This Youtuber Tries To Justify Men Cheating (And Fails)

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Elisocray is a youtuber, but like hes the worst kind of youtuber.
the 3 am youtuber
and lets be honest, id rather drive a 4 x 4 off a cliff than resort myself to becoming one of those
but somehow this man has now tried to justify cheating.
here is a link to this video you are currently watching. idk other youtubers do this. im just tryna get big bro.
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[@sixteenleo]

Subscribe…youknowhatimsayin?

[@grace-fi5sy]

i already have...youknowwhatimsayin??

[@youtube_revenue6449]

Iknowwhatyousayin

[@kick3256]

Iknowwhatyousayin man

[@kick3256]

Also good fit man

[@Dewny1651]

Is there a way to send suggestions to you?

[@Dkvizu]

Wait... aren't hormones the same reason people give for women not being able to control their emotions like men? Gotta love this dudes lack of knowledge in... anything.

[@menace7339]

Yup

[@sp0ngeb00b7]

Funniest part is how we associate hormones with genders too, for example, drinking with your boys is supposed to be a typical manly activity, but alcohol turns testosterone into estrogen (and THAT is the hormone that causes the fights and the "alpha" bullshit to ensue, NOT testosterone). And estrogen levels actually drop during a woman's period, which influences your serotonin levels. That's what actually causes period mood swings/sadness, not testosterone or estrogen spikes, but actually the loss of it.

[@HobieInTheBox]

@@sp0ngeb00b7 first, I love ur name and pfp. Secondly, you put it into words perfectly.

[@schmeedorcocloa1986]

@@sp0ngeb00b7 thanks for the knowledge fren

[@sp0ngeb00b7]

@@schmeedorcocloa1986 My pleasure! Remember friend, men and women both have estrogen, testosterone and progesterone! Also the idiot in the video is actually partially right, there have been quite a few studies conducted that point to men with higher testosterone (AND women with higher estrogen) being more likely to cheat, but obviously there are a plethora of other factors, and at the end of the day, we are all responsible for our own actions. Doesn’t matter what predispositions you have, if you agree to monogamy, that is what you should practice, and you should hold all cheaters accountable regardless 🤍 and I’m 99% sure he didn’t know that :)

[@ElRojo651]

"I'm cheating because my partner might be cheating" that's a mindset only cheaters have.

[@synonym1196]

It's classic projection too. A big red flag in a relationship is when your partner constantly acts suspicious and accuses you of being unfaithful when you know you aren't; oftentimes it's because they assume you're the same kind of person they are - an unfaithful partner.

[@IMakePeopleSaltyApparently]

I mean he did admit he is a cheater

[@marcus3672]

Which unfortunately most women do when they find out their partner cheated on them

[@marcus3672]

@@darcyroyce Common, you know what I am talking about and I am not directing this to you. Sadly you can pretend you don't know what i am talking about to most of these guys in the comment section but definitely not to me lol. I am speaking from my experiences and others' I have seen and heard

[@bonniestull2222]

Sounds like he burnt out every brain cell he ever had, or the cheated with his rectum...cause he talking shit

[@SteffiHenri1992]

He talks like he was required to do a presentation but got super high instead and just forgot. Now he's standing in front of a bored class and an unimpressed teacher with nothing prepared, just stumbling over his words, "uhhh"-ing and "umm"-ing his way to a coherent thought that will never come (youknowwhatimsaying). Why did he even bother? Who would ever want to watch someone do this? He sounds just so unintelligent it's frustrating, kodos to Leo for powering through that garbage

[@robbiedontmiss]

Damn bro... You didn't have to do him like that!! Lol

[@NaomieTat]

Your comment makes more sense and was more thought out than his “speech” lmao

[@strawbunni]

god I love this comment lmaoo

[@veeistiredasf]

Yeah man I agree you know what I'm sayin because uhhhh yeah that was a good point, honest man, I mean it know what I'm sayin?

[@nyra_w]

He forgor 💀

[@Popper_Drop]

Why do I get the feeling that dudes who think "hormones" is a good excuse to cheat would also turn it back on women and say that "hormones aren't a good reason to get mad or cry"

[@actiongunner763]

Exactly lol he’s just using that excuse because it’s easy but will contradict himself when it’s not beneficial for him

[@dpcottoncandy1220]

Eli sounds like he was trying to justify his cheating to himself but, he left a camera on.

[@elizabethmawazo9663]

It's weird how he refers to men as "man" but women as "females", as if we aren't female humans, aka a woman

[@menace7339]

Yup weird

[@Icebumi]

it's so damn irritating and makes me want to club him over his male head

[@chandycandy01]

Good old misogyny!

[@Random-qi3vv]

Im a dude, and THATS WEIRD af. This guy is crazy as crazy gets.

[@letterborneVods]

It could be that he’s just weird, but what’s more likely is that he uses this term because he sympathizes with groups who use it, such as incels and nice guys and all those. Not saying that he is one, but he might have heard them use it and subconsciously identified with that terminology ...

[@chrbotno1920]

The scary part is he's prolly being honest. I see so many red flags for paranoia

[@MrMutou]

The scary part is how all these cheaters try to justify their dumb logic to the point where they believe they aren't evil idiots. Just stay single geez!

