Thuli & Reabetswe Define Love |

[@sethuguza]

With all the mess that women go through on a daily, my one wish is for ALLL WOMEN to see true love in this platform that you've created Dennis (& the team) and may we all know that GOOD men still do exist and with even the man you are with now, you still deserve to be treated with respect and loved Unconditionally and you deserve to be treated how YOU want to be treated. #DearFutureBae😉😏❤

[@moitshepisparkles]

A Word 💯👊🔥

[@adbellar338]

AMEN!!

[@samke677]

Volume please ❤🔥🤗

[@societyzpinksheep2645]

I needed this today 😭❤️

[@sethuguza]

@@societyzpinksheep2645 ❤ Love&Light babes

[@ikiiya3026]

This girl's energy is everything,people are lucky.😭😭😭😭😭😍

[@thulinduvane7210]

ifitsnotkeathenwho ? THANK YOOOUUU! ♥️

[@itsharea_]

People are so lucky

[@MissJudith2019]

i knowww😩🧡🧡 and she sooooo pretty 🤩🤩

[@zanelemadiba178]

Thuli’s voice 😍😍😍. Ghel, get yourself on radio. What a beautiful, soothing voice 🙌🏿

[@thulinduvane7210]

Zanele Madiba I really love this! Thank yooouuu♥️

[@blessingnemakanga3931]

Zanele Madiba yes!! I could listen to her all day

[@nandiphamphithi6609]

Her voice, her energy... argh, I could listen to her talk all day long.

[@a.sydney5036]

Beautifulll voice.

[@mfundodlamini6099]

The significance of that foot washing is biblical on epic proportions. Washing away the dust of failure, hurt, heartbreak and blessing your new path of growth love and blessings...

[@geanramatsetse8699]

Bruh! 😭❤

[@SpindarellaM]

He washed her feet.😭 In love😍

[@nokuncedanxumalo6907]

My ex washed my feet too😂look at me now single

[@SpindarellaM]

@@nokuncedanxumalo6907 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dindimoreri7209]

He said I’ll always run back to you 😭😭😭these two must make a KZbin channel. ♥️♥️

[@waronanzala1001]

I second this 🤚🏾

[@SK-kr7du]

Yes yes 🥰

[@JabsMajozi]

The best things that happen in our lives don't have an audience. I think this episode of Defining gave us JUST what we need from their influence and EXACTLY what we needed to feel from their story.

[@itumelengmbane5922]

I enjoy the not so famous couples. This was beautiful to watch I enjoyed how Rea mentioned how he wanted to assess his intentions. His heart and his mind to ensure that he was ready to love someone. 👌👌👌

[@DEFINING]

I'm so glad you said that Itumeleng! We really want to reflect more relatable and genuine love more than anything else❤️

[@LihleM1]

Yes I felt that was so intentional.

[@Tleho]

Honestly, that was commendable. I also loved that part. Often you'd meet someone great with an amazing connection but because people are greedy, they'd string you along anyway even though they know with certainty that their timing is not right. Rea waiting it out until he was certain and had cleared his life for Thuli is really the energy I love to see. ❤️

[@letlhogonolomalele9921]

I will be featured one day on Defining. Mark my words.

[@valeriel7417]

le nna sham

[@stardustmammie]

😅😅😅 🙌🏾💯🙌🏾💯🙌🏾💯

[@ThuliShabalala]

Same sis!

[@nthabisengmosia5391]

Listen me too!!

[@nokuncedanxumalo6907]

😂 😂 Me too!!!!

[@thandongqase873]

I’m so drawn to Thuli, she’s so graceful. I love her.🥺♥️

[@puddiest_]

I don’t know how but this is one of the most authentic couples I’ve seen. You guys are stirring something in my heart. Really truly wish you all the best ❤️❤️

[@snenhlanhlambambo6655]

Right them and lerato and refiloe are my to 2

[@PhaelloTshabalala]

Whatever their souls are made of, his and hers are the same. Beautiful two. #soulmates #sbwl #idocomment

[@deedidi9205]

This is sweet

[@DEFINING]

Welcome back Rainy❤️❤️

[@ruvimboprecious]

Hardin and Tessa vibes

[@MomentsbyThandeka]

Anna Todd.

