Our Age Gap Isn't Working

[@TimKyoutube]

I'm really enjoying the intersectionality and diversity of the commentator's qualifiers!

[@cjmagicaladventures6805]

hey Tim did you want people to send the numbers and information to whatsApp or is this an imposter kzbin.info/door/JmXcTiTk3tv0W76G76JDEQ

[@Aaronthedegen]

Bahahahahahaha ffs love it very progressive as harold would say

[@38totom]

Not a age Gap it's just American women are only raised to marry men with money foreign women are raised like that. Never marry a American woman!

[@LightHouseChurchThailand]

@@Aaronthedegen haha 😂 that Ukranazi lover

[@davidjones7493]

The propensity of sundry appellants behooves interchange of age dissimilarity

[@rjb346]

I'm a 77 yr old Caucasian man with a 35 yr old Filipina wife who has a 12 yr old daughter from a previous relationship. We concentrate on providing the needs of each other. Don't overthink this stuff. EVERY relationship is different and unique. Life happens so fast. Enjoy what you have, cherish the present, and be grateful that someone loves you.

[@briannichols4856]

Agreed

[@Regularguylive]

Dude is tripping!

[@zaneshepherd5245]

So you're 42 years older than your wife ...you're old enough to be her Grandfather seriously she wouldn't marry you if you weren't a cash register thats the truth 🤷‍♀

[@powerfull3107]

Perve

[@895940]

​@@zaneshepherd5245pop

[@donabendroth7453]

Hey Tim, 66 year old geezer here who married a 36 year old Filipina beauty almost 4 months ago. [K1] Our age gap has not really been too much an issue, but the cultural gap has been the challenge in our relationship. We both embrace each others culture, but misunderstandings can arise when one of us sees an issue through the lenses of our own culture and the other sees it another way. Living together for the first time has been a learning experience in getting to really know each other, communication being the key. So grateful and happy I married my Filipina, she makes me a better person and I hope I do her.

[@NewLife-qj9mx]

Gives me hope 👍

[@andreww3621]

Geezer/Geez

[@JulieRamone-li3tw]

you cant bring her to america. have to keep her dependent on you financially

[@user-DrJoe-Future]

You are correct about the cultural differences. I'm 72 from the U.S. married to a 36-year-old with 2 teen daughters. I have learned from her and her daughters, and they have learned from me. I just roll with the flow and laugh my way through the relationship and Philippine processes, and so does she. I accept the cultural differences -- it is what it is. Life is great, and we are doing well here in the Philippines, and my wife and daughters are loving life.

[@josephrelaford6826]

​@@JulieRamone-li3tware you in a relationship???

[@TheguyfromScotland]

I am 41 originally from Poland, I understand exactly where you are coming from, but I don't think this is all about the age gap. Filipino culture in itself is different from Western world, different priorities. And then there is this very personal development through family upbringing, surrounding, education, interests and so on.

[@user-DrJoe-Future]

Excellent assessment -- they are culturally different.

[@davidtesler1198]

Yes

[@shantisam-wo8wj]

Hi

[@johanv4668]

you are lucky you are from poland so many buties there.....

[@MrImhotep2287]

I'm a 64 year old guy, and after watching many vlogers from the Philippines and Thailand, I've decided to date a Philippina. When I originally went on the dating site, I was hoping to find a 40-something girl to be happy with, but to my surprise, almost all the attention comes from 20 something girls, lol. I agree that after talking to what seems to be 100s of them, province girls seem to be the best. Obviously, I'm looking at a 40-year age gap, but I've seen several happy relationships with the same age gap from there. So I'll be there in June to meet what I hope will be my next last relationship. If you're in Cebu in June, give me a shout-out, and I'll buy you a beer. Thanks again for the videos.

[@m.o.t7283]

And what was the site ? I am 47 and have had enough of western relationships ....thanks in advance for reply

[@MrImhotep2287]

@M.O.T I signed up to Pinalove pay for the membership it will allow unlimited texting. Then move it to What's app and then video chats, but be very careful of scammers. My numbers are like 40%, lol. Good luck.

[@Ggggghh897]

Yeah give me serious guy plz

[@DRM4393]

Hey Tim, this was a good vid. Yes I was married at 19 to a woman who was 29 a little reversal in age roles but still applies. After we were married we discovered a lot of differences even at only ten years, This did put a lot of strain on the marriage, but we worked through this. As the years past the age difference did not matter that much, the more time that past the less it mattered. This is something that is to be expected when you marry a younger or older person. Anyway I buried my last after 49 years of marriage. By that time we were not only husband and wife but best friends. So it can work if you give it time and patience. If the female is younger, she may still want to go out and party. Whereas the old boy would rather put his feet up and relax. Just an example for you. Thanks for the vid, keep up the good work.

[@jjess4]

Hi Tim, always enjoy your videos because you have a relaxing calm cadence about the way you talk that allows new ideas to be absorbed. I'm a 59 year old American mixed race(Canadian/Portuguese). First marriage at 21was to a woman who is 18 years older than I am. It lasted six years and produced a son but she really showed her age in that she didn't want to go out anywhere or do anything. My second marriage was to a woman two years my junior and that lasted twenty years without love or understanding of each other and much different interests and was a disaster. So now I have been looking in the Philippines because when I was 18, in the Navy, had a Philippine girlfriend and I really enjoyed the Philippines back then. This new journey that started before the pandemic, I posted on a Facebook Filipina dating page and got a thousand responses and over the course of the last four years whittled down to just one. I know that sounds ridiculous but I work for the Army the first year and the following two plus years was a covid pandemic that didn't allow for travel. Back in November I met three that I had been talking to and the one I connected with and fell in love with is 25 years my junior. So we've been talking for 4.5 years and she is 34, I'm 59, but she didn't really act like the typical younger woman, always self absorbed or surgically attached to her phone all day. It helps that I don't look (or act) my age. Most people think I'm in my forties which makes our physical appearance much closer in age than it really is. We are truly happy and planning our futures together when I fully retire. So with you and Chrissy I would hope that regardless of your age gap, you and Chrissy have things in common enough to have meaningful dialogue. Things that interest you that don't interest Chrissy mean that you might have to have friends to share those common interests but I don't see any kind of other issue here with you and her. I'm sure you both talk.