[@marcie1715]

@@MrMutou yes!! They just sound weak as hell. Like you really can’t control yourself?? Really?

[@Isabel-sr8ep]

@@MrMutou exactly! I will wait to get in a relationship I already have bad trust issues I think it’s funny how this guy uses “hormones” as an excuse when there’s people in their 30s and 40s that cheat just for the heck of it my theory is people cheat cuz they think using people is ok they are the same people that take advantage of others and get mad when they get called out it’s not right to do either of those I will never understand why people really cheat if you REALLY TRULY love that person you wouldn’t be thinking about anyone else my parents have been married for like 15 years and my dad still cheats and it’s not “hormones”

[@allisoncastle]

Hopefully this teachers women to stay away from him

[@manofmagic1803]

@@MrMutou yeah, cheaters will blame their partner for "making " them do it. nah, we need to get rid of cheaters.

[@ryleeg6375]

It’s crazy to hear a man talk about how he can’t control his hormones yet women get berated if they’re more hormonal and may act a bit different while on their period 🥴

[@MangoPop]

Worse we should turn our period off when it makes everyone uncomfortable lmao

[@jadecoolness101]

What's most enraging is that "PMS" (Premenstrual syndrome) is actually quite rare, and, as the name suggests, >>>>>>>PRE

[@Blehstor]

wtf

[@liyah.]

@@jadecoolness101 thank you thank you THANK YOU!

[@Naptosis]

@@jadecoolness101 No joke, (being male) having IBS has given me much more compassion to what women have to deal with every month. I just shut down any dismissive 'jokes' men make about it now. I ask them "do you know what it's like to be stabbed between your balls? Now imagine you know that's gonna happen to you every month. Wouldn't you be in a shitty mood?". It gets the point across.

[@WinterRosewood32]

I love Leo’s use of his whiteboard. Just something about how he puts up multiple points from each video, bc we need to be able to refer to every ridiculous thing said at the end.

[@ktp.]

The worst part is so many guys think like him thanks to dating apps and social media, all of which is training users to treat everyone as disposable, youknowwhatI'msayin'?

[@akariazumaya8303]

This man's "speech" feels like a fever dream.

[@m1ll1ionaires]

*acoustic guitar starts playing in the background*

[@_plantlife]

And it is 🙃

[@sophiavillanueva9602]

Maybe he was high then he thought about making a video and that was the outcome

[@pnksheild1709]

That’s saying something when Hisoka draws the line.

[@itsjustmaddisen]

I feel it’s more like a really bad LSD trip.

[@sohvil386]

I have one question: why is he in a relationship in the first place if he wants to be with other girls and gets bored easily? You know what I’m sayin

[@mayaj2354]

I bet he paid 600 just for a dating course with Myron Fake&Fraud

[@munenightwing]

I mean, open relationships exist...But it doesn't feel like he's in one. He just sounds like an asshole who's justifying his shitty tendency to want to fuck everyone except his beloved.

[@bronze2956]

Because she is a sure thing for when he's too lazy, tired or otherwise strikes out. They always want one on the back burner. And she probably fullfils all those other jobs, cooking, cleaning, laundry etc etc. ONS don't do that.

[@cyb0rgirl]

@@bronze2956 💯

[@qwerkyqwerty5241]

Have his cake and eat it too and he obviously has some narcisstic tendencies.

[@elijah6169]

Why is he describing hormones so weirdly, saying its like a drug addiction

[@MENACE-km6bd]

He's out here making men sound weak, IRONICALLY.

[@samikay9599]

Because he's so weak a little hormone fluctuation will send him into an uncontrollable lust. 🤣

[@jalabala2772]

If hormones were really uncontrollable he'd be taking off his clothes and hump women in public. But he doesn't, he is making calculated risks, planning and strategizing about how to get women (in his other videos) so it's obviously not uncontrollable.

[@sfr2107]

@@MENACE-km6bd u sure?

[@s.l1736]

As a woman if I let my "hormones" take over me, I would legit go on a killing spree during my periods lol

[@Peach-Rush]

Everytime I heard him say "female" I was dying inside because NOOOO he never spoke about a man as a "male". I guess that explains how he sees women... YIKES!

[@markharrisllb]

My late father was a serial adulterer. Whenever anyone with children cheats they don’t just cheat on their partner, they also cheat on their entire family. People cheat because they are low lives and are incapable of keeping their word on even the most basic level. Eli is even worse, he cheats on a woman and then blames them because they had the audacity to have a body he wasn’t attracted to. I do believe him when he says he’s very insecure. Remember, if someone cheats to be with you, they will cheat on you.

[@n.c.4829]

Why do men cheat? The same reason why anyone cheats. Because they wanted to. It doesn't matter how you try to explain their reasoning. It all boils down to a choice they made and they made it because they wanted to do it at that time. If you're someone who has been cheated on, you have to decide if that's the kind of person you want to be with.

[@carolyngrey2853]

People cheat because they are shady selfish people who don’t understand love, loyalty or respect. It’s very sad.

