Top 10 Best Howard and Bernadette Moments on The Big Bang Theory

[@MsMojo]

Do YOU think Howard and Bernadette are the dot to each other’s com? Let us know below, and check out our video of the Top 10 Most Romantic The Big Bang Theory Moments - kzbin.info/www/bejne/gGfLg6GYZdVlrdE

[@1586brittc]

Their reaction to having their second child 😂

[@tinselnettie112]

The way Howard went from Creep to this❤

[@andrewq159]

Downtrodden by her more than he ever was by his mother.

[@Gabe_Wx]

No he was way funnier and better as a creep

[@MichelleAdewale]

Thats what you say​@@Gabe_Wx

[@drew-l4x]

howard’s song to bernie is so catchy i do listen to it every now n then; “cheese w/o the mac, Jobs w/o Wozniak”

[@stevebryant6483]

Howie and Bernie sure did bring a lot of heart to the show.

[@timwong5908]

I would have loved to see a Howard & Bernadette spin-off.

[@jasonbean2764]

One of the things I love about this program is the character development.:)

[@samanthakennedy9514]

Amazing how Penny put these two together .

[@antonionunez3759]

Well she only did it as a favor to Leonard because of that promise Leonard made to Howard years back of hooking either one with a date. If the other one gets a girlfriend.

[@sockygaldamez9492]

Number one is my favourite moment from them because I think it’s such romantic gesture from Howard ❤️❤️❤️ and the song is so beautiful and sweet 😊😊💖💖💖 and there wedding is pretty amazing too 😁🥰🥰🥰

[@audreytheausllyologist502]

Howard started off as such a creep but Bernadette helped him steal my heart. If it wasn’t for her, he probably would have gone to jail or made his way into the sex offender registry.

[@alekseevatanya]

I think they are perfect for each other in their own odd way😊

[@chelseacanales8763]

They are so cute together!! I knew Howard’s song would be at #1. ❤❤❤❤❤

[@andrewq159]

Cute when she snipes & shouts at him frequently?

[@Spectre-tv7wi]

@@andrewq159blame Howard for being lazy and more dependent

[@andrewq159]

@@Spectre-tv7wi She knows what he's like.

[@Spectre-tv7wi]

@@andrewq159 ye then makes sense she would shout at him to get off his lazy ass and work lol

[@rebeccalowes9448]

Howard and Bernie is the best couple

[@thatbee3585]

Love this list !!! Thanks ms mojo !!!

[@miraazzizi]

Best couple in big bang theory

[@TomKeresey10]

Number 1 is my all time favourite Howard & Bernadette moment. I'm a big sucker for romance and love and that was a true love and romance moment.

[@cameronjr8]

Now I would want to see Top 10 Best of Leonard and Penny or Sheldon and Amy!

[@annafowdy]

I thought they already did those.

[@cameronjr8]

@@annafowdy Oh I checked them already.

[@thatbee3585]

Me too!!!

[@giovannilograsso2279]

I’d also like to see one for Raj and Stewart 😂

[@joshuadesautels]

They did those already. This was the one they seemed to be putting off doing for some reason.

[@Daveodad]

Number one here is, imho, the best moment ever in TBBT...just brilliant...

[@hanscombe72]

Wolowitz is an astronaut. Get the man an omega speed master and have some god damn respect.

[@joshuadesautels]

Finally. It's about time.

[@BrandonKohout]

I love these two.

[@blancarosales3400]

About time they did this ❤

[@nelgnelgnelg]

Isn’t it ironic that Howard turned to be the family man

[@MomoShiho4869]

All the crying scene was so funny! 😂😂

[@debkunkel5840]

Who would have thought that at the beginning of the series that Howard would be married, and that he would have two such sincere yet still romantic acts of appreciation of a woman as his apology after the bachelor party and the serenade when Bernadette was quarantined? Yet both made sense over time. Sometimes I don't think this show gets enough credit for realistic character development. No one is unrecognizable from their start, yet all make realistic, gains.

[@andrewq159]

What character development does Raj have, other than overcoming his selective mutism?

[@chelseaxoxo784]

​@@andrewq159.

