TOLULOPE AND GBEMIGA ADEJUMO "MOTHERS' NIGHT" WEDDING CEREMONY: Traditional PREPARATION OF the bride

Team Solutions,
This is my NIGERIAN traditional bridal preparation.
You all are probably wondering where I have kept this all along...LOL. I'm wondering myself but better late than never right?
Editing this was so emotional for me and I'm so happy to share this with you. There's one more intimate ceremony in the archives, I'll share if this video gets to 1M views haha (that's because I'm looking for an excuse not to actually publish that one lol). xo
“Charm is deceitful and beauty is vain but a woman who fears the LORD shall be praised”
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[@That_Priscilla_]

Sincerely, you are the reason why I'm living my teenage years without wanting to entertain any kind of PURPOSELESS relationship. I hope for a mother-in-love like this and I pray God grants me as I decide to wait on him.. May you and pastor gbemiga not have any cause to know a better yesterday!! I love you plenty!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@preciousogbonna4877]

Lord Jesus as I have watched this and celebrated with her, may my own celebration come soon in Jesus name

[@ojestyrejoice]

Amen

[@joyjohnson1197]

Amen

[@tutublossom8545]

Amen

[@popoolac]

Amen

[@gloriousglory8833]

AMEN

[@omoniketijani6305]

How I wish my mother is alive to do this for me on my wedding day😥 wept seriously while watching this😥 felt so emotional seeing mother’s praying for their daughter 🙏 Tolulope am so happy for you🙏 may God continually bless your marriage 🙏

[@JADESOLA22]

I cried knowing you wore the same dress your mum wore for your naming. This is my first time of seeing something like this and i must say it's beautiful

[@amakaalua5288]

So emotional... I was literally crying all through the prayers. I pray for a mother in love like yours. Since I'm an orphan, I pray for parents in love that will love me like theirs 😢😢😭😭

[@valentinatoluwalase182]

I never for once taught there was something like this. The fact that traditions like this is still in practice is so amazing. Your home is blessed sis. You will enjoy your marriage to fullest by the grace of God in good health and good fruits.

[@elvinyuniwoh5029]

I use to wonder why Nigerians do traditional weddings so serious and massive. After seeing this I say I can’t blame them It makes a lot of sense

[@estherafolabi6083]

Wow... I can't believe I'm a Yoruba girl but I have never seen or heard of anything like this before. This is fantastic and strange😅😅

[@tutublossom8545]

This is beautiful. I’m not Yoruba but in my place, I believe what is similar is called “fatting room”. The girl will go to her mothers place and be there for months to the wedding, she’ll eat and enjoy spa treatments and advice (all kinds of advice). Culture is beautiful. We must preserve it.

[@Dupesvlog]

This video is going to have one of the highest views on this channel 😅

[@deborahbalogun5982]

I want this for my mother. I so much love Yoruba culture. Some songs just have a way of resetting your sense. Your home is always bless.

[@morinomopariola]

I love the part FFA said I will offend you and you will offend me but I forgive you in advance😍.......deep truth coming from a godly MIL❤

[@asaahprecious07]

Tolulope please if it’s okay can you do a video explaining why this Mother’s night and what it is about for those of us who don’t know??? It looked soo beautiful

[@uzonduchinyere1092]

As I've watched and celebrate you Mrs. Tolulope Adejumo, mine will come soon in Jesus mighty name. Amen

[@akumagbairene4287]

Tell me why I stumbled on this and why I am watching this at 12:28am and I'm balling my eyes out. We pray when it is our time, our own will be sweet too 🙏.

[@olamideolaide2483]

Wow! Didn't know there was a thing called Mothers night. This is a great event. The prayers from the mothers is so beautiful to watch. Your home is indeed blessed.

[@debbieoputah1630]

Yes we have mothers night the main reasons for mothers night is the advice giving by our lovely elderly mothers.Also l love what tolulope mother in law said that we are both human l will offend you and you will offend me we all have to forgive each other.She was very open.Pls do not watch these video for the fun of it try and learn something out of it example forgiveness in marriage it very powerful. A grandmother once said she has married for 70 years,she was asked what the secret behind it she said prayers and forgiveness.May the almight God bless your family and give you more wisdom, knowledge and understanding tolulope you are a good instrument of God these is path of your calling because you are touching many lives all over the world.Also there are so many quite people that do not comment .Am one of them it the spirit of God that touch my heart to comment after 4years of watching your post. I also love what your mother in said, they've being pray to God for a God fearing daughter in law that will give them peace no matter how rich you are it is only God that can give you a God fearing and peacefull daughter in law and son in law.Please let us all learn something out of these video prayers,advices from our elderly mothers,forgiveness,love etc.God bless your family.

