Tom Holland and Zendaya on the "Ridiculous" Stereotypes About Their Height Difference | SiriusXM

Tom Holland, Zendaya, and Jacob Batalon say we should let tall women be tall.
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Tom Holland and Zendaya on the "Ridiculous" Stereotypes About Their Height Difference | SiriusXM
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[@chrisdeym1271]

"don't let society tell you what you can't be". - Jacob Batalon Right on Jacob! 👏🏻

[@imjamies6440]

SHOCKING!! kzbin.info/www/bejne/bWnbg52kgd2Nnqs

[@Millerofmac-rip]

I wanna be 6’3🧍🏻

[@barrymckocinher4649]

@@Millerofmac-rip Well my man don't let society stop you! put yourself on a stretching board 🤣

[@mikechan3]

I wanna be a war mongering genocidal supreme commander. And no one can tell me i can't right?!

[@saviodias3803]

Always gonna be daft haters in the reply section.

[@sharmashriya9]

To see him owning his height so publicly and so confidently...it's like he's giving me the permission to be as confident. Very liberating. Also props to Zendaya and Jacob for being such supportive friends

[@parkviewmo]

In addition, think Joe Jonas (the actual sexiest man alive) and Sophie Turner and go forth and connect with girls you really like!

[@westonding8953]

Yeah. Height does not make a difference.

[@jimmike8029]

I don't know why it matters 😂 I'm 6 foot..... whatever, who cares.

[@Millerofmac-rip]

Im 5’4 and Why the actual fuck would you need permission or someone popular to be short too? I dont understand.

[@DECEPTICON33]

It's not owning anything he's shorter than her so what!?! This inferior mindset of this gynocrtatic society based on ignorant thinking. This interviewer is so full of it. She's a stunning modern day woman who knows it's females out here obsessed with the height and weight and material of men as a marginalizing tool against men in society. Women have issues with height.

[@Esprods10]

Man this interview made me smile so much, short men and tall women need to stop being stigmatised or stereotyped in our societies

[@nunyabidness143]

PURRRR

[@Desmondbrown73]

Isn’t it hilarious that the people that are doing it are women?

[@ghost_ikon2930]

@@Desmondbrown73 that’s what I was thinking like no Women should be talking.

[@rewiredhuman3347]

Super short women too need to stop being stigmatised. Check out on the internet how they speak of short female celebrities and even go as far as measuring them to others for comparison. Found this totally ridiculous.

[@rewiredhuman3347]

@@Desmondbrown73 Not only women, men too. I wonder why you saw women only. Let's stop pretending the bros have not made the life of other guys a hell by comparing heights and 'sizes'. Males mocking other short males is very common and unfortunately they target the hate towards the tall women who choose the guy, which historically has been a reason why some women grew up to avoid short men, because they become the target of misogynistic hate from these males who believe the woman is trying to be 'the male' in the relationship. Just a lot of bullshxt beliefs.

[@evolutionofwords]

The irritating part is how self conscious society has made us. We really analyze every part of ourselves to fit a mould that who the heck knows created. It’s so stupid. All these stereotypes are annoying & affect our lives. We can joke about it or brush it off but for some it really messes with them psychologically & the world taunting them or the topic just makes it worse. That’s really sad. We’re just people. The only mould we should fit is being kind to one & other. The end.

[@sharmashriya9]

RIGHT. I hate how society tends to focus on our vulnerabilities. Made me v insecure about my height growing up.

[@ingridayarza]

Amen to all u said!! 🙌🏽

[@Usthereout]

like wtf is a "side profile"

[@thefragranceapothecary7281]

I enjoyed your TedTalk. 👏🏾

[@ent45689]

bruh this is a spiderman interview bruhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

[@dinas9233]

I actually kinda like their height difference. They look gorgeous together - on and off screen And they don’t even have to address the haters, their confidence speaks for themselves

[@samichmachine]

I love how you could SEE the breath of relief fall over the cast when they realized the way she wanted to phrase her question. Like, they clearly enjoyed talking with her. Love this interviewer.

[@ncard00]

A similiar situation is in dragon ball, where vegeta and friezza are the small but strong ones, compared to Nappa and Friezza’s henchmen, i know they’ll all male, but still, a kind of similiar thing. I don’t care about stereotypes, I just wanna see something new, which often means breaking these stereotypes, like making the shorter, younger girl the master or superior over the older, taller man, something star wars could really use more of, why I like the nightsisters so much, cause they’re dominant compared to the males. And more young girls would benefit greatly from experimenting with sex and alike with their girlfriends, without feelings or friendship involved, cause they’re usually the more mature, but more nervous with such things, so doing it with other girl friends instead of waiting for the boys to mature, or doing it with some older dude would make a lot of sense. And you don’t have to afraid of getting pregnant. I’d definately do that if I was a girl, cause other girls also know way better than boys how to best satisfy other girls.