[@wshelby83]

I pray I get to experience real love that doesn’t hurt and is true from the beginning

[@sibongilelusizi5224]

Me too

[@dianamichael2130]

Amen, ❤️

[@intellectfree]

Lovely personalities 😍 the lady has an aura, something special about her ❤

[@elihle487]

Rea's letter.. "You water hope, possibility and adventure.... God planting your steps...Being living wells of love" 🥺😭 Thuli," You are my constant.."🥺🥺

[@siphokazitau5444]

I love how this is a not so famous couple... They have an amazing relationship, wishing Thuli and Rea all the love they give each other and more and more❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@thulinduvane7210]

Siphokazi Tau I think it’s so important to also feature regular people. Because a phenomenal love is possible for ALL OF US♥️

[@ntsepasematete386]

Oh my soul!!!!!! The way Rea asked Thuli to be his girlfriend 😭😍😍 I have GOOSEBUMPS!!!! 🔥🔥 Yho!!!! One of my favourite couples honestly! Such amazing people

[@londiwe9635]

😢😢😢😢😢 dude

[@DEFINING]

You're favourite segment is back🍾😬🚨. Comment below with any gems you picked up from this episode💕

[@abigailmmapaseka9976]

Love every couple even the more new faces it's ohk. They are defininglove that's the cutest part of it all😍😘😗😙😚

[@rethabilemalema4363]

Each time I watch any episode of DEFINING,I get reminded to NOT SETTLE...A love specially catered for you is out there somewhere❤😉😊

[@DEFINING]

Amen! Never settle in any aspect of your life. You were made for good things🙌🏿✊🏿

[@jenniferaphane9601]

You can see that Rea’s speeches in school were top notch kere the eye contact after every word 🔥

[@cecileliralicious]

Why am I crying?!!!!!!!!!! WOW. I felt that feet washing session.

[@moitshepisparkles]

"Love is choosing" ❤️💕

[@DEFINING]

A word❤️

[@nthabisengtabane8156]

Choose me baby 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣💕💕

[@GlowWithRed]

You know what I love? Laughing couples. Nothing more beautiful than 2 people who find innocent pleasure in each other’s existence. Have you see 2 people who love each other just laughing together?? Yho😭🤞🏽

[@DEFINING]

It's beautiful. SBWL ❤️

[@thulinduvane7210]

Glow With Red laughter is SO important to me 😭 if we can’t laugh together or you don’t make me laugh 👎🏽. Soooooo important to be mates before ANYTHING🙏🏽

[@mondeherstory9894]

Rea’s laugh is truly adorable. Thuli is so beautiful and graceful. Ahhhh 😍😍😍😍.

[@bongiweGinah]

Bona, it's everthing😂❤

[@mahlatsemasha2308]

Bathong where can I meet such an expressive guy?😭😭wow guys😪 He is very thoughtful.The things he says are deep😭😭 Omg Thuli is so beautiful 😊💕

[@thulinduvane7210]

Mahlatse Masha thank you so much ♥️😩. I think thank even if you don’t find someone who’s naturally expressive, if that’s your love language, he should work be that for you and give that to you! 🙏🏽

[@cindymakete7223]

Girll!! If you find him, let me know so I can go there find mine too

[@makgaitjale5532]

her skin hleng...

[@DK1original]

The way he asked her out 😢😢 wow man !! Also a man who is not on social media >>>

[@adbellar338]

Sometimes a man who isn't on social media has things to hide. In this case she got her jackpot.

