Top 10 Ray and Debra Fights in Everybody Loves Raymond

[@hutch1197]

The most ironic plot development in this show is that it was Debra who insisted they move next to his parents. Ray was dead against it.

[@wickedwitchoftheeast88]

To be fair to Debra she was pregnant and her own parent's weren't around much and up to that point she got on great with Frank and Marie so she probably thought it was lovely to have family nearby for some help and guidance she didn't realise Marie was a narcissistic cow.

[@Roscoe.P.Coldchain]

I would live on top of the moon if I could Marry Debra 😭😭

[@evannasong8356]

What makes the show funny

[@lynnperry555]

Was he really dead against it? ray has a narcissist mother. Her self importance, her seeking for admiration, she believes she is above all others and puts her children down, yet believes she thinks she deserves special treatment. Narc mother’s often have one child they hold above others, which is ray. this is actually abuse at its highest form.

[@hutch1197]

@@lynnperry555 He definitely was against it. They did a flashback episode when she was pregnant and it was Debra's idea to move next to his parents. He objected but she got her way.

[@Jojojo995]

Frank and Marie were the most funny. May they rest in peace🙏

[@benjaminpoirier6297]

Jose Robles yes Marie and Frank were funny. It’s funny how Frank is very selfish and Marie is a crazy woman.

[@Jojojo995]

@@benjaminpoirier6297 without them, this show wouldn't have been funny. They deserve respect

[@benjaminpoirier6297]

Jose Robles it’s sad Marie and Frank are already dead. And Sawyer Sweeten is dead too. Marie and Frank are probably still fighting up in heaven but it’s too bad we can’t hear them from heaven. It’s funny because Marie is 10 years older than Frank and Frank died 10 years before Marie in real life.

[@julieviola6787]

Frank I like Marie I don't care for

[@Lubbylove89]

"Ray, I said help me. "I DON'T SEE THE NEED." lmao

[@mikeyd9056]

Lubbylove89 😂😂

[@LaidbackNarration3000]

😂😂😂😂

[@IronMan-tk8uc]

With a husband like that, who the hell needs an enemy!

[@mrfivegold]

​@@IronMan-tk8uche has a job, she doesn't.

[@IronMan-tk8uc]

@@mrfivegold So Ray should be treated like royalty because he has a job?

[@tiannababiie7897]

One of my favorite show so mad they took it off Netflix me and my boyfriend and daughter would watch the seasons over and over basically we're obsessed with this show lol

[@Y_hass]

You need to learn how to use commas.

[@KennyakaTI]

Sucks that it's not on Netflix anymore. Bought all the seasons on youtube. LOL

[@jcdenton5828]

medusacries Now you just have to go back in time and find any sort of disc player xD

[@jcdenton5828]

medusacries Are you on the autistic spectrum taking things said literally or living in the past? Either way get a sense of humour ;)

[@jcdenton5828]

medusacries No I grasped you were being sarcastic. It wasn’t in a playful way though. You’re the one that got triggered over disc media. Remember that. I was just making social commentary that I’m surprised that we still have DVDs! I’m sorry. I forget I have to spell things out for some people 😛 Just looked at your profile. Yeah. Perhaps I should of done that before said anything. Cause I would of been able to deduct you probably have a stick up your ass. ❤️✌️

[@MjollTheLioness-o4y]

When newlyweds Amy and Robert told Debra and Ray that they fight too much and Debra told Amy "Amy in a year there are gonna be screams coming out of you that you can't imagine at times and its not gonna have anything to do with toad's wild ride" 😂 Also loved the one where Ray and Frank convince Robert to mess up his wedding invitations on purpose.

[@shashankchauhan7624]

This is such an underrated series 😆

[@dominik9894]

No its not, Raymond was so popular on tv

[@dianesingerman9650]

@@dominik9894 it got a lot of recognition through ratings and awards.

[@giancarlojacobs9982]

No it's not. It won multiple emmys

[@leonoranicolaysen2784]

Why do people say underrated when it was a smash hit?

