This is where you can ignore him! So he would step it up 🥰

[@GretaBereisaite]

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[@mpfree7]

If you are dating a guy who is "perceiving your tears as submission" and "uses your vunerabilities to win an argument" you should not "ignore" him, you should dump him imediately.

[@danilaroche1156]

Often men, even good men do this & sometimes it's unconscious. There is a power issue between the sexes that began after the fall in the garden of Eden, unfortunately.

[@danilaroche1156]

I'm not bragging but I've never had a man talk about another girl. Ever. HOWEVER, I've had a man back up when things got more serious. First instinct is to run after him but I ignored them & it wasn't easy. They always came back. Snapped back like a rubber band. Men are truly different from us.

[@liqu4214]

if a guy uses your vulnerabilities against you DUMP HIM ASAP!!! this is WORST than cheating...its a NO-GO!!! do not EVER forgive him!!

[@danilaroche1156]

I disagree. Cheating is a deal breaker. Even the Bible says so. However, if a person is truly contrite. Truly sorry, we are called to forgive. We don't have to reconcile but Jesus calls us to forgive.

[@serenitygilles7064]

It's not a terrible title ....it's the truth . Men acting like jerks is the terrible part where we have to do this..but it means we value self

[@nurseaifel]

Greta, you're wearing my favorite color 😍 PINK!! Love et! Thanks for what you are teaching to women

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

Greta, unfortunately, you are right. I rejected many men and they pointed to my vulnerabilities every single time because handling rejection is too tough for them. Notably, they ridicule me for my age when I reject them to make themselves feel good which is understandable. 👿

[@deejames1st]

Anyone who can’t handle a polite rejection with kindness and well wishes is a huge red flag. So they proved you right with their bad reactions.

[@MyAkachi]

You dodged a bullet with them.

[@honeymayfair-rt9tc]

👍👍👍excellent excellent analysis to share !! Beautiful pink sweater 👍👍

[@queennjideka5596]

I dated a guy for one year and six months and each time I bring up marriage talk he always says he's not ready, so I asked him when he will be ready he said he DNT know, he wants to build house buy lands , cars before he start thinking of getting married, I gave him a Time frame to plan himself and come and do d needful he told me no need for that , he's not ready so I ended the relationship, Greta hope I did d right thing???

[@isaidwhatisaid4130]

Yes, you did. If someone doesnt respect your presence, you give them your absense

[@freyavalentina3153]

Yes you did. A year and a half is plenty of time to know if they want to marry you. Don't let these men waste your time.

[@b.services9851]

Yes you did right, plus if he wants to come back, he has to come back with a ring

[@A_W2016_love]

Yes you did, he should know if you’re the one even if it’s a future promise to get married. My husband and I met he was 19 me 21 and he knew he wanted me as his wife took 14 years till we got married to not get ourselves in debt. But it was our loyalty and bond that I knew was most important. And he kept his word. I didn’t force him or ask him.

[@danilaroche1156]

You absolutely did the right thing.

[@diyapramanick3952]

Thank you greta! Love you!

[@chlariepeace3093]

Love pick top

[@Meghnaa3860]

What to do when a guy is just talking for sexual pleasures like expecting me to give him nudes and I'm not comfortable.. So in this we must ignore like?

[@freyavalentina3153]

Never send a man nudes. He will use them against you later and show his friends.

[@A_W2016_love]

Not serious my husband never asked me for nudes.

[@Heavenlysky89]

Absolutely and block him too

[@danilaroche1156]

What? Heck no. He sounds like a dirt bag. Remember you are God's beautiful, beloved daughter. Never forget that.

[@freyavalentina3153]

My bf started our relationship telling me how hot his ex is. He said it 4 times in a month. I didn't react. Then I told him he's still in love with her and he denied it. I'm not sure if he's trying to make me jealous or wants her back..

[@77sunflowers]

He's still in love with her....

[@amyb210]

For me it might be both. But if it's to make you jealous, it's because he has zeeero self-esteem which might be difficult and unhealthy. Not sure if you should settle down for that.

[@lugm1034]

Hon it s a button push. Learn to banter back. Next time he says she was so hot you can say with a worried face like this one 😮. Oh no, so she left you bc you were out of her league? ( Then you can smile or laugh so he knows you are jocking)

[@A_W2016_love]

Red Flag. When I started dating my now husband. He was in 1000% he even was going through stuff saw a pic of him and his ex and tore it up. She also messaged him once she found out he had a new gf and I told him you do what you want but if you message her cuz you want her it’s fine but I’m done. He never did because he knew what that relationship was like and wanted to see how our story would turn out.

[@mariaaaa1128]

Sounds like rebound