16-Year-Old Girl Is Told to Lose Weight to Be Accepted by the Gypsy Community! | Gypsy Brides US

[@MissingHarmony]

I'm more concerned about the child's emotional health. She honestly looks depressed 🙁

[@mercyndegwa680]

frrr

[@oneproudpeacock6901]

Forgot the 'e' in Sham I assume?

[@oneproudpeacock6901]

Forgot the 'e' in Sham I assume?

[@cherylcoomes6739]

Ikr

[@chelsemo15]

Being fat makes one depressed. Lots of fat cells will cause lots of bad things

[@Storjunkare]

For a culture that supposedly centers around “family” there sure are a lot of absent gypsy fathers in this show.

[@menosbbgirl]

Right!? Lol smh

[@elenicowart1517]

It’s because this show does nothing to show to genuine gypsy community. It’s all staged. There are real gypsy family’s on here that expose them and tell what the real Gypsy families are like and say it infuriates them that they are associated with these fake shows 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@nick_434]

In a lot of them they say that its because the husbands spend most of the year traveling around working to bring money back home.

[@jocelyncooper1738]

I’ve noticed that too

[@holliespencer5529]

Lol fr

[@courtneycoleman6849]

She literally said she has low self esteem and doesn’t really like anything about herself. That is SO depressing

[@rachealmurphy6715]

The poor girl should focus on school and not worry at her age to find a man

[@reginagrobosz8807]

With a toxic narcissist momster like that she has to have low self esteem

[@asoulscondition7466]

her mom isn't helping

[@asoulscondition7466]

@@reginagrobosz8807 exactly

[@jessburt2452]

So do somthjng about it , nit wait for some one to do it for u , you'll mumma is right ✅

[@junawallace7315]

I cheered out loud when she said "I love everything about myself". Go girl!

[@katelynpollard9477]

She doesn’t look emotionally well. The daughter looks depressed and she admitted that she has very low self esteem. All that should come first. Yes being overweight can kill you, but you know what can end your life sooner? Depression.

[@smileybat28]

If she lost weight she would probably feel better about herself

[@sidneyj8567]

You are so right !

[@urinternetbae]

@@smileybat28 true but the way her mom was going about her losing weight wasn’t okay or helpful whatsoever

[@evergreen_juno]

@@smileybat28 maybe. But those two things (being happy and losing weight) are not mutually exclusive. She might also feel better about herself with some therapy and fixing her sense of self worth. Guaranteed the mom is doing nothing to raise her daughter up unless it relates to her losing weight

[@roveaalcart7479]

@@evergreen_juno but she did say that she was emotionally not up for it because of her appearance, not any other factor, so encouraging self worth isnt going to actually help her long run cause it will only last temporarily and when she gains more weight she will naturally revert back into her state of depression. having the experience of losing weight and looking beautiful could most possible be one of the best experiences for her, she liked exercising and she felt great losing the weight. so in the future if she does gain weight she wont feel bad about it cause she knows she can work out have fun and lose the weight.

[@Maria-rb8cq]

"You have to look your best." Wears bejeweled "BOSS" hat

[@Naomi-wj4ph]

hahaha i was just thinking that

[@erinvandalay4764]

Hahaha....my thoughts as well

[@rubytheenyctophile390]

🤣 my thoughts exactly

[@rachealmurphy6715]

Same

[@pigeon51]

😂 they are all so tacky.

[@FbuaryDmon]

Your 15 year old daughter is blatantly telling you she suffers from depression and has incredibly low self esteem. You respond by continuously body shaming her so she can get a man? Top notch parenting.

[@raineivy6146]

EXACTLY! THANK YOU!

[@creaminyu]

Ugh!!!!! She’s disgusting. I don’t understand how she could be so blind

[@tikusblue]

It's upsetting to see. And why did she let her daughters weight get to that point in the first place? Wasn't she worried about her health? She could have made an effort to clean up their diets and be active together. But it seema like she didn't care until it came to the point where she needs to be "shown off to the community". She doesn't even care about her healthy and happiness, it's just about how she looks. So awful.

[@clairestevenson5192]

Excetly

[@fishbucket1705]

Maybe if she lost some weight that would help her low self esteem. Genius.

[@Tyler_Mills26]

That personal trainer looks like she'd be so much fun to train with because she's enthusiastic, she's motivating and seems like she makes even the most boring of exercises fun xxx

[@Groovycrisis]

I can’t wait to have my own daughter and NOT treat her like this 😀

[@thegem597]

😂😂😂

[@yourmother9834]

Basically

[@baileelane5341]

Lmao Periodt

[@sharnagrayson9649]

I don’t even want kids but same 😭

[@janayserrano]

Same. I have a son and I would never belittle him like this

[@ciappy27]

"we don't leave the house unless were dressed the best" she says while wearing low rise jeans, flip flops and dollar tree shirt and jewelry

[@ashleyriosrizo]

😂

[@stephaniebiggerstaff8424]

Wait. When did the dollar tree sell clothes?😂 Now u got me wanting to go look. 😂

[@kaekee9727]

@@stephaniebiggerstaff8424 I found out on KZbin I was like whaaattt

[@taylordowning2533]

I was thinking the same thing!! Maybe their best and my best are different

[@mmmint2688]

that's probably her definition of look the best😶

[@teddyssinging9106]

I really wanna give the daughter a hug. You could see it in her face that she was, basically depressed. I hope she realizes she's beautiful.

[@ssgearmyveteranforever3025]

I know. I felt the same way.

[@vduck7354]

Lets not lie to ourselves. She might be a depressed person but shes not really "beautiful."

[@Jasmian]

@@vduck7354 agree. It's just a fact that so obese people don't look pretty, good, or healthy. I've never seen such a big person in my life, I mean, in person. And I cannot understand how they can said, how wonderful she was in those dresses. Then again, yeah..what else to say in this occasion..

[@gingerluigiwithnomoustache7411]

@@vduck7354 nah I think she’s really pretty. That’s my opinion, but to me she has an asymmetrical but very natural beauty to her face. I also like larger people cause I like soft hugs haha

[@michaelab.7787]

really i agree she is so beautiful nd her mom is making her feel horrible

[@callanightshade8079]

Kara, the trainer, is actually being really supportive and cheering her on every time she completes a task during the workout and I'm loving it lol

[@Possums3296]

My favorite thing is when parent use "they're shy" as a way to dismiss mental health

[@Mitsurilove_84]

Lmao my favorite thing is uneducated people diagnosing a stranger after watching a few minutes of a show. Sit down stfu and watch the show. You ain't dr. Phil

[@monserrathvelazquez7897]

@@Mitsurilove_84 ikr!!! Like shit the girl may not have a mental illness but just be a genuinely shy person!!

