Summer Lost Her Mind On Fishtank (The Voicemail Leaks)

[@strangerofthe2067]

A girl telling me that she is “very stable” is all the confirmation I need.

[@chzybean]

None of us are stable, haha. It's just whether or not the crazy is manageable.

[@backbewbz5708]

Actually saaaaaameeeee, hell if they dont tell me they are stable, how am I supposed to know if they are stable? I love it when women are straight forward and honest right out of the gate

[@ne0nmancer]

@@chzybean There's "screams at you for nothing and doesn't put out for a month" crazy... And then there's the "screams at you for nothing, fucks all your friends and tries to act like it's your fault" crazy. Usually when they have to assure you they're stable, they're probably the second type lol.

[@Yostuba]

To put a ring on that finger?

[@nobody-special000]

​@@ne0nmancer And then there's "screams at you over a dream she had, and then decides to fuck your dad/ brother" And then there's "pours boiling water on you to wake you up and laughs in your face when you refuse to get violent in response" And then there's "kills your pet over a disagreement, and frames you for domestic abuse as well as animal abuse, sending you to prison"

[@KillerMoth3663]

Tom the typa guy to thirst over a crazy girl for 45+ minutes and call it commentary 💀

[@destinysoblivion3268]

You know what they say about crazy chicks 😏

[@GrugBonkers]

@@destinysoblivion3268 CRAZY IN THE HEAD CRAZY IN THE BED!

[@noseriouslyimserious4073]

@@destinysoblivion3268I mean.. Did you hear her giggle after she told Production that they’d have to “FORCIBLY REMOVE HER FROM THE CORNER” “pull me by my hair. Teeheeee. Eheheheheh”

[@ckretro5352]

hes just like me fr

[@destinysoblivion3268]

@@noseriouslyimserious4073 that's all the convincing you need.

[@Mastergamer27526]

Tom the type of guy to visit summer at the hospital

[@Kingcobra6699]

That rings so true 😂

[@jefferinno]

These are everywhere but this is true ngl lmao

[@StarIsSkibidi]

nah i would tho

[@ebeggingnater7887]

U dam well know it yell at chat thats not the girl u want boys toms sittin next to her in the hospital bed lol

[@1kbmahan]

tYpE Of GUy

[@ceehads]

Tom the type of dude to believe a crazy hot chick who says “I feel the most mentally stable I’ve felt my entire life”.

[@matthewhibiscus8316]

isn't this a hilarious comment !! 🤣 When I saw this I was like boiii 😂😂🫱🏻🫱🏻 keep being cool man ! Skibidi rizz out ! 🔥

[@WilliamKubischta]

​@@harvest44492 same thing

[@johnnysingtree]

shes not hot. she looks and sounds like a kid. dont be creepy dude.

[@RandoManFPV]

Lol who is sams gf? 😂​@@harvest44492

[@WilliamKubischta]

@@harvest44492 what?

[@MrMysteryman00]

Sounds like a future destiny orbiter.

[@explosivez1096]

Nahhhh kelly wouldnt let this chick slide in. We stand with kelly jeans 😼✊🏼

[@Ryo7_7]

Definitely.

[@whateverwhatever4026]

Tom?

[@GrugBonkers]

This woman's mental health is too sound to be a destiny orbiter.

[@gregutz4284]

Lmao

[@MRSNDM8059]

"I only got 6 hours of sleep that's why I was crazy." LMAO

[@Tayl0r_]

With zero context this is what chronic fatigue syndrome felt like for me in highschool🤣

[@Flesh_Wizard]

10 minutes before: *is mentioning several mental disorders*

[@NotAnotherKuromi]

A clear cut case of severe sleep deprivation, they likely use it on prisoners of war.

[@Staingo_Jenkins]

​@@Flesh_Wizard👆

[@wrt142]

Tom the type of guy who shows up with a comically large bandage set in hospital to fix her

[@a-goat2778]

Don’t forget the comically large shot

[@ImFishguy]

I usually skip that part

[@Raidoven]

"im not crazy, i just have depression, anxiety, BPD, eating disorder, bipolar" HAHAHAHAHAHA "also, have you heard of age regression?" HHHHHHHHHHHHHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@jeremyroastscoffee2495]

the similarities to the woman I'm currently dating are... unsettling. it occurs to me that I may be in danger

[@TheSonicSegaNerd]

@Alesti5 💀

[@Fisherman399t]

Give her the BWC Correction.

[@jeremyroastscoffee2495]

@@Fisherman399t I mean… that’s what’s worked so far. the way out is through, right?

[@pingdotlin]

let her ruin your life

[@ShrimpSneaker]

It's fine if you are like 16-20. Don't waste your time with chick's like this if you are looking for a wife.

[@Peteblz1]

This is the type of girl to file a lawsuit against you of false accusations and then say she only did it to get your attention.

[@xanperna]

Thats literally what she did minus the lawsuit

[@whateverwhatever4026]

Tom the type of guy to "fix her"...

[@reachfan0809]

Tom the type of guy to drop one girlfriend off at the psych ward before he picks the second up from kindergarten.

[@sho-es2fi]

real shit

[@rutrama96]

Underrated Comment

[@enraikow6109]

You could make a whole rap album out of that.

[@BattleBro77]

She just works at the kindergarten right? Right?

