Tia & Tamera Unleash Long-Held Grievances During Counseling Session | Tia & Tamera | E!

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[@vickiharris]

Tamera hit the nail on the head for me and it made me tear up. "Ask me instead of assuming what my emotions are and when I answer you, believe me."

[@AnAdorableWombat1]

I need to use this for myself and ways when others tell me things. I always assume and always question when someone tells me the answer.

[@takimahowze]

Tamera is me!

[@niseknotty6440]

@@AnAdorableWombat1seriously I’m the same way and I realize it may stem from having trust issues I also feel that I can tell when someone is telling me something genuine and when they aren’t , but regardless it’s something to be worked on.

[@LovetteKourt]

Yeah Tia is the problem

[@trnigyul]

Tamera looks so beautiful with that braided crown hairstyle.

[@michmex220]

She sure did ! I thought the same thing when I saw her hair like that

[@nyaluv143]

I agree

[@Yeahisaiddatshit]

Tia is the blunt one and Tamera is the extremely sensitive one. That explains why they’re set of friends are different 😂

[@SAlina-se9xq]

Tia looks gorgeous during the counseling session

[@LovetteKourt]

Tia isn’t “blunt”… she don’t listen to other people emotions when it’s not about her. Tia is sensitive too

[@Carousel5883]

I love Tia cause I'm a mean girl and I love it when Tamera cries.. she's so sensitive and insecure ( they both are) but Tamera worse cause it really gets to her and she shows it to Tia.thats why Tia always takes advantage cause she knows Tamera folds easily so she doesn't get a response from Tamers

[@uddin3883]

@@Carousel5883you’re weird asf

[@adb2490]

​@Carousel5883 I don't think it's that she's necessarily sensitive. She's the more caring and invested twin. Tia comes across as controlling, selfish, and mean-spirited.

[@milanimorales2645]

This is 1000x better than Kardashians. Healthy relationships, real emotions, wholesome content. Please bring them back to reality television! Bad news sells better than good news which is why those drama filled reality shows may seem to do better. But I feel like I just learned healthier communication just by watching this. I know that doesn't substitute a real counseling session if I needed one. But this is much better content.

[@user-nf6eq3ly6d]

100% agreed wish they’d change all the bs production of today in general back to good quality

[@ihavethots1261]

tia is currently filming a solo show. hopefully tamera will make an appearance...

[@ScorpioDiva1112]

we dont compare women over here

[@emilylong5207]

Everybody says tamera is too emotional but imagine expressing how you feel to your twin and she just doesnt seem to care because its not the way you want her to

[@EyeHeartSUSHI]

Tia is an estp. Tamera is an esfj.. Tia wants to communicate from a logical standpoint. Tamera wants to communicate from an emotional standpoint. Tamera sees Tia as curt and rude.. Tia sees Tamera as emotionally manipulative.. They just need to meet each other halfway even if it's uncomfortable. ❤

[@alluringconfidence481]

This was spot on !!

[@sadagicousowens7217]

Finally, someone with some sense to all of this. Great highlights and points of view from both sides. I agree, meet in the middle even if it's uncomfortable for both. That's called integrity while overcoming selfishness. There were other good comments, but this one really hit the spot at the right time.

[@LovetteKourt]

What Tia did is NOT logical standpoint. What you talking about? She’s ASSUMING and don’t know how to chat NORMALLY

[@EyeHeartSUSHI]

@@LovetteKourt I'm saying in general Tia prefers logic. Tamera prefers to communicate emotionally.. thats where their disconnect usually is. Tamera sees Tia as insensitive. Tia sees Tamera as manipulative.. Their difference in communication style is their entire problem..

[@eboniblockum100]

I think you're onto something. The only thing I would tweak is the "sees" part because they are (based on the show and the press they do) actually that way. Tia is often curt and rude, and Tamera is often emotionally manipulative. Tia communicates directly what she thinks and feels, just as she thinks and feels it regardless of how it may affect someone emotionally while Tamera uses tears to try to emotionally move those shes in opposition to and to gain outside support to her cause. Tameras crying to get her way and gain support triggers Tia, who communicates directly. On the other hand, Tia's tone and word choice make Tamera even more emotional and distrustful (especially considering her already voiced insecurity about being a twin).