[@GREGWATSON-lc8cc]

Overshadow by Friends

[@wr8436]

The fight about when Ray tries to get out of things by faking incompetence "Zippers, the One-Man Wedding Band"

[@BigUncleWyte]

Fold this shirt you fake husband!

[@nancygreen3705]

"Explain how an adult with thumbs cannot do that!" 😂😂

[@MJ-su4gy]

"DIAPERS!!"

[@MJ-su4gy]

@@BigUncleWyte 🤣

[@panther6682]

Debra's blood pressure would have been no less than 150 mmhg on systolic

[@denisbionichardy8033]

One of greatest sitcoms ever. It was natural funny. It was spontaneously funny. They didn't even have to try. It was about like real life. They just don't make comedy like ELR. or The Cosby show. No sitcoms like it.

[@cherykhan8130]

Denis Bionic Hardy still can not beat friends sitcom

[@SuperBrictson]

@@cherykhan8130 Friends are overrated. Many gags in that series were purely stereotypical like when Ross was against his "homosexual" babysitter, do we really needed that episode or the writers were just running out of ideas?

[@cherykhan8130]

SuperBrictson it was setup in90,s so that time was different from 20th century plus he was paranoid due to his wife being lesbian n left him so he was kinda afraid .few things could be different from todays setup but no body can beat chandler bing joey phoebe crazyness etc etci hv seen so many sitcoms but never found such a beautiful lesson of life like friendship bonding support care and punchlines

[@SuperBrictson]

@@cherykhan8130 I understand your point about the context of the time the show was aired but to me is still a fleaky plot, especially when you talk about the crazyness n' greatness of Friends (a show I actually like). See, when Chandler got stucked in the elevator with the model, that was an effective plot but episodes like "Phoebe believing her grandma reincarnated in a cat", "Joey learning french", "Rachel cheerleading at Joshua", "Ross finding his sound" were annoying n' not a fluent comedy. Everybody Loves Raymond certainly is not Seinfeld but I liked its spontaneous jokes even from the annoying Raymond, the conflicts, the egos of Ray, Debra, Marie, Robert, Frank, all they're nuts!!!

[@cherykhan8130]

SuperBrictson yes may be its your choice n i respct that 👍🏻i like friends because all characters r funny n crazy no character is boring . episodes r good n acting is amazing n chemistry between friends seems so real and mostly things they showed are that we can relate to our daily life even if i learn french i will be even more dumb they plotted these things to make u laugh not everything needs to make sense thats y friends is still popular in the whole world because of its uniqueness .i watched many shows but characters were kinda boring or things were not that much relatable

[@cristianh5834]

Anybody else notices that Ray is wearing the same shirt in a lot of episodes when he argues with Debra!?!

[@lambo2655]

Most of the the hilarious ideas for this show came from the writers and staff real life experiences 😂

[@wotan10950]

I loved ELR. Still enjoy the reruns. Why? Because it’s true to life. These are the crazy things that happen between couples everyday, albeit a bit exaggerated. Well, maybe not so exaggerated!

[@unbreakable_lindi_schmidt]

This is exactly why I love this show. Real love isn‘t like Disney, it‘s more like „Everybody loves Raymond“ 😆

[@Lady_Blade_WarAngel]

Really? Because I'm actually seeing a toxic relationship here. My partner has my back if his parents are inappropriate, I have his back if my Mum is. We share household chores. When we disagree, it doesn't turn physical, or into a crazy shouting match. Like in what world is this healthy?

[@milkynasus7030]

Their marriage was much calmer and nicer in Season 1 and 2 where they almost never argued, but it went down hill from there.

[@leonoranicolaysen2784]

This the comedy.

[@charlesfranklinlambeth3944]

These were great. Two I would also have included are the time Ray made a $1000 investment without telling Debra and she got so mad that she took all the covers off the bed AND the one where they fight about her parents and she throws the turkey in the oven!

[@mgaamerica9185]

That’s the real reason Debra and Marie never got along, each one of them wanted what the other had. Debra wanted the unconditional love and obedience that Ray gave his mother, and Marie wanted the browbeaten wussy of a husband that would do whatever she said.

