Why I stopped drinking for a year || failed get to know me || relationships

[@MONDEJIYANELIFE]

I used to drink heavily and can relate to everything you saying, I'm grateful to Covid for helping cut down on alcohol and removing the toxic people in my life. I still drink but its soo minimal now and its usually indoors, super grateful for the change and I'm more productive.

[@thutomaphala]

Awww that’s great process. Im so happy for you. Keep it up 🤍🤍

[@onenkosisimilemkize3191]

Truly loved the honesty and accountability on the alcohol part. We appreciate the honesty

[@thutomaphala]

Thanks boo

[@adoseofnoxy9835]

Thanks for the transparency and sharing on why you stopped drinking. Unfortunately we don't have enough of these conversations as the youth. And it's truly ANNOYING when people want to force others to drink and don't respect boundaries.

[@thutomaphala]

Thank you for watching. I agree 🤍

[@rochellemathebula9156]

The honesty and accountability while discussing the alcohol part 👌🏾I am impressed, thanks for being open!and yes they are a people out here who don't drink, am 26 and I have never tasted alcohol... all my friends drink, I don't mind... honestly people ask me why don't you drink and I tell them there is no major reason, it's just a decision I took in my early teens that I won't drink alcohol ever!

[@thutomaphala]

Thank you , wooow I think I’m gonna start saying that as well 😂

[@naledimofficial]

I totally relate to the situation about drinking 🥺💔

[@thutomaphala]

Yoh :(

[@kea_mpete]

You took ownership of your life from alcohol 🥇🔥🔥I am so glad you did what most people are afraid to do all in the name of being "cool"❤

[@vuyolwethumdleleni6323]

Hey Thuto! Thanks for this Vid, I totally relate with the alcohol part. For me it all started when I would want to be "white girl wasted" and the worst part is that I'm an introvert so I would do things that are waaaaay out of character. I still cringe when I think about the things I would do under the influence and I was on anti-depressants, it was just a bad combination all around. Yikes the blackouts were the worst.😅

[@thutomaphala]

Hey love. Askies. I’m also an introvert. You don’t need to impress anyone. Be yourself and people will fall inlove with that

[@vuyolwethumdleleni6323]

@@thutomaphala Absolutely true!🌻

[@leefortunate5764]

Drinking has cost our youth their future,literally!

[@londolozambokazi4144]

Thank you for being vulnerable and honest about your drinking habits. I know its hard to admit. You are not alone.

[@hlehlemamba5571]

The drinking thing you just described is me Jesu. I wanna stop 🤞🏽

[@leratotlali749]

The growth Thuto 🙌🏼😭😩❤️. I see so much positive change in you and I love it so much. You’re a lot calmer and you seem more content being your true self.

[@thutomaphala]

Thank you babe. Preciate it

[@dimphomaponyane]

I enjoyed this Thuto, I love how accountable you are to the things you used to do because of alcohol. I loved your honesty and vulnerability.

[@thutomaphala]

Thank you for watching 🤍🤍

[@lesegoyv]

Well done on the change you made on alcohol. 👌🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👌🏾👌🏾 Being self aware is very important

[@AyannaIman]

you have such a calming voice to listen to omg. loved this video girlie 💕

[@tebohokhoza4253]

i was smiling throughout the whole video, you’re so beautiful 🥺🤌🏽

[@KeaMaaroganye]

I’ve stopped last month , so I’m feeling better with the decision of leaving alcohol 🙏🏽 also , varsity is very hard 😭 just graduated last Friday & it’s also one of my biggest accomplishments, after surviving depression , my degree is definitely an achievement ! ♥️♥️

[@thutomaphala]

Awww congratulations babe !

