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@eringassner5663
@eringassner5663 Жыл бұрын
“I’ve spent my life studying relationships” miss you’re 22 years old
@andreaf8404
@andreaf8404 Жыл бұрын
shes like 30 or older 😭 i used to watch her videos on youtube years ago when i was straight. and she used to give better advice too. apparently shes a relationship counselor, which is a little worrying with those tips she gave
@MelinaImmonen
@MelinaImmonen Жыл бұрын
I think she's 39 or 40! I was obsessed with her KZbin channel when I was younger
@stott2hot
@stott2hot Жыл бұрын
@@MelinaImmonenstfu 😂
@AnimatorBlake
@AnimatorBlake Жыл бұрын
Actually she's 40-50. I used to download her videos off limewire when I was younger.
@ThePhighteane
@ThePhighteane Жыл бұрын
Actually she’s 50-60, pretty sure we had her videos on VHS
@brookeworm18
@brookeworm18 Жыл бұрын
love to see that toxicity and being an incel knows no gender. this is true equality! 😍🤗😬
@jamsquan9415
@jamsquan9415 Жыл бұрын
we don't need less incels, we need more femcels. right? fight fire with fire and all that, they could match up with each other on incel dating websites.
@astroblast2325
@astroblast2325 Жыл бұрын
"incel" was first coined by a woman - we stay winning!!!
@Holmnielsen-
@Holmnielsen- Жыл бұрын
i'm a female incel and i wouldn't trade it for anything.
Жыл бұрын
You should read Men Who Hate Women by Laura Bates. It'll make you reconsider
@m2012o1
@m2012o1 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@ErinaBleu
@ErinaBleu Жыл бұрын
this is insane they're literally saying "i know it's kind of toxic but like you should emotionally abuse him!!! he'll love you
@Onnarashi
@Onnarashi Жыл бұрын
As a man, trust and believe he won't love you. Ghosting and emotional manipulation tends to have the opposite effect on men, at least the men women would like to attract. Men who take a woman witdrawing as an invitation to pursue her further are generally speaking not men you'd want to date. Not talking about him asking where you've gone if you stopped texting or seeing him alltogether, but more the types who won't take no for an answer or be extremely persistent regardless of how little interest you show.
@justemoi555
@justemoi555 Жыл бұрын
@@Onnarashi orrr you can just not do it to men because it will fuck them up. there's also that. don't generalize men. and the ones who won't take no for an answer... you're just describing predators.
@Onnarashi
@Onnarashi Жыл бұрын
@@justemoi555 Exactly.
@thenablade858
@thenablade858 Жыл бұрын
@@OnnarashiYou’re exactly right. Men who deliberately go for women who don’t want them are either men with no self worth or creepy.
@bazooka-sharks-parker
@bazooka-sharks-parker Жыл бұрын
What’s the difference between love , infatuation and addiction . It’s only another person’s feelings
@cur1ouscatf1sh
@cur1ouscatf1sh Жыл бұрын
The problem is that they’re all pretty. I want a girl who’s not conventionally attractive telling me how to get guys obsessed with me, because that’s a lot more helpful to the non supermodels among us
@NoraMandelkern
@NoraMandelkern Жыл бұрын
Literally!! That’s what I couldn’t stop thinking about. The guy finds you attractive because you’re attractive!
@modkip25
@modkip25 Жыл бұрын
true !
@Solip_i
@Solip_i Жыл бұрын
They re not obsessed with them but with their beauty. Do you really want that ? The day he will get tired of you, when he will find prettier or the day you change…. Then you’ll be abandoned.
@Onnarashi
@Onnarashi Жыл бұрын
As a man, I want to ask why you'd want someone to be obsessed with you? If they're obsessed, they're not in a healthy mindset. I don't think people who say they want someone to obsess over them actually know what obsession looks/feels like. Obsession is stalking, possessiveness, jealous rage, emotional immaturity/volatility, and the violation of your boundaries. Trust me when I say it's way better to create and uphold healthy boundaries and respect the boundaries of others. Also, men aren't that complicated. We crave a genuine connection, respect, trust, peace, occasional compliments and show of gratitude, someone who listens to us and doesn't outright dismiss our interests and hobbies.
