The Type of Woman A Man Will Repsect

[@knots2kurlsgirl]

Preach Tony! When I read the comments that you were "jealous" of these podcasters, I truly had to LOL 🤣Let me tell y'all something...Now this was a few years ago but I met/attended Tony's conferences three times (in Memphis) when he was touring. Of course, we all know he doesn't tour anymore. One was at the Esplanade, another was at Hope Church in Cordova; when Issac Curry was a minister there, and the third time escapes me 🤣but I know there were three times. I digress! Each time I was in his presence, he exuded spirits of gratefulness, humbleness, thanksgiving, and joyfulness. You could just tell he was enjoying being a servant for The Master. His character was beyond reproach! He truly has a servant's heart. At Hope Church, he even signed EVERY book that I ever bought including his first "What Daddy Never Told His Little Girl". I still have them all. When I asked him to sign his first written book, TEARS literally welled up in his eyes and he was so appreciative...no cap! So I pose the question, "Jealous of what?" Because he embodies the Fruits of The Spirit, that's WHY he's exceedingly and abundantly blessed as he is. Now haters HATE on that! I'm not talking about the tangible and materalistic trappings that are of his harvest, I'm talking about the things money can't buy and HE HAS THEM ALL! So again, what does he have to be jealous of? He is living one of God's promises, "To have life and have it more ABUNDANTLY!" I think it's the reverse...PEOPLE ARE JEALOUS OF HIM! If I had a fraction of what he embodies, I'd be so much better off in all facets of my life. This world is sick and people just need something to be contentenious about because it gives them a constant reprieve; so they don't have to focus on their mess! Ok, I'm done - sorry for the dissertation 🤣 Stay on the battlefield, Tony, and keep working for Jesus. You are living proof that putting God first is the ONLY WAY to a peaceful, productive and positive life!

[@lakevahopps7120]

@@knots2kurlsgirl I also attended both of these conferences and thoroughly enjoyed them

[@KingdomWoman333]

Great post! God bless!

[@constancegarrett7582]

EL SHADDÀI IS ALL THE WHILE AT WORK IN U S, TO WILL AND TO D O H I S GOOD PLEASURE ***" HE'S NOT A MAN, THAT HE COULD LIE..., ... H E I S F A I T H F U L TO BRING TO COMPLETION THE W O R K H E BEGAN I N U S ..." AAAAAMEN..., AAAMEN... AND AMEN A G I N ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤ ***** ***** *****

[@LDolar]

❤❤❤

[@scheherazadewherry1410]

Sisters--we have to stop acting thirsty! Being aggressive is NOT cute! And lets stop cursing! Lets hold each other accountable. ❤My Sisters

[@tameekaharris6425]

I totally agree 💯

[@Skylimited55]

@scheherazadewherry1410 Yes, I agree. Stop cursing it's not cute.

[@myarenea1125]

Tony drooling and losing focus thinking bout that jerk chicken 😂

[@Leelang931]

😂 I’m weak! He was sucking his teeth

[@m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997]

Yes. I agree. We first must clean up our speech definitely 🙏🏾

[@TonyGaskins]

My Son’s Fav Jerk Wings from his Mom: Jerk Chicken: 4 packs of wings that are separated Season with: Onion powder Garlic powder Season salt Paprika Jerk seasoning Little bit of cayenne 3-4 scoops of jerk paste (grace or walkers) mild Olive oil Mix it all in well Marinate for one hour or more Put a layer of chicken broth down in the pans and then place the chicken in Cook on 350 for 50 minutes Flip over and add more jerk seasoning (powder) And then cook 350 for 45-50 Minutes

[@Hope-zt6ug]

I want to try this recipe. Thanks for sharing.

[@cupcakequeen6294]

Cooked covered or uncovered?

[@pb9841]

Thank you, I want to try this recipe ❤

[@taliaa7856]

@@TonyGaskins thank ya! Thank ya!

[@carlottaberry6527]

You are so giving away the game and it’s hilarious . It’s clear you have no reason to be jealous. I love it! lol!