[@seyiakenroye6761]

I cried watching this video..my mum is late and I have always wished she was celebrated on my wedding day.i wanted a big celebration because of her,I miss her so much

[@seyiakenroye6761]

@tolulope solutions,I will like you to be my mentor.my life really need someone like you, especially now that my parents are no more

[@BlessingOpatewa]

I bless God for bringing me back here to watch this. Watched this video when it was uploaded and God led me here again today. While watching, I found myself praying in tongues. Not sure if I was praying for myself or Tolu mama but I’m generally thankful for the time of prayer 🙏🏼 Solutions mama. You’ve been a tremendous blessing to me. A reminder for the need to fulfill purpose in Christ. I’m now Blessing Opatewa anyway ‘cause I got married 3 months ago to an absolutely amazing man. Almost forgot the blessing of marriage because of distractions here and there. So, I believe The Holy Spirit brought me again here to remind me of how blessed I am with my husband and his family. I hope to see you some day if Jesus tarries. Love and blessings to you and your family. I hope you read this ❤️

[@sarahmakena5936]

We never get to see this part of the wedding. I’m so grateful that you shared this moment. I didn’t even know that they did this in the yoruba tradition. I’m marrying into a yoruba family from Edo and I’m very excited for the union of our cultures in love. We have so much in common, I’ve always wanted to marry a yoruba man because I love their culture, just as much as I love my Edo culture.

[@TheSavedWoman]

Awww!

[@josseeo171]

Both her mum and mother-in-law look like sisters and Tolulope in turn looks like them. BEAUTIFUL❤️😘🥰💋

[@diamonduche1]

I am speechless. Thanks so much Tolu for sharing this. This is my first time of ever seeing a mothers night. This is far better than a bridal shower. God bless your home.

[@anne-marieo.882]

I’m literally in tears especially when you were all singing for your mum. Yoruba culture is so beautiful 😍

[@conversationswithdes3720]

Woooow this is so beautiful, I had no idea that this was actually a thing. This is the best way to send one off to glory, marriage and motherhood. May God continually protect and empower us all. God bless your home solutions mama. Your mum prayed for this day, and oh she prepared. She will live to enjoy and benefit from her labor of love & reap the fruits of her labor. She will NEVER know lack. It will forever be well with her and all that’s connected to her. She will rejoice over everyone of your sisters and her entire lineage. God will answer her innermost prayers speedily in the Mighty and Matchless name of Jesus. Amen🙏🏾

[@overcomersshow1963]

I don't know that this type of traditional wedding still exist. Thanks for keeping our culture. Thanks for sharing with us, absolutely beautiful 💕

[@gloriousglory8833]

LORD PLS REMEMBER ME 🙏🙏🙏🙏CONGRATULATIONS

[@mibikolapo7483]

If there is one blessed person I know, it is Tolulope Adejumo .

[@oguntolaoluwaseyi2213]

I concur

[@ewurasspace8711]

I will definitely watch this video again The night before my wedding I cried You will always be my role model and the woman I desire to be in God❤❤

[@justme123456100]

I didnt know we have this in yoruba land. I appreciate and love all the mothers for their advise. My younger sister and i ,didn't have this during our marriage. My twin girls must go through with this. I love our rich yoruba culture😍🥰😇🙏

[@KardiBeTVroyalty]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ All I see is unity, love, respect, humility, generation, history and beautiful stories. Just as stated, the older women should teach the younger women. God bless our families 🙏

[@kosemaniadegbenro9115]

So true. Amen

[@adegbuluomolara1924]

I was nt aware we yorubas do this...but this is amazing ♥️ and I'm definitely going to this also🥰

[@oluwatomisinhephzibah743]

Wooowwww!!! Your mum kept the dress she wore for your naming! This is so so wonderful. She must have known you're a destiny child

[@emmadebbtv7805]

......And to say the bride was wearing the clothes her mother wore for her naming ceremony,it is just too wow.

