40 Year Old Single Men

[@RackGuerra]

Tony im 27 i got married the other day. January , 17 2025 i been watching you for years you really helped me out a lot as a young man.

[@TonyGaskins]

Congrats on that my Brotha!!

[@RackGuerra]

@@TonyGaskins preciate it brotha!

[@tayloralliease8013]

Congratulations to you and your wife ❤

[@rachelphillips5576]

Awwh congrats 🎉

[@RackGuerra]

@@tayloralliease8013 thank you ❤️

[@TwilaB0721]

I'm an older woman, I date older men, the minute I say No, they disappear smh. I'm going to keep saying No! My husband passed away in 2016, some men have really changed a lot. It's very sad. Some want women to pursue them, I'm old fashioned, I don't feel comfortable pursuing a man. Thanks Tony Gaskins.

[@trinjuwan4422]

Same here. I've had men wanting me to chase them. If they didn't get blocked, they eventually went away🤷🏽‍♀️

[@LA-wv7gf]

I notice that also a lot of older men are in their feminity lol and "want to be chased". Sir, grandpop, come on now.

[@Karen-uw4vb]

Exactly sis

[@ocana8547]

I just want a man I can have a genuine connection with, we talk about anything and have fun together. I'm not pursuing a man, I would like a man to make the first move. I have been single & abstinent for 10yrs. The next man I have sex with be my husband on our wedding night.

[@Always_Meeka]

You’re absolutely right! Men definitely want women to pursue them these days.

[@BellaKayeLLard]

My middle son just turned 27 and wants to propose. Most of the men that he works with told him not to do it. The one he respects the most is under 50 years old but has been married for almost 30 years. He has told my son to go ahead and propose. 🙌🏽❤️❤️

[@AA-dc6go]

Love this!

[@ocana8547]

@@BellaKayeLLard I have teenage son and l support my son falling in love at a young age and get married. I am 40 years, almost 41 years old next month still hoping to find that person.

[@ktucker4083]

Me too​@@ocana8547

[@kissengerc9468]

Yeah most of those men who told him that are smart but yeah wait for it 😂

[@londyngates]

lol we can’t discourage guys to not get married, gotta let ‘em make their own suggestions

[@Rob-Hi]

Single men should not be shamed, just like single women shouldn't be shamed. I am 33 years old. I don't like my dating options, so I decided to stay single. There is nothing wrong with staying single if you can't find what you're looking for.

[@aquariuscox3682]

I agree, as long as you are abstaining from sex and are submitted to your walk with God.

[@Play4keeks]

I agree with this. Being single doesn't mean your life isn't full.

[@youtubeguy4539]

@@aquariuscox3682stop trying to control him. You went straight to mommy mode trying to put limitations on him. If he still wants to sleep around that’s his personal business.

[@WomanWithHISPlan-un4rp]

I agree BUT, he CLEARLY said NOT all but the “Anthony ONeal types” or the ones like HIM. It’s funny though because that’s all the podcasts do is SHAME single women! Every time you turn around, they are always finding a way to tell a woman why no one will want us or why we’re not worthy of love. And everytime a woman says we’re happy and at peace being single, they say we’re lying and gonna be alone with cats. What Tony is saying is that it’s actually PROJECTION and it’s actually how they feel about THEMSELVES!!!

[@yourfutureisnow6480]

I wonder to myself how is it that men love to take on a challenge but don't challenge themselves to be better men and do the inner work. Thank you.

[@Mstoomuch75]

It’s too right …. They are clueless

[@onevenus6040]

They love the chase!

[@ckantrel1977]

Why would they change when they're winning w/o doing the work 🤔 🫤...Simpettes make most of it possible and must be stopped 😤

[@kairosunltd130]

🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯

[@ourminds2020]

Ooh this is a very wise question

[@ashleysharingthegoodnews]

“These men are chasing money or lust, and you can’t win like that” 💯 23:24

[@showboat4613]

Say that again because you are very right because this world is Full of Lust and people just having sex and passing diseases to everyone

[@jonathanruboneka]

Jesus Christ is the prize chase him

[@Jjj21574]

@@showboat4613real

[@MH-wj5ui]

It's 50 and 60 year old men running around single. 40 seems young now. They don't value marriage or commitment.

