tipsy talks| dating is ghetto, wanting new friends, being w/ “bad boys”, LIB + reesa debrief + more

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[@TatorThat]

At this point, I’ll take virtual besties because friendships after 27 and up are hard to form

[@ajanarie]

I have so many virtual besties! Friendships are def hard to form but i think once u do find it it's amazing

[@shakoorah1]

As one of my old school besties is an Aries too… funnily I see a lot of similar characteristics as you and her 😅❤in personality, this convo had me literally lol ‘ing !! From the construction to hing story and all inbetween. Sometimes finding a class/ hobbie you can meet people nonvirtualy… friendships have seasons along with careers. So my motto is enjoy the moments as life is precious

[@lifewithlova]

Girl yes!

[@moneebri9418]

I was just having this conversation with my friends. I will be turning 27 next month and i’m ready for a blue collar man.

[@ajanarie]

Baby make the change! You'll sleep better at night lol

[@nicolejaeboo]

You’re so pretty! I love your chats

[@yaniqueg90]

Dating is GHETTO! These men have drained me and I refuse to see another “wyd?” text in my phone 🥴

[@stayfly4life100]

Aja I would love to see you on love is blind or any one of the dating shows, but you get turned off by ppl easily so idk how that’s gonna work out lmaoo. Btw I loved this chit chat

[@ajanarie]

Lmaoooooooo i seriously would go on one!

[@stayfly4life100]

@ajanarie lmaoo I'm here for it sis

[@drzashleyx3]

Dating pool is trash and you'd think dating men in their 30s would help, but they're just as childish lmao

[@ajanarie]

They're even worse lmaoo

[@michelesoares6016]

Yes, Aja pls go on love is blind. I would watch just to see you.

[@samcox718]

Wait I like this idea I can’t lie 🤔

[@curlscurls5439]

The “men are supposed to put it in the effort”rant really hit my soul sis 🙌🏽

[@ajanarie]

Can't settle for a relationship where you're doing 90% of the leg work girl!!

[@JonyaeSorrell]

loved this video ❤️‍🔥

[@chelsearenee6132]

Girrrrrl you are literally making me bust the fuck out laughing 😂 this was such a good video! I def get where you’re coming from about having different types of friends!

[@miamcconnell7861]

The title sums up my life 😭 it’s tough making friends as an adult and even worse trying to date. Had to let that type go as I entered my 20s

[@yaritzav982]

My boyfriend is a hard cord smoker but he also is a very hard working man lol and is a provider and pays all the bills. It doesn’t really bother me bc he doesn’t smoke in our house. I think that’s why it’s never bothered me lol

[@biancabowers2202]

I'm a Henny girl, I'm going to try the recipe 😉

[@nea415]

It’s the drink at the tippy top of the glass for me 😂

[@ajanarie]

I made the drink first THEN added ice cuz i was trying to be drankingggggg lmaooo

[@simonewilson5910]

Honestly I can relate for me the “change” in my type happened when I got more intentional with what exactly I wanted and see for myself. I think when your young it’s like your going for the look and then you get it and get the ickkkk. The smoking thing is honestly annoying at this age like okay I can see if it’s like to catch a vibe but I hate the dependency.

[@cherryblossom_9621]

I love your videos so muchhh .❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@WithneyLechelle]

Aja I feel like you're finally getting comfortable with showing us your authentic self and I'm loving it 😍😭 I didn't know you had this much personality prior to this video 😊

[@samcox718]

Go on Love is Blind yass 😂😂

[@t.p507]

I love how real you keep it with us. Feels like we are literally on FaceTime! Hey girlllll!

[@lovebrianicole]

Stopped liking that type when I had to worry about his opps when we were together. I’m not catching strays for nobody 😂

[@ajanarie]

IKTR!!!!!!

[@SamariaJanae]

Not the water guy from Elemental, I SCREAMED 😂😂😂

[@ajanarie]

He got some damn nerve 😒

[@MeganStreet18]

Not reesa teesa! Lol and I just found a really good friend about 2 years ago, I think because we are older and now know what you we require and know what we desire in friendship and know what to look for, I think it’s easier to weed out and find a friend

[@biancabrooks2885]

Girl, I feel you 100% on wanting to date and make new friends who can relate to you on a certain level. I’m 28 with two kids 9 and 2 years old and I’m a single mom. Listening and watching your videos, got me like “Twin where have you been?” lol.

[@cydneycydney]

Omg friend this video was tea! 😂 I’m 27 too and these are literally my exact thoughts about life right now lol

[@SassyVlogsBySam]

The title is soo me!! 🙈let me watch soon as I get home but sis, I don’t want to virtually hang out 😂.. meet me at the mallllll 🛍️💁‍♀️

[@ajanarie]

Yesssssss friend!!!

[@IAMKELLIECAMILLE]

My girl!!! 🥰✨🖤 Hey Friend!!

