“My Stalker’s Been To Prison 3 Times But Refuses To Stop Harassing Me” | This Morning

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Jenny Pickering has endured months of torment at the hands of a stalker she’d only ever met once. She was left too terrified to even close her eyes in the shower after her stalker, Jan Schlossar, bombarded her with sexual messages, moved house to be closer to her, and even proposed to her at her place of work. Despite being given a lifetime restraining order and spending three stints in prison, Jenny fears he will ‘never give up’. In a bid to encourage other women to report similar harassment, she’s joining us alongside Criminal Psychiatrist Dr Sohom Das.
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@Jason-rx4lq
@Jason-rx4lq 5 ай бұрын
There's an extremely thin line between "I'm being stalked" and "on today's news a woman has been murdered by her stalker"
@MIM-ve7qz
@MIM-ve7qz 5 ай бұрын
The laws need to be changed to protect victims not criminals. My heart breaks for this poor woman.
@jordanhogg5736
@jordanhogg5736 5 ай бұрын
It’s her work phone not that easy to change it plus would be easy for him to find the new number as it is given out due to it being a work phone . And you shouldn’t have to the owness is not on the victim
@katiestudytube4572
@katiestudytube4572 5 ай бұрын
She shouldn’t have to get rid of her social media. That’s like saying women shouldn’t wear dresses if they’ve been catcalled wearing them.
@user-om6ss7pp2j
@user-om6ss7pp2j 5 ай бұрын
@@itsyourmethod This is so victim blamey…why should she have to make all these changes and live her life differently , he should be monitored closely by police , if not locked up for a lot longer , so she doesn’t have to live her life in fear
@LilLamb-headquarters
@LilLamb-headquarters 4 ай бұрын
@@user-om6ss7pp2j Well I mean witness protection programs exist for a reason. It's not right a witness has to change their whole lives, but that's the only way to keep them safe
@LilLamb-headquarters
@LilLamb-headquarters 4 ай бұрын
@@user-om6ss7pp2j And the police sadly absolutely do not have the resources to do that kind of monitoring, that's a huge time and personnel commitment
@senorita_kaur9235
@senorita_kaur9235 5 ай бұрын
I think you are very brave for standing up on TV and talking about it. My stalker is on trial next year and I had to apply for my own injunctions against him because the law didn't help me. So much needs to change.
@SuperManningM8
@SuperManningM8 5 ай бұрын
I hope you got the justice you deserve! So sorry that you had to experience that x
@debbietaylor5183
@debbietaylor5183 5 ай бұрын
​@nerozero-mp7hd that's false
@GavinCee
@GavinCee 4 ай бұрын
She's sitting down.
@MelindaStevens-w9y
@MelindaStevens-w9y 2 ай бұрын
Yes, very brave. I’m from Melbourne, Australia, and the police take stalking very seriously these days and will protect you. I had somebody stalk me and was a nervous wreck - I did everything the police told me to do and it stopped. Unfortunately I was pretty nervous for a couple of weeks but it all passed. Your laws need to change asap.
@jenniferp4798
@jenniferp4798 8 күн бұрын
Thank you, I hope you get the peace tou deserve 💗
@8ball9016
@8ball9016 5 ай бұрын
It's so cringe because a woman smiles at you and is polite doesn't mean she wants you. So gross
@aman8086
@aman8086 5 ай бұрын
Ikr, this is why I don’t be overly nice anymore.
@RHathemoment
@RHathemoment 4 ай бұрын
gross. Has happened to me with someone. Intensely horrible straight away and gross. (Especially them being 20+ year or so my senior, as well.) 😡 So I needed, so unwanted. Was so annoying because I had just started a new job where he started the second day, and that was it. Luckily he's an 'agency' worker, temporary position. thank goodness, Thank goodness. I haven't seen him since. 🤮
@TheMasterblaster32
@TheMasterblaster32 4 ай бұрын
​@@RHathemomenthe's moved onto another victim.
@MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps
@MeHoyMinoy-cv3ps 4 ай бұрын
Exactly, most people understand common courtesy but some are so deluded that they easily misconstrue kindness as interest…then proceed to think they’re entitled to something more.
@bakedbeans9546
@bakedbeans9546 3 ай бұрын
A lot of women get stalked by other women
@Mel87y
@Mel87y 5 ай бұрын
Stalking is vile and destroys lives 😢
@jacksonshay938
@jacksonshay938 5 ай бұрын
@nerozero-mp7hdyou need mental health evaluation… it is beyond vile actually.