[@spongebobdrippants9030]

I'm a 5'4 cancer survivor. Cancer in my teen years stunted my growth, I would have been average height at least if not for my sickness. It's really difficult dealing day to day as a short man, especially in dating, even girls a lot shorter than me reject me, so I appreciate Zendaya and Tom breaking those barriers.

[@whitegoodman7465]

Keep your head up, King!

[@jahdielbenyisrael7143]

Sry bro but what your saying can't possibly be true since the pathetic woman that did the interview flat out said that the concept of men being taller than women in relationships, was a misogynist ideology. So there is NO way that it has ANYTHING to do with women preferences... ijs

[@getschwifty9531]

I would acknowledge you as being stronger than me instead of being shorter, man. Based on your comment alone you're aleady a lot more interesting than many men and women.

[@edwinaharleyson2766]

People are ridiculous. My husband is 5'4 and I'm 5'7.

[@bestviralvideos7759]

This is so good needs to be public like not unlisted. Love this interview

[@lilymae7516]

It's not unlisted

[@ina7107]

@@lilymae7516 it was unlisted 4 hours ago when this person commented...

[@rkivesfkoo]

I actually agree with Jacob when he said that he's surprised that this is even a conversation. This is a normal thing and we should treat it as such. I was surprised to see that she even spent 3 minutes on this topic, like it's so unnecessary. Same feeling as praising a chubby person about their confidence in their weight; like why are we praising tomdaya for being a normal functioning couple. Yes they're not misogynistic and that's the bare minimum. The day we stop applauding people for being normal decent humans is the day we evolve as a society. Why can't we just treat differences as a NORMAL THING? THEY ARE.

[@oxoxkiss]

Jacob for the win!

[@kiaratulei3427]

honestly. the fact that she rambled on about it or even bought it up was beyond me… 🤦‍♀️

[@rkivesfkoo]

@@kiaratulei3427 honestly! i thought she was just gonna funnily tease them about their height difference like almost every other interviewer but wow, i did not think it was that serious for her 😭

[@sashat3632]

I think Jacobs point was more along the lines of "it's disappointing that we have to have these conversations" because it should have already been treated as normal but it wasn't and so now we have to make a point of saying this is normal and couples can look like this just to combat those stereotypes

[@evolutionofwords]

The issue is that we don’t treat it as normal. People actually live their life by ridiculous social constructs. Also being chubby is a conscious choice for most as opposed to being short or tall is not. It shouldn’t be stigmatized. Sadly people lack morals and we clap for anyone who is a decent human. It’s just life & it was a good thing that she brought it up. It helps other ignorant or impressionable people. They were happy she brought it up also. They thought they were going to get the same crap, put on a fake smile & give a rehearsed answer instead of just speaking their truth.

[@mesiholloway9156]

Jacob Batalon is there too lol

[@L0rdTobithegreat]

Who? Lol

[@whovian_scarf_dragon]

Poor guy is treated like a third wheel

[@iMosibex]

Nah man, the reporter is there, if they start acting lovey dovey I'd be called "eating dog food"

[@evolutionofwords]

The interviewer really surprised them & it was so refreshing. They constantly get the same crap from the public, “fans” & media. So the natural reaction is here we go again. It looked like they could finally speak their truth & be at ease. I was actually surprised with Zendaya. She’s always with taller guys & she would always pick on Tom for being short. I didn’t know about her parents or that she didn’t ever really think about it being an issue in a romantic way. This is what’s nice about life. You get to know people better by actually letting them express themselves instead of imposing on them.

[@jakestroll6518]

What are you talking about? She ambushed them with a stupid and ironically both misogynistic and misandrist question that NOBODY was thinking about it. In saying it out loud she created a problem that didn't exist in the audiences mind and it was left to the targets of her bigotry (who are dating irl) to address it. Culture is changed by normalizing things, she called out a thing we all saw as normal as abnormal. Just a bad interviewer and probably not a good woman.

[@ryanyates4124]

@@jakestroll6518 Massive incel energy. You say nobody was thinking about it? I've literally seen loads of interviews talking/joking about it. But sure, ignore that and keep pretending she's a horrible person

[@RebelBSC]

@@jakestroll6518 This is such a lie. My friend literally just ended a relationship with a guy because he hated her wearing heels in public because it made her much taller than him. This is a very common mindset unfortunately where people view a man being shorter than the woman as a negative thing. The interviewer literally said she's taller than her man and she has no issue so how is she a bad person??