[@phillipbateman2284]

Tim, I used to watch your vlogs and when you met Chrissy I thought that she is a clever capable girl and wondered if she could ever knock some sense into you. She hasn't had your background from the states, and I see that as a good thing. Don't try to change her, she's perfect, change yourself, lose some weight (consuming sugar is your problem) feel better about yourself. If you stop cosuming sugar ( beer, sweets, pop, anything that has sugar or turns into sugar like starchy veg potatoes etc corn syrup) drink water or black coffee, nothing with sugar, the weight will fall of you, you'll get fit, and your whole attitude will change. You'll become a man. It's really easy, I was you ten years ago, it took 3months to lose 30kg of blubber. Good luck and take care.

[@mmindset1]

Amazing comments

[@UndecidedColorway]

Very good health advice

[@David-wm5lc]

Disagree. Sugar is life. Fats are the problem. The fat you eat is the fat you get.

[@cchmlfa]

You cannot be committed to forming a true relationship when your interactions are with a camera in the face. Few bloggers succeed in both relationship building and vlogging

[@whitehorse1959]

@Phillip - u r right. @David - sorry, but you need to educate more.

[@thomasjunkins6491]

One of days I would love to have a channel like yours. Have a wonderful day my friends 😊

[@doctitan2112]

Tim, I'm an American. My first marriage was a 4 year age gap with an American girl.. I was older. Lasted 5 years. My 2nd was a filipina who was 10 years younger we divorced after 17 years, but separated after 14 years. I moved to the Philippines and was in a relationship for 8 years with a filipina that was 25 years younger. My 3rd and current marriage is to the loveliest lady I have ever met! (filipina) We have been together for 12 years and have never been as happy as now. She is 31 years younger than me. She is far more mature than her age. She is not subservient but rather an equal partner. I value her opinions as she does mine. We jointly make life decisions. We have an 11 year old daughter who is a great kid, smart, polite an is always on the high honor role! People in our country disapprove of such large age gaps, but in the Philippines it is not uncommon. Hope you and your lovely wife and son are well. Doc

[@layneewilson]

I'm a widower out about 9 years. My first wife was from Mexico and I was almost 3 years her junior. I remarried a widow with 2 boys 10 and 14 about 3 years ago. Our age gap is 18 years 7 months to the day. I notice the age gap often. I sometimes wished I had someone within 2 to 3 years of my birth year. I'm 59 and If I were to marry someone more than 25 years younger here in the states, it would feel completely wrong. In your situation being 42 and marrying a province girl from the Philippines, I'm sure that you are more likely to have cultural differences than age gap differences. My first wife was from Mexico and I enjoyed the cultural differences we have. My current wife is American. She is a picky eater. Has 2 closets of clothes with "Nothing good to wear". So I completely get why you married Chrissy. You are living the dream, but I also see some of your struggles. I served an LDS mission in the Philippines from 1982 to 1984 on Northern Luzon and get what you are going through. I have previously dated some Filipinas and understand their unique culture.

[@nomadicfenceman509]

Omg!! You guys have split up!!! I knew you were a jerk!! Now I’ll watch the video.🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@vanallen9453]

..hey Tim..yet another brilliant ..and thoughtful video..posted..while you are walking ..right along this beautiful beach..over there ..in paradise..

[@stevenbrowne116]

Twenty year age gap here Tim,no issues. It keeps life interesting,go with the flow it will keep you young! Province girl,simply the best!

[@animallover4ever229]

You should never expect your partner to be who you want them to be. Everyone is an individual & should be able to live a life of their own. If you can't accept them for who they are then you should not be with that person. That does not mean you don't care about the relationship or what happens to that person or how you treat that person. When you marry you commit to that person but you don't give your life up for that person, it works both ways. I am in a 15 year gap relationship. Left a 26 year relationship with an abusive narcissist 15 years ago, best thing I ever did. I am truly in love with an amazing person who I know God brought us together. He is a god fearly man who is just an amazing person!!

[@Jrmyf77]

My age gap is 7-8 years. I would just say you always have to be open, forgiving, and adaptable. Being from different countries is already something you have to overcome or be adaptable about. I think age gap is a little less of an issue.

[@buffalobob6438]

I’m 17 years older than my girlfriend but it’s not really any age gap that makes it difficult at times… it’s more the cultural differences and her not so perfect English causes her difficulty in describing things coherently to me at times 😊

[@phil-be-health]

Make the effort to learn our language too.

[@astridaquintey2073]

Gosh!, ,,,you got a paradise home out there man.😯 Your house looks nice,,,,🏡🏖🌞 Ocean view .😍 Can't get that cheap anywhere in the world.,,,all by yourself. That's Monaco without all those millionaire's yatchs towed all around. Hope three of you continue to grow well into a lovely family. Just make it happen , and ignore those negatives from your fellow bloggers. They should be glad to have our country as salvation / rejuvenation from all those chaotic lives they have been.