[@tarahbruno3793]

These videos have changed my life! Praise God!!” If you know who you are you will get what you deserve”. Whew! That was a whole sermon

[@baileyb8619]

@@tarahbruno3793 I am speechless. Almost in tears with that line.

[@betadu6131]

Same here! Thanks, Tony, for the words. I felt it ! Keep up with the good works. God bless you sir!

[@Juju-gx5tq]

You probably give the best advice to women on youtube ,because you tell the truth rather we want to hear it or not. Thank you!

[@TonyGaskins]

Ain’t no “probably,” lol

[@txm.9021]

@@TonyGaskins😂💯💯

[@ResilientRose90]

@@TonyGaskinsExactly Amen! 🙌🏾

[@reneejohnson8147]

I love how he breaks away no matter what to attend to his wife and kids and that’s a good man ❤❤❤

[@dachelmyles9487]

I've learned 1 thing about men, respect is the equivalent of love for them. ❤

[@monniek972]

True. What I dont understand is why men still dont respect women.

[@boipelokgoathe5023]

​@monniek972 They respect women who respect themselves and that to them, is love.

[@silavajune]

I had this EXACT revelation in 2020 that men don’t know what love is but they instead move based on respect…and shared it with a close friend….and she almost fought me 🥲 do I tell you the next day her baby daddy came to visit and with his own mouth he said he doesn’t understand what love is 😩 I excused myself from the table 😩

[@ulricka2131]

Brother Tony said: I intentionally come here to offend people‼️ The season of boldness has definitely been activated. Keep it up bro💪🏽💪🏾💪🏿👏🏾

[@HSBsoulsurfer]

I loved it! 😄👍

[@ira_herself997]

@@HSBsoulsurferme too 😂

[@joiagenae]

I was getting to know a guy over the last month. Within the first week I checked him for not calling after he said he would. It was downhill after that although he apologized. He definitely was mad at me for doing that. I left twice and both times he called the next day and both times said "I was just calling to see if you would answer" ever since he became mean, nasty and downright rude. I've NEVER had a guy talk to me like that but I stayed too long. But I decided this week to move on with my life. I'll be honest and say I'm almost at my wits end with black men. Although I don't have a desire to date outside my race.. trying to love a black man seems like it's just not worth it unfortunately

[@la6136]

Just be glad you saw the red flags early so now you can move accordingly. He showed you his true colors quickly!

[@1racethehumanrace946]

Well you deserve better. I know you may only want black men, but it's nothing wrong with opening up your options. To consider dating different races of men or men of the black race but not black American men.(African, Haitian, ect, etc).🌹🙏🙏

[@ed000]

Ma'am take care of yourself and enjoy life. The right human will find you

[@breewright1415]

I know the feeling. Not all BM but some of them just have become so mean and bitter that I decided not to entertain it once I saw it. I love myself more and refuse to let ANY man take his poor life choices out on me.

[@BashaerB-h2c]

I checked a man three time with the whole keeping promises and calling back when he said he would. He got passive aggressive and I left him a letter on my way out stating we won’t work out and I wish him a happy life. He was SHOCKED and was mad tweeting for weeks afterwards. I knew he missed me but his ego didn’t allow him to reconcile. I found a new job and moved on with my life. I do miss him and I like him very much, but he’s too immature and I won’t give him another shot unless he grow up and is willing to put in commitment. Good luck to you sis! We deserve grown men that act like men and not boys.

[@tracymossing3200]

Women need to understand the root cause of why and who they’re attracted to, and who they’re entertaining. There is always a root cause or reason and it’s usually subconscious. I’m in my early 40s and just finally understanding in the last few years why I have been attracted to unavailable men, and why I have worked to try to get them to love me back. That’s essentially how my relationship was with my dad, he worked a lot, was rarely home and usually only gave me attention when I got good grades. So I grew up believing that I had to “work” for love, and sadly a lot of women grew up believing something similar. Looking into attachment types has also been helpful (and healing) for me.

[@kitamariemartin2069]

Same and this is true!

