Toddler Emotional Regulation

[@normaowens7340]

My granddaughter is 9. When she was a little thing she pinched her finger so i took her into the kitchen to run it under cool water. I then took my hand and rubbed some water down her face and she said all better. If she comes over and is having a tough time she will look at me and say please wet my face. I take her in the kitchen and use my hand to rub cold water on her face. She uses that to reset. No matter what it is Grandma can make it better if after all of it i splash water on her face.

[@ChiefHerzensCoach]

a sweet little ritual of comfort - she will remember it all her life. beautiful!

[@Healingwithzo]

Wonderful

[@nikisherwood6146]

Use your words and give them options , just beautiful momma bear ❤

[@gailhitson7340]

It's great to see someone teach their little ones how to calmly deal with matters and without covering it over with laughter. One can be considerate and caring, without over doing the whole thing.

[@420doggolover5]

Your little ones are really beautiful. You're such a great Mama. Hardest, most rewarding job. We wouldn't change it for the world. 🥰

[@livjowen]

So true! And thank you so much! 💖

[@tammyyoung3808]

You're literally helping me with my 4 yr old grandson. Hes showing a lot of emotions lately and this is great momma, thanks!! ❤

[@livjowen]

Thank you for sharing! Wishing you all the best for you and your grandson 🙌❤️

[@nafisasoosiwala3257]

He just needed a hug first

[@goodmorning713]

I'm surprised he didn't want the band-aid.. my kids will do anything for a band-aid. Lol

[@natanoodle3303]

Aw this made me want to cry! You're a wonderful mom!!! Thanks for sharing, i dont have kids but this is very helpful!

[@margaretpoirrier9725]

Best mom in the world. Wish I had her for an example when I had my first child. I didn't understand my own emotions much less hers.

[@tonilehman6254]

Such a loving,patient and caring mom❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@phebienewman819]

What an amazing young mum raising up real men for our brokenmen world

[@ritarose4463]

This is adorable ❤️

[@user-np9wx5ne5y]

You are such a great mom. Keep doing great at your job because when your kids grow up they will be respectful people because of how you guys raise them. You help them solve their problems in such a beautiful way

[@sharonp4446]

He has heart of gold with such tenderness too. Thank you for knowing how truly precious children are always

[@tinamau8524]

Great mom that was so loveing he still baby also and young baby comes along your day will get easier and they grow up so fast .❤😊

[@lilycool2601]

I love your style of upbringing n so much patience n love for all your children. Your teaching gives me inspiration to how to handle my grandson. Thank you.

[@livjowen]

Thank you for such kind words and your support. I wish the best for you and your family 🙌❤️

[@karenligus8224]

I love this, especially how his brothers stop to check on him!! Great job Mama!! ❤

[@cindymoss2959]

He brought him the blankie

[@angellahunt4097]

Your creating loving brothers first which is great but to teach them skills for life even better great job momma

[@weragalagesunilabeyratne3369]

God bless all of your family ❤❤❤

[@elenatramsti5176]

What sweet children. I 'm learning a lot from these videos.

[@livjowen]

Thank you! Glad they can help ❤️

[@danielapastorio2295]

A mum loving her sons and present every moment

[@user-wi7ht7sv6o]

Good mum ❤

[@beckydennis6591]

I think he wants some Mama cuddles and maybe some one-on-one time. I feel like sometimes they just need to be a baby

[@MaryBethKissel]

He just needed a little attention, which often happens with a lot of kids around.

[@sunukakaas6323]

You know I am scared to have kids. But you give me comfort in you being a mother. A wonderful mother. Thanks for being open to post. And thanks for helping me with having kids in the future. ❤

[@SLEMPY273]

Wish I grew up with this kind of momma love ❤. So beautiful to watch.

[@HeartsSkinCare]

You’re such a good mom❤❤❤

[@dlabit527]

Being a good mother is hard work.

[@stephanievega939]

The other little baby like, “here mom I got my clothes too help me!”😂

[@milomoore9450]

I love how the other little boys respectfully ' just get on with things' when the other boy needs (or commands) attention. They understand their brother and give him his moment. Ms. M. Moore USA 🇺🇸

[@tbadiyi]

This is crucial. Bravo. And it’s not only what you said, it’s also your body language . You’re staying grounded,atuned and compassionate allows you to physically co regulate with him. Children do not have the capacity to regulate their emotions.

[@amandacartwright5324]

I study human behavior and I just have to tell you how much I appreciate what you are doing. One of the biggest mistakes a parent can make is to teach their children to be emotional WITHOUT teaching them how to regulate those emotions. Parents often ignore teaching them how to REGULATE because it takes effort and sometimes can be frustrating. However skipping this crucial step can result in adults who are emotionally unstable, create Narcissistic behaviors, and lead to addiction. You are doing a FABULOUS job with your family. Thank you for sharing your journey and allowing people to see the difference it makes

[@emmamilford3264]

Awes what a very sweet loving mom she is..If only all moms can be like this..