[@elliottpowell5130]

She never picked on Tom being short she literally deleted that edited post if that’s what you’re on about

[@robertwilson3866]

Its all nonsense anyway. Tom Holland is a rich and successful actor. You think Zendaya would be with Tom Holland if he worked in a restaurant?? Of course height doesn't matter

[@sharmashriya9]

Tom is a role model. He is so confident, he doesn't let his height get in the way. Gives a lot of people, young and old, the inspiration to own their height. Our KING 🙌

[@LarissaFay]

I'm 5ft 0. I have so many stories about how people treat me like a child or as a prop because I'm short. Why?

[@thekhan4503]

@@LarissaFay nah you domt have to worry. It's okay if women is shorter. But if it's a men, it's even more harder. Cause man have to always be tall in the society and women also like guys who are tall. Good that tom is confident enough to accept it.

[@rewiredhuman3347]

@@thekhan4503 Women face the same issues if they are shorter than average. Males tend to be tall and tend to associate tall with 'status', so they tend to disregard shorter women too. It's both ways. She should not worry not for the reason you have but because there are still me and women out there who do not care about these petty differences and are ore genuine towards others.

[@thekhan4503]

@@rewiredhuman3347 I mean generally guys actually don't mind if the girl is short. It tends to be cute. But it's not cute or nice when you see a couple where the sguy is shorter then the girl. So it's a real issue. Some guys may not like girls who are short but most do. Girls are those who treat man like trash if they are poor or short. They have their high expectations. Thank you for sharing your opinions.

[@gaila.9852]

Why would his height get in his way?

[@de_oxyribo_na]

Wow this interviewer is fantastic!! She structured her question well and then articulated her viewpoint in relation to their responses and kept the conversation going fluidly. Super productive discussion.

[@yarakharam5343]

yes shes so good she called the discrimination of short men misogynistic becvause totally its about people hating women and not about women ridiculing short men

[@de_oxyribo_na]

@@yarakharam5343 From my perspective, that’s not what I got from her sentiments at all. She was fairly defending BOTH parties-male and female. To me, she addressed what is deemed as a taboo aspect of relationships due to societal judgement. It sucks that people in this type of relationship get ridiculed and looked at sideways because it’s not seen as the “social norm”. Love is love at the end of the day-like who cares. I thought the host did a good job of addressing that it doesn’t just affect the male, but the female as well when she alluded to her own personal relationship. To you, the male is mocked by women as being short….but on the other end, the female is also mocked as being a giant. The host spoke on behalf of herself AND her husband. She said that she’s taller than her husband and they get those ‘looks as well’. And she goes on to say it’s “ridiculous and offensive” and that “society should be setting a better example for the younger generation” when they see things like this because it’s completely normal. It’s not something that should be mocked or laughed at. But again, that just how I saw the interview. You’re free to hold your own opinion or take on it.

[@marishkagranada7985]

@@yarakharam5343 lol. My thoughts exactly. I was like all smile but when she mentioned "misogynistic" - I was like; "wait, what!?".. how is that men's fault kinda thing? 😂🤦

[@wilwester]

​@@marishkagranada7985 Exactly. It's like the one thing in society that is against men, and she made it about women instead. And men are to blame for it

[@popaesthetics8365]

@@marishkagranada7985 how tf are you all so damn clueless. It’s misogyny from HER point of view-due to the fact that she is a woman being made fun of by usually men in society for being taller than her male husband whenever they go out. When it happens to men (like Tom from his point of view) then it is misandry because he isn’t aligning to the societal “norm” of a guy being taller than his girl in the eyes of some females. No where in her commentary does the host say that men don’t feel the bulk of it too on their end. She is speaking from her own perspective as a woman. And I’m sure if her husband were present he’d speak from his own perspective as a man being made fun of for being shorter than his wife (parallel to what Tom and Zendaya go through at times).

[@heathernewbold406]

I’m taller than my husband, so I love that they’re positively representing this on film and in their relationship.

[@thewinterizzy]

Adding my name to the petition to have this displayed as listed. Such a refreshing interview. 🖊😌

[@yeahyukerson4511]

agreed. sadly it is a conversation that needs to be had even though it really shouldn't have too.

[@Thisisholly]

A lot of women refuse to date shorter men. I feel if anything this is a stereotype perpetuated by women unfortunately. Most girls I know want taller men. But I am sure their are men who get butt hurt about dating tall women. That sounds more like a character issue. If a woman is taller than a man she should still be valued just as someone shorter.

[@karabokhanyile]

So true

[@supes616]

I think it's perpetuated by both. Some men feel insecure about being shorter than the woman.

[@nevaeh9420]

I also think women are told that they need to play that role. And that they need to find a big strong man to “protect” them whatever that means. It’s just Height...