@serena1174
@serena1174 5 ай бұрын
@nerozero-mp7hdfound the stalker
@chevalierdesangreal
@chevalierdesangreal 4 ай бұрын
this isn't stalking this is called erotomania. a serious mental illness. and it has 3 stages: hope that the relationship is going to happen - depression because the relationship isn't happening - anger and despair. stage 3 the person is succeptible to try to unalive themselves, the other person or both. this is so so so serious her life really is in danger
@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559
@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559 4 ай бұрын
It actually IS stalking, because that word describes the behaviour. Erotomania is the cause.
@AishawithanEye
@AishawithanEye 4 ай бұрын
I've had stalkers without erotomania: they're fully aware that you want them to leave you alone but they want the power/satisfaction/pleasure of interacting with you and causing you grief anyway. Erotomania sounds more like what I've had trying to meet Jim Carrey... but I left him alone as soon as I realized he wasn't giving enough green flags for me to continue. He didn't even specifically ask me to leave him alone, but I didn't want to cause him stress so that's what I did. That's why I say it "sounds like" I had erotomania, because I did follow him online before I met him, I sent him fan mail, I did reach out to one of his coworkers, and I did knock on his door, and I have wondered whether he contacted me back once, so I've exhibited all the behaviors listed when I google "erotomania" but I left him alone as soon as he didn't sound enthusiastic... but he had also given signs he was interested. Like, after he'd already met me and seemed scared, he came out of his house again a week later to hang out with me when he heard music I was playing, so, I dunno. I think we come up with a lot of names to describe what people do, but what really matters at the end of the day is whether you're present with someone enough to respect their feelings and desires. I will also add that the police told me that someone is not technically a stalker unless they've been explicitly asked to leave the other alone and they don't. They told me this after my second stalker, and that's the simplest way to understand when your attraction becomes a problem. Otherwise, how on Earth will anyone ever meet anyone? You've gotta "shoot your shot" as they say!
@mb2770
@mb2770 4 ай бұрын
@@AishawithanEyeis this a joke?
@keithwarrington2430
@keithwarrington2430 3 ай бұрын
@@mb2770 doesn't sound like one, I'm not laughing anyway.
@fay5479
@fay5479 3 ай бұрын
But the police don't take it seriously because only 10% of police are women.
@angelaalex8086
@angelaalex8086 5 ай бұрын
My stalker ended up in Carstairs for the criminal insane as he murdered his girlfriend. Police need to take it more seriously 😢
@abbieroseholden4174
@abbieroseholden4174 5 ай бұрын
Being stalked must be absolutely terrifying
@blondie9422
@blondie9422 5 ай бұрын
Being stalked is psychological torture
@Jo-yp8wy
@Jo-yp8wy 5 ай бұрын
It is.
@SpookyElectric319
@SpookyElectric319 5 ай бұрын
@nerozero-mp7hdand that’s also stalking.
@abbieroseholden4174
@abbieroseholden4174 5 ай бұрын
@nerozero-mp7hd it's emotional torment
@debbietaylor5183
@debbietaylor5183 5 ай бұрын
​nerozero-mp7hdno it isn't goes beyond that I've been physically stalked aswell not just online & in text
@janetDT1904
@janetDT1904 4 ай бұрын
I had a girl steal my identity and stalk me and the police said they couldn't help as she hadn't physically hurt me. It shouldn't need to get to that point for police to step in 😢
@connorshield26
@connorshield26 5 ай бұрын
This is a very serious matter
@YG-rr6zv
@YG-rr6zv 5 ай бұрын
Thank you captain obvious
@ChrisJ-ru6ek
@ChrisJ-ru6ek 5 ай бұрын
@@YG-rr6zv🤣
@ArranVid
@ArranVid 5 ай бұрын
@@YG-rr6zv He is not Captain Obvious, he is Captain America.
@ArranVid
@ArranVid 5 ай бұрын
Captain Connor Shield, reporting for duty!!!
@claireabellhayward2400
@claireabellhayward2400 5 ай бұрын
Absolutely terrifying.. It's not fair.. Not enough protection.. I feel for everyone who's been stalked, or being stalked right now.
@bambiesdoomsdayblue
@bambiesdoomsdayblue 5 ай бұрын
My stalker stopped after police warned him. I wish all cases were as easy as that
@monicashah9732
@monicashah9732 5 ай бұрын
Same girl!!