[@johnwest8383]

Being an interacial person that's white from the waist up and black from the waist down age has certain factor but you have a small age gap 75 years ago that was very common. Any real man will say awesome unless they're with an aged women then they will lie and say that's terrible etc. I'll ask this bisexual girl I'm dating I know she's bisexual becasue every time I want sex she says bye. And regarding younger people they have so many issues nowdays many don't even know if they're a boy or a girl. 😂

[@JulieRamone-li3tw]

lollllll

[@ottokittel709]

I am a white 76 year old guy, retired 23 year nam vet married to white gal (20 years), who passed away. married Korean gal, spoke little English, I spoke little Korean, so was a real culture and comunication struggle, but great relationship of 12 years, she passed away from accident. Then the 28 year old Filipina who contacted me to see if I was interested in her, heck no too young! I went to Lety to meet her. stayed in the Philippines for half year, had a great time learning the wacky ways of the culture. 36 year age difference, that is a lot. Like being grandfather, husband, and special friend. Angie and I have been married just over great ten years. Best relationship ! Otto from Gulf of Mexico, Florida, USA

[@russianprincess3673]

From Russian Subscriber Seems all your chics die! Scary like the Lunatic Hitler all his chics killed themselves! Just get a pet cat or a dog! Seems like your bad karma for any woman. Yuliya

[@KardosoMedia]

Qualifier: As an avid Tim K subscriber and supporter I get you brother…thanks for continuing to share your experiences.

[@Gixxxer1300R]

Gotta love the pacing rant.. your top shelf! Pre internet , cell phones and a billion cameras....wow good times. On the flipside? You may not be with your beautiful family?

[@josmandelmar9447]

Hey mate. I watch your videos almost every day and today's topic "age gap" interested me big time and paid attention to what you said. Well I am happily married to a Filipina. We have been together for 6 years now and been married for 2 years. I am now 52 and my wife is 38.When we met the first time she didn't have a clue how old I was. At the time I was 47 and she was 33. When I told her my age, she didn't mind and neither did I. Well it runs in the family. My Dad was 18 years older than my Mum. But they are both Maltese, from Malta. Cheers Tim. Take care.

[@josmandelmar9447]

Hi Tim Hope you are well and thanks for finding time to see my message. My wife and I just came back from Rome, Italy. We had an appointment at the Embassy of the Philippines as here in Malta the Philippine Consulate gave us an appointment in May. So to speed up things we had to go to Rome. My wife has 2 beautiful daughters and I have decided to start the process to adopt them. First the youngest daughter. She is so excited and I am too. Well have a great weekend Tim. Take care my friend 😊 😊 😊

[@josmandelmar9447]

Hi Tim Another thing. I was married before for 16 years, but after 16 years, our marriage ended. Unfortunately she could not give me a child and she knew how much I love children. So you can imagine why I am so excited now. They are not my blood but I love them still the same. Cheers Tim.

[@benbrown9053]

You're always such a funny lovable guy Tim, I'll always support you. I've been watching for years now. I'm Argentinian American my wife is British, we've been together for years, there's a 13 year age gap between us....Also I have a half brother who's Filipino.. thanks mom

[@user-DrJoe-Future]

As a 72-year-old twice divorced and three times retired American White male from the Northeast, 43-years working in the Army, Air Force, and DoD, and lived in half the states of the USA, I gave up on American women and moved to the Philippines. I now live in Cebu with my Fiancée and her two daughters, and we have a 36-year age gap. She is 36. We like similar food, same music, and same movies and activities. The daughters are great and we get along well. It's all in the head -- in my mind I feel in my 20s or 30s. So we are a good match, and she says I look in my 50s because I take good care of myself. So it can work. True what you say, I lived in the 1950s, 60s, 70s, and 80s, and felt much more freedom from repressive governments and society. After 9-11, the U.S. changed even more for the worse. I felt like I was getting some of that freedom back when Trump was elected, only to have all his good policies reversed with a new election. Now I am in the US visiting, and what a bad difference. When I left, gas was $1.98 to $2.25 a gallon under Trump, we were a world exporter of oil and gas, now its $3.50 to $4.00 a gallon. I just went to the food market, and there appears to be a national egg shortage??? Inflation is crazy, in Virginia I ordered a McDonald's Egg McMuffin meal and small orange juice for $10.00. I used to buy jeans at Target for $19 a year ago, now they are $32.00. ETC.

[@TheWayner987]

As soon as you brought up Trump being your hero, I just about puked! Bloody criminal!

[@user-DrJoe-Future]

@@TheWayner987 Let's tell the truth. I never said Trump was my hero. You did. Most Americans have no idea what Trump did in his term of office because the Media refused to report it, so they have no knowledge foundation to say anything about Trump. I worked 43-years in the Federal Government for a number of Presidents starting with Jimmy Carter and ending with Joe Biden, working for the military, Department of Defense, and The White House, and taught at top Universities on U.S. Government policies and National Security Affairs. I've also been trained in operational and strategic intelligence assessments. We are trained to look at actual policies, not people. We don't care who the President is. Despite Trumps twitter and mouth problems that sometimes undermined his own policies because they were normally the only news the Media reported, I know what Trump did, and I focus on what any President's actual government policies and actions are. Trump did more for the Black Community in America than any Democrat or Republican President over the past 80 years. But he received no credit. The media didn't report it, because they did not want him reelected. They would not report any positive actions he did, only attack him 24/7 for 4 years, treatment no other President has received. It was a miracle he could do anything. He kept Putin from invading Ukraine, and I knew and reported that Russia would invade Ukraine if Trump was replaced by President Biden, which Russia did. That is because I know the Russians. I have been studying Ukraine and Russia for the Government since the early 1990s when I was an advisor to the Pentagon. Trump patched up foreign relations with many countries that President Obama destroyed. That's a fact. But some Presidents have the luxury of hiding their failures behind the national news media. He made the U.S. a world leader in oil and gas, something we have been trying to do since the 1970s. Despite President Obama's declaration that is was "impossible" to bring back small business in America, you would "need a magic wand" he said, Trump rebuilt small businesses in America, and brought back many major corporations overseas to the United States creating more jobs. Trump had hundreds of his successes hidden from the public. It is very easy to criticize any President when you are not doing their job and carrying their huge responsibilities, or being lied to by a corrupt news media. In fact, in 1994, I finished my Ph.D. Dissertation on the American News Media, and I know what they do. I have monitoring them since the 1950s.

