‘Love is Blind’ Exposes The Problem with Modern Dating

[@SagittariusMom]

Someone needs to tell Clay that cheating isn't inherited behaviour from ur dad, he can't stop talking about it 😒 AD is a total queen.

[@trafficcontrol2420]

Clay got me convinced that it might be. I need to get my blood work done lol.

[@lanceareadbhar]

It can definitely mess you up psychologically and it seemed like he was just beginning to realize this. That said, it seemed obvious he never felt like he was ready to get married to anyone so why was he cast on Love is Blind?

[@SagittariusMom]

@@lanceareadbhar I'm watching the wedding episode 12 rn. Don't know if he says yes yet !

[@SagittariusMom]

@lancesbeataxes2901 wow he really said no . Yikes

[@laurenwright4273]

Well addiction is and affairs hit like an addiction, it creates the same serotonin ups and downs

[@comelordjesus4078]

Following the new episode i need someone to do a comparison between Clay and Johnny before the wedding when they were describing why they were marrying AD and Amy. The difference is so stark. All Clay cares about is what she can do for him. To support him. He wants a caregiver. Yet the way Johnny speaks about Amy are things that make her who she is. Her personality and qualities.

[@KayGee_yt]

I really don't think Kenneth was avoidant attachment. I think he was just... avoidant. For some reason he just was as not interested in that girl.

[@Blub2cool]

Yeah and i dont think Brittany was anxiously attached… she was just worried because it’s not normal for your fiance to as distant as Kenneth was. I think a situation like that would make anyone with a secure attachment anxious as well.

[@Biggums_Tyrone]

Kenneth is not interested in that girl or any other girls

[@sparklyunicorn5431]

It exposes men that have all the audacity and nothing else... also the pick-me's that ruin chances at progress being made.

[@liabw05]

Then he should choose celibacy… that’s the I oh foolproof way 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@browneyedguitargirl]

Great video, great points. I definitely believe “love” to be action, not feeling. To reference the “Fiddler on the Roof” song, “Do you love me,” to love someone means to share joys and sorrows and work and play over many years. To love someone means to stand by them in all these things, even when their idiosyncrasies irritate you. I do not think that modern dating supports this idea of love being an action, not a feeling.

[@EfraimNkengurutse]

Brittany don't exhibit anxious attachment insecurities but Chelsea does

[@oksanaml9279]

Extremely! Dr Kirk Honda and Dr Cherie typology both go into this.

[@kalikayy]

This was so good not just a typical recap I appreciated that

[@tinysey]

Thank youu🌸🌸

[@SagittariusMom]

Can't wait till the next episode! Thanks for covering the show!

[@Joohee4]

Gaslighting is a narcissist practice, not avoidant attachment. I can’t stand when people try to be therapists and get it wrong. It’s a real problem in social media

[@helzbellz0417]

I love Love is Blind and find it really entertaining, but so much of it is also just sad! The way that these people, especially the women it seems, seem like they acquire significant trauma from the whole process. All the stuff you hear about the behind the scenes is crazy too, like there needs to be some kind of reality tv ethics board 😭😭😭

[@jjsmama401]

Kenneth is the perfect example of a gaslighter.

[@SagittariusMom]

Laura and Jeremy with an A , well what a nightmare

[@Doris1981Bytom]

Great video. 👍👍👍

[@Biggums_Tyrone]

I so badly wanted jimmy to go “yea you absolutely do not look like Megan fox” 😂

[@karmiyfeels]

I think Chelsea most likely had a fearful avoidant attachment style. The 180 is definitely a characteristic

[@tinysey]

Mmm that makes a lot of sense

[@seagull3589]

Great video!!

[@tinysey]

Thanks!🌸

[@TheNanamariam]

I truly believe not everyone should get married. Just like how not everyone has the credentials to be a teacher, lawyer or doctor should be those things.

[@girlcalledmango]

Or become parents.

[@afrofaeries]

My dating standard is Lauren and Cameron ❤🎉 NOBODY else :3

[@tinysey]

They were the best

[@thoughtswithchi2225]

Clay and AD are both immature and not ready for marriage. AD should stop carrying her relationships, it takes two to tango. Clay needs to go to therapy and not hold his father’s cheating habits close to his heart. Marriage is sacred and it is something that needs to be taken seriously. AD should be with a MAN not a Young Man. Clay needs to grow up. I’m proud of him being introspective but he needs to do more work on himself and not use a woman to grow him. Going into marriage you are sacrificing yourself every day for the other person and choosing to love that person every day. As a young married woman, marriage is only hard if you make it hard on yourself.

[@SagittariusMom]

Johnny and Amy never learnt about condons???

[@tkeks007]

She seems to habe previously used them but Johnny seems to either not trust them or to not want to wear them 🥴

[@SagittariusMom]

@tkeks007 very strange indeed

[@elizabethbrammer7022]

I’m wondering if maybe one of them has a latex allergy or other issues related to condoms… I’m glad to actually see this conversation playing out and taking family planning seriously, while respecting each other’s health and bodily autonomy.

[@SagittariusMom]

@elizabethbrammer7022 good point! Hope they work it out. I think the next episode releases in 3 hours, not sure

[@elizabethbrammer7022]

@@SagittariusMom GAH!!! I’m supposed to go to a watch party tomorrow night in a wedding dress with some friends 😂 I don’t know if I can hang on if they drop after midnight lol!

[@teoleno4019]

Modern dating.... better to avoid it if you want to live long healthy life as a women.

[@osimiri7111]

I don’t agree that Chelsea seemed calm or secure in the pods at all. She literally told him that she looks like Megan Fox, which of course you know he’s going to make a person when I talk to you. Very manipulative . She is dishonest and incredibly insecure, and in my opinion kept projecting that onto her partner? Who to be fair, cleary wasn’t like super into her, but she also chose him over someone who was super into her, and made that very clear to her the whole time he was talking her. I feel like this season is a really good example of the way in which people m create scenarios that reinforce their negative feedback loop . Her and AD in my opinion both what into situations that already perpetuate internal insecurity is that both of them have about not feeling good enough

[@andrewlol9095]

Speed marriage as content… I hate Netflix. I just hate other platforms more.