TommyKay Reacts to Loneliness (Kurzgesagt - In a Nutshell)

[@stanhunter5817]

Watching informative content with tommy feels like watching documentaries in class with a cool teacher

[@kapitanbach7411]

@Spicyleaves Teacher who plays hoi4 while he puts some videos on the whiteboard

[@napo8123]

Yep hahahahaha

[@stanhunter5817]

@Spicyleaves haha also true

[@saltboi5411]

Lisa saying tommy is beautiful is just very sweet

[@jawshvancouver2754]

Oh I thought it was sarcasm lol

[@aleksandarmanojlovic4988]

Tommy really felt proud that moment

[@alexvonrom7942]

and we will never know how it feels...

[@reecewood155]

The loneliest time of my life was when my parents and I moved to France. I was never happy and I never felt accepted no matter what I did. I still don't feel fully accepted since I am American not French, and that's how I'm recognized by my French friends, but I'm happy now. I also do a lot of stuff alone now since I enjoy it more, but I don't feel lonely.

[@FriedrichBarb]

Youre not alone many including me live in regions surrounded by culture/people who I dont feel truly apart of or accepted, but it gets better as years go on, glad you overcame it

[@MrGuana141]

Where are you in France mate ? I'm French myself, and I would be happy to help you blend in if you want

[@marktheprussian]

I feel like if youre a foreigner in any country that speaks a different language, your chance of being lonely is way higher because of the language barrier. I think im lucky that i can speak 2 languages confidently and another language less confident in that regard

[@heavencanceller1863]

I love hearing Tommy talk about his own experiences and stories. I hope he helps a lot of people who are lonely

[@reecewood155]

Fun fact: It is possible to die from a heartbreak. It is called broken-heart syndrome. It happens when a large amount of stress hormones cause short-term heart muscle failure. Luckily it is easily treatable.

[@drdeer4408]

Carry Fisher’s mom died because of broken heart syndrome after Carrie Fisher died

[@LiterallyMe91]

Thats not a very "fun" fact

[@theonlywalltostareat5808]

@@HAR_93 imagine something like that but instead of that , you get betrayed

[@personfromgermany]

The gland in the middle of the chest is the pancreas tommy. It also doesnt release adrenaline, which is released near the kidneys. And the guy who said thyroid gland is wrong cos the thyroid gland is in the neck.

[@d4ze7385]

Ok.

[@personfromgermany]

@Spicyleavesit was in the twitch chat

[@someguysomeone3543]

"Loneliness makes you age faster, makes cancer deadlier, alzheimers advances faster and weakens the immune system" Me after speed running life: PARKOUR!!!

[@arturo0727]

Tommy: I'm here for you chat 20min later...... Tommy: Don't you dare text me chat, don't you f$$$ing dare. 😅🤣

[@lucasvasconcelos5705]

You know the guy is a content creator when the video is 12 minutes and his reaction's more than the double of its size

[@blowfishgun9946]

Alpha being lonely? Impossible

[@marnoprinsloo1344]

TommyKay smartest man of the year? So far, he has made so many good points and talked about such interesting topics with some big brain. Good man... Realy, a good man. Man like him and a man like me, don't mind if we had a talk you know? I legit feel like I could talk 3 straight hours with Tommy irl. So many times I have thought like I just want to react with him. Not cause I'm creepy or stuff, but because he says things that are such interesting topics. Like, this man is talking about a feeling in your chest/ heart after a heartbreak or something. DIS MAN IS GUD.

[@gabrielegenota1480]

fuckin love tommy so fuckin much

[@vincentcampaert8497]

He just regurgitates whatever someone else says.

[@marnoprinsloo1344]

@@vincentcampaert8497 Yes he does sometimes, but you must be the biggest idiot not to understand how opinions work and how ideas work. You, you are just a teenage German who listens to rap music and NPC oblivion videos. But hey, I respect your opinion as well

[@gabrielegenota1480]

​@@vincentcampaert8497 "All my opinions are from me making shit up because i dont listen to other people B)"

[@vincentcampaert8497]

@@marnoprinsloo1344 I know how opinions work, I also know that Tommy has said himself that he only regurgitates leftist ideas, minus the SJW stuff.

