This was really so powerful, for one I am trying to quite alcohol but from your video I've realized it's all in the company that you keep as a person if your friends cannot respect your boundaries then you know what you need to to do
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
Definitely !! 👌🏼
@matha_kunenee2 ай бұрын
Goodluck on quitting alcohol, after 3 years of trying to, I finally did it It’s been 83 days and I’m not going back.
@_keabetsoe3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing and being open with us doll. I too stopped drinking entirely in 2022. Nothing good ever came from that 😂 the hangovers and bad decisions weren't worth it. It takes real discipline. Now I'm battling with a food addiction and I'm determined to get through it because it's for my overall health and well being. This inspired me so much. Thanks Thuto. ❤
@bonangdew51222 ай бұрын
I resonated with a lot but the one that stood out is when you said that when you set your mind to stop doing something and that thing starts to disgust you , feel the same about groove now - like I just cant be found in a club sana it disgusts me , thank you for the video🥰
@neoseabi66523 ай бұрын
I'm battling with smoking vape and weed and i feel disgusted every single i smoke it 😪 this really is a spiritual thing and from today, i wanna stop smoking, i feel like i needed to see this just to confirm that i need to stop. So prada you ❤
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
You can do it love ❤️❤️
@ZethuNdebele2 ай бұрын
Your aura definitely makes you more gorgeous🥹🥹
@PhethehoRamaphakela3 ай бұрын
Please do a GRWM video of advising girls in they early 20s🥺❤️
@snqohpearl17933 ай бұрын
Please hle
@Nombulelo_J3 ай бұрын
I really enjoy these girl chats you do once in a while. For me its always like great advice from a big sista !🥺♥
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
I love that 🥹🥹 I also feel that way 🩷
@SenathiMakonco3 ай бұрын
And that’s on growth, slow progress is better than no progress. I’m happy for you babes
@thutomaphala2 ай бұрын
Period. Thank you babes 🩷❤️
@fundizulu58343 ай бұрын
I am soo proud of you Thuto for being soo disciplined and consistent
@thutomaphala2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🥹🥹🩷
@busisiwedlamini4373 ай бұрын
I’m currently on a sober journey alcohol is a terrible crutch for me. it’s one of the most difficult things I’ve done but I have to constantly remind myself this is part of self love ❤ amazing video
@thutomaphala2 ай бұрын
It’s not easy at all but the fact that you want better for yourself is good enough and more reason for you to continue ❤️
@KeaMaaroganye3 ай бұрын
Your overall look was phenom😍, I appreciate the chat so much. HAPPY that you opened up about this and so PROUD of you 👏🏽👏🏽 ILOVEYOU!
@AkhanyeNkosi-k4j3 ай бұрын
To us 🥂 who like the video before it even starts and to us 🥂 who don't skip ads. We love your content doll ❤. Thank you for blessing us 💐💐
@mapasekasebutsoe64913 ай бұрын
To us 🥂
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
Exactly doll 🙂↔️❤️ thank you ❤️
@connectandignite3 ай бұрын
So proud of you Sis❤❤ Thank you for being vulnerable with us
@SiphesihleMtshiyo3 ай бұрын
You’re so soft spoken 🥺🤍enjoyed watching this.
@HisPrincess_2 ай бұрын
Your chit chats are so graceful, informative, relatable and education al and meaningful, love it for us ❤ Thank you stunner and please never feel like you can’t have these type of chats w us because other will feel like you bigger than us NO. These are the type of chitchats we need !!!! 🎀
@queennkosi79383 ай бұрын
I love how soft spoken you are ❤❤
@according_to_tash3 ай бұрын
A consistent doll😊 I enjoyed this chit chat, I admire the transparency and that you were open with yourself and us as well 👏🏾
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
I was so anxiety about this. I almost didn’t upload it 🥹🥹
@SNVee3 ай бұрын
17:20 that is me with alcohol. I went to a festival and only remember ONE night of a 3day festival 😢 i had to quit and have that conversation with myself. I am not like everyone else. Yet my hungovers are horrid. One drink/can has me sick the next day. I recently went back but I have chosen which drinks. I literally stopped Savanna and I rarely drink wine or keep wine because I finish the bottle and that is it of my night - no memory of that night. It's really important we know ourselves and be protective of ourselves because we are NOT the same. 20:41 yes true 😂😂 we can't be struggling for drinks with 20 years olds and fighting for the waiters' attention 😅
@siviwequvile13612 ай бұрын
Thank you for opening up to us. I am so glad there’s more people my age that like a different kind of fun. You are doing well I hope you get the strength to continue with this path. 🌸❤️
@thutomaphala2 ай бұрын
Thank you 🥹🩷
@Nelafyed2 ай бұрын
A month is an accomplishment 👏🏾 small wins are still wins😊
@gugulethusanie11893 ай бұрын
It truly so annoying when people force you into drinking that’s so weird. None the less I loved and enjoyed the video. We’d definitely love more of these❤❤
@Luciamatlhola3 ай бұрын
A consistent girlie 🌸thank you T.