[@Thelmaworlasi05]

Sooo much love for culture🥺❤❤❤seeing that the wrapper you wore was worn by your mum when you were being named is sooo emotional 🥺❤

[@ayoolaoluwasina3339]

This is the most emotional video have ever watched in my entire life. God pls give me a baby girl to celebrate her traditionally like this. Congratulations Tolulope ( my corner mate @ F.G.G.C. AK)

[@LadedeO]

So beautiful! I'm Yoruba but I've never heard or witnessed this part of my culture! I'm definitely doing this for my daughter! It's so rich, deep, and precious!!! God bless your home mama Sols!

[@happylee2297]

Even after few years Tolulope is still a blessing and a virtuous woman I can Testify to that. She is industrious and a good woman

[@abiolaomotunde4808]

Wow ...this really got me in my feelings as my wedding is in 2weeks time 🤗

[@susangift8794]

Congratulations!!

[@purple100s]

Awesome, I didn’t know this aspect of getting ready for marriage existed in our Yoruba culture. We live and learn. I loved it thoroughly, very vibrant, rich and educative.👍🏾

[@justme123456100]

Me too

[@ijoseph4276]

I watch this video on my knees,just speaking tongues🙏🙏🙏 God please do my own👑👑👑The blessing of the LORD maketh rich and added no sorrow👑👑👑🙏🙏🙏More blessings💝😘💜I LOVE YOU ,thank you for being a GOOD EXAMPLE😘

[@iamjustclaudius]

Amen

[@billionairejumzietopbabe3304]

As you have declared, so shall God do it for you . Amen 🙏

[@idayatjimoh4110]

Watching dis in 2023❤️ May my own celebration come soon IJN

[@iam_princess6196]

Wawuuu this is what they call ijinle Asa, buh many of Nigerians have forgotten their culture, this is platform that I can also learn from and do this also. I love you personally, PG issa lucky bobo you knw

[@tayoolafenwa199]

Am so emotional seeing this.... don't even know where the tears came from, just rolling down my cheeks continuously. May God continue to bless your marriage Tolu and Gbenga.

[@oluseyiagbaje5488]

Tolulope, your mum is so humble.

[@olusolaosasona6821]

Sincerely from the bottom of my heart i love this pre wedding program. I was full of tears while watching it and i used it to pray for my only daughter that she would also experience such a honour and love from her mother in law.

[@ibironkeosinowo9632]

I can't stop crying, someone get the buckets, please. Girl, you're blessed, and the God will surely bless this union.

[@olamidetosin9609]

Nnmmmmm kl

[@faithpeace5093]

Tolulope's mum is an amazing mum. Very humble. Wow! This is so emotional oooo

[@ellakay977]

This atmosphere is so filled with blessings . So many significant things that should be adopted by us all women. My fav is when Rev.Funke Adejumo, your mom and you were joined together in prayer and love . Thank you Aunt Tolu for allowing us into your home to learn so many things. You will keep shining and reap all the blessings said on this day

[@kosiifionu2669]

I tap into the blessing of being married into a United family. God continue to bless your home in Jesus name, Amen🙏🏻

[@orebeable]

One of the most beautiful video's I've ever watched, I had no idea this was even apart of our culture. The way your in laws love you is amazing, you are truly blessed beyond measure. May God almighty continue to keep your home in perfect peace in Jesus name. ♥️♥️ ❤️❤️

[@Heyybukola]

This is so emotional and thoughtful, wives-mothers coming to bless a bride such depth!!...I never knew something like this happens.Your home us forever blessed solutions.Amen

[@donatusmercy9503]

I'm definitely going to adopt this style when getting married by God's grace😭😭😭

[@johnomoruan]

I love the simplicity of this union. God bless. Even the two mummies look like twin sisters.

[@Lade.A1]

the richness of the yoruba culture is beyond me! so emoshhh ❤.

[@topetilewa6229]

There is nothing compared to mother’s love😭😭😭😭😭😭 Mummy mi you will live long to witness your girls marry

[@oladejiibukun9761]

sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo emotional. God i was teary eyed throughout the video.Thanks for sharing with us. i key into this for my daughter that they will marry into a loving and godly family where they will be accepted and celebrated as daughters and not daughter in law. it will be a lovely concept for send forth from the bride's mother and family. Thank you Mama Solution. More wine in your home.

[@listermbarga4844]

Watching this now and wish I was Yoruba just for this.... just imagining all this women coming together to pray for you. This is beautiful

[@achizichatt6007]

But seriously, why was I crying throughout while watching this video? This is so beautiful This is pure This is absolute love Your home is forever blessed in Jesus name. Amen.