[@andrewq159]

@@chelseaxoxo784 Can you specify Raj's character development?

[@chelseaxoxo784]

@@andrewq159 I'm not agreeing or disagreeing. I put a . So when someone makes an argument in favour of or against, I can read it.👀👀

[@shadenox8164]

@@andrewq159 Raj needed to learn to actually love himself, he was too needy and cocky at times. Just because he didn't have a girlfriend by the end doesn't mean he didn't grow. For example he stopped living off his parents money and when he was given the sure thing of a marriage he might have accepted in his more desperate moments he turned it down because he didn't need companionship THAT badly anymore. I'd also point out him losing his selective mutism is also what allows his career to change to working at the Planetarium where he becomes one of their popular orators and helps him get further out of his shell.

[@FullTimePatient37]

1:42 yep 👍🏼🩷🩷

[@Maxximum_]

Didn't really like how they gave Bernadette a higher pitched voice in the later seasons when she became part of the main cast, but I guess that's what gave her a personality. Same thing with Cat Valentine from Victorious to Sam & Cat.

[@andrewq159]

Melissa Rauch's voice is nothing like that. Bernadette's voice worsening as her personality likewise does makes the show less enjoyable.

[@andrewq159]

@@christopherbingham5092 In order to be more unlikeable?

[@Maxximum_]

@@christopherbingham5092 my bad. Thought it was a decision made behind the scenes

[@Amyj2803]

He went from a creep to a family man❤

[@jacobienbeekmans6868]

I like bernadette

[@blueraccoon1088]

I had a teacher named Bernadette I call her Bernice

[@CatradoraAppleDashisawesome]

Id love to see Top 10 Best Debbie Wolowitz (Howards mom) moments

[@JDC1427]

So much fun watching them!

[@sspaay]

Melissa is so freakin beautiful.

[@andrewq159]

When they split, Howard says he wants a taller, more attractive woman with a better personality, for a LTR. Only after Penny says to him that Bernadette is the best he'll ever get does he go back to her.

[@shadenox8164]

Because he needed a kick in the rear to get over himself. Bernie was great and he wanted to hold out for a fictional woman instead of dating someone he did like, for superficial reasons.

[@andrewq159]

@@shadenox8164 Howard clearly doesn't think she's great. He describes what he's looking for, which is very different to her. It's not just looks - her voice & personality are horribly bad.

[@GamerFunOriginallyAarush]

Sweet!

[@MsMojo]

Thanks!

[@BrandonKohout]

Howard is Flynn Rider to Bernadette's Rapunzel

[@wassup722]

Off topic but since Zoey 102 came out can you please do a Top 10 or 5 best moments from that movie?

[@rebeccalowes9448]

I claim this

[@jessicaseitelman5875]

Fun Fact: the If I Didn't Have You song was written by Garfunkel and Oates.

[@kristashafer93098]

Oates? Do you mean John Oates from Hall and Oates?!

[@andrewq159]

Howard's strong attraction to Penny suddenly, permanently disappears when he meets Bernadette - which is ridiculous.

[@ARTSIEBECCA]

What's wrong with Bernadette? She's really pretty.

[@ovainshtok]

It’s ridiculous that you believe that attraction to one girl couldn’t be substituted by attraction to another

[@andrewq159]

@@ARTSIEBECCA Very pretty, yes. It's not her looks that are the problem - it's her voice & personality. His attraction to Penny wouldn't end just because he meets Bernadette.

[@andrewq159]

@@christopherbingham5092 Bernadette often insults/ridicules him. His attraction doesn't stop when she punches him. She doesn't become less attractive, so why would he stop noticing her attractiveness?

[@andrewq159]

@@ovainshtok It's ridiculous that you appear to believe that it's only possible to be attracted to one person at a time.

[@andrewq159]

Why does his mother sometimes say she likes Bernadette, but other times talk of her disapprovingly as "the little Polish girl" & "the little Catholic girl"?

[@ovainshtok]

Why are people inconsistent? Because they are people

[@andrewq159]

@@ovainshtok Does she like Bernadette or not?