[@wytenight9811]

"I don't see the need" I wish I would've said that in school lol

[@benxvariety8878]

I love this show. I'm sad that I was too young to watch it when it was on air

[@donaldashleyjr.9689]

Me too

[@c.170]

Bless the 90’s

[@karenmurphy6749]

I will always love Every one Loves Raymond!!

[@aleenakhan2005]

Me too

[@tyronejohnson21]

You can't just make it a one way street... Think about all the accidents it would cause. #priceless

[@KennyG881]

This shows just keeps reminding me why I never want to get married.

[@Ace-ke7fq]

It's been a very great 21 years of no papers for me,.lots of unmarried couples have lasted long in their togetherness,.the problem with marriage is most of them are only after security in funds, all they want is how much they can rake their partner for, it's sickening..Oh and folks shouldn't have kids either unless it's mutual, always the broad wants kids and expect everyone else to help her, don't have kids right away its foolishness, especially with the state of this world,.

[@ms.rstake_1211]

Lol

[@benjaminpoirier6297]

KennyG881 sometimes it’s better to live alone. When Debra got mad because Raymond taped football over the wedding video Debra got a nose bleed because she was mad. It was funny when Debra saw football even though she wanted to watch the wedding video. If you hear someone get mad they will get a nose bleed.

[@MjollTheLioness-o4y]

When you live with someone that long, I don't care who it is, they're going to get on your nerves at times. There will be fights and arguments, especially with the stress of kids, family, a job and life in general. It depends on what the arguments are about and how you treat each other during them. Most people who really love and care about each other do fuss over stupid things. I'd rather our arguments be about me moving his stuff or him not picking up his garbage than more serious problems like an affair. To think that life will always be a fairytale and that 2 people will always get a long is a fantasy that just doesn't exist.

[@nancygreen3705]

Ray is self-centered but I don't think he understands that. It's so natural for him-it's all about Ray.

[@TheRealDeal92]

Such a fun show and great cast. I swear that if this was not a comedy show, Raymond would have been divorced so fast. Yes Debra married him and knew how his family was and believed she could handle it but as the years went on, she couldn’t take it anymore. Thanks for uploading.

[@ms.rstake_1211]

Ray is just a step above his Dad.

[@hutch1197]

Everyone complaining about Debra being so nagging and yelling are missing the point. They never said she was perfect. Many of the characters got in some great digs on how much she yells. They were all imperfect and annoying. That's what made the show funny.

[@fishnewt1331]

Exactly! And the irony is that they say she take Ray for granted, ignoring the very fact that she does about as much work as a stay at home mom as he does working as a sports columnist. They are equally imperfect, but they care about each other nonetheless.

[@nathan2497]

Yh that's it they were all not the best as people but somehow their characters were still quite likeable good writing I guess

[@benjaminpoirier6297]

hutch when Debra gets mad at Raymond because he taped football over the wedding video it’s funny when she saw it because it made her so mad Debra got a nose bleed. So when someone gets mad they will get a nose bleed.

[@MjollTheLioness-o4y]

Ray is as bad as Debra, just in a different way. She's nagging and bitchy but, he's lazy, selfish and inconsiderate. He actually laughed in her face when she told him her parents were getting a divorce. On another episode he lies so he can go over to Robert's apartment to watch women from behind a potted plant. How he ever stayed married is surprising sometimes.

[@evannasong8356]

The thing is that everybody’s triggered by things in their own lives. 😂 The characters and their actions remind commenters of their own daily lives and their possible unresolved issues. That’s what makes this show so relatable and infuriating.

[@00bikeboy]

You missed the fight from 'Bully on the Bus'. I loved that one.

[@mickeyphillips6603]

#5 Lateness. That was 100% Debra’s fault. She made a deal, promising to be on time, giving Ray permission to leave without her. She blew it, and still copped an attitude and blamed Ray.

[@Regreviews]

I'm saying

[@dianesingerman9650]

Why couldn’t Debra just drive herself? Big deal! It was Ray’s big night and once again she made it all about herself. Such a selfish diva! I like Ray much more than Debra.

[@dallasbrubaker6054]

@@dianesingerman9650 Did they have 2 cars?

[@dianesingerman9650]

@@dallasbrubaker6054 I believe they did, because Ray mentioned her driving separately.