[@sweetandlovely5721]

@@tracymossing3200 you are so wise and full of wisdom. Fathers are the first men in our lives. How we are treated is what we look for or go after in a boyfriend or future husband.

[@drgibson4308]

Not “crossed-eyed and slobbin’ 😩🫠🤣…the one thing that ALL humans respect is humans who know their worth”🎯👏🏾

[@beefaye18]

Grl I died 😂😂😂😂😂 💀💀

[@staceydeloach-jackson475]

There are a lot of DL men in marriages. Know your worth and don't settle.

[@AA-dc6go]

🎯🎯

[@stephaniej.stanley2141]

These messages have changed my life for the better!

[@ishaw9894]

I pray this video does record breaking numbers!!! Our women NEED to take heed to these messages ❤

[@TrishC5280]

Hitting like before the video starts 🙋🏽‍♀️

[@MrsEarth-pf4cr]

Always. Lol

[@sharonpalms]

Everytime!!

[@aprilrobinson3023]

Always! 💯😂

[@Eye_Am_Divine_33]

Every 👏single 👏 time👏

[@KiannaSmith]

Rule number one - don’t negotiate 🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@MyMichellle]

“Make every effort to live in peace with everyone and to be holy; without holiness no one will see the Lord.” ‭‭ Hebrews‬ ‭12‬:‭14‬ ‭NIV‬‬

[@dimplesd9891]

I might cry, but I ain’t gone cry in front of ya 😂😂😂😂😂

[@tarahbruno3793]

Never!!!

[@m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997]

Yes. I'm learning still for sure lol

[@brittanyb5942]

Absolutely!

[@keldasenior]

Lil Tony sounds like a professional food critic!😂😍

[@taliaa7856]

I was over here cracking up. 😂😂

[@velishathomas8933]

Yesssss 😂😂😂❤

[@laurenispeculiar]

highlight of the video 😂

[@jaded_moon6611]

What a wholesome moment ! 😂❤

[@Kiikiiy]

Lol😂 mrs gaskins please send us the recipe ❤

[@PeanutButterTone]

Your son’s jerk chicken review was making me hungry 🤤! He’s so articulate 🙏🏽

[@MsJadeWarren]

“Lawd this my audience” 🤣😂😂

[@SxyGrl44]

lol lol help him, Lord lol

[@Flawlessbeautybynicole]

Lord 😂😂😂

[@uroneandonlyCPA]

Girl I laughed so hard 😂😂😂

[@shirlsshirls8594]

He called out Sephan with the locks and Derrick Jaxon lol Great message Tony! 👏🏾💯❤️

[@subsistence73]

Wait where??

[@travelchannel304]

Sir, I so needed that! Abstaining, yet w/ o any "tests" from any person. And lately I've felt tempted by a person's energy. Lord help me. Not unless he's my husband! Is my mantra.

[@sasanewnew557]

I thought I was the only one who felt disgusted about societal norms. If a man tries to touch me before our 3rd or fourth date, I dont really like them like that anymore 😂. It's such a turn-off.

[@Vavavoum-gr8]

Same

[@misscleo_]

I’m 29 yo virgin and it’s the first time I really cut a guy off when he tried to play games with me. We been in contact for a decade. Nothing romantic till this year (situationship) Suddenly he plays games with me. Made me jealous with another woman. I cut him off while crying. No words. Nothing. I never reacted to his ghosting and jealousy bait. Now he is showing sign of regrets, and sending subliminal messages of being emotionally conflicted. He is poking fun at himself. I witness him being a grown man/husband type for his past exes so I don’t get why he act like a grown boy now, but he needs a lesson. It’s been 3 months of no contact 🤷🏻‍♀️ We are both not in the black community but this nonsense still happens everywhere. Everything Tony says is happening in front of me.

[@DaintyAbby]

33 year old virgin here.. its not easy out here. I noticed that if the man is not for you.. nothing really works 😢

[@danyelgarcia3689]

I'm sorry that happened to you.

[@ashleycbla]

How do you know he didn’t act like a “grown boy” behind closed doors to his exes? More than likely he was that’s why they are his exes.