[@Kilanofficial]

I had an ex with bpd and omg it was a nightmare trying to break up with her, calling off of every family members phone and social media. The voicemails were the same”im better now i got help im on medication “ to the next one being absolutely manic” i hate you i never loved you” to being back to normal. For months i would get these calls and messages

[@x-xPhobia]

The real tragedy of BPD is its a trauma disorder. Its basically CPTSD but you were young enough when you got it that it developed as your personality. Borderline is full of a cylce of idealization and devaluation. She will idealize something or someone, be hypersensitive to every behavior good and bad, which also includes them having delusions and being psychotically paranoid. For anyone wondering they do feel extreme guilt and shame(this is why she keeps calling) so they then move on to looking for evidence you still are the same person they idealized(you never were the person inside their head so you never meet the criteria) They will try to get as much sympathy from you and it will never be enough, in which case they flip a switch and devalue you as a defense mechanism. They dont really think about what they are saying or doing. Because its a trauma disorder, and their value is tied to you not leaving, but they also need you to be meaningless so it doesn't hurt in case you leave. Her disconnected affect comes from the disassociation. Unfortunately, Tom is right. Even as someone who volunteers with NAMI and takes mental health pretty seriously, I stay far, far away from girls with BPD. Or any cluster b personality disorder lol. The only treatment that works for BPD is Dialectical behavioral therapy. It can take a decade or more. Also yes women with BPD usually do have high body counts, lower impulse control, and hypersexuality is a symptom. Source: i had an abusive ex with BPD and after escaping i read "I hate you, don't leave me" its a book that will explain the behavior of most of the women online.(im half joking lol.)

[@manicmode]

Great book! I have that book too.

[@Tayl0r_]

This is fairly accurate to what a friend of mine who has BPD described to me. I also dealt with the abuse aspect or potential and dynamic with someone who I had dated long distance online as an early teen. Fucked me up for many years and I didn’t even realize until more into adulthood.

[@Tayl0r_]

Also, DBT has been incredibly helpful for my depression/anxiety and ADD (accompanied with a pretty bad case of* rejection sensitive dysphoria - part of it was ironically triggered by that bf I had that I dated long distance as an early teen lol). But it does take a long time to work towards major signs of progress for a lot of folks.

[@x-xPhobia]

​@@manicmode Yeah I agree. I wanted to understand my ex and empathize with them. I had a limit for that kind of behavior but she's happy now and doing good after quite a bit of therapy lol. I'm proud of her. There is a poor understanding of it online so I figured I'd lay out a rough framework for people lol however people have to actually want to empathize with her and not just laugh at her. And that's something I can't force them to do. I'm autistic so I get very overwhelmed with that kind of behavior. But some people have the patience and control that I don't. I also have CPTSD so I really do feel bad for her. I can stop myself when I get stuck in that kind of loop. I can catch myself when I think I may have a cognitive distortion or delusion. She really can't. At least not in this state. I wish her well.

[@DavidJones-ot8qu]

DBT is a dogshit therapy, actually. The only way for a BPD person to get help is for them to attack the root causes of their desperation for validation/lack of any sense of self worth, which behavioral therapies entirely fail to touch on. If you’re only better because you avoid ur triggers and leave when you’re triggered, you’re not really “better”

[@greenmeatybones6983]

Tom going super saiyan really put a smile on my face. Thanks for showing us your rage and a fraction of the power of turkey Tom

[@redisGabe]

Tom is the type of guy who grows heart eyes and whistles when he sees crazy chicks on the street

[@sdivine13]

Aaaawoooooga

[@MillennialSmark2]

Lol, i thought for a second that was that Lex chick from the Supermega stuff. Why do they all look like an angsty Velma from Scooby-Doo 😂😂

[@thebandit6886]

Tom the type of guy to walk up to a girl, slick his hair back, put one hand on the wall and say "What's cookin' good lookin'? 😏😉"

[@0redfr0g0]

There should be a seperate disorder to BPD for guys who are irrationally attracted to BPD chicks...its like a compulsion I swear.

[@Rooster_Ric]

It's called naiveté.

[@Gnohio]

there might also be some subconscious component of adrenaline junky behavior too. maybe its that classic trope of boys liking to play with fire except its emotional fire and instead of getting second or third degree skin burns, its your life itself getting the third degree burns when she melts down.

[@nobody-special000]

​@@Gnohio IMO that's crazy. Even people who actually play with real fire wouldn't bring fire into their home & bed. Adrenaline Junkies still have moments of rest and a separation between their home-life and adrenaline-seeking. I think it's more to do with them being naïve and immature, or lonely and vulnerable... As well as just being easily manipulated by intense love-bombing, worship or flattery (narcissist).

[@Gnohio]

naïve, immature, lonely, vulnerable and dont forget desperate too! but yea i generally agree. im not acting like i know the answers but i guess its called 'irrational' for a reason. maybe its just that paternal protection instinct is so strong that you just get caught in the cycle, but i think in the end it just has to be one of things you go through first hand to truly understand it.@@nobody-special000

[@Nanitamochi]

It’s called wanting to get advantage of someone vulnerable

[@annienunyabiz6627]

I have known several people with BPD both personally and seen confirmed diagnosed cases online, and not one has not been deeply abusive, and absolutely fuck up every life they touch.

[@batbebebe]

Maybe not to you. My sister and mom have BPD. I'm not saying that everyone with BPD are actively malicious and incapable of growth, but being manipulative is part of the diagnosis. You'd never know the type of people they are behind closed doors.