[@bruhbruh8403]

my loneliest time is rn I start school tomorrow and have only one friend who sint even on my school. I go into 10th grade but lost all my friends during corona and because I switched school. At the school I am now, people are unfriendly and judging.

[@isiteckaslike]

I think part of it is to recognise which types of social interaction work for you and which ones don't. That way you can have the interaction you need and avoid loneliness without having to engage often in ways that you really hate. (e.g. Chose to go to a club or society in person when they're meeting in smaller groups, or meet friends or family at their houses or at cafes/pubs etc rather than feel obliged to go to huge parties if they aren't your thing.) Some people love big gatherings and drifting around talking to people they don't know, others love talking in smaller groups where you can actually hear each other and have a laugh, or talk about something deep and then have a laugh afterwards. Think about what you like and why, don't force yourself too hard to be someone you aren't - and just be comfortable either being someone who likes big groups or small groups and go with the flow. That way you'll be more relaxed and more yourself and you'll enjoy the social interaction, people will get to know you and like you for being you, and you'll want to socialise with them more often because you're more in control of the environments where these interactions occur.

[@agrippa5643]

That's a big and great advice thanks man!

[@agrippa5643]

That's a big and great advice thanks man!

[@ermespizzolato2325]

i have learn this from experience, i think that the best way to exit loneliness is by pushing your self out, and that means making the step: if you feel lonely and you do know someone even just a school mate or coworker just reach out and text them asking maybe to go out, but the important thing to learn is accepting that they might say no, and when it happen just try another time, and try to not put your self down

[@aleksandarmanojlovic4988]

I became lonely during first months of pandemic, my parents didn't let me meet anyone but my best friend. It somehow built in me and lost a need to meet other friends. After some time I realized that I am lonely but I felt like it would be akward to meet someone. I also finished primary school and I felt like I distanced too much from my old friends. When the situation in my country became alright I decided to rebrand myself and called my old good friend and I met his friends and I felt happy. It was hard to break some form of barrier around me but I feel like it is still around with me and is making me want to be alone.

[@Gamerguy_69420]

Im ngl watching this video made me cry alot man

[@eye-chan1711]

I had a friend who basically got addicted to being lonely and pushed all of his friends away... We all were trying to help him with his social problems and anxiety but he learned nothing from it.

[@undead_6662]

Ngl that feeling of getting away from the crowd and feel that little itch better the throat and heart..... Feels good

[@undead_6662]

only a small amount tho

[@AnimosityIncarnate]

That's me, and it's not because I wanted to. I couldn't help myself... I mean I guess it's better to push everyone away if you're in my boat, because I don't plan on being here much longer. Better than just hurting a bunch of people you're close to

[@timno2639]

My grandpa has bad hearing, bad eyesight in 1 eye and blind in the other but we still try to visit him and grandma whenever we can

[@fipeke]

i always feel ashamed for feeling lonely because i think im actually the one self-sustaining my own loneliness by comparing my social life with other people every time i see 2 people hanging out. its difficult to even walk in the mall because i see people hanging around in starbucks or whatever, just chilling having a coffee and talking. i moved to a city a few months ago and i had my first visitor after over 5 months, but i also havent invited a lot of people over. i know that but my brain instantly goes to "no one actually wants to be around me" and its a really difficult thought to overcome and open up about.

[@JAKE-ng8yr]

":i think im actually the one self-sustaining my own loneliness by comparing my social life with other people every time i see 2 people hanging out" holy shit bro, I'm literally the same. I feel lonely every single time I see some people outside that are in a group of at least 2 people. It's so fucked up, I can't go anywhere without feeling lonely

[@fipeke]

@@JAKE-ng8yr since that first comment i have gotten way less lonely. not because i invited people over or because i took initiative in meeting other people, but because i never say no to hang out and i showed appreciation for the few friends i had back then. i wrote them christmas letters, tagged them on instagram and whatever. i have a lot of friends now actually so things can get better

[@JAKE-ng8yr]

@@fipeke thats cool but I dont use instagram and no one invites me to stuff :( literally no one. So it's not like I'm declining it

[@gladki_kriminal4791]

9:10 - 10:30 for about a minute Tommy tries to say the word "heart".

