Tia & Tamera Mowry Go To Therapy To Save Their Relationship | Tia & Tamera | E!

[@ensabahnur3104]

And just to be clear this was 12 years ago. It gets harder to be as close when you get married, make your own family, and move away, it's no bitterness, it's no feud, it's just life... just because you go to the rollercoaster, doesn't mean you can't go back to the teacups.

[@keshahunt1476]

Theyre still close in real life..Tia just lying now for her new reality show....they were recently on vacation together right before Tia new show

[@girlyfab]

Tia?? Is that you?

[@ciarrajohnson3849]

Yeah, when Tamera married, Tia was pregnant. Their bday came and Tamera celebrated without her (out with friends). Tia didn’t wanna go anyway. She was tired…♥️♥️

[@nurturingresiliencemahalia4233]

Tia is such a liar, you were making fun of her when you say she talks like a valley girl

[@maloneaqua]

Ya but I feel like with twins or some siblings there is some level of dependence and feelings of abandonment and it just bubbles up anytime they sense that the other one is not trying as hard as they are

[@marie6885]

I felt that Tamera. I'm sitting here in tears .

[@morelseedo]

I just love those two. I have watch this episode and the others so many times months ago. Never wanted their show to end so quick. I wish they could continue together again.

[@travelseatsyellowlab]

Once their kids are older and less dependent on them, they'll probably do more projects jointly. Right now, both of them are just too busy to commit to working together more often.

[@SierraGINSPIRE]

I'm glad this is available!!! but E you shady lol 🍿🍶🔥

[@asisiphoclay1568]

Very 😭😭😭

[@Q.T-T]

How?

[@MrsMoore1]

@@Q.T-T”E” is posting this in the wake of the news that the two sisters don’t really communicate as much anymore.

[@purpleuserwatchit]

Soon shaaaady

[@plathpat1]

Lol very!

[@estherkamocherobinson7062]

Sisterhood has its ups and downs. Have to balance setting limits but also keep an open heart.

[@mmmmkay4773]

When Tia played that role on The Game and her character became spicy, she also became spicy in real life

[@JR.V711]

I’m a cancer and I can relate to Tamera more than Tia. We can be real, but we don’t do rude.

[@elenashubert3656]

Exactly 👍

[@watersvideos]

I'm a cancer, and I never knew they were as well, but I kept saying, they give me cancer energy. Baby we don't do shade.

[@travelseatsyellowlab]

Cancers are often rude to others but tend to be sensitive and can't handle that rude attitude being returned to them. I don't believe cancers are malicious, but they just don't know (or don't care) how they come off to others sometimes. On the other hand, a cancer is the best friend to have as they're loving, lovable, caring, thoughtful, generous, kind, supportive, helpful, and the person to take to a fight.

[@mmmmkay4773]

Their eyes are beautiful and I love the Smokey look on them. It really enhances their eyes

[@LadyBLiSS100]

I love them both so much. But I'm more like Tamara. And many don't understand it. But, it takes a very strong person to be kind, encouraging, bubbly and want to keep the peace in all situations.

[@Dantor1990]

Do not tell that in front of them such as you love one twin more than the other.

[@latoniapreston409]

I love Tia and Tamera! They’re just two different people living two different lives. Even though they are twins the feel and act different and that’s ok

[@user-123-ccc]

Tamera is not too soft or too emotional, Tia is intentionally rude and then uses her calling it out as too soft etc . People saying that Tamera is too sensitive is just not used to human beings expressing that they are hurt over something. Y’all just think y’all should be able to talk to people any kind of way and they be able to deal with it and when they have boundaries y’all gaslight people to say they’re too sensitive. Tia doesn’t like constructive criticism so she says Tamera is judge mental. She’s literally not. Tia knows that she just wants Tamera to agree with everything she does. Looking back and then seeing where there separate lives are and Tia explaining on her show how unhappy she’s been the whole time in her marriage and life, it feels like deep down she’s a little jealous of Tamera’s light and bubbly energy and genuine happiness. // now in therapy because Tia actually saw how she acts she wants to run to a friend to get it off her chest and victimize herself because she doesn’t like being viewed in a certain light. So she has to convince herself or someone else that that’s not who she is. When no one said it was, it’s just how you make her feel. She’s the type to get upset at you because you’re upset with her bc she wants the IMAGE of herself in your mind to be positive. It’s about image and with Tamera it’s genuinely about love. It seems Narc like.

