Tiktok Compilation | Teacher Tran Viet Quan Shares Profound Life Lessons for Personal Transformation

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Turning the negative thoughts of our ancestors from the past into positive thoughts, what should we do? For example, smoking is a bad habit. If Dương stops smoking, what should we do? Anger is a bad habit, so we should reduce anger and focus on relaxation and comfort. We need to cultivate our inner strength. If our inner strength is weak, we need to train it again. This means educating ourselves, but here it refers to self-education and self-improvement, not just education for making money. The foundation is our own inner strength, and all these factors should be cultivated from a young age. Even if they were not cultivated from an early age and were even poisoned, it is our responsibility now to educate ourselves. It is never too late to educate ourselves; as long as we are still breathing, we can still educate ourselves within each breath. In Buddhism, this is called mindfulness meditation, observing our breath, observing our mind in each second, each minute. That is how we educate ourselves within each breath.
In the historical story of Liu Bang defeating Xiang Yu to unify China, after Liu Bang became the Emperor of Han, Hán Xin sent a letter requesting to be appointed as a king of a certain region. Liu Bang became very angry and wanted to send his troops to attack Xiang Yu immediately. However, Liu Bang had a wise and calm advisor named Zhang Liang. Zhang Liang asked Liu Bang a question: "If we talk about military strategies and tactics, is Your Majesty better than Xiang Yu?" Liu Bang sat and pondered for a while and said, "No, I cannot be better than him. Our entire country is not better than Xiang Yu." After thinking for a while, Liu Bang realized that if they engaged in a battle, they would surely lose. So, he granted Hán Xin's request and allowed him to go. This story demonstrates the importance of having a wise and calm advisor like Zhang Liang who added value to the team, and Liu Bang's correct decision-making. Several years later, they dealt with Hán Xin accordingly, and now Hán Xin had returned to the capital.
Or, when you accidentally pass away, what would you give to your child? Would you give them 5 billion or 10 billion? Is the value of your life more important, or is it more important to give your child moral values, intelligence, and resilience? The latter is more important, but moral values, intelligence, and resilience cannot be given instantly. They require a process of cultivation from childhood to adulthood. Those who realize early will cultivate early. Those who realize late will cultivate late. How can we win people's hearts, make them easily happy, easily content, easily laugh, easily cry? Pay attention and observe, my friends. When you meet someone who is emotionally rich, is it alright to speak the truth? Is it alright to tell the truth? Speaking the truth leads to death, and lying also leads to death. So, how should we speak? Look deeply into their eyes to understand what they want. Don't listen to their words; instead, look deeply into their eyes to see what they truly want to say. Once you understand what they want to say, you're done. "Hey, let's go for a coffee with my friend." "Sure, go ahead and enjoy yourself." Pay attention to the tone of voice. Raise your voice higher and higher. But when the tone changes and becomes gnashing of teeth, raise your voice higher. Then look into their eyes and see a hint of sadness. After a few years, deal with it. How do we capture a tiger when it comes out of its cave? We can catch it whenever we want. This is an interesting story between Tr, 1 skipped block of code.