This Stops 95% Of People From Being Confident

[@JulienHimself]

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[@finooch]

Find my comment (grieving the ego death… or, if not death, where does it go?)

[@gamtoszinios1336]

Your are coper scammer if you ugly its over for you bro wake up blackpill.

[@gamtoszinios1336]

It doesnt matter people will call police or psych ward because your looks

[@LyraCelestine]

YOUR judgement is not even yours. Its the idea that fitting into a "box" is all you know. ​@gamtoszinios1336

[@joyfuljourney3134]

I really didn't know what I wanted to be when I was younger. At 35, I'm just now tapping into the real me. I'm pushing myself out of my comfort zone and I have accountability and personal investment. I'm trying to not feel guilty for being a "late" bloomer.

[@herantomas20]

dont feel youre late, you have started and going towards it. I am happy for you keep going:)

[@StabbingKnifes]

You're not late at all. Don't compare yourself to others. This is your own journey and you're setting major steps towards becoming the real you. That's awesome! Congrats.

[@chronitized]

@joyfuljourney3134

[@r34ct4]

I am in the same position as you and at 35 I am trying not to feel guilty for being a "late" bloomer too. Your comment (knowing I'm not alone) helps a lot. Hope my comment reciprocates. Thanks man

[@j00f]

I'm 38 and I still don't know what I want to do. There are many things I'm interested in, but it's hard to choose one and ditch the rest.

[@Lefty-1909]

I'm trying to be more confident and face my anxiety and so far I've been able to eat in the cafeteria and I signed up to be an eco ambassador for my school and my anxiety is telling me I can't do it but I really want to so I'm not letting it in my way and I know I can do it!!

[@avasinha9764]

Don't listen to your anxiety......prove it wrong always...never believe it....I did on the past and I regret it.

[@Lefty-1909]

@@avasinha9764 yea so have I and I don't have long left at school and I don't want to feel like I backed out of evey opportunity I had because you can't go back.

[@suzuki8951]

I did the same at school. I rejected every opportunity. Well, I passed out school. But i found myself doing the same in college but it's time that i drop the mask

[@strangely_amelien]

I just recently told myself "enough is enough" Because I was so tired of telling myself "get over your anxiety, be confident, talk to more people" but never actually trying to do it. For years its felt like an endless cycle of dealing with social anxiety which prevented me from literally doing anything, just going out and stepping into a cafe made my heart drop, or going anywhere far into a city. Even just trying to get a job. I kept telling myself how useless I was. I still do sometimes. I'm 21 now, I've been going out a little more, and am able to ask people for directions or for help. I can also buy things more myself now too. I'm hoping that one day I can be the person I've fantasized to be. Be Social, speak my mind, walk up to a person and say "hey you're handsome!" and just be comfortable anywhere I go. To be comfortable with myself and not worry so much about anything. That's who I want to be.

[@JimmyBeamerBear]

I’m still chasing my dream and I’ll die trying. I am now an extremely talented musician. Even if I don’t get to where I vision, I have real fulfillment because I chased me being me. By the way I can’t believe the content you allow for free. I can’t imagine what I get if I apply for courses

[@JulienHimself]

Yes, fulfillment doesn't come from "more" of that dream... It's about aligning yourself with it and walking the path! 👌

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@Lefty-1909]

I've wanted to be an author and got put down but I've learnt to not listen them but to listen to my true self and also my creative writing teacher who actually has a degree in creative writing and actually believes in Mr and it helps me not to give up!!