[@Itsque28]

You don't know what was going on behind closed doors though. He may have acted like a good man with the exes and then you really saw once you got with them.

[@misscleo_]

@@ashleycbla They still follow him which they wouldn’t if he was toxic. When I met him he was a good man, now he acting toxic to me maybe deprived of a womans influence and got hurt for being the good guy that got left. I only tell you 10% of the situation.

[@Kaye.Nicole]

sleeping with someone on the first night is not no testimony 😂😂😂....so true!!! Just because you got "LUCKY" and married the man doesn't make it the blueprint women should follow... tbh whose to say she got "LUCKY" smh craziness

[@beefaye18]

Ikr…. th😮

[@UnapologeticallyKay25]

Exactly. Mindset is absolutely ridiculous 🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

[@kaylasworld_]

fr

[@Thatsher21]

And just because they got married, doesn’t mean that they marriage is happy or that she is treated with respect within her marriage.

[@indyajoy3212]

The “hey Tony Gaskins” at 36:51😂😂😂

[@TreatedTempleTales]

😂😂😂😂

[@TrishC5280]

Bwhahahahaha 🤣🤣 he is too funny!!!

[@HoneyBlonde26]

😂😂😂

[@ShyBabyxoxo]

😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@LindaMoroun]

Why did it come up right after I read your comment? 🤣🤣🤣

[@alfonsinakay333]

Mr. Gaskins you are blessed and highly favoured!!!!! Your son sounded like a seasoned food critic! Made me so happy as a mama hearing him praise his mama’s cooking. I love it when my kids do that face to face ❤️🙌🏾

[@sherrynelson365]

My Goodness you preaching Sir! Glad to be a part of this! I love the way you protect your wife

[@LisaAEvans]

Thanks!

[@LisaAEvans]

I Don't Have Much Money But I Will Support You As Much As I Can. Thanks For All You Do..

[@LisaAEvans]

I Will Sow A Seed When Possible. Because I Get So Much Out Of Your Cast. Thank You In Advance 🙏🏾

[@dimplesd9891]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 man!! This is funny !!!

[@beautyishername3552]

Rule #1 Don't negotiate. I felt that. Thanks because I don't know if you realize just how invaluable your insight is. I have learned alot just from listening to you.

[@ladymb4237]

I went through similar situation and Tony is spot on for the most part. Moving forward I know my worth and value and at my age I cannot afford to make careless and stupid mistakes

[@indi7804]

Tony you are hilarious without even trying 😂😂 while also delivering information and wisdom that we all need

[@peptalkswithsharniciagrandy]

Okay I’m back. I had to make sure I fully understood the message of this video. I watched it so many times. Also, I finally made it to chapter 10 in what daddy never told his little girl. (It took me forever because after chapter 3, I needed to wooosuh.) I’ve also read a woman’s influence and Mrs. right earlier this year. Yall, I’m going to need to fast and pray because I mentally was not prepared for this level of truth from all this new information. I am grateful for this truth though. Thank you Tony!

[@BBsweetiepie]

Thank you for the insight on male thinking. No sweet names. No chasing. No excuses for childish behavior. Be honest with yourself about reality, ladies. You don’t need his approval. -Tony is bringing it home 🎯💯

[@jeremarie1009]

"If u got to go take a shower and wash ur hair out to say that's why ur eyes red bc of the soap...cry in the shower" 😂 screaming but 💯

[@kate.v1440]

Tony you are one of a kind! I have been following you for a long time and listened to many of your videos, and have not yet commented. Today, I felt compelled to say thank you to you….. I have learnt so much from your videos after an emotionally toxic relationship. You have helped me to heal, learn and grow and prepare my mind and heart for my new relationship that I have just entered. I will continue to learn from you. I cannot thank you enough for how much you have taught me. Your videos are real and heartfelt. I watch other relationship coaches too but I can confirm that you share the most genuine, authentic, intelligent content with most entertaining and captivating delivery. You are literally hilarious without trying to be and have me creasing with laughter at times. The natural humour helps the listener to enjoy the podcast and listen more intently and in turn absorb the message more deeply - when learning is enjoyable, you take it all in more. It is clear your desire and passion to help others as a relationship coach comes from an honest and sincere place, thank you for all you share. Hope you enjoyed your chicken with your family ❤

[@Leydo773]

The way your son was going in about those wings was hilarious 😂

[@GodDogPassport]

I was listening (not watching) and I thought it was a new KZbin commercial

[@llehsir]

How he know what Whiskey taste like lmaooo. I love when the kids make an appearance!