@bambiesdoomsdayblue
@bambiesdoomsdayblue 5 ай бұрын
@@monicashah9732 though I did have one comment from him a couple months later but other than that it’s drastically improved, not had anything for 4 months since then
@bambiesdoomsdayblue
@bambiesdoomsdayblue 5 ай бұрын
@@monicashah9732 like all they did was go round to where he lives, warn him what could happen if he continued and he stopped
@Crystalcudlee
@Crystalcudlee 5 ай бұрын
@@bambiesdoomsdaybluehow’d uno he was stalking you
@RachelSings21
@RachelSings21 4 ай бұрын
My ex husband was stalking and harassing me…police warned him and he stopped. God I got lucky there! Even then I was traumatised for a long time, this POOR woman! 😢
@rosieb714
@rosieb714 3 ай бұрын
This is why i stopped being friendly to people. It's hard to discern who is normal and who is weird.
@deadcell1
@deadcell1 3 ай бұрын
You don't know how to read people..
@binzypoo
@binzypoo 3 ай бұрын
That's really sad.
@szatanowska
@szatanowska 5 ай бұрын
When they start to take this seriously!? Her whole life is destroyed and it could end with victim losing her life!!
@liamclose8779
@liamclose8779 5 ай бұрын
God this awful, she looks so exhausted bless her, rightly so. I hope she gets the peace soon
@GenaF
@GenaF 5 ай бұрын
He p sees o
@LM-km8md
@LM-km8md 5 ай бұрын
Poor woman. I really feel sorry for her. 😔😔
@mabeluk6272
@mabeluk6272 3 ай бұрын
I was stalked by a 40 something stranger when I was 17 years old and very innocent. After being scared for a few months I had to give up my job.
@adele3344
@adele3344 4 ай бұрын
I’ve been stalked by who I now know as my neighbour on 3 occasions. Today (literally) I got a letter from the police saying they’d closed the case. They have CCTV for the first and 3rd time and still they don’t have enough evidence to “prove it” I have never met this man, but he can see my house from his window, follows me close enough to breathe in my ear and waits at the end of my road. Just breaks my heart that this is happening and the victims are no protected. My last communication from the police was that I needed essentially 3-4 more occasions for them to take it seriously again!
@sophieschoices9663
@sophieschoices9663 4 ай бұрын
Maybe get a man to talk to him? Family member, friend etc? So he knows its not going to end well for him if he continues..! Also, setup cctv, etc! Take care, be very careful (learn self-defense, carry something with you etc), no one deserves to go through something like this ❤
@adele3344
@adele3344 4 ай бұрын
@@sophieschoices9663 he has been arrested for it so he’s hopefully got the scare. My husband has gone to try and see him, but he watches me and only comes out when I’m on my own. If I carry deep heat for defence it is illegal and carries the same charges as a firearm so I’m literally stuck in my home until he moves. The police advised me to perhaps think about moving but not sure they would be willing to cover my stamp duty!! 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ just all very destroying xo
@_boracic_atreus_23
@_boracic_atreus_23 5 ай бұрын
I've been stalked and its awful. I never felt physically unsafe though. It must be utterly terrifying for women.
@CatsandJp
@CatsandJp 5 ай бұрын
Agnetha from ABBA had a similar experience after starting a relationship with a Dutch forklift diver…he stalked her after she wanted to breakup…she had a restraining order but it made no difference…..eventually he was arrested and banned from entering Sweden then when the ban ran out……he was seen near her estate again…..unfortunately no one is safe from a stalker.
@itsjemmabond
@itsjemmabond 4 ай бұрын
Yeah, I heard of that.
@rojamillerover
@rojamillerover 3 ай бұрын
So she stayed at the same property?
@rojamillerover
@rojamillerover 3 ай бұрын
So she stayed at the same property?
@rockybarrano33
@rockybarrano33 2 ай бұрын
She ended up going out with him…for a few years I believe..!!
@elizabethmchugh9811
@elizabethmchugh9811 4 ай бұрын
She seems like a nice lady.I hope she is safe and that she lives a life free from her stalker.
@sophieniechcial2501
@sophieniechcial2501 4 ай бұрын
This is horrific. Unfortunately, the law never seem to take drastic action until it's too late and only then they admit "lesson's should be learnt". I was stalked and the police didnt care until I was seriously attacked then he got jailed for 13 years
@sophieniechcial2501
@sophieniechcial2501 4 ай бұрын
I would be really interested to connect with you and work together towards changing the law? if you see this message I'd be grateful for a reply? I contacted my local MP after I was told that me trying to keep him away from me and attempting to fight to put exclusion zones in place would be a "breach of his human rights" and seen as "restricting his movements" despite the fact I was horrifically assaulted... Once I contacted my local MP I was then granted exclusion zones to ensure my safety when he came out at half time. He was then shortly put back in prison for breach of probation and still currently remains there, but I would very much like to attempt to change the current laws around this as its so outrageous that survivors have to fight for safety ... 😢
@annastone5624
@annastone5624 3 ай бұрын
I am concerned for you. But who do you want a reply from? This morning show? Criminal Psychiatrist Dr Sohom Das? Maybe try find a direct contact..