[@stanguitars]

Thanks a lot Julien for this video and everything you do, you're a huge inspiration for me. 6 months ago I've found myself in the dark place: my wife left, leaving me a goodbye note and then next moment I've got the news that my father passed away. In one single day my whole life went upside down. But eventually that terrible day made my life go rather up than down and I'm so thankful to you for pointing me into the right directions (such as Letting Go) to get moving, get over and become better. Anyways, I just wanted to call out that accepting who you are today (even if that's a fake version of yours) is an important step on a journey towards changing. Because if you don't accept who you became - you'll probably hate yourself which is never good. Here accepting wouldn't mean giving up on a change, that's rather the starting point for it. So I believe one should start with accepting whichever fakes they became, understanding that they did it under the social conditioning pressure and then moving towards their true selves by exploring their values and authenticity. So just wanted to drop this comment for the community - don't hate yourselves for what you've become, accept it, own it and start moving forward. There's interesting journey awaits you there!

[@djebarazidan103]

i will start to take action .... thank you

[@neevshriker9458]

Love your vibe and message bro you realy helped me and lots of people to change our lives for the best❤

[@JulienHimself]

Thank you! Glad to hear my content has been helpful for you! 🙏

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@melomet3789]

Outfit on point as usual. Looks like a scifi Luchador

[@Nick.D.]

Best video so far! No matter what happened, we don't have the right to play small! Really hit home for me. - Also the point of toxic relationship with oneself and u're doing exactly what u're trying to avoid, what a fallacy. Thx for painting this picture of one abusing himself. Fuuuck that brings lot of shit up while immediatly shifts taking place.

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@aniaw597]

I love your outfit. Not enough bold myself to dress up like that. But you look great😊

[@brandonroque2226]

I have an inverse experience with this. I had a lot of people around me who told me I could be anything (and outside of their suggestions, as Julien suggests, I did have more specific dreams for myself). I was never really told by anyone to put away my unrealistic expectations. Rather, my own inner voice was and still is so punishing toward any semblance of failure or imperfection along the learning process that it stifled my expression.

[@kn478]

i understand, i never lived up to the hype & disappointed those that believed in me. Still now i have not given up fighting against this negative thought but it is hard.

[@suzuki8951]

I had the same experience i was the one who didn't dare to out to get what i want

[@danielolvera8032]

That outfit is rad

[@JulienHimself]

🕺🕺

[@alexwm369]

You're like the only self help person that I can truly resonate with🙏

[@parkermanns9143]

same bro

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@Florianpimpf]

the joke with the tiny usb ports was so funny, even though i heard that story a thousand times by now, i had a got laugh off this HAHAHA!

[@KJab21512]

I know 2 minutes into this video, that I need the other 27. Thank you sir. Thank you for dressing the way you did. Showing the confidence you did; and reminding me to stop trying to be so great because it makes everyone around me uncomfortable. You're amazing.

[@KJab21512]

Next Day Update: Today I wore a full zipped up long sleeve, and a pendant necklace I've tucked away for 15 years since it was always considered too flamboyant to wear. Today I rocked it; and felt like the sexiest man walking around town. When I spoke to the cashier, and she put in the extra effort. I reminded her with a large bounding smile how she is the best; and I appreciate her. Stared her in the eyes and watched that smile explode across her face. I needed this video. I needed to be reminded of my greatness.

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@Crypto-dn8up]

Every once in a while, when I lose confidence I watch a Video of you. Your advice is so valuable! Thank you for making these videos man!

[@xoxxw]

you realize that confidence is nothing that is lost, but supressed.

[@c3realpt]

Your content is a brilliant fusion of spiritual wisdom and self-help. It’s been incredible to witness your growth and learn from your journey. Thank you for the constant inspiration!

[@komeitakano7976]

I’ve been following your content for a couple years, but for some reason, I’m rethinking my whole self after you said that comfort zone doesn’t mean good it’s just familiar

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@avatarkush1734]

This is the best one yet. Thank you

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@ChessMasteryOfficial]

Just graduated (electrical engineering), parents are pressurizing to get a job, but I'm working on my channel and coaching people online. Leaving a dream!

[@fionamolloy4357]

I find when you tell people you want to do something you always have someone say you wouldn't be able to that. I don't get involved with people who put down others very selective now who I share ideas with as they will always put you off it. Surround yourself with people who make u feel good about yourself.