[@ovainshtok]

@@andrewq159 she loves her son! And she wants him the best

[@andrewq159]

@@ovainshtok She previously wants for him to choose a Jewish GF.

[@chelseaxoxo784]

​@@andrewq159why are you everywhere in the comment section expressing your distaste for this couple 👀👀

[@andrewq159]

11:47 - This is ridiculous; she knows that his magic is too basic to do professionally & that his tricks often go wrong. He introduces his magic act by singing (which magicians don't do). He then says three irrelevant things about himself, one of which the couple know to be untrue. Where he's from, his favourite food & that he doesn't have any siblings (shortly after a visit from his half-brother Josh). I've never seen a magician introduce themselves in that way.

[@shadenox8164]

She's trying to be supportive. God, she can't win can she? Also god forbid he doesn't change his script because of a half brother he met once? Also the fact he's not a great magician but its something he loves and she's supportive of him trying is literally what couples do.

[@andrewq159]

@@shadenox8164 She's not being supportive; she's setting him up to fail. She knows he can't do magic as anything other than a hobby. Script? Bernadette writes that intro after meeting Josh.

[@kjantv3649]

I want a Bernadette.

[@andrewq159]

@@kjantv3649 You love her voice & personality?!

[@annafowdy]

When are we gonna get lists of the worst things ___ did for each character?

[@Ben8484]

The two main couples ended up being way too toxic. I’m convinced that at some point Penny will cheat on Leonard. Ultimately, TBBT was a GARBAGE representation of relationships. For some reason Chuck Lorre seems to try ink that pairing yon beautiful women with seemingly pathetic men is comedy. Newsflash: it ISN’T (Alan and Lyndsey, Leonard and Penny, Howard and Bernadette, etc). 🤦‍♂️.

[@Ben8484]

@@christopherbingham5092 EXACTLY. Seriously, this show had such a bad vibe to it in the last four seasons. The last four seasons are GARBAGE. Can I recommend something to you that FIXES the some of the character problems of this show? Specifically Leonard and Penny?

[@Ben8484]

@@christopherbingham5092 How come? The last four seasons are disappointing. My recommendation fixes the character problems.

[@Ben8484]

@@christopherbingham5092 It’s not my work. Did you even finish “What could have been”?

[@annafowdy]

@@Ben8484 I don't think he even started it, boy. Neither have I.

[@andrewq159]

Why does she sometimes boast how great he is, yet other times insult him & say to people that he's no prize, nothing special etc.?

[@shadenox8164]

Do you not understand how people can be?

[@andrewq159]

Why does she sometimes say that she's not going to become his mother, yet other times treat him like a child?

[@shadenox8164]

Because she gets tired of trying to get him to do things and just does them.

[@tanaka7341]

Im not gonna lie after watching it the 4th time i hate them 😂😂😂😂

[@Rymar101]

Howard and Bernadette make a great couple. Before he met Bernadette, Howard was just a horrific horndog

[@raymondmaciel4047]

I should ask but what's a horn dog?

[@andrewq159]

@@raymondmaciel4047 Chasing girls, trying to get action.

[@andrewq159]

They're grossly unsuited.

[@raymondmaciel4047]

@@andrewq159 Oh, man when I start dating I'm not sure what to do, I mean I don't want to over think things.

[@andrewq159]

@@raymondmaciel4047 Don't be trapped into a miserable LTR with someone like Bernadette!

[@andrewq159]

It's common sense that if you want to have kids, choose a partner who also does.

[@shadenox8164]

Duh. But its also a sitcom so drama.

[@andrewq159]

@@shadenox8164 I'm talking about in general. Millions of people who want kids choose partners whom they know don't.

[@MangaSlayer102]

As much as I wanted to like them I think their love started to die not long after getting married but especially after they had kids I still love their romantic moments

[@andrewq159]

They're never suited.

[@MangaSlayer102]

@@andrewq159 yeah you’re right

[@shadenox8164]

@@MangaSlayer102 Nah, he just mistakes Howard being creepy at Penny as chemistry for some reason.