[@BetterLoveMovement]

Forty is NOT young. Neither is thirty. That’s a part of the problem. Because humans are living longer than ever, they are also not growing up or emotionally maturing. My parents had two children and were married with a mortgage at 24 years old. It’s this “extended adolescence” that everyone is in that is the problem.🙄

[@sherriwilcox6916]

38:59 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@missj5564]

I know a few that are supposed to be christians and are expecting women to chase them, ask them out and pay for dates.

[@kairosunltd130]

🎯🎯🎯

[@MH-wj5ui]

@@missj5564 I honestly am starting to think that they don't have the money for dates. You would think this would make marriage and combining house expenses appealing.

[@daisymichele9783]

"I married HER, not the WORLD." Wow. So simple but so profound. Thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom, Mr. Gaskins.

[@esther4844]

I'm not listening to no single person Podcaster on marriage! Periodt! It make no sense for them to be giving advice and not married and well over 40!

[@tanshellhackney2926]

I'm over it too

[@ayeeda7891]

Absolutely

[@Leelang931]

Exactly, easy paycheck for them

[@jsmith2303]

Facts

[@shirlsshirls8594]

Like Stephen speaks

[@jo_vee]

"the power of God keeps you faithful" Another level!! a paradigm shift!!

[@dopedealer_beauty]

TONY IS LIKE YOUR FAVORITE COUSIN, BIG BROTHER, & UNCLE ALL IN ONE!!! REAL, RAW, HONEST, & HILARIOUS!! GOD BLESS YOU TONY!!

[@Paris4London]

I recently saw a clip of three men speaking about how they are married yet they are not in love with their wives. It appeared as though they were so happy and proud to feel this way. Men are so different these days.

[@RodneyBost-gw6eo]

@Paris4London well women want men to be married and shame them if they are not so when a man marry and not in love dont complain

[@staciadavis3714]

​@RodneyBost-gw6eo I bet you are not happily married now. With this attitude, please do women a favor and stay single.

[@mrsmoderation7718]

@@RodneyBost-gw6eoit has nothing to do with women. Men decide if they get married or not. They are not forced!

[@LBCTexas]

“When you meet the one…you changing your life for her”.

[@erind2261]

I can attest to this. I've watched my brother do this. He's always been sociable & popular with women. When he met his wife- he morphed into a better man. Also made me realize no man I ever dated thought I was the one😑

[@Leelang931]

The only podcaster I listen to is Tony Gaskins. I don’t need everyone in my ear

[@elle1c]

Me too. I've been watching him for almost 5 years now and my life has changed for the better. ❤

[@Desertvibes234]

💯

[@parislondon8130]

naw fr ❤

[@nancycortez1231]

Me too and Rc Blakes also

[@Holy_Girl_Jay]

@@nancycortez1231I was just about to mention him, because Tony gives a big brother and RC gives father/ Uncle! Life changing🙌🏾 to God be the glory

[@brooklynsdiary]

I think the whole “ You’ll know the one when you know, you’ll feel it” keeps people single … people will be waiting their whole life for this so call feeling that most of the time may not even exist. A relationship is best where you WATER it … relationships are if your values align, you enjoy being around this person, and you can stomach their looks, you can make it work … it’s really that simple. People die alone everyday because they pass up on people that they could have made it work with but it didn’t match fairytale preferences they have in their heads.

[@AA-dc6go]

🎯🎯 facts

[@ElleJae-b9q]

Agree

[@adaofcharles1217]

💯

[@Key-Key444]

Wow never knew this. So men wanting perfection while not being perfect😂 Wild.😎

[@TheApollo2200]

Tony, my condolences to you and your family with regards to your young cousin. I will keep you and your family lifted in prayer. There are so many people in pain these day I hate to hear this happening to anyone but especially young people.

[@PlainJacks]

TG, I don't know you but you've been consistent over the past 4/5 years. I just came across your video from 12 years ago (Close Your Legs) and you were just as straight up and comical then! Even getting on Lil Tony for bouncing that ball!!🤭😂Stay on the walk. Be blessed❤

[@sross1990_]

"No woman is good enough" a title for a book Tony!

[@latinajones5483]

😂😢

[@nikkinanette8807]

Praise GOD!!!😭😭 I know you prayed he had great influences in his life. 💛💛💛

[@tayloralliease8013]

💯 that would be a great read

[@SAnderson54]

Maaaaaaaaaaan Tony is shakin the table exposing these lame wolves in sheep's clothing. Some of these "men" have influence so let's continue to pray for them and their spiritual maturity.