[@lucasvasconcelos5705]

I really wondered if I'm lonely or alone. I just left school and could have gone to my friends but I didn't to stay listening to music and watching all the other people interaction. I've never really felt lonely because I have my family and great friends, yet I don't know if I've become more defensive when meeting new people because of my latest relationship. It hit me pretty bad and it's been almost 2 years now but I still get the vibes when meeting somebody else, like I'm not very much receptive to actually make a conversation. Anyway, should reflect more on that

[@ottovonbismarckboi9112]

Ayo, this resonates with me to well.

[@snafu3394]

25:04 wooooo ya baby thats what I've been waiting for!!

[@tomlloyd2603]

watching this during a breakup 🥲

[@sir_duckington1245]

That feeling right before a crash is i think muscles in ur chest/belly just going mental

[@steveoj_]

Tommy: It’s alright chat im here for you Tommy also: fu** u chat don’t look at me

[@agrippa5643]

Tommy actually when the girl was upset to see a girl.and a man in the cinema. I found myself.in her. I'm quite lonely too, when i go to gym and i see couples enjoying themselfs, i become so upset. Its hurting even more when you remind you tried so hard to change that.

[@tominieminen66]

Great thumbnail bruh! xD

[@vipersuit2652]

Installing Discord on the 4th of Januar this Year was a unbelivable good deceision

[@3NC3PH4L0N]

If youre lonely: START CARING FOR OTHER PEOPLE, MORON! Youre not alone, youre just lonely

[@clovebeans713]

8:29 Tommy probably just had gastritis from eating spicy food on a date.

[@jacobmccracken7232]

He needs to react to the history and future of everything

[@muhammadhafidzbawafi3457]

can you tell tommy to make a podcast with kurzgesagt.

[@JamesMBC]

My problem with Twitch reactions is they often devolve into "X streamer reacts to Twitch chat while video plays in the background", instead of being focused on the actual content of the video. I know it's a balancing act, but I think parts of the video are being ignored while chat talk takes over. At least it's good chat talk here, instead of "Oh xXSpicyburritoXx, you are eating a sandwich and going to sleep? Fascinating! Good night!".

[@Boretheory]

Lmao i got a girlfriend with my same passion in TikTok ( still don’t understand how that happened). She is gentle, beautiful, likes history and lives near me. We started to talk and after 2 days she exit with “ i’m a girl actually “. You never know when and where you will find your friends or partners. Talk and stay in social channels about what you like.

[@Boretheory]

Also loneliness combined with social damage can lead to suicide. Which is something I unluckily admit to have though. Overcoming your weakness, that is the objective in life.

[@JAKE-ng8yr]

passion in tiktok hahhahaha okay bro. 90% of young people are like npcs with heads on tiktok now

[@JAKE-ng8yr]

but yeah second part is true

[@thi.]

damn i completely forgot to watch the video because i only watched tommy kay play with the rubber band

[@maxipimer9946]

lol its called a rubber band

[@thi.]

@@maxipimer9946 thx forgot the english word for it

[@dixonsider873]

Where my lonely brothers of the gingerhood at?

[@kantar007]

proudly repping the lonely gingerhood

[@giubob1862]

The speakers in the supermarket with a happy voice says that ''less contact is good''. crazy covid shit. self preservation instict goes WTF?!

[@mcgamers5223]

iam i do only one that prefers to be alone I still talk to my frendes but I prefer to be alone then with people

[@braunijsskokolade3461]

Wonderful video.