[@VanessaWilliams_]

I must enjoy my marriage

[@timilehinolatunji6812]

Hmmmm I will enjoy my marriage as the Lord liveth, I will not marry wrong. The sweetness of marriage shall not elude me ijnamen

[@julietambali]

Your mum is such a jewel. So humble.

[@ajokeshobukola8565]

As am watching dis right now pple should gather and celebrate with me too in jsn

[@jusarray3404]

That part with your mom... Left me emotional... Nice blog... Yoruba culture is lite!

[@ProvidenceFred]

Lol i watched this like twice. Really beautiful. I love weddings. I pray that all the good prayers and words these amazing women spoke into your household will continue to manifest IJN.

[@olatunjioreoluwa491]

It’s Besha’s look for me 😂😂. Gurl has turn to a slay mama now. But seriously that was so beautiful and emotional to watch.❤️

[@Dupesvlog]

As in eh 🤣🤣😂😂😂 She looked so different

[@fadeke_]

Wow, Even as a Yoruba woman, I’ve never heard or seen this ceremony before but its quite emotional and unique❤️ Love it❤️

[@fadeke_]

I guess This is quite close to the singles night we do in church before the wedding. I guess this is the mother’s version . Still love it 💃lemme keep watching

[@fafakpodo3697]

I think maybe the Adejumos are royal,that's why

[@LizzyDiaryVlogs]

Same here ma

[@girlwomangod5946]

Me too o

[@teeyvlogs]

This is Beautiful ❤️ ❤️... Glad you had it covered🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@talabimary3356]

Aunty Tolu. I love you I love you I love a million times. I cried in between watching. I really admire this culture. I love this family of God ❣️🤩❣️❣️

[@oloritech804]

Tears flowed, of joy - I’m so proud of my Ondo culture most especially how God was the center of this glorious occasion. ❤️

[@okonkwoijeomaj838]

I received my blessings by watching this today in Jesus mighty name Amen Amen Amen

[@uchechukwu7904]

This is a beautiful culture. Coming from ibo tribe I have always admired yoruba culture it's beautiful. I wish igbo's will incorporate this in their traditional marriage rite to give the young brides blessings as their go into their marriage . This is beautiful

[@deezame]

So nice that you got to wear the outfit your Mum wore for your naming ceremony. Very touching

[@chizomaofoegbu8740]

WOW! WOW! WOW!, Nne, I am super happy for you. You married the right man from the right family and Home. And in all your videos, TRUE LOVE reflects so deeply amongst you. My Prayer is that Your videos will heal and continually heals and restore BROKEN Marriages in Jesus Name.

[@chiesoobikpo3716]

This is so beautiful. I love the Yoruba culture. I am Igbo but I spent my first 10-11 years in Ibadan and Lagos. Yorubas are like my extended relatives. Indeed, Charm is deceptive and beauty is vain, but the woman that fears the Lord, she shall be praised.

[@RemmyO]

This is so beautiful. We are truly blessed with a rich culture in Nigeria. I was crying sef 🙈. God bless your marriage 🙏

[@nanyaonwuamaeze4862]

This is one of the best videos I have seen. God be praised. Thank you for posting it and may joy be yours. I pray that I will honor God in my marriage and honor my in-laws more from this day forward in Jesus Christ name, Amen

[@Rakings2003]

Wow Tolu, you are so humble and kind, the both of you are so lucky to have each other, may God bless and keep your home..... I couldn't hold my emotions...... Much love to you and your husband

[@zobachizobam3496]

I actually shed a few tears, why isn't this done more often. So beautiful

[@racheluheka5776]

Praise the Lord.... tradition were Almighty God is acknowledge and worship. Bridal shower can't beat this because prayers of mother's especially your own mother who carried you from the womb is powerful. The devil has no busy in your marriage and home in Jesus name...May God remember me in Jesus name....

[@loladefayeun]

This is so emotional, I was almost about to cry. I laughed and smiled like I was the one in your position. Your home is blessed and you have married into a good family and so also is your family. Thank you for sharing this.

[@chefnube]

This is very unique. Never heard of such a ceremony

[@adeolaadeyemi1821]

This video should have been available since .Now am considering mother night also when it is time for my wedding ....Wow it so interesting...You are so loved

[@eunicenotob7604]

I usually cry when I watch your videos , I see how God is in all you do . God bless Ma Love from Ghana ❤️❤️

[@uchenwezi]

I love the CULTURE, I love the dance, I love the ceremony.. And this was so Emotional.. Yoruba Culture is so beautiful 🙌💕💕 Glad I understand all the say in Yoruba.. 🙏🙏

[@popoolatolulope3998]

Waterworks o, who is cutting onions😭😭 So emosh, this is beautiful 🤩😍 I tap into a godly home and family too in Jesus Name. Amen

[@mimadominicnyamweya8799]

I don't understand even a single word but i'm just shedding tears.. Jesus!