[@DavidJones-ot8qu]

Folks with BPD are incredibly abusive to those they want validation from, it’s a disorder similar to NPD with a more passive presentation

[@nobody-special000]

@@batbebebe He used a double negative-- "not one has not" So he's saying there wasn't a single one that did not abuse others/ fuck up everyone else's life.

[@henrypollock7987]

@@batbebebeI think the problem is that mindset “I’m not an arsehole it’s my disorderly” no yes you are and you’re using it as another tool of manipulation

[@batbebebe]

@nobody-special000 Oh oops. Thanks for pointing that out

[@imcrow6674]

i knew 2 girls who are like this, they act identically (as he said, petite shy girl phenotype. septum piercing/harry potter glasses etc). one i knew for years was super bipolar like this and i set her off somehow later on, she manipulated my whole friend group into ghosting me (for being manipulative, kinda ironic). second one i only knew briefly, this was after the events of the first girl so i stopped talking with her shortly after i started recognizing the signs there is no "i can fix her", avoid them and save your sanity

[@nicematerial]

Tom the type of guy to begin a letter to Summer "You can read this to the entire staff"

[@swordandscale]

“I’m not scared anymore because I believe in God. Also, I’m scared.” 😂

[@JTeam45]

Septum piercings remain **the** symbol of unstable people. Detransitioning is just the icing on the cake tbh lol

[@LoungeLizard_33]

They're kinda hot tho

[@Snappy650]

@@LoungeLizard_33septum piercings are for cattle 🐮

[@smthnew861]

​@@LoungeLizard_33 and a symbol of the best head.

[@candideoptimism8775]

@@smthnew861speak for yourself

[@ThatEffinMonke]

​@@smthnew861 real, its always the crazy girls that give the best nut emptying, soul sucking head.

[@skwissgaar_skwigelf_kdz3251]

Toms the type of guy to hop in the car , drive down the Mass pike and search every mental hospital in the tri-state area .for the love of his life, and when he finds her he turns to the camera and says '' its been one crazy Summer'' lets go home darling.

[@inailedyourmom1]

What the fuck is the tri state area bro?

[@dolltranq]

@@inailedyourmom1phineas and ferb

[@j.l9946]

Tom the type of guy to 😂😂😂😂

[@zil7618]

lmao

[@Flesh_Wizard]

Lmeow

[@steelocean]

trolololol 😂

[@NecroPhil85]

BPD Girls are extremely hard to handle. You have to observe and learn about everything that could trigger the specific person. It's like being a 24/7 personal therapist and you will ultimately end up managing their life because they can't do it on their own.

[@_Eisley]

It's true, anyone with bpd can be very hard to handle. I was undiagnosed for years, and good god was I a train wreck. Getting the proper therapy and medication is essential for people with BPD. They really have to control their splitting and take accountability when they are being unreasonable. It can be hard, but it's possible. The person they are with especially needs to call out when they are being unreasonable. Some people with BPD (like Trisha Paytas) never take accountability because they use having BPD as an excuse to continue being crazy, as if it's impossible to change. That drives me insane, and it gives those of us who are managing our BPD a bad name.

[@supertrollfaxnoprinter3329]

@@_Eisley What is all this pussy shit. Just shutup and go to the gym.

[@supertrollfaxnoprinter3329]

I love lifting

[@CallumSk8er]

​@@supertrollfaxnoprinter3329 pump some iron baby yes lets get it

[@threethousandandone]

and then they will say you're abusive and controlling, it's best to turn tail and run.

[@regionalrange3052]

Tom is the kind of guy to say "Guys, don't sleep on the bald spot."

[@Anberye]

"DO NOT STICK YOUR RICHARD IN CRAZY NO MATTER HOW FINE LADS" don't take this advice fellas, you only have one life and it can be ruined and built back up many times over

[@sinjin8576]

Why do people keep calling her hot? She's like a solid 6 at best, get some standards fellas

[@cooperswan534]

@@sinjin8576because she could be my real life yandere queen 🥰

[@Flesh_Wizard]

​@@sinjin8576it's the cute sounding voice. She sounds like she needs to be protected. It's a mistake to believe feelings in her case

[@strangerofthe2067]

These voicemails are making me feel like I’m really missing out on quite an experience by not knowing anyone this batshit crazy. I’ve stuck to single flavors my whole life but I’m now realizing I can get all the Baskin Robbins flavors crammed into one small cup that is bursting at the seams and melting all over the floor in the 98 degree summer heat and fucking chaos is about to ensue. I want the chaos.

[@sinjin8576]

​@@Flesh_Wizardbro she sounds like a middle school kid. Her voice is grating

[@Mayor_Ncognito]

A girl with bangs and Harry Potter glasses lost their mind? No way!

[@autophobicdestruction1048]

She seems like a calm and reasonable person.

[@Vaidiss]

as someone with bpd, when it got really bad i took that time to hospitalize myself and go to therapy + take prescribed pills for my disorders after cause what i did to people was also negatively affecting me and its the worse feeling ever

[@succubipixie1336]

Tom the type of guy to troll fishtank with endless tts messages

[@gavinw197]

The tts plus the new environment and stimulus could definitively trigger psychosis in people predisposed to it

[@retardmode]

the entire show is an mkultra guantanamo bay mental torture experience

[@D_an_]

Tom back off! She's my schizo queen to save! Grrrrrrr!!!