[@meryemb2195]

Actually it was both of them fault 😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬😬🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

[@saraiyasookoo2395]

This show was great how many of us have picture perfect marriages. It's just a show and it was great

[@Jojo10475]

Yeah, but if a husband, any husband, treated his wife like Debra mistreats Ray, the villagers would come with pitchforks, torches and a rope to banish Ray from the kingdom. Debra and her character emasculates Ray and it's funny... if a man did that, it would be criminal domestic abuse.

[@anthonylagano2371]

I already made that decision…Just so ya know ! I loved that one . Hilarious show 😎😎😎

[@franklintruby1322]

My fav was when Deb got her hair tangled and Ray left for some sports function

[@billgateskilledmyuncle23]

You AIS'ed her? I would never do that to the wife. That's suicide!

[@livviepayne8849]

Ah, the A. I. S. episode, one of my favorites.

[@elizabethrosebell9017]

In his defence he did ask her to be on time

[@evannasong8356]

Well I’m a woman and if my friends or anyone else is gonna screw me on an important event, I’d just calmly leave without them.

[@dianesingerman9650]

@@elizabethrosebell9017 I don’t see a problem with taking separate cars. Prevents a lot of arguments.

[@chuckroberts3873]

I got tears in my eyes. He taped over their wedding. Holy cow.

[@NonanoN-er6de]

This wud come on in the morning before school. I wud watch it just to pass time. that was nearly 15years ago

[@litigioussociety4249]

I guess it's not technically a fight, but the ending of the Raybert episode where Debra says, "girl in the laundry room?!" and then Ray responds, "I go fix sprinkler now," was gold.

[@jessidevine]

Number 10 and the shower massage are my two favorite Ray and Debra fights. 😊😂😂😂😂

[@hbpu2156]

“Ray, I said Help Me”! “I DON’T SEE THE NEED”. Lol 😂 my favorite.

[@i_am_thebatman]

Women who are this passionate are this passionate in a lot of other ways too. The only thing is it wouldn’t be fun to see a series about perfect people who love each other and do the right thing every day. They are both flawed people I mean the whole family is deeply flawed. Debra makes a lot of mistakes and so does Ray. The wedding video would be enough to end a lot of marriages. Favorite fight is when he sprays Debra with the shower and the fight where Ray tries to mock the suitcase

[@Steven-pn8kd]

Should've included the fight about Ray helping Robert fake his wedding invitations.

[@keitholsen9435]

I think people are missing the point. It's funny because it's a heavily dysfunctional marriage. No one should model their marriage after this. There are extreme highs and lows, it makes for good entertainment. I love this show not because I aspire to be like them, but because if this happened in real life it wouldn't be funny. Some jokes are funnier left unsaid in real life. But in a show, anything can be said.

[@itsnotatoober]

You missed the point

[@KennyakaTI]

Actually this marriage isn't that bad compared to others I've seen lol.

[@keitholsen9435]

@Enricom23 I didn't say that there aren't families like these haha, just that we should not aim to have dysfunctional families:)

[@jcdenton5828]

Kenny aka TI cough cough king of queens

[@biplav32]

@@keitholsen9435 OK have a perfect family. World is filled rainbow and sunshine only.

[@kevinawarner1005]

Love this thank God I get to watch all the episodes in my twenties

[@Angie-qz8sm]

This show was hilarious. Too bad they never did a separation episode. I know lots of sitcoms have used that formula but I think in Ray and Dan's case, that would've been interesting to watch

[@12Blueace]

That would have been really good. It would be just like how Marie and Debra reached a point where they refused to speak to each other and the guys were forced to take sides.

[@m.corege9726]

You missed a very funny episode where they get a new vacuum - Debra goes over to Marie's house looking for dirt - really funny - best series ever - cheers from Canada

[@HOPEat]

#3 was my all time fave. This was my favorite show of all time. 🍻☮️

[@mr.x8704]

OMG! Still so funny. I miss those days. Best tv entertainment.

