To those who are starting something new

[@gxmfu]

I admire how much you bring up Emerson. I first heard about him from your videos on life-changing books and I bought his works & now he is by far my favorite writer! He was truly a wise, eclectic mind, and every time I read his writings I tend to contemplate on life's universal truths.

[@acceptingtheuniverse]

Spot on! He is the master.

[@tatianaserguienko1839]

😅

[@aayushi7874]

Which books did you buy?

[@gxmfu]

@@aayushi7874 I bought his compiled works called "essays and lectures"

[@CW-rx2js]

I'm starting my entire life anew... separation from husband, starting business for the first time, in a new country.... Scary

[@mianzainuddin9784]

Making these decisions in themselves are acts of courage, so in some sense you've already faced some of the daunting fears involved in the process. For the ones that may yet come up, you just have to exhibit more of the courage I believe you already have. :)

[@Kosmo999]

Gooo you !!!!!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Thundapus]

Amazing new steps, sounds scary but also very rewarding

[@sayeeda2545]

You will do it with the grace of Almighty... A hollow can't complete hollow. Sending peace to your way.

[@lottajohannesson7662]

How Brave ❤ Wish you all the best 🫶You can do it 💖

[@thegirl150Ebisu]

"If it aligns, good for you. If it doesn't align, also good for you because now you know that it doesn't align. Adapt. Try something new. Do not resent."

[@studyasanadult]

That's kinda what my therapist said to me. To heal my fear of abandonment, she said instead of closing your heart, go ahead and keep "making" your heart broken, but with this new mindset.

[@creepydani8]

"Failing does not mean you are a failure" I needed to hear that today.

[@tcandoit.]

This has arrived on my feed right when I needed it the most. I am about to start my practice and I realised that I am experiencing fear, I had been thinking from the place of fear all this while, which postponed my practice. I want to start from the place of honesty, even if the fear - of failure, of not receiving and being recieved, of success, still resides. I want to believe in doing life despite the fear. My mind and heart needed someone to validate whatever little courage I still hold on to. Starting with nothing, but honesty, and acceptance, I hope I am able to give back without resenting, that's my only plan. To you, to others - who needs it the most like I do, atm. Thank you, for sharing your thoughts, and for existing. Sincerely

[@cbrashsorensen]

I have no idea how I "found" this channel in mid-summer but the topics and logic are profound. Thank you.

[@PrinceJha-fz4cv]

I came across your channel just a few days ago, and I have to say, it’s easily the best one I’ve found on KZbin. I’m a 18-year-old who’s stepped away from society for the past six months to prepare for one of the toughest exams in the world-only 400 out of 1.5 million make it through. And yet, I’ve been enjoying every bit of this journey so much that the outcome no longer matters to me. It’s as if the process itself has become the reward, and because of that, these months of preparation have turned into one of the best periods of my life. Now, I feel completely indifferent to the result, content to immerse myself in what I study, simply for the joy of learning. Your content has made this experience even richer for me, adding value to each step of the way. I just wanted to thank you, Sir, for that. May you find peace and clarity today, and continue to strive to act with wisdom and integrity.

[@mianzainuddin9784]

Your ability to think that way as a teenager is inspiring. I might be coming from a place of ignorance and risking some offense saying that, but I do believe teenage is generally associated with rash thought processes and decisions. Stay committed to the path of self awareness. With an early start, your development won't know any limits. Good luck with your exam!

[@jazzy4164]

JEE Advanced?

[@white6505]

that is a very good mindset to have. i wish you the best outcome for this journey, you becoming better for it. i have also been studying, although with a much more modest goal than yours, and often pray that i am made vetter because of this effort. the biggest pleasure is simply knowing you gave it your best shot.

[@rene9892]

11:18 "adapt, try something new, do not resent"

[@ElitaMaster125]

I can't believe it, your timing is divine, thank you again for your words of calm and wisdom in such troubled times.