[@Austin.Kilgore]

16:50 If she was ugly NO ONE would be saying it’s “not her fault” lol so let’s cut the BS

[@Dadum-bass]

Bingo. Chick's have a very easy litmus test to find out their hotness level. Just post an unfiltered selfie on a random forum with the caption "I'm so ugly 😭😭" If she gets told she's beautiful, she's a dog, if she gets told to stop fishing for compliments, she's hot.

[@OchioChan1325]

I appreciate you being sensitive and empathetic when talking about bpd. There is so much that goes into bpd. As someone who has bpd I appreciate it.

[@ItsMe-cp8xc]

I got the opposite. He seems like he’s constantly making fun of it and especially her as a person. I get that there’s memes and dark humor and such. It just gets to a certain point where they’re bullying and not caring about the person, just thinking about them as a literal character to think about and make fun of.

[@joeallan3706]

@@ItsMe-cp8xc bpd people are un-saveable stay far far away from them

[@253Monty]

awwww poor retards. weird how bpd seems to be female specific.

[@Kirbyinthevoid]

The comment section would send most BPD sufferers into a shame spiral. Tom moderates nothing. The misogyny especially is... a lot to unpack.

[@poon_don]

​​​@@ItsMe-cp8xc maybe it has something to do with the fact that everyone who has dated or lived with a bpd person knows what it's like to be with somebody who doesn't treat those unfortunate enough to know them like people. Hard to feel sympathy for somebody who uses everyone in their lives as pawns or toys to manipulate, constantly projecting their endless and ever-shifting tome of insecurities and shortcomings onto those around them. Torturing and apologizing in a neverending loop, learning/changing nothing and blaming everyone but themselves. Hard to feel sympathy for a group of people who would never bother lifting a finger for you if you were the one going through it.

[@VRabdreKizire]

Tom is the type of guy that plays Minecraft for a week, then doesn’t touch it for months.

[@sho-es2fi]

aren’t we all that guy?

[@tylerdurden629]

is this supposed to be a roast?

[@thievingdisc779]

Are you trying to get him to play minecraft

[@greased_up_balls]

Is this supposed to be

[@JustAverageJeff]

"Even though I'm in the psych ward at the hospital I'm the most stable I've ever been in my life I change my mind and I want back on the show." So sad what people will put themselves through just for clout. You can buy access to the bathroom cams how disgusting and degenerate.

[@Kingcobra6699]

Clout, once tasted must corrupt like to much money or power does. Eventually everybody gets corrupted by money or power..... And obviously clout. It's just the possibility to have clout was no option for a common average person. But nowadays everybody can get clout and once they had it they cannot leave it. Far worse then cocaine, if you think about it.... Edit: If it isn't already, the addiction to clout may be it's own sort of addiction soon as the likes of gambling, sex, excessive working,...

[@laz7777]

Bathroom cams are almost completely blurred out. Calm down buddy.

[@JustAverageJeff]

Messed up you have to pay for it before you find that out@@laz7777

[@Sonyboj]

"I'm the most stable I've ever been in my life" This is probably true as now she is being on meds like haldol and lithuim, mood stabalizers in the psych ward

[@JustAverageJeff]

I have BPD and had a psychotic breakdown and it takes months to get back to normal after an episode.@@Sonyboj

[@_Eisley]

When you have BPD, especially when you are young and don't know how to deal with it, it can make a person do and say crazy things. She needs to help herself, take her medication consistently and try to realize when she's splitting. This she will only learn the older she gets and with growth. She should especially NEVER drink or do illegal drugs. It took me a long time to get my bpd under control and live a healthy life. Some people never do because they use having bpd as an excuse for acting crazy, which drives me nuts. I do feel sorry for her, but i understand people wanting nothing to do with her. Its actually pretty sad.

[@toolittletoolate]

I had a Nurse Practitioner with BPD. it's totally possible to have it and be a good human being, it just takes a lot of work and no drug will fix it at all. The number one cure for BPD is counsiling and getting your shit together. I dated a chick with BPD she's fucked even though I've told her to stop harassing me not long ago she walked by my house and made nonsense noises into my open window. Months since I told her to stop trying to contact me after she messages (months after I had stopped talking to her) about the fact I had added someone on facebook. BPD is so fucked when they don't do anything about it.

[@BluesGold.]

Holy fuck. I work at a hospital in Rhode Island, I won't disclose which, but I'm pretty sure she was in our psych ward. I don't know her last name, so I can't be totally sure, but she was transferred into one of our normal rooms, which all have phones. So it totally makes sense that she could've been calling constantly, no one would've been there to stop her.

[@hotstankygarbage788]

Was she in the "risk" ward or the normal one?

[@BluesGold.]

@@hotstankygarbage788 We have a section of our emergency room that is made for high risk/psychiatric patients. I work in the dietary department, and we only send spoons, and no hot soups or drinks. This is to prevent anyone from harming themselves, or the nurses. This is the part of the ER she was in, until they cleared her to the high-watch wing of the hospital. This is where she would have had access to a phone.

[@CsFrmDaA]

Tom's the type of guy to listen to leaked voicemails

[@consumer1073]

youre next on the false r word allegation list she has bro

[@Saulbreadman]

That voice gives me I'm psycho but I'm trying to sound innocent vibes

[@Flesh_Wizard]

Never listen to someone who sounds like they're on 1HP despite being fine 🙏🏻💀

[@GrimDim]

Woman pitching up their voice higher than normal always felt like a red flag to me.