[@waynehoxit9782]

❤😊 Debra rage can be so extreme at times when she gets pushed to far at times

[@darrelmani654]

You forgot the fight where Debra took out all the bedding and left raymond nothing to sleep with

[@TheLastSamoan]

Debra should've married Robert instead. Also, Raymond should've married his mother...

[@jcdenton5828]

TheLastSaiyan That’s ideological thinking. Robbie would be too boring for Debra. #PeopleAreStupid (Thank goodness I’m a Demi-God)

[@wytenight9811]

Robert was the only character I liked

[@michaelnaisbitt1639]

JC Denton Ray has two needs. Sex from Debra and food and worship from his mother. His mother really has problems with the absolute idolisation of Ray over everything else. His father is Just plain nuts

[@tammiprice6351]

Robert loved Debra so much. He idolized her.

[@cameronblevins899]

That's Kinda Sick When You Said He Should Marry His Mother

[@unbreakable_lindi_schmidt]

My all time favourite is number 3 😆

[@mikeyd9056]

Unbreakable Lindi Schmidt classic 😂👌

[@benxvariety8878]

My favorite was number 2 but 3 is funny too!

[@godisgoodallthetime7622]

They always seem to compete against each other.

[@nancygreen3705]

Robert & Raymond are like little boys the way they compete for "top billing'.

[@cagedtigersteve]

Do a Ray and Robert fight video.

[@tyronejohnson21]

Do you really need a tape recorder?... You seem to remember everything. #todamnfunny

[@uppanadam]

Rehearsals must have been fun!! LOL!!

[@monaattianese9838]

Great show!!! Man ...it's really so Italian American... I can say it cause I am straight out of this sitcom

[@photondebuger45]

The gasp for air when Deb was choking to me sounded like 100 percent legit

[@tomgrams2333]

Debra and Marie are the same! Just 30 years apart... Ray and Frank are the same , just 30 years apart. How Ray reacts is what you do when you're young- you fight it.. as you age you just say F it... not gonna win the war! Same w Debra and Marie- Marie is to the point of refined "battling", I think the term is passive aggressive! I loved the show!!

[@daveoutdoors4949]

We’ll you missed the best fight line ever when Ray says something about “once a month when you rip into me like a monkey on a cupcake!” That line kills me.

[@islanders1329fan]

3:52 Ray is like oh shit I’m trapped LOL

[@aleenakhan2005]

Yeah

[@conniejeanklein5375]

Suit case was my favorite

[@livviepayne8849]

I love ALL the characters EXCEPT DEBRA!!!

[@cameronblevins899]

Me Too She Can't Even Cook

[@dianesingerman9650]

Whenever the episode revolves around Debra more than usual (such as when Debra stuffed socks in her bra or ran for the school board), I try to find a more enjoyable episode (such as Marie interfering with Robert’s FBI interview or Ally asking about God).

[@texastea5686]

Ive never watched this show! Im here because of The Middle and cant believe it's the same actress! Lol

[@texastea5686]

@@lillithsternin7428 I know. That's what I wrote. Im here because I watched the show "THE MIDDLE" not, "Malcom in the Middle"

[@askelvis27]

Debra is a vicious bully. She keeps hitting Ray.

[@fishnewt1331]

Yeah, like Ray wasn’t grabbing her when she elbowed him.

[@lukedavis1436]

@@fishnewt1331 He defended himself when she was assaulting him.

[@fishnewt1331]

@@lukedavis1436: Yes, grabbing a bag from his hands qualifies as assault first and not him grabbing her by the torso.

[@lukedavis1436]

@@fishnewt1331 what about all the other times that she slapped and hit him and called him names and abused him emotionally. When Ray grabbed her it was in an almost playful way. He wasn't trying to hurt her. Debra just straight up hits ray.

[@fishnewt1331]

@@lukedavis1436: Okay, your view is severely warped. 1) You think it’s okay for him to retaliate in kind because of what she did? Neither are good, but no one is walking in and putting all the blame on Debra as if Ray has not done any of his own emotional damage on her or neglect. 2) Playful? They were having a literal argument over pettily finishing a task they both were refusing to do out of spite. There is nothing playful about the situation and especially not when he was grabbing her to pull her off.