[@meron2221]

Tamera always walks away and doesn’t feel safe bc Tias gaslighting is top notch

[@tyneshasmith9175]

Mine as well I feel Tia I she wants her feelings acknowledged as well💯💞

[@musingsofharmony3159]

Seeing this in 2024...wow. Tia is giving narc vibes. Funny you said gaslighting.

[@Charismaaron]

It’s narcissism

[@MarkeySlaughter]

Y'all call anything narcissism. Being that I had a child with a real life one Tia is not being a narcissist whatsoever. Tamera is just sensitive as hell

[@ghoyahakla9928]

​@@MarkeySlaughterGirllll, Tia has definitely had a lot of narcissistic tendencies and vibes for years. Just being honest. Tamera is great at expressing herself. Tia is great at projecting herself. Major difference.

[@Momogizibo]

You guys do realize that they can just be two people with two different personalities without trying to demonize one…. Tia is not terrible. They clearly have different levels of sensitivity, communication styles, humor and so forth. Tias not a bully or narcissist just because she may be more blunt

[@karlissbridges1760]

Yeah cause they r still different people they just happen to be twins and look alike but they r different and its not wrong

[@RM90855]

The problem is Tia disguised being “blunt” as being rude or disrespectful to try to get away with it and basically gaslight Tamera. That’s why Tamera said being real doesn’t give you a pass to be rude. Tia has a hard time taking accountability or apologizing for doing something wrong or hurting someone’s feelings. She’s almost always giving an excuse which isn’t just simply having a different personality. It’s narcissism.

[@Momogizibo]

@@RM90855 you guys throw around the word narcissism without understanding the word or what it truly means. Even licensed therapist don’t deem someone as that just from a few edited tv clips and if she WERE, their licensed therapist whose watching it unfold would’ve said it . Tia literally took accountability and said things such as “I didn’t know I was making you feel that way” and teared up about it. A narcissist isn’t gonna sit in therapy trying to genuinely work things out and get excited about building the relationship . Just because Tamera feels a way doesn’t make it a fact, and Tia explaining her feelings or perception of things doesn’t mean she’s gaslighting or making an excuse. They both have issues, Tamera isn’t an Angel and Tia isn’t a monster. They communicate and view the world differently and that’s perfectly fine, they’re working on it and they’re human.

[@RM90855]

@@Momogizibo obviously you can’t diagnose someone from tv clips from a reality show lol. And I never implied just because you do all those things you have to be a narcissist. But in many cases, they will actually “try” to work out problems because it makes them look like a good person. Also, Tia DID know that comment about the valley girl thing made Tamera feel offended but she blamed it on Tamera for not knowing she was joking instead of just apologizing. Tamera is her twin and knew she wasn’t joking. If you hurt someone’s feelings it doesn’t matter if you were joking - you simply apologize. You don’t blame them for being hurt. That’s wild. I don’t think Tia is a narcissist but she has narcissistic tendencies. Honestly a lot of us do but refuse to acknowledge it. Hers are just more apparent in these clips.

[@Momogizibo]

@@RM90855 so then that goes back to my point, Tia is genuinely trying to correct the relationship she has with her sister hence her sitting in therapy with her , a narcissist may try but a good licensed therapist would be able to see through it. To keep trying to demonize Tia for things a lot of regular humans do is absurd, especially when she’s clearly working on herself. Tamera herself said that the producers would purposely set things up for them to butt heads. They both have flaws, for some people the valley girl comment was clearly a joke and wasn’t that deep. It’s all about perception. Tamera clearly doesn’t think her sister is that bad so all of these comments coming at Tia when we’re only seeing short edited clips are a lot of the pot calling the kettle black and group mentality occurring because I’ve seen some issue Tamera has that no one points out.

[@valdizos]

I love Tamera. She's always been my fav twin. Her energy just resonates with me. I saw a vid once where she said she felt sad bc the media/public perceived her as the goofy twin but to me she was always the sweet one.

[@MS-pm7bt]

Point proven just sensitive as hell 🙄 what’s wrong with being goofy?

[@whosthatgirl411]

​@MS-pm7bt she meant it as not being taken seriously. You seem to be emotional about this whole thing though. 🤣

[@MS-pm7bt]

@@whosthatgirl411 I doubt you found your reply that funny, but anyway. I understood what she meant weirdo, my comment still the same.

