Yeah, so helpful. I always say the song is a conversation, you should be listening more than talking. Usually someone is trying to play the lick they learned that week or more and its so annoying. Its not about HEY LISTEN TO ME........I'm not a great musician in any sense of the word and at this age find myself doing all solo gigs because like Tommy said, nobody knows how to listen, drives me crazy. As you mature you should say more with less.