[@cpvillacis]

My nationality is Ecuador and my parents are a little bit like his parents except for Frank. My father is nothing like Frank but my parents are from an older generation that they treat me and my sister like Robert and Raymond lol

[@elgrigorio1]

Oh God, I'm russian and my grandparents are Frank and Marie times a million! Never a dull moment with them.

[@bitwawesome1]

Romance girl

[@troncron2458]

In 8x14 Lateness after Ray left without Debra and just left her with a curling iron stuck in her hair she was so pissed off there were no words. She could've beaten him until he was half dead, cut the tv cable, or threw out his favorite foods so all he'd be stuck with is her disasters of meals but her revenge was making him wait purposefully for her to come up stairs. All of Debra's rage and her revenge was making him wait

[@wytenight9811]

"Well stop it already" wow Ray really has no idea what he's doing at all lol

[@InimitaPaul]

The most horrible wife and the most annoying husband I've ever seen. Why have I seen this show so many times! 😆 WHAT! How could you cut out them showering the kids!

[@wytenight9811]

Where's "fold this shirt you fake husband"

[@justusschrom6071]

Honorable mention: ray and Debra fight in front of the collesum in rome, Italy in the episode, "Italy".

[@Behen786]

Deborah has some serious anger issues! As a female I know if Ray was like her he’d be labeled “abusive”!

[@hutch1197]

Ray has gone off on her plenty of times. Sometimes she deserved it. Sometimes she didn't.

[@fishnewt1331]

Ray was not the perfect angel when Debra goes off on him. Stop labeling Debra as the bad guy when they both obviously had bad faults.

[@joycekopac6068]

It’s a TV series!! IT’S FUNNY!! Hysterical. They aren’t real people.

[@billgoldberg4847]

@@fishnewt1331 ray never went hands on like she did.

[@tai_marshal]

While it can be argued Deborah may have some control issues that may need her to feel like she’s in charge all the time, the only time she ever really loses her temper is when Ray is doing something stupid, inconsiderate, or apathetic. Like the wedding video that he taped over. Or his refusal to help Deborah around the house when she needs it most. Or when he didn’t react to her choking. Or even the time that he committed the cardinal sin of dismissing Deborah’s issues by playing the PMS card. Was her anger excessive? Arguably, yes. Was it unjustified? No, not all the time. And given how common these scenarios are, it is often hard for her to not get more angry each time. But this is something that’s not uncommon in even the healthiest of marriages. This is especially true when both spouses come from two completely different backgrounds, such as Deborah coming from a more disciplined upbringing while Ray was often coddled and could virtually do no wrong in the eyes of Marie.

[@waynemitchell1076]

What happened to number 5? I've been searching for it all over KZbin & most of it has been cut out. That episode is so freaking funny because I reckon every husband throughout history has at least entertained the idea of leaving his wife behind after repeatedly asking her to start getting ready earlier. But not many of us would be stupid enough to actually do it. 🤪

[@MScorpioM]

That's why they take forever to get ready because they know you'll sit there until doomsday waiting for them.

[@MScorpioM]

Funny thing is that Debra has got no one to blame but herself. When she and Ray met, Debra was a Public Relations Coordinator for the New York Rangers. She was essentially around rich hunks all day and as an attractive woman herself, she could have had almost anybody. And yet she chose an under-confident "assistant" futon delivery man who was living with his mother and had no future prospects. He could barely muster the courage to ask her out (his friend Gianni had to do it for him), and then completely botched the awkward Debra-naked situation afterwards, and then panicked and cancelled the date. Despite these apparent red flags, Debra went through the trouble to find his address and go to his house and drag him out on a date. That speaks volumes about her insecurities about herself. As if that wasn't enough, the first time her and Ray slept together, Marie got the whiff of it and showed up at Debra's apartment with Father Hubley to stop them from doing the deed. Ray was in his late 20s and Marie still babied him. That's another glaring red flag that debra ignored - his family was utterly meddlesome - and took the relationship to the next level anyway, and eventually ends up marrying him. Cherry on top, she practically forced Ray to move next to his parents while being pregnant with the twins, despite Ray being dead against it for obvious reasons. When Ally was born, Debra couldn't wait to get away from her overbearing mother in law after spending those nine months with her, and yet she thought it was a great idea to move across the street from her permanently. This is a TV sitcom. But if Debra were a person in real life, I wouldn't have the least bit of sympathy with her.