[@MichaelTaalman]

When I was young and someone asked me what I wanted to be I'd say, a jaguar.

[@philofblood855]

You are the only one holding you back !

[@elinek5470]

You are never too old 😋

[@stuart3808]

There is *so* much value in this one talk. ❤

[@DocHoliday444]

Remarkable how simply telling the truth and dealing with things the way they actually are can become so extraordinary and impactful. We've all been fed bullshit for so long, being convinced it's full of vitamins.

[@Erakko-]

I never had any answer to what I wanna do when I'm older. Except maybe that I'll paint and go bowling - which I do as a hobby. I'm now 33 and I still don't know what I want to do if I don't have my current job.

[@Leojw10]

Im 18 and have currently suffered social anxiety for 2 years now and i have no friends im way too insecure about myself and idk what i would be good at idk how im gonna get a job idk what i want to do for the future to be honest

[@splinterborn]

​@@Leojw10I felt the same way around 17/18. I'm now 27 and feel the same.

[@gabrielgabriel5177]

Etsä ainakaa erakko oo

[@Thatquietgirl888]

As a 30 year old, I've just accepted that from an early age, I never really wanted to be anything. I'm just in a world that forces me to be or do something. I mean sure, I put down "artist" as my career of choice, and in a large way, that still rings true today. But luckily, I'm on disability for a serious mental illness, so I have the time and space to do whatever I want. I know to this day, I'm too tired and depressed to keep up with a job. I need all the rest I can get from the exhaustive list of demands and expectations from society.

[@Thatquietgirl888]

​@leowagstaff2113 kinda wondering why you've only been suffering with it for 2 years and what the triggering event that caused the anxiety in the first place was. I know for me I've been suffering from this my entire life. I had friends growing up, but I'll be honest- I'm 30 years old now and I'm just as lost as you are. I wish I knew the right path for you career wise, but I think a big part of that will take reconditioning your lens in which you see life. I suggest seeing Heidi Priebes video on toxic shame. It could really benefit you.

[@JimmyBeamerBear]

A dream is just a vision with steps

[@JulienHimself]

🔥👊

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@Aleks_Mechanics]

Notification squad Have a nice weekend!🔥🔥🔥

[@JulienHimself]

🔥🔥🔥

[@stumbling]

If you can't accept me at my axe murdering psychopath, you don't deserve me at my gaslighting narcissist.

[@shayanbeyrooti9633]

I can't thank you enough for your teachings.

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@shayanbeyrooti9633]

@@djebarazidan103 I have started the process recently like 1 month and although this technique requires way more time than this I can see minor results in myself. It is worth mentioning that I haven't participated his seminars or courses cause I am in another country. I said this so you know if you are going to decide.

[@binyamgebregziabher]

Julien the legend 🚀🚀🚀

[@hazeno1thomas]

Julien if i don't have knowledge about something does it affect my confidence?like it's so hard to be confident when you are stuck in something that requires knowledge you don't currently have, that's a problem i have

[@benedictcumberbatch4944]

just focus your best on learning and acquiring knowledge, know that whether you have knowledge or not, you’re still you

[@taralyncarlsen211]

Be open and curious. Ask questions, and don’t let anyone make you feel bad for not knowing something - that’s just their insecurities projected onto you. You don’t need to know everything in order to be confident in who you are. on the other hand if the lack of knowledge is affecting your job performance, that’s tricky and I’ve been there. Try figuring out areas you DO have a lot of knowledge in and consider aligning with something that fits more with that - you’ll find you’re more passionate and attractive here too. Best of luck!

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@ShadowRavenGaming222]

I realized a lot about myself today as I watched this. I got a lot of work to do, but it starts today. I’m more nervous now thinking about it but the thing I fear I’m making a reality by not doing anything about it so I must do something right?.

[@latoyiab79]

You got this! Good luck.