[@Carousel5883]

​@@MS-pm7bt yes I think that's why she not getting roles..she too sensitive and can't control her emotions...Tia a better actress..

[@valdizos]

@@Carousel5883 What? Nooo way! Tamera has done a lot. I would say Tamera's career is more successful than Tia. Idk what Tia is doing..

[@mlite30]

It seems like Tia finds it a lot easier to verbally express her emotions. Tamera seems more emotional, but finds verbally expressing those emotions difficult.

[@AlienShomoe]

Tamera has no problem expressing her emotions, but if tia is not coming from a genuine place (which she doesn't sometimes) then it makes it difficult to communicate honestly and healthy, so she would rather not, which I completely understand. If we are not going to come to a conclusion and it becomes a pissing contest (which it does with tia) then I'm just wasting my breath, so i'll just ignore you.

[@mlite30]

@@AlienShomoe Two things can be true, right? I think you’re correct in your assertion. Tamera has her reasons for not being able to communicate her perspective with her sister. Just from this clip, one of those reasons could have to do with not wanting to upset or emotionally hurt her sister. So, she will tiptoe around the point, rather than be direct.

[@AlienShomoe]

@@mlite30 Yes absolutely but Its not that Tamera Doesn't know how to communicate, tia does not make it safe for her to really express her emotions w/o some type of critique, because tia does not like being told she is wrong.I've watch a few of their arguments and anytime Tamera had a point tia would somehow cut the conversation short, or just flat out laugh in her face by making a joke. Hopefully she has grown since then, but during those years she was extremely immature, and emotionally abusive to her sister, and on top of Tamera already being extremely sensitive, I can kind of she why Tamera keeps her distance.

[@shebbysavvas4200]

I have the same problem. I can't express myself. I have no in between it's either too high or too low. No middle ground with me.

[@YoYo-bx8wu]

Look at them now.. Look at their marriages now.. When you know you know..

[@joybell995]

I didn’t know twins could be so different and not understand eachother!! It hurts my heart!!

[@curlslegitbaby2981]

They're females

[@claranicole31]

Tamera has always been my favorite twin between the two of them because I can relate to her in every way. 🙂🙃

[@morningstarbeautyshop9463]

Me too

[@ketket0725]

In present day I relate to both of them, but during this show’s run I was definitely on Tamera’s side 😆

[@AJ50858]

Me too. I can't stand Tia. I think she is Jealous of/Competitive with Tia.

[@Ella-bq1l]

same

[@brendaross3961]

Me too.... ADORE Tamera!!

[@Christadanielle3]

They are literally the Same person that has two emotional responses to things ….this is veeerrryyyy interesting to me

[@jamaicafox]

Twins are not the same person

[@rachelmartin5187]

The one who acts like the victim is Tia IMO. She will make little catty remarks (disguised as jokes) and be overly blunt, to the point where she makes her sister cry, but the moment Tamera tries to speak up for herself, she's gaslited into thinking its her fault. An example that comes to mind is Tamera's wedding. Tamera asked Tia to be the MOH, Tia declined, but when Tamera chose a close friend to do it instead Tia decided to change her mind after said friend had done all the work. Tamera ended up making them co-moh's to keep the peace and so that Tia could have her way as usual.

[@lindam4006]

You nailed it too. Tia is a classic narcissist.

[@startracker5895]

Nah Tamara is too sensitive! Lol

[@kennyp1477]

Thank you! from what is shown from the show tia is a piece of work.

[@kennyp1477]

​@@startracker5895and tia is 2 blunt to the point she's mean.

[@rachelmartin5187]

@@kennyp1477 Agreed! I know her ex was vain, but I don't think she was blameless in their divorce.

[@KatrinaTheArtist]

Tamera is so sweet 😢

[@Alladathings]

Definitely could see both sides, we all have inner work to do, it’s just magnified in relationships with other especially close ones like this Love them both 🩷🩵

[@williamnuels9240]

Tamera is sweet heart and she Looooves her sister Tia needs to see her more

[@catrelcathey2909]

The third YAY had me hollering and then Cree looking at them like the WTH are they doing. That typical baby look that all babies do 😂😂

[@CocoChanelle-1]

Let me say this first. I think both girls are awesome. Here’s my observation, Tam will tell Tia how She feels and Tia will just say “that’s not true”. What helped me with this was saying to the person what I thought they meant: “You are saying when I roll my eyes, you feel like I don’t care about how you feel?” And they would “Yes”. Then I would say, “I didn’t realize I was doing that, I’m sorry, it want happen again”. I mean it and I change my behavior. It’s not important for me to be Right; it’s important for Me to show the person that I Value them and our relationship. In addition, I have definitely seen Tam runaway but she does tell her how she feels first. Update: Running away is a coping mechanism to avoid blowing up in anger. Nothing wrong with that but you cool down and talk again at another time. If you don’t have a solution to the problem it will remain. If the person refuses to change, then the relationship will never get better. Regretfully, there are a lot of people who Never admit when they are wrong and refuse to change.