@maiak3188
@maiak3188 Жыл бұрын
Right? If the average woman went around touching guys arms they would be creeped out, not turned on
@MistressMillion
@MistressMillion Жыл бұрын
"Put a glock to his head. Boys love physical touch" Is a perfect out-of-context sentence I'll probably use it every single day 😂
@LesReadsMore
@LesReadsMore Жыл бұрын
These people are just out here teaching the starter kit for how to psychologically abuse people 🤦🏻‍♀️😅
@Onnarashi
@Onnarashi Жыл бұрын
Well, us men don't have feelings so it's alright. (sarcasm alert)
@ealusaid
@ealusaid Жыл бұрын
LITERALLY
@saraobrochta1127
@saraobrochta1127 Жыл бұрын
The fact that these are grown women giving middle school level toxic dating advice so earnestly terrifies me.
@julietdemske1791
@julietdemske1791 Жыл бұрын
the fact that carley did the small hand thing is so funny to me💀
@uncarley
@uncarley Жыл бұрын
🥺🥺
@LizzylovesLobo
@LizzylovesLobo Жыл бұрын
i literally screamed bc as someone with “piano fingers” ive NEVER been able to do this and im insanely jealous to the girls who could
@PersephonesRose-nr3oo
@PersephonesRose-nr3oo Жыл бұрын
@@LizzylovesLobo I have small hands and I’ve always wanted piano fingers 😭
@LizzylovesLobo
@LizzylovesLobo Жыл бұрын
@@PersephonesRose-nr3oo como se diceeeee the grass is always greener on the other side 🥲😭
@Samzillah
@Samzillah Жыл бұрын
We really thought as teenagers, that showing a guy how much smaller we were then them, was going to make them like us😂
@hamtaru
@hamtaru Жыл бұрын
this is actually inspiring, so good to see female representation in a male dominated field. #feminism #gaslightgirlbossgatekeep
@KristinaVeshtort-Kask
@KristinaVeshtort-Kask Жыл бұрын
lol "just a ✨girlboss✨ building her empire💃"
@johannaelloso9418
@johannaelloso9418 Жыл бұрын
"The rules are not the same for us girlie" I felt that 😭
@Rebel_without_a_clue
@Rebel_without_a_clue Жыл бұрын
Speaking as a lesbian in a longterm relationship ... I am also obsessed with watching these video's, I think it's just my morbid way of checking what the straight girlies are up to lmao
@D0MiN0ChAn
@D0MiN0ChAn Жыл бұрын
As a straight girlie, trust me, this shit is terrifying more than anything 😭
@rx500android
@rx500android Жыл бұрын
Lmao mood
@the1r1s
@the1r1s Жыл бұрын
Im in a long term het-relationship, and I am so glad I don’t “have to” be single and dealing with this shit….
@leila_de_hautjardin
@leila_de_hautjardin Жыл бұрын
I don't know about lesbians but let me tell you the straight girls are not okay !
@namangoy
@namangoy Жыл бұрын
Yeah I'm also a lesbian watching this just horrified
@indigo92099
@indigo92099 Жыл бұрын
"give him a little chocolate covered strawberry...... and then slit his throat" lmaoo I love u
@likeatempestinateacup
@likeatempestinateacup Жыл бұрын
I literally had to stop the video after she said that, I was laughing so hard.
@alexjames7144
@alexjames7144 Жыл бұрын
The rejection thing is very concerning, that some young women are internalising the normality of being relentlessly pursued by men after saying no, and instead of assessing how awful that is they're like this is perfect this is how I win. Like honey no, please do a feminism instead. I also really hope men don't see these and use them to justify harrassing women because this stuff is essentially encouraging awful behaviour from men. That woman rejected you? Its because she secretly wants you. That woman accudentally brushed up against you? She's gagging for it. That woman expressed basic interest in what you were saying? Clearly an invitation. Can we just normalise being up front and just saying "hi, I'm attracted to you do you want to go out? No? No worries have a nice day"
@blueblubloo7243
@blueblubloo7243 Жыл бұрын
THIS! I think rejection needs to be more normalized one both sides. It's okay to say no, and also it's okay to put yourself out there and be told no. No doesn't mean anything beyond not interested, it is not a huge dissection on your personality and looks. Especially for girls. So many of my friends don't put themselves out there because of fear of rejection and antiquated gender roles. Be bold AND take rejection as a pro. Guys who keep going after you show you aren't interested makes things so uncomfortable.