[@d1rtyharry378]

I don't have any problem with strangers. I am quite confident when I am alone. I used to think I am not but it turns out I am. I am not confident with mutual friends. I am friends with some mutuals and we chat but when we meet in groups I get stifled. Why? I think when I am with them alone I can talk endlessly and build strong relationships. But when I am in the group along with my friends I cannot talk! I sense that I don't fit in.

[@alextrainor2552]

this man makes me cry for my 5 year old son

[@madprops4615]

When i let go and stop caring, it ends badly for me. I always fuck up whatever it is and i just land right back at square one. My depression causes me to self sabotage on a regular basis and im at a point in my life where i just dont want to be here anymore. I wish i had the strength to fix things but im weak and i realize that im beyond saving.

[@paytonthornberry1382]

I'm only 22 and still have a lot to learn, but not even a year ago today, I was heavily addicted to cocaine and marijuana. I couldn't stop self sabotaging and people I talked to about it thought I was either lying/ over-exaggerating or it didn't make sense to them because on the surface in a decent looking at least; capable on the surface kid. I've been in and out of 5 or so mental hospitals, and it hurt me not to be able to get across to people that I was dying. I felt dead already so I didn't do anything about it until I found something when meditating and spending time in nature by myself(where I had always been) and something I didn't do at younger ages even though I enjoyed it. Whatever that thing is for you; is what will save you. Create a routine and do it. Everyday even if it becomes hard. Don't do too much too soon. That will only make you upset when you can't achieve your own standards. Build them.

[@hurry_3243]

Thank you Julien ❤️❤️

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@TheDeadlyJake]

Great video but damn is that mirror in the center distracting lol

[@FishingtonBurpPuzzle]

Even if you're on the fence you can try it for a short time and see what happens being your passionate authentic self.

[@niklasp1978]

i just love this man.

[@JolinHard]

Brilliant

[@scoobybrazzers7874]

W VIDEO JULIEN

[@scmcdougal8917]

Fashoon oh and I like you helping methods on point

[@krissifadwa]

He just shared a nice technique at the very end of the video on how to remove trauma. I'm not sure if anyone caught onto that. It actually works. It's just you have to figure this out on your own, by yourself. It's worth it.

[@DeeloGoodquest]

Gah damn, I am PUMPED UP for Monday. Let's GO!

[@slowdeathguru]

LOL omg, I love you Julien. This had me cracking up because it hits so damn home lol Thank You

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@aimit8727]

can you make a channel where you talk all this in Hindi language using some voice actor, i want my parents to see this but they don't understand much english I'm kinda being selfish here but... or maybe i should try tell them these things i.e. trauma, conditioning, letting go in my own words... i mean i have already tried telling them about this a few times but they just don't wanna understand what I'm saying, what should i do? i don't earn any money yet so i don't think i can just leave them a be myself, my dream right now is to create content as a gamer, but i just can't really be myself making videos because my parents keep telling me to get a degree and i also feel like they are judging me me when i record any videos, i can't be loud when recording videos. what should i do, please help sorry maybe it's stupid question to ask to begin with

[@LakeCrystal]

Those glasses are 🔥

[@sam_leLib]

😢How can you fulfill what you deeply want but you can’t because you have responsibilities as a father and protector of the family? Will you take risks and eventually drown every one in the boat with you or just follow this awkward society like a sheep but at least give you kids a decent growth…😢

[@fosminclorin]

Did you have kids before you were ready?

[@Ben_Dover753]

Your kids come first, maybe there's space in between or they're grown but they come first. Idk, I'm some nobody, you don't know but yeah.

[@Starfruit77]

Heya Julian! I’m Rui, the youngest one there. I met you in person in this seminar. Remember me and my name? Glad I went here and listened to the seminar. It was a great experience and met new people, despite being the youngest there. I just wish I got more contacts. If anyone went there and met me, please let me know! Would love to connect with you! Great work!