[@kabilanbaskaran6813]

There is a stoic technique to say “fate permitting” when we state our desires. Like “I want a promotion, fate permitting”. This makes us acknowledge the impact of externals on our desires on a mindset level. Religions do this with “god willing” and “inshallah”

[@sayeeda2545]

Yeah ..like wise he also talked about submitting to universe ... also we can only se the tiny corner of universe and may or may not match to universal standards and alignment

[@ainslie187]

An Emerson quote that stuck with me: “Society never advances. It recedes as fast on one side as it gains on the other. It undergoes continual changes; it is barbarous, it is civilized, it is christianized, it is rich, it is scientific; but this change is not amelioration. For every thing that is given, something is taken." I mention it here because the temporal world seems fundamentally paradoxical and absurd to me (which is why this quote stuck in my head), and in light of this view I do find it difficult to have expectations to a large extent. I do have expectations and hope for realizing a fuller, more "spiritual" existence (ie. without paradox) at some point but I don't have much hope for that expectation coming to fruition on Earth.

[@aaria2046]

Every single time you appear in perfect synchronization- perfect timing. Thank you. I just started a new job, but it is coming with an entirely new chapter.

[@aaria2046]

I left contact from my dad, lost the entire half side of his family, several pets have died, several people in my outer circle dead- now there's another huge hurricane. (The wars, too). There's so much going on in the world. It's crazy. This is a new age, new chapter, a new page for me.

[@clove6435]

@@aaria2046 i am so sorry about what you have been experiencing, thank fully Milton was Cat2? it was predicted cat5. I moved away couple of years ago from Sarasota, kept getting dreams messages what was to come. Stay strong... and best wishes to your way...

[@aaria2046]

@@clove6435 I'm right there with you, I send the best wishes back. Thank you for taking the time to say something and send good tidings. I really appreciate it. It's been... Hell lately. I'm glad you're safe from the storm.

[@eljor.thesun]

It blows my mind how the divine timing works. This video came up right after I thought that I should quit watching "these kind of videos" on youtube and think for myself. After watching this video, I realized that I don't like the way I was looking at educating myself spiritually and psichologicaly. I can quit watching videos and think for myself, or I can educate myself, but be aware of what resonates with me in the video and take it with me, or I can listen, and if it doesn't resonate, yey, I have heard someone's perspective but here I can think for myself. Both ways I advance. But I prefer educating myself and being in a community,. Wanted to share, fits the theme. Thank you so much for this video. Sensational perspective that I'm taking with me. Can't wait to explore your content!

[@creatorsbootstrapping]

The courage to begin is the first step toward greatness. As Aristotle said, "Well begun is half done." Starting something new is a powerful act that sets the foundation for success. Embrace the unknown, take that leap, and trust in your ability to grow.

[@jessicamcglyn6319]

This is exactly what I have been struggling with lately, but couldn’t describe until this video. Thanks

[@adityakalway]

I stumbled upon your channel randomly one day a few month's back and I haven't not clicked on a video that you post since then. It is very profound, going through some battles inside and figuring stuff out. This really helped. Thanks 🙏🏽

[@MrButt6]

Amid all the random content on social media your videos are always very thought provoking and gives a new perspective every-time.

[@thomasdimes8570]

Good timing as always!

[@LovelyFlipFlops-jl9kl]

I'm always starting something new. Thank you! I hope you have a great night.

[@anushreerai4012]

Loved the quote by Emerson! Although I gotta say that the human delusion/ arrogance was elegantly mocked by "Are you not aware?..." Gosh, the tones are everything. Amazing content!

[@Reflective_Path-vd2st]

One expectation I think we could strive for is that we continue to better ourselves. That we continue to put in the daily process in order to move forward to the things we aspire to learn, experience and perhaps achieve. As the stoics remind us. Having a goal in mind doesn't mean that you'll reach it, but having no goal in mind is certain that you won't. What's important is to not have an attachment to a particular outcome and instead align what you do, with the frequency of what you want to achieve. Thank you for your posts.