@katfujioka212
@katfujioka212 Жыл бұрын
Yeah omfg all I want is a guy who respects and values me as a person, I don’t want some creep who sees me as an object or is ‘obsessed’ with me. These people create more work for themselves too, it’s easier to communicate and be yourself rather than come up with these weird little games imo
@elenaascia8879
@elenaascia8879 Жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@dragonbeardable
@dragonbeardable Жыл бұрын
This is why men should really go MGTOW and not approach women at all.... It's harassment.
@bennyv4444
@bennyv4444 8 ай бұрын
Bring back courting lol
@tasheve3015
@tasheve3015 Жыл бұрын
i’ve never understood the “make them interested and then ignore them for a few days” method. if i’m into someone and they randomly stop replying i immediately get the ick
@dyoopiter
@dyoopiter Жыл бұрын
this is a sign that ur emotionally healthy and well adjusted ! keep it up babe
@fynnsternis6432
@fynnsternis6432 Жыл бұрын
i'm sure there are people who get obsessed from rejection but that could not be less relatable to me. If someone ghosted me for a few days every so often, i would simply get so anxious about it that i would stop talking to them. Others might have a fight or flight response, i only have a flight response, byye, not worth it
@EF-kk3vh
@EF-kk3vh Жыл бұрын
real of you
@irmacommentsalot7380
@irmacommentsalot7380 Жыл бұрын
thank you! i think that applies to mostly everyone…
@cyrra8865
@cyrra8865 Жыл бұрын
it's not a flight or fight response, it's just called having self respect!
@bee.ok666
@bee.ok666 Жыл бұрын
same! at a point it gets to "this person is not putting as much effort into this relationship as I am. so why i am i still trying?" and it just makes me a bit bitter and less likely to message that person. it happens with friendships too. a good relationship is built on communication.
@christinab5778
@christinab5778 Жыл бұрын
This second girl’s advice: be an emotional abuser
@user-qb1ht7fr3n
@user-qb1ht7fr3n Жыл бұрын
“ Grab his neck “ , “ choke him “ I spit out my water !!!😅
@erburu
@erburu Жыл бұрын
"Guys fall in love during space through their imagination" absolutely broke me
@umarb7325
@umarb7325 Жыл бұрын
women in the comments will never know how true this is.
@vkaatz425
@vkaatz425 Жыл бұрын
@@umarb7325 So then you're falling in love with your idealized version of a person that you may have only interacted with a few times?
@zexnynex777
@zexnynex777 Жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure I'm in love with Carley n this is my 2nd vid 😂❤❤😂
@user-qb1ht7fr3n
@user-qb1ht7fr3n Жыл бұрын
I love the fact that ur dad was one of the original ‘female pick up artist’ , just didn’t have TikTok yet😂
@alina5110
@alina5110 Жыл бұрын
I love how some of them state in EVERY VIDEO that they are an relationship expert or something. Like yeah, I‘m sure that in relationship school they teach you exactly how to become an obsessive stalker-queen girly ❤
@lukelie
@lukelie Жыл бұрын
the way that carley mentioned that TikTok makes her want to end her own life. that is so relatable and girlboss of her. we love an open and honest queen.
@alexjames7144
@alexjames7144 Жыл бұрын
The thing that most of these things miss is that either: 1. They already find you attractive and you'd have to fuck it up pretty bad to ruin it or 2. They aren't interested and this weird dance is not going to change that
@jamesroop6572
@jamesroop6572 Жыл бұрын
They're all like "confuse him with pointless mind games", we guys love that
@thegingerx
@thegingerx Жыл бұрын
Carley remember when you see good makeup on tiktok they’re 1) probably using the beauty filter and 2) have eyelash extensions so everything looks better. Although god damn I wish I could do eye makeup too 😭
@36424567254
@36424567254 Жыл бұрын
I don't get this. I mean, I'm male so by no means an expert on make up, but while the 1st girl's looked great (also probably attractive face to begin with), the fourth one had eyes SO visually big and doll-like that it was seriously unsettling. Do girls really think we like that?