[@deeduch]

You come across as such a genuine soul, looking forward to more of your videos gorgeous 😍

[@thutomaphala]

Thank you my love ❤️

[@simplyadelaide6670]

It literally felt like I had a one on one with my sister 🥰❤️God bless you

[@NobuhleZulu]

Riiiiiiight !!!! ☺️🌸😘

[@thutomaphala]

Awww❤️❤️

[@simplyadelaide6670]

@@NobuhleZulu yess queen ❤️

[@vanessajessicahlophe8037]

Thank you for your honesty on the alcohol part ❤️

[@snethembagwambe7609]

Love this video🌸.Definitely related to the alcohol part,started my sober journey as well.Also the BBL part chile😂

[@rebonematonsi426]

I love the growth ❤. And your teeth are perfect babe. I'm having braces now and removing them in 8 months, I'm so happy to see your teeth so perfect for someone who had braces😍. Thank you for letting us know about you🙏❤

[@thutomaphala]

Thanks love. You’re gonna love your new teeth 😀❤️

[@sibahlengalo]

I'm definitely going to try to stop drinking bc I relate to what you're saying. I want to stop. You've just motivated me. Thank you ❤️❤️

[@thutomaphala]

You welcome

[@svb6594]

Road to 10k!!! 🥳🎉🎉 Kana it’s too early? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@thutomaphala]

Hahaha no it’s not babe. 10k road pls 🎉🎉

[@tswari]

Loved and enjoyed this so much, very genuine, thanks for sharing with us❤️

[@lesegoshili9521]

I'm inlove with you gosh love when you giggle and love your honesty ❤️

[@thutomaphala]

Thanks babe

[@nobantugeorge3470]

I loved your honesty in this Q and A 💕

[@thutomaphala]

Thanks boo

[@KeaMaaroganye]

What a relatable video overall actually 🤯🥲

[@precioustiroesele6981]

🇧🇼Love that you have been to my lovely country...vlog when you come back here again ❤️❤️

[@thutomaphala]

💖💖

[@Gorgeous.Siyoli]

That alcohol part 🙌🏽big ups Thuto. Wish more youngsters could listen to their body. I always say alcohol is a curse it’ll never bring u anything good, think of all the broken families ngenxa ye alcohol njee it’s a lot and sad.

[@thutomaphala]

I swear babe

[@nthabisengtsotetsi824]

Hey thuto great work hun, you gave me a ride in greenstone recently. I can relate to what you’re saying I also used to cry when I’m drunk 🤐it’s not cool acting crazy I’ve learnt to tone it down too

[@thutomaphala]

Hey love. Omg hi hope you got home safely. Urgh honestly alcohol isn’t for everyone

[@kamogelontsewa58]

Thutoooo.. you’re sooo pretty, mama 🥺🥺❤️ and you sound like such a warm and kind hearted person.

[@thutomaphala]

Thank you so much love 💕

[@nomsyshongwe5622]

I do not know how this channel found me... But I just subscribed chile💖

[@thutomaphala]

Yeeey. Welcome !

[@whynotKelly]

Yes Botswana 🇧🇼 counts and we here for u sis

[@senamilekhumalo1651]

Loved this video, it was very intimate and interesting to watch ❤️

[@thutomaphala]

Thank you for watching

[@Charmvula]

Omg you look sooo pretty without makeup 😍😍

[@thutomaphala]

Thanks love

[@_siiyak]

Didn't think it was possible but I definitely love you even more after this sis.🌻🌹🥰

[@zarilynzonroe]

Loved this video 💕 thank you for posting it. Needed it

[@thutomaphala]

Pleasure love

[@KeaMaaroganye]

Your love life response , is definitely my love life . BUT we’re not ugly , definitely not that ! 🤣

[@thutomaphala]

I agree 😂

[@Ntlentle_]

It’s the fact that it’s 25min long for me😭😭💃🏿💃🏿

[@nompumelelondlovu2859]

i love the part about alcohol lately i feel like everybody is drinking on my behalf and also i cant believe i tolerated the feeling of a hangover all these years. nah i cant. i drink when i feel like it not all the time

[@thutomaphala]

That’s good babe

[@thobekamnguni6865]

Your answers are so informative 👏👏🙌

[@koketsokoetso]

True❤

[@thutomaphala]

Thanks babe

[@nomteeymakhathini9384]

Ok have seen you a few times on Kay’s channel,so today I came across your channel wow you are soo cool I loved it❤️❤️and I just subscribed🤗🤗

[@thutomaphala]

Welcome babes

[@boimothibi4626]

Notification gang and that’s on a periooooood!