[@royhowardjenkins7378]

I'm a 67 y.o Brit living in Mindanao with a 43 y.o Filipina wife. We've been married 9 year's and we don't even notice our age gap of 24 years. Early days were rocky but we have grown together and now have a loving relationship. I was a widower when we married which is vastly different to being a divorcee. Divorcees are less likely to still have fond feelings for their past wife. This can be an issue and I had to learn to 'let go' of my deceased wife. This was what made the early years with my Beautiful Filipina difficult. God Bless you.

[@tourneynet8557]

I identify as me a 50+ white American male... And I remember the advice I got as a young man that it should not be about race but about culture when you get into a relationship. And today in America it is interesting that a 20 something males and females are so far apart in culture from the same place. If you spend any time watching the fact that younger men are avoiding women who have went to extreme feminism of hating on men is ok and what it has done is from a culture perspective I think younger men who want traditional values culturally have more in common with a Filipina than they do with a girl from here in America

[@russianprincess3673]

It's predicted USA & CANADA & WESTERN EUROPEAN UNION will prayerfully go far right n be safe n Peaceful again. Much Blessings Yuliya God 1st 🇷🇺⛪✝️

[@A-RHINO-IN-THE-PHILIPPINES]

I like all you say. My girl is 56 and I am 58 but I agree with all you have spoken. Sending love and prayers to your family.

[@250sabre]

Great story Tim ! I enjoyed it !! Hope all is well with the family !!!

[@JJ-dl4pc]

Plain Jane American having traveled to and lived in many states. I generally agree. Our differences in opinion are so minute that we essentially think the same. Good western women exist, but are quite rare, which should not be, but is the case. You usually sacrifice beauty and attraction for a friendly woman with a descent attitude, that knows men are physically better at literally everything, and doesn't flip her (their) inferiority complex on you (ALL men). The stats aren't in our favor to begin with, let alone to try and try and try again. It would take 10 very serious long term tries on average, to yield one good sustainable lifelong partner. Overseas, the grass isn't greener, different things are more difficult, but you get the beauty you desire as a man, the cooperation all women should offer at baseline, and a significantly overall statistically higher success rate, all more affordable, while offering more to her and your children (and extended family haha). I'm just searching for somewhere cooler. Other than well known Valencia, does the Phillipines have a semi modern area that is cooler by like atleast a 10, maybe 15 degree variation from the norm, or less humidity? I say that because Russian women are bomb, but unless in Vladivostok, Winters are like the Midwest US. Isn't it interesting how open men are, like 3-5 items on their list, while women have 10X that, and have destroyed themselves all while blaming the men they hurt. Love it. Deciding between the Hotspot, E Europe, S or Central America, or SE Asia. I watch you and many others in these places. Your advice if you were back at 35 again, knowing what you now know? Thanks Tim!

[@MattFromAmerica]

As a 36 year old Russian American Polish ex Guatemalan who is now facing indentured servitude to a tiny head hunter of Kalinga. Buy Filipina stock, better than dealing with the domestic made American stuff at this time.

[@travelinwithollie3359]

I'm 67, and almost all my relationships have had a considerable age gap. Now, here in the Philippines, the age gap tends towards 3 decades! And that can be with a mature 30ish woman! Of course, my use of the word "all" should clue you in to how successful these relationships have been! LOL ! Good, heartfelt video, Tim.

[@Michael_Arnold]

Have to go for four decades, then

[@westerlywinds5684]

When your father in law is younger then your youngest brother.

[@Michael_Arnold]

@@westerlywinds5684 And your youngest son, lol

[@westerlywinds5684]

@@Michael_Arnold Yeah, the idea is to grow old together. Not one 3 decades later.

[@DonFarmer-hq5sw]

As a 65yr old retiree I can clearly understand your perspective. I have had two career phases, blue collar then white collar. Two marriages the first from 20-40 second from 40-60. Each time you start over, it’s like being born again. Bless you and your family ❤ Enjoy your new life.

[@spudgn]

Oh and! All of these pinay are my children’s ages or much younger. It is not the roll of sugar daddy or traditional bf-gf that we have but as father to the kids and father mentor to the gfs. Not sugar daddy but leading partner. We have shared goals and they work as hard as I do and see to the safety of each other and the kids. The kids have grandparents, aunties and three loving mothers. Our ten year old lived with mom in a cemetery for his ten years. Never in school. In one years he went from laughed at and struggling to read, a 0 in some classes, to 86%. He is in the top 14% in his grade. Mom was so shamed at her ignorance, she begged a friend to go to the teacher meeting. When I got the friends call, I explained that I had issues learning to read and hated it. How ever the tool that I used was to read 15 minutes each day and out loud. He has taken off like a rocket now. He teaches his mom how to read. I’m just an old bastard trying to make up for previous mistakes.

[@HV-xb3up]

Full born and raised Belgium/Flemish male who ended up with a 14y older Australian.in Perth. Love on first sight, but complete different wave lengths now.. age isn't the problem, personalities and expectations are in my case. but enjoyed listening to your story!

[@peterchristian7230]

I am in my mid-60s with a Filipina who is 12 years my junior. While we met online and continued our relationship in the Philippines, we now live in the US with our two teenagers. My report is that it worked for us and we are generally happy. This is to say that while we have moments of stress, we usually get along, as we have common religious beliefs and personal shared standards. If I have any advice, it is that the saying that 'there is good and bad everywhere' is true, so buyer beware.