[@LovetteKourt]

What you said show how much self improvement you have on how you care for others feelings. Tia literally said: “I am not changing myself for anyone.” Shows her lack of empathy and respect towards others deep feelings. Personally that why she is a widow because she did this with Cory as well. If it’s not about her, she doesn’t care. When someone explains to her what she did wrong, she doesn’t validate on how the other person’s feeling. Tamera did say, she was the black sheep in her family… so they don’t fully take her seriously. And that’s sad.. I can relate to that. Tia needs to work on her communication.

[@tashanapink7688]

This is so interesting because on the Sister Sister, Tamera was the more blunt one. They literally made them switch personalities.

[@AA-yc9dq]

They said it was intended because it wouldnt have been a challenge for themselves if they did otherwise

[@tashanapink7688]

@@AA-yc9dq makes so much sense

[@delvondra4861]

Tia is the bully twin... she claims she joking.. but she isn't.. she tries to guilt Tamara on just about anything thing that she feels she's intitled to from Tamara no matter how it makes Tamara feel... which is selfish..Tia wants to be right and not accountable...

[@startracker5895]

Both are annoying. Tamara tells Tia what to do a lot. Which would be grating.

[@lindam4006]

You nailed it. Tia is a narcissist. I'm sure she bullied her ex husband & kids in the same ways. It shows up in almost all the videos I've seen.

[@delvondra4861]

@@lindam4006 the way she treated Tamara during her wedding was horrible and the day that Tamara announced her new book was the day that Tia posted about her separation from husband 🧐🤨 Tia knew what that day was for her sister and still chose to upstage it somehow SMH

[@aprotain863]

Tamara seems to enjoy wanting overattentiveness. The problem is acknowledging the di fferences even though they are twins. Tia is not as sensitive.

[@Angelface787877]

@@delvondra4861THIS

[@mrsamaziin]

I wish this show would come back!!!

[@pc6461]

Yes, so much had happened since then. Would love an inside look on what their lives are like now.

[@THEDOORIZCLOSED]

No. They felt it was terrible for their relationship

[@colette5413]

I think for the sake of their sisterhood it was best for the show to end. They both felt like it was detrimental to their relationship.

[@Ediabar]

Tamera’s hair is beautiful!❤

[@zulikashanaz]

This is so cute 💛 I love that they showed them going to therapy

[@shannon331978]

Tamara spirit is so easy going

[@JamaicanDeelite]

This was a great clip! Even twins can learn how to communicate better with each other😊

[@misschanner7262]

This show really showed me how self absorbed Tia is….

[@Mari96109]

Exactly !

[@LovetteKourt]

That’s why her and Corey marriage didn’t work. It’s all Tia and she refuses to accept it

[@Danishmediumvalentina]

Two different people for sure.

[@teri_p]

Definitely not the same

[@rachelmartin5187]

That's one of the best things about the show tbh. It reminded us that just because these 2 are twins, doesn't mean they're the samw person.

[@deebutterfly19]

Duh…..they ARE two different ppl. Did ya think twins had the same brain or?…

[@IntheMidwithDom]

5:25 Tia thinking Tamara was passing her the tissue when Tamara is the one crying says a lot to me…

[@Hotwingzlover84]

I caught that!!

[@LovetteKourt]

Tia is the problem. She refused to change to improve her communication. That’s why her and Cory didn’t work out because of her lack of empathy for others. A person refuse to change, the relationship won’t work out. Even Tamera calls Tia “selfish”. Which it is true.

[@tiffanyreene7955]

I was screaming 😂😂😂

[@feleciaactkinson]

Tia comes off in a bad light. The looks she gives Tamera says a lot.