[@gregutz4284]

Tom's voice gives me vibes like "I can fix her"

[@nobody-special000]

@@Flesh_Wizard Always listen to someone that looks like they're 1hp with an arm missing and sound fine.

[@barrag3463]

Tom was having some serious PTSD listening to the call methinks.

[@tylercraig5633]

Yeeeeah she clearly sounds like a clear and rational person lol

[@drscott7359]

Second comment- in 24 yrs of medical practice the classic BPD is middle age heavier females often from a helping profession - nursing etc! Having a full on BPD patient in the hospital is hard they totally self sabotage and split staff and I’m just trying to treat freaking pneumonia- and BPD treatment is poor , personality disorders are hard to treat and the treatments are not very effective BPD I think uses something called DBT but a big falsehood is thinking this person just needs to see a therapist maybe 25% chance she would improve with just that- or anything- not to be a Debbie downer.

[@nathanr4377]

Gad darn! She reminds me of my Ex with BPD she tried to ruin my life with false accusations, The only reason I made it out is because I kept our convos and I am on the spectrum. Stay safe fams!!!

[@SpentLast]

Skill issue. Glad you are out

[@einhalbesbrot]

You made it out because you are on the spectrum?

[@kylevernon]

You have to do a video on Skitzy_VA the Mr.Beast meme guy. His real name is Greg and he showed up in the tank to do a Mr. Beast impression for one hour and Sam never told him he had to go. Greg is a little autistic so he just kept waiting for the confirmation he could go but Sam kept telling him he’ll pay him more money and to stay one more night. Then Sam tells him to stay for 5 more days but never said it would be paid and Greg just goes with it thinking it would be paid. Greg then calls out production for not letting him leave so he boxes Ben from production and wins. Sam then tells him he’ll make more money and fame if he stays until the end. They continue to gaslight him that they don’t have the funds to pay Greg and take his phone whenever he’s trying to contact someone on the outside. Greg ends up staying till the end of the show and actually comes out of his shell. They eventually make him part of production. The show ends today so we’re all waiting on how much he’ll actually get paid.

[@shnitzel9052]

gaslighting the mrbeast guy to become part of production is actually so funny lmao. They probably will gyp him of what he thought he would earn, but Sam is pretty smart about maneuvering these kinds of events into something that can be settled. My guess is what Sam did promise + the production staff wage (for how many hours he did stay) instead of the bonus of 5 days. My guess is that Greg was getting paid more than any individual on production in terms of time.

[@err0rc0degames]

I think show ends on day 42?

[@Styx_The_Beetle_Bug]

As someone with diagnosed BPD it is very hard to understand your actions unless it's in an unattached way... it's hard to let go of certain things and situations that eat the brain and it feels like a constant struggling state of a fight against your own head. That in no way excuses any of this deranged behavior but as we can tell she needs serious help..

[@_Eisley]

Yeah, she does need serious help. Now in my early 30's I've managed to keep my mental health under control. Accountability and getting the right therapy and medication does wonders for some of us with BPD. She's young, so maybe she just needs to grow

[@retro_jojo3159]

Anytime you hear an adult with a childlike voice there is a good chance they were SA'ed as a child. It's like the trauma locks them into a childlike state. Be very cautious around people like that, mental illness and being a victim are always close behind.

[@AliceBowie]

Her voice changes between the high pitched kid voice and a deeper voice. It's crazy, it really sounds like two different people.

[@nobody-special000]

I don't think it's wise to assume that many people have been molested or worse, by their family, etc. Especially when they tend to be the paranoid type, or just the compulsive-liar-for-attention type. There are other ways someone can develop a childlike persona for dealing with people, and to be frank, it seems like a strategy for a lot of girls to avoid harsher interactions, as it manipulates people innate desire to protect children (not saying this is consciously thought out, but can be pursued subconsciously).

[@thetruth5232]

The childlike voice is generally a manipulation tactic. Past trauma also generally makes past victims more likely to engage in manipulative and abusive behaviour themselves. Bipolar, Narcissistic and borderline people be avoided at all cost.

[@bunnypencil]

As a pleasant person with bpd... Thank you, recovery is really hard but we do get better with meds and therapy ❤ thank u tom

[@y0ur2truly]

real‼️ he was based for saying that not all people with BPD are terrible. summer is the type of BPD that contributes to the bad rep we get. she needs help and a better support system in her life. i hope that in the hospital, they give her proper resources for her clear mental health crisis. she needs therapy so badly, and meds would help her mood swings and sleep so much. i hope she can "wake up" in a way and recognize that she needs to do better. i hope she and her life gets better for her.

[@TheSonicSegaNerd]

Same, I'm a "quiet" BPD. Basically BPD except all the chaos rarely leaves your mind. this video was a shit show. I hope she gets the stability her brain desperately needs.

[@nobody-special000]

What do you think about all the guy's who've met girls that said the same things as you all, but it turned out to be BS? So now they're disillusioned & heavy proponents of "they can't be fixed"? Also, therapy usually doesn't work. It has a very low success rate, statistically, but that's across the board, maybe it helps BPD in particular? Meds can suppress symptoms, but so can lobotomising-- if you use very twisted ideas of what it means to "cure" someone.

[@HelloKittySGTC]

She doesnt need holding, she needs a firm hand that tells he to stop crying and think about what shes doing. Some Crying is am excuse to not have responsibility for their actions

[@kemmyexists]

tom the type of guy to headpet summer and call her a kitten

[@PatriciaParra-xz5wl]

Rock hard

[@swordandscale]

Good shit, man. Thanks!

