TikTok Compilation Therapy Fails #2 | Failed at an eating disorder, Told not to have anxiety

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@MentalAmanda 6 ай бұрын

💖No matter where you are in your journey, you have a safe place here to share your struggles and accomplishments without judgment. This is how we shatter the mental health stigma.💖 Learn the EXACT steps I took in getting my depression and BPD in check, overcoming addiction and self harm and going from ready to end it all to true healing. amandawebsterhealth.com/happiness-boost

@BrokePencil 6 ай бұрын

I don't really trust people, and thus don't like them. My very first therapist thought this was related to my depression and told me that "You need to open your heart to the world." I fired him that day and sought out a psychiatrist.

@kurik2856 6 ай бұрын

Wow after watching this I'm cured lol. I recently got diagnosed with combined type ADHD. I've started on stimulants an it's finally quiet in my head. I also now have control over my addictive/impulse behaviours that have fuelled my depression and anxiety and nearly cost my life. Thankyou Amanda for your content, you're doing amazing work. Much love from Australia ❤

@MentalAmanda 6 ай бұрын

I am glad you found something that works for you!

@morielvalinor 6 ай бұрын

When I had institutionalised myself because of depression and suicidal thoughts (if I hadn’t done it, I wouldn’t be here anymore) the therapist told me after 6 weeks that I am not the typical patient of a psychiatric hospital and didn’t belong there. I was so shocked, that I didn’t know what to say at first. Later I was really angry. Such a statement is so irresponsible and also dangerous for someone who is suicidal.

@MentalAmanda 6 ай бұрын

That is such an inappropriate response! You're right, very dangerous and irresponsible. I hope you found treatment based in compassion and science!

@BratsNMustard 6 ай бұрын

One of the first things I disclose to any new doctors, therapists, etc. is that I really don't like medication. Ever since I was a young child I have had many instances where the "medicine" I was prescribed caused as much or more harm than help. Many times making me feel much worse. If there are bad side effects I will experience them with about 70% of the medicines I try. As I got into my teen years I remember my mother often telling doctors about the situation and making sure I didn't take certain meds. Well the biggest therapy fail I have ever experienced was when I went to a new therapist for the first time a few years ago. After our initial greeting she had me tell her a bit about myself and my situation with many years of anxiety and depression. So of course I informed her of my issue with pharmaceuticals and how the idea of taking a new medicine often triggers my anxiety to go into overdrive. And then if I take the meds and have an issue it often leads to a trip to the ER because the world is "collapsing around me." Well after about 20 minutes of giving her my background and current situation, and answering a few questions she suggested scheduling another visit with her, and then told me she wanted to start me on a prescription for Lexapro. She never even asked me about any particular medicines that I may have had an issue with. I about went off the deep end but I quickly grounded myself and filled her in on the fact that I had already tried Lexapro and all it did was make me want to kill myself for the first four hours of each of the 4 days that I took it. Then I informed her that I would pass on scheduling another appointment with her. Total fail.

@2eREPPARA 6 ай бұрын

Aussie combat vet When I described some(not all)of my combat nightmares to a therapist l got told l was living in the past,military veterans think we’re all heroes & what l told him wasn’t actually so bad & l was exaggerating for attention.

@MentalAmanda 6 ай бұрын

That is CRIMINAL! I hope you found someone that specialized in PTSD and combat trauma!

@2eREPPARA 6 ай бұрын

@@MentalAmanda l’m not going thru the process again & being called a liar,besides it’s not like l’m actually worth the effort,it’ll be easier to just drop the hammer & stop bothering people,l’m expendable 🇦🇺🇺🇸

@MentalAmanda 5 ай бұрын

Feeling hesitant about diving back into therapy hits close to home for me. It's tough when past experiences have left you feeling like you're not believed or valued. Therapy should be a safe space where you're heard and understood, and finding the right therapist who respects your experiences is crucial. I had to go through many therapists before finding one that vibed with me and I REALLY wish I would have sought one out that specialized in my specific needs from the get go. When thoughts of not being worth the effort or feeling expendable creep in, it can feel overwhelming. I've been there, and those feelings can make it hard to reach out for help. But it's important to remind yourself that you deserve support and understanding, just like anyone else. Your feelings are valid, and your well-being matters deeply. I care if your light goes out.

@garyzigler452 6 ай бұрын

This is so sad to hear what others have gone through when they seemed out help through therapy. It's really sad that therapist just group patients together instead of listening to them and finding a solution FOR THEM. Everyone's situation is different.

@geoffreynolds3157 6 ай бұрын

I had to report a therapist on the platform I was getting therapy from. He had told me that ADHD was something he didn’t believe to exist, and my issue was that I wasn’t working hard enough to make more money, and thats why I’m unhappy. I also had a diagnostician tell me I didnt have ADHD and it was a misdiagnosis, then referred me to a $1200 ADHD assessment centre. Thankfully my general practitioner had the authority to reassess me for ADHD since it was something that was on my record before(i live in canada so this maybe different in the USA). Turns out my inattentive ADHD had evolved into Combined type as I got older and it was a huge factor in my addictive behaviour. I never reported the diagnostician, but I wish I did.

@MentalAmanda 6 ай бұрын

Well if he doesn't believe in it, you've obviously cured! 🙄

@geoffreynolds3157 6 ай бұрын

@@MentalAmanda lol 100% as far as I understand he was reported to his College by the platform I was receiving therapy from. I think he was also kicked off the platform as well.

@sapjap172 6 ай бұрын

I've known that I need therapy for about 15 years. My attempts have been unproductive because of major trust issues. Any advice on how to force myself to trust someone would be appreciated.