[@thulinduvane7210]

DK thank you so so much! Him not being in social media ha definitely saved us ALOT of drama I must say! 😂

[@DK1original]

Thulisile Cwayita Nduvane lol I can only imagine - socials in relationships can be tricky. Loved your guyses live story may you have many many more happy years together

[@sthem2166]

Tell me where I can find such a man

[@createwithmishell_boo5137]

"I Wana serve you through this journey" I'm meeeelllting what the!!!😭😭😭😭

[@irenemkhabela5062]

Her laugh is contagious ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@nomfundomhlongo98]

I'm so in love with the way they love each other and their overall love!!!!!

[@boitumelokheswa]

10 months later, these two love birds are still my favourite❤️

[@HelangMedia]

😭😭😭😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ oh my word!!! There were he was like I just want to serve you?! Yhoo I would literally fall over and go meet my Creator because wow 🔥🔥 Ugh, a man! I have to stan 👏🏽👏🏽

[@adbellar338]

Men of intention and action are a needle in a haystack.

[@HelangMedia]

Adbella R what are those? FACTS!

[@fifimmitsimmitsi2280]

Hahahahahahahahahahaha....yoooh! yeah ne

[@amenkatse6486]

Ooh wow..i have watched a few videos of couples but this one..no maan i cried real tears😍😍😍 bathong, i have never been in a relationship where the guy was intentional about loving me.

[@memorymoyo4104]

you know at first site i was like who is this mdobisi guy. then he challenged my unconscious bias and displayed a kind of mature deliberate and intentional kind of love and relationship that is aspirational.

[@khunindlovu3310]

I always Stan the way it's being edited

[@DEFINING]

Thank you so much Fam🙌🏿😭🤗💕

[@celanigabuza6126]

A love so pure and intentional, you can’t help but melt. Every part of this journey consciously chosen and embraced by both🥺. Yours shines so brightly - it inspires ❤️

[@DEFINING]

❤️❤️❤️

[@leboneloungothedi2411]

Thuli's energy seems very contagious . I love it ! She reminds of my one and only baby sister. So loud yet a very warm heart. I wish them all the love that they deserve. Xx

[@thulinduvane7210]

LEBONE LOUNGO THEDI thank you so much for feeling all this energy through the screen 😂♥️🙏🏽

[@tshidiramabu6654]

I had warm, fuzzy feelings throughout this video. Their love and realness shines through the lenses. I wish them many happy years

[@Likhona04]

I still can't get over this couple, one of my favourite Defining videos.🥺❤️❤️❤️

[@pulane23_66]

Here for the attendance register 🎉💃I'm here sir.

[@DEFINING]

Gang gang🙌🏿😁🤗

[@shaun_star8737]

😂

[@tebogomononyane8594]

“Love is constantly, consciously deciding that I’ll choose you.”

[@lungisanjila1689]

I watch this episode every time i feel like I'm never gonna find someone to love me, and it gives me hope 😕❤️❤️

[@nkosingiphilentshangase1994]

The way he asked her to be his girlfriend. What a beautiful love, so intentional 😭😭😭♥️♥️♥️

[@DEFINING]

So pure too! Thuli is so blessed

[@recruitco_jhb]

" I wanna serve you through this journey" yhoooo trust me am not crying, it's just salty water coming out of my eyes.

[@DEFINING]

Your eyes are just sweating? hehe, thanks for watching Thabisile!

[@eyethumfazwe]

I remember seeing this video being in my recommendations and not wanting to watch lol. I'm glad that I eventually did because I got to see such a beautiful looking couple with depth and a purity about them. Rea's intentionality is rare in today's society but would be much appreciated by many ladies. The washing of the feet is not just rare but it speaks volumes about his willingness to serve his beautiful lady. Thuli's joyful energy is contagious and I love her level of honesty- telling her person when he isn't smiling great lol. Personally, I wouldn't mind being friends with them both because of their realness and love for 90 day fiance and married at first sight. God bless you

[@hellenmmile7481]

Dennis weh😩content quality,editing,hai mntakabawo thank you for your gift💛this segment really reinforces the beauty of love❤

[@DEFINING]

Thank you so much Hellen❤️ God is on the move here ❤️

[@AfriScents]

I HAD TO PAUSE AT 06:45 TO MARINATE IN THE INTENTIONAL MANNER IN WHICH HE ASKED YOU TO BE HIS WOMAN!!!! GAL WE ALL NEED A REA IN OUR LIVES!!!!