@gulliver7419
@gulliver7419 5 ай бұрын
Shame, this poor woman. I once had a guy who was interested in me and he wouldn't take no for an answer. He wasn't a stalker though and I found it incredibly stressful so I can imagine how stressful this must be.
@daisy5499
@daisy5499 5 ай бұрын
@@planethoth1238what a silly question to ask. How about because they weren’t interested, that is a valid reason to reject someone…
@artvid-1915
@artvid-1915 5 ай бұрын
​@@planethoth1238seriously???
@steviesavage
@steviesavage 4 ай бұрын
Having been 'stalked' (although not as badly as this poor woman) I was shocked and horrified to find that it is not possible to stop someone leaving voice messages on your mobile no.Yes, you can block them, but they are still able to leave messages, I think this really needs to be reviewed as it is so wrong!!
@zebratozebraexpose7406
@zebratozebraexpose7406 5 ай бұрын
I recently got sexually harassed for the second time in a year at two different businesses. The first guy used to know everywhere I went and the second one used to wait until my supervisor left and ambush me alone in the office 😔 He had a list of all the things he “loved” about me. He would cry at his desk next to me and nope around. It was absolutely full on and no one believed me. He was in his mid to late 50’s and I was only 30.
@TishA-ld5wd
@TishA-ld5wd 5 ай бұрын
You have to be careful around men when smiling and being generous, they take it the wrong way
@JimMorrisonsboots
@JimMorrisonsboots 5 ай бұрын
Very true if you pass someone and they smile they just being friendly?no need to read too much in to it maybe
@fernwitchofthedarkcastle
@fernwitchofthedarkcastle 4 ай бұрын
But as a woman if you aren’t friendly and polite to a man, that can trigger violence or hostility too. We can’t win.
@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559
@lavienestpasunlongfleuvetr2559 4 ай бұрын
I know 3 women who were stalked by men they had had NO INTERACTION WITH. The fact is that some people are sick in the head, and there is no way of preventing yourself from falling victim to them.
@AnonYmous-j7z1l
@AnonYmous-j7z1l 4 ай бұрын
NO WE DONT. Your saying woman need to change their personalities so men don’t harass us. NO WE DONT!
@TishA-ld5wd
@TishA-ld5wd 4 ай бұрын
@@AnonYmous-j7z1l no im explaining how a mans mind works
@Familysykes
@Familysykes 5 ай бұрын
If police wont keep him away ...have him took away for good....hes gonna end up doing something bad with her
@FunnyCoastline-wx7rr
@FunnyCoastline-wx7rr 5 ай бұрын
I had one for 10 years it got bad i didnt know his name address finally i caught up with him 22 years later sick individual police cudnt do anything bcos no evidence
@whatever5026
@whatever5026 4 ай бұрын
Sorry to hear that. What made your stalker stopped?
@FunnyCoastline-wx7rr
@FunnyCoastline-wx7rr 4 ай бұрын
@whatever5026 my letter to him a I outed him on social media he only stopped because his face was exposed
@philbrainy2399
@philbrainy2399 4 ай бұрын
Them category’s are a load of bull! A stalker is a stalker!
@cschof4351
@cschof4351 4 ай бұрын
Maybe this person needs to be sentenced to Broadmoor Hospital for their psychiatric problems . Jail certainly isn't working .
@biegebythesea6775
@biegebythesea6775 5 ай бұрын
it's power because men enjoy having power over women. this is simply one facet of it. it's terrible really.
@enlightenedsipper
@enlightenedsipper 5 ай бұрын
i wld argue not naturally... cuz movies. religions. cultures brainwash men. b4 those existed we had simple philosophies. being nice to others is being nice to ur self. sorry but stalkers r the product toxic environments and their own traumas. a strong community/family wld fix that. 4 example. if i found out my sister was being stalked. i wld lure him into a quiet spot. then carry out the physical duties with a bro. repeated till desired results r met
@jimmyhopkins3589
@jimmyhopkins3589 5 ай бұрын
Monsters like this guy maybe but not all men do. Not fair to tar everyone with the same brush.
@biegebythesea6775
@biegebythesea6775 5 ай бұрын
@@jimmyhopkins3589 it's not fair to be on the receiving end of it. most men do it but they do it to varying degrees, even in ways they might not think are controlling.
@ohuntermc9321
@ohuntermc9321 5 ай бұрын
@@biegebythesea6775most men?
@jimmyhopkins3589
@jimmyhopkins3589 5 ай бұрын
@@biegebythesea6775 so you’ve met most men? Sorry for your experiences but at the end of the day that’s your opinion.