[@Poliostasis]

It's wonderful using the word "people" and "everyone", because it's true, Men and Women are both capable of cheating.

[@dontclap1]

Some people just really suck, reguardless of gender.

[@JohanLiebert1]

@@carolyngrey2853 you sound really sour about your ex lol for some people it's got more to do with how they don't want to hurt their partners feelings and breakup with them and are simply not ready to settle down with one woman

[@AleTitan]

@@JohanLiebert1 bro, just say you love to cheat and be human scum. It's much easier :)

[@tiptoes9847]

Calling men men and women females. (A misogynist classic)

[@livvy3w4]

I imagine he's talking about female hippos or something and it makes me giggle

[@tiptoes9847]

@@livvy3w4 Now, that's hilarious. 🤣

[@snooganslestat2030]

Such an incel thing. Comes from the red pill nonsense.

[@LittleFuckingGremlin]

@@livvy3w4 Omg- I'm forever gonna think of this when I see guys calling women females for now on.

[@sableyesundaygaming2016]

I asked this to someone else but similar argument so I want to see what you think is it weird that I say male and female rather than man and women

[@mariaelmorsy4280]

Generally the male population is more than the female, so there can’t be 7 females for each male, it’s 51%: 49% male to female ratio

[@relrel44]

Ratio?

[@unabashed]

In certain areas, the ratio is off. In China, there are exponentially more men than women because of generations of infanticide, baby girl coerced abortions, and abandoned infant girls who were then adopted internationally.

[@privateemail9755]

@@unabashed is that same occurrence happening in most other countries? Nah? Then what a random example dude.

[@weean8084]

The number of men and women in the world is roughly equal, though men hold a slight lead with 102 men for 100 women (in 2020). More precisely, out of 1,000 people, 504 are men (50.4%) and 496 are women (49.6%). For every 100 girls, 106 boys are born, but males have a higher risk of dying than females, both in childhood and at adult ages. So at a certain age, the numbers of men and women even out. In France this occurs at age 25. Beyond this age, women outnumber men and the numerical difference between the two sexes increases with age. In France, eight centenarians in ten are women (in 2020). Source:United Nations, Department of Economic and Social Affairs, Population Division (2019). World Population Prospects 2019, custom data acquired via website.

[@megamanbrandon]

I thougt there was more women than men? Hm.

[@Bx_Hoodie]

As a man from the Bronx, I be saying “uknowhatimsayin” after almost every line. Now my feelings are hurt.

[@pancakeofdestiny]

Elisocray? More like Eli Socrates with this level of wisdom.

[@ingloriousMachina]

Imagine if these people employing all the mental gymnastics known to man to justify their actions put that much effort into their relationships-

[@Gizmo2261]

So true - great point!

[@ssbmouse6471]

Damn, I felt that

[@whatifschrodingersboxwasacofin]

Or their educations…

[@Sunny-tc3ul]

Or just reading a book 📖

[@xmafaldax]

Cheating would be solved by not getting into any relationships in the first place. If you can't keep it in your pants, don't date at all.

[@jakerockznoodles]

Exactly, if you don't want a commited monogonomous relationship, *don't get into one* . Don't fool your partner into thinking they're in a relationship like that while you're off shagging other people on the side. It's just manipulative and scummy.

[@thedapperturkey]

@just do it dude stop posting your trash

[@jasminerox292]

Right, if you’re polyamorous just say so

[@technounionrepresentative4274]

i don't get into relationships, not so that i don't cheat, but because i would probably get cheated on. If someone was dumb enough to get into a relationship with me, they would probably be dumb enough to cheat, if they want to be with someone else or even be in a poly relationship they should tell their significant other that they would do that

[@kristyw89]

@@jasminerox292 I get what you're saying, but this guy is in no way polyamorous. His excuses were literally "I'm bored, she probably is already cheating on me too, I want to get some without caring about these other girls"

[@sakasusuk]

Why can’t cheating men just be a Bachelor or practice open relationships instead of dating loyal women? Seriously, I’ve been asking myself this question since forever and it literally boggles my mind on why they can’t just…do this? Won’t they be happier and feel more satisfied if they practice this lifestyle instead of traumatizing others? CAN SOMEONE ANSWER ME PLEASE.

[@n.c.4829]

It's because they're selfish people at their core. A selfish person is not going to be considerate of others and selfish people tend to be narcissistic. You can't expect a selfish and narcissistic person to think of others first and do right by them. It's about what they want only.

[@leslieesq4383]

Also because usually these people want someone loyal to them even if they aren’t loyal

[@melaninstrength1853]

Bcus that would take consent, self security, adult conversation, maturity, healing self… which requires you finding issues with what you’re doing.

[@jalabala2772]

Because at their core they don't actually believe cheating is okay or biological. They are extremely insecure and can't stand the thought of a woman cheating on them. They do it as a boost to their ego, to believe they are still attractive.

[@AngelaEAwesome]

Narcissism and entitlement.

[@maisiemoo_x]

he’s like lemme tell u why men cheat and then he just proceeds to give reasons why men should break up with their girlfriend. there’s no excuse for cheating, u couldve broke up with her if she hasn’t got everything u want in a woman??