[@lakishamaynard3291]

I feel it all comes back to imsecurity because personally for me I dont mind being the supermodel in the relashionship lol

[@kathleenmansure7416]

My man's 5'4'' and is perfect for me, so it is kind of sad that people limit themselves

[@lilfisticuffs9124]

Its really weird that she calls it misogynistic when it is women who enforce the height requirements. A man being shorter is one of the number one deal breakers for women as far as physical attraction goes. They wont even give you the chance to introduce yourself sometimes.

[@ananananana627]

true

[@ooooneeee]

True, that's misandry. Jameela Jameel addressed this better and made this exact point on her Instagram.

[@teemick7594]

Misogyny is societal, women can further a misogynistic construct. We all have underlying biases we have been subjected to and some people won't even realize they are reinforcing them unless we keep pointing them out and allowing people to reflect on them.

[@yarakharam5343]

@@teemick7594 no mate you cant just give men the fault for this this is clearly misamdry or in reality its actually just sexual market value

[@teemick7594]

@@yarakharam5343 If you think I just gave men the fault for anything then I would work on your reading comprehension. Also, I would appreciate it if you do not call me, "Mate".

[@enje_prl]

I LOVE THIS SO MUCH. Thank you for bringing it up.

[@belgiancheesehead4778]

Maybe Zendaya liked him even more for that reason as her dad was smaller and that’s what she was used to. It’s commonly believed girls unconsciously find partners with similar traits to their father.

[@8282now]

When on dating sites, height is the number one question asked. It’s refreshing to see that not all women value height over everything else

[@Shemale_Barbie]

I think the height think is definition a mix of evolution and society. There is so much research on the biological and evolution explanation for y’all men desirability and a lot mention how it taps into the primal brain of most women to be attracted like that due to years of evolution. I think it can also be social becAuse being tall is associated with masculinity which lowers the sexual value of women but increases men’s while being short tended to increase the sexual value of women and decreased men’s sexual value as it is associated with femininity. Study shows both and women don’t take short men seriously, and they don’t view them as a “threat” which is why men desire short women because according to evolution it makes her less threatening. It’s all weird

[@Random-qt1kg]

@@Shemale_Barbie makes women less threatening 😶😂 it's def fcked up , what abt the girl being for eg 5'1 with let's say 5'9 def threatening for that little girl ? It's all weird n fcked up .

[@Theodelous1502]

@shemale_barbi you are wrong women liking tall men is a social construct that has been going on for a hundred years and perpetuated by Hollywood and the global film industry. Biologically speaking two men of the same weight but of different heights will have the shorter man being stronger than the taller man so in actuality shorter men are more masculine than taller man to a point however society has indoctrinated iitself into believing taller man are more desirable. P.S all your favourite actors are 2-3 inches shorter than they claim in google that's just another wat Hollywood perpetuates its lies

[@sararockybrown3242]

I’m taller then my bf and theirs honestly no awkwardness at all, he actually loves it 😂

[@peter-paulkutschlojenga7336]

Tom and Zendaya are a huge W for every short dude on the planet.

[@Yeodoongiiie]

I’m in love with this tour. Watching aaaaall the interviews. This was a cuuute one

[@victry1nolan319]

What a great interview!

[@tinamccoy29]

So happy she brought this to light in such a positive way... ❤❤❤❤❤

[@whereyoubean]

Jacob at first like: “here we go again” But in the end, JAcob liked the interaction / the way the interviewer addressed it. Since, Zendaya and Tom are his friends and feels like he heard this topic/s everytime

[@user-lb3up4rq2i]

Stereotype: men should be taller than their partner Stereotype: women need to be thinner than their partner How about we get rid of both of those stereotypes period.

[@ianwilly7118]

Those are preferences…….

[@imjamies6440]

Ian Willy SHOCKING!! kzbin.info/www/bejne/bWnbg52kgd2Nnqs

[@RealAzK]

Yeah, no. Don't even go there. You can change habits, weight and fitness levels, you cannot change height. So although it just comes down to preference for all things, the whole thin/fat/fit garbage cannot be compared with height. Someone's height isn't a manifestation of their lifestyle, it's just something they were born with.

[@brandoneber6485]

@@RealAzK What are you even talking about? They're talking about harmful stereotyping when it comes to dating culture. The obsession with women's bodies and especially with how thin/thick they "should" be is absolutely a toxic and harmful stereotypes that needs to be done away with just the same.

[@neb1.223]

@@RealAzK just say you're a shitty person and go

[@nevaeh9420]

This got so deep 🥺 I love this interview

[@The_Little_Leaf]

Tom @ 0:47 realizing that the interviewer actually wanted to have an good conversation and not just teast them.

[@MilkyisDead]

As a tall girl I look up to zen days so much. She makes me feel okay to embrace my height and feminity. I love her.

[@adamjohn2795]

And as a short guy I look up to Tom Holland

[@ninavillar565]

Their comments and advices on the matter are super important, especially Jacob's, I love this

[@DaniiDomingos]

amazing interview!