[@Cree_running_rabbit]

I'm native American here in the usa🇺🇸

[@reneurzua1492]

Rule of thumb… half your age, plus 7

[@tonyclough9844]

In Asian countries you want to marry a girl in her 40s and 50s, as they age faster so will not be wanting to go to discos. The trouble is westerners see young attractive girls who will go with you and loose there heads, but then the body clock kicks in and the problems begin.

[@maritesamparado2378]

I’m in the same situation…for me is the opposite.I’m a female,instead of my husband taking care of me..i’m the one who’s taking care of him..not financially but basic stuffs in the relationship.😢

[@ronaldtaylor4530]

Met my Filipina partner 17 years ago. She was 18 and I was 50. We have been married for 15 years and lived on both the Philippines and the west. Now have a 3 year old daughter makes a complete family. No regrets!

[@johnmcgarry3335]

My qualifiers.... 58 yr old Russian/Irish (yes I'll drink EVERYONE under the table 😁) with a province girl 18 years my junior. We met here in Canada, she was already working here, and I was recently out of a 15 year marriage. We melded like warm chocolate, its been that great for 6 years. She had two boys from previous, (and only) other relationship, I had two girls one grown and on her own, the other about to turn 18 in May, so neither of us felt the need for kids. Her values and mine meshed perfectly socially and politically, being from northern provinces she lived a quiet family oriented life, taught to respect the Patriarchal family unit, (let's see who that triggers, lol) and cares little for acessorizing her life with all but the essentials. She does a bit of social media, buy she's not putting our life out there, just small posts like when I buy her flowers or something, and she never says my name or relationship details. I'm very lucky, she's my best friend, and just the person I needed in my life, and no I did not know what I needed after my separation, but maybe some other entity did. We will retire in the Philippines, our goal is about 10 years, if WW 3 doesn't break out and wreck our plans. We have both found a quiet peace in our life together, full of love and mutual respect. I wish the same for everyone here.....BTW, should have mentioned we are raising her two boys 16/13, who arrived in Canada April 5/2022. Never been happier

[@retiredrebel111]

As a 67 yr old man I agree with age challenges...At my age I could never date a very young girl...I know someone there whose younger 21 yr old sister is entertaining a 70 yr old German man in a hotel in the Philippines for a month. We all know what he is looking for...she is calling him her boyfriend....

[@SBBoy68]

First off I am glad you are happy. I am older than you, I have never dated a woman more than five years younger than me. I think eight, ten max. I think your own admission your wife has been sheltered from life. You must have moments of reality and clarity. Forty, to fifty not to much difference. Fifty to sixty you will start to feel the difference. Your wife will be forty. I wish you all the best.

[@patrickmunneke8348]

I identify as an attack helicopter🚁 and keep up the great work Tim👌

[@ronaldtrunk7944]

each of my previous relationships have been within 3 years gap so when i used to have conversations, we understood each other with same life experiences. my pinay relationship we are 17yr gap. we don't see the world the same often times. i am US and she is province girl. we are culturally apart. sometimes I miss the same level conversations I used to have. i cannot see how couples with wider age gap than us can see eye to eye on many things. i think they just don't talk to each other. my advice, try to find someone in a shorter age gap within 5yrs

[@272global]

Yeah I lived in South Korea for 5 years and when I cam back home it was ruff.....I still have issuse and it been over 4 years .

[@parabiology1014]

Hi Tim and company, I'm a 50 yo man in an age gap relationship with a 24 yo Filipina, and we've been in a relationship for around 3 years. I grew up in an affluent area near Malibu, California, and later lived in both Santa Barbara, and San Diego. I was swimming before I could walk and was surfing by 11 yo. I was not the best looking guy, but but I was 5 ft 10 and always tanned, toned, and fairly strong as well - which gave me a large selection of women over my life, and put me in a high enough category that I could even afford to be discriminating in which women I chose to date or to hook up with. During my life I dated women from 20 countries in total, including many women in America, and from many different races. I did not discriminate based on skin color, only beauty and fitness - as well as personality, and morals, of course. My relationships varied from dates with kissing or less, to one night stands, to relationships that lasted anywhere between 1.5 to 8 months long - Until I met my ex-wife, and proposed at eight months in to the relationship. That relationship lasted 6 years, in total. The reason I am saying all this is because you asked for qualifications for comments. I will reply to my own comment here with my thoughts, in multiple posts - this post here is just to give my qualifications.

[@parabiology1014]

So - my first thought: In general, Western whamen are not as good partners for men as foreign whamen, but it always depends on the specific ones in question. There are good women everywhere, and there are bad women everywhere (so don't crucify me), but from my experiences most foreign women had better attitudes than most American women. They were more feminine, more straightforward, and played less head games, and generally had a better attitude towards life. Foreign whamen were also more traditional (they mostly wanted marriage and family), and tended to have lower body counts, though there were certainly exceptions.

[@parabiology1014]

2) Whamen generally want men making more money than them, or men with prestige, or power, or very fit bodies - they want someone better than them. This is called hypergamy, and it is part of natural biological mate selection. Because of this, most whamen who are older than the man, or the same age, or whamen who make more money than their man, or whamen who have more prestige than her man - the power dynamic is in the whamen's favor and she will treat the man worse, and is much more likely to cheat on the man. Age factors into power in many ways through wealth, prestige, strength, and other factors both tangible and intangible. By having an age gap in the relationship, it shifts the power to the man to be the leader of the household, NOT the whamen. Under these circumstances the man is the leader of the family, and in general the whamen are actually generally (and statistically) much happier, despite any potestation! THEREFORE an age gap (with the man being older) helps keep the authority over the household in the man's hands, and actually keeps the whamen happier, and is therefore the PREFERRED method for building a Biblical and traditional family relationship. Now the amount of the age gap that is best? Than is a different question, and I'll tackle that one in the next post.