[@AJ50858]

There is a reason why Tamera was voted most likable TV personality a few years back. Tia not so much!!

[@hienienguyen6766]

Why does Tia have to look at tamera like that. She is a bully. She has a very mean tone. She is an emotionally immature that is why tamera is crying. Not because she cant express herself is a manipulation.

[@startracker5895]

Like what? They both roll their eyes at each other. It’s not like it’s just Tia all the time. Siblings are mean to each other. It’s normal.

[@AlexisMaria]

I think Tia is secretly jealous...tamera is a bit more approachable and ofc her husband treats her correctly as opposed to tias hubby,,, u can tell she has some sort of bitterness there.

[@LovetteKourt]

Yea Tia is self centered

[@LovetteKourt]

@@AlexisMariaYES! I agree

[@LovetteKourt]

@@startracker5895stop with that excuse about siblings suppose to be “mean” to each other. Enough of that… you clearly missing the point

[@christycapers4715]

I can't even believe Tamera brought up that "valley girl" joke in counseling 🤣

[@slimtend4010]

If it hurt her feelings, then she should have. That's when empathy comes in from the other person. Understanding the feelings of another.

[@jelissafrank5858]

As someone who has had to code switch to survive in predominately white schools and then in High School being thrusted into a predominately black school. I was made fun of the way I talked constantly and it messes with your head it seems small but it makes you feel like you’re not black enough.

[@startracker5895]

@@slimtend4010it wasn’t even that offensive. Tamara is overly sensitive to the point of annoyance! 🙄

[@totallyrandomtee8771]

@@startracker5895no it could have been offensive to her. Tamera is always talked about for “not being black enough” so to have her own sister and her twin no less to joke about something like that is hurtful

[@NolithaMfihlo]

True Cancerian fashion😂😂I'm like that as well😫you'll think you're joking with me but I'm over-analysing the whole thing. "How did you come up with that joke" 😂😂

[@TheCarlScharnberg]

Wow, I can really see Ariah in Tamera here. Never seen it before.

[@shanikaayanna9767]

It’s very easy to see Tamera as the one who is being “bullied” and Tia as the “bully” based on their personality and how they display emotion. However, Tamera is very judgmental. Her telling Tia “if you’re happy with the way your life is going, fine” is judgmental and passive aggressive. They both needed to do better.

[@daj2699]

Exactly finally someone who gets it

[@beautymarkedkollectiontv7487]

I definitely agree with that dynamic they both struggle to communicate and set boundaries.

[@ketket0725]

She did that cause Tia was low key throwing shade about her career and work ethic

[@aprillofton1410]

​@@ketket0725that part and she threw that in her face constantly

[@shaysilence]

@@ketket0725agreed. She literally told her she’s not a mom so basically just void her advice completely. Even tho she was simply trying to think of solutions for Tia’s problems. Tamera’s response was reactive to Tia being mean. Of course she’s passive aggressive cause she can’t get a word in.

[@janai9868]

Tamera is sweet but i think she's too sensitive. She seems to me, when she's wrong, she goes straight to the tears instead of taking a beat and acknowledging she may be wrong and accept it ❤

[@teri_p]

Exactly I totally agree im a Cancer too but if I'm wrong I damn sure not gonna be crying I'm going to communicate. Tamera too damn sensitive

[@MrDancerHilson007]

Im a cancer and I definitely see their personality like mine I’m very str8 forward but very sensitive

[@serritawatkins8113]

That's funny cause Adam was on the real and said the same thing about Tamera and she laughed so hard

[@serritawatkins8113]

@@teri_pbut when Adamn was on the real and said the same thing about Tamera she laughed so hard. She just being doing too much sometimes especially when it comes to Tia.

[@teri_p]

@@serritawatkins8113 Exactly she be going overboard

[@CocoChanelle-1]

This would have been even better with an African American therapist that could relate to the culture and see through the manipulation.

[@lindam4006]

I don't think race has anything to do with not seeing the manipulation.

[@ShavonneSeven]

Exactly!! A black therapist definitely would have been more beneficial

[@CocoChanelle-1]

@@lindam4006 there are a lot of layers to this that didn’t come out. Like Tia has made fun of Tam in the past referring to her as a “Valley girl” personality like she’s not Really Black. The therapist was OK but not firing up and going deep like Iyanla would have. Did Tia support Tam when she was bullied for getting in an interracial marriage? Did Tia speak out on behalf of her sister or join in? You see what I mean? They need a 2.0 with a stronger therapist.