[@Juujyfruits]

I lose interest if he doesn’t reach out consistently. Even if I was really attracted to him. And I gain interest if he shows it a lot (if I feel attraction). That’s a healthy sign.

[@novembrluv]

"Either he crazy or you the one...but you gon' find out soon"

[@chameljackson4512]

"LORD THIS MY AUDIENCE?" 😂

[@beachysmeachy_]

🤣

[@TrishC5280]

@@chameljackson4512 he's too funny!

[@jenniferjurado3617]

Yup. Offend people out of that sin and toxicity. Amen. Thank you for being sensitive and speaking truth Tony. God bless!

[@HeartisLove-zj3zo]

Wait for marriage is so it's important .Nobody can change my mind set.too many unhealthy and unwanted issues out here. Smh

[@heather7119]

You are out here saving lives, especially mine! LOVE the breakdown showing the ways of a good man vs. a man full of bs. You are appreciated!

[@Mimms-sd6wn]

Tony always come through with a WORD !!

[@DD-mg2se]

I have no more toes and I'm still here..I'm not leaving..I'll get new toes everytime because when I apply what's for me..the entire body will be on point. Big up Mr Tony ALWAYS. Be blessed.

[@hopewagner5007]

This is not even Tea at this time… it’s Wine 🍷 😂. I’m all ears

[@ravvy_savvy]

1:02:46 “ASAP-U-La” 😭💀🔥. Great message all the way through!

[@MiracleMirMir]

I stay ready ✍🏾 Let’s go Tony!

[@SB0707B]

We need these messages playing on billboards!! Nothing but the TRUTH 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾

[@lushslastword2921]

These videos are validation for me . I don’t get this in my female friend group and often time feel so isolated and alone in my ideals and standards. Constantly being told by many them that I’m too much.

[@user-io7ct4lk3c]

THE FOOD REVIEW IS SENDING ME!!! He is soooo DRAMATIC! 🤣🤣🤣

[@Jm8ney]

Sooo true that men come back w resentment after u been rejecting them , my daddy put my moms through hell

[@Brattynsassy]

No lies told 💯🤦🏾‍♀️

[@LWhite-rl4qn]

Thank you!! This is one of your best videos. I watch every video and I’m married to my high-school sweetheart for 17 years but together since the age of 17 for a total 26 years. Everything you said here was 💯💯💯

[@yolandamitchell539]

I look forward to your lectures, lots of what you share I have been sharing for years. I am a victim of trauma, I appreciate the validation!!!

[@LocsbyDail]

All truths but “5678…678..” TOOK ME OUT 😂😂😂 Thanks for being a vessel and speaking truths, hard truths yet much needed truths. 🙏🏾 Many blessings to you and your family

[@itsmyyworld1]

The fact that he be dead serious and don’t try to joke makes this hilarious! But all facts though

[@Momo_carol]

Little Tony sounds talkative like his dad😂😂😂, super expressive❤😂

[@lesliehill7763]

This is the best message I’ve ever heard him speak of

[@Drkelliediane]

😂😂😂😂. He really wants to play that game friday😂😂

[@julieannwalters9838]

So true, so true dont settle for less than what your worth!

[@CourtneyB]

Tony JR needs to do food reviews 😂 that made me wanna try them wings!