[@parabiology1014]

3) So what is the IDEAL age gap??? That has more than one answer. If you mean for family and relationship purposes, having multiple children and marriage, multiple factors come into play, and the answer would probably anything MORE THAN 2 years age gap to as much as 30 years age gap, but depends very much on the individuals in question. The answer is also different for men than for whamen. For men, the correct answer is whatever age gap the man finds himself in when he is ready for marriage, where the whamen is between ages 18 and 23 years old at the time of marriage. The reason for this, is that the physical act of giving birth is EXTREMELY hard on whamen's bodies, and fertility is greatest between the ages of 18 and 25, with 23 being the peak. That is why men of ALL ages are attracted to age 23 year old whamen more than any other age, as studies show. So ultimately the correct answer for a man, "what is the best age gap" for marriage, the answer is to take whatever age the man (who is ready for marriage) is, and subtract 18-23. This does not change if the man is 26 or 66. IF he wants children, the best whamen for him is between 18-25 yo. For whamen, the ideal age gap is about 2 to 6 years on the low side, and 12 to 15 on the high side, depending on how much they are willing to submit to the man in question, and depends upon many factors both external and internal. Internal factors I am considering to include looks, height, body structure and muscles, personality, etc., and external factors include wealth, prestige, and power. Biologically, healthiest offspring will be with a whamen age 18 to 25, with a man age 13 or so and up. Add in relationship factors mentioned above, and the correct answer is that the best age gap is with as young a man that she can get that she can still respect and acknowledge as leader of the family, which generally means the man must be at least two years older than her, putting it for a man at a minimum of age 20 and up, with the caveat that he must be AT LEAST 2 years older than her, with ideal being about 8 to 10 years gap of the man being older, as it allows for a greater accumulation of resources for family nesting.

[@karlweb1]

I did a 14 year gap and that made me nuts I have always gone older my current is 7.5 younger We do well for the most part.

[@CharruaRegio]

I feel the same way, you Marry someone you love at the moment you feel it. It could be in your 20's 30's or older and it's fine.

[@michaelstewart399]

Tim with respect our western thought processes are a total disability here in the Philippines

[@gigigarcia612]

Tim age ain’t nothing but a number. Love is Love.

[@paesano24]

Tim, The walking back and forth is a bit distracting. Just trying to help. I love your videos. Beautiful family

[@Anthony__420]

As a 63 year old American I would stick with lolas

[@Plant_Traced]

My Asawa is from Agusan del Sur…I’m 55 and she is 30…would love to meet you guys when we come visit in July. Age gap relationships are fun and definitely challenging.

[@PhilippinesLife101]

I've had maybe 10 to 15 different relationships of women 10 to 20 years younger than me. I'm a world traveler and understand there's always going to be cultural differences. Most of the time the older partner if possible should try and look back and think what it was like at that age and remember all the stupid things you did and how you overcame those situations. You can then apply those thoughts to help your younger partner understand. Age is not just a number it's years of experiences that help you through life.

[@jeanuytico6233]

I’m 70 and my wife is 45 we’ve been married 17+ yrs. She’s an educated girl from Cebu and I’ve never really had problems with this young lady and she is beautiful. Fist I paid 4000 dollars to join a dating agency and tryed it for about three yrs. but couldn’t find what I wanted then a Philippine friend told me he thought I should try to find a Philippine so I finally found a young lady I liked. I told her I’m to old for you she responded by telling me Philippians on the most just want someone to treat her good, I was told many bad things from my friends and family but decided to take a trip to Cebu. Honestly I’ve never been happier and I would move there if their roads and hospitals were better in Cebu.

[@seanchoo-foo8546]

Hey Tim As an Irish Asian Canadian 🇨🇦 I am heading to the Philippines 🇵🇭 for at least 3 months to visit my fiance and her family..congratulations on the new place, love the set up...where r u located?

[@EntrepreneursonBikes]

Thanks for sharing big G

[@toorimakun]

Statistically speaking age gap relationships have a higher chance of success.

[@tansan4922]

Visaya girls will always be differents from manila gỉrls

[@tomdiesen4767]

Hi Tim I'm in Vietnam, age gap around 25 years. I like watching your vids, please continue 🙃

[@emilywagman2881]

What you have you planned and wanted that! It is what it is! Take one day at the time! Don’t overly figure out what you already have. It’s not relevant what tomorrow will be and it’s not relevant! Focus on today and don’t evaluate to much of what it could be and should ! Make the most of what you have because it is what it is until it changes! It may never be any way than the now! Enjoy, love the way you know how and forget what is not because it’s not what you have and dealing with! Be yourself and accept where you are and the person you’re still married with!Theres nothing wrong unless there’s problems that you cannot deal and changed! Good luck! And God bless you and your loved ones! 👍🙏🙌

[@DallasCarr-1]

The 70's, 80's, and 90's were bliss. After 911, all down hill.

[@roddielopp]

I’m straight white American and most girls/ladies I talk to don’t know or understand BLM and don’t care about trans, pronouns etc. Age gap hasn’t been a problem. Buttt they are province good girls who are very religious.

[@labandonaldhock80]

You ate trying to talk yourself out of the best thing in the world

[@Tewahedo]

Hi Tim, Which camera did you use to film this?

[@mr.giggles1344]

When you said your family was Slavic is when I realized thats the type of person to say someone might be a Mexican Cuban 🤣 🤣 .

[@joevalentine4471]

Hey there, I am a 41 yo retired American and live in Pampanga with my wife. I met my wife on Christian Filipina after watching your videos. My wife is 21 we have a 20 year gap and we’ve never been happier, although I do identify with some generational hurdles. Fortunately my wife spent half her life in Mindanao and the past 8 years in Manila working for Amazon’s call center. Life isn’t easy for anyone, we married in the Catholic Church as I was born and raised a Ruthenian Byzantine Catholic. Christ is the center of our Marriage and we are blessed.

