it is what it is. When you talk to a doctor about the miso incident, don’t forget to mention that you guys were in contact with bunnies not long before. If she’s sensitive to that, her immune system might have been already fighting when you introduced another allergen and increased the reaction.

[@staceywilliamson4141]

Well suppose this was worth the six or seven day wait we endured.

[@Mike_Wilson_KJV]

I just found your channel. My recommendation is to switch your daughter over to EVERYTHING, All Natural & Organic products. All Natural & Organic food, drinks, soaps, shampoo, laundry detergent, creams, lotions, toothpaste, deodorant, baby powder, etc., and don't use dryer sheets or fabric softeners when you wash her clothes. Also switch her clothing over to All Natural & Organic fabrics (i.e. Organic Cotton, Linen, Bamboo Fiber, Hemp, etc.), and stay away from all the Synthetic Petrochemical Products like Polyester, Nylon, Rayon, etc.; switch her bedding over as well with All Natural & Organic sheets, pillows, blankets, etc. Start using All Natural & Organic products to clean your home as well, and don't use synthetic aerosol sprays (synthetic air fresheners wreak havoc on my allergies). Basically, if the Ingredients read like a Chemistry Experiment, put it back on the shelf. For her diet, try to eliminate Artificial Colors, Artificial Flavors, Artificial Sweeteners, Additives, Preservatives, Fillers, and Genetically Modified Organisms / GMO's. Some Artificial Dyes are known to cause a myriad of health problems including eczema and other kinds of allergies. Personally, I'm convinced that all of the Artificial and Synthetic products that we are exposed to on a daily basis are the primary culprit for the myriad of health problems that are plaguing our society. I wish you the best in finding solutions for your baby.

[@SravanRajanala]

Iyalla ❤¢🇮🇳

[@IssReeverrBeaverr]

When I was baby my mum put me to bed and just put the medicine in my mouth

[@Arabellasky]

Where are you guys live?

[@sushmaagarwal4137]

What happened, new videos are not coming.

[@davidtrishhope9841]

You have to be careful in what you wash her clothes in

[@YOUFAILME.]

You know what I do, is I put the rain sound in the baby room so no sounds I make will wake him up.

[@Katherine-uj1lf]

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[@preetamshetty6679]

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[@hugsforlove]

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