[@thutomaphala]

Periodt 😂

[@leratomoloto234]

Love this Video😍😍you so calm and beautiful...I love you so much Thuto❤❤

[@zamasibiya65]

This is beautiful, you just gained a subbie😊💖

[@thutomaphala]

Welcome babe

[@boitumelomdana]

i love this so much ! ❤

[@zoesmiles]

Loved this video... getting to know more of you is just lovely.

[@thutomaphala]

Thanks babe

[@sindypetronella]

Proud of you taking this route :)

[@thutomaphala]

❤️

[@possessivedj3533]

New subscriber 👋🏾and I'm already a fan...😄Not big on commenting though but ghurl4rnd I'm behind you all the way...💯Love your honesty,I also had the same issues with alcohol been sober for 5 years now n I'm the most happiest episodes of my life.Cut out a lot of toxicity in my life including friends who didn't believe in my wishes but I'm totally happy with how small my circle is.tbh I'm my own circle... Love you already babe...I'm for you.💚

[@thutomaphala]

Awww I’m happy for you babes🤍🤍

[@keneilwemahuma5757]

I recently found your channel on my pop up list and I enjoy it ❤️

[@thutomaphala]

Welcome babe

[@Nana_Moloinyane]

Loved this.... You are so calm babe❤️

[@thutomaphala]

Thanks babe

[@IamThandolwethu]

Deffs got to know you better 🧚🏾‍♀️ enjoyed this

[@sekao_fiona4190]

Hey is the wig in the beginning from Hair City that you reviewed last time?

[@thutomaphala]

No babe

[@kay.bovana_]

Truly enjoyed and loved this failed get to know me, it was raw and authentic! ❤️ Where do you get The Ordinary skincare products?

[@thutomaphala]

Thanks babe. Check ASOS or cultbeauty

[@whynotKelly]

Starting over when you can’t find the footage or forgot to switch your ring light on 😭😭😭😭 ijoh ! That feeling always puts a girl down . Sorry babes

[@nomagugupearl3910]

love your headboard!!! where did you get it? :)

[@thutomaphala]

I got it made babe. Myriad customs on ig

[@lerato00]

That’s alcohol for you😹😹it makes you do unnecessary things Yoh!😩

[@lesalanaledi]

Please could you share where you purchase your Korean skincare products and the brands

[@z_vanessa5057]

Truly enjoying your content ❤️

[@anesit]

So inspired continue making more videos on KZbin.. you are amazing

[@abongileabbymnapu4247]

move to cape town please...

[@kaygo439]

“I can control my alcohol “🤣🤣🤣it do be like that with me too!

[@thutomaphala]

🤣🤣🤣

[@kaygo439]

I enjoyed this 🤣🤣❤️

[@anexperiencewithzamoh8088]

If you filmed using your canon, download the canon connect app on your laptop (if you haven’t already) you should be able to find your footage. Enjoyed the video😉

[@thutomaphala]

I tried doing that but it looks like you can only download it on your phone

[@anexperiencewithzamoh8088]

Sorry Thuto, I meant EOS Utility (that’s for the laptop) the canon connect is for your phone.

[@thutomaphala]

@@anexperiencewithzamoh8088 okay thanks babe will get it

[@Boits_n]

YOU ARE SOOOO PRETTY

[@thutomaphala]

Thank you baaabe ❤️💕

[@milaniinalim3357]

Skincare routine please babe 😍

[@kingvlogs4064]

I reminded you saying “South Africa” so many times and couldn’t hear anything wrong with how you say it 🤣😭😭

[@thutomaphala]

I hate it 🤣🤣

[@Zangeh569]

I just checked your instagram. Wow! You are a divine woman, ausi. Why as basadi do ya'll always want to change your bodies even when you're top-shelf fine?