[@CVTaxi]

TOM THE TYPE OF GUY TO BE OVER A MONTH BEHIND

[@zachariahabbas1400]

I was friends with someone with BPD and was their "favorite person" for 10+ years. That shit is scary. The way they interpreted my responses would control their mood for the day, way too much responsibility to handle

[@frenak12]

Ahh finally someone covering this situation I couldn't keep up with it at all lol

[@dylanberesford2980]

I have a pattern of ending up with these types of women with BPD, but I struggle with codependency so it just turns into a dumpster fire.

[@ohn9431]

Tom the type of guy to introduce Summer to Boogie

[@mooncow-io]

I run for the hills the second I detect BPD lmao. I've been, and have had friends who have been, abused by people with BPD. I'm sure people out there with this disorder could absolutely live nice, normal, stable lives...but that has not been my experience with them whatsoever (10 for 10 lol), and it's definitely made me realize that I don't want anyone with BPD anywhere near me. I will not let someone that unstable and abusive within my circle again.

[@Kirbyinthevoid]

Just want to point out as a pleasant person with BPD, we don't tell you. We see you make comments like this and we think "Oh no, if my friend knows I'm also BPD, he'll judge me the same way". So you never hear about the diagnosis. You aren't a safe person to share with, due to being so closed off and eager to judge. TL;DR You likely know folks with these trauma disorders that hide it due to the stigma you're actively perpetuating.

[@mooncow-io]

@@Kirbyinthevoid oh trust me, I know them lol.

[@SoddenSlop]

Tom the type of guy to stub his toe and then say “ ah well …I guess that’s how the cookie crumbles “

[@ColdFuse96]

The "I was the happiest I've ever been in my life on the show" hit me hard 💀💀

[@natalyaball1]

Summer is a person with feelings who needs help and I hope she goes on to have a normal life

[@rhinoinahat]

@Vera.stzuka the type of guy to say "Summer is a person with feelings who needs help and I hope she goes on to have a normal life"

[@EAEAAAEAEE]

​@@rhinoinahat good one 😂

[@wilihey1425]

@@rhinoinahat ong

[@Thighgod]

i disagree, her allegations against the mde team kinda show how terrible she is

[@y0ur2truly]

she definitely needs help. i have BPD and people like this who cant control themselves and cope with their unintentionally toxic and manipulative behavior really give us a bad rep 🙄 unintentional manipulation is still manipulation. she needs therapy and meds, SO BAD, she is clearly so unstable... her trying to convince people she's stable proves that. you shouldn't have to convince people you're stable if you really are. i hope she's able to see the truth of her actions one day, and can do better. she definitely needs to dive into herself and recognize what shes doing is wrong. i wish the best for her, but i dont agree with her actions at all.

[@HelloKittySGTC]

Trauma or not, there many women that leech onto men like this, and if the man distances themselves it could be drastic

[@Queenkai-x]

I feel this girl; I also have BPD and so many other mental disorders due to extreme trauma for many years. It is possible to manage it. But yeah, I don’t blame anyone for not being able to handle and support someone who has trauma and mental disorders, it really is a lot. It’s a lotto deal with ourselves sometimes. It takes a lot of therapy and self awareness in order to live a productive and healthy life. For those of you who also suffer, you’re not a bad person, or “crazy” and it’s possible to he happy 💜 I live a productive and responsible life and it took a loooonnngggg time of being a shit person to heal from trauma and feel like I can be a better person and actually try to be. I hope this girl can recover from whatever caused her to be this way. No one is born with these types of issues, they have to endure bad situations and trauma which rewire the brain drastically. It’s terrible to deal with and terrible for those effected as well.

[@GraybushThreepwood]

Honestly I feel like they took advantage of her by allowing her to be on the show on the first place. They obviously look into the contestants before bringing them in, and this whole fishtank thing screams of taking advantage of the lowest of the low. Because who would willingly go on a show like this in the first place where you're subjected to all kinds of emotional torment? Idk. This whole thing makes me really uncomfortable.

[@dannydanny865]

I could fix you Sorry, just had to say it

[@TheAuzman466]

@@GraybushThreepwoodI was watching during the first two weeks, there was a lot of speculation that she lied about her medical history to get on the show. I don’t know if it was ever confirmed.

[@nobody-special000]

Yeah, someone with delusions & paranoia isn't an unreliable narrator-- the fact you say this makes me doubt your claims. "No one is born with these types of issues," Genetics is a pseudoscience, but psychology totally isn't, of course. The fact that it only seems to effect women, or at least only manifests in women in that way, hints to it being genetic. If predisposition towards homosexuality is genetic, why wouldn't there be potential for predisposition towards mental things other than sexuality. It's just about determining what mental illnesses can be induced in pretty much everyone, given the 'right' conditions.

[@CommanderTornado]

​@nobody-special000 Men can and have been diagnosed with BPD in the past. It's less common in men but that may be due to underreporting as men usually seek mental health support less often than women.

[@Raidoven]

40:00 "I could help you, but I could break you" -said in the most uwu voice possible

[@MrAllmightyCornholioz]

3:10 "She's hot BECAUSE she's crazy" Tom 2024

[@MustangMike52]

Based take

[@majorwoody666]

“A woman with BPD will absolutely ruin you and you need to run fast, run far, cut contact with them immediately” this might seem drastic, but truer words have never been spoken quite like this. Just. Run.