@BecRaper
@BecRaper Жыл бұрын
"Hey ya big f***ing silly... put a glock to his head, boys love physical touch" gurl I am dying
@petergershon4734
@petergershon4734 Жыл бұрын
As a man the fact that there are female pick up artists fascinates because male pick up artists will never shut up about how “females will never be lonely like us men if they ever feel lonely they can just call up one of their guy friends”
@ayomidedareabel5525
@ayomidedareabel5525 Жыл бұрын
The delusion of some guys that we girls are never lonely is astounding at times. Like carley said if you are conventionally attractive that is the only time you have lots of options but quantity doesn't always mean quality. If you're an average girlie you may have dudes but it's probably like a once in a while thing depending on how social you are If you are unattractive you are totally invisible I'm someone that has a lot of male friends and they aren't remotely attracted to me. And I'm honestly happy about that
@AnimatorBlake
@AnimatorBlake Жыл бұрын
The females will never be lonely thing is just to make you feel inadequate in comparison so that you feel more like you need to compensate and are more likely to look to them for advice. As well, if you think women are different, you won't look to them for advice, you'll look to other men.
@JS-it3dx
@JS-it3dx 5 ай бұрын
it’s because women are usually lonely by choice. they’re only interested in a certain caliber of man.
@karakask5488
@karakask5488 Жыл бұрын
Why does anyone want someone "obsessed" with them? It just seems creepy
@cat-breath9684
@cat-breath9684 Жыл бұрын
these kinds of relations are not relations at all it’s just a cat and mouse power struggle and it breeds so much pain and miscommunication. Like these behaviors set you up to be incapable of a real relationship due to narcissism and mistrust. It’s deeply sad.
@mxdhatter
@mxdhatter Жыл бұрын
CARLEY BLESS YOU I‘m stuck in a family gathering and you just saved me from dying out of boredom
@uncarley
@uncarley Жыл бұрын
omg best of luck
@claudiaramirez9786
@claudiaramirez9786 Жыл бұрын
"the plane in which you inhabit is not the same as my reality" SOOO true bestie
@LiahnaForbes
@LiahnaForbes Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but that Baby Jessica thing came out of NOWHERE and It got me laughing so hard XD
@herluka
@herluka Жыл бұрын
There's an Oscar in the making in that story 😂 x
@m2012o1
@m2012o1 Жыл бұрын
The one huge silver lining from all of this is that maybe girls who grew up watching these videos will recognize those behaviors when they're used on them.
@skykaneshiro5984
@skykaneshiro5984 11 ай бұрын
As someone who went through the phase of “how to get my crush to notice me” videos in my teen years, I’ve heard these things multiple time. Kimberly was one of the main youtubers I would watch, and all of them would include the same messages over and over again: push and pull, hot and cold, use physical touch, act like you need help with something. Even after watching all that I couldn’t find myself executing any of the “advices”. I felt manipulative, scummy, I didn’t feel like myself and I felt as if I would have to keep up the act all the time. The only times I’ve managed to attract someone was when I was myself and minding my own business, not caring about how I appeared to the opposite sex.
@Me-mq5zd
@Me-mq5zd Жыл бұрын
this is the youtube channel I watch at 3 am with a bowl of cereal and that is the highest form of compliment 😂
@uncarley
@uncarley Жыл бұрын
this is my legacy
@princessbablaschmabladingd7451
@princessbablaschmabladingd7451 Жыл бұрын
The way 80% of this advice is just telling you to emotionally abuse the person you are interested in
@ritisha992
@ritisha992 Жыл бұрын
tiktok has dissolved my brain cells😅
@uncarley
@uncarley Жыл бұрын
same bestie
@KatieRingley
@KatieRingley Жыл бұрын
Girl you gotta work on that algorithm then. There’s so much valuable info on it
@anaclarasebben
@anaclarasebben Жыл бұрын
The number one rule in most of these videos is to be conventionally attractive
@adorkable4eva
@adorkable4eva Жыл бұрын
IM A WOMAN IN STEM!!! thank you for the shoutout girlie!
@uncarley
@uncarley Жыл бұрын
i bow down to you
@renataaristimuno5269
@renataaristimuno5269 Жыл бұрын
we celebrate and elevate u bestie!!!
@marsjournal4303
@marsjournal4303 Жыл бұрын
hell ya!