@fundiswantaka86092 ай бұрын
Your hair is so stunning, just stumbled upon your vlog. Defs gonna subscribe ❤
@SBO8413 ай бұрын
I was so obsessed with hubbly one day i came back from work and set the hubbly, 20 minutes in i felt so dizzy and out of space, even vomited. That was the last time i ever smoked hubbly i said no more, it has been over 3 years now i don't ever get tempted.
@Kamothecreator2 ай бұрын
So glad you Spoke about the effects of vaping because way too many people glamorise it as they have a cute look and yummy taste. Though unfortunately they have some nicotine and is addictive just like cigarettes
@TebogoMphuti-o4c3 ай бұрын
I love the whole message its really true that everything you do just put your mind into it
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
Literally 🔥
@zamanene19573 ай бұрын
I love you please❤ so proud of you for instilling change. Health matters!!
@thutomaphala2 ай бұрын
Ily too 🩷🩷
@lindiswatyokela29513 ай бұрын
I'll never het tired of a Chit chat vid 🥰🥰
@Kazi_mpofu3 ай бұрын
Love this sit down with you doll please do more❤❤❤ My addiction is coffee 😭😭
@palesa_Molale3 ай бұрын
Such a humble soul ❤
@noluthandompambane61292 ай бұрын
we deserve to hear speaking Setswana in every vlog😍
@thutomaphala2 ай бұрын
Got it 😂❤️
@isenathimabutyana682Ай бұрын
I loved this kind of video Thuto, thank you for sharing hey.❤
@SibongileMokoena-t6e3 ай бұрын
You are such a beautiful and classy lady. You inspire me a lot! ❤️❤️❤️
@Nobuhle4893 ай бұрын
Thank you for this Thuto 🥺❤️ and your hair you can see its quality 🫰🏽
@RemoratileMoleko883 ай бұрын
I noticed back on your Dubai vlog I think, last night I realized I'm actually addicted to vape but I'm so proud of you !💗💗
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
That’s haven for vapes and hubbly 😭
@kaytimes23 ай бұрын
Man, the timing of this video. I'm a few days into quitting cigarettes after a 7-year addiction, and I keep telling myself that I won't lose to something that can't even speak back 🤣 You're completely right, it's all in the mindset, as tough as it might seem. Loved loved loved this video! Please continue making more girl chats, you never know who's going through the same ❤❤ Thank you
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
The way I laughed out loud reading the “ I can’t lose to something that can’t speak” part bcoz real 🤣🤣🤣 you’re absolutely right, but I’d suggest you try out those gums they might help you a lot 🩷 thank you for watching & could relate 🥹🩷
@onaikieg2cute3 ай бұрын
You look stunning Kourtney 😍😍
@DD-kv5uu3 ай бұрын
Your doing so good with consistency babe ❤❤❤
@thutomaphala2 ай бұрын
Thank you love ☺️🩷
@Nonhlanhla_Fortune3 ай бұрын
Yhoo i used to smoke hubbly a lot too.... They stole it and that's how i stopped smoking😂😂😂 it's been over 2 years now❤
@Lerato_M3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂I love that thief
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
😂😂 that thief did the most
@Nonhlanhla_Fortune3 ай бұрын
@@Lerato_M 😂😂😂😂 God will bless him/her for me❤️
@Lerato_M3 ай бұрын
@@Nonhlanhla_Fortune definitely, he saved my girl ❤️😅😅😅
@bonolomichel88273 ай бұрын
This was such an informative chitchat, love it!! ❤😍
@ledii_m3 ай бұрын
Makeup turned out stunning babes!!!❤
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
Thank you love 🩷🩷🌸
@KenoMokete3 ай бұрын
I loved this video 😍 A q&a would be lovely we haven’t had those in a while 💕
@JustLee_P3 ай бұрын
Definitely loved this sit down, please do more. ❤️ I feel like you & I have the same problem when it comes to alcohol. I used to cringe so much when I think of the things I’ve done in the past, when I’ve been drunk. Alcohol is definitely not for me either.