[@garryparmenter]

As a white male 61 standing vertical with a pulse - I posit the view that a 20 year age gap means little in some cultural settings. A cross cultural relationship introduces an opportunity to enjoy acculturating experiences. When you get to a fit 61 - women your age are grand mothers and you find yourself at the end of the pecking order. If you desire a special relationship where you have an equal standing ditch the west. Mayan Buntag Tim - you have a wonderful wife to wake up with. The nest building girls in the west swap the nest for a gold shovel with age ha

[@sysyjuan9899]

We met ,i am 44 and my husband is 64 and we are together married for 18 years and we so much same wants and habits ,i am filipina and my husband is puerto rican

[@bratanyaroslav3561]

I am a short guy that identifies as a tall guy, so finding the 15 year younger wife won't be a problem

[@claytonkelly8540]

That's a good problem to have. Easier to enjoy the time it takes to find solutions.

[@elgabinetero8521]

My wife and I are about 16 plus difference she’s Vietnamese am Mexican! So far so good! One thing though Americans are not people from the US but from Alaska all the way to Argentina

[@NIO777]

The new place looks nice Tim. Yup you know your viewers as i am age 62 and soon 63. Single and debt free. Hmm? maybe a woman is going to come into my life and just turn my entire bachlor world upside down. 🙃 Keep the videos coming. Thanks and Thumbs up to ya 😃👍

[@almantasj7698]

These young filipinas are not alone when you marry them-they have cellphones as a partner as well. When asked what she would do if I stopped paying for the internet as It's useless, she said she will go back to Philippines just to be connected.

[@richardholt3221]

I deployed to Iraq 2 times... My service to this country is no better than the man that served in the reserves. (CSM Cross) is the best example of my friend who, started as a private, he progressed to Spc. Then at a very young age he made Sgt. He continued to make SSG. He then married a woman who provided to be a person who Cross invested his love, trust, and overall affection as a stepfather.

[@HeathersFamilyVlogs]

Sending love from Heather's family vlogs ❤️

[@TM-tw1py]

As a transgender, New Zealander Black Sheep (raised by grandparents and a nice shepard boy), I think an older gentleman can have a great deal of understanding for lifestyle and personality of a young lady perhaps 20 to 30 years younger. Why not enjoy the differences in your experiences and lifestyle. The key is don't become so attached. Keep it a boyfriend/girlriend that you see one to two times a week. Distance makes the heart grow fonder. Teaching young people about life is one of the true joys of getting older.

[@agee7777]

Im a 46 year old english man living in argentina. I dont have a lot of money and i dont speak hardly any spanish and i had a two year relationship with a beautiful 29 year old argentine girl who didnt speak a word of english. Anything is possible guys.

[@rolandet]

As a single 44yr old Dutch guy.........😂 Never mind, I just enjoy your videos.

[@scottstevens2777]

I’m married to a much younger Filipina. She is very steady but likes to dress up and have fun. I keep up and we’re headed for our 9th anniversary. You have to join in with their different culture.

[@barryschultz4947]

53yo white male here and ive dated older younger and there are going to be problems lol just enjoy that pretty young wife and dont worry about it is my advice. Do some videos on what is great about her!!!

[@door1479]

My situation is more cultural than age related in my opinion. my three American relationships were each a ten age gap. At 64 I am aware of where my 38 year old pinoy is coming from. I dont expect her to have an understanding of my culture. To her it doesnt make sense that I still have my full arsonel in America or what a long hair country boy is. but she understands Lapu Lapu the warrior cheif and I tell her thats the American culture in the province our country. But with respect for each other or at least each others guns. .Somehow She started calling me her Warrior king because she wants to be Queen she says. As far as movies go we stick to what we have in common she loves Horror or action thrillers so thats easy. I havent had a mate that could budget yet but she thinks she is everyones mother and if she can help she will So I give her a healthy personal budget and its hers to give or save knowing that when its gone its a long time until next month. So slowly she is getting sticky fingers but I never judge her yet I do hold her to the budget. All other expenses I deal with so far so good.But trust is a must. Sometimes I have to say Anafe... listen to my words. just because she is new to English. She dosent interput she makes it her conversation and then forgets most of what was said. Again culture differences which I think is what you are having but thats just my opinion.Honestly I would not change anything in our relationship I have always been the Desperato kind of guy so the PH fits well. How often do you get to surf? Whats up with Harald Badr? That is how I found you. He posted from Rome then gone again.

[@houstonsportsfan242]

My parents were 33 years apart. No need to overthink the age gap, but I know you are just thinking out loud and sharing...😃😃

[@mikemecklenborg5412]

I am 62 year old married man on my second marriage. My first wife left me for a women. Age gap can be hard but if both are committed it can work. I see many Filipina Women here in the states married to American Men with major age gaps. On the outside it seems to work but I have no clue what happens when their alone. I guess in the end everyone has to take risk and sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't. Good luck and I wish you two the best. P.S. I don't think I could stand the motorcycle noise they have there all the time.

[@lawrencedavidson6195]

I am a white Jamaican 64, married to a Guyanese lady of East Indian descent 36yo. We both live in Jamaica.

[@briangavin4666]

As a Canadian I never had any luck with relationships in Canada! At 52 I gave up until 6 months after my 52nd birthday I met a Philippines girl online. We talked for 5 years and got to know each other online. 10 months ago I came to Philippines for first to to meet her. We got married and a baby on was in next 2 weeks and we are the perfect couple we share the same interests. We love each other and she is amazing. To get to the point on age gap! I am 58 now and she is 28 that is a 30 year age gap! I never been so happy to be with anyone in my life.