[@sayeeda2545]

I am unable to process why every video you post especially from past 3 months I resonate to next level .. ofcourse Almighty is pleased with you that he sent words through you for my peace .. Subhaan Allah. Stay blessed you pure soul. Yeah started reading new book and added few of habits to my routine.

[@mataram9819]

I think the same too ! His video help me a lot, i think Allah just want me to learn Wisdom from him. Allah bless u mr universe Salam from lombok Island, Indonesia.

[@sayeeda2545]

@@mataram9819 Ameen for Mr universe .. May Allah bless you and have peace and mercy upon you!

[@sherrybuckner377]

I am so moved. Thank you for this very deep discussion about expectations and regret. I feel relieved of a burden, perhaps I have been carrying for a long time. I am so grateful.

[@tbunnyshy1]

Its a new chapter in the near future. I am in my 50’s and going to live alone for the first time in my life. I am actively working towards leaving my parents, now that I accept who they really are. Therapy and support groups made all the difference. 🕊️

[@abdallahamza1280]

This is equally true for me as a Muslim, one of the pillars of belief is to believe in fate the good and the bad, to understand that things are not within our control and to submit to God, the creator of the universe and whats in it. The reason being is because if we truly are honest with ourselves as the intelligent creatures we are with consciousness, we can see how absolutely fragile we and our world can be, so we learn to accept blessings and things we took for granted, and become perseverant and patient through difficult times. We all can guarantee we have atleast one tough time scheduled in our life that we have to accept and it's death, why should we create tougher circumstances by trying to reject the idea of things not going our way when perhaps it was meant to go that way for a greater purpose. Innocent civilians who are casualties of war are spoken upon in the highest regard of martyrdom, yet when we see it we can grieve and lose our minds. We have to hold on, take a prayer, and fight for them with our strength to keep moving forward, rather than come to a sudden hault within ourselves. I'm just airing out my mind

[@aminaskejic3810]

Love it!

[@mataram9819]

Lebih baik pernah mencoba walaupun hasilnya tidak serupa seperti yang diinginkan, dari pada hanya berdiam diri dan menyerah di awal. Mengelola ekspektasi ini sangat penting. Seorang pemikir Islam pernah berkata “semakin sedikit hal yang membuatmu bahagia, semakin sedikit juga yang akan membuatmu bersedih” Terimakasih mr universe. Aku selalu menunggu videomu tiap minggu karena merasa videomu sangat membantuku dalam banyak hal. Greetings from Lombok Island, Indonesia.

[@liliannart]

I just recently moved to a new country and have been experiencing so many crazy obstacles and challenges and this video couldn’t have come at a better time. I’ve finally gained clarity, thank you for your wisdom.

[@magickstarot]

The way you're wording this is finally getting through to me lol. Especially the part about starting a business. Weird, it's like I'll run across your vids a few times before I decide to listen. Thank you for the message.

[@Mystic_Paths]

At first, things may feel overwhelming or confusing. You might not see immediate progress, but trust that the small steps add up. Persistence is key. Keep going, and soon you'll look back and realize how far you've come.

[@miceup]

I am starting a new career path and am overwhelmed with worry, feeling scared about it not working out. This video couldn't have come at a better time. Thank you so much.

[@LucidDream]

This video came at an appropriate time in my life. I'm going through many changes lately and I'm starting a new chapter in my life. Thanks for the wisdom.

[@kurmangojin4970]

what a great video I came across with. Just left the band where I've played for 10 years, and now starting to play music on my own. also scary, also got some plans and expectations. That last phrase of the video is something. Thank you!

[@topsi91]

You are so handsome - not just looks wise, but you are smart, deep thinker, you love books as well.. the perfect man.

[@beadld]

I’m starting a new job in several weeks, so this video comes just in time. I’m so grateful to have discovered your channel.