[@nataliaj2944]

Every 40+ single man needs to hear this.

[@oaklandsoldier8520]

We will when you women start taking accountability.

[@veis]

@@oaklandsoldier8520 💯 Even the 1% guys aren’t getting married like they used to. Men are just wary of women. But few women ever ask WHY. Instead they draw conclusions to suit their narrative. I once proposed to a group of women to go halves on a first date and then ask later why the guy wanted to go halves. Even that was too much to bear for the women. Most guys would happily say why they don’t want to go on dates or even pay. And some of them have legitimate reasons based on their experiences. Many women aren’t even aware that if they LISTENED, they’d know the game and be married in no time if that’s what they want.

[@Tiptwonine]

@@oaklandsoldier8520How bout ya’ll go first since y’all are supposed to lead

[@appendix-q6k]

Why is everyone concerned about single men at 40? You can be single and do what you want at any age.

[@SouthernGirl8140]

@@oaklandsoldier8520 so you only do better due to someone else’s actions? So you’re basically not a leader correct?

[@Lew-w4s]

Great message. Women need to love themselves more and stop allowing mistreatment from others. Show some pride. Get back our self worth. Leave these dusty men alone.

[@mademoisellemsc]

Dusty men is correct. 🥲🥲

[@shirleygriffin7672]

Exactly

[@dyshawnshine3644]

let me know when that happens lol. as long as they find the guy extremely attractive shes going to allow some level of mistreatment in most cases. its a tale as old as time and its not going away anytime soon.

[@earthangel8399]

Alot of 40 year old men are single for alot of reasons... the biggest one is their is no societal pressure to be married...unless their family, faith or culture pushes for it... even then many singles fear making their parents relationship mistakes so they set unrealistic expectations on relationships that keep them single and protected from being vulnerable and hurt

[@DivinelyTimed]

Tony is such a Gift. Not many people have been this transparent and consistently honest.

[@Itzbunni122]

When Tony said “they ugly” I fell out 😅😭

[@ShyAnn24]

The way I bout hollered when Tony said they gotta realize they “UGLY” 😂 this part bc I’ve given men who were not conventionally good looking the benefit of the doubt…..they forget! I’m not saying I’m all that but I ain’t ugly. It always reminds me of the movie, Two Can Play That Game. When Bobby Brown walked by that mirror and did a double take and said something of the effect, “I Look Kinda Good” 😂😂😂 SMH the audacity!

[@danielled23]

And money can't change that 😂😂😂

[@kimberlymay9497]

Me too! I looked passed some stuff. The nerve 🙄🤔

[@goldencox954]

😅😅😅

[@ArshennaHines]

😂😂😂lol funniest scene in the movie. The nerve of him😂😂

[@tracysomebody9171]

They worst than the fine ones n u really feel quite silly so nvr settle fr the " u ought to b glad somebody wNt u 🥷🏿...idc how much money you got is only going to get you so far if I'm not attracted to you.

[@msprettysunshine]

Thank you for being honest about this… Ive been thinking the same thing… they make it seem like they can’t find anyone but never reflect on their choices…. Isn’t that called insanity… smh.. you always keep it real Mr. Gaskins, even if it’s hard to hear.. it helps us grow if we will receive the message.

[@oaklandsoldier8520]

Lol. U women love to be panderd and lied to

[@amoramenkumfoy1905]

The wisdom in this video is so layered. Idk if it’s my level of understanding is raised or not but I have followed TG for years and the way he broke this down resonated on a spiritual and psychological level so layered. Thank you Tony for continuing your work.

[@chevelgordon2923]

Boy this came in ON TIME !

[@adiaatwater2805]

Didn't it?!!💯

[@blackcardinc]

Understatement!!! Perfect timing.

[@giajadel]

It truly is lonely at the top as they say.. As you walk in your purpose I see that more and more but God sends you your people even if it’s very few 🙏🏽 quality over quantity 🙌🏽

[@crystalhr89]

Tony stays being the Big Unc we all need. Ty for sharing !