[@ashanteprevails]

"he bout to be listening to ya lil machine gun booty" LMAOOOOOO why I feel like that was shade towards wifey 😂😂 you to much

[@MsChrissyr]

Lil T. Took over the whole video bc i bout forgot everything Tony said and started wanting some of that chicken😂😂😂 "let me go home before the flavor change"😂😂😂

[@jilliansimpson9698]

Shut it down. Cookie shop is permanently closed. Thanks Tony! Idk about marriage but I just like the mental clarity and crushing goals.

[@pristine9384]

Your interview on Hardly Initiated is still impactful.

[@Ashley_Banks]

Them jerk wings had him giving a Keith Lee food review 😂😂😂😂

[@1goldenbutterfly]

Can't wait to watch

[@aaliyahduque6189]

his son talking about the chicken 😂😂🍗

[@MauritheCoolKid]

You spitting game !

[@DN-wb5vf]

Great commentary and insight Tony! Being an only girl raised with 3-boys and having my Father in my life, helped me to know game when I see it! Questions, Standards, Respect, Independence, Self esteem, to name a few insights! Can prevent a lot of heartbreaks!..🤔

[@PromiseRainn]

I am watching this WITH my daughter because she’s boy crazy like I was and that led me down a bad road. So I want her to know these jewels. I always wonder if I’m listening to adult things she shouldn’t be listening to, BUT she’s grown up fast and has been a little more active than her age group usually is for girls anyway so I want to make sure she knows that men actually respect modesty, and they ISE desperation. ❤

[@ShyBabyxoxo]

28:18 not machine gun booty OH MY 😭🤣🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ProductBy_Pisces]

This was a greattttt message and you had me hollering on certain parts. 😂

[@EbbiTheCreator]

The voice message yo son sent 😂 I love how educated he is, y'all definitely did a great job raisin him

[@SheenaBerry-g5c]

This is spot on. I promise these videos are PURE CONFIRMATION.

[@lushslastword2921]

The food review intermission was perfect lol! You’re raising a good one but that’s a given!

[@thedisabledanddiscarded]

This message too raw 😅

[@audreymighty-harmon3319]

Did he say "machine gun booty"?🤣🤣🤣

[@TheMoChronicles]

LOL@ 37:00 -- "Is this my audience?" Tony you are hilarious!!! And the Jerk Chicken Wings interlude @ 44:00.... Classic!!!

[@michellelogan7273]

Respect Facts!

[@joyful-e320]

😂 the aggressive part had me rolling

[@txm.9021]

The commercial Ad for moms Jerk chicken was cool @43:45.

[@whateverwithceecee48]

I was about write and say ,What reason would you have to be jealous, It's usually the person that said it may be jealous of You,Thanks for keeping it 💯 brother bless you and your family!!!!

[@sheilahamilton7586]

Tony, it's obvious that the reason that people are saying that you are jealous, is because they are jealous of YOU!!

[@bernetajohnson3296]

As a believer we have to preach abstinence . We have to stick to Gods laws. Now our God has given us free will but as believers we have to speak on the truth. We cannot afford to pacify people. However this is a great video.

[@HER-Anointing]

Handgela is wild 😂

[@Deedee-124]

lol love love his commentary 😂

[@samiraelkandoussi2967]

Thank you Tony. Bless you. Supporter from Holland!

[@mssimone7147]

TG jealous 😂 Um noooo! jealous people are bitter, look warn out and have zero insight...TG speaks the truth and helped my life in so many ways.

[@trineshacatrell]

Once again. Thank you Sir

[@hazelhairco88]

Crossed eyed and slobbering 😂😂😂😂😂

[@elizabethmonsivais651]

…”smelt like dead fish, I almost saw the King!”… 🤣😂 dead

[@tamaka83]

36:30 "Gimme a throw-up bag! Dee-scusting!" Lmao😂

[@royaltysun]

Cougar:(licks lips👅) Heyy Tony Gas-kun😂🤣

[@UnfilteredMinistries]

Tony you are hilarious 😂😂😂 thanks for the wisdom 🙌

[@Hersentiment]

“I OnT really Do Datt” 😂😂😂

[@christyspeed4995]

Not “dead fish” 😂 . Too funny Tony

[@ItsEle333]

this message was goooodt! 🙌🏾