@MentalAmanda 6 ай бұрын

It's commendable that you're acknowledging the need for therapy and seeking advice despite your trust issues. Building trust is a gradual process. I'd suggest starting by, thoroughly research therapists and consider those who specialize in trust issues or have positive reviews from people saying they struggle with similar thoughts. Start with shorter, less frequent sessions to feel more in control. Be open with your therapist about your trust issues and establish clear boundaries for discussions. Recommendations from trusted individuals can help, and starting with online therapy or support groups might feel less intimidating. Explore different therapeutic modalities like cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) or eye movement desensitization and reprocessing (EMDR) that might suit your needs. Patience and persistence are key, and it's okay to meet with several therapists before finding the right fit. Practice self-compassion and acknowledge your progress. The aim is to find someone who makes you feel safe and understood, allowing you to gradually build trust and benefit from therapy 💖

@johnstipanic2389 6 ай бұрын

Today I woke up and found that this was the worst day of my life and my favourite song is the worst day since yesterday by flogging molly I like your channel you seem to care thank you hard to find kind

@OctaniumYT 6 ай бұрын

3:39 as an anorexic and body dysmorphic, I’m glad I don’t have to go through that. At least yet……I’m a restricter and not a purger (probably because I have emetophobia) but still I can’t imagine what it must have been like drawing what you think you look like and then learning what you actually look like. I have an appointment with the facility of eating disorders at the hospital in about a month, so hopefully they don’t put me through that……😳 As always thanks for showing us this kind of stuff as it really helps others understand different struggles. Hopefully ur journey to 70k subs goes well as I can see that you are very close!!! 😊

@MentalAmanda 6 ай бұрын

I wish you the best in recovery!

@Hawkkaii-ih2ps 6 ай бұрын

Sucks what these people went through just messed up.

@Christractions 6 ай бұрын

Referring to the topic of if you got good grades in school then you don't have adhd is bs. I got good grades and graduated high school and i have adhd. There is such a thing as highly functioning people with adhd and autism and i am proud to be one of them. Sounds the therapist Patricia needs to do her homework before making such a diagnosis and i know that you can relate to this also Amanda being as you are a parent of a child who has adhd. The diagnosis of adhd does not always come early in life but can also occur in adulthood. Patricia really urked me with this comment, she is such a wack job.

@gabriellauria 5 ай бұрын

If only empathy was a job requirement.........🤦

@TheBoneychuck 6 ай бұрын

I like your shirt

@scottclark3761 6 ай бұрын

Just don't have anxiety sounds like advice high school me would have given. You see, I have the opposite problem....I don't really experience anxiety. It has taken years for me to even kind of wrap my head around...say...someone getting nervous when someone watches them count change. Never occured to me that anyone ever would. Of course, I never claimed to be a therapist, either. Likely not my thing. But, upon the last video....I think it really highlights problems with our insurance and health system. It may be possible....just maybe...that there is some sort of connection between the body and brain. Mental health is health. Depression can cause body aches, anxiety, from my understanding, can cause cardiac issues. Et cetera, ad nauseum. There's no mental health as opposed to any other kind. It's all one thing.

@Kielmalabag 6 ай бұрын

Hi I'm new here! Please react to the River by Aurora, it really helped me process my emotions

@masterrogue9780 6 ай бұрын

Here's a therapy fail for next time: Them: yeah, we can help you with it, we'll just need you to make an appointment since the hospital failed to do that. Mom: by the way, you should know he's autistic Them: oh, we're unprepared to deal with him so you'll need to leave, here's a pamphlet for an autism group. (by the way, the autism group they referred me to actively tries to kill autists and the ones they don't kill they try to gaslight into removing themselves from the gene pool. They also have pedophiles working there, so if they get a kid they abuse them.) Me: What does autism have anything to do with wanting to die? How does wanting to die stop being wanting to die because autism? Them: No one here is trained to treat suicidal ideation, we only handle drug abuse. Me: Then why do you advertise that you do? Wouldn't that be admitting to committing a large scale scam? Them: Me to mom: Do you see now why I never tell anyone? A few people in the lobby got up and left because of what they did and said. One person even stated they were there for suicide treatment, very loudly, before leaving. Pretty sure by the time I left the whole lobby had cleared out.

@MentalAmanda 6 ай бұрын

Ah yes, the run around of referrals. Hope you got real treatment with someone capable and qualified to help!

@masterrogue9780 6 ай бұрын

@@MentalAmanda Nope. The only other times I tried therapy was 1ce before and 1ce after. The 1 before was during the pandemic and so it was call in, the therapist kept pushing me to talk about something I really didn't want to talk about and when I finally did they cut me off, ended the session early, and never called back. The 1 after, I ended up in an emergency clinic called copestone (or however you spell that) and I told them that I needed my phone so I could pay my employees that are helping me make a game of my own to both immortalize my best friend and have some kind of media representation of the cure to mass and school shootings, and if I couldn't pay them then they would have to leave to be able pay their bills and, by law, that would make me have to throw out everything they worked on and face court for unpaid labor, but since I was there and couldn't leave "not appearing in court" would bring a lot of other issues, and so everything I've built for 30 years would come crashing down and likely never see fruition. The instant they heard that everything would come crashing down they got big toothy grins and told me that I must be addicted to my phone. I'm never doing therapy again.

@MentalAmanda 5 ай бұрын

I've had awful therapy experiences too. I think we all have truthfully. I think of therapy like dating. There will be a lot of duds, but waiting out for the right one is so worth it.