[@Spectre-tv7wi]

I blame Howard for the kinda toxic relationship with Bernie bc he started to become really lazy and more dependent which annoyed Bernadette

[@stacisarcastic]

I will never understand why Bernadette said yes to marrying him when she was debating breaking up with him that same day?? I wonder what changed her mind?

[@joshuadesautels]

That information was wrong. She wasn't considering breaking up with him.

[@andrewq159]

Howard is much funnier when single.

[@shadenox8164]

He was never funny when he was single, he was fucking creepy.

[@gmcjrys]

​@@shadenox8164 Yes

[@joshuadesautels]

You mean creepier.

[@andrewq159]

Why do the writers push the "everyone needs kids" lie?

[@williamdonovan-pg4yx]

You don’t have to have children to be a family or to keep your marriage strong

[@andrewq159]

@@williamdonovan-pg4yx True, yet many people insist that kids are compulsory.

[@Jeremiah_Rivers76]

@@andrewq159I learned in Sociology that people without kids are generally happier overall.

[@andrewq159]

@@Jeremiah_Rivers76 Yes, yet Jordan Peterson insists that people who don't have kids are guaranteed to be unhappy & lonely.

[@shadenox8164]

@@andrewq159 Literally no one who matters takes that man seriously. Also just because the characters had kids doesn't mean they're pushing everyone has to.

[@andrewq159]

She has a PhD, yet we're supposed to believe that she doesn't know how to use contraception?!

[@Daveodad]

They used contraception, it just failed...

[@RodneyG669]

No contraceptive is 100% except perhaps for a hysterectomy, which is a radical procedure normally only done because of medical necessity.

[@andrewq159]

@@RodneyG669 Several methods have a success rate of about 99% if used correctly.

[@RodneyG669]

@@andrewq159 but that's not 100% and people make mistakes, just look at how Penny got pregnant at the end of the series.

[@andrewq159]

@@RodneyG669 She's not that intelligent & appears to have not used contraception.

[@KarynDances777]

The last video is so cute!!!

[@andrewq159]

Howard is too immature to be a good father.

[@andrewq159]

She doesn't support all his dreams & hopes - she often ridicules & dismisses them.

[@shadenox8164]

Nope.

[@monksoup669]

I really don’t like the way all the characters got changed over the course of 12 seasons. Especially Howard and Bernadette, he became a real child and she became a harridan

[@maxmetodiev641]

He was already a child at the start

[@sessionshannah]

❤❤❤

[@andrewq159]

Bernadette is very unsuited to motherhood & finds it very stressful.

[@damian2972]

ooookkk? What's up with your endless negativity in the comments?

[@shadenox8164]

Anyone who tells you parenting isn't stressful is a liar. You're responsible for a whole other being who for the first few years of its life can't do anything by itself. Normalise mothers needing a break sometimes too.

[@Ben8484]

Bernadette was the second worst character. Seriously, I don’t like Howard either, but the way the show constantly reminds us that men like Howard and Leonard are pathetic, and that Penny and Bernadette settled is simply…NOT FUNNY.

[@shadenox8164]

I mean when Bernie started dating Howard he was pathetic. Literally a gross creeper. Also the focus after marriage was about how he needs to be more of an adult, which isn't really a bad angle to take. The Penny and Leonard joking about leagues thing together got a little old but at least its a shared joke between them. Nothing to get that mad about.

[@Ben8484]

@@shadenox8164 OH PLEASE! When Penny realized she was being a bitch to Leonard in one episode, she decided to be nice and gave him a compliment. What was his immediate reaction? He panicked, and after she explained the situation and complimented him again, he still said it felt off. That’s not funny… AT ALL. That just shows how toxic the show had become and everything the came before the first eight seasons was all GONE. 🤦‍♂️. Chuck Lorre is an IDIOT.

[@delphinec9307]

Such a bad couple. Howard becomes a "Mr normal - no commitment man" and Bernie becomes a dominating insulting woman. This is probably a very realistic way of being a couple but so sad in this show.