[@EddieEstevez7056]

51 year old cuban white guy, brought up in the US. Think Andy Garcia but pale with no accent. First time around I was 25 and she was American and 26, that lasted 12 years. The most blind trust I ever had in a relationship. Next I was 37 and she was 21, Columbian American girl very loving, 16 year age gap. The age gap wasn't bad. I'm a Gen x she was a millennial, we got along well, a lot of it had to do with her being latin. They are more loyal and traditional in morality. Next I was 41 and she was 22, American girl. 19 year age gap, biggest 10 year long mistake of my life. That age gap was more difficult. No accountability, could be the girl, could be the maturity. I was with her till she was 32, so I'm thinking it was being American and her particular character. 51 and single now, anything under 30 makes me nervous. Besides my eldest (21 year old daughter) tells me I'm not allowed to date anyone under 35, lol I have children 21 F, 17 F, 2 M, so going to the Philippines is out of the question for me. Made my bed, I have to lie in it, so I have to tolerate the large portion of American women that are insane. But I do understand age gaps well.

[@carebear2272]

I basically look for a connection, I’ve never tried to go after a younger woman, tell recently. There have been age gaps younger and older, I just go with it. Now recently I am trying for a younger woman because I want low body count, and yes I would consider a virgin because I believe there more marriage material. I myself have a very low body count because I was raised you don’t go around f ing as many women for just the sake of sex. For me it just doesn’t work and never feels right, which it only happened once for me and it was enough, it just felt wrong. And yes I find young beautiful women more physically attractive than older beautiful women in general. But I still have to see if there is more than a pretty face. I just got out of a relationship with a beautiful 30 year old Laos woman and I’m 57 and it worked for almost two years and I broke it off with her not because of her age, I was just unable to work through some stuff about how she thought I would be to difficult to live with, and she’s right do better next time and I will change. I currently have a young lady who is very interested in me from the Philippines with a low body count so will see how that goes. What I love about Asian women is they want to learn and they want to grow up and become mature with you Or without you. I wish I was more like that. When you find a good one, you will be amazed at how much and how hard they try to make a relationship and family work, I have learned so much from them and have grown because of it myself.

[@TheOrphicLyre]

As a middle aged cis white man I'm not allowed an opinion

[@TimKyoutube]

We have listened to you for 200 years. We don’t need your opinion anymore!

[@duanet.7463]

Married a Canadian woman, same age, not bad marriage till the end. 28 years together. Married a Russian woman, she was 5 years younger. Lots of good times, lots of bad times as in bad temper and tampo for up to 2 months at a time. 8 year marriage. I divorced them both. Lived with a Filipina for 6 months. Back in Canada now. We're getting married end of April/early May depending on when the paperwork comes together. She's 49 and I'm 76 for a 27 year age gap. Difference is she has life experience working as a registered caregiver in the Middle East for 12 years and other jobs before that. We've had differences; all couples do. The best part for me is I made it clear at the beginning that if we have a disagreement, we don't raise our voices and we don't say bad things to one another. We've both kept to that rule. As an aside, I chatted with 4 Filipinas before her. 2 just wanted money and the other 2 failed the 'say bad things at our 1'st disagreement' test. We have a number of things we like to do together such as walk, sing, and we're both seriously into eating healthy foods as in no alcohol, smoking, and sugar is the silent killer etc. I will lastly say I've never experienced a woman who cared about my health like this one. That's all. Time will tell, but I think we have a good chance of having a wonderful life together. All the best to you and Chrissy, Tim.

[@TimKyoutube]

Sounds like a lifetime of experiences Duane. Thanks for sharing.

[@patrickdarrellobrien1381]

My Filipina wife and I are the same age. So, we don't have very many differences concerning our ages. But, we do have some differences. Mainly, due to culture differences. For instance she doesn't give a hoot about politics. She could care less. I like politics and so we don't discuss it at all. She has a mind set that says she must support her family, That's a big deal in a marriage. So, you have to learn to work it all out. But, she is much better than an American woman. I have no use for them at this point in my life. I don't want to be in competition with my wife about anything. She has her role in our marriage and I have mine and she's fine with that. She treats me very well. So, I can overlook a lot of things. We've been married for 25 years going on 26 years and we are happy and content. Also, as you get older you will appreciate her more and more and age won't mean so much to either of you. You'll be happy that you have each other. just my few thoughts on the subject.

[@TheStickdee]

I'm 39 now lived in Philippines for 12 years i left 3 years ago with my 2 kids and broke up with the younger girl.

[@braenharen]

Main thing is common interest or flexibility .. Age gap doesn’t matter .. you might be confusing woman’s interest or state of mind against a mans state of mind in general.. that’s a woman’s thinking nothing to do with age .. conservative girls stick with the one they love and it’s from the heart … what was the movie? Chick flick?

[@Massiverobsfishing]

Chur this speaks sense to me I'm a 35 yo male in nz all my options here are disgusting all have kids or washed up I'm off to Philippines or Vietnam this year gonna wife up and breed a young fam

[@Mark-cm4hy]

Let’s get real for one second guys. There are more age gap relationships in the Philippines than any part of the world and these relationships would not come about in the US period. There are extending circumstances which account for the former. Age does not matter in a relationship if those partners have mutual attraction for one another. All these other matters which are spoke about in this video are secondary.

[@tonynguyen5362]

As a foreigner you gave her financial stability , age gap come second, you be hard pressed to find 20's something gal and have a relationship back in the States, South East Asia very little effort .

[@timlee5260]

I believe you are expecting too much from Chrissy. Enjoy her radiant smile and youthful zest for life and forget about that whole soulmate crap. She gave you a son and has made a home, be happy.