[@hgksgltnmad]

A girl that’s taller than her boyfriend? Looks cute to me!

[@leanmeanmenace1744]

Weird to me

[@Chenoa2024]

@@leanmeanmenace1744 why?

[@zugrath16]

@@Chenoa2024 Judging by their name I'd say it's either an idiot or a troll so I wouldn't even bother lol

[@weenie_the_mooch9344]

@@zugrath16 he's right

[@zugrath16]

​@@weenie_the_mooch9344 About the height difference? The reason you think it looks weird is because you're stuck in a mindset of what a man or woman "should" be. If you want to stick to those old ideals then sure man, go ahead. Personally I don't care. I've dated girls taller than me and haven't had a problem with it.

[@jewelgal26]

Great job talking about this! Height is such a stereotype!

[@albataliephillips4271]

Okay, I learned through this interview. Ah this is amazing!

[@MR-mj5ny]

Props to Jacob for his support and input !! 👏🏼

[@isaacthegoat1432]

No one cares, modern celebrities aren't wise.

[@santiagosperoni7588]

Such a great interviewer!!!!

[@thefragranceapothecary7281]

The interviewer misspoke. It’s misandristic not misogynistic. It’s mostly women and girls talking about their height difference. Including THIS interviewer.

[@varunbeekarry8907]

exactly what i thought!

[@eon001]

The Fragrance Apothecary I really hope she miss spoke because she is WAY off.

[@dylan3488]

Eh it’s both, I have a friend who’s my height 5’ 6’’, and he is consistently talking about how women need to be shorter than him. On the flip side I have definitely seen women put in their Tinder bios telling guys under a certain height to swipe left

[@tranderrick]

@@dylan3488 the difference is that he finds tall women attractive, he just doesn't feel confident to be with one, the reverse is not true, women objectively find short men not attractive period. Im sure your friend will consider taylor swift or zendeya super attractive and that if he was taller, he would want to get with them. But as a woman if some 5'4" guy is attractive, and she would immediately tell you, he's so short......no....and if they were shorter than hi, the answer would be the same. Obviously there are 8 billion people on earth, you will find a woman who would break the mold, but you won't find a whole lot of them.

[@dylan3488]

@@tranderrick Well that’s a load of shit because I’ve had friends who have dated girls taller than them and I’m a guy who’s 5 foot 6 and have dated girls as tall as 5 foot 10 so it’s not a gender thing stop making it one

[@beawithane]

jacob’s laugh just makes everything better

[@tbunnibaby]

Kudos to those who asked for this clip to not be unlisted, it worked and they listened

[@fivefiveshortguy]

00:33 Preach!!! The interviewer is steps ahead in her thinking - much RESPECT to her! One of my favorite hollywood couples hands down that lead by example. Lots of girls I've interviewed on my channel also have dated shorter guys too. Be confident short kings!!!

[@lenimclena]

thank you for this message😢 been strugling with being a tall women for all my life

[@kJ922-h3j]

0:34 what, misogynistic? Does that word go both ways then? Lol cause this comes from women judging short men and saying they would refuse to date them etc, happens all the time. Let’s call out all toxicity please

[@extrashotofespresso_]

Of course it’s being discussed from all angles. Did that really need to be clarified for you?

[@xa1239]

@@extrashotofespresso_ Men get shamed for it more so why not say misandry which is the clear word for it? Or atleast not say either but to only state misogyny makes it seem like an issue that only women deal with.

[@yarakharam5343]

@@extrashotofespresso_ never in all.my life have I seen a single piece about ostratization of short men. No the issue is not being discussed at all in fact the only way of making it to the public is by framing it as misogynistic again

[@tranderrick]

the word is misandrist, the person used the wrong word.

[@chocolatebuttface7873]

@@xa1239 thats a lie

[@Shave-ice]

Shoot I’m shorter than my wife! She’s like my Amazonian queen.

[@extrashotofespresso_]

I’m 5’3 so It is extremely unlikely that a man would be shorter than me but this is an interesting topic. I remember a Hannah Montana episode (from like 2007) that spoke about this and also stated that it shouldn’t matter if the woman is taller than the man.

[@missbumblebee8633]

Zendaya is so quirky. I love it.

[@nate2759]

Love them! And I don’t usually care for celebrities but they are wholesome.

[@mishboo.x7313]

See this is honestly one of the reasons why I love Tom and Zendaya’s relationship (ofc I love Jacob too). Breaking societal norms, I mean Zendaya specifically because she just makes me feel confident as a fellow tall girl and as we are getting more tall role models e.g. Megan Thee Stallion it just feels good to have someone that i can truly look up to and she just makes me feel safe in a way that i can’t explain. :)

[@michellegomes2030]

Tom’s personality, presence and conduct takes up the whole space he is in. He’s is very confident about his height and Z is such a tall goddess but at the same time delicate and fragile, I guess for the two must not be a thing. Definitely not a big deal. Just the fact that Tom is the only guy Zendaya really claimed publicly, already speaks for itself.