[@skylorwiltbank5188]

@@Mitsurilove_84 I mean she did say she doesn't like anything about herself which hints at some sort of mental issue. It could be depression or anxiety due to the fact she knows her mom doesn't like how she looks.

[@the.magnus]

@@skylorwiltbank5188 just about every teenager goes through a similar phase, unhappy with their looks.

[@jaytap4265]

She is a teenager. It is called puberty.

[@ShadesAndBoots]

"As a Gypsy woman, we only wear the best." 🧐You might want to inform your wardrobe of that.

[@KaliKali-hv9bt]

ha ha...🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Clementine3107]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@pirateloveification]

🤣 her wardrobe is straight out of TJMAX and Ross

[@KaliKali-hv9bt]

@@pirateloveification Hey, I wear TJMaxx and Ross too, but unlike this gypsy mom, I'm definitely NOT bragging about how I wear the best or even look the best....SMDH LOL...she should've kept that to herself.

[@pirateloveification]

@@KaliKali-hv9bt same! I love getting my clothes from there. They are very affordable but it's definitely not something to brag about.

[@TotallyAwesomeMcknz]

I liked the trainer. I’ll give them that. She was encouraging and hyped Mona Lisa up. That’s a positive way to help a young lady get HEALTHY, not just skinny

[@Keziah2447178]

Honestly...watching that part made me want to find a personal trainer. I have zero motivation by myself but if someone hyped me up like that i would get ripped! Lol

[@rubi-pe5vj]

Wait..wasn’t the trainer kinda out of shape too?

[@ayyitzbaee4106]

@@rubi-pe5vj lmfao yes

[@tipoftheicebergicy6448]

Kara the trainer was pretty crazy and I loved her. Such a positive person.

[@delilah7565]

yep she just needs to be healthy, she’s really pretty

[@maylynbayani]

I was overweight as a child. My mother didnt bother sugarcoating anything. She literally told me to lose weight, signed me up on the gym and counted my calories. I lost weight. It boost my confidence which affected both my social and career life. I am actually grateful that my mom did not enable me.

[@serenalynn22]

For every one of you, there are another 10 that got an eating disorder from it. Saying 'all kids should be treated this way cause it worked for me' is very short sighted.

[@magica1355]

@@serenalynn22 Eating disorders are usually overstated. In modern America, any form of discipline or dieting is referred to as an eating disorder now. Just literally dont be a pig, and you'll likely save yourself all the disease and sickness that typically comes from increased weight. You dont have to literally starve yourself. Overweight people always act like not eating 1400+ calories a day is "starving them" and its BS. Just an excuse. Her mom did the right thing and so did the mom in this video.

[@ClayMastah344]

@@serenalynn22agreed. I’m unsure how one could find the most effective way for each child. It worked for her but I feel in this situation the shame she feels about her body fuels bad eating to cope

[@HawbakerLaw]

Same.

[@bobcat8654]

That little girl has dead eyes

[@countrygirlxo7188]

I would want my child to lose weight so she’s healthy and happy. Not because I want men to want her 😖😔

[@MysticDivinerLJ]

We watch the same things lol! I see your comments all the time!

[@countrygirlxo7188]

L J 💕🤗

[@chococatvega1865]

Damn 20 lbs in 3 weeks that’s not healthy

[@theelle7941]

I guess the mom knew that would work for her. Some stuff people work harder for depending on who it’s for. I’m sure her mom told her Many times to do it for her health and her self but maybe that just wasn’t enough

[@58jennypenny]

or to be 'accepted' by her own people, so not good...

[@SapienSafari]

“You have to look your best.” Wears blue lipstick.

[@BabeDollB]

What's wrong with blue lipstick? It doesn't look great on everyone but some people can pull it off

[@mollyjackson4514]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@marmieshapiro5854]

@Venezia Yezzi Blue lipstick isn’t inherently bad. It’s the fact that many people end up looking bad/tacky in blue lipstick. That’s not the lipstick’s fault 😞.

[@ItsAllLove4Real]

Right up there with blue eyeshadow....It's a huge NO-NO🤣😂🤣😂

[@_____7512]

@@ItsAllLove4Real yes lol when I see blue eyeshadow, I just think of MIMI From the Drew Carey Show

[@ArreisNerual]

The fact that she said she has acne.. bitch where?! Your skin looks PERFECT to me 😭

[@nikki7287]

Exactly lol

[@laprinciaponder4726]

Right😌

[@dawnwilliams8168]

Lol! Girl!!

[@marccie8286]

People can have acne on their body

[@janiyah16]

She Probably has anxiety

[@haileyp9658]

I literally gasped at how beautiful she looked in that dress! She’s so sweet!

[@haydenspice8464]

“It’s gonna be the biggest party of the year”... 20 people show up in jeans and white t-shirts

[@stellaholmes1264]

Lmao 😂

[@sheridasharpe5072]

Right. I have seen their parties and this isn't anything like it. Plus those little kids need go give approval of acceptance?!? Can they even tie their own shoes and write the alphabet lol?!?!?

[@rameessalim2492]

🤣

[@codeab99]

Her other parties must've been either bad or REALLY small.

[@damimac10]

😂😭😂😭😂

[@ohyoudior]

I don’t know how parents overfeed their kids and don’t take them to the park to play or even workout with them at home but they continue to over feed. Then when their kids are overweight they want to blame them💀

[@ashleyoliva7588]

It's abuse!!!!

[@Tobi22__]

exactly so wierd , its allways the parents fault

[@lillexus5589]

@@Tobi22__ in the US maybe, outside of that it's very often the childrens fault, and starts when they have the money and freedom to buy food and drinks for themselves

[@jenniferanderson3694]

Absolutely right there

[@MsBhappy]

They also buy their child's love with food or attempt to and then wonder why their child is shy, has low self esteem, low energy and little self identity. Nutrition and mental health are far more connected than people realize.

[@mommy7914]

That was the ONLY nice dress I've seen in this show LMAO

[@megansampson5445]

and the only classy party where there was no drama ahah

[@Emerance_]

Ong

[@Liizzzziirr]

Factssss

[@jinxkilljoy2555]

The one gypsy video that ended wholesomely

[@princessdiamond9064]

@@megansampson5445 55e5

[@qtippyyy]

I pray this girl is okay. She’s absolutely beautiful! I hope her family supports her and that her mom doesn’t end up traumatizing her with her weight and give her an ED. From experience, my mother used to body shame me for being overweight and I ended up with body dysmorphia and lost a whole bunch of weight and then she started shaming me for being to skinny. Please take care of this girl, protect her!