[@_LuxShari]

I lost my dad at age 13. During those years he was In and out of the house to chase his habit. I was a daddy’s girl and he could do no wrong in my eyes. May God rest his soul. I envied my peers growing up having their parents and still to this day,to see them getting married w/their fathers . I wish I had a good father figure growing up. I learned many lessons the hard way. 🙏🏽🌹 You give great advice Tony .

[@CoachHC]

Thanks!

[@milah227]

So much truth shared here!! I was just listening to a sermon about being a fan vs a follower of Jesus. And if you really believe He is who He says He is, you will fully surrender to Him. You can't believe He is the Messiah and intentionally do things that separate yourself from God. I'm thankful I grew into this spiritual maturity!

[@PeaceBeStill-]

🎯 🎯 🎯

[@TrishaBurris]

Thank you Tony…. Men that want women that don’t want them.

[@heybuddywuzup]

No idea what you're saying

[@daninikki35]

I recently saw a video with this 41 year old single man talking about why he wanted a woman 10 years younger than him. He had the audacity to try and body shame older women by insinuating they weren’t “right and tight” and other demeaning nonsense. Had I not been a dedicated listener of Tony speaking about real men versus grown boy his comments would have gotten to me.

[@maritawanazw]

I've seen plenty of women in their 40s look much younger than they are. They have great bodies. Dude is just taking advantage of 20 somethings that are still naive and lack wisdom.

[@jeniserobinson8585]

Saw that and he gave me pervert vibes fr fr

[@manisymone8622]

​@@maritawanazw🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@tommyt264]

I'm 6'1. I feel bad for short guys who get shamed by women for their height. Women are just as bad as men when it comes to body shaming the opposite sex.

[@Grace-Mercy-Saved]

We appreciate you Mr. Gaskins....A REAL Married Man in a REAL Marriage!

[@asiaz248]

Praying that God keeps your memory & gives you a sound mind as you get older. You are the big brother I wished I had (only child).

[@MsBdoll87]

Only child too

[@braidslikebrandy]

THANK YOU for speaking the truth. A lot of men DO NOT want marriage. Especially these podcasters. Then go on about “wife material” It’s wack. An eligible black man has even more of an advantage being that there’s so many available, beautiful black women. It’s a choice.

[@erind2261]

I clocked this yrs ago... If men decide who gets married then it doesn't make sense to be "prepared" for yrs & still don't get married

[@kingleyo9277]

Just because the women who are available doesn’t mean they are wife material lol y’all want men to accept anything smh sad

[@CUwaga]

It is because sex from women is easier today. It’s simple lol

[@naturalblackcocoa]

I love how you understand what women go through as humans and have a realistic view of people.

[@BrittnyJaNa]

I always ask me to tell me how their childhood was…mainly, teenage years. I want to know if he was cool, smart, outcast, had gfs, etc…because that says soo much about who they are now and what they value.

[@erickacurry4860]

This has to be one of my top 5 Tony talks!! Valid✅

[@Blu-om]

Young Tony was a cold piece(Tony Baker voice) back in the day, savage. 😂 That's why get so many gems. Thank you sir!

[@erica8657]

“No woman is good enough” - Tony My thoughts exactly Tony, they aren’t satisfied 😞

[@NyaMar.]

After the latest "Pop the Balloon 🎈," review I was wondering about this topic. Thanks for speaking on it.

[@Holy_Girl_Jay]

My God today 🤦🏾‍♀️ I was thinking maybe the show should be for younger folks because them older ones 😳😮‍💨

[@queenshay88]

Always keep it 1000%!!! I just was telling my mother the other day, those "grown boys" don't like you because you speak the truth and was encouraging her to listen to you!

[@emmymwingaas7950]

I had a 39 year old man tell me..on new years day.. 'Let's just see where this goes '😅 like im gonna be texting and calling somebody every day with no direction. Man didnt even know if he was single or not 😂 I refused to play his game and just left. 2025 I'd rather be alone! ❤

[@AMERILOGIC]

Ladies, if you meet a man who is over 45 and has NEVER BEEN married...don't marry him. He's been using women for many years and never committed to none of them. Get it. Don't wast your time teaching him how to be a husband. Now at 45 and older...He's looking for a MOMMY.