[@wshelby83]

AfriScents for real girl!!

[@thulinduvane7210]

AfriScents my giiiirl! 😩 it still blows my mind that someone would take the time to ponder on being intentional about my heart 🥺. We ALL deserve a Rea 🙏🏽

[@sunflowergirl9638]

After being deceived in love and going through heartbreak, I felt I could never trust again. Coming back to this video gives me a renewed sense of hope that maybe I can have a relationship as loving as this. ❤

[@Memi.F]

Jeez her voice😍😍😍🙆🏾‍♀️

[@ratibamohale]

Soon I will be featured here with my lady. Telling our love story

[@DEFINING]

;)

[@heartyhumourwiththato9938]

@@DEFINING Me too batho ba Defining hle!!! I'm ready to be invited. Actually, how do you even find these people? This couple is not known.. But I've been blown away more by them than any other couple I've watched. (PS. I just subscribed) Props to your 'couple scouting' mechanisms. You sure as heck know how to pick the cream of the crop. We appreciate that man. It's a skill! Let's be honest.

[@heartyhumourwiththato9938]

PS. I believe my relationship is the cream of the crop. 😅 Just in case you were wondering 🧠 ... and needed another "non-famous" couple...

[@DEFINING]

@@heartyhumourwiththato9938 Gang Gang🙌🏿😭🔥🔥. Thank you so much Thato. We are always on the look out for exciting and riveting stories🙌🏿🔥

[@heartyhumourwiththato9938]

@@DEFINING I'm all up in this peace!🎥🎞️📽️🎬 Just know that😔😭❤️

[@adbellar338]

When two souls with Faith choose each other,true LOVE will meet them on the horizon.

[@nosiphokubheka5665]

Wow!! "can I wash your feet" love them😍 I like how they broke each other's walls and now so in love with each other Rea has a nice voice 👌

[@sthembilethanjekwayo_za]

''..I just wanna wash your feet..'' Good Lord!! The depth in that. Thixo onofefe!!

[@bettymsengezi3555]

God I'm patiently waiting for my man

[@hlengiwedlamini6041]

"I will run back to you" 😭😍 He's so matured! Her energy is so infectious!❤❤

[@zwolugamutangwa8337]

YERRRR, Thuli, She's beautiful..

[@CynthiaM01]

Everything this guy says just sounds right🥺

[@DEFINING]

He was hard at work between September and February getting himself right. Would you wait that long?

[@CynthiaM01]

DEFINING I’m sorry came again? Lmao, this love story will not work for me. I would’ve been in a relationship by then. Cute but andizi

[@DEFINING]

@@CynthiaM01 Cynthia 😅🙈😂😂😂

[@nomfundosibanyoni3248]

I find myself praying for this channel. Best thing to happen for this generation when it comes to defining love. We believe in love, in forever and always.

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Nomfundo🙌🏿😭😭😭

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Nomfundo🙌🏿😭😭😭

[@lilithak2228]

Such bright auras from them both... I love how graceful and intentional they both are about their love for each other, and thank you DEFINING Fam for yet another bomb upload...🌻❤️

[@DEFINING]

I also love how they have addressed growth in their relationship. From varsity to young adulthood, it's cool to hear how they approach it. Thank you Lilitha ❤️

[@lesego4648]

Rea's Letter, WOW❤️😢

[@paballodithebe147]

I waited for this.. This is really amazing😍🔥👐😭 I think defining is helping me believe in love once again ❤❤❤❤👐🔥😭😭

[@DEFINING]

I hope it was worth the wait🙌🏿😁🔥

[@wshelby83]

Paballo Dithebe right!! I hope I get to experience that someday man. True genuine and authentic love

[@thulinduvane7210]

Paballo Dithebe I promise you it’s real & possible! ♥️

[@learnwithlindy]

Why am I smiling from ear to ear alone watching Thuli and Rea 😢🤔 beautiful man😍

[@DEFINING]

Do you do your best thinking in the bathroom?😅😂

[@naledimanthoko1520]

Yes and I pray sometimes

[@nyanya-ray7235]

ABSOLUTELY!!! I make the best immediate decisons on the toilet and ponder my life in the shower😂

[@sokhanamngambi8792]

Lol YESSSIR

[@refilwedigoamaje2381]

Oh yeah definitely!