[@childofgod8193]

Nah bro, if you even look at a woman/man with lust when you have a significant other already, you've already committed adultery. Cheating will NEVER be a good thing, people who think like those are only immature with poor education and meaning they should learn more rather than spending useless time on KZbin, making (useless, immature,bad) advices etc. This man really got me mad and like- I'm frowning every time he speaks. I'm truly disappointed.

[@MrYelly]

Cant tell whats the bigger unbalanced mess, his beard or his relationships (ifyouknowwhatiamsaying)

[@sixteenleo]

i thought you meant my beard. i was about to bodyslam you. but alas, we shall remain friends

[@fanquinder]

That's what I was gonna say🥴

[@zenadean]

@@sixteenleo You should probably bodyslam him in anyways just in case he bodyslams you first

[@alphaios7763]

Glad people noticed, he should be arrested for having such an abominable beard

[@MrYelly]

@@sixteenleo So you did not know what I was saying, the bodyslamming is ON (love your vids, keep em coming bro)

[@Icebumi]

I understand not being monogamous and wanting to date more than one person at once. But to generalize and extrapolate to a whole gender just because you want to excuse yourself? Oh boy....

[@hidden_jem_]

As a poly person, cheating is literally going out of the boundaries of a relationship. Anyone can cheat, and being poly takes in to account the respect, emotions and consent of everyone involved. This is just... Not it.

[@Icebumi]

@@hidden_jem_ exactly. The way he's explaining it (very poorly) is the type of one way cheating, no consent involved. His video really pissed me off

[@thatonechick6747]

@@hidden_jem_ i had an ex who said he was poly and then proceeded to randomly get a side girl, ive come to the conclusion that isn't what poly people do but because he was the only "one" I've ever known can u lmk if thats a normal part of it? Do legitimately poly people randomly add a partner to the situation and then expect you to like them even though your first time meeting them your partner introduced them as dating? I'd hate to have one bad apple ruin the entire barrel kf that makes sense and I've never really met anyone other than him who claims to be poly so sorry if this is weird and stuff jus if you don't mind

[@hidden_jem_]

@@thatonechick6747 Absolutely not. Every relationship is different. But there is a very distinct difference between dating and talking. I don't expect my boyfriend to tell me everyone he talks to, because usually those don't go anywhere. But meeting my boyfriends partners has always been a very open experience. You have to talk about the boundaries you want to put down before you even decide to see other people, and build them as you find what you're comfortable with and what you're comfortable with working on. Taking your main partners (if thats how the dynamic works) feelings into your relationships is very, very important.

[@thatonechick6747]

@@hidden_jem_ see thank you. I appreciate you helping me to learn what its actually like.

[@bruyereb6109]

"They have a body like a croissant🥐" as someone who went to the paint swatch section of Home Depot to determine my skin color & it literally said "buttered croissant🥐" I feel attacked😭

[@bruyereb6109]

But also as a Frenchie who loves croissants... Thank you🥰🥐🥰

[@emmavrijburg6676]

See?! The croissants feel attacked now!😂😂

[@Silver_Spectre]

When Eli says he cheats he means cheats on Siri with Pennywise “No body? Was she just a floating fucking head” cracked me up 😂

[@samwilts6016]

I definitely agree. People who constantly say "yOU KnOw WhAt I'm SaYiNg" were definitely dropped a few times too many as a baby

[@extinctoart]

Be hilarious if he juked us and said "this is why I feel men cheat... attachment disorder and immaturity. Alright bye"

[@nox9749]

*good ending*

[@shaeflatt8428]

forty seconds in and we’ve already got the biggest red flag of all… calling women “females”

[@sableyesundaygaming2016]

I do but also usually say male rather than man so is that weird

[@shaeflatt8428]

@@sableyesundaygaming2016 if you also call guys males it’s not AS weird, more just weird rather than misogynistic vibes

[@alyssapinon9670]

Calling women females is 🤮

[@MidwestHashHole]

@@shaeflatt8428 Nah it's just as weird. Male and Female are usually used to describe. "Male gamer, Female Athlete, Male cook, Female driver." calling a man "male" and a woman "female" just doesnt sound right on either side. But, calling them either doesnt give off misogynistic energy.

[@shaeflatt8428]

@@MidwestHashHole idk if you’re qualified to judge what gives off misogynistic vibes lol 😅

[@kaec8658]

I remember an old friend watched videos like these. He straight up sent his girlfriend a link to a video of "Why men cheat" as a reason as why he shouldn't have to be faithful. They were together for 2 years and she was heartbroken from all the cheating issues, especially when he cheated with her friends. People like these KZbinrs basically encourage guys to be idiots and douchebags

[@gonzaminator530]

im happy she managed to leave him. Cheaters aint worth anyone's time

[@straykae]

If they can be easily be swayed like that they aren’t worth it. Either they are impressionable or they already have that mentality. I really can’t imagine people taking shit like this seriously but people surprise me everyday. The only people who I wouldn’t judge too heavily are teenagers since there’s room for growth. But dang people need to communicate more often so they know this stuff is not normal.