[@fionasmith-bz8ox]

tamera sometimes gets offended too easily, but maybe tia jokes too much as well. tia will make one joke and then another and another. she should stop at the one

[@RNRLAVELLE]

Based on their recent comments, I presume they are not in a good place today. Love them. Pray they work it out.

[@latoschanobles6513]

therapy needed again

[@L0VEisAmixtape]

Ugh. Tia 😵‍💫😫 I feel for tamera so much

[@shanonlee8216]

Tia made that show hard to watch. She was selfish.

[@tam1729]

@@shanonlee8216she still selfish

[@keyonnahaggins7919]

Tia being supportive to Tamera was EVERYTHING!!!! LOVE LOVE LOVE....

[@PrincessPixieBell]

Tia does seem like that kind of person though. How is one so much more sensitive than the other. So interesting.

[@Dantor1990]

That is how twins are.

[@flobaloyi6613]

I know this dynamic very well. My sister and I are very bad at communicating. She feels judged always, and I feel judged too. So most of the time when we want to communicate we are already thinking the other one doesn’t understand me and we come in already in your defense mode. I wish we could afford a therapist because we really need help. Although I might have watched this couple of times before, it resonates with me much more now when I see what’s happening in my life

[@mphomohlala8464]

One thing Tia's beautiful big eyes will do...is to cry. 🥺

[@moniquecleveland6597]

Tia 13mins in Tia totally misinterpreted and made up what she thought of her sister 😂😂😂😂😂

[@kareenashavonne4308]

I peeped that too

[@Ohnothetableits]

Loved that therapist! ❤

[@nancystasinopoulosjalowiec7668]

It takes YEARS in therapy to resolve stuff!! one or two sessions is never gonna do it... they have to change completely for each other

[@BeBlessed70]

If I remember correctly, Jerome was a social worker. I'm happy he recommended therapy for Tamera and Tia.

[@godsgirl7201]

They remind me so much of Mary Mary ❤

[@lakep7798]

Anyone else find the counselor’s switch role play directions confusing?? I had to re-listen 3 times. Still didn’t get it, but just moved on and figured I’d get it once the twins did it. 😂

[@tolufavour]

Love Tamera sooo much

[@CosmicJournee]

Uploading these clips while Tia has a new reality show and the whole estranged sisters thing is shady. 😂

[@AprilT72]

You'll are shady for reposting this.

[@cheriedeparis5000]

Tia, there is no need for you or anyone for that matter, to stand up, lean over your sister and point your finger in her face like that. Not only that when you re-enacted Tamera you didn’t even indicate that she would be crying. Tamera had to share that info. Your actions seemed very abusive. You are blessed to have a sister like Tamera because they are other sisters who would have responded very aggressively to your provocative act. Just because people are reserved doesn’t give you the excuse/right to behave in that way. Being real also involves having sensitivity for others and acting in love. It also involves recognizing your own shortcomings, being truly apologetic, and endeavoring to change. I hope that you have changed in that regard. I pray the best for both of you going forward.

[@ebonyjackson5777]

That was Tamera's perception. Tia was not standing over her, pointing her fingers. I'm just saying.

[@mariananyunja7296]

​@@ebonyjackson5777but Tia didn't deny doing it😢

[@ebonyjackson5777]

@mariananyunja7296 She didn't know that she was making her feel that, not that she was pointing in her face. The same way that Tamera was not texting as if she didn't care to talk to her sister. They were acting out perceptions.

[@Stefskingdom]

I guess these are the receipts

[@BeadyPough]

Praise God for them doing that because we love them both .❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@godsgirl7201]

I think because they worked together for so long it’s hard to split work life

[@Dantor1990]

No!