[@ndinnewendy]

In the shower, yup 🤭

[@kamvafuzile8464]

This has to be my favourite episode. I'm here watching every now and again. It's absolutely beautiful. I can't get over "big bums". You know it's real love when they have noticed your perfectly proportionate head, it's so cute. One cannot lose hope of finding love after watching such episodes. My heart is happy and melting at the same time.

[@mahtlisto1083]

2023 I came back again😭😭 I hope they still together I love them so much 😍🥰😍🥰😍🥰😍♥️♥️

[@muhlekhoza6272]

They not together anymore 😢😢

[@paulatusha5617]

😢Hawu

[@amantlemasego4341]

I cant stop watching this couple like everyday before i start watching any other videos i start with REA and Thuli i so love them sheeem

[@ThatyMahloko]

She’s a viiiiiiibe 😅♥️

[@zanelemadiba178]

Omg! Rea’s letter 😭😭🖤😍. I honestly need Thuli’s prayer notes. Both their letters actually. I’ve decided, the letters are my favorite 🙌🏿

[@DEFINING]

Give yourself sometime before picking favourites :P. It's only week 3 mos? haha

[@zanelemadiba178]

DEFINING that is true. I just cannot help it. I’m just binging on all these beautiful content. I’ll start pacing myself on choosing faves! 🤞🏿

[@DEFINING]

@@zanelemadiba178 I'm joking with you💕. I am so happy to have you here

[@patrickkeabetse3282]

I have watched this 4times , what they have is authentic love , and they make me to up my games with my partner.Rea Boy you have to marry her she is everything that thoughtful and determine guy needs .

[@khunindlovu3310]

the fact that I voted for 10 and u guys uploaded at 10 🙋🙋🙋🙋

[@SinikeziweSoxa]

oh my goodness what a love journey, this is sooo pure and beautiful haybo.😭😭❤

[@mezameza7178]

😭😭😭😭❤❤😍😍😍Hayini mara where's my soulmate

[@thobie001]

Honestly...I dont know why I'm getting teary at the end of this episode. God bless you Dennis for creating such content.I believe in finding love everytime I watch DEFINING. I Hope you know that you heal lost and broken souls with what you do.

[@DEFINING]

Thank you Thobile🙌🏿🙏🏿🤗. I'm glad we have helped you💕

[@pulengchabeli8024]

This was so beautiful. Seeing Black love being lived out is such a beautiful win. That love maps on melanin and that love comes in many hats, but that it is always beautiful. Stories like this are the hope many wait for to yearn for love again. Beautiful, beautiful episode.

[@karabopretty6678]

This is beautiful😊❤ Can we please have Mo and Mome on the show🤗

[@thuliswamfanekiso3331]

I love Thuli's voice..And her aura wow ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@DEFINING]

Infectious right🙌🏿🥺❤

[@vhondiwamungai7206]

This is so beautiful! I can't wait to see The Ngwenyas House on this show!

[@minenhlehlongwa1419]

This couple is my most favorite on this channel.....the realness off their love and their story touches me

[@sibonelogamnca1350]

This is so authentic, may God bless and keep you guys.

[@mondeherstory9894]

My heart jumped for joy when I saw this!!!! Another one 🙌🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽. I haven’t even watched that time but I’m already commenting!