[@Ohthatschrissyg]

This was an amazing chit chat girl I wanna respond. When can you do a live? Cause this conversation was needed and I love this Aja! I’m start calling you BIG Aja! cause you said a word honey… we are beautiful and we are not settling for low quality people, places and things. Thank you for this!

[@ajanarie]

Omg I've been live ONCE! Maybe i can do a TikTok live? Lmaoo instagram live scares me so bad! & not settling at all! I'm standing on business ok!!!

[@Ohthatschrissyg]

@@ajanarie I follow you on all platforms so I will be looking out for it. Instagram live scares me too 😲 so I understand. You are a gem 💎

[@relle3262]

Please make a part 2 & I’m dying to hear your take on the new eps of love is blind!xx

[@MissyLenaee]

I hear you about Valentine’s Day & the standards we have as women I agree. The older I get I wonder there’s women who don’t work at all and taking care of home is a necessity they complain about not getting anything for Valentine’s Day but they don’t even ever give their male partners anything. We don’t go crazy for sweetest day at all no decorations not even a acknowledgement and that’s been an invention since 1922! So why do we feel that we deserve the world and a man doesn’t! He probably has just as much standards as we do! We have to be aligned with what we deserve the Bible says do unto others as you want done unto you.

[@ajanarie]

OK! i am a lover girl and really take care of partners mentally, emotionally, physically & so much more so i need it back ten fold.

[@stormieblanco]

love this chat , I can relate it so much. dating is ghetto ! & I definitely want to make more friends for the same reasons lol life man

[@_briieee]

I loved this video sooo much! You’re so down to earth!& you’re so righ these men are sassy AFFFFF! Gurllllll LETS BE FRIENDS LOL, I’m in Jerzzz! 🥳✨🌃

[@ajanarie]

Thank you! And yes we're in a sassy man apocalypse i hate it! Men be wanting flowers these days ok & yes girlllll heyyyy neighbor!

[@MissyLenaee]

It’s crazy how I rather not talk on the phone right away because I learn so much information through text & patterns people don’t even know I pick up on & it allows me to see how smart people are 🙂🤣🤣

[@TheStilinski24]

Completely agree with u. As a fellow Aries woman you’re either obsessed and putting in effort or I’m not into it

[@kerenxoxo_]

Omg yesssss pls go on tv 😭 that would be so lit the circle or love is blind ps love these videos 🫶🏽

[@lifewithlova]

I always say I want new friends but these Philly girls are crazy 😂

[@cedyiesha]

It’s the looks for me ❤!!

[@ajanarie]

Thanks girl!! I be trying to be spicy these days lmaooo

[@tharesatee3535]

Definitely a Philly thing. Lol mid 20’s when I left that stage of my life.. it got old.. I met my husband in my late 20’s. You have so much potential, be open. ❤

[@chellenicki2805]

I'm in Philly, let's be friends! I'm single and not at all into social media :)

[@Kelci_Lynn]

I stopped liking “that type” when the dude I was messing with house got raided and I could have lost my daughter. After that it was a wrap. Too scary for me.

[@ajanarie]

Girl! Def would've been my last straw!!!! I've been in a similar situation and let me say, having your house ransacked by cops and not treating you like a human will wake u tf up!!!!

[@Kelci_Lynn]

@@ajanarie Girl, it definitely did. And they don’t fix anything they mess up even when they don’t find anything 🥴

[@Estephanie.1528]

You are 100 % right.. i can be your friend I’m single lol .. ❤ your videos

[@peteklipit2879]

hakim ziyech wife

[@MissyLenaee]

Aja I’m a social media drinker 😂😂😂

[@ajanarie]

LMAOOO this explains me perfectly im dying

[@s0ulgloow]

I’ve been a silent supporter for a while, but I really look forward to your videos. These chitchats make me feel like we besties on FaceTime fr! Alsooo, you convincing me that I need to try a henny marg lol

[@sydneyc1810]

Hey Aja, Can you link your necklace?

[@IAMKELLIECAMILLE]

I literally was about to say meet up with the DC girlies!!! Awww manifesting some new/more friends for you!! That would be so dope to watch evolve!

[@aubreekeianna4309]

Well if you move to Dallas, let’s be friends 🤞🏾❤️

[@lovelybeautyox]

Heyyyyy boo!!! I'm a silent viewer for a while . I'm a Scorpio so I'm ready to be besties sis I live in NY let's go be besties and be single baddies okkkk 🎉

[@prncessayisha]

I felt so bad for Brittany on love is blind, she deserves so much more, Kenneth really did a 360 lol

[@cheimaeroudane9454]

Why you didn’t stay with ziyech you were a nice couple

LMAO I never went through the bad guy phase cause my momma gonna beat me. Also come to nyc boo! ❤

Or Jersey!

[@Damnnvee]

The sassiness is an epidemic at this point 😫😂 I am here for you going on love is blind! Jimmy know he does not like that girl and I agree 1000% that she needs therapy like yesterday. Bless her heart.