[@Introvert.1s]

Thank you, these words carry the weight of knowledge, wisdom and experience.

[@susmateja]

This came at a perfect time. I will go for an incredibly expensive treatment that only has about a 50% chance of working. On the one hand, I thought, if I have expectations, I will be disappointed when it doesn't work, but on the other hand for a treatment to work it really helps to believe in it (placebo effect etc.), so it didn't feel right to go into the treatment with no expectations. Now I know ❤ thank you so much!

[@jenniferrosebruce6385]

Impeccable timing of this subject matter. I thank you for your attention, once again. Love from Bangkok Thailand😊

[@JeanDelucre2358]

This video is coming to me at the most opportune time. I'm about to turn 40 and thus begin the second half of my life. I will also shortly be returning to school to get my teaching credential with the goal of becoming an educator. I know the road ahead will be full of unexpected turns, speed bumps, failures, and successes. I can't predict the direction of the winds, but I know how to read a compass and how to guide my sails. And with those skills, I trust that I will either achieve this goal of mine I've wanted, or I will be guided by fate to where I am needed. Amor fati.

[@yazan2025]

Your videos keep coming at the right time; it feels that it's in tune with my life story. I just moved to Berlin; I've left everything behind me, and I am starting a new life. I know that in many years I will revisit this comment and admire these tough times that I am going through right now. I truly wish you the best, Many thanks.

[@c.1210]

Not me seeing this exact video whilst having multiple job interviews these weeks to start a new job, in a new country, in a new city, in a new industry 💯

[@suffocator8787]

I am starting law studies, and I am afraid that I might not be intelligent enough for them or that this path might not be right for me. I intend to write down this quote and look at it as often as possible to keep it as my inspiration: 'Are you not aware that you are not allowed to go? If you are not equally willing to be prevented from going.' Thank you.

[@phantompayne8248]

Your timing couldn't be more perfect, thank you

[@relaxationacoustics123]

Great video! Don't forget that failure is actually a part of success

[@drakuzmedia.12]

Your understanding of things and the way you convey stuff is really inspiring!

[@taraleightaracumming6726]

A new life, that’s what I’m starting

[@Ranas-qm8vn]

same

[@PrinceJha-fz4cv]

May you find peace in the journey ahead. Wishing you strength and clarity in all you do

[@ahmadtafesh3913]

Do you know how much of an impact on me I really appreciate the universe that is leading me to your channel. I currently live in war and in economic disaster but your thoughts helping me a lot 🙏

[@MattsFreeChannel1]

Thank you for repeating that Emerson quote, lol. I still don't think I have cracked it. But it feels like something solid. Edit: Having paused. You are now returning to it, perhaps for all of us in the front. (Asking about it, lol.)

[@AshleyvanDyke]

Thank you for another real and heartfelt message

[@foodchainer2722]

Hi. Stop scrolling and focus.

[@jazzy4164]

I love this channel so much and I am learning so much from here. The best channel I subscribed to. I am from the other part of the world but I am so grateful that I am able to share your wisdom due to technology.

[@winsie_w-m6l]

I've recently met someone new and it's been awhile since I've had involvement. So now I'm under the pressure of my own thoughts as to what I think the outcome should be! Overthinking the expectations which leaves me feeling uneasy... instead of just trusting the flow of the experience.,

[@the_twinkling_aishwarya]

☀️

[@acceptingtheuniverse]

Thank you!

[@MrAlekoukos]

wow that last quote, was comforting. Thank you!

[@ceydasu.8]

Perfect timing, thank you ❤

[@melodyvonsmith745]

I've heard a similar idea, expressed as "don't be attached to the outcome." Yes I want this, but the "journey" - be that writing a book, or making a new friend, or starting a business - the act of doing those things, participating in those things, should be its own reward. Interesting and enjoyable. That way, we are going about enjoying ourselves, exploring our universe, and if our desires and expectations do come true it's a bonus.