@tholwanagcisa90453 ай бұрын
Thuto this was my 1st time hearing you speak Sotho and honestly it suits you well. I think it was Setswana but please continue speaking it .
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
It was Setswana 😅 I’m not fluent in it but will speak it here and there 🩷
@Nelafyed2 ай бұрын
Addiction is sooo real 😢😮 - I've been fighting my addiction of weed this entire year
@nobuhlefiltane30873 ай бұрын
You always have the best hair doll 😍❤
@naledimachaba40273 ай бұрын
Enjoyed this babes. Give make 14 of them right now❤❤❤
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🙂↔️❤️
@siphosethumsoki76573 ай бұрын
Semuhle mama, we'll get to 50k soon😍❤
@matshidisotiamokoena22083 ай бұрын
Really enjoyed this ❤
@sinothandomngomezulu77953 ай бұрын
Thank u for the vlog u such an inspiration 💗
@amukelanikhosa25912 ай бұрын
Loved this ❤😊
@NqobilePrayer3 ай бұрын
The most soft and gorgeous girl❤
@andileradebe89593 ай бұрын
we love this video, please do more of this
@snerh_makhanya3 ай бұрын
You’re so beautiful ❤enjoyed this chitchat vlog
@Kay_Goddess3 ай бұрын
❤❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤❤ definitely would appreciate more of these girl chats🌻🌻🌻🌻
@peeweenyathikazi20912 ай бұрын
awesome video. so calming ❤
@kgalalelo23 ай бұрын
The 2 seconds where you spoke Setswana🥺please ke rata bagaetsho ka pelo yame yotlhe🤭❤ Also please do more of this sit downs, I really enjoyed it
@andiswamsomi14393 ай бұрын
definitely enjoyed this chit chat video !🥺 can we maybe get an updated luxury fragrance video ?👉🏽👈🏽🥺
@nompilombanjwa42393 ай бұрын
I love your make up look Thuto. It's simple and beautiful ❤ I definitely enjoyed the chit chat babes.
@abbychelaАй бұрын
New subbie!😍🥰 love you!!
@palesamphahlele3 ай бұрын
Loved loved this!! Felt like i was on facetime😩❤
@jeanieledwaba72863 ай бұрын
Thoroughly Enjoyed this chit chat, Felt like we were on facetime 🤭 please do more of these chomi🌸💕
@thutomaphala2 ай бұрын
Definitely chomi 🌸🩷
@vuyogqola3 ай бұрын
Thank you for your vulnerability. I hope you fully recover ❤❤❤
@Elizabeth-vu1tb3 ай бұрын
This was lovely; we need more sit downs. Check in’s every 6 months or so… ❤❤❤Heart To Heart ❤❤❤
@ItsMissLeesa3 ай бұрын
15:13 love it ke sana when you speak Setswana 🤭😍😍
@MermaidKhabonina3 ай бұрын
I Really Enjoyed This Chit-chat Doll🎀💖💖 I Love Your Charisma & Vibe🌟🔥
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
Thank you babe 🥹🩷
@wamemoks58383 ай бұрын
My fave girl 🥺😍
@peaceunderpressure3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your addiction story chile, someone needed it i know. Thanks for also telling Kay, Mondays are not for stews, i needed to hear that😂😭.