[@MangoPop]

Sounds like he was an ass all along tho

[@kaec8658]

@@straykae In the defense of the girlfriend, this was when they were teenagers around 3-4 years ago now. We were pretty impressionable. But at least now she knows what she's worth

[@straykae]

@@kaec8658 i meant to direct my comment towards the cheater who believed those types of video and even sent it her (😓). I’m definitely not judging the girl but I’m glad she learned from the experience.

[@meganfietsam264]

It’s ironic because my dad cheated(still does) on my mom and yet he’s the standoffish, hostile, paranoid one that accuses my mom of cheating. I’ve noticed this in a lot of cheaters (male and female). They tend to act the way you would expect the person being cheated on to act, not the one cheating. It’s really ironic when you think about it.

[@amberbaylie123]

“when i say get in the cowgirl position she goes moo” that made me laugh SO HARD🤣🤣🤣 i’d love to see leo do stand up!!

[@flick9396]

Tf is his beard?! Is he okay? Has anyone talked to this man in years.

[@paadoxal]

yeah exactly his beard is exactly two hairs and his logic is so strange

[@user-ww8vl7fw4q]

Lmaooo so glad someone said it. I was like wtf is up with dudes beard?!😳

[@gresisinani3988]

@@user-ww8vl7fw4q The way that I laughed girl😭

[@user-ww8vl7fw4q]

@@gresisinani3988 seriously tho...we shouldn't be able to SEE through it wtf lmaoo.

[@gorefieldluvr6921]

I feel like he lives in the walls and then just comes out every few months to clap cheeks and tell the world about his wisdoms

[@panpanscorner332]

Here's a word of advice: If you don't have the same feelings you had you felt before dating that person,talk to them and split up. You don't have to breakup unless you both agree. Don't cheat on someone bc you "can't control yourself" youknowwhatimsayin

[@stevenfleury8581]

Key word here is "talk". People tend to just keep problems in the relationship to themselves until they practically can't stand the other person anymore. And I hate when people cheat cuz they're to chicken to just end the relationship, so they do something that will hopefully cause their "partner" to end things.

[@TheFos88]

"no cap bro"

[@zacharypegg7051]

I'm so glad Leo has a solid beard because Eli's gross weird chin strap makes me viscerally uncomfortable

[@sergioc.7910]

Ha Ha It's good to know I wasn't the only one so repulsed by Mr. Knaw I'm Sayin Cray's sorry excuse for a goatee.

[@bekleedee]

It reminds me of that stunt in Jackass where they glued a fake beard to Ehren's face only to reveal to him it was made out of the cast's pubic hair.

[@shroomshroom5945]

Looks like pubes glued to his jawline

[@ChristopherSadlowski]

Eli can't even commit to his facial hair...

[@jaymeVos]

Looks like a kid going through a rough puberty and trying to grow in a beard and learning to style it himself

[@GoemonStan_Flynn]

“I hate when people say you know what I’m saying “ then you’re gonna hate my dad 😂😂😂😂 that’s like his little catchphrase lol

[@grownunhealthy3468]

"Why men cheat" aka "My video diary to justify my actions to my self by trying to get others to justify my actions by trying to justify my actions to them. You know what i'm saying"

[@monikabarewa3657]

This is like a kid coming up with reasons why you need to give them something you want.

[@jizolord69]

I remember one time I wrote a comment on Elisocray’s channel saying he shouldn’t be putting out this type of content, but a girl replied to me saying I and most of youtube was racist for hating him LOL. Sure, there are racists on youtube who hate Elisocray for the wrong reason, but saying he’s the only guy on the platform with hate is just hilarious, and because of his race which was completely unrelated to my point. She couldn’t even put coherent sentences together for a point in the comment thread and she told me to stop telling her to make readable sentences because she “just turned 17” even though she had the argument of an eight year old. Just goes to show that Elisocray is bringing children into his fanbase and telling them its okay to cheat. Like DON’T RATIONALIZE BLAMING YOUR PARTNER FOR SOMETHING *YOU* DID, ESPECIALLY IN FRONT OF AN AUDIENCE OF CHILDREN!

[@KelseyDrummer]

Oh that's sad.

[@bamallama]

I’ve been called racist for giving poc criticism. But how am I racist? Because the person doing stupid things happens to be a person of color and I call them out for their dumb actions? I’m black too, so when they come at me like that I say they’re racist cause I’m black too lmao.

[@almondmilk3678]

A lot of people over use a word just to avoid criticism. They rather try and gas light someone then change what they are doing wrong. Some people don't care who's watching just that they are watching. More as if they want the views but the viewers aren't important. He basically is just using children for views and that's it. He couldn't care less if they grasp the information he's incompetently saying.

[@jizolord69]

@@bamallama EXACTLY. They direct it towards race rather than the actual issue at hand. It’s hilarious how they say he’s problematic because of being a POC despite there being a large amount of white content creators who are doing the same thing, and both him and all the other youtubers need to be held accountable to an equal extent yet his audience is being taught otherwise.

[@kayla2154]

that’s ridiculous! you can clearly see that he’s a silly nitwit so idk why anyone would think anyone is racist for commenting on his craziness!🤣

[@kusuossecretgf5401]

I don't understand how : 1- some people think cheating is fine 2- some people blame everything on hormones 3- Just... him ????