@bayleebrowning9720
@bayleebrowning9720 Жыл бұрын
queen, the reason their makeup is serving in ways is because they have lash extensions- ur makeup looks good it’s falsies or extensions that ur noticing I promise I battle this on the daily
@blugreen123
@blugreen123 Жыл бұрын
It's a way to get him interested...if he's a detective. That made me snort laugh. 😂
@WitchlingFairyelle
@WitchlingFairyelle Жыл бұрын
Okay its funny but also It’s legitimately WILD to me that anyone actually wastes any energy on doing things like this or being “manipulative” to make someone get obsessed with you? It’s very odd, like you do you but also literally just be yourself and if they don’t like who you actually are then you don’t want that person anyways 🤨 Basically this vid had me in deep though about how people are out here curating every move in their interactions to manipulate and meanwhile I’m just skipping around in dreamland saying everything that passes through my brain and just so unaware of people around me calculating every move 😅 PS you’re hilarious and I want more reaction stuff like this thanks babes
@rsmith4407
@rsmith4407 Жыл бұрын
I love hot girl friends. They are so genuinely unaware how different their baseline is until they start getting older and then they become total badasses with the new awareness they have. I love them so much.
@thiagocavalcanti6175
@thiagocavalcanti6175 9 ай бұрын
I LOVE that the "mental health advocates", "we need to face our fears in therapy" generation's idea of romance is to create trauma and insecurities in others.
@bogboybogboybogboyb
@bogboybogboybogboyb 7 ай бұрын
I think it's worth noting, these girlies are not mental health/therapy advocates- just because that kind of awareness is more popular now doesn't mean these people are into it.
@hopiemelton
@hopiemelton Жыл бұрын
the clockwork orange eye thing 💀💀 obsessed with this reference
@uncarley
@uncarley Жыл бұрын
👀
@amynorton9619
@amynorton9619 Жыл бұрын
"If you have no older sister in your life, you are hung out to dry." I have never identified with any sentiment more strongly than this.
@convoswithkara
@convoswithkara Жыл бұрын
"it's a way to get him interested if he's a DETECTIVE" brb losing my shit 💀
@lindsaysmith4208
@lindsaysmith4208 Жыл бұрын
“If you see your crush at school just walk up and say hey you big fuckin silly and then put a Glock to his head”😭😭😭😭😭 I can’t breathe
@herluka
@herluka Жыл бұрын
Loving all this "How to emotionally mess with someone until either him or you has to take out a Restraining Order on the other" advice 👍
@user-pt1re4qp1r
@user-pt1re4qp1r Жыл бұрын
As a guy, and someone who suspects they're talking to a girl who is following this kind of advice, I can tell you now that it doesn't work. This girl I was talking to said she was happy to hang out the week I asked her, but said she was busy for a lot of it, so I asked her to let me know when she's free, and she has not responded for about 2 weeks. Contrary to what these pick up artists all seem to have agreed on, this has not made me more interested in her, rather I've lost what little interest I had in her. Also it was very refreshing to hear you talk about pretty privilege, I feel like that's a point I don't often hear brought up in relation to these female pick up artists, where a lot of the time they assume themselves to be dating experts, because they're successful at attracting people, when they're actually just getting away with behavior that less conventionally attractive people can't, in a case of post hoc ergo propter hoc. That being said, the upside is that there's a limit, most people can notice red flags, the hope is just that they won't be desperate or lonely enough to ignore them.
@RealGermanish
@RealGermanish Жыл бұрын
no offense, but also just very possible that they just weren't that interested to begin with.
@ambersmith2612
@ambersmith2612 Жыл бұрын
That’s not this advice… she’s just not interested in you 💀 women say they’re busy because they’re scared to outright reject you. Not speaking for TWO weeks is your answer
@infinitecurlie
@infinitecurlie Жыл бұрын
Speaking as a woman...She...Just wasn't interested in you but didn't want to hurt your feelings right then and there to your face. It's a way to protect ourselves from having a conflict or blow up from men. (not saying you would have but it's just past experiences of many women).
@user-pt1re4qp1r
@user-pt1re4qp1r Жыл бұрын
I hear everyone replying, and I agree, somehow I didn't consider that lmao. Should I delete this comment or keep it up to learn from in future? This is a pretty good ego check, so I'm inclined to think the latter is better.