[@amywalker3684]

They spend all that money on this big party, and everyone shows up in jeans and t-shirts.

[@bruh102]

Ikr

[@ValeriiaJ]

Yeah, it is a little similar to Quinceañeras in latin America, but everybody looks their best in Quinces, almost all of the guests wear elegant clothes.

[@onepunch2310]

@@ValeriiaJ depends on the venue. If it’s some place nice then yeah everybody gotta dress like it prom night but if it’s at home in the backyard. Dress nice but Not too nice because most likely gonna be a lot of kids who just want to run around and play and then teens who either wanna sit around, dance, or just came for cake. And then the adults who just sit, drink, eat, cook, dance, sing and then stay up all night doing the same thing all over again until their kids get tired. My neighbors had a mariachi band and a big tent with lights and they literally won’t stop dancing and playing music until like 2am. They partied all night in the rain once...

[@kaekee9727]

@@ValeriiaJ yup planning mine now 😁ahhhhh

[@evelyna4808]

@@onepunch2310 💀💀 the little story about your neighbors 😭😭 my family parties until 6-7am at our quinces/birthdays/weddings any excuse of a celebration 🤷🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[@horololo4344]

I liked the trainer, she motivated her and hyped her throughout.

[@lucindajenkins8693]

That trainer looked some what chubby.

[@Stoopudjurcee1]

@@lucindajenkins8693 Maybe the personal trainer had a massive weight loss and has loose skin. You never know.

[@lucindajenkins8693]

@@Stoopudjurcee1 shiddddd no she didn't!!

[@Sasha-gl4ip]

@@lucindajenkins8693 okay? I mean they can still have fat its human

[@Sasha-gl4ip]

@@lucindajenkins8693 plus they are working out and stuff so im sure they are on a health journey

[@katiesabo]

My parents pushing me to lose weight and calling me “fat” is what caused me to develop an eating disorder at 15. I’m 26 now and I’m still struggling with bulimia. Lesson to be learned here: do not nag and name call your child if they’re overweight. You have no idea what that can do to ANYONE, mentally. Be better.

[@courtneywalsh1028]

So sorry you went through that. My parents especially my mom was like that with me. I developed mine when I was 12 and now in my 30s, it's still there. Parents need to be careful how they push their kids to lose weight

[@Lena.Jones13]

Omg I'm so sorry to the both of you for having experienced that.

[@courtneywalsh1028]

Lena Jones thank you so much

[@magdasanon5469]

Oh beautiful read some books to help you feel great for yourself be you love you

[@CourierSixMojaveExpress]

Girl, I've been there. My grandma told me at 13 years old "you'll never be skinny, you'll always be fat" I made it to 200lbs down to 103lbs my lowest weight ever and now i have seizures and a life time of medication :D I want to be able to say I'm over it but I still feel bad about myself...

[@eyxlessjxck6383]

I'm so proud of her and i loved how the trainer was with her, energetic and kind to make her more comfortable :)

[@martinelove]

The mom named her daughter Mona Lisa Jr and she really thought she was doing something

[@icygothbby]

It’s just a name. Lol.

[@sahelibanerjee1503]

😂😂😂

[@dreamdoll8700]

😭✋🏾

[@kisses_18]

The second she can she’s changing her name for sure

[@Naomimarielewis11]

😭😭

[@HaneeFannee]

"The Gyspy community accepted her..." You mean a bunch of stand-ins from the local community centre who were promised a free buffet?

[@raiyahh]

RIGHT- 💀

[@esha710]

😂😂😂

[@jael3177]

To be fair, I think these were legit family and friends. I noticed a few people who were in other episodes as well.

[@lillexus5589]

@@jael3177 it's an American reality TV show, it's painfully scripted as pointed out by others already.

[@baresan4699]

Local Romani’s from the food bank line don’t count lol.

[@imarihill7553]

"You need to lose weight." And yet you take her to a burger place?

[@roxeybaker7123]

😂😂😂

[@dnieto1466]

Yeah

[@nyrahbush567]

Yea I would feel so insecure and uncomfortable eating my burger and fries with her mom saying lose wait who is she to tell her that and make her do that I mean 20 pounds in 3 weeks she must have been starving herself or something

[@beautifullife4277]

That tells you what kind of a role figure she has in her life...Worthless

[@danielpeters1300]

That was for the last time before she started weight loss classes.

[@erinkat2467]

"I love everything about myself" ..every woman/girl should feel like that atleast once in their lives

[@ashleyseward7133]

Hearing her say that she doesn’t like anything about herself is heartbreaking... I have a daughter and couldn’t imagine allowing my baby girl to have such low self confidence. Her mama would be a wonderful asset to improving the way she sees herself if only her mother would care more about her daughter than she does herself

[@hazelsunderstood6784]

I'm happy for your daughter. I've seen this a lot from women in communities/environments that encourage competition in women. Those environments are ones that pretty women fall into. Then guys want babies with them. But if those guys want daughters they better get to know the women first because... With moms like that there can be a double edged sword. She hates it when you look better than her. If your skinny, she will brings you down and only be happy when she fills you with food. So you give in and destroy yourself before you even know why your doing it. Then you're bigger and (even though she's constantly belittling you), she's happier with herself because she looks better than you. That mom is probably so self absorbed, she doesn't even notice how much her daughter really loves her.

[@thapoppyman]

God forbid a parent is concerned about their childs weight problem. If your daughter was on heroin would you react like a loving mom and not scold her for being an addict? Which by the way is a disease and on the same level as obesity, anorexia, and bulimia. That mom loves her daughter, stop buying into click bait titles and use your eyes and brain to see what really going on in the video.

[@ashleyseward7133]

@@thapoppyman first off I said the way she talked to her about her weight was unnecessary.. didn’t say that you shouldn’t correct the behavior but you should also do it in an uplifting manner not in a way that would kill the child’s self esteem.. secondly the heroin shit has nothing to do with this topic.. and yes I believe that addiction is a disease but you can’t scold and demean an addict either that just makes them wanna do it even more.

[@aaliyahhugley3770]

@@thapoppyman there is a difference between honesty and being bitchy..idk whats ur issue and u need help..you shouldnt scold anyone if anything u should help them get thru it like a NORMAL human would do it..what ur gonna do for a person going thru a smoking issue ur gonna scold them and be rude or are u gonna walk them thru and help them get thru it

[@saucyravioli9748]

@@thapoppyman I agree with you. Mature people understand… kids just attack in the comments

[@kaniyapalmer767]

The mother over here worrying about a dress instead of her daughter depression

[@dark_matter2377]

Her happiness should come first and her mum should do something with her that's fun to lose weight, not just dictate it to her

[@olgamlklj1380]

I agree!!!