[@Angel-777-i3k]

Love conquerors all these arguments

[@raimondasmarciulevicius7599]

Mikey D & Everybody Loves Raymond, good job! :) :)

[@baharehsaleh500]

Oh poor poor Debra I feel for her I could never tolerate a husband like Raymond

[@lalala6751]

He should have kicked that banshee of a wife to the curb.

[@johndoe-if1hl]

She's a physically and emotionally abusive wife. It's okay, though because Raymond's a man.

[@fishnewt1331]

John Doe: And he is unmotivated and literally grabs her sometimes in the show. But don’t worry, she is just his wife.

[@fishnewt1331]

lalala6751: He wouldn’t last a day in her shoes. She would probably laugh in his face sit and watch as he tries to chase the kids across the house with whatever mess before Marie comes by and belittles Debra for allowing the chaos to happen in the household. Then Debra would end doing what she does every day where Ray gets off Scott-free. So, don’t act like Ray is such a capable man because if Debra has to complain for his help, then it’s obvious she needs someone to have her back and he ain’t delivering.

[@nancygreen3705]

Ray never wanted to help with the kids! For him it was work, golf & sports. Family was an afterthought.

[@503945158]

I can see why Patricia Heaton won so many Emmys.

[@Ace-ke7fq]

y cause she's a bitch,.or other broads love her abuse on Ray perhaps..

[@sharkgirl74]

Ace no because shes talented and funny and you’re mad you dont have anyone loser

[@dianesingerman9650]

@@Ace-ke7fq some woman like myself think she’s too demanding of Ray.

[@malehlohonolo8463]

​@@dianesingerman9650yea, pick mes

[@lhijk2135]

Lol suitcase was awesome too!

[@sarahwright7076]

I love the suitcase episode.

[@itsnotatoober]

Which episode is it? It cuts off when it's getting good...

[@4nlover635]

That's all they did was fight. Is this really what married life is like?

[@itsnotatoober]

No also avoiding each other and interfering with your children's lives because you're a controlling baby

[@hutch1197]

No. But if every episode was them just doing normal everyday things like eat dinner, watch tv or go to the movies then it wouldn't be very entertaining would it?

[@swedeman5785]

Best acting by my opinion, is when Ray recorded over the wedding video. There, there is no CUT because of a missing line./she forgets what to say.

[@srirajhsripathinathan]

2:40 WHY DID YOU MAKE ME DO THAT 2:43 I didn’t make you do it 2:46 I was trying to win an argument I didn’t think you actually try it 6:01 what did you do ray, WHAT THE HELL DID YOU DO 8:02 AHHHHHHHH HEY

[@jamesforrest8324]

Number 3 is my favorite

[@rockturtleneck]

I remember seeing somewhere that one of the ELR writers actually taped the Super Bowl over his wedding video.

[@lukedavis1436]

Everybody says that Ray is lazy but I really don't understand why. I mean yeah we'll occasionally see him sleeping while Deborah is cleaning or something. But that doesn't mean he's an uncaring lazy husband. And I'd be exhausted too if Deborah is constantly upset with me about something. Really the guy can't do one thing without triggering this woman.

[@598superchris]

These are not arguments Raymond is a inconsiderate,self centred,selfish husband.

[@13jonash]

CT Dawg and Debra is a nut.

[@P0RKINS2]

Nah, he’s just lazy and unmotivated. If you actually watched the show then you’d know Raymond isn’t any of those things.

[@598superchris]

John Petrinolis Debra is not a 🥜!

[@598superchris]

William Clogston oh ok

[@13jonash]

CT Dawg she kinda is. Although you can’t blame her, having to live next to Frank and Marie and Robert.

[@Goddessvenom]

They behave more like brother and sister 🤣

[@elgrigorio1]

Well Ray is a mama's boy so it would make sense.