[@RKCOMPILATIONS]

At 1:24 tamera apoke facts now look

[@susripathy]

omg i feel for them. myself as part of a twin have such bad communications and i hate it the past gets brought out over and over again instead of moving past the has been and going forward on a clean slate into the future....its just awful

[@lawrencewallace9927]

Wow I thought they were 2 peas in a pod I stand corrected

[@EarthyKitchen]

This is hilarious! my sister and me can relate to this! 😂❤ all love ❤

[@Iamziyaaaa]

Now they don't even talk anymore 😭

[@Soigne-he3cy]

All old videos show how incredibly rude and bossy Tia is. Yet, people always bash Tamera because she married a white guy lol

[@rainesonne1320]

​@@Soigne-he3cyWhy would anyone bash her for marrying a white man..... she's half white? I've never heard anyone say anything Iike that about her. Plus she's still happily married and Tia is divorced!!!!

[@PositiveVibesOnly82]

I just saw an interview of Tia . It’s not true that they are not talking

[@CocoChanelle-1]

@@rainesonne1320the fact that she’s 50% white has nothing to do with her choice to marry White being acceptable. The fact that she married who she Loved is what makes marrying him acceptable.

[@hawaiipeach8847]

​@@rainesonne1320People say it all the time😏

[@FikileViolet]

This episode really made me cry, I feel like i ralate alot ...even though my sister and i love each other like twins ........@TIA AND TAMERA hope yall find better ways to get away with this ..I love the both of you TOGETHER

[@ensabahnur3104]

I always wondered if Jerome was the baby cousin they use to babysit, cause they always gave that.

[@harlowcat614]

Tamera can be judgmental. She was like that on The Real too she just never owns it. Tia is just direct with her communication.

[@Queen_A8723]

But if her being direct hurts her sister, find a different way to communicate

[@IAMHERE486]

Exactly!!!

[@maloneaqua]

She is and she’s also conflict avoidant which is very hurtful if you’re a direct person

[@Reign-zi9qh]

Judgmental how? 😂

[@keyonnahaggins7919]

Cree was so stinkin adorable

[@kylaevans5928]

I wonder if one of them is narcissistic & the other one an empath & thats why there is difficulties between them? I may be wrong though. I have the same dynamic with a friend, & he is a narcissist through & through, makes it extememly unpleasant to have any kind of conversation with him or any narcissist at all. Makes you want to stay away from them as they are very confrontational & your always having to defend yourself. I feel like tia could be the narcassist & Tamera the empath.

[@Soulgazer999]

They are literallllyy TWITCHES!! lol sun and moon, polar opposite, but still have those traits within themselves.

[@SapphireSaranghaeyo]

The look she gave her at 5:44 :/

[@user-jk7hy3dg1g]

You can tell Tamara is trying to make it work it's just at some point in her life she got tired of it maybe when she had her own kids she was like let me focus on my family I've already know how you're going to live your life you tell me how you going to live your life so let me live mine

[@nurturingresiliencemahalia4233]

Tia, from me watching, you do put Tamera down

[@Onyinyechi35]

Is it because they are twins.....they are just two sisters living their lives like every other normal siblings.... sometimes you work together sometimes you just don't....let them breathe please.....all this pressure.....it's totally uncalled for

[@tshimangadzobadzhi6472]

Post all episodes we still love the reality show

[@amazingmelanin6588]

it's on hulu for sure

[@JillianSmall_ChildofGod]

I'm glad Tamera has moved on from this nonsense. Tia stays talking about her, but she has grown and moved on. Good on her.

[@mariananyunja7296]

Facts

[@BridgetteBethell]

I pray for, feel you both, and genuinely cover you beautiful sisters in prayers, in Jesus mighty matchless name

[@Phronesis7]

The way people keep switching sides between 2 extremes when it comes to these 2…!!!! Yikes One year Tamera is the evil one, another year Tia is… This is such groupthink!