[@Xeno-Sapien]

She literally gave her the option. Plus what she was doing before wasn’t working. Your idea of ‘dictating’ is hilarious.

[@ayyitzbaee4106]

@@Xeno-Sapien exactly and honestly whether my child is in favor of loosing weight or not I’m going to give them a diet I’m focusing on their health not if they want to loose weight

[@annabass8123]

@@ayyitzbaee4106 That's true, but if her mom really cared about her weight for her health, and had been trying to help her for that reason for a while it would be different. But, her mom just talks about being attractive enough so she's accepted. That's where I see the issue.

[@nzcarlie]

100%

[@kelz2.0]

All she needed was POSITIVE motivation and POSITIVE reinforcement, which the dress and the trainer was and she looked gorgeous at the end

[@callanightshade8079]

exactly!

[@venuslovechain95]

“We don’t leave the house unless we look our absolute best” *dressed like Kat Von D at the grocery store*

[@HectorHernandez-mk2no]

🤣😂🤣😂my thoughts exactly

[@lilphatfit]

LMFAO spot on 😂

[@StrawberryNinjaNibbles]

Well, there’s no accounting for taste ..

[@chuyistheshiz6811]

Lmfao

[@SnapszDuhh]

I was like “That’s her best?” Well damn🥴

[@sophiadipietro8783]

Lost over 20 pounds in 3 weeks?? Poor girl I hope she wasn’t starving herself. That’s a. Great accomplishment for her self esteem but I wonder if It was more then just working out every day

[@c.c7606]

The more overweight a person is the easier the fat/weight comes off of them

[@thekalenichannel1812]

@@c.c7606 that is inaccurate information, idk who told you that but the more overweight it’s actually harder to keep weight off

[@rylee_l]

I was looking for this comment, that’s 7lbs a week of weight loss... definitely way more than is healthy (or sustainable). The usual recommendation is 1-2lbs a week, maybe a little more for her because she was heavier, but 7lbs a week is insane. I wouldn’t be surprised if she starved herself for this party and gained the weight back afterward

[@sophiadipietro8783]

@@c.c7606 false actually. For someone to lose over 20 pounds in 3 weeks is so unhealthy like that is not possible unless she was forcing herself to throw up or starving herself.

[@beepbeep4745]

@@thekalenichannel1812 how?

[@tamdoll3823]

She let her daughter eat unhealthy her whole life all of a sudden she want to implement healthy food in her life smh she should have did this along time ago if it’s so important she look good to be accepted in the gypsy community

[@orangefruitshake1280]

true,,!!

[@glamdolly30]

Exactly! The mother is the reason the kid is fat - she provided all the food for the last 16 years! Mom is a monster forcing her daughter to be a carbon copy of herself - she even gave her the same frigging name! If you love your children, you love them unconditionally and let them develop their own style and personality. Weight aside, maybe this girl doesn't aspire to looking like a Barbie doll and marrying young? The gypsy culture is a horrible, regressive one for females. They are taught from a young age their only value is in their looks, and their ability to take care of a man and a house. It's like feminism never happened!

[@nicolem8122]

This is the comment I was looking for.

[@maredgwenllian9698]

U can eat junk sometimes but eat healthy but she has to keep fit go for a walk not sit on the couch playing games

[@theresasheff2984]

Truth

[@AlmostMiddleAgedASMR]

that personal trainer was really nice

[@germesthemagician]

I can’t believe she says she only leaves the house looking the best then went to the cafe in a “boss” hat

[@FJah-yj9td]

🤣🤣🤣

[@hambone4984]

Its a different type of best lol

[@germesthemagician]

@@hambone4984 fact 🤣

[@jennreb5073]

And that "Angel" shirt 🤣

[@q-moneyproductions3655]

😂😂😂

[@mae388]

Girl you ain't dressing "the best of the best" unless the best is a hybrid of hot topic and Claire's in 2002. Also, shes 15. Who's been feeding her up till now? The mom. The kid isn't buying her own groceries 🙄 she's going to grow up with so many insecurities all because of her mom.

[@just1girl846]

Thwnk yku for saying it was going to comement this

[@christinalove6344]

Thought the same if lady wont leave unless shes dressed the "best" nobody has informed her she should stay at home and focus on being beautiful on the inside also..

[@mae388]

@@christinalove6344 PREACH SIS 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@rhyfelwrDuw]

I thought that as well! (Who's been feeding her, comment)

[@Natalia-ns7jf]

Thank you!! Their dress sense is different... not the best

[@arizonarangershat3831]

I love the trainer. Kind, energetic, encouraging, considerate, you can just see how she’s trying her hardest to make the girl more comfortable and make it for fun for her. She wants her to enjoy it and not dread it💞

[@annasamuelson7212]

I also loved that she was for the most part average size which makes her less intimidating for a young and insecure girl.

[@beatricelogan5004]

I parent like her and used to get the same looks from my kids lol

[@greenmanlll]

@@annasamuelson7212 she was fat lmaoooo if it’s even a she

[@PM-lr8xv]

The pt was lovely but she was too loud for me

[@ilonacharlton1144]

@@greenmanlll looking at all your other comments you seem to have a complex regarding weight. Get help.

[@jadeybaby007]

So basically the mother shamed her daughter for 3 weeks so “her dress would fit” but they just altered the dress from a zip back to a lace up back?? 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@Coconut-ts9rh]

Awe I actually loved the personal trainer and how encouraging she is

[@calisongbird]

The trainer was fat

[@TaShaBeNz85]

@@calisongbird she could of been bigger and loss tons of weight and now wants to help others…it worked and she seemed great at her job

[@estela_agbegninou8337]

@@calisongbird that’s not fat. You definitely gotta be WAY more than that to be considered fat.

[@basicwhitebitch9970]

IKR!! LOVE HER ENERGY

[@greenmanlll]

@@estela_agbegninou8337 ya if ur a woman maybe

[@jolenedehart4315]

This is the mother's fault raising her with unhealthy eating habits. As a young child she DID NOT buy or prepare her own food. Kids eat what the parents provide.