[@danielayeni2392]

Okay I love how tom cleared this; but I have questions still? 1. If you were short and you dont like it and have the smallest potential to become taller should you take it? 2. How do you become confident as a short person ..male in particular when its really disturbing seeing how you just have the feeling everyone bullies or disrespects you the first chance they get ? 3. For males who usually get their confidence from how the females view them and these females most of them dont want anything to do with short guys ..how do we cope?

[@zugrath16]

​@@danielayeni2392 My advice would be to let go of the stereotypical idea of what a "man" is. There are so many different qualities that can make you attractive, height is just one (very superficial) thing. Focus on building up parts of yourself that you actually like. Regarding coping - you don't cope. Coping is when you try to come up with excuses to deal with your insecurities. Better to just accept that some people are shallow and learn how to love yourself anyways. And surround yourself with people that aren't.

[@danielayeni2392]

@Yes Box Thanks ...this is really helpful

[@naewood2280]

As a woman who is taller than her husband (by like an inch) it's really not that big of a deal 😂

[@andyd5038]

As a shorter dude, personality might be on point, but it will be $80k plus months of physical therapy to see her again after limb lengthening surgery!

[@invioletsky]

I am very impressed by the Spider man cast. They are breaking so many awful stereotypes. The only thing that bothers me is Jacob's wig. A lot of people lose hair or gets white hair very early on in their life.

[@mayboy128]

Of course the interviewer blaming it on men and “misogyny”, when it’s a lot of girls who won’t date men shorter than them. Always men’s fault. Pisses me off. -5’4” married to woman taller than him

[@charisranin5849]

It IS due to misogyny: the norm is for men to be taller in the relationship because they should be 'domineering' and 'in control', and you would associate those aspects physically with tall people.

[@mayboy128]

@@charisranin5849 WOMEN want that in men. Talk to women, and many will tell you they like to feel small. There’s nothing wrong with that preference, by the way. It just is what it is. *Something negative happens to men. “Women most affected.”*

[@weenie_the_mooch9344]

@@charisranin5849 are you playing stupid ?

[@meowriarty]

I'm so happy to find this clip 🥺I live in asian country and it's uncommon for people to be taller than 170 cm (around 5' 6) much less a woman. I've always been the talest among my peers ever since, it's bad enough that I'm overly conscious of my height already, but the fact that people around me treat me differently is making things worse. I remember that I used to be the only one grouped with the boys for class photos because I'm too tall to be with the girls, always made to stand at the end of the line whenever we had to line up. I understand some of the reasons might be practical but being treated that way since I start pre-school is contributing a lot to my lack of physical self-esteem.

[@ursulagere6209]

BEAUTIFUL INSIDE AND OUT

[@clipped6963]

I really want to see another trilogy with these guys BUT feel it will never live up to the 4/5 years Journey they went on, all 3 literally went into adulthood with each other ❤

[@simplerussel]

This is interview is perfect for me. I've always been so inscure about my height. I always get compare to others. As of know im learning to accept it and be confident. Thank you, Tom Zendaya and Jacob! 🥺❤

[@SydneyKong]

“How did you guys kiss it must be so difficult” LMAOOOO AHAAHAHAHAH

[@Chaditude]

I just released a video breaking down the Raimi, Webb, and Watts films and have been addicted to these interviews. I'm so excited

[@MrColinHostile]

Love these two.

[@user-jw6yk1xq2o]

I'm glad to see this. I'm a tall girl and I have struggled with this all my life, feeling less feminine than my friends because society says that girls have to be small and cute. Everyone asked constantly "how will you find a man taller than you?" like the number one worry. This stupid thing is so radicated in us since childhood.

[@carolxs]

Tom Holland is not even short, come on, he must be 5ft 8 or something like that? That's human average height

[@sharmashriya9]

By Hollywood standards...but then again ppl are always looking for things to bring other people down

[@CutestMostSweetest]

I’m 5’2 so he’s talk to me lol

[@iconic6445]

Tom is actually 5’7 !!! I’ve met him once and he’s the same height as my dad 😇😂

[@hugominicantv9441]

Tom is 5'6 zendaya 5'7

[@iconic6445]

@@hugominicantv9441 yeah that might be true but he’s around 5’6 and 5’7

[@Lucia-zb3xv]

Awesome interviewer

[@NissanSkylineVR30]

Women: I want tall men. Other women: MORE POWER TO YOU. Men: I want skinny women. Other women: YOU PIG. This is the reason why this society pressure exist. Other women push other women to want taller men.