[@JaiB-xr9fl]

​@@CocoChanelle-1ooo iyanla as their therapist would've been so interesting!!!

[@ScorpioDiva1112]

They BOTH sound like valley girls tho

[@karmabutterfly7985]

And yet Tia loves to disrespect Tamera and call her white in a negative way.

[@katiem4539]

Valley girls are not only white, and also speaking a certain way has nothing to do with race

[@mollyshaj.3888]

Exactly! Idk who Tia thinks she sounds like

[@JaiB-xr9fl]

​@@katiem4539I'm sorry to tell you this but valley girls are synonymous with WW. Dialect/vernacular is a whole thing within the black culture(actually America) That's why Awkwafina was almost cancelled talking like she was black with AAVE. The whole valley girl started with rich WW. Think Paris Hilton. So for black ppl if you sound like that, you come off as white or at least less black. Because WW mainly talk like that. It does have to do with cultures and race. I know you feel like this should be a hand holding circle with all the races of the world but no it's not. This is a discussion about black authenticity and what that means.

[@ScorpioDiva1112]

@@katiem4539 who said it was

[@daj2699]

This episode is also interesting considering they both went to college for psychology.

[@joelpineda4414]

What?? What do you mean they both went to college??? Do they both have a minor in communication studies??? They both went to LA community college???!!! Like I thought they both have their own high school diplomas!!!

[@colette5413]

The both went to Pepperdine University

[@joelpineda4414]

@@colette5413 why??? And they both majored in communications?? How do they get through their own education and acting at the same time?!!??? Like how do they do that?? Acting and going to school at the same time?!!!

[@daj2699]

@@joelpineda4414no they majored in history psychology and I’m sure they took breaks to do homework and go to class and stuff

[@justchilling2044]

Love these 2 beauties ❤

[@moreofcedes]

Tam is my favorite

[@ketket0725]

Honestly I think Tia’s defensiveness was causing the communication block the whole time. If your sister says “I find that offensive, I don’t find that funny,” why does she need to also give you an essay on why?? Why not just stop?

[@curtish.6900]

Tia's a drunk. That's the family secret.

[@ketket0725]

@@curtish.6900 👀 I’m a fan of BOTH Mowry sisters and unless you know them personally that kind of comment is just toxic. Even if you do know them personally…that’s just messy of you.

[@curtish.6900]

@@ketket0725 I'm a big fan of them too. However, she has self admitted her problems with alcohol. She said she used to "hide in the bathroom with wine to get away from her family" (look it up). Her quote. But glad that's the past now.

[@AlexisMaria]

@@curtish.6900 u lyinnnn

[@Mari96109]

Tia seems to get angry if God forbid Tamera disagrees with her. Shes very bossy towards tamera .

[@Rokia2003]

YES

[@LovetteKourt]

Yes. Cory said the same thing

[@NolithaMfihlo]

I'm the Tamera type of cancer. I hate confrontation, I rather write you a text explaining how I feel.😫 i think that's something I need to work on. I'm a bit judgemental as well😫 I care what people think about me🌚

[@aprillofton1410]

So me

[@lisag.4054]

I hope you fix this 😂 I had to drop a longtime cancer friend for this. I’d be around her and could sense her energy was off, like she had a problem. I’d ask her what was up or wrong, she’d always keep saying “nothing, I’m good”… then as soon as I’d leave from around her I get a long text paragraph of her going off about how she really feels. That’s so childish when I was just sitting right next to you 20 mins ago. She made me not want to ever befriend another cancer again😂

[@TDoubleYu]

@@lisag.4054not all Cancers are like that… plus most people are pretty judgmental despite astrology

[@mikanoel2953]

@@lisag.4054please don’t judge all cancers now that’s childish. Because for me I’m the type of cancer that will say how I feel right then and there. I’m not holding it in.

[@veradarby7222]

I think they have the added expectation and burden of twin thinking. They have thought that because they are twins, they should also have twin interaction behaviors. While being twins brings many similarities, they have to remember that they are individuals like any other siblings.

[@t0nysilver.]

While watching this I can’t help but think we NEED a new twitches movie with them grown up!