@AMan-JCIL
@AMan-JCIL 5 ай бұрын
If the Law fails to protect you then you are justified for taking the Law into your own hands. If the Law fails the former than it cannot justify judging you for the latter!
@stephx8811
@stephx8811 5 ай бұрын
I had a stalker. He'd follow me in his car and wait in car parks for me, hed followed me to a club before and pushed me into one of the cubicles. My bf at the time was a police sergeant. He did absolutely nothing to help me, he just picked me up to get me out. Never attempted to arrest him or scare him off. In the end I think he was stalking another girl with a bf. He got sick of him and beat him up and had him put in a wheelchair. I felt bad for him but there's not enough help to protect the stalking victims and there's no psychological help which should be forced upon the stalkers, to protect the public.
@katiestudytube4572
@katiestudytube4572 5 ай бұрын
That sounds so scary
@katysummer9418
@katysummer9418 2 ай бұрын
Stalking is nothing new I absolutely don't understand why punishment by law hasn't caught up with the demand. Why do women have to die because of a stalker???
@A27-j5v
@A27-j5v 5 ай бұрын
Have no lessons been learned, laws changed since what happened to that poor girl in Harvey Nichols?
@lilmizeezee8350
@lilmizeezee8350 3 ай бұрын
My ex stalked me and harrased me..that was 16 years ago ...does he try message me randomly every few months on fb yep (blocked and reported so many times but makes new 1) ..... sees my friends ,he tries talking to them...and thinks they were friends and still are 😅😮 .... got a daughter and in his mid 30s but still tries asking about me ,where i live now ive moved ,tell me his a dad(like i care lol) Luckily he hasnt found out where i live 😢😢as ive been told he was hanging around my old area thinking i was still there
@deadcell1
@deadcell1 3 ай бұрын
The poor guy is torturing himself by keeping you in mind. I hope the guy finds peace and the strength to move....
@lfking9778
@lfking9778 5 ай бұрын
This reminds me of Baby Reindeer on Netflix which is a true story. A man offered a lady a cup of tea, and that was it. I hope this lady has protection and finds peace and privacy
@brumsgrub8633
@brumsgrub8633 5 ай бұрын
This is so weird,
@thebrummierailenthusiasts5329
@thebrummierailenthusiasts5329 5 ай бұрын
I can’t believe that stalker was bothering her as well as harassing her Why can’t the police just keep him in prison and keep him well away from her
@haxtral7160
@haxtral7160 5 ай бұрын
The issue is the law, because the laws arent great they legally cant keep him. If he is no longer committing an act or breaking the law it is unlawful for them to keep him in prison, and even if they can arrest him they can only hold him for so long. You also have the issue where by other than harassing someone he hasnt commit further offences so they can just send him away all the time. Really until he does something harmful to her they can only hold him for breaking any retaining order. Really shes in a literal nightmare situation, its essentially psychological torture. Im terrified for if she has kids or something. He literally studied everything about her and her life.
@solveigkorneliussen481
@solveigkorneliussen481 5 ай бұрын
Somebody called me on the phone for 5 whole years every singel night, all night long between midnight and 8 in the morning. Then it stopped… never found out who it was..
@MsBombastix
@MsBombastix 3 ай бұрын
That is truly terrifying. Do you have any suspicions, maybe an ex?
@solveigkorneliussen481
@solveigkorneliussen481 3 ай бұрын
@@MsBombastix i have Been suspicios of everybody, but no i dont know…. Cant think about it anymore cause that will drive me crazy. Think i never will find out…
@MsBombastix
@MsBombastix 3 ай бұрын
@@solveigkorneliussen481 That's horrible, would drive me crazy. I hope they never contact you again! I was stalked by my ex for 8 years and he used to call with hidden caller ID but I knew it was him.
@rss7173
@rss7173 5 ай бұрын
Poor woman, this happened to me with someone I worked with. Not to the extreme that this poor lady went through but I did feel unsafe. He left after a while when I bluntly said to him I wasn’t interested or attracted to him. I literally had to be horrible but I do wish I took it to the police in hindsight. It happened over 10 years ago. I have since moved and haven’t seen him since. More women should feel empowered to report it when it happens. I felt shame at the time, as I thought I led him on in some way but I was just being friendly like I was to everyone in the office.
@ElsjeMassyn
@ElsjeMassyn 4 ай бұрын
Strange Question. Can stalkers love ??? Of course not. What is the definition of love ?? Love is good, kind, compassionate, respectful. This stalker is everything the opposite. He has no goodness, no kindness, no compassion, no respect for this lady's wishes or privacy. He is delusional and a lunatic and a danger to society.