[@kaidone1]

Since Corona more and more Young People are lonely

[@arjunghanekar6140]

Tbf cause of Covid I can’t socialise as much in india especially cause schools/colleges are closed

[@ocallaghan3865]

It's only feilds for me I don't work on them Just surrounded

[@Ak92029]

Not surprised that most of his chat is lonely

[@Bren5555]

I get what he means. I get that feeling in my chest as well.

[@SerHoratio]

damn like if your lonley like just dont be like yeah

[@person-ep7yc]

yeah

[@Hotasianchick]

If you're homeless, just get a home

[@frantnegh7583]

yeah

[@EddieBurke]

@@Hotasianchick even the rich can’t buy a home in Canada lmfao

[@tugrulserhat]

8:20 we know man... when the emotional pain turns into physical, that's when you know you are actually hurt :/

[@dumpsterfire1503]

I have 2 friends that are really close and we play video games all of the time and we are nerds so...find people that are similar to you

[@fusion7994]

Used the featured video, on multiple occasions to help myself.

[@William_Bill_Overbeck]

Loneliest time of my life is now lol

[@Deku20235]

My friend group is the best. We are 10 people all from different backgrounds and have different interests, but we all listen to each other and love each other. We meet each other almost every weekend and once a year we go on a holiday all together for a week. Can't ask for more to be honest.

[@JAKE-ng8yr]

where did u meet them?

[@Deku20235]

@@JAKE-ng8yr 2 from middle school, 3 from highschool and part time jobs. Did not introduce them all to the group, but also just met one through a party of a person I semi known and became really good friends.

[@JAKE-ng8yr]

@@Deku20235 yeah but if u dont meet people in school later its near impossible

[@Deku20235]

@@JAKE-ng8yr mhm i have some people who are semi friends I met in the past 2/3 years and I am 26 now. They are good friends just not of that level.

[@JAKE-ng8yr]

@@Deku20235 yeah semi. U meet best friends in ur school.years

[@presii8306]

if you feel lonely here are some solutions: Join in a server on discord Remeber that you have a family Play videogame and find real supportive friends Go to a Stripclub Install Tinder Join the army Just some ideas

[@AnimosityIncarnate]

Not irl so it doesn't really help This definitely helps but some people have abusive family's Again it isn't irl so it doesn't feel the need for real life friendships Awful idea This shit kills my self esteem, kills my motivation to find love and is ultimately the worst idea on this entire list if you're lonely just from my perspective I have poor mental and physical health ATM so that's not possible Still appreciate the gesture tho

[@assasincreddude4332]

maybe I am lonely after all

[@spidmadjarski4234]

4:59 instructions unclear, i joined a right wing community

[@SpicyFiur]

But what if I want to be lonely and not lonely at the same time?

[@th01m3nn]

I find it so annoying when streamers pause the video every two seconds smh

[@thecomradetrotsky]

Aww- Tommy isn't subscribed

[@kriwe4013]

Boots with the fur with the fur tommy tommy aga 😍😜😆😍😜

[@EddieBurke]

Bruh

[@quieteron1516]

..

[@everynamewastakenomg]

The best cure I found for loneliness was getting a dog

[@keinname1724]

auf einmal redet du von drüse lol, bist du deutsch? xD

[@stanislavkino]

Sad!

[@kinliu842]

The black-and-white cry definitely lighten because ocelot anaerobically rescue toward a flowery acoustic. sturdy, earthy jumper

[@SymphonicDeathcore]

Loneliness is western propaganda.

[@Hotasianchick]

Kappa

[@octocyborg3489]

Pretty fucking bad propoganda

[@EddieBurke]

I wish. Normally I just drown it out with drugs though, one of the benefits of living in Canada.

[@therand0mchannle350]

@@EddieBurke that ain’t good man. I think you already know that. Just so you know you are not alone, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t fight that feeling by free thought and determination building. By trying a lot of things that are different for you can be an experiance and maybie could give you something. Just *you* can choose to *save* yoursealf or not to try.

[@Ak92029]

popping percs sometimes is fine

[@justsomeguy159]

not first

[@dageogaming4478]

First!