[@ochacal7794]

Men, please, if you meet a woman who is over 45 yo and has never been married don't do it, she most certainly was a Ho3 in her younger years... don't be her retirement plan

[@ochacal7794]

Men, please, if you meet a woman who is over 45 yo and has never been married don't do it, she most certainly was a Ho3 in her younger years... don't be her retirement plan

[@ochacal7794]

Men, please, if you meet a woman who is over 45 yo and has never been married don't do it, she most certainly was a Ho3 in her younger years... don't be her retirement plan

[@ochacal7794]

Men, please, if you meet a woman who is over 45 yo and has never been married don't do it, she most certainly was a Ho3 in her younger years... don't be her retirement plan

[@Kellypenelly]

What’s crazy is that older men don’t go after women their age because older women set boundaries so they go after younger women who are naive

[@maritawanazw]

Exactly!💯

[@Wonderwoman79G]

Sad but true. Older auntie's,mothers need to talk to younger women to avoid these older men.They are predatory.

[@MH-wj5ui]

Women in their age group know the games. They are going younger so they can keep playing women. I just told a 30 year old lady to watch out for 51 year old never married man was a red flag. 🚩

[@megsmakeup]

​@MH-wj5ui Yes especially Men, because they control the marriage market. Men have the ability to ask and get the ball rolling. So, I was bragging a couple of weeks ago a dozen age appropriate Women said my date was quality, but the other side of that coin mat reflect his inability to close.

[@oaklandsoldier8520]

Lol. Ur jealous of younger women because they look way better than women your age. O😂

[@divinebydesignladyrenee]

Man, this message hit home! The way you speak about your wife and the beauty of love built on sacrifice, faithfulness, and unconditional care is inspiring. It's a reminder that true love is deeper than just physical attraction-it's about commitment and respect. And that joke about men with a 'dad bod' wanting women but built like ninja turtles!!😂 Classic, but so true! Thanks for keeping it real while dropping wisdom. 🙌

[@DNS1881]

“With the yellow glasses sometimes , sometimes I see blue glasses” 😂😂

[@Leelang931]

Hehehe😂idek who he talking about but it’s still funny

[@ElleJae-b9q]

@@Leelang931lol Tim Ross. He went viral for calling God a $tripper

[@TeresaJeanna]

My guy friend listens to the "red pill" videos telling men they are more attractive as they age while women expire at 30. These so-called relationship experts are all late 30s / early 40s and SINGLE. Everyone is entitled to their preferences, but I've been 20 and never was attracted to men significantly older than me.

[@mrsmoderation7718]

Those men are lying to themselves and trying to make others believe the lies.

[@nataliexrd256]

1000!? That's revolting. Seriously? I'd be disgusted if a man told me that.

[@TonyGaskins]

He would never tell you.. you’re getting the locker room talk on here.

[@Minga842]

@@TonyGaskinsquestion??? Why don’t they wear those stripes like a badge of honor? Cause being raised in a family of men, it appears that this makes them more of a man. Or is it just in the eyes of other men?

[@renitaanderson406]

For anyone new to this channel, don't listen solely regarding the title because you will miss out on a PLETHORA of other PERTINENT information!!! Keep preaching Tony!!!👏🏽👏🏽

[@ElleJae-b9q]

This is honest and correct! Anthony keeps going after “The IG girl and becomes perplexed when she starts acting like the IG girl.” He continues to go after women who don’t want him. And he continues to spread all his business. He’s also been very vocal about how his lady must have a big butt.

[@jennib9953]

TG you keep it real thats why i always like your content and the knowledge you drop.... because you are being very truthful about your past most others do not do that. Thanks TG for allowing God to guide you through this journey.

[@lovedbyYahuah]

I stopped listening to AO when he started the dating content. No hate for the brother but I could literally hear the bitterness and disdain he has for women every time he spoke.

[@ebonyessence2838]

Facts !

[@MelanieHandsford]

Not just turned her only fans camera off! Tony tells All of the truth and this why I respect and support you ! God bless you! 💪🏾💯

[@TamikaDaniels-m4r]

This has to be the best video ever right now. The absolute truth has been told today.

[@missj5564]

I doubt Anthony O'neal is trying to get married, maybe very picky or may play for the other team. He stated he was engaged to an older woman that already has children and that his fiancee did not want anymore kids and the reason he called off the marriage. That should have been discussed ahead of time.