[@summerqueen4562]

There's no need to get angry at debra saying she's bossy and all.....I totally agree with her ways of being with a man like that who's totally lazy, doesn't give a damn bout anything ....it's jus a show but yes that things happen in real life too...she has a right to get angry..ray is stubborn ....u don't fully know a person inside ways until u live with them because when you are boyfriend and girlfriend, you don't be with each other all the Time so it's different

[@ShanaiCollins]

Isn’t she Frankie on The Middle????

[@michaelrawson6261]

Yeah, but she was Debra first... late 1996 - early 2005. And excellent as both!

[@Guitarman7133]

@@michaelrawson6261 Hey, who is Debra?

[@bolch88bb8]

Never get married....great show though :)

[@syedtanvirali8644]

Super 😊

[@nancygreen3705]

If there are really women married to men like Ray, I don't understand how they do it. He is a self-centered man-child!

[@dianesingerman9650]

I don’t agree. He was kind, passionate, attractive, and put up with Debra’s usually foul moods.

[@Jojo10475]

Yeah, but if a husband, any husband, treated his wife like Debra mistreats Ray, the villagers would come with pitchforks, torches and a rope to banish Ray from the kingdom. Debra and her character emasculates Ray and it's funny... if a man did that, it would be criminal domestic abuse.

[@tg92277]

If a man treated his wife the way Debra treats Ray, he'd face abuse charges.

[@oliviak2963]

My mom says their marriage reminds her of my mom and dad’s 😂

[@Dagma31]

My name is not Judy.LOL

[@mckill85]

I DONT SEE THA NEEEEEEED! 😂😂😂

[@popsingerstar]

what episode was 10?

[@jeffisaliar]

Uh oh it's the yell machine, help me find the off switch!

[@Rose-xy5pe]

Honestly I think they deserve each other. He's lazy and thoughtless and she's mean and hypocritical, you don't want decent people being married to them.

[@Ace-ke7fq]

the funny thing is his real wife looks like her,.Ray deserves much better looking lady, one who respects his fine great looks..she's even bitchier looking with all that stupid make up which makes broads look older, and trampy

[@TheBee87bee]

@@Ace-ke7fq He's an ass!

[@nina84374]

@@TheBee87bee SHE'S A RAGING BITCHHHHHH WHO CANT STAND UP TO THER MOTHER IN LAW AND TAKES HER ANGER OUT ON HER HUSBAND WHO SHE DOESNT DESERV AT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@nathan2497]

@@TheBee87bee and Debra wasn't? Its a tv show though and they both played their roles so well even if they were annoying

[@jackiehammack9541]

@@nina84374 if i had a mother in law who came over to my house telling me how to cook raise my kids i would go off at my husband too because sometimes your husbands mother needs to mind her own and go on with her life and be with her husband her son is grown he can make his own mind up get a clue lady

[@lhijk2135]

Take some Midol for pms Does it also help with bitchy Ray? Lol pms one my fave even used the same lines on my dh

[@shanen1078]

Where's the tuna?!

[@susannnn]

NR 10 IS THE MUST FUN I LOVE IT LOL

[@MScorpioM]

#3 should be #1.

[@coreytoomey7579]

How could you leave out “THE ONE MAN WEDDING BAND”? 😂

[@craigjordan7623]

Rarely u see a white couple husband and wife arguing on tv besides the Honeymooners.

[@lindar5413]

#7 was my favorite

[@jamesgurksnis4392]

I’m surprised these two didn’t divorce during the show’s run with all the fighting they did.

[@DreFromMaine8472]

It would have violated the show's basic premise if they did that, sadly. But IRL, no woman would ever have put up with a man like Ray and his man-child bullshit. She'd leave him, take the kids, and get full custody of them because his neglect of his children bordered on abuse, which she could easily prove in court because there's a shitton of evidence to prove it. And she'd get as far away from him and his crazy parents as possible. And she'd probably even put no-contact restraining orders on all three of them, too. That's what would happen IRL. If the woman had any sense of self-preservation at all. That's obvious!

[@hana.the.writer5074]

Honestly guys I know it is a sitcom but seriously if there was a couple like that I have No idea how it is possible that the wife stayed married. 😂