[@CHEQQUEENSNBROOKLYNMF]

HE SCREAMS N CRYS. JUST LIKE COREY❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@yolandamathena3312]

I understand what Tia is saying and I understand what Tamera is saying i love writing my emotions not saying them out loud. Writing them is healing for me so I prefer to email and text people how I feel I do no like f2f about my emotions. Tamera has a right to safely communicate how she feels.

[@evesavoy4897]

Tia was probably the dominant twin. Although Tamara has grown up, Tia's still treating her like they're still kids.

[@LovetteKourt]

That’s not dominant. That’s arrogant.

[@SS-xm1nd]

When I use to watch sister sister Tia was the mature one to me the more serious one and Tamara was a goof ball and emotional and they are really that way I see in real life

[@simone2241]

Love these ladies! Love the episode! Very positive and resolution oriented.

[@pinkyzoe]

Damn twins and cancer, that must be draining af 😂

[@dtagdoesnttakeagenius1934]

They are adorable

[@tyneshasmith9175]

It's difficulties with communicational skills with everyone when it comes to understanding each other personally no family is perfect you both look great Twins keep up the great work 💯💞

[@goddesstype8345]

Its the baby for me 😂❤

[@MJ-mp1dh]

People always say things are jokes when they want to be ugly to someone. Like the saying goes behind a joke is a little truth. This show when it came on really showed their personalities. I'll just say it turned me off to Tia.

[@startracker5895]

And sometimes it’s just a joke! Lol

[@JovianEmpress]

​@@startracker5895 agreed. Sometimes, it's just a joke

[@AlexisMaria]

@@JovianEmpress and if it offends and hurts the other person it should be ok because it was a 'joke'? making jokes on other people expense is vile wicked and petty insecure behavior. tf.

[@lcwatt7005]

Why is there so much hate for Tia i love both as the are i bet their sisterhood is fine

[@angelicamurry4270]

I love Tamera ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@brandonbowers2932]

Besides their physical appearances, I can tell the twins apart just by listening to their voices. Tia’s voice is a little lower than Tamera’s.

[@Swimininmonet]

I feel like Corey speaks to Tia in a way that Tia speaks to Tamara.

[@LovetteKourt]

Are you slow?

[@samanthathony1793]

I love Tamera she reminds me of myself in many ways

[@feleciaactkinson]

No accountability from Tia

[@LawLeeP0P]

Word of the day: communicate

[@ELLEPRISTINE123]

I find this show very helpful. It's reality, it's what happens between family members. It's healthy ways of resolving conflict.

[@claranicole31]

I think that Tamera should go to individual counseling/therapy to find her voice and try to and use it she should also work on expressing her emotions openly. Tia is very strongly willed and opinionated. She seems like a bully low key to Tamera and I hate that for her. She definitely needs to do the total opposite from Tamera and go to counseling, learn how to listen to understand and be more empathetic.

[@rebeccabutcher5793]

Omg I teared up when Tamera did 🥺

[@tonymolatto1904]

Tia is the alpha and doesn't have boundaries. Tamera doesn't put up boundaries when need be and Tia sees it as over reacting because Tamera gets passive aggressive instead of just standing strong despite Tias reaction.

[@mo6live]

This was such a good show

[@sra_the_librarian]

I feel like they aren’t that close anymore. I hope I’m wrong cuz I love them

[@ebonylady]

Well, they have separate lives. Tamara married a successful journalist so she can rest in her feminine quality whereas Tia basically married down and was always worried about not working. It would be very difficult for them to see eye to eye.

[@Hernameis994]

it's crazy that tia is younger

[@thelovelykimmi7920]

I needed to see this. I have a sister and sometimes we have trouble communicating too

[@AAOFIT]

OMG this episode reminds me of my husband and I, I’m Tamera and he’s Tia

[@holliebrown101]

Dang....where have i been. Didn't even know this show existed😢

[@attiyabukhari1418]

Been watching for a time especially when you done a reality show with your cute babies

[@virginiaparedes1077]

I follow Tamera and husband Adam. ✋👍👍👍👍🌈🧚🏼🦋🥰😊🥰🙏🇪🇨🙏💥

[@tishmcclendon8777]

One has all the emotions and the other has none. Like an empath narcissist relationship 😢

[@karenborden1620]

Exactly.

[@LovetteKourt]

Tia is really every black women who stereotype another black women for being different.