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
They truly aren’t 🤣🤣 esp before 10 am
@thatogatsiayyy43233 ай бұрын
Really enjoyed this girl chat🤭
@SithokozileFortunate3 ай бұрын
Love you ke doll♥️
@mphojoelesole22642 ай бұрын
Well done for beating the addiction Thuto!
@slindileprincessngcobo15373 ай бұрын
My fav is here🎉❤❤❤
@lehlabile_m3 ай бұрын
When you speak setswana…🥰🥰🥰
@preciouslethabo923 ай бұрын
You are such a breath of fresh air🥹❤️ I hardly comment on your channel but I will get used to it
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
Aww thank you babe 🥹 yes you should ❤️
@nompumelelondlovu28593 ай бұрын
Thank you chomi ❤
@tsakamhlabane92693 ай бұрын
Hey babe, which setting powder would you recommend the Laurie mercier or huda and what shade pls for reference….. I need a good setting powder🤭
@zanelegloria2893 ай бұрын
Hi Thuto, you took the perfect turn by stoping your habit, I Recently Lost a very close friend if mine due to smoking hubbly, she was having Lung problems, I watched her Suffer for six years until she Lost the battle, she died a week ago, before she died she told me that she used to smoke hubbly every day. Thanks for your honest vlog.
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry for your loss , that must’ve been so hurtful for you 💔
@sbahledlamini88073 ай бұрын
Love this😍
@BanothileMbhele3 ай бұрын
When Thuto talks, I listen. Thank you for this chit chat ❣
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
Anytime darling 🩷🩷
@VuyoNgceba-u6r3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much sis. ❤
@rocharlleleepile59603 ай бұрын
Ah! I froze ke utlwa o bua Setswana ekare you are now speaking to me directly!😅 It was lovely to hear you o bua Setswana. 😊
@refilwemamabolo41473 ай бұрын
Thank you for the chit chat babe ❤
@phumiemchunu92783 ай бұрын
Its called growth bbe,as we grow we realise that some things are just a waste in our lives…im one of those people that landed in hospital ecause of vaping and shisha..after that experience i stopped even alcohol so koodowz to you 👏for the realisation
@PalesaV2 ай бұрын
Catching up this is the only video I haven't watched..❤️😍
@Lerato_Morailane3 ай бұрын
Saw makeup tutorial and stopped immediately… make me a fine babe hle 😂😂
@alibongwemathenjwa263 ай бұрын
My fave!😍😍
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
❤️❤️
@The_Queen_Lelani3 ай бұрын
Me liking the video before watching 🥰
@marciamaseko2633 ай бұрын
Absolutely loved how the make up turnout. Do you mind sharing how many inches is that hair
@thutomaphala3 ай бұрын
Thank you ☺️ it’s 20”
@SefularoMohlamonyane3 ай бұрын
It all love❤
@Lifeasjoanne3 ай бұрын
Looked pretty ❤
@lisa_k023 ай бұрын
Enjoyed the video 🤍
@keneilwemahuma57573 ай бұрын
I think we should have Q&A or life update before the year ends
@BontleZamoo3 ай бұрын
Hey dzolll❤
@boipelophago2 ай бұрын
your makeup is soo beautiful Thuto 💓...Love your content so much, we are the same age but I feel like your my older sister 😅😊
@Elizabeth-vu1tb3 ай бұрын
I hear you; and to think it all started with us just smoking hubbly occasionally.. To think I don’t even know how a cigarette tastes; but now we are worse than them.🤧😭😭 But I’m glad I’m not a fan of alcohol. Because I would have been a MESS.
@Piyoxmash3 ай бұрын
I could listen to you speak all day lady. 😅😅😅 Lovely make up.
@nomusanzama3 ай бұрын
Well said. I needed to hear that. I need to shed these extra 10kg.
@golebaoneednahmabudi54603 ай бұрын
Elegant ❤
@thandig36833 ай бұрын
Thuto people will not applaud good behavior. When you stop drinking they ask why instead of encouraging you. One thing I live by...if I need to have something everyday I need to stop. I fear addiction and not having control of my body hence IL never do edibles for example. They are not good for me. I don't go there and that's okay. Do you babe ♥️
@thutomaphala2 ай бұрын
Literally. Knowing what works for you and doesn’t is so important