[@jolenejojo8583]

Halfway in this & oooh, I love her energy. You can see she has a beautiful soul. Beautiful soul people are really everything to me. May your relationship stay blessed & may you keep choosing each other every day. ♥️♥️♥️ #loveliveshere

[@mbalenhlemakhaza6294]

Love so genuine, pure and authentic. No day goes by without me watching this video. If this isn't the true definition of love then I don't know what is. Thank you Rea and Thuli and thank you to the Defining team❤.

[@nonhlanhlatlhogi5204]

🥂To us notification gang #DefiningLove ♥️

[@DEFINING]

You are so appreciated🙌🏿😬🤗

[@sibusisomemela8181]

We are within 🔥🔥🔥

[@rukamwi]

A goofy, honest and intentional young love.❤️ Here's to many, many more!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@molebogengsebogoli9294]

It has become a routine for me that after every new @Defining episode I come back to this episode each and every time 😍😍😍🥺🥺🥺🥺

[@amantlepearl8824]

Me too. They'll forever be my faves

[@azwihangwisiramuhashi1015]

me too

[@makhananisithole7934]

The first Defining Love episode to make me cry ❤️😭❤️😭 It is such a pleasant experience to witness/get a blimpse of such beautiful love

[@DEFINING]

They are really so relatable❤️. Their love is refreshing right?

[@tsakanimahlawule5473]

It is so beautiful to see young couples grow in love and know their intentions with one another and within the relationship. Lets keep #DefiningLove

[@DEFINING]

Will do Tsakani ❤️

[@okuhlegama3333]

the letters always get to me 😭😭😭😭 this is a weekly reminder that love truly exists and when God brings you together with your person, you'll know. 😭😭😭❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@zanim98]

The love letters man, I always look forward to those. People living in love, loving themselves and in turn being able to love others. Ugh, thank you guys.

[@lebohangmaloka1902]

This is hands down, my favourite defining episode...their love looks beautiful

[@koketsorapoo6109]

They had me at "I just want to wash your feet". This is my favorite couple on defining love 🙌

[@DEFINING]

Same! I was so speechless in the room! I have never heard something so pure and thoughtful :O

[@lexioko]

Why am I watching all the DEFINING LOVE videos all over again? It's a Sunday and I'm sitting with a box of tissue wondering if I'll ever get to experience thisssss

[@ubuhlebakwasibiya6087]

The washing of the feet was worth the 1 year wait ❤️❤️

[@nqobilekhumalo7407]

Just keep coming back to them they are just my Favs❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@mezameza7178]

😭😭😭😭😭😭"When she said you are my home"....I felt that❤❤

[@thulinduvane7210]

Meza meza you know that feeling when you get home after a long day and you take your bra off, and unzip your jeans? I really feel like that’s what love should feel like. That “FINALLY, I’M HOME!” feeling ♥️

[@olwethuyekela4748]

Thuli's voice is really beautiful and I loved her personality. This was really lovely to watch.

[@nondumisomhlongo]

I'm here watching this again because this episode feels so authentic 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@molebogengsebogoli9294]

I am not one to repeat shows or anything but I can truly say I have been watching this almost every week since it came out 🥺🥺🥺Thank you guys for allowing us to experience such honest and intentional love🥺🥺🥺Wish each and every woman to experience such🙂🙂🙂

[@Lisa-ux1hr]

This is my favourite defining love. I will always come back they were such a lovely couple.

[@elizabethdimakatso4175]

What a adorable couple. Thulie i love ur voice u should be on radio

[@thulinduvane7210]

Elizabeth dimakatso YES!! I’m working on it giiirl 😂♥️

[@nicolekristinarendse196]

Aawwh omg this story is unreal❤️ thank you guys for sharing!!! Ah my heart😭

[@juliamashiane6834]

Mark me present ma'am💃

[@msgugu3772]

Wow! 🙆🏾‍♀️ This was so beautiful. So many takeaways from this episode. Got me jotting down things in my journal. Yal are true gems ❤️. May your love continue to grow.

[@DEFINING]

God really showed off with them❤️. We are so lucky to have them on our platform