@wolfzmusic9706
@wolfzmusic9706 4 ай бұрын
This depends on the stalker. Like he said, if they are willing to get help then they can be rehabilitated.
@queenimade7632
@queenimade7632 3 ай бұрын
I had same experience about 14years ago. He was a total stranger. He did not stop even after being arrested and made to write an undertaking that he won't bother me anymore. I relocated and haven't seen him since then. They are sick and will not stop till something bad happens
@sandrajunghall9725
@sandrajunghall9725 4 ай бұрын
No one really believes that stalkers of the kind that move from hundreds of miles to within minutes of one's home and devote their lives to stalking really exist until it happens to him or her. These people are so miserable that they can seemingly find no pleasure except in the egoistic thrill they get from ruining the lives of people who have better lives through dedicated work and living respectfully lawful lives. Stalkers are more evil, patient and demented in their love of chaos than murderers; they are pure personifications of sadistic self-interest. In the Internet era of armchair stalking that can carry privacy violations as far as digital surveillance of a person within her own home... It's time that adequate avenues of dealing with these psychopaths that do not consume what remains of the victims' lives are created.
@Mipsie
@Mipsie 4 ай бұрын
She should move somewhere else like the UAE, safer country, he won't be able to afford to move to her and even if he did, the laws are so strict at the very least he'd be deported and never allowed to return to the country.
@nightcorebeatzx8652
@nightcorebeatzx8652 4 ай бұрын
That’s quite unrealistic, not everyone can afford to move and run away.
@mandajoyce8544
@mandajoyce8544 5 ай бұрын
Av been getting stalked by a stranger and av had to quit my job and i hqve him on camera on xmas day standing owtside my house and am now on anxiety meds because of it all and dont feel safe owtside or in my own house .
@WhiteRabbit556
@WhiteRabbit556 5 ай бұрын
read this book "the gift of fear" by Gavin de Becker
@lyndseymolly3131
@lyndseymolly3131 4 ай бұрын
Sadly, the law is reactive and not proactive 😢
@deadcell1
@deadcell1 3 ай бұрын
You can't lock a person up for a crime they haven't committed yet...
@ReaganRosee
@ReaganRosee 3 ай бұрын
The prisons/courts let them out. Ridiculous! Fails everyone involved even the stalker!
@mr.4ut109
@mr.4ut109 2 ай бұрын
can we all appreciate the fact that Jenny is gorgeous
@gracesanity6314
@gracesanity6314 5 ай бұрын
Give it no energy if possible...they love the supply of upsetting you. Indifference they hate.
@bereal6590
@bereal6590 5 ай бұрын
This is awful, poor woman! Laws need to change, he is clearly unhinged and dangerous
@lynsey08lynsey80
@lynsey08lynsey80 5 ай бұрын
I'm the victim of stalking and a couple of weeks ago I looked up an Ant stalking charity...the worst but is it's a relative who is the stalker.
@georginadarius-smith3785
@georginadarius-smith3785 4 ай бұрын
It’s sad because I am never friendly to any strangers any more because of this. I have become a very hostile person from fear.
@deadcell1
@deadcell1 3 ай бұрын
Friendliness from a woman is perceived differently than when a man does it. Always have been.
@iamaliveyoucantstopnow
@iamaliveyoucantstopnow 3 ай бұрын
Stalking is never about romance!!! IT IS ABOUT POWER AND CONTROL.
@Flowering_Glume
@Flowering_Glume 3 ай бұрын
Dr. Sohom Das! ❤ Love him! Look at those socks! He outclasses all other clinicians with that swagger.
@Ariesxoxo11
@Ariesxoxo11 5 ай бұрын
I’ve been getting stalked for years but nothing gets done about it I think because I’m a man it’s not taken seriously.
@ReviewBoard-uy5nv
@ReviewBoard-uy5nv 5 ай бұрын
Why isn’t there enough protection for women? She is stressed out so much her hair is thinning. It’s affecting her health severely
@laadeedah
@laadeedah 5 ай бұрын
Where did she mention her hair was thinning or that it was down to stress? Did I miss something?
@JM-eg6wj
@JM-eg6wj 5 ай бұрын
@@laadeedahI mean, it’s basic common sense that the poor woman will be stressed
@laadeedah
@laadeedah 5 ай бұрын
@@JM-eg6wj Yes obviously but there is no evidence her hair has anything to do with that. Seems a bit rude to point out something physical and to diagnose the cause.
@blondie9422
@blondie9422 5 ай бұрын
She might just naturally have hair on the thinner side. Don’t jump the gun and start commenting on her appearance because it’s rude and she might read these comments.