[@keyonnahaggins7919]

actually Tia, you DO belittle Tamera...a lot! Although that's not what you may not feel as though you're conveying boo, it can come out that way.

[@andra2377]

I still can't tell them apart 😂

[@hawaiipeach8847]

🚫 they do not look alike at 40. 12yo them yes.

[@Q.T-T]

Tamera is chubbier and bubblier, and has a cute lil mole on her face! She is my favorite

[@MrSmith-82]

I can tell ,soon as they open their mouth

[@BeBlessed70]

Tamera has the mole.

[@JoeyShae22]

Tamara has a playful face. Tia looks more serious.

[@diamondlady693]

My sister and I have Tia n Tamara relationship. We both have different point of view of life and the way we raise our children. And I feel like I am a Tamara. I hate confrontation. And I can see why they are not super close now. Because I feel like I am getting to that point with my sister.

[@amethystkortz4283]

Reality tv ruins relationships.

[@kareenashavonne4308]

They said they’ve always had communication issues and watching the reality show u can tell

[@amethystkortz4283]

@@kareenashavonne4308 ya it does look that way now that u said that I can see it. I'm sure that cameras don't help u work those issues out tho.

[@dedraeve6450]

This was always a issue.

[@mariepaz2574]

I got a bunch of sisters paternal and maternal 😂💯I could be wrong but I see the problem here even though it's old.Tia because she married first and had kids first thought she could look down on her sister 💯💯 And treat her any type of way.And when Tamera got married too,Tia definitely wasn't a big fan of it especially because she married before she had children.But i could be wrong 💯🤣🤷

[@mariepaz2574]

And Tamera is a sweetheart, But good she standing up for herself

[@candilease938]

Tamera is like me….i like to write it all out that way it’s out there and I’m not interrupted by an argument by the other person or the other person can’t bump in and say “but NOOOOO I don’t do that!” Or whatever!

[@heebieejeebieeeez]

Relationships are complex, genuinely Tia is the problem, she needs to let her guard down and let go.

[@bluevegas01]

What's the difference between a person perception of you and what other people think of you? Because to me, I have no control over either and yet we typically are told not to care about what other people think about you while how people perceive you seems to be treated differently.

[@JillianSmall_ChildofGod]

Tia strikes me as if she never liked her sister.

[@darksparkle6174]

Funny how humans have become so “connected” in terms of technology and physical access to more people than ever before yet people lack simple empathy respect and communication skills lol. I sometimes feel most adults nowadays have the self centeredness and emotional maturity of a three year old toddler lol.

[@ellepee89]

People don't care as much to make that kind of effort BECAUSE it's too easy to do things without face-to-face/voice contact. Strip technology away, then folks don't know what to do/don't REALLY know each other.. then you get these situations like theirs.

[@darksparkle6174]

@@ellepee89 oh yea no question. People are real bold thru the phone, they wouldn’t have the sane energy in person.

[@AngelAngela]

Tamera paints her as an aggressive blk woman 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 im dead

[@rainesonne1320]

Tia is an aggressive woman! She's half white!

[@Queen_A8723]

Stop projecting

[@AngelAngela]

@@Queen_A8723 WTH are you talking about blackie😂🥴🥲

[@Q.T-T]

​@@AngelAngelagross

[@janetjohnson8066]

IS TIA JEALOUS OF TAMERA?

[@michaeleenriley8543]

Please stay away from social media. 💕

[@LAYDEEPINAYY]

Bottom line, BOTH parties have to both want to go to therapy together and both be receptive and not just one accepting it and one saying they have to change… we BOTH have things to work on.

[@kendalltaylor2644]

Made me sad that Tamera said that she would cry when she and Tia would go back and forth over text/email. That’s just so sad to me that she felt that misunderstood.

[@veronacoleman4604]

Tia is a traitor counselling is a private thing not go and tell your friends all about it . I think she is very disrespectful.

[@virtuousmountainwoman]

No judgment- I am one of five sisters🎉

[@huckleberrywinn]

I relate to Tamera so much as a twin. I never liked Tia.