[@danielayeni2392]

Okay I love how tom cleared this; but I have questions still? 1. If you were short and you dont like it and have the smallest potential to become taller should you take it? 2. How do you become confident as a short person ..male in particular when its really disturbing seeing how you just have the feeling everyone bullies or disrespects you the first chance they get ? 3. For males who usually get their confidence from how the females view them and these females most of them dont want anything to do with short guys ..how do we cope?

[@twicebestgirls8821]

Men:your pig bish 😝😹

[@apolloangel4754]

This is so true & when you get to thinking about it, it doesn’t make sense

[@mel__21_54]

I LOVE THISS

[@snowchips9596]

I honestly never noticed that much, didn't know it was that big a deal

[@heywhaleyeswhale3686]

I love this.

[@SonyDays678]

there’s a ton of Women on Twitter & TikTok that say Short men is unattractive & they don’t view them as potential people to date. So it’s still a problem in our society sadly. People would rather focus on the outer appearance more then what’s on the inside.

[@nunyabidness143]

Y’all as a tall female..who’s interested in this slightly shorter guy. I love this video 😂💗💗

[@hahaimout1693]

Me: Tom Holland gave me hope Because he's Spider-Man? Me: Because he got a girl taller than him...

[@richardgrace4500]

I just want to see a flip photo with zendaya in a Spider-Man costume and swinging with Tom hanging on lmfao

[@gallarinas]

they spilled

[@realitycheck3149]

I like she tries to turn a serious male issue into a primarily female one, when short men get the (no pun intended) short straw every time, mean while tall girls can still get some action......its disgusting how feminist like her act, she never even focused on the fact women perpetuate the " i need a tall man, short men go away!!!" attitude, show how much feminist want "equality" when it only benefits them.

[@Neil-jm6om]

I’m a short man, I feel it’s been ingrained in me to only be interested in girls who are shorter then me and even with the being shot is seen as a huge disadvantage.

[@neb1.223]

exactly.

[@Misslou2425]

Taller woman here ( very tall by USA standards l guess at 5ft 11 and 3/4 inches🤣). My husband is shorter than l am at 5ft 10. He is the most wonderful man l know! Only one of my two previous ex'es was taller than l am. This height thing really needs to stop. There is more to life than the trivialities of height. Some folks may be missing out on the loves of their lives by having these crazy notions about height discrepancies 🤷‍♀️. We are so much more than our vertical stature--- look inward people, inward!❤️❤️❤️

[@AmirChemE]

5 '10 isn't short dummy!

[@weenie_the_mooch9344]

But you first love was tall people lmfao

[@eon001]

Can we make i clear it's WOMEN that obsess on height. I've seen dating profiles from women 5'2 that won't date shorter than 6 foot.

[@MrPStone305]

What an astonishment. Congrats on the movie.

[@domehouse79]

Interviewer dragged her question

[@mewgiah8057]

Funny all these people praising Tom Holland, yet so many women often discriminate against men based on height. If men aren't taller then them, then they are automatically makred as not being date "worthy". It's even worse then that, as many women will demand that Men be a specific height taller then them. So it's not even good enough to be taller, you need to be x amount taller. Those shorter, don't stand a chance.

[@mondaysandtuesdays6842]

i do notice it's usually from women who are short to be honest, i think it's a vanity thing where they want to be seen as "dainty" rather than just finding love.

[@fiber_king2334]

Yes, and then they go virtue signaling and short cucks are praising them for it. It's pathetic.

[@dillweed5347]

0:33 The host called this, "such a misogynistic thing". It's actually the polar opposite; society is going after the man, not the woman - poking fun at Tom Holland's short stature. The premise above is insane. Height is not an accomplishment.

[@raythomas1440]

Wholesome

[@isuriadireja91]

i think the whole "it's weird when the guy's shorter than the girl" thing comes way more from the WOMEN more than the men. we, men..are fine getting it on with women of ANY height.

[@tosexe2535]

Yh i cant think of any men that rejected a women bc she was taller.

[@SilverstreamPJ28]

As a tall girl, I think it's because it's been ingrained on us that we need to be dainty and tiny to be faminine. And that's hard when you're towering over most dudes xD but yeah, it's so stupid

[@sunny-nq3yi]

We love short kings 👑💕

[@Shemale_Barbie]

@@tosexe2535 nope. Tall women are put down as much if not more than short men. It makes her feel like it decreases her femininity while it makes her short boyfriend insecure which is why msot short men wouldn’t date a woman taller than them and most women wouldn’t vice versa. A lot of These thing are preference and these stereotypes comes from both genders as I have explained. Men are more likely to date tall women than y’all women are to date short men however this is because men naturally have low standards and are biologically programmed to be simp. Most men aren’t rich however tall attractive women tend to be desired by rich high value men with many elites dating supermodels or Victoria secret women. Most of the 1% elites aren’t attracted to short women because short women to upper class and rich people is associate yes with poverty, smelly and goblin. They’re not view as elegant by high status high profile high super rich men but they are desired by the average or below average man

[@Damien773]

No lol, i am an average height guy, and literally all of my friends, short, tall, or average height, strongly prefer girls shorter and slimmer than them. The worse thing is, guys even make fun of you for dating a taller girl, it's like it hurts their manliness.