@lookingforlilli
@lookingforlilli Жыл бұрын
@@user-pt1re4qp1r woman here, I think it's cool that you reflected on yourself. self awareness and stuff like that makes a person way more attractive than just looks, in my option
@geistking
@geistking 10 ай бұрын
"The best way to make a guy be obsessed with you is to literally just murder his parents right in front of him, like I guarantee you he will spend the rest of his life thinking about you and what you did, he might even end up dressing as a bat but what matters is that his entire life will be different thanks to you and he will literally only care about finding you again" -The Joker, probably, if he was a gaslight gatekeep girlboss
@jesspopps
@jesspopps Жыл бұрын
I'm not a hot girl, but I managed to get my boyfriend to fall in love with me by baking him a tonne of cakes. It worked, we've lived together for like, 4 years now.
@Onnarashi
@Onnarashi Жыл бұрын
As a man, I can confirm that that's a legitimate method of attracting a man. There were a couple of decent tips within those videos too, like giving a guy a compliment, showing interest in his interests and hobbies, touch and wearing red, although the touch one is very situational because you can't go up to random strangers and start groping them. As men we learn this is wrong, so I think women should as well.
@EllipsesMusicc
@EllipsesMusicc Жыл бұрын
🤣
@katfujioka212
@katfujioka212 Жыл бұрын
@@Onnarashiexcept those tips involve treating a guy like a human being with interests, hopes and fears rather than an obsessed chump who will fall to his knees when you brush him lightly!!! It’s like these women have never met a man before
@workedfriday
@workedfriday Жыл бұрын
"I am his ~best~ and ~~ONLY~~ OPTION!!" Sounds like a fundamentalist purity ritual.
@neivilde.1242
@neivilde.1242 Жыл бұрын
okay so they have 3 advices they give on loop, got it
@uncarley
@uncarley Жыл бұрын
yup
@Awsome101Girl
@Awsome101Girl Жыл бұрын
Their advice? Have you considered ✨ emotional abuse✨
@chloeblakesley608
@chloeblakesley608 Жыл бұрын
@@Awsome101Girlliterally how are people so chill at recommending abuse because it’s FUN
@neivilde.1242
@neivilde.1242 Жыл бұрын
@@Awsome101Girl literally
@sonidrei
@sonidrei Жыл бұрын
Carley calling us fucking freaks is 🫶✨
@uncarley
@uncarley Жыл бұрын
FREAK
@MoonMusicOwl
@MoonMusicOwl Жыл бұрын
I don't want a guy to get obsessed with me. Like. Ever. Have we learned nothing from Twilight and After?
@chochiinwonderland5784
@chochiinwonderland5784 Жыл бұрын
Can you imagine the kind of relationships these people are in? It's so painful!
@morganmicallef6032
@morganmicallef6032 Жыл бұрын
all of this advice is just the DENNIS System rebranded 😭
@morganmicallef6032
@morganmicallef6032 Жыл бұрын
(from its always sunny)
@neptunehenriksen
@neptunehenriksen Жыл бұрын
Carley, the sacrifices you make to create content for us peruses of the internet are so noble. And wow these creators seem endlessly fascinating to me, but probably not in the way they are intending.
@maryem9225
@maryem9225 Жыл бұрын
please take this as the compliment it is - you are the female version of Mike’s mic and I love it
@alizalieb3962
@alizalieb3962 10 ай бұрын
omg this is so true, i knew her energy reminded me of someone else i loved on here
@notamberp
@notamberp Жыл бұрын
“you wouldn’t last five minutes in a room with me bc I would unhinge my jaw and suck you down my gullet” lmao CARLEY you were on fire in this one, babes!!! 10/10 ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥
@NE-ns8mk
@NE-ns8mk Жыл бұрын
It's very disturbing that most of those recommendations translated into psych language would be like "behave as if you had borderline personality disorder"... and that often enough it works.
@erinzhou3572
@erinzhou3572 Жыл бұрын
That Daisy by Marc Jacobs was such an unnecessary attack 😂🌸
@uncarley
@uncarley Жыл бұрын
sorry
@availandco
@availandco Жыл бұрын
😊😊😊 you are encouraging me to make my hiatus from TIKTOK scrolling indefinite 😊😊😊
@uncarley
@uncarley Жыл бұрын
do it
@rianna3543
@rianna3543 Жыл бұрын
👋 **no older sister here** can completely relate. THANK YOU!! I am always trying to explain to people that this is why I can't do make up, don't know how to french braid, and didn't finish college.