[@ChuckDsChic]

I hate "you know what I'm sayin" or "like"....the most used words in conversation these days. When ppl say "like" every other word I wanna duct tape their mouth shut!

[@jessicajames8725]

"Everytime I tell my girl to get in the cowgirl position she goes 'MOO'" im feckin dead

[@eliabeck7373]

Man as another Eli who DOESNT cheat, this guy is slimy as they come

[@elijah6169]

Same here

[@bagelprince3]

Suberior Eli. Bless both of u

[@LunarEleven]

Oh please all men cheat, next thing you're going to tell me is you aren't all Chinese! 😑 Lies

[@elijah6169]

@@LunarEleven lmao

[@mimi_j]

@@LunarEleven 😂😂😂

[@katiedevall1504]

It’s 5 am and I’m high as balls, this is gonna be great

[@poeticjustice7371]

It's2am and I too am high as balls.😂💀🙌🙌

[@Kim-Unearthed]

Forgive me but, balls that high should probably be checked out by a physician 😬

[@milestheturkey]

What a coincidence 😂😂😂🥰

[@queenofzenk]

@@Kim-Unearthed balls this high are called ovaries 😂

[@Kim-Unearthed]

@@queenofzenk 🤣🤣🤣 touché

[@catutopia4205]

Literally when he’s explaining how “you love your girl but wanna clap other girls cheeks” was literally the same thing my ex said after I found out. He said well I don’t love her. I love you!

[@sleep_is_awesome2838]

I feel like cheating is about having insecurities and low self-esteem. By all means, if you're cheated on, dump them. I'm not saying this as a defence to it. To me, people that cheat are trying to sample the next option and have a grasp on "the next one" before they end the relationship. It's pretty sad, because it indicates they have a terrible fear of being alone.

[@MaxV01]

imagine you go on a date, you actually have a nice time, even though the man you're with keeps using the word "man" at least three times in every sentence (something you're willing to overlook for now), and then you decide to look him up online... and you find that video. all of this is, of course, purely hypothetical because idk who would willingly go on a date with that man.

[@chrisgomez860]

There are women who fangirl over chris watts and are actively trying to get the pos out of prison. The depths of humanity doesn't surprise me anymore 😒

[@lizcoddington4421]

Start of video: “The females really want to hear this. They really want to understand.” Rest of video: “Bro, bro, bro, bro, bro….knowwhatimsayin?” PS - love your content! It really is a bright spot on hard days for me

[@Jay_one]

He has someone to cheat with… but even crazier, he has someone to cheat ON? Oof…

[@sweetbriernr]

I mean, I first thought that not playing TLC's "Creep" was a missed opportunity, but then that would imply that Eli had legit reasons to creep around... So kuddos on the "Scrubs" choice XD

[@victoriahope8371]

Why do you have to be so funny? I hardly laugh at anything but you're making me smile and giggle.

[@jewelxiat]

It's crazy how normalized it seems to cheat. Doja Cat's "You Right" has me 🤨 and then she has a few songs that allude to it throughout her album Planet Her... and then all of a sudden I remembered listening to Usher's "Hot Tottie" on repeat back when Versus came out and to this day I just think those lyrics are so despicable. Self aware? Sure! But they still flaunt it like it's... normal? Like there isn't deeper psychological issues at play there. Idk, but with the way it's so popularized to cheat, I'm excited to see what my mans got to say. Tell it to 'em straight, Leo!!

[@robertjebediahfreeman4177]

Don't let people catch you dissing doja cat, Cardi b etc. 😂😂😂made the mistake of pointing out these aren't people to look up to once too many and I was getting cooked for days. All I said was "they are in character in their vids and aren't that deplorable in real life" 😂😂😂😂I ended up having to just delete everything and block people.

[@jewelxiat]

@@robertjebediahfreeman4177 I hate that shit man 🤦‍♀️ I actually love Doja's work (all things considered,) but I understand she's not everyone's cup of tea. That should be fine. What isn't fine is being a dick and attacking you for your opinions 🙄 sorry that happened, yo. People gotta understand that celebrities shouldn't be worshipped to the point of attacking others just because they have good art. 🤦‍♀️

[@jamieplanes4896]

SHE RA!!! I finally found another she ra fan out in the wild!

[@KiaRoane]

What sad, is he’s being honest. I’m pretty sure he believes exactly what he’s saying.

[@gonzaminator530]

good for him to release a video making the women of the world aware of how not worth their time he be

[@monimoobag246]

@@gonzaminator530 lmaooo

[@TheFos88]

Oh yeah he knows what he's sayin.

[@GrimFemme]

I feel so bad that he has to pin his own shitty behavior on Black Men as a whole in an attempt to make himself seem less bad. That shits not fair. Like, just take accountability for yourself please.

[@slashloveruk]

I feel like the rule is that if a guy says "females" instead of "women" then you should run.

[@seo8851]

I've been having such a horrible time, and this is helping me feel better

[@hannahjohnson7777]

I'm so sorry to hear that. I hope that things get better for you soon. Just keep on taking it day-by-day. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@exosproudmamabear558]

Yeah nothing beats watching horrible people and thinking maybe I am not that terrible after all.