@ElviraCondomine
@ElviraCondomine 5 ай бұрын
Just what she needs. An internet stranger commenting on her appearance.
@sofialovinglife597
@sofialovinglife597 4 ай бұрын
Why do the police take this so lightly?
@SanjuSathish-yb9zn
@SanjuSathish-yb9zn 3 ай бұрын
Poor women. She did not deseve this. I hope she is safe from the Stalker again
@SanjuSathish-yb9zn
@SanjuSathish-yb9zn 3 ай бұрын
You are so brave . Keep it up
@megarichie007
@megarichie007 5 ай бұрын
My lord 😮 mad man
@islaalexa1443
@islaalexa1443 5 ай бұрын
RONNIE PICKERING
@alfydarkdeadly
@alfydarkdeadly 5 ай бұрын
Lol I thought the same thing 😅
@ArranVid
@ArranVid 5 ай бұрын
Ronnie Pickering is hot, a lot of women stalk him.
@Vlogged-off
@Vlogged-off 5 ай бұрын
Yet Alex bellfield get 7.5 yrs for email stalking 😂😂
@cecilialove7339
@cecilialove7339 4 ай бұрын
Stalking, gang stalking literally destroys lives. The laws need modernising.
@kendrakkhalilieh1616
@kendrakkhalilieh1616 3 ай бұрын
Shouldn't be allowed to live within a certain amount of miles. Should have to change his job too. He shouldn't be working or living anywhere near her. Police should do something. They are leaving her out there as bait. At some point he may try to harm her.
@deadcell1
@deadcell1 3 ай бұрын
Unless he threatened her then there isn't much they can do.
@Flaretree
@Flaretree 3 ай бұрын
When I saw her name the Ronnie Pickering meme came to my head with her name
@thebrummierailenthusiasts5329
@thebrummierailenthusiasts5329 5 ай бұрын
I think she’s gonna need a restraining order from that stalker and if he comes a few feet near her he will be arrested on the spot
@Nyansalot
@Nyansalot 5 ай бұрын
I found his Facebook, wow, the guy is deranged. The messages are creeping me out never mind his victim..
@sylviarosario6503
@sylviarosario6503 4 ай бұрын
This is horrific for this young lady. 😢😢
@monipipee
@monipipee 4 ай бұрын
This is so scary. I am glad stalking victims are getting more attention.
@mazalfamasud2763
@mazalfamasud2763 5 ай бұрын
Sounds like the film play misty for me. He needs to be in committed
@RosesGalore-hy3iw
@RosesGalore-hy3iw 3 ай бұрын
Stockers, love, coffee, shops
@dspencer8827
@dspencer8827 5 ай бұрын
A serious question . If you have a modern mobile phone etc...there is an option to block people you dont want calling you etc....social media also has option to block people too .....good luck 👍
@Reeshspieces
@Reeshspieces 5 ай бұрын
These people always find loopholes thought. You can block a stalker on anything but they still manage to pop up one way or another. Like she said he bought a phone and called her 2 hours after leaving prison
@problem.skinnn
@problem.skinnn 5 ай бұрын
That wasn’t a question…
@ArranVid
@ArranVid 5 ай бұрын
@@problem.skinnn True, lol!
@burcuekin240
@burcuekin240 3 ай бұрын
There is no strict laws , people are not scared anything.
@twofoursevenbeauty
@twofoursevenbeauty 4 ай бұрын
Stalking is never taken seriously imo
@lumailisa
@lumailisa 4 ай бұрын
This obviously is not aimed at good men: however I do think, from an early age, boys need to be taught to how to accept "no", what to do when told "no", and girls need to be taught how to say "no", so we don't get to the point where the adult male gets a "no" and can't handle it and goes off the deep end. Managing rejection is an art As for the criminality of stalking, it should be taken much more seriously. These are disordered people and repeat offenders (prison THREE times for the same offence??!) should be kept away from the public whatever it takes
@fay5479
@fay5479 3 ай бұрын
Smart meters are not cool...luckily i was stalked BEFORE the meter was installed...so easy to hack in real time...open the fridge door and the motor turns on, your position transmitted.
@itsjemmabond
@itsjemmabond 4 ай бұрын
Baby Reindeer brought me here.
@ketanhirani6243
@ketanhirani6243 4 ай бұрын
Did Ronnie not sort him out?
@sinchasin3611
@sinchasin3611 5 ай бұрын
I wonder why they didnt sack him immediately.
@rubyerinl4287
@rubyerinl4287 5 ай бұрын
That is so embarrassing
@tidalwaves8761
@tidalwaves8761 5 ай бұрын
i agree with the comment to get a large dog -or two. Also karate lessons and self defense - this will help if she ever needs to defend herself. Going for indoor and outdoor security and camera so that there is video evidence if he tries to break in. so sorry for this woman's situation and appreciate her speaking up about this.