[@Visionary79-m2t]

Many are called and only a few are chosen!! I’m glad you decided to answer the call! You’ ve touched on so many in-depth topics. Men & their insecurities, Self Control, Walk with GOD…Get to know YOU, The only way to do that is get in The WORD, Become who you want to attract, Recognize spirits / Ask yourself why are you attracting these Spirits, Do you believe your worthy of a healthy relationship? So Many Takeaways!! 🤦🏾‍♀️😊 What you describe when you talk about your wife/ marriage/ best friend status! Committed to the LORD!! Sending Prayers 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾for you and your family! I 🙏🏾 she made it!

[@callen7709]

The messages in this video are absolutely correct. Thank you for speaking on it. Many men, even over 50, have a backwards approach to dating and have unrealistic expectations for themselves.

[@JaneseHall]

THANKS AGAIN FOR SHARING THIS VIDEO ON THIS TOPIC, TONY GASKINS.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👍🏽🌏 SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT THE UNFORTUNATE SITUATION REGARDING YOUR FAMILY MEMBER. GOD IS STILL IN CONTROL, AND WILL BECOME WHOEVER TO FIX ANY EMOTIONAL, PHYSICAL OR FINANCIAL NEED YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN NEED OF TO COPE AND STRENGTHEN EACH OTHER, PRESENTLY 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@Visionary79-m2t]

Tony Preach!!!👏🏾👏🏾 These MEN aren't Ready!! It’s a sign of the Times, Jesus is coming Back Sooner than we Think!

[@Twister_numba24]

A lot of these men even in their 50s and 60s are still single because they are afraid of a woman spending the money that they don't even have🙄

[@dancemomerika]

I only halfway trust all of these men relationship experts. The main reason is because you never hear from anyone’s wife, girlfriend or potential date. What do the women connected to these men have to say about being with them? We don’t know. Therefore, we’re getting one side of the story.

[@ElleJae-b9q]

He mentioned that men are more interested in being buddies than obeying the will of God!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@kyoblack.803]

Some of the men out here in these streets don't want to hear this message because they don't want to be disciplined in their bodies. They don't want to or know how to buffet their bodies like the New testament says they don't want to hear the truth from God. It's too much pressure for their flesh. Their flesh is on fire!

[@rasulsamad5860]

Nah it's just a bad dating market for men but reality hurts

[@Tlittlet2]

The accountability is real!!!!! Get them Tony!!!

[@Play4keeks]

The sad thing is, a lot of men aren't where they want to be because of the way they view women. They want women to be submissive but don't develop the skills needed for submissiveness in women. Women are willing to submit, to be a helpmate, and to let a man lead. But, men need to bring a vision, a goal, and a plan. They aren't going anywhere because they don't have a vision for where they want to go.

[@wilfordsway]

Hearing a real man speak blesses me SO MUCH!! Tony makes more sense then most preachers!! God bless you!!

[@faithfamilyfitness2290]

So much truth in this message , I had to listen to this twice! Thank you Tony for teaching on this topic.

[@MarciaRay32]

Me too.

[@MizzWiggy]

So glad Tony be addressing idolization.

[@VAL702]

Men think they’re the prize at 40+ going after the 20 something woman but don’t realize that they don’t want you - why as a 20-year-old woman would I wanna be involved with an older man who then I’ll have to take care of when he’s older? Thanks, but no thanks

[@PeaceBeStill-]

Exactly 🎯

[@ochacal7794]

Maybe because men like younger woman...

[@tsaunders4684]

Women have always messed with older men because they have more to offer vs guys their own ages. They have resources to help you out and to pay for dates and trips.

[@rasulsamad5860]

You're 30 plus or unattractive young female say shaming tactics

[@NoName-sp5dp]

@@ochacal7794because they’re youth vampires. Women that date too old always start looking older than their age

[@spokenpoet5074]

I truly concur, I'm an older woman of 60 years old,who works for myself ,and these older men think they are all that and that $ means everything,do they realize that at our older age,most of us have seen it all,heard it all, not necessarily done it all, but God is always over $, and we want an organic relationship with a man, most of us at this age are grandma's 😂,been married and divorced,and are not trying to be sleeping around most times for what 15 minutes on a good night to go to Hell, like you said I fear God more than an empty relationship,and if I have to stay single and in God's Grace do be it, if rather be doing what I do,baking done sweet potato pies for someone less fortunate......love the commentary ❤❤😂😂

[@kingleyo9277]

Why did none of y’all get married in earlier in life? Lol how is it all the black women in the comments are victims? None of y’all were using men huh? None of y’all were hoeing around instead of looking for a husband in YALL prime but now mad at men when they don’t want to get married lmaooo

[@jhica5718]

Time goes by so fast i forgot im 40. When my friend is dating a 50 year old, i felt like 50 was old and I thought about my father. I was shocked she told me 50 is close to our age. 😆

[@kenneysmith6107]

Yes sir brother Tony I agree with all you said 200 percent.. U hit on the very things that the Lord has revealed to me as well. Thank u for standing on businesses... Bless you..