[@Scarfknitter]

I love this video. So grateful for you 💗

[@geraldineheim6188]

Good day, Thank you so much for this. I understood the meaning at the end. The wisdom in that sentence, thanks.

[@SeekingSikhiStories]

We are allowed to, and should, have ambitions and expectations, and of course opinions (because the two former concepts cannot exist without the latter). However, we need not concern ourselves with the outcomes of such endeavours - if we do our “best” with the resources and knowledge we have at our disposal. The outcomes are ultimately decided by the Universe; whichever name with which you choose to refer to “it.” ✌🏼💜🙏🏼

[@MaybeMazi]

The timing was so right 🙏🏻 thank you

[@renatestephanie]

So there might be a difference between expectations from the soul - they can't fail because even if they "fail" they bring you something, some beautiful lesson to grow. And the ego expectation - you'll fail and you are so focused on failing that you lose the self and the soul. You probably stop that path straight after, because you reject yourself. So people without expectations/goals feel right, because there is no ego. But there is also not a soul, because the soul DOES have passion and passion = fire = a expectation/goal. Okay just some thoughts. Thanks for the video.

[@abigailgeorge2683]

The question I am left with now, is the thinker a poet? If a person is an intellectual, can they be a poet too? For me, it is easy to say a poet has something to say but an intellectual too has something to say, but albeit an intellectual has something to say all the time. The intellectual knows rather when to ask a question, when to leave things unsaid and the intellectual is an effective listener. The video leaves me with a question and the answer usually is to read further and to figure things out on my own. How splendid is that? The apprentice in action, as well as the genuine action of teaching. The action of you making these videos, you are doing service. You are doing God's work. You are bringing a community of people together for the greater good, for the betterment of society. Your aims make my aims possible now. Aims I never had or envisioned for myself before I started watching your videos. You are making a positive contribution to society and influencing others to do the same. You are also influencing us to read more and to think deeply.

[@arieblock2337]

Just when I needed this most, you uploaded it. Thank you my friend

[@loreley3126]

„Und jedem Anfang wohnt ein Zauber inne , der uns beschützt, und der uns hilft zu leben…“ ✨(Hermann Hesse) „And there is a magic in every beginning that protects us and helps us to live.“

[@Diya-ht2ue]

Isn't it natural to expect a little care & love..honesty & trust in return if they claim a special place in my heart? I remember i cried my heart out everytime my dad forgot to wish me on my birthday.. i felt hurt. Because i expected? Of course i will.. i don't wanna overburden anyone with a lot of expectations but we can't deny the little things of life affect us. I consoled myself thinking may be he is getting older.. but i know he loves me a lot. After thinking like this in every situation whether it's my dad or friends or anyone i believe i've learnt to respond better. But i cry alone & just pretend it's alright 😂 Bdw i have just started reading a book called "Nausea" by Jean Paul Sartre. As i always say, your videos are so effective & inspiring. I hope you know that. Thank you 😊

[@SoyYoLot]

I needed to hear this because I am angry, resentful and sad about the fact that I only wanted my elderly mother and I to have one of the best times of our lives by taking her to her first international trip to Europe but it ended badly because a month before our trip she had a mini stroke that led her to become disabled. I still pushed for it so on our second week she broke her hip when I left her waiting for thirty minutes. It never occurred to me that someone disabled was still going to break a bone! I lost her 4 months after her operation.

[@OtetsYazikov]

I decided to found a New Cristian Religion to make a lot of money and live the life I always wanted. I've been learning latin, greek and hebrew to make a beautiful and impressive figure quoting the Scriptures in their original and incomprehensible articulations. This is my life project now!

[@seabreeze4559]

spirituality doesn't make money

[@DataWiseStrategies]

Thank you.

[@margaridavelhinho1618]

Encontrei o seu canal há poucos dias e já vi muitos dos seus vídeos. A sua calma e o modo claro como expõe as suas ideias, para além da sabedoria nelas encerrada, é uma grande ajuda para nós. Neste caso respondem precisamente a uma situação pela qual passo. Obrigada novamente.