[@beansforlief5703]

Right, kids arent the ones to blame for their eating habits

[@cristinarichart1118]

I have a 7 year old who refuses to try anything that isn’t grilled cheese, McDonald’s, yogurt, granola bars or sweet cereal. The food I throw away and time I waste making food she refused to eat is frustrating

[@cristinarichart1118]

And yes it’s starting to show in her weight

[@WebbsHomesteading]

Cristina Richart look up some recipes for healthy “fun” looking food. Make changes now! Wish you the best ☺️

[@musict4379]

@@cristinarichart1118 please help your child find love in healthier foods, but not in a way that's demeaning or teaches that your weight is all that matters. This is coming from an 18 year old who has struggled with eating disorders for the past 5 years because she grew up on microwave meals in a household that couldn't afford to feed their entire family healthier meals. My life is a cycle of starvation and binging and even though i don't blame my mom, I wish she could've taught me healthy eating habits when I was a child.

[@bloomfire1998]

She has a beautiful face, but she's so sad, I can feel how low confidence she has. SHE MUST feel comfortable. And she must lose weight when she's mentally prepared for it and she WANTS to, not because of community acceptance. I think this poor girl feels trapped because her present and future is in community's hands not her :/

[@Weightingtablesafter]

Nah she just has droopy eyes cause shes fat. Youre mistaking that for “sadness in her eyes”.

[@bloomfire1998]

I hope that's the case. By the way we call beautiful people "maral" in my country :3

[@Weightingtablesafter]

@@bloomfire1998 oh wow where are you from 😂

[@bloomfire1998]

In Armenia, we use it in literature to describe mostly an elegant, slim and beautiful girl, just as graceful as a deer. I'm not sure what language it came from, Wikipedia says it's in Mongolian, I personally believe it's in Persian. If you know more please tell me, I'm interested :3

[@Weightingtablesafter]

@@bloomfire1998 im persian and it means deer in azari. Thats all i know. 😂

[@LisasPeaceOfArt]

She's beautiful and perfect exactly how she is. Hopefully she gets away from this toxic community.

[@ganondorfdragmire9855]

No she's not she is morbidly obese. Face the fact

[@givemeliberty700]

She's overweight and shpuld lose weight for health reasons and her self esteem

[@alondragomez3456]

She’s so sweet and shy. Lol her trying to hide her smile when the trainer was hyping her up was adorable! And kudos to the trainer she was so positive and encouraging!

[@missipenix]

And...who's been feeding her all her life? "I know I've fed you a horrible diet your whole life and have spent almost 16 years not teaching you a healthy relationship with food, but it's about to reflect on me in a couple of weeks so I'm going all in hardcore to make it your problem." A+ parenting there /s

[@truecrimefan1433]

Couldn't agree more. My son put on weight during lockdown so when he went back to school he lost it all coz he has lots of sports I never once said anything to him about his weight coz I am the one who buys the food and cook so it's my fault not his. But now he is back into sports he can eat the same but work it off if he kept gaining it would be my job to change the diet never would I tell him he is fat ever. (He isn't) but even if he was I just could never say that to my child.

[@Heather-xm9ul]

Seriously! She literally taught her disordered eating, and now wants her to flip on a dime? Terrible mom.

[@moonkandiie2273]

"She has been under so much pressure" Yeah bish pressure that YOU put on her

[@dreamiet]

Umm she also wanted to fit in her dream dress. She would of have to put in the work if she wanted to wear it. Happy ending and she was looked very happy to achieve her goal

[@anessa5326]

Exactly

[@VoiceDivine]

@@dreamiet I doubt healthy though. The mental effects that can be left…don’t even get me started

[@dreamiet]

@@VoiceDivine lol she's overweight and you think that's healthy? She was incredibly devastated when she couldn't fit her dream dress. That's why she was incredible happy to fit her dress, after all her hard work. She should be congratulated. It's a great achievement, but instead of it being an inspirational story. It's over shadowed by Negativity. That's sad. Losing weight is incredibly hard. She worked hard. It shows. It should be congratulated. You could see how happy she was on her night. My cousin was obese. Her prom dress had to be custom made. She was devastated. I'm sure she wanted to lose the weight to fit her dream dress but she didn't have the determination. You honestly think that was a better outcome??? Like that didn't leave any mental effects??

[@Miss_Camel]

Right?! This should have never been aired to the public, this is fat-shaming and irresponsible parenting and once the cameras are gone and the trainer and the “Encouragement”, it is an invitation for a severe relapse into depression. I don’t know what network decided to show this, but shame on them.

[@LeeLee-gu2ib]

There is nothing wrong with wanting your child to lose weight she is a very beautiful young lady her mother wants her to get healthy. Losing all that weight will help her self-esteem!

[@Spice99857]

I disagree, when I was 18, my already overweight mother told me she wanted me to lose 20 lbs, and it made me feel like shit. Fast forward, a month later, and I find out she has been dating a man who is now my stepfather of 17 years; I put two and two together and realized she was ashamed of her new man meeting her fat daughter; that made me feel even worse. Fast forward; 3 and a half years later; and I took off 60 pounds at the age of 21, and NOT because it was my mother's decision, but my OWN. Moral of this story; it is NOT OKAY to tell someone else what to do with their own body. Period.

[@uselessturtlepie4030]

​@@Spice99857when she grows up and is legally an adult the girl can do whatever she wants with her body. But while she is under her mothers roof and jurisdiction it is her responsibility to keep her daughter healthy and being obese is NOT healthy. Now i dont think the mom really cared about health and it was more for the aesthetic but overall it was definitely the right decision.

[@Spice99857]

@@uselessturtlepie4030 Good point, but the mother was looking at it from the wrong point of view, either way.

[@areesha_2342]

No joke but gypsy culture is just messed up

[@nicolem8122]

It sets women back like 50 years.

[@jolenedehart4315]

Agree. It's totally different from the original gypsy clans in history. It's just a cult now.

[@tuttyfat]

Its not just the gypsy community that won't "accept" her. Regular society doesn't accept obese people.

[@ina_dedej]

Yeap

[@jdg6205]

Not really real gypsies, these people got nothing to hold on too.

[@Hannah1114]

The poor girl looks so depressed, I hope she gets help

[@suzannorman2027]

She deserves a life where she doesn’t have to lose weight “to be accepted” health is important yes but so is mental health

[@suzannorman2027]

I hope one day she knows this and leaves

[@daniela-xf7kz]

Heath is more important than mental.

[@Emma-yx7wj]

Not only that but as a parent she shouldn't have been purchasing trash food knowing her daughter struggles with eating. As a parent she needed to take action quietly and not address it when it finally became a big enough problem

[@matxalenc8410]

@@daniela-xf7kz You can't have physical health without mental health. Your mental health has a big impact on your physical health.