[@PrincessBoje]

Solutions, this has to be my fave video you've posted yet. Haba! Who cut onions fa? I was just sniffling all through. Kai! So beautiful. God bless your home and families. More people need to see this, and more families need to do this. Kudos!

[@moyoakinpelu4944]

I got so emotional watching this. I pray God continues blessing your union. I pray that I have in laws who love me as much and more and I pray I also make a good wife to the man God gives me. This is beautiful ma, God increase you on all sides. 💖

[@kehindeadegboyega2140]

The fact that all your videos bring a special kind of solution. Wow.God bless you

[@Bellechiq]

There’s no way you watch this and not get emotional!! 😍😍😍Loved it!!

[@angelaboateng5287]

I cried sha

[@richlyrays7483]

Wow. Yoruba culture is so beautiful ❤️

[@oluwatoyinabdulkareem5083]

Seeing this,really got me emotional. Mehn,mother's worth. On my wedding especially my engagement despite promising myself I won't cry,I was aggressive almost all through ,being an orphan, despite people around tried all their best but you know the saying 'Photocopy can never be like original' I didn't cry but there were interludes of anger,aggressiveness ,plenty family drama that kept getting me angry. When I saw some part of my videos en,chai,I just kept remembering stuffs that happened that day and got me angry,if only my parent were there,especially my dad cos never actually got to know my mum before her death,it would have been avoided. All glory to God though,in my hubby's house happy and fulfilled

[@TolulopeSolutions]

Sending you tons of hugs. Your children will surround your table and you will not be absent at their celebration ❤️

[@oluwatoyinabdulkareem5083]

@@TolulopeSolutions amen oooo in Jesus name. Thanks Solutions

[@realesthomegirl3410]

Sending you lots of love ❤️

[@fabanwooluwatobiloba8367]

I never knew that Yoruba had such a rich culture o. I totally enjoyed watching this video! It's definitely one of my most enjoyed videos! Thanks for sharing! And Mummy Adejumoo...her knees aren't far from the floor at all... Thrills me! 😭Like...see how she was with Bishop's elder sister. You certainly can never go wrong with a lifestyle of honour! ♥️

[@beatricefasoranti5130]

I respect mummy Adejumo more as I observed her honouring her sister in law..

[@ariyotolulope4878]

This is beautiful and worthy of emulation, I pray for such love btw my mum and my future mum in law, God bless your family did😘🤗

[@Peace_adeola]

To think I have been avoiding this video and I am the one crying and smiling upadan 😢. thank you so much for sharing, sister Tolu.

[@knockknockwithmissboye9598]

I love Mum in love's Sincereity and honour given to your Mum. this video is really good and an advice to young ladies to make their parents proud😚😚.

[@gbongwom]

This is the first time I am seeing something like this, culture is a beautiful thing.

[@aimalohiaghomon7356]

Woow; I literally cried through out this beautiful video; maybe because I could totally relate to how you must have been feeling; God continually keep your home in Jesus name Amen; Love you Solutions mama; thank you❤️

[@esthermasankatshilumba1081]

The benefits of having a good Christian mother You are highly blessed babe girl 💞💞💞

[@phelilephiri6985]

Wow this is so beautiful and too rich of a culture, we have a similar arrangement in Zambia ,a week or less before a brides bridal shower , elderly women gather to talk to the bride on how to run her home through dance and songs as well as giving her valuable lessons and advice, its so sweet and funny how we Africans have similar ways of doing things, this was lovely solution mama

[@oyincs9275]

I am Nigerian and I attended a Zambian kitchen party, it was such a blessing. I loved the culture and how the older women looked out for the younger ones

[@lizzyayodele7147]

This is the first time I’m seeing this kind of ceremony..wow!

[@shalewababatayo9516]

Didn't know there was a thing like mother's night. So nice and touching. God bless this family.

[@anuoluwapoodesanya5502]

Honestly, I prefer this to bridal shower sef. Wait ooo, never heard or seen this , is this part of our/your indigenous culture or Holyspirit inspired?

[@olajumokebifarin8287]

Its actually called obutun night

[@anuoluwapoodesanya5502]

@@olajumokebifarin8287 thanks.