[@seo8851]

@@exosproudmamabear558 lmao truly

[@frankrizzo1858]

Hope things get better

[@Yo.Schwifty]

When life hits you hard... Reeeeee at that bitch

[@relaxationstation7634]

We needed a cut of Butters from South Park saying “yes, I know what you are saying”

[@KelseyDrummer]

Hahaha!

[@sippingchlorine]

"i can't speak for a woman because im not a woman" "thats the last smart thing he said" made me WHEEZE 😭😭😭😭

[@hannahmetzler9532]

“Imma write it down but it’s so wrong “ HAHAHAHAH I CANT

[@jabrinasantana7924]

“If I tell my girl to get in the cowgirl position, she says Moo” 🤣🤣☠️ my stomach hurts!!!!

[@hasuramapa4639]

"Being loyal to you wife and stuff like that" Husband material if ive ever seen any 🤗

[@tinycrimester]

eli: "men cheat because they're attracted to other women" interesting... your work is more cerebral than i expected.

[@zainabzolita8436]

Too bad most of those other women are not attracted back and women have more options easily

[@tripped6956]

@@zainabzolita8436 so you're saying it's too bad that those women are not attracted back to the guy that's cheating because he's attracted to other women....and that women have more options...while the guy cheating gets those same "options", hence why he was able to cheat. Sounds like you're projecting and sad you're not able to cheat in the first place

[@brokenback8378]

I felt attacked when he said, “I hate when people say you know what I’m sayin… you’re like a codependent baby.”🤡😂

[@KitKat_630]

Trust and honesty are some of the most important parts of a relationship! This guy should just work on himself rather than excusing his bullshit behavior by blaming the partner for not being good enough.

[@snooganslestat2030]

Its entitlement. He thinks he deserves someone who is everything he likes and nothing he doesn't. I mean he clearly brings so much to the human race!

[@Vakentz0r]

Not once, ever in any time on my whole ass life on the internet - have i ever been so early, but here i am - and its a sixteenleo vid. How wonderful! Happy Friday Leo. I'm having a drink with your video from WA.

[@sixteenleo]

oh yes From West Alabama, Ive been there. Much love From Sa

[@Kim-Unearthed]

@@sixteenleo I, too, have been to West Africa 😊

[@katflagor1010]

I love seeing another WA stater in these comments

[@alarachel]

Ayyye also from Washington state here

[@DJPoundPuppy]

@@alarachel Sweet! Washington here too! Let's all watch Sixteen Leo together just kidding.

[@misery8264]

This is why a lot of times when a partner is jealous and controlling, needs to know where you are, checks your phone etc. it turns out they've been cheating on you. Because - if they got away with being unfaithful, how can they be sure you're not doing it as well? Seen it with a few of my mate's girlfriends, sadly enough :( they are wondering why their partner doesn't trust them, and it turns out it's because they shouldn't have trusted their partner either.

[@jamieplanes4896]

FACT

[@Sunny-tc3ul]

“I’m cheating on her because she might be cheating on me” I actually been told that by a guy. Why get in a relationship with women who are faithful? Slow @$$ men and their cheating ways. Plus Eli don’t know the differences between Excuses and Reasons.

[@HASQ779]

this one made me laugh out loud several times, your comedic timing is on point today Leo

[@killuminatianonymous5551]

There’s no good reason for cheating. Just leave!

[@bbpd5315]

Wym he clearly brought up great points in an articulate fashion🤨

[@stevenfleury8581]

@@bbpd5315 😂 Well said

[@puli_dreadhead]

School’s “No child left behind” forgot about him.

[@justkittensbeingkittens5892]

Damn, I had no suspicions whatsoever that my bf is cheating but he’s Asian 😔

[@MangoPop]

Lmao damn my boyfriend is Mexican he must be cheating on me on a daily basis 😂

[@HolandaChiquita]

I just don't understand. He doesn't want a women he's with to cheat, but he can come up with 5+ excuses for why all men should be cheating without consequences whatsoever?!

[@imeanidkyet]

Genuine shock at the praise for The Script honestly sooooo underrated, also love u Leo ur amazing

[@TwiCaCaX]

does he not realise female ALSO have hormones, the same ones men do and temptation also exist? But instead of blaming it on the biology, they have self control like a normal adult unlike some breed

[@VenusManTrap-777]

Lmao there’s no proper biological logic this, it’s all bs💀

[@Bonklyboi]

Leo you can't have me literally tearing up for 2 seconds then out here like 🙄 4 times in a row, showing this man an then mlk. That's not fair man.

[@OnyaB]

Lol. He said ‘people that believe in being faithful like the Africans…’. This ‘African’ is sitting here like my grandfather had 2 wives and my friend was telling me that his wife is ‘lucky’ he has decided to marry only one wife… for the time being. Because no. Culturally African men are (wrongfully) polygamous.

[@MangoPop]

Sis them and men from the island.

[@Chillaxes]

Wrongfully?