@MrsSoapAndClay
@MrsSoapAndClay Жыл бұрын
I dunno, I’ve been trying the “I have a secret and I’m not telling you” bit all day and have been proposed to thrice and propositioned 42 times. Dad might be on to something.
@iloveglee168
@iloveglee168 Жыл бұрын
as an only child, girl i'm right there with u fended for ourselves we did what we could 6% fashion sense
@ilpesto554
@ilpesto554 Жыл бұрын
I once had a friend who was just somehow extra hot. And i didnt get that. Like I saw a girl, nice fit and funny whatever just a girl. But every time i went out with her guys just stopped her in the middle of our walk and tried to get her number and wont let her alone and not only ignoring me but treating me like trash bin. So yeah, if you are not naturally a magnet for mans attention you cant just make everybody laugh till you are in bed naked. Work both ways.
@itsmj3103
@itsmj3103 Жыл бұрын
some people are just more conventionally attractive, it is what it is 🤷‍♀️ n they don't need none of this mess 😂 just -be me-
@bugzy_brain
@bugzy_brain Жыл бұрын
a lot of those vids were just teaching serious manipulation. thats not how to get ur crush to be "obsessed 😍" with you, thats going to tear their mental state apart. no amount of "lol toxic alert 🚨!! cant say i didnt warn you 😚" shit will excuse teaching kids how to ruin every relationship theyll ever be in, romantic or otherwise. sincerely, someone who fell victim to this shit multiple times in a friend group and got diagnosed with c-ptsd because of it
@hew619
@hew619 Жыл бұрын
As an only child with older parents (I’m 27) I didn’t have YT when I first started getting interested in makeup! My mom rarely wore it and did very basic stuff, so it’s a miracle I’m decent at it
@sophiaisabelle0227
@sophiaisabelle0227 Жыл бұрын
We will always support you and your channel. Just know you're the best at everything.
@uncarley
@uncarley Жыл бұрын
🥺🥺
@dds5993
@dds5993 Жыл бұрын
She is our best and only option for content
@KristinaVeshtort-Kask
@KristinaVeshtort-Kask Жыл бұрын
All i want in this life is a hidden cam show about these tiktok "male pickup artists" and "female pickup artists" trying to pick up each other. Is that too much to ask?
@scliffbartoni9771
@scliffbartoni9771 Жыл бұрын
We love(?) femcel representation
@maryd7753
@maryd7753 Жыл бұрын
the baby jessica joke took me OUT LMAOOO
@elusiverobertdenby3000
@elusiverobertdenby3000 Жыл бұрын
why do they want men to be obsessed with them??? that sounds like the scariest thing in the world, hello??
@nikolendski5401
@nikolendski5401 Жыл бұрын
there has been not one day in my life that i have regretted deleting tiktok
@RattlesnakeJakey
@RattlesnakeJakey Жыл бұрын
Your dad's advice is actually highly accurate, all men desire nothing more than to be privvy to a good secret, we actually all turn instantly in to detectives.
@nataliaalonzo580
@nataliaalonzo580 6 ай бұрын
When you said “I’m a thimble and you’re a beast” I choked on air
@kierstynsaoirse
@kierstynsaoirse Жыл бұрын
brb sending my partner "you looked different today, and I liked it" even though I have not seen him today
@colewilliamson5412
@colewilliamson5412 Жыл бұрын
i'm actually dumbfounded at these tiktoks. having been on the other end of these tactics and still trying to recover from it all this really blows my mind. actively promoting harm ... just girly things i guess
@james092396
@james092396 Жыл бұрын
Haven't laughed this hard in a while, thank you! So happy to have found your channel
@pixi3d3ath47
@pixi3d3ath47 Жыл бұрын
something abt those types of videos is whether it’s a man or woman, you can completely tell when someone is putting on a show to get you to like them. they immediately desire you to cling to them and are incredibly obsessive while hiding how they are themselves. they don’t communicate and want you to find their unhealthy habits attractive. if you don’t, they become dejected and insulted, especially when you call them out on it. they don’t want a bf/gf, the want the validation society gives you for just being in a relationship, no matter how toxic behind the scenes. they act like confident and secure people while feeding their insecurities by forcing them onto others.