[@DavidB.Fischer]

Our anger stems from past trauma, perhaps. Also our angers reflected by our own experience and different situations with others, but it’s not necessarily how we feel, but our feelings are valid. We just don’t know how to express them at times.

[@AnabreseNeuman]

Its a good point, we can give things our best shot but some things are not meant to be, and perhaps we are being redirected, like the saying, 'rejection is god's protection' - but no matter what we aim for, we are always further on, more expanded and having learned many lessons on the way.

[@unchaineduniverse369]

Very insightful message! I concur much. Expectations, risks and allowance is a solid foundation for the journey called life. Appreciate the share.

[@oriolvinasalvarez646]

Accepting the universe's universal standard helps us progress, whether our plans succeed or not.

[@sbe000]

Well said, should have high expectations and also assess the worst case scenario. And this is life

[@ITcourage369]

Thank you for sharing the wisdom in this video!

[@CDavine]

I believe the quote was from Viktor Frankl. The message from the video was very inspiring and helpful.

[@margaretmcgregor5686]

I love this one philosophy man - i haven't read Emerson yet but that quote is mind blowing! I wonder how many writers i can be reading at the same time? Seneca and Marcus Aurelius provide immediate results and I have begun Epictetus this week since I am on the second reading of Aurelius. It's a whole new world. I will be forever grateful to you philosophy man 😊 from Scotland

[@MatcDesiGn]

I just got a dog to take care of, and it is as scary as it is fullfilling

[@margaridavelhinho1618]

I big thank you from Portugal.

[@oneyedeagle]

Are you aware that you are not allowed to go if you’re not equally willing to be prevented from going. This one will stick with me, thanks for sharing this amazing quote by Emerson

[@Chrisoric]

Your videos are incredible! Thank you! I'm gonna continue to advance towards advancement now.

[@babenabe5849]

I love your views and I'm so glad I found your channel

[@elmarnigmatullin4490]

Thanks for your words Disney Prince. Right on time.

[@Atomicbubble1]

View it as “if it did not work, it is either not meant for me right now, or not at all, and that is completely ok” Edit - you said this exact thing as I finished this comment. The universe is funny.

[@mianzainuddin9784]

Quite extraordinary! I'm taking a big risk chasing a dream, and this grounded as well as motivated me. Even if I 'fail', I'll still end up somewhere on the path. Also, if anyone could elaborate a bit on 'the universal standard', it'd clear up things for me even more, even though I feel I get the gist of it.

[@MrBboyle1]

One can still have goals and ambitions without expectations (i.e. without being attached to the outcome)

[@DLG24]

Thank you for this message.

[@Mathias_Beaufort]

I agree with you.

[@lizaa_sarkar]

Thank You 🤍

[@matteodecesare]

Have you ever thought about publishing a book? I believe everyone here would be more than happy to read it

[@hystericaltears]

“you will advance or advance towards advancement.” ill keep this in my mind…

[@RupertMcGruber]

Have expectations, but don't be attached to particular outcomes.

[@choose1game]

God bless him

[@ayyyowill2803]

Perfect timing once again

[@lilmermaid5239]

Thank you ❤

[@productanalysis5291]

Silence. Time for wisdom. Will press start now.

[@joshuadedokun]

could someone give an explanation of the Emerson quote? "Are you not aware that you are not allowed to go if you are not equally willing to be prevented from going?" i have a very surface-level understanding, but i'm not grasping the deeper meaning.

[@Imperfect_Ambition]

I don't have much to add except that I would like to thank you

[@thelazyhead]

Just watched your video and became your fan love from India 🇮🇳

[@7lexanderp634]

Thanks for providing the links to the seneca letters on the newsletter 😁

[@hanabanana7999]

This is surprisingly a good advice