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@Starfruit77]

@@djebarazidan103 Oh well, I tried for a long time. Results were slow for me, but overtime I did see a change in how I feel. So letting go does help with your mental health.

[@blackphysicalexperimentation]

True true! I have this yt channel and a other one and I love o live this dream out ! Im known!💪🏻😎 .u are sooo fantastic man!! 😄😁💪🏻😝

[@OhLongJohnsonn]

You style Is lit 🔥

[@olivitaspochasTV]

When you are a child you don't even understand or process how the world around you really works, that's why it's way easier to pick one option. That power that you talk about is just as you said it, a fantasy. I usually understand your talks and share your opinions but in this case it's pretty clear how you are just making an excuse to generalize things in your likeness A class of 10 year old childs would react exactly the same. Dreams are dreams, and treating them as a reality is one of the REAL reasons of why people loses that "motivation" Hope you doing amazing there are some things that are right but they are very general, and really really driven by your personal trauma, you are talking more to yourself than to the room, and they showed you. It's a shame because this kind of people are the ones that feel that their personal experiences resumes other people's live because they can make a bussines out of their emotional lost or selfcare, sometimes giving more doubt than enlightment to other people. Other things where good as always, but as you said, it's complex and when you have a situation that can't get resumed by this, it burns a little. but i hope things go amazing in the future🎉

[@heathergarland7089]

I Love his Sound Effects!!!🤣

[@royalgotenks8755]

JULIEN bro what do you think about HSP Personality?

[@Peter_Andrews]

You are truly helpful. Thank you.

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@lua5589]

Awesome content Julien, this is a complete Masterclass, for free!!!! I'm so glad I came across your videos 6 or 7 years ago while looking for a book, I think it was disease to please and after Letting Go (David Hawkins), I can tell you go deep in your process! Thanks a lot! Cheers from Brazil!❤🙏🏽🤗

[@mechatech9897]

*Identify the cause* Got it. Edit: Found it. Overthinking everything..

[@longting9336]

10 mins earlier julian do you have any advice when i try to speak up i feel like smth blocking me

[@JulienHimself]

Yes, you must learn how to LET GO of that... I'd suggest starting here: www.julienhimself.com/8p

[@markschwartz7725]

I would be unstoppable

[@VicenteLopez-p8z]

GUCCI GANG !!!

[@VicenteLopez-p8z]

😂

[@VicenteLopez-p8z]

Great stories and artistry 🎉

[@allaboardthegravytrain5987]

This outfit ❤

[@Aa-yk4qe]

I was good to go till 36 and now at 45 i was at my rock botttom. ...pulling myself up little mote day by day...though i am atva slow phase...but still i feel much better

[@indupati08]

And brother.. thanks fir revealing it. I had no idea whilecworld is thatvway but i dint know

[@MichalWck]

Julien always the GTA Online drip slayer

[@FatTonyTheSkipper]

Can someone explain more here? I am not englis and is hard to understand video

[@jaypunzalan714]

watch everyday in KZbin with subtitles if you don't know google translate.

[@lukeclaydon6670]

You are the man 👨 great 👍

[@Mustachioed_Mollusk]

Basically the 2023 version of a crazy guy screaming the truth at villagers.

[@ravg95]

Love your shades. How are these called?

[@srgetem]

yo

[@americanworldsuperbi]

I lust want gucci sunglasses bro

[@efil8884]

Julien's the mf'n man, all facts! Preach bro!!

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@indupati08]

So the actual solution is to be i the middle. To know its work... and direct it acc to our personality... nit misinterlretate we are... as kid we didnt know to interpretate. So get the voice. But learn who it tekks you

[@Mikesweightlossjourney]

Im here bc I want to be a better me 💪

[@ehmen93]

whats the story with the clothing bro? serious question is it a gimmick or what?