[@michellemoore4677]

I love your way of parenting .It's so gentle,kind,and teaching them skills to cope with this worrld.Thanj you.

[@user-bw7rd8nm9s]

Your child seems to have an issue speaking. Perhaps that’s part of his frustration

[@joannemullennix2021]

Beautiful children. Beautiful mother. Beautiful life

[@merrim7765]

Calm, not rushed. Patient, not worried about a schedule. Present for them. The time will fly by and they'll be poised and well-adjusted.

[@choonheejung607]

He is learning how to express his emotions from his mom.

[@KellyDonovan-ps9xt]

Hello there, I just wanted to say I just got completely mesmerized and entertained as well as just some great recaps for me to think about and do things differently now that I am a grandmother I give you a standing ovation and how you handle and manage your children, especially those little boys and their Temper tantrums and trying to understand their emotions so I just wanted to say good job. Hopefully you already know that but you know just like you touched on one video for some reason I don’t know why women don’t stand behind other women and give women more praise and having a woman’s back or standing up for a woman or just giving compliments and saying great job for some reason, as you know, we are both aware so many women it’s easier for them to try to cut another woman down or say a negative comment and I just wanna say I really enjoyed literally I think I just sat here for about 2 1/half hours watching one video after another and dumb I can’t sit here all night but maybe this weekend I will come back and watch some more. You’re an amazing mother and your kids are beautiful and thanks for entertaining me tonight with your family and also helping me to relearn how to do situations when it comes to the little humans, so that I’m much better prepared this time as a grandmother take care and be blessed

[@UncleYoshi]

You got 3 little boys... that's a lot to handle. We need more moms like her 🥰👍🏻

[@socheataloch9177]

You are such a great mom. God bless your family

[@lulazeta8965]

This mom is sooo wrong…she wants her kids to hide or kill their emotions to only show happy … to fake happy, as though other emotions are wrong

[@roderickstansbery3910]

Gentle love ❤

[@user-wx4us6tt1k]

Great Job mama😊

[@TruthSeeker0413]

Your little boy reminds me of my son so much, I hope im as good a parent as you are when he's that age :-)

[@trishervin3331]

Oh my ... A house full of baby boys!!! ❤ 😮😮😮😅😅😅😅

[@user-yi5ku6fu7c]

Your such a good mom. I'm glad you post these videos to help other parents learn how to deal with our little ones!!! Way to go Hun... keep it up ❤❤❤❤

[@tajat866]

Oh, little baby was offering his blanket 🥱

[@DDoBF2042]

GREAT MOTHER

[@ashleyodonnell7133]

It made me cry

[@SomeOne-xr7xu]

I think it’s cutely funny how your other children are around you holding their clothes waiting for you to dress them😂💜💜

[@MOONCHASER64]

You could teach a lot of parents how to talk to and respect their children. Your children will grow up with great morals and respect. Great job 👏 ❤

[@user-ym3no3ve9t]

They are all so adorable!😊

[@kerrieboughton53]

I love the way you talk to your baby your a great mum🎉😂❤

[@stellawynia9542]

I love your parenting skills. Your amazing ❤

[@reviewmama6908]

River offering his blue blanket for comfort ❤

[@MrsPJane]

I think you're a very good mother I wish mine was as good as you all my life my mother told me she hated my guts

[@Provocateur193]

Good mumma❤

[@courtneycottage1986]

Stop putting your crying child on youtube for the whole world to see. He deserves privacy just as much as anyone else.

[@annika4532]

Thank you! I was thinking the same and looked in the comments if I was the only one.. I would be terrified if videos like this existed of me on the internet!

[@spankyworth5852]

Validation can heal a lot of situations. ❤

[@lindarose8668]

Beautiful God bless you all❤️‍🩹

[@barbaradorsey5818]

I love her😊😊😊❤

[@casseyreed5323]

Great job mom!!!

[@livjowen]

Thank you!!

[@perhubunganawamikmar752]

Very inspirational parenting to compare to my own parents…with my own little family this is the way…

[@lindareiswig4436]

Great Mom...

[@funnygirlever]

You're an awesome mom! ❤

[@Shumailaandleeb-he8fl]

You're Super mom ❤️

[@nuttibuddy]

So sweet how the other two are patiently waiting for her to help them dress. They could be whining too and aren't. 😊

[@leahkeefe6510]

This is only the 2md time I've seen this mom and son. This is the same way I was with my children, and never said "because I said so". As adults when we don't know what's going on, or don't understand nobody responds to us that way. An explanation is deserving of everyone, no matter the age. Learning to show respect for others is something from age 2-80. I taught my children consequences. If they made a poor choice I didn't think was the best way, but I still let them make decisions after I explained the consequences. Always used positive reinforcement, and they both turned out to be very successful!

[@alinalatysheva6514]

Beautiful parenting skills! Thank you for sharing your experience! By the way , what song is playing in the end of this video?