[@aprilh8022]

@@daniela-xf7kz There is a direct link between weight gain and depression

[@kerina6594]

Everything about the party look from the dress, to the makeup to the hair was amazing 😍 beautiful girl!

[@AnnaBreit]

This is so abusive on so many levels. That poor girl. She is miserable.

[@hahahaidee8017]

I hate that the mom didn’t say “she needs to find confidence in herself” instead flat out “she needs to lose weight”

[@angellinafosse1936]

Agreed

[@Laoriginal718]

But she doesn’t need to lose weight. Once she’s at a healthier weight her confidence will soar.

[@user-yr6uu1st6q]

@@Laoriginal718 that's not how it works

[@KennethU]

Ah well it would help

[@unknownguy1528]

Ur disgusting for trying to normalise obesity. She NEEDED to lose that weight

[@kaveh..]

“i want her to be confident and happy” *proceeds to body shame her*

[@Laoriginal718]

I wish YALL would quit with that term. It’s not shaming it’s honesty.

[@cupcakecandyshop918]

@@Laoriginal718 the daughter is depressed and has no self esteem and the mom is saying you’re fat and you need to lose weight ya that’s honesty and definitely not gonna make the daughter suicidal 🙄

[@mms4818]

She’s her mom she obviously what’s the best for her

[@efundee777]

Honey you are not ugly, society is. You are stunning and I know what it’s like to be ashamed of being overweight and have acne. But now I’ve finally understood that you can never live up to the insane beauty standards and you should only change yourself for you, not anyone else

[@ruth540]

Tbh, I'm proud of her simply for saying "that felt good" after a workout. I wish the rest of the toxic stuff wasn't surrounding her, because simply doing something that feels good for yourself, that should be the focus.

[@Heather-xm9ul]

I liked that too. The trainer seems invested in her too, which is really nice

[@pelesync4851]

The problem here is the mother wants the child to lose weight, not for health reasons but because of beauty concerns. The daughter does needs to lose weight and that's the truth. She was getting out of breath from talking and is obese. But to be worried about your child for the wrong reason/beauty reasons is wrong.

[@MsJubjubbird]

I liked the trainer. SHe tried to make it fun for her and age appropriate

[@justinmoore3217]

Her child not the child. She’s her child. Saying the child means she’s just some random child and of course they wouldn’t even make sense too because she’s an adolescent not a child unless you are referring to her as one of the mothers children.

[@Saba-sp4jd]

She lost over 20 pounds in three weeks?! That's crazy!

[@cottoncandie761]

Can't believe I had to scroll this far to find your comment. 20 pounds, under 1 month is insane. Let alone for a teen under high stress to pull off. Kiddo got chops but it's painful to watch this young beauty being constantly berated over her weight.

[@celestesimmons8184]

I hope I'm wrong but the only way she could have lost 20lbs in 3 weeks is through water fasting. I've done before. Its dangerous, gives temporary results and leads to developing eating disorders plus you gain the weight back and more once you break the fast.

[@thEb3stEzt]

When you’re larger you tend to lose weight faster. Especially with added exercises cause your body isn’t use to that movement. A change in diet also helps.

[@celestesimmons8184]

@@thEb3stEzt i agree but not that fast, I used to weigh 210lbs height 5'3 my freshmen year of hs. I wrestled in high school and even went to nationals. I would work out twice a day. In the beginning I lost about 15-20lbs in my first year but not a month. It slowed down after that. I lost a total of 50lbs but it took me 4 years. After hs I gained weight which led me to water fasting.

[@clarissaburtness5867]

@@thEb3stEzt if u look it up u should not louse more then 10lbs in a month and she not that big

[@gthoj8867]

I love that trainer. Seems like a very good trainer and makes Mona Lisa feel better.

[@abbypascua6068]

She lost 20 pounds in three weeks?? Girrlll I’m so proud of you!!! I’m over here struggling to even get out of my bed!

[@cremepuffle]

Thats not healthy

[@kittycoles3709]

That amount of rapid weight loss isn’t healthy. It’s not recommended to lose more than 1 or 2 pounds a week.

[@mariannetaylor4293]

Proud? That is a dangerous amount to lose quickly.

[@deergoat3468]

and also the mindset she had to lose that weight is also unhealthy

[@abbypascua6068]

I do apologize for my comment since I wasn’t aware of how unhealthy rapid weight loss is. Also how unhealthy the mindset is. Thank all for informing me about it. :)

[@CardiM97]

“I ordered a milkshake if you don’t mind” lmfaooooo I love it she killed me 🤣❤️

[@nostalgiclad19]

I was like "stfu and give her the milkshake!"

[@alysonm1289]

Right I can't drink em drink them for all of us sis

[@patch3938]

I think her mom cares about her, but shows it in the wrong way. When her daughter was scared she wouldn't loose enough weight, she kept saying things like "I believe in you" "you can do it, I know you can". But at the same time wouldn't seem to acknowledge her obvious depression.

[@sahd0w]

You seriously think a parent telling their child they believe in them and encouraging them to achieve a positive goal is a bad thing? There's something wrong with you bro..

[@notsalemm]

@@sahd0w you ignored the last part of that comment so well.

[@m.ta.r.6443]

I liked this episode alot. Support sustems, acceptance, mental and physical health accomplishments. Love seeing these clips with such supportive parents.

[@Darkskynet1]

When the mum talks about how she's happy the Gypsy community accepted her.. Like, did she really expect them to start throwing cabbages or something?

[@keerausman2866]

CABBAGES 😂😂

[@Clementine3107]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nutellabutt8104]

😂😂😂😂

[@caitlinpoling8718]

My cabbages!

[@rossyvizcarra1927]

You’d be surprised lol

[@lilyvegana]

Not to talk crap, but this is the first time I've seen a gypsy celebration that doesn't look like a DreamWorks Trolls threw up all over. Thee classiest and more elegant thus far 👌

[@melissashilkoff]

It looks like they went to a wedding dress boutique to get her dress. The dress she chose (which is GORGEOUS by the way) definitely looks like a blush colored wedding dress. Also, finally a not crazy looking dress made by Saundra Celli with an impossible large skirt!!!

[@dontjudgeme20]

I live in york and the dress shop they went to is legit . They have amazing dress there truthfully. I use to go to daycare across the street from there and was always amazed at the dresses in the window. They come across as a high priced luxury boutique

[@Totalchaos0228]

That was nice for once. Those dresses are always so friggin ugly!

[@mangosoda7117]

Looks like a general dress boutique because I thought I saw prom dresses, wedding dresses, and what looked like a sundress in there too.