[@CrabMan42]

why people saying their attracted to her. I honestly feel bad for her,. Her mind must have been everywhere. Most people dont understand people except call them crazy. I knew someone related to me that had really bad behavior problems. Not in "oh their anti social" but theres a part of them that cant help but feel that way wheather they mean it or not. I hope she gets the help.

[@rolivioli]

i used to be crazy like this. the petite, pretty, white girl with BPD trope is true. idk how i fixed it but it's possible lmao. i stayed single and celibate for over a year and went to therapy and got sober and got in a relationship and something helped. i am not nearly as crazy as i used to be, i don't "split" like EVER, i only have once in the past year and it wasn't even because of my relationship. it's possible to get better. she just needs to stay single, stay home, go to therapy, learn coping mechanisms and realize how manipulative she is. you can stop it before it starts, it's literally just thinking before you do stupid shit. impulse control. i hope she gets better. mine was worse than hers. good luck to her fr. btw ik it takes a lot of work and time. i did it, i'm not fully recovered ofc bc it takes a lot of time... but it's soooo possible. i hate when ppl use excuses to be abusive and terrible when they have BPD bc it's literally not impossible to change or recognize our behaviors

[@thegrimlooper]

People with BPD can be nice. I can say that its hard living with it too, the shame, guilt and embarrassment can really be crippling once things start to settle down. However, there are things that require for you to hurt so you can work through it. (Im not saying you can just work through BPD but there are tactics to help)

[@notreally-sf3df]

Uh, I don't think you have a grasp on what BPD does to the psyche. For people who act this way, there IS no shame, guilt and embarrassment.

[@DavidJones-ot8qu]

@Fauch2ouchBPD is a personality disorder centered around manipulation. The entire purpose of the disorder is for the individual who has the disorder to find whatever validation they can from others because they have absolutely no sense of self worth, which is why they do things like love bombing which is meant to manipulate the other person into giving you validation, and it’s why they try to destroy you once you take the validation away. They feel completely valueless, so they try to remove the thing that makes them feel valueless (or get them to change their mind). NPD and BPD are exceptionally similar disorders, only differing in tactics used to attain validation

[@Raidoven]

25:00 >"im not gonna call you guys anymore" >video not even halfway done >HAHAHAHAHA

[@penilescab]

"unsane" is insane and unhinged combined i think

[@kuroichan101]

As someone with mentally ill family members. This is pretty sad. I hope she gets better instead of insulted online

[@user-dd8xv7jg9q]

They think cause she like a 6.5/10 she can act like that 😭😭😭😭 where her family 😭😭😭😭😭

[@rebeccamary6336]

I have BPD. I confirm Tom's comment. People with BPD constantly feel crazy.

[@vintagepiece4850]

Let’s try to get her favorite person to be Tom so she can stalk him nonstop

[@figbat6363]

Dude i seriously think i have a problem after watching this. I realized it as soon as you said petite white pastey

[@kim-jong-poon]

Remember Tom, you will NEVER be able to fix her... But you can always give her a tune up 🔧

[@jmal529]

Did anyone else catch the "my dad certainly doesn't care" bit? Bingo

[@sinjin8576]

Anyone who willingly wants to back to that house is *NOT* stable. >muh 50k You couldnt get me to deal with Fatty or jimmy for 50 *million* Not even mentioning all the other horrors of that house

[@ollytropics1735]

Real fatty os nasty asf especially if you couldnt leave ever

[@aguy2735]

I fell for a bpd baddie once 6 years later she cheated on me and i went to rehab (she never used to my knowledge just me trying to cope). Now i have the most money ive ever had, the best mental state, and im totally cool staying single now and waiting until i meet someone who clicks with me. She became a prostitute with herpes getting willingly pimped out by the dude she cheated on me with. Hopefully she does better soon. I'm not contacting her to find out bc she wrapped me around her finger before. There is hope for bpd baddie recovery boys. Also it is really unnerving hearing her leave voicemails in the same manic/depressive tones about delusions that borderline personality disorder causes like tom said. But man if she had a kentucky accent she would be the girl i dated. Crazy.

[@gerbygerbs7705]

Sounds like you got giga screwed. I love me some crazy women but the worst all I got out of it was my car keyed and showing up to my company. Still a different kind of nightmare and lessons learned. Got my car cera-coated and work from home, still playing the game.

[@aguy2735]

@@gerbygerbs7705 i mean you are right. Crazy women are hot. Its like living on the edge, what version of you am i gonna get? Its like a mood mystery crate? Come on come on oh damn another common (possesive). Maybe i'll get a rare (normal) or a legendary (manic but in a good way)

[@krayofsunshine]

Thank you Tom for saying there are pleasant people with BPD and identifying the symptom that causes the most friction in our relationships: splitting. That being said, for those of us diagnosed with BPD who are in therapy and take medications as prescribed, it is actually one of the MOST treatable mental illnesses and is even under consideration to no longer be classed a personality disorder. Take care of yourself and your mind. Mental illness isn’t your fault but it definitely is your responsibility.

[@krayofsunshine]

Unless you wanna attract the kinda guy like Tom I guess 😂

[@Zyklon_B_still_and_know_God]

How the fuck does something being treatable mean it is no longer a disorder?