[@LadyAngela678]

Some of these men be potbelly with the audacity.

[@Llilac2481]

And receding hairlines

[@kimberlyturner820]

​@@Llilac2481😂

[@msjrene05]

😂 😂 don’t forget the jacked up teeth!

[@takeysha4]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@JuliaHitt-b8n]

Excellent message Tony thank you so ,much truly learned so much from you just wish I knew you 50 years ago lol. Keep doing God's work!!!!

[@LisaS483]

Indeed, marriage is for big boys only. Grown men business. I thank God for my husband (he was 48 when I married him 6 years ago). Marriage has been a huge blessing for us.

[@shansays1991]

It’s a marketing thing as well. Stay single, keep their women followers. Especially because some women really will think they are the one.

[@CrystalDiamond1222]

So true, especially in the church sector.

[@Bella-qo1cv]

Bingo!

[@tmston2]

I’m 49, i got married at 22, was married 20yrs and been divorced 6yrs, i have to agree with a lot of what Tony is saying. i definitely believed God for my first wife and definitely believing God again for my next wife, im a firm believer like Samuel went to Jesse’s house, and saw Eliab, and said surely the lords anointed is before me, but God said that’s not it

[@EsiriE]

The title is just hilarious and direct 😂 I love it here

[@martinrenderstudio802]

These guys sleeping around dont realize sleeping around is SIN and a fast train ticket to HELL.

[@misslia2538]

Glad you brought this up b/c I just had three 40 year old men try to talk to me

[@ms.lisashelton2582]

My God, this is on time. God bless you for speaking the truth.

[@Working4God]

Thank you Tony! Blessings to you and the wife and family!

[@vdews]

Preach Tony love how he keeps it raw

[@girltalkwithtia2425]

Tbh I'll take advice from a widow or divorced man/women before I take advice from someone who never been mairred. It's no shade to the unmarried but it seems logical.

[@thhe5859]

I was with a guy over 40 that was previously with a woman that had kids by an NFL player and received a lot of money in child support. The man is still obsessed with money and connections that he doesn’t have. The relationship was terrible because he was mentally stuck and nothing was ever good enough. He was never satisfied even though he made 6 figures.

[@marjorieaugustin8278]

The reality that hurts the hardest is that they don't love God. It's not just a weakness you just don't love God. Can't serve two masters.

[@mysterynurse307]

@@marjorieaugustin8278 the ones in church and pretend to be Holy are the absolute worst !

[@Fabulous_Four]

Tell em TG you keep it 100% real, put no one on a throne but God.

[@ms.forever9282]

Mr. Tony Gaskins is the best younger version of the best Bishop RC Blakes. These kinds of quality, upstanding; faithful, visionary, voluntarily-accountable; gentle-masculine, consciously-aware, empowered-powerful... family-centered men of God are the ones -"MY KIND OF CUPPA TEA" like no other!!! Hail to them to the highest degree! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@pfrance17]

Thank you Tony! This is a real problem in the kingdom. I always say everybody is not in their single season for that long lol

[@justrashanda3662]

This was geared towards the men but I’m taking notes as a woman of God🙏🏾

[@ashleyr5481]

I’m so glad someone is talking about this!!!

[@HealingwmommaC]

Tony speaking straight facts!

[@christinelong2407]

Oddly enough, I can no longer find Tony’s interview on Anthony O’Neal’s channel 🧐

[@TonyGaskins]

lol. You know why that is!

[@LA-wv7gf]

Oh yes! I recall being on AOs channel and it used to be recommended now can't find it 🤔

[@ElleJae-b9q]

Wow!

[@suzetterowe1778]

Tony you're always on point,I have never watched one of your podcast without laughing the stuff you comes with.

[@sherriwilcox6916]

27:48 FACTS thank you for educating men on our hormones. ❤