@dfjulesful
@dfjulesful Жыл бұрын
That woman's makeup looked flawless because of filters and lighting
@ladygaygay94
@ladygaygay94 Жыл бұрын
Carley taking on cringey and toxic pick up artists on a Friday?? Yeah sign me up!! PS: I’m so considering going to Canada for your watchalongs in the future because they sound fun af
@uncarley
@uncarley Жыл бұрын
always bestie
@uhh9919
@uhh9919 Жыл бұрын
AHH im so glad more shows were announced this is the first one i’ll be able to attend since i subbed we love to see it girlies
@ritisha992
@ritisha992 Жыл бұрын
carley we missed you so freaking much❤
@uncarley
@uncarley Жыл бұрын
missed ya too
@sophiasherrill8003
@sophiasherrill8003 Жыл бұрын
this video is actually so funny, you're doing God's work queen, perfect lunch break video
@sophiasherrill8003
@sophiasherrill8003 Жыл бұрын
also sweet Jesus the advice in this video is, in a very real way, manipulative
@sabrinamichelle3588
@sabrinamichelle3588 Жыл бұрын
Second girl literally teaching you how to emotionally manipulate someone
@christophlegare
@christophlegare Жыл бұрын
idk if a girl just started choking me and continued talking like she wasnt i might propose on the spot
@moonycanwatch
@moonycanwatch Жыл бұрын
This is my reward for getting through a week of work
@lesbiangoddess290
@lesbiangoddess290 Жыл бұрын
My reward for getting 7/9 of my exams done
@uncarley
@uncarley Жыл бұрын
congratulations bestie
@NaptimNate
@NaptimNate 8 ай бұрын
Not sure how I ended up down this rabbit hole considering the fact that I'm a 42 year old man, but I found this really amusing. Despite the fact that there is no scent or. color, some of those "tactics" actually work. However, I wouldn't recommend being emotionally and psychologically abusive to someone. A lot of that behavior is typical of psychopaths and narcissists. The "Love-bombing", the emotional blackmail, the idealizing, devaluing, and discarding. The whole cycle of abuse. Why do you even want someone to be obsessed with you? Why do you think getting. what you want is a good idea? Ask anyone who has ever had a wish granted by a genie or David Bowie if getting what you want is a good idea.
@laurasmith9784
@laurasmith9784 Жыл бұрын
I haven't laughed this much at a youtube video in a long time... thank you queen carley (ps if it's any consolation, I always think your eye makeup looks great)
@shivani7041
@shivani7041 Жыл бұрын
your reactions are sending me more than the videos... carley why do i feel like you're the "if we're in a don't laugh situation don't look at me" friend
@sunshinenuggets385
@sunshinenuggets385 9 ай бұрын
the fact that every woman you showed was like “oh just be obsessed with urself!!!
@sunshine123401
@sunshine123401 Жыл бұрын
Ok but I had the thought that YOUR makeup looked SO GOOD in this video!
@schnozchan6606
@schnozchan6606 Жыл бұрын
I've seen that last girl on IG before and it's absolutely bananas to me that she has made a business out of her manifestations. It's like the zoomer girl version of finance fitness bros selling "coaching courses" for 300 bucks a month, except she just teaches you how to use magic i guess.
@Whoblewboobear
@Whoblewboobear Жыл бұрын
I use the small hand trick ALL THE TIME. This is so real
@azzasiddiqui7190
@azzasiddiqui7190 Жыл бұрын
i just wanted to say that the absolute lack of makeup/beauty knowledge that comes from being an older sister that you have to learn way slower on a curve through general osmosis is unfair and fills me with great rage everytime i see somebody who clearly has an older sister
@latulip100
@latulip100 Жыл бұрын
Lol same. Now that I’m getting better my skin is now extra sensitive so I can’t even wear it. So I gotta stare at my flawless little sis, lol I love her.
@Sjaella
@Sjaella Жыл бұрын
you are so histerically funny, i don't understand how you come up with these unhinged comparisons HAHAHAH
@anoukgrace
@anoukgrace Жыл бұрын
They take books/ fANFICTION / Romance movies to serious 🤨😂😂
@chaimeansteabro
@chaimeansteabro Жыл бұрын
i love that as a society we can finally accept that the headless woman in Tom and Jerry was our collective sexual awakening
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