[@johnhurd72]

This is just a birthday dress though. Im sure the wedding dress will be crazy haha

[@melissashilkoff]

@@johnhurd72 True, but I have seen crazy birthday dresses though. That one Paris themed one the pastor's daughter wore for example

[@zombiechicken7114]

She looked beautiful either way and I hope she learns to love herself regardless of what other people think of her. Bless her. She is amazingly strong.

[@ChrisH124]

She’s telling her daughter to lose weight for all the wrong reasons. this culture seems so destructive

[@okimahitt7413]

Toxic af

[@rachealmurphy6715]

Very. They get married at such a young age. She should be concerned with school but we all know education isn't their thing

[@RoyalRoses]

Its so disgusting. I couldn't imagine trying push values like this onto impressionable children. Everything about it is so backwards and dangerous.

[@m3lona]

like every culture, there are toxic views and cultural practices that are wrong, Roma's are not any different, but just know that not the whole community is like that nor agree with cultural "norms" within the community like child marriage over education, misogyny etc there are many Roma communities that value education and live moral lives, and strongly disagree with these practices and cultural "traditions", this show is just an overly dramatised stereotypical show to gain an audience, I hope you don't judge us based of this show and have a good day :D

[@rachealmurphy6715]

@Flocxs - Definitely. Everything is always centered around the man's happiness. It's as if the women settle. I think what happens when the husband ever died these women have no skills. That is why I think education is very important

[@theworldoftata1359]

Never call your child “fat” maybe say like “hey maybe let’s try to eat more heathlier” and say it nicely

[@MsBhappy]

All the parent had to do is only keep healthy food in the house and not buy their child's love with food/allowance.

[@theworldoftata1359]

@@MsBhappy exactly

[@ThePowerofNAR]

The word fat is a descriptor just like the word skinny is. Maybe her mom should tech her she is worthy at all sizes and build her up instead of telling her she won't be liked if her appearance doesn't meet societal standards. Physical health is important, but mental health is too!

[@johnnierussell1236]

Ikr my mom and dad say one day you doing to be wide :(

[@soumitramondal3076]

The parents should motivate the child and not force it.

[@ashcarmona]

Build her confidence up and engage in her interests. Make it about health, instead of making her feel as if something is wrong with her appearance. She is beautiful just as she is. ❤️

[@hustlersfactory5391]

Nice In addition, I purchased this ultrasound device, I lost 4.5Kgs at home with it. I got mine from the original Ezolia brand. here: tryezolia.com/products/ezolia-bodyslimmer-body / hope it helps

[@aannalese]

Exactly she is so young, her self esteem is fragile, especially in your teens as a girl

[@elio_fay]

@@hustlersfactory5391 scam

[@robs4988]

Rubbish

[@elio_fay]

@@robs4988 shut up Rob

[@QuantumKitty]

My parents were like that mom until one day I developed an eating disorder and then they started begging me to eat but the damage to my mental health was done. It took me 12 years to recover from that. Shame on mom for doing this to her in tv. Mona Lisa you are perfect and beautiful inside and out.

[@mochimochi7669]

My mom was like this as well. I started drastically cutting my calories at age 12 and exercising as much as possible. I was skinny all through high school. Once I turned 18, something just clicked and now, 10 years later, I’m very overweight. I understand your pain. I’m trying to learn nutrition for myself as an adult and change my ways.

[@anthonythomas3646]

I feel so bad for her. I had to lose 200lb but I didn’t have anyone talking down to me to lose it

[@lavender1187]

Exactly the whole situation was messed up, she obviously has low self esteem and depression, the mum could have handled things differently, she should have been more worried about her health, than what she looks like.. Congratulations on your weight loss, it’s a hard journey but well worth it in the end.

[@ThePresentation010]

They shouldve

[@kayladanielle7105]

Advice?

[@ThePresentation010]

@@kayladanielle7105 1. Try to avoid eating before sleeping. That's when metabolism kicks in hard. If you eat before bed you weaken it. The more you fast the better. 2. Try to avoid carbs. Focus on protein, and plant based foods, fat, and fiber. And try to eat less in general. Alcohol and fastfood can make you gain weight nonstop, so they're no. 1 to avoid. 3. Build muscle. Muscle speeds up metabolism. Legs are biggest muscle in body, so do squats. But first thing to do- is to get a scale. Without measuring, you can ever track or see progress.

[@kayladanielle7105]

@@ThePresentation010 thank you!!

[@ndisfoshiz]

The first interview with the daughter I was like “can I cuddle you?” By the end I was like “holy crap a gypsy that doesn’t look trashy!” She looked beautiful and I hope it boosted her confidence even just for a second.

[@Lankynibs]

I know you mean well but that “holy crap a gypsy that doesn’t look trashy” comment is really gross

[@user-yc6iw7gm9q]

I know you're not talking about looks. You look like the dollar tree version of the queen from Alice and wonderland. Stay in ur place Mary poppins

[@GotGoatMilk]

That’s exactly what I was thinking as well m, she’s one of prettiest ones I’ve seen on this show

[@gia9551]

She still has a nice shape at her size. She won’t need to lose much weight to be healthier as it’s not very unhealthy to carry extra weight in your hips and legs. You could see it better when she tried on the dresses. And the trainer is awesome. I bet it feels better to be with someone who isn’t skinny skinny fitness model type.

[@kassrripples3659]

I agree. I hope the PT continues being part of that young ladies life.

[@codyvalencic1231]

Fitness models are ripped not skinny.

[@laffin_out_loud]

I just hope she finds love for herself and loses weight for herself.

[@erinvandalay4764]

@@codyvalencic1231 In order for a woman to be "ripped" they have to have an unusually low percentage of body fat for a woman, or else the muscle won't show. Women are hormonally designed to have some extra fat because of estrogen. If a woman is "ripped" then she's skinny.

[@deeviousrat]

glad she felt good because she worked hard for that dress! mom’s really misguided. my mom said the same thing to me growing up and i still get anxious and inadvertently starve myself before i see her even as an adult. i hope this girl grows up happy and healthy.

[@firstnamelastname-oj7df]

not mona lisa and mona lisa jr-

[@kennedi1423]

💀💀💀

[@krystingrant6292]

🤧🤧

[@Rae_Naeee]

😂 I’m named after my dad and he wasn’t that obnoxious to put Jr at the end of my name! I would have flipped when I got older! 😂😂😂

[@jakeraland5806]

Serena Williams named her daughter a JR 😂😂

[@noneofyourbusiness302]

She should definitely have her own identity and her own f name!

[@tonyadurst-scarlett1542]

They need to worry more about her depression and not about her getting married.