[@mago.369]

ok but the way tom sits there hahaha

[@JayHay63]

And, like Gwyneth is also taller than RDJ and Pepper and Tony seemed FINE on screen...

[@zindagi618]

as a tall girl myself, its great hearing zendaya talking about this since at times it can get awkward etc.

[@mckennaomoruyi9526]

I mean I needed this so like yeah queen type shit

[@jambajackson1818]

Zendaya is so beautiful I love when her hair is Sleek and she has it tucked behind your ears with the middle part and I love her hoop earrings

[@leaaae4638]

It sucks that 5'8 men is considered short by many in our society. Tom even said he is "quite" short here. It really makes me feel like a midget, cuz I'm only a 5'3 man. Dating is really hard cuz most girls are same height or taller than me. From my experience most girls would prefer guys to be at least same height as them when they're wearing high heel. Girls 5'0 that I met for some reason love dating guys a whole head taller.

[@underratedgod6899]

Are you asian?

[@-Ice_Cold-]

Tom is quite short, cause he is clearly not 5'8, more like 5'6

[@Becerra24x16]

It's starting to get cringe when people mention their height difference. Its like people want them to break up and not be happy together, even though these two are obviously great for eachother. Society has a habit of ignoring their envy to make themselves feel better by pointing out something that's different because they think it's a weakness to bring someone down.

[@sauviel6296]

Ikr

[@straightman4272]

Zendaya is only with Tom because of his Fame and Status not because he is in-love with him lmao

[@straightman4272]

Y'all silly girls always make me laugh haha

[@samuellaowusu7009]

@@straightman4272 are you okay?

[@--novus-ordo-secrolum-un--8820]

​@@straightman4272 lol mental illness u crazzyy💀

[@josephburke9474]

Women prefer guys taller than them on average and some of them say messed up things about shorter guys for just being shorter even if they are a woman who is 5 foot. So I think it's more misandristic not misogynistic.

[@gshak33]

To all the guys out there that are self conscious about being short: I’m 6’5” yet chronically single and suffer from severe self confidence issues. It isn’t about having the body to feel confident it’s about feeling confident in the body you have.

[@bazinetjonathan5922]

Yeah now imagine being depressed and anxious in a 5 foot 2 body and rethink your sentence. It would suck even more .

[@conscious_competence3703]

Sorry man

[@jlau04]

It sucks for people on both sides of the spectrum. Being extremely tall or extremely short sucks unfortunately

[@gshak33]

@@jlau04 Yeah. Everyone just wants to be “normal” which is kinda a sad thought.

[@snowsnake1264]

I am really tall being almost 6.1(ca. 1,83m) feet tall as an Asian girl. When I was younger I wanted someone who was taller than me. Being 20 now I figured it’s not that important but many guys also don’t like being shorter. So I learn to accept it everyday which is a huge struggle. Thank you so much for this question🥺😊

[@neb1.223]

right

[@KingAzarof]

It is a huge struggle I believe I think once we get out of this stereotype allot of people could find someone and be genuinely happy, is sorta hard me to find females because I sorta just tower above everyone where I live

[@leaaae4638]

i'm 5'3 guy here. I know your struggle. Just opposite physically, but same problem.

[@snowsnake1264]

@@leaaae4638 yeah also looking Asian living in Germany and being born there. There is that stereotype of cute,small Asian girls and I am not

[@weenie_the_mooch9344]

@@snowsnake1264 well atleast you get more options then a short guys

[@kimh7594]

For Tom to bag a Zendaya with his height is such a flex so he doesn't really need to be insecure abou it. Plus he's spiderman

[@johannadoeffinger830]

yes! I love it!

[@aaronpalmer7222]

The host was about to throw subtle shade and caught the vibe and used that “misognystic” Shit as a way out of the awkwardness

[@vminajj1267]

Zendaya is gorgeous

[@vim2339]

Zendaya is a tall model 💗💅

[@user-vz8yh9cf7w]

Anyone know what shirt Tom is wearing here?

[@RyRyman]

I like how the interviewer is mostly making it to seem it’s men’s fault when really it’s women who started the “you’re not 6’5? I can’t talk to you no more” line

[@hawsrulebegin7768]

Tom cruise take note. But I love these two together, what a great couple. Wish them a long happy relationship