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

@@Chillaxes most of the time, it is not consensual polygamy. Husband does what he wants and the wife(s) just deal with it and the consequences (ie kids, supporting households, jealousy from other wives, and the other dangers around a decision they did not get a say in)

[@barttcounts8456]

This guy's beard looks like the ones Beavis & Butthead glued onto their faces. 'We're smoooth'

[@Manglerette]

Just commenting to say the comparison to the Martin Luther king speech with the inspiring music was a really good bit

[@brittanycorralejo7328]

“You know what I’m saying?” = “I don’t know how to end a sentence”

[@shouldacouldawoulda5]

all this talk & i still don't think he's ever actually slept with a woman 🤡

[@evidevi5847]

its 4am but im here

[@Paid2Help]

It's 5am but I'm here

[@stacylynn2634]

5 AM here lol

[@sixteenleo]

i love you

[@Autumn-eg2nj]

Same fam, same 🤣

[@DaniiiiiN]

It's 530 am and I'm here

[@VidWatcher01]

It's guy like this dude that call respectful men "simps".

[@mochi19971]

When he peaced out and then went "OH and ANOTHER reason" I actually lost it 🤣

[@elizabethjenkins1987]

Dudes gonna cheat on the wrong one and eat his words.

[@damnedza9368]

I'm South African and I'm wondering if he realises many African cultures are polygamous. Smh.

[@munenightwing]

Yeah, I honestly don't understand why so many people (all gender identities included) cheat instead of trying to find someone that is fine with an open relationship, or living with more than one partner. I think it's because polyamorous relationships are poorly seen in places like Europe and the USA. I've seen many people who cheated on their partner and then shit on polyamorous throuples because they think it is "gross". It could also be that people seek a sort of thrill when they cheat? A "What if they found out?" kind of thrill that makes it enticing to them. The feeling of risk is enticing to a lot of people, and some people also like to go against the rules on purpose so I wouldn't be surprised if that was the case. TL.DR: If you want a relationship with 2+ people, don't hide it. Tell it to the people that you're trying to date *beforehand*. That way they're fine with it then it'll be genuine, and you won't be a giant asshole.

[@modisedaeswatiniprincess6944]

Polygamy isn't cheating lol but yeah cheating isn't an ethnic thing

[@damnedza9368]

@@modisedaeswatiniprincess6944 I meant no offense. Sorry if it seemed like that was what I was implying. I meant exactly what you pointed out, ethnicity doesn't define actions.

[@modisedaeswatiniprincess6944]

@@damnedza9368 no no offence just saying it isnt cheating since you and your partner agree on having an "open relationship" which is gross in my opinion 🤷🏽‍♀️ this dude makes it sound like cheating for only specific people and what not lol 😹

[@_marth_1537]

I WAS THINKING ABOUT THIS THE ENTIRE TIME- why did I have to scroll so far for this?!

[@aeriii4681]

I’m glad for this guys upfront video; I would rather know that a guy is part of the ain’t-ish community rather than them cheating behind my back

[@fleur1023]

See what I don't get is why can't he just like... Not be in a relationship??? Someone needs to tell him it's fine to just be a bachelor. That it's fine to just tell people he just wants a physical relationship and nothing much else? Or friends with benefits but not exclusive? Like that is fine??? (Not sure who would want him but that is besides the point) If he's not okay in a relationship without cheating just don't be in one??? Simple as that.

[@demimilford5148]

To that man: dear Mr Connect-a-beard just because you have the ability to speak, doesn't mean you should. Thanks.

[@Dandelleonie]

Ok ngl I thought magic spoon was some kind of magic MAGIC spoon like it could heat itself and float maybe become a fork too

[@amelietannermua5409]

this made me think of mango on a f o r k for some reason

[@shiraya318]

"If nobody told you you're beautiful today, it's probably because you're ugly" Me with greasy hair, wearing color-stained old clothes, currently dealing with period-induced acne: "yeah, seems about right lol"

[@holyglaucus2444]

The hormone part is true, as a trans man taking testosterone as soon as I got my first dose I couldn't help but start cheating instantly. Which is crazy because I didn't even have anyone to cheat ON. No cap.

[@silly-u6t]

😭😭😭

[@melaninstrength1853]

😂😂 not “no cap”😂

[@DollhouseSawyer]

You gotta get 7 females. male power man 👊👊

[@stevenfleury8581]

Wow! Another "Hormones made me do it" clown. Couldn't help but cheat?! So what happens when your hormones are taking over your decisions and there's nobody wanting to be intimate with you? You just go without right? Unbelievable that people are trying to use not able to control yourself cuz of your hormones as a reason to step out on your partner.

[@holyglaucus2444]

@@stevenfleury8581 it's sarcastic

[@HomersIlliad]

16:00 There's a real phenomenon in international relations called the "security dilemma" that can pretty much be summarized by this. It almost always stems from a failure between two states (or two people) to communicate.

[@hehim4242]

*manz got possessed in the middle of being ignorant.*

[@birchbarks550]

Idk what's more irritating, the fact that the camera seems to be on a table or that he calls women fEmaLEs

[@AnimeVibeHarmony]

both

[@relaxationstation7634]

That intro was perfect haha 10/10. Sad MLK isn’t alive to see the best speech ever.