[@MirleneFevrier]

❤💛💚💙💜

[@giginyx]

Girlllllllllll you was spitting some bars. I threw my phone AMENNNNNNN! Finally someone understands me!! It’s the ghettooooooooo here! Ajaaaa do a little meet a greet in nyc. I would def goooo !! Drinks & vibes

[@IAMKELLIECAMILLE]

Love me a bad boy as a good girl 😩 but that life is cray cray!! I literally cannot, first of all I’m scared 🤣🤣 12:20

[@SherriaJ]

I’m not mad this wasn’t a haul cuz I love your chit chats. I feel like I’m catching up with a girlfriend. But not looking like the water guy from Elemental 😂

[@ajanarie]

I love doing chats!! It's how i unload my thoughts lol as long as yall watch them I'll make them!! & girl yes! Like jimmy u got some nerve

[@mzmeeka315]

Chelsea looks like Chelsea. LMFAO !

[@ajanarie]

Like Chelsea girl BFFR

[@Kelci_Lynn]

More like Megan Fox and Natalie Nunn 😂

[@auntiiee]

Aja please start doing a live so we can talk back to you. Have a besties corner/cirle like every blue moon. I swear you stole my thoughts out my head with this chit chat. I got on Hinge & Blk and in 24hrs I was sooo icckkd out I just deleted it again. All the men started to look a mess and I just couldnt. & Im 30 so if you giving trapper/scammer/pimp vibes i just cannottt... I wfh 4 days out the week so its like when and where the hell am I gonna find my person! uugghh ghetto dating chronicles.

[@ajanarie]

Where should i host the live? IG? TikTok? I definitely will!! & yes the ick is real! Idk where we suppose to meet good men cause the apps aren't it 😩

[@Luvlola4927]

I’m ctfuuuuu at the fact that you said ima go out alone 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I damn near crashed my damn car playing around with you

[@ajanarie]

MY OPTIONS ARE NOT OPTIONING!!!! It's giving WTF is this!!!!! Lmaooooo

[@Msqueen_d]

Hey sis

[@unapologeticallyromel7096]

Hey queen ❤ and yes I'm 25 and I know dating sucks 😂 you can't trust nobody

[@samcox718]

We hate Klay I’m sorry

[@elbahtarhafssa7406]

❤

[@lifeofnees]

I’m a tequila girl butttt I will drink a little Henny. When I was younger I liked Henny but now I drink Tequila

[@valentinaalicea7824]

Listen, Valentine’s Day is my birthday so if you don’t get me anything for Valentine’s Day, I assume that you literally hate me

[@ajanarie]

LMAO! Omg friend i don't even blame you i would be the same way!

[@lilianasotropic]

Yes I hope you get some influencer friends that would be cute but most of the girlies in Atlanta 😅 that’s how I am I love my best friends but I want mommy friends with 2 under 2 😅😂

[@ajanarie]

Yea i feel like Atlanta is similar to Philly, like genuine people are hard to come by lmao.

[@Taylor_Made_]

My girl Aja back at it on a Thursday!!! ❤️

[@deeluther3108]

💘Another Great Video💘 🥰Stunning thumbNail Tho Damn You Pretty As Hell 😍😍😍🖤Ur Makeup Always Look CutE Nice Ass Cheeks Bones Super Gorgeous Earrings🤩 Enjoy your night as well Happy Fabulous Weekend Ahead Stay Bless N Be Safe AlwayS

[@lifeofnees]

We can be friends girl😂 I’m from Philly + I’m single too! Also, Bumble friends is NOT it😭 0/10

[@lifewithlova]

I stopped liking that type around 2019-2020. I liked the gifts & getting whatever I wanted. But the jail bird stuff became too much 😂✌🏽

[@ajanarie]

Yea no isn't in their vocab but baby 482747 jail calls? I said absolutely not lmaoo

[@lifewithlova]

@@ajanarie they don’t be having nothing else to do but call all day. Hated it 😭😭😭

[@Cierra_Anyea]

Aja, I would watch you on Love is Bling or three Circle. Just hope you wouldn't get the ick with all the guys, lol.

[@ajanarie]

LMAO i might like someone in the pod, but marriage? Ehhh. Let me go see when they're casting! Lmao

[@lyciaaaaa]

I think Monet McMichael is from Philly

[@ShaBella509]

This is a true Aries Queen! 😅 sis I feel you so much! Never settle ❤

[@jamaicababy99]

i love these types of videos because i feel like we’re on facetime 🫶🏾i totally agree about making new friends as an adult i moved to philly recently and making friends have been so hard sometimes i be ready to go out alone but then i remember who i am 😭

[@shakoorah1]

Aja you’re hilarious. From the facial expressions to the banta. ❤loved your convo in this video Aja 😂friends are fine either in reality or virtually when they bring positive vibes and valuable respect because friends; is common values, interests and morals that bring people together so cherish the spectrum when you’re blessed with a friend in the era of the virtual and real spectrum of media or busy schedule ❤ some days I just talk to my cats and I somewhat have a significant partner ❤😊