[@TinyBoxBin]

@@Zyklon_B_still_and_know_God its hard to explain. I have bpd and am new to this myself vut its like still a disorder its just not a personality disorder because the meds do actually change and fix u unlike if u had dissociate episode identity disorder or something like psychosis u cant take meds that make it work for ur mind u will have the episodes regardless of meds i think it was somethinh like this when explained to me by my doctor but im bad at re explaining stuff and there was definitly more to what he said

[@Flesh_Wizard]

@@krayofsunshine tom is definitely the kinda guy...

[@y0ur2truly]

​@@Zyklon_B_still_and_know_Goddid you read the comment at all? they didnt say its not a disorder, its just UNDER CONSIDERATION of being CLASSED as a PERSONALITY related disorder.

[@theflash6539]

jokes aside. this is the type of woman I go for

[@lonewolflow4965]

I'm bipolar and this girl just had a full blown manic psychotic episode live while thousands of people laughed at her and she now has it immortalized forever online that'll follow her for the rest of her life. This is foul, heartbreaking and just wow.

[@manicmode]

I hope she will get help and things will improve.

[@Jay-pg6zg]

true but she was accusing the fishtank team of raping and abusing her so she made herself a legal problem, leaking these calls so the public knows how insane she is was smart, otherwise simps may have believed her

[@Jay-pg6zg]

you don't get to lie and accuse others of things like that and expect your own reputation to go untarnished

[@DoctorDownvote]

Yeah when money and business is involved, there's no room for sympathy for damaging lies. It really doesn't matter what she's going through, discrediting her is paramount.

[@lonewolflow4965]

Damage control, i get it, everyone does and im not up-in-arms by the calls getting made public at all. It's just a whole messed up situation and she went from bad, to maic psychosis, she's there but mentally not, and has absolutely no control over what she's doing/saying. Psychotic manic episodes aren't "oh this persons just acting crazy" you quite literally have no control over anything that's happening.

[@kylevernon]

I’m glad you’re covering Fishtank again. It had a slightly smaller following this season but it was so much better.

[@laz7777]

Smaller? What are you talking about? Viewership has been consistently higher throughout the season.

[@kylevernon]

@@laz7777 Yeah, I'm probably wrong. Season 1 had some seriously high numbers at some point but also some low points. Season 2 has been consistently 7k-15k during active hours.

[@playablecharacter3871]

Its kinda sad when people are like "just get help, go to therapy" they dont work lol you get locked in a prison and blasted with drugs, or you go and talk about your shit and keep it in your reality and get blasted with drugs, and the drugs arent designed to help you, theyre designed to keep you buying the drug.

[@poon_don]

Real shit. Exercise, sunlight, mindfulness, gratitude, and accountability are the only things that actually work. Good luck even affording "help" if you don't have several hundred dollars of disposable income per month

[@Novsev9069]

It’s always the girls with those big glasses

[@Dogan_TM]

Accountability? Naaaah homie, I got mental disorders.

[@gaspartiznado6418]

"We love you, Summer. No homo." Bro, what?

[@HelloKittySGTC]

Age regression isnt a kink. But it can be. Unfortunately for some, they havent matured, and it shows.

[@Bee.bop1234]

whats funny ab ppl like her is that they'll sound like they know what their problems are but they never do anything to change

[@johnathanpabon7063]

See 4 videos ago i called tom out for simpinh for these type of women then boom here we are

[@Khrada]

This woman has the danger look on her face, and it is made even worse when she started talking. Don't fix her, Tom!

[@jamesward1210]

Tom the type of guy to say “she probably never should have been on the show, she definitely shouldn’t ever be in the public eye” mid releasing a video about her darkest moment to the public. The narcissism is strong in this one.

[@violetblythe6912]

Something interesting about BPD is that for about 30-40% of women it goes into “remission” by the time they reach age 30-ish. Makes you wonder if that means people were misdiagnosed with BPD, or if it’s related to hormonal issues that even out for some people as their bodies mature. Unfortunately the same is not true for bipolar (often needs meds for life) and a lot of people with BPD also have bipolar.

[@Sonyboj]

oh so thats why my sis finally got her life together lmao hoe

[@whateverwhatever4026]

Sooo women, especially younger, are naturally crazy? I agree.

[@Alex-vm6ef]

Mental illnesses aren't "real" in the sense that someone has or doesn't have them. It's a word we made up to describe a kind of mental state people enter, and different people do in response to different stimulus. This is why everybody has "ADHD" now bc our society has moved toward a structure that induces that mind state in more + more people, not just the ones particularly susceptible to it

[@kmn1778]

Lots of girls who get diagnosed with bpd acc have autism, men get diagnosed with autism for the same symptoms. A lot of times it's just responding to trauma I think lots of ppl will have symptoms of bpd when they've had a bad time.

[@DavidJones-ot8qu]

@@kmn1778This is a myth that’s spread exactly because there’s some underlying desire to equalize the number of autistic men and women, when it actually truly just seems like men have autism at higher rates, which is not at all out of the question considering we go through mildly different developmental processes in the womb. Autism in men and women presents very very similarly, but people with BPD are motivated to get a diagnosis of autism for a variety of self-protective reasons, and people in the field are eager to get credit for evening the gender gap

[@lil-soda-boi]

16:08 LIL SODA BOI SPOTTED 🚨⚠

[@xqwz4901]

i was wondering why i acted like her sometimes and then she said her diagnoses 😭 got the same ones

[@xqwz4901]

listening to the voicemailis crazy cus im like Woah wtf thats probably how i sound during my moments 😭😭😭