[@Ben8484]

For those of you who were disappointed by this series’s last four seasons, how Penny was never a well developed character, and how it ended, let me recommend you this: “What could have been”, by son-goku5. WAY BETTER than the actual show. It takes place THROUGHOUT the show, but has real and better character development for Penny. It's like 95% from Penny's POV, and it also gives her more depth by showing/including her family from Nebraska as well as her family. It definitely made me feel better about how disappointing the last five seasons were. The show should have just ended with Leonard and Penny getting married. Also this story puts Penny in moments where she wasn't. (Vegas and Camping Trip where the guys were Tripping while Camping; she gets high too). Also, there's a huge twist that makes the show honestly look dumb in romantic story telling. There's also more Penny vs Sheldon in it, to the point that Sheldon messes with her job and she messes with his schedule. Penny also doesn't become unlikable in it, and remains her "before she got married" self to the end. Her fate in this story is also a lot better. And Leonard's proposal is WAY better in it. They also show Leonard interacting with her family more often (they also show him asking for her parents blessing, which is a very well written moment) and he even tells Penny he's jealous of her for having nice parents. Leonard also gets REAL character development in this story too. He grows up and acts less nerdy but still remains a nerd (for example he missed half a day of Comic Con to take care of Penny when she gets a headache. That's what I call maturity. And when Raj uses the whip sound, to make fun of him for taking care of her, Penny gets all mad for them making fun of Leonard and she even mentions his problem with Emily and the Iron Maiden 😂. When all he's doing is something thoughtful). What's best about this story is that while they do act like their sitcom selves, Leonard and Penny develop more realistically like REAL PEOPLE. READ IT! Also the author is German, and I think he's a physicist, because he writes science dialogue that's offscreen. Penny also comes to hate Beverley a lot. She also stands up for him when someone flirts with her and denigrates him at the same time, because she knows he never was able to do it his whole life. It’s really beautiful. At one point she even calls him in her mind, her soulmate. Penny and Leonard plan a REAL wedding, and they exchange actual beautiful vows, and makes it clear she wants to have a genuinely happy life with him because he at one point in the story says that “life will go by and all that a person will have is a regret of not doing something”. Leonard is a little philosopher in this story. He even tells Penny he’s thinking about changing his name to “Leonardo”, cause it get rid of the word “nerd” in his name, but ultimately doesn’t. Penny is actually really smart in season seven and eight; she comes up with a way to trick Sheldon into giving them the apartment. You see the author writes a reason why Penny is uncomfortable with Leonard moving in with her. It is because of her asshole ex who cheated on her before she met Leonard. Penny thinks that her and Leonard also being neighbors is “convenient and practical”. So when Sheldon gets hospitalized in season four for weeks , Leonard in a very “Chandler Bing fashion” asks Penny to move in (in this story they don’t break up like in season three, and their relationship starts off WAY differently) with him as a trial. He’s smart and tells Penny he knows the real reason. When they get engaged she tells Leonard they can’t live in her apartment, so it’s either A trick Sheldon into moving out or B, find a new place, and “make it our own”. Sheldon is more intolerable and unbearable. When Leonard does move out, they basically show no real sympathy. Penny even tells Amy that it’s HER job to prepare Sheldon for when they get married since she’s his girlfriend “by will”. Excerpt: Amy waved it off and looked at her. "Are you determined to live with Leonard after you're married?" "Of course." Penny scrunched her face in confusion. "He'll be my husband, why would I not?" "Well, I heard the secret of a successful relationship is separate apartments." Amy hesitated, clearly uncomfortable." "Amy, did you tell Sheldon yet that he has to get used to the idea that he won't be living with Leonard anymore?" Penny asked her friend. "Well..." "Dammit, Amy!" Penny huffed. "I haven't gotten the chance yet to approach the subject." Amy justified her recalcitrance. "I'm afraid he'll run away again." "Amy, let me be clear." Penny said. "After Leonard and me are back from our honeymoon, we will live together. Whether it'll be here in this building or somewhere else, I don't know yet but Sheldon will not be living in the same apartment." "Fine." Amy huffed. "Go back a minute, clothing has an expiration date?" Bernadette interjected. "Yes, it's called fashion." Penny nodded as Amy picked up the red dress from the top of the keep pile.