[@Khaleesi_Of_Kittens]

What a cutie. ❤

[@bubbles8741]

Wonderful mama bear. ❤

[@patriciaelvirapugacastro3364]

great job Mom...

[@julia.carr1129]

My daughter is TERRIFIED of bandaids. She relates them to shots because she gets bandaids at the doctors office with her vaccines so we have to offer her a baby wipe or tissue to hold on the wound. She'll use bandaids on her dolls when she gives them shots tho so trust me they get used 🤣😭

[@tieshahamilton9048]

I wonder what she tells her dolls when giving them shots lol. 😂

[@julia.carr1129]

@@tieshahamilton9048 she used to comfort her dolls like her dad did when she was a toddler. Cuz my husband would cuddle her and wipe her tears away but she stopped liking that cuz she "wasn't a baby anymore" Now her dad gives her a high five and after each one and goes "1 down one down 2 to go" (or however many she's getting) and then takes her to get ice cream. So she just comes and asks me to get her baby ice cream. I have to religiously remind her that babies "can't have" ice cream but they can have their bottle. She will just violently shove the bottle in the dolls mouth like "shhhh you can have ice cream remember?" 🤣🤣 Shes learning how to be gentle and use nice hands 😭🤷🏻‍♀️

[@tieshahamilton9048]

@@julia.carr1129 Oh wow, this is waayyy better than I imagined, lol!! 😆😂🤣I was trying to conjure up memories from when I was a toddler and how I tried to convince my stuffed animals to take their shots, it was a lot of shushing and it's ok but never any treats after. I'm glad this video and your comment came across my stream. It added a much needed stream of sunlight to the day. 😊😄

[@julia.carr1129]

@@tieshahamilton9048 I'm glad it gave you a smile 😁 everyone could definitely use more of that for sure ❤️

[@user-mc4tk5ye8h]

Excellent!

[@JLD1960]

you are sn amazing mom almost PERFECT ❤

[@joannoluigbo8908]

I was 22 yrs old, i went with my boyfriend family to greenbrier state park in boonesboro md, we all having a ball, i was stung by a 🐝 on my finger i started crying the ranger came , my first time being stung, it took me 1/2 hour to calm down, I'm very dramatic, i feel his pain, great mom 👩

[@patriciascholze4014]

Good job

[@s0846856]

Maybe he's crying because his mum records him almost naked and puts it on the internet for millions to see🤷 but what do I know...

[@s0846856]

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[@annika4532]

Exactly! Terrifying!

[@lol69970]

That's definitely not why. A kid that young will not care.

[@rebeccaharris4444]

I love this ❤

[@avigaildaniel2826]

Good mam ❤

[@JoanTarpley-hx9sh]

Most parents don't have all day to coddle.

[@bluebird3042]

I like that 😊❤

[@KimmieArgyshev]

I am going to be honest, when I saw a video of you while scrolling I thought: “Great another parent with their gentle parenting BS, this is why young people today can’t handle anything in real life”. Yesterday and today more of your video’s popped up, and I have to admit that I was SO wrong and far to judgmental. I think it’s amazing the way you teach your children to use their words instead of emotions. You giving them options gives them a sense of control. These kiddos have an amazing mom. ❤.

[@livjowen]

Thank you for taking the time to share this! It's kind of scary to open up on social media, especially when you're showing those vulnerable moments, but I really hoped this message would resonate. Being a mom is something I truly cherish, and I've come to realize there's no one-size-fits-all approach. I try to incorporate elements from various parenting styles-gentle, permissive, authoritative, conscious, you name it-because I believe parenting doesn't have to be all negative. Thank you for your kind words and support! 😊💖

[@lcvb1624]

Being overtired sucks for babies and grown ups.❤️

[@anitacarvalho9835]

Appreciate you cool momma😊

[@tehilovely]

❤❤❤

[@gwendolynalbert4341]

She keeps asking him what he wants. There is a fine line between helping him and encouraging his bad behavior. I don't see the other kids doing that. No even the baby? I read the comments and everyone thinks this just so wonderful? It is not! It is enabling.

[@Jules-yb1ng]

Aw be still my heart 💜 God bless you all in Jesus name amen 🌹🙏🌹✨🌹 such a beautiful family 🌹✨

[@carmencintado5378]

Tres niños casi iguales........que paciencia.

[@user-cz2lf2et4g]

No one ever taught me how to regulate emotions so after abuses happened I disassociated n then found drugs so numb is where I stayed crazy right

[@robinr.9007]

😘💕

[@MrOlgarius]

Pull out guys . Stay safe... ;))

[@roderickstansbery3910]

Super mom

[@lindagillespie8040]

Maybe a min. Or 2 1 on 1 comforting

[@user-pm2ro1fi2p]

she alwyas gives River his blanky to calm down and he tryed to give it to Hudson

[@rosas7134]

❤

[@MrWalt1977]

Did these kids sign releases?

[@gaelikelso3830]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@FuatAkbal]

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