[@lebogangkay2669]

Thanks for a another video, I’ve been enjoying your channel since your first vid💚

[@lindomadlala2079]

Girl I’m so happy you left that dark place.Alchol really isn’t for everyone.I stopped drinking just because of the hang overs.I’d be so sick yohhhhh😫😫😫it’s been years and i dont even miss it.

[@thutomaphala]

Yoh so glad we left it

[@desireengwako5811]

I really enjoyed your video ☺️☺️. Can please make video on books that you are reading.

[@thutomaphala]

I will once I stop being lazy 🤣

[@kaygo439]

I’m here!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@gloriachirwa6399]

can we see the interior of your car🚗 please💕 it's looks so beautiful from the outside I'm just wondering how it looks inside 💗

[@thutomaphala]

I’ll make a video

[@gloriachirwa6399]

@@thutomaphala thanks gal 😘

[@koketsokoetso]

I'm quarter to dropping out...school is really depressing...it fucks up your mentality...but I need this degree..so I'll just bekezel

[@realzamzor]

Hi thuto where you got yo lashes from

[@thutomaphala]

Dr_lashe on Instagram 🤍

[@andywendyzondy5695]

Early gang💃💃💃

[@NoaPenda]

I love your energy like damn girl👌❤

[@thutomaphala]

Thanks babe

[@summer.magano4037]

Loved this 👌🏾👌🏾🦋🦋

[@kea_mpete]

Northern Cape,Kuruman?

[@kea_mpete]

Maybe you weren't supposed to post it😂Askies love❤

[@koketsokoetso]

Love love this video...I really relate to it...definitely gonna get breast reduction ,cause they also seems to be getting bigger and I'm very small...when do they stop growing kante😂😭?

[@thutomaphala]

Hahaha yazi !

[@olwethunomvete4353]

Wow your teeth are literally perfect you do not need veneers 😂🤞🏾🤞🏾

[@vuyolwethumdleleni6323]

Dude! Right?!!!! I love her smile🌻

[@refilwemamabolo4147]

Finally ❤❤❤❤💋💋💋

[@kea_mpete]

In South Africa,those bicycles would be left without chains and bicycle seats child😂😂😂

[@thutomaphala]

Hahah you know them

[@lindi_xo]

prouda you

[@thutomaphala]

Thanks for watching my babe

[@MONDEJIYANELIFE]

OMG we share a birthday!! Jan 21st (Do you also celebrate on the 21st of every month)

[@wamemoks5838]

Ma'am pls come back to Botswana😭😍

[@thutomaphala]

Hahaha idk when love

[@lulonke_m9008]

You’re beautiful 😍

[@thutomaphala]

Thanks babe

[@theeolgadiva1539]

Love you

[@lindzlindz]

UK sounds grand😫

[@busisiwezengele8956]

Love the video. Thank you

[@thobekamnguni6865]

Skin🔥🔥🔥😍

[@missntosh8436]

There is crime in the UK might not be as bad as SA but there is crime.

[@refilwemamabolo4147]

Pleases Make up and hair installation video please....❤🤗

[@thutomaphala]

Will do babe

[@LeratoLeLesedi]

I came back to this because alcohol is not cute!

[@thutomaphala]

Screaming 🤣🤣🤣 it’s not babe

[@pamelalukhele]

𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒇𝒂𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒔𝒄𝒉𝒐𝒐𝒍 🥺 𝒊'𝒅 𝒍𝒐𝒗𝒆 𝒕𝒐 𝒇𝒖𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒓 𝒎𝒚 𝒔𝒕𝒖𝒅𝒊𝒆𝒔 𝒊𝒏 𝒇𝒂𝒔𝒉𝒊𝒐𝒏 𝒂𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒂𝒅 ?