[@Dealbreaker816]

It’s sad that even when she talks about loving the dress there is no light in her eyes and no heart in what she’s sayin I just wanna hug her and tell her she’s beautiful 🥺❤️

[@SoPoTheVibe]

First episode that didn’t make me question what’s wrong with people. So proud of this young women. Hope she continues a healthy lifestyle & is loved for being who she is.

[@kaitlynsayers9230]

I’m still so proud of her for being able to fit into her dress🥺

[@t.n.tolbert4456]

I’m happy she was able to lose the weight that she did. If you look at the closure in the back though, it was originally a zip up but they had to have it altered and made into a lace up so that it could close properly. Us bigger people know that trick well. She should still be proud of herself for her hard work and her improved confidence. 👍

[@rachelharding3601]

She didn't lose hardly anything. She had it laced up instead of zipped.

[@southern_charm_69]

Hopefully she'll continue with the trainer. It was lovely to see her face light up when she saw herself in the dress. Beautiful young woman.

[@tenneillwhite849]

I am so glad the party was a true Sweet 16 and not one of those tragic desperate "got to find a husband tonight" parties.

[@juliannecok4821]

Both a dietician and a personal trainer are necessary to reshape her life. Plus, a psychologist would be good to assist with her emotional state. She looks Gorgeous!!!

[@donnamarievalentine1156]

Lots of focus on "the looks!" What about studying and achieving in school, in the arts in sports. My two girls were supported to pursue many things. Education was always foremost, but they played sports from the age of 5 which helps girls tremendously with self esteem, feeling strong and capable and accomplishing so much. This culture is definitely harmful! When it came time for the Prom my tomboys were the most girly, beautiful looking young ladies in gorgeous, appropriate dresses! A young girl's value should not rely upon her appearance, but rather upon who she is as a person, her spirit and soul which is what shines through!

[@doeeyes2]

Neither of those are "necessary". There are plenty of people that lose weight without spending money on either. I did by doing my oown research on healthy eating and work out tutorials. Physchologist YES!

[@rach_just_rach]

Abusive. I was sent to Weight Watchers at 8 YO. Come to find out I had no energy and pain, because of two rare Autoimmune diseases, not diagnosed until early adulthood. Come to find out with my life long symptoms, I always had them. I remember crying in PE due to pain; insults and name calling ensued, even by coaches. Hell when we had Physical fitness qualifications and graded for it. I remember feeling much like this young lady. She is entirely beautiful. Her community can blast off. She is probably using those sweet treats to cope, I know. My heartbreaks. People are cruel. Find those who love all of you, this is not it. 👑🙏

[@WhoCares-zy1fe]

She looks so tired of her mother And the gyspy obsession with the male gaze... I promise nobody is looking at you everytime you enter a room cause their so amazed and astonished by your ✨gypsy vibes✨

[@dhruvip4513]

The fact that she's got to lose weight to feel loved and accepted , i feel so sorry for her !!

[@JG-mt3rp]

Not being accepted by these gross people isn't necessarily a bad thing.

[@anniewallace3601]

She looks so beautiful! Her moms attitude was horrible but the dress was definitely a great confidence boost and motivator to care for herself the way she deserves.

[@Alicia-yh6kc]

Less than two dozen casually dressed people, including children in any empty hall is one of the biggest events of the year in this "gypsy" community? Lol.

[@briannaoppong-antwi9702]

Lmaooooo

[@Totalchaos0228]

Right?! No one dresses nice at these parties, just slobby jeans and tees.

[@catrinahartz944]

Its always that way on every one of the coming out parties

[@credendovides20]

I mean, considering that she is taught that the best that she can do in life is being a pretty housewife appreatiated by her family (which would be perfectly ok if it was her choice and not something she is brainwashed into doing), I bet that they are trying to push everything that might feel her be proud of being pretty and appreatiated by her family.

[@devenaleman966]

And it’s mostly children lol

[@kathy8455]

When I saw the personal trainer I lost it 😂

[@tylernewton7453]

I saw them right after I read this

[@solarsky3691]

Right?!!! Like the personal trainer was out of shape. I'm going to be nice maybe the trainer was out of shape because of the pandemic? Wait when was this taped?

[@ga.almu12]

I literally laughed out loud

[@sweetenlemons8659]

@@solarsky3691 maybe she doesn't work out as much due to age, but still has experience with clients? But she doesn't look that old either so who knows.

[@ohmeowzer1]

😂😂 me too

[@vickimorgan8646]

I love the fact the personal trainer isn't a toothpick. She has a body that fits her personality and is realistic for many women. I think a personal trainer like that could be really encouraging for people who are overweight, are looking to become more fit but intimidated by the super skinny super muscular trainers. The show or her Mom did a good job picking this lady.

[@maribart4237]

“A toothpick” Damn it’s funny y’all are okay with shaming skinny women but gasp at the thought of shaming an obese women.

[@Tadpole_Plyrr2]

Hela I agree I’m skinny shamed all the time it hurts my feelings They say all bodies are beautiful but when a fat person cries they say “don’t worry honey you don’t wanna look like a twig anyways!!” You can’t bring someone up by bringing the opposite down this person is an absolute hypocrite

[@vickimorgan8646]

I'm sick to death of walking on eggshells to avoid hurting people's feelings. I've been called a fatass and a twig. I survived both. Grow up.

[@zielle4295]

Just because someone is thin dose not mean there body isn’t realistic If you have a body that is not altered by surgery it’s realistic.

[@zielle4295]

@@vickimorgan8646 we need to grow up because being “thin” is realistic?

[@toya627]

She is such a beautiful young lady. I wanted to cry when she realized how beautiful she is

[@ariperez7766]

"I ordered a milkshake if you dont mind" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂i laughed at that

[@devenaleman966]

“We don’t leave the house without looking the best” *goes to a diner with a hat that says “boss” on it*

[@kaattiieeee1]

I just found this! I'm from York, PA! It's even funnier because that diner is owned be major covid deniers & one of the few restaurants that refused to shut down. & has had a lot of food violations in the past lol so, the shoe fits.

[@frez5282]

PAHAHA

[@tracey7093]

The best looking gypsy makeup and dress so far. This girl is GORGEOUS just the way she is

[@taylorbrown9925]

so unnecessary ^

[@ruannebettnodiva9378]

The best looking gypsy makeup and dress so far. girl is GORGEOUS just the way she is

[@NaturalBeautyyy42]

Thank you I’m the girl in that video 💗

[@Seagullsaredope]

That poor beautiful girl. She seems genuinely sad and upset. I hope her mental health will improve and that she’ll realize that she is beautiful