[@abel7519]

It does feel that Tia nit picks at Tamera too much. Bc she does it often it doesn't come across well.

[@tiffanyjones2710]

But Tamera did say, "Tia that hurts my feelings when you call me a valley girl, especially because I'm black," and Tia busted out laughing! There was no apology.

[@artbyomni515]

So cute

[@Kayonthemove]

Tia comes across so inward.

[@MaryElizabeth-g1b]

Are they not too beautiful ? I love them because they always try to make things work.

[@samuelbennie7690]

Tamera on the “Valley Girl” part. I think Tamera has probably been judged by people on how she speaks possibly and it hit a nerve. Totally understandable. It was all in her body language. Now seeing how people separate them and say things relating to personality.

[@adb2490]

And that's the issue, Tia knows that Tamera has more than likely been "deemed" the whiter twin. Yet, she took the opportunity for the low blow with the valley girl comment, knowing that it would trigger Tamera.

[@dreamqueen317]

I don’t like the idea of showing these sisters go back in fourth with each other. I love them, let them be.

[@naomid3702]

I sort of agree, I mean it was their choice to do the show. I'm not sure if I like the idea of resurfacing these clips. I couldn't help but click due to the nostalgia. But I remember watching their reality show in the early 2010's on TV before social media took off. In today's world, everyone can have an opinion on the dynamics of their relationship and who's better than the other. There's no way Tamera could handle this show in todays world where she can see people calling her sensitive all the time. Being on "The Real" and hearing peoples opinions was even a lot for her. The twins had disagreements all the damn time on their reality show, but man do they love each other. As someone with a sister, I get it. I was always a fan of both of their work but I can understand someone being a fan of one sister over the other, they're two different people so it makes sense. But as you said, let them be. It's just sad how people try to put sisters against each other, I see it with Chole & Halle a lot these days.

[@CHELSEABuckhannon]

Everybody think tamera is soooi innocent she's not tia is actually thr good twin ❤❤❤😊

[@ChloeYoung-rq8ni]

Y’all messy for uploading these lol we see why they didn’t do more seasons. Clearly needed to heal in private

[@THATBOIPURR]

Man Tamera made me tear up

[@Aaron-zyzanski]

God if this ain't me & my sister😂

[@CHEQQUEENSNBROOKLYNMF]

LADIES LUV. COREY. LUV BRO❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@dianerogers2645]

There beautiful black women/twins I use 2 watch there acting all the time as they were blossoming into adult 😊

[@Linda_Arie]

Got To Love Those Twins 🤗🥰😁

[@SamkeloKondile-t3z]

❤love beat fast!!😂

[@IntheMidwithDom]

12:47 Tia is straight up gaslighting her. Tamara said in that moment “I’m offended because I’m black” and Tia just kept going, justifying her position. Watching this clips are interesting

[@AJGrey-bo1ry]

Tamara is NOT black…😂😂😂😂 Tia hit home with the joke because it was a read.

[@adb2490]

Tamera is definitely black.

[@ryanbell3917]

Tamera still looks like when they where young but tia have the adult version of them

[@serpentserpent9308]

@12:14 - Tia (w/out mole) saying her sister sounds valley 🤨 They sound the same.

[@YaaAgubyKete]

These 2 talk around in circles too much lol

[@MaryElizabeth-g1b]

I pray that they are always safe, in Jesus Christ mighty name. Amen !

[@ryanarmour6127]

I'm not a twin but I have two cousins that is male twins and they are totally opposite from each other because one of them are calm and the other one doesn't mind having fun,and I been around them toget,her but they have each other back,no matter what,Kam and Kyle.

[@serritawatkins8113]

Funny Adamn said on the Real Tamera has a valley voice and she thought it was so funny

[@user-ld5km9jh2d]

Exactly

[@adb2490]

You also have to remember that was years after this show had aired. She possibly could have done the work and found true acceptance within herself.

[@AnAdorableWombat1]

I absolutely adore Tamera! She reminds me so much of myself. BUT, she is too sensitive and judgmental at times (like myself😕). I understand her wanting to worry about her twin's career but, her twin has to support her family. Tia had a husband who could watch Cree while she worked. Sometimes Tamera can come off as, I wouldn't say rude because she's extremely sweet, but a little inconsiderate. I hope they kept up going to therapy because it is very helpful in fixing relationships.