[@user-jk7hy3dg1g]

I'm not sure if anyone else sees it but it's clearly that Tia is the problem Tamara has always carried herself well always

[@AC-br4gc]

I can understand Tia’s difficulty though. Receiving a text or email about difficult emotions is extremely hard. The non verbal cues that one has when in person really does help with communication. Over email or text the non verbals are non existent. There is so much room for misinterpretation. I understand that it was difficult for Tamera to engage in conflict conversations but saying you don’t like conflict is not a reason to avoid it. That being said it sounds like there was a lack of safety in the relationship where difficult emotions don’t feel safe to express or receive. God bless them if they are still struggling.

[@PastriesPumpsandPi]

Tia is the problem!!

[@Tanya-L-Watson]

Take it to Christ. Pray about it and don’t give up ❤🙏

[@AmyJallow]

This is not new!

[@chosenonesforever1313]

Tia looks immature Tamera looks very mature

[@squarebiz90]

Tamera is definitely too soft & emotional

[@dinajones2761]

No She’s not. Tia is rude and exhausting!

[@huldah1605]

Both can be true

[@CosmicCourtOfLaw]

Being soft and emotional is NOT negative!

[@user-jk7hy3dg1g]

Tia said that Tamara acts like a white woman she sounds crazy saying that because they are a mixed race dad white mom black or Jamaican

[@gloriagaines6305]

I don’t believe everything I see you on KZbin. Tia is a reality TV person so she’s gonna do anything to make that money.

[@theinsurancehelper6319]

Normal sister relationship

[@tamarabee886]

Tamera is the more sensitive one.

[@nurturingresiliencemahalia4233]

These exercise were supposed to be done separately

[@Br0k3nH3adBanz]

Love them both! But I hope that now that Tamera is a mother she realizes how rude it is to tell a new mother who is overworked stressed and possibly at the time struggling with her relationship that she needs to do more for her kid 😳 some women do want it all and each sacrifice that is made hurts. it wasn’t her place to say that especially not in that way bc my butt would of been like okay so go get my son and bring him to see me then since it’s so important bc isn’t she a part of the village it takes to raise a child? I’m sure there was more to their issue than that but you can’t say stuff like that then go in victim mode we all have the freedom of speech but you have to be ready to receive the response you provoke when it comes to people’s family/kids and apologize if you where in the wrong then when the conversation is had about Tia being aggressive maybe she’d be more open but she’s never gonna admit to being wrong about defending her relationship with her kid even if that issue brought up bigger issues bc in that instance she was right although she may have been the one in the wrong in the frame of the bigger picture.

[@SherrellWrites]

Thank you! Everyone wants to pretend Tia is awful because of the divorce. But you don't criticize a new momma.

[@bravebird1578]

They were never one...they were always two. They were and are not meant to be mirror forever. Tia ha and may still have a problem letting Tamera be herself. Tamera being real is her own expression p. It does not need to match Tia, her husband, and friends. She is being real as herself just as Tia is. It is important to simply let people be themselves. Love them where the stand no matter how far away that is. I am happy Tamera is happy in her life with her husband. Tia is amazing in her own ways and there is no competition. Tia makes fun of her sister because she finds her unrelated. It's mean as heck...it is not her being funny, she means it. I am so happy Tamera is with her family where she can be her and not have to explain or make excuses for or deny who she is. In the end it is pure jealousy.

[@nurturingresiliencemahalia4233]

Look who Tia friends are loud and confrontational

[@LindaDawkins-zf2jj]

My comment is for Tamera, Keep praying Jesus knows and see what wrong Linda

[@Loleini91]

I think Tamera gets away with a lot, constantly victimizing herself. Her judgmental words towards Tia are overlooked, her comments of Tia’s mothering were overstepping.

[@samanthadean7472]

Yes!!! Remember the episode where they were in the bridal shop for Tamera’s wedding, Tía was practically at full-term pregnancy and needed to go to the toilet. Tamera was so judgmental and kicked up a fuss about her sister asking to go to the toilet. she’s pregnant !! In this episode, Tia demonstrates clear and healthy communication.