@jenanderson9877
@jenanderson9877 5 ай бұрын
Such a shame that women have to take these measures to protect themselves
@VKjkd
@VKjkd 5 ай бұрын
Trying Boxing, Muay Thai Kickboxing and/or Brazilian Jujitsu instead of Karate for this use case. You will send an attacker to the other realm. Great exercise, ood fun, sense of community and keep your brain learning new things. Martial arts is a treasure for all 👍🏼
@Satsusss
@Satsusss 4 ай бұрын
All children should be taught self defense, it's more important than any sports, especially for women.
@janneholm7071
@janneholm7071 5 ай бұрын
Stalker.. jesus scary as ••••😕
@Araksi_N
@Araksi_N 4 ай бұрын
In the US this would be blamed on her , feminism , women not giving “nice guys a chance” Matt walsh would be crying about men not being able to approach or talk to women anymore
@neiluk78
@neiluk78 4 ай бұрын
This will happen more and more with our boat guests.
@daisylavender5275
@daisylavender5275 3 ай бұрын
I just saw a Lifetime movie like this. It was a doctor being stalked by a strange guy. He tried to ruin her marriage and life. It was crazy. Movie called Deadly Patient.
@Araksi_N
@Araksi_N 4 ай бұрын
It is a shame she is going through this , where I come from if the police doesn’t handle it , the stalker’s body would have showed up in a river or dumpster a few towns away . We don’t believe in mental illness and such excuses people use in first world countries
@dar799
@dar799 5 ай бұрын
Ronnie Pickering would sort him out
@Booster85
@Booster85 5 ай бұрын
Who? 😂
@Satsusss
@Satsusss 4 ай бұрын
​@@Booster85RONNIE PICKERING !
@Booster85
@Booster85 4 ай бұрын
@@Satsusss 😂😂😂😂
@d_i_a_b_l_o_gaming6699
@d_i_a_b_l_o_gaming6699 3 ай бұрын
Uncle Ronnie would sort him out 😅
@aimeekova
@aimeekova 5 ай бұрын
I was stalked by an ex partner and that was scary enough, he did go to prison for it…but I can’t imagine being stalked by a stranger it must be worse in ways.
@patinazir8673
@patinazir8673 4 ай бұрын
Very sad 😮
@homevideohub3601
@homevideohub3601 5 ай бұрын
Go see some travellers and pay them to sort it out. Easy.
@DemeeCollins
@DemeeCollins 5 ай бұрын
I was stalked my brother hung himself so he didn't know my brother but he hung himself and said I don't know know how your brother done this he kept on calling me to a point I couldn't take it no more so I overdosed left me in a wheelchair and his still making fake Facebook profiles and messaging me it's been 4 years
@AislingLyons-b7e
@AislingLyons-b7e 5 ай бұрын
This is why we don't trust men
@planethoth1238
@planethoth1238 5 ай бұрын
FEMINIST ALERT!!!!
@50ztej
@50ztej 5 ай бұрын
Have you seen some of the terrible things women have done? can't trust yall either.
@sweetkittiez
@sweetkittiez 4 ай бұрын
It's called home self-defense
@camillagreen5825
@camillagreen5825 3 ай бұрын
Jimmy gomez this guy that lives in Eastbourne. He tried to normalised stalking. He would sit outside my flat in the cafe! He lived half an hour away and there were plenty of cafes, but would always choose that cafe
@edwardjames9361
@edwardjames9361 3 ай бұрын
ive had a slight resentful stalker
@kevinchoudhury4248
@kevinchoudhury4248 4 ай бұрын
Wazza's doing really well i asked about him through rickky the other day . On it ❤ massisve shout out to this morning
@talltrees358
@talltrees358 4 ай бұрын
Had it for 4 yrs 10 months day night ,nothing done by police .I paid the price.
@ayedee6709
@ayedee6709 Ай бұрын
Why are there so many non-English people on this show?
@Edxn_
@Edxn_ 21 күн бұрын
I hear a British accent with all 4 of these people
@ProfRogers
@ProfRogers 4 ай бұрын
I feel very sorry for what this lady has been through. Obviously every stalking case is different and the stalker has a category. I once worked with a guy where a girl in the office tried to paint him as a weird stalker. The truth was that she had a fiance and had been having an affair with the guy in the office. She simply got scared when he fell for her, so she denied the affair and painted a picture. Nasty piece of work. Not saying that this is the case here of course, which is obviously genuine, but it just shows you what can be the case.
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