[@joyfuljourney3134]

I think his clothes are meant to encourage us to be bold and authentic

[@fosminclorin]

He's brave enough to wear what he wants, unlike most men who are too scared of that

[@ehmen93]

@@fosminclorin yea I figured that’s probably what the message he’s trying to send by wearing such a wild arrangement of clothing. Seems like a gimmick

[@riccardobarone384]

Yes just trust what you believed when had zero knowledge of basically everything and ignore the whole fucking humanity and the knowledge of the nature of objective limitations.

[@Abracadabra1111]

I can’t take him seriously in that outfit 😂 he looks like a Sacha Baron Cohen character 😂

[@delicious_seabass]

I don't know how seriously I can take this guy. I mean, he paid money for that outfit.

[@Jordan-n1m1u]

I wanna attend juliens seminar but dress as his pimpin polar opposite. Id rock an armani muscle shirt... rain boots/jacket... and a 80s fanny pack😂 ...but the real extra credit only comes if i can do it (even half) as confidently 😂

[@amalgamilabs537]

Im not sure what it is but there’s a Kendall from Succession adjacent element here

[@alias_peanut]

I don't know why juliem didn't say is not express maybe because they don't have an opinion or feeling about it bot that they are scared ? My 2🎌 cent

[@indupati08]

Those who succeeded didnt have ppl like family saying no. 2. These ppl who said no... only tried to make yiu see that if they dont support you.. you must work very hard... even if they do support. What to talk about if not. 2 thid got nothing to do with confidence. You are who yiu are. . Yiu are not what yiu are. A parent doesbt care forvposotion.3

[@indupati08]

Btw it takes time to get out of it... yiu neef to move yiurselg awat

[@indupati08]

2 things.. we dont know its occiring... and why it...

[@wesside9722]

I think he intentionally wear horrible outfits to prove he doesn’t give af about anyone opinion

[@RebootedMind]

Im not sure being a “late bloomer” is not the norm these days

[@julit87]

Incredible the coincidence about having cockroaches in your life as David Goggins, spraying them as a living before becoming successful in life. 😂

[@nicholasdavidson5683]

being yourself is some of the worst advice. "You can't improve yourself, because yourself sucks" like school for scoundrels says

[@amazingnaturals979]

By the thumbnail i thought the topic of the video was going to be something like, "Dressing like an idiot (Ali G) has to stop". 😂. I thought the arrow was pointing to the moronic looking shirts, glasses etc. I'm not trying to be mean... i genuinely thought that was going to be what the video was about. You put out some solid contrnt though.

[@games68775]

7:05

[@ProfPotty]

Damn, this man dresses for full effect! Gold lamé and bedazzled stunners!

[@Yourunit]

But i lied because i didnt know what i wanted to be

[@athletics0067]

The pants are cool but the shirt is not

[@iLoveTheLetterD]

Ice but he's actually really funny

[@AdamBeta1776]

That time when a drug addled youtuber wearing a sheet with tassels "saved the world"

[@isaidwhatisaid4130]

I have the same beach cover. Lol

[@makotonarukami7468]

If I ever go to these things, I will only go for the entertainment Sure...you can take the advice. BUT at the end of the day...this is just entertainment. It's up to you if you wanna take some sort of advice that will improve your quality of life.

[@sahilrahman5066]

Julien is saying to take of the mask and show your trueself like in Persona 5 😄 Okay i will take my weeb ass out now

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@dawi]

😂

[@sultanaxavier7108]

julien is absurdly hot jfc

[@suzannealdridge1404]

Youre a total nut Julian, (dress sense) 🤣💦 haha, LOVE IT!!!, You're spot on 👋🎯👍, Thank God for you, in an Insane world,

[@djebarazidan103]

hi i want to know how long you have been letting go and did you get considerable results

[@nobrim8222]

Your outfit is nuts, but no one says anything cause what you saying is more important lol

[@biffleslegit8985]

that’s exactly the point he’s making. he always talks about he he used to pick up girls in bummy clothes bc it didn’t matter