[@Swimfan82]

Tamera has a problem taking accountability for her actions that contribute to the issues between her and Tia

[@Magically_Vee]

Clickbait!!!!! But they knew that 🙄

[@Michelle-cz1vj]

Tia is so annoying.

[@edysmith9758]

Stop airing your dirty laundry.

[@Cupcakes-z9y]

It’s time for them to go to Jesus and repent and ask Him to forgive them. They have been blessed beyond and for this they should be greatfull. Where is the younger brother? What kind of example are they setting for Him?. What kind of example are they setting for their kids? Love covers a multitude of sin. Y’all need to hug it out. Forgive each other I only have one sister no brothers both our parents are deceased I don’t know how i would be if I stop talking to my sister. When husband and wives come an go Family is all that is left. Remember it’s the enemy of your soul that comes to kill steal and destroy. It’s never the person we are not fighting flesh and blood powers and principalities wickedness in high places. Jesus is the answer.

[@FaceSoapShop]

Tia and Tamera maybe twins, but they are on opposite ends of the spectrum Tamera is clearly more conservative and has a relationship with Christ. Tia is more "liberal". It is no wonder these 2 aren't close to one another

[@moniquecleveland6597]

Tia seems like she wants to chastise the people in her life

[@godsgirl7201]

That’s insane for twins to be at odds y’all are twins literally the same dna and person lol 😅😅😅😅 it’s like being mad at yourself

[@sillau9]

Twins are still 2 separate beings..they are their own beings

[@hawaiipeach8847]

You definitely can't be a twin. They are individuals

[@TMacro-w9d]

Tia is jealous of Tamera

[@stephaniewilliams3460]

They both talk too much

[@stephaniewilliams3460]

Too much talking and not enough listening to one another...so sad 😢

[@cheriedeparis5000]

Why do you say that? It’s a reality show that was aired years ago so they must be dialogue. It’s not a silent film.

[@sequoyamaisonblacque]

perception is not reality, it is opinion formed from outside perspective AND no one has the power to hurt another’s feelings .. the power and control of process & handling, lies within oneself yet.. communication is paramount, as is understanding and empathy of others process (including individual boundaries) - because we are all imperfect human beings, trying to learn the navigation of our respective, unique course through this journey called, life 🤍

[@user-123-ccc]

Y’all stay spiritually bypassing real HUMAN issues and using spiritual concepts to gaslight people. People 100% have the power to hurt people’s feelings and sometimes it’s on purpose lmao . It sounds cool but it’s not realistic at all. Someone can literally say something intentionally horrible and y’all will use spiritual concepts to gaslight the hell out of people.

[@sequoyamaisonblacque]

@@user-123-ccc ABSOLUTELY NOT TRUE … nobody can hurt your feelings … no one has the power to process your emotions (which are an extension of your feelings) except YOU “gaslighting” … new generation term ,, perhaps if you elevate above it, you will realize the TRUTH you hurt your own feelings by allowing the words of others to determine the value of your own self worth … if it were not so, what others said about you would not penetrate hence… your feelings would not be hurt by others 🔑 in all of this is that you are the one controlling the process of your feelings - no one else! 🤷🏽‍♀️✌🏽

[@CosmicCourtOfLaw]

⁠ What BS. Get real. Humans CAN indeed hurt another!!!

[@sequoyamaisonblacque]

@ I said what I said and I meant what I said the only person who can control how you process your emotions, is YOU !!! good bye

[@CosmicCourtOfLaw]

@ Take your psychological mumbo jumbo BS elsewhere! HUMANS CAN BE HURT BY OTHER HUMANS! Your thinking is actually TOXIC to true healing!

[@HakimDay-dk6lf]

Dear , Tamera i want that huckabee please ?? 😓😓💕🤩🫠🙂😁🫵🕶️🙏🎄🎁🎁 ( Rejoice)