Top 3 Critical Comments Answered (Family Minimalism)

[@TheMinimalMom]

Please know 1) The positive comments FAR outweigh the critical ones and we are SO grateful for you and your kindness & encouragement! We feel VERY loved & supported-- THANK YOU!!! 2) We DO try to donate and re-use things whenever possible, but not at the cost of our sanity...somrtimes things just need to get thrown away, we learn from it and try to be more mindful moving forward, but we're still not perfect!!!

[@natblabla1]

Dawn and Family, you are doing a fabulous job helping and educating us while forming and adjusting your own life to make it more manageable and enjoyable for all. Thank you for sharing, I absolutely love and value your videos!

[@adriannaeldridge7271]

We love you Dawn, Tom, Diana amd family! Your content is always wonderful, can't please them all!!

[@patriciagerlach9258]

Essentialism - loving it!

[@joannbirdsong583]

Nobody can decide for you what your minimalist life should look like. Your house is so nice and decorated beautifully. I love throwing stuff away. It’s so satisfying.If I was close enough to you I would beg to help out. Give me that stuff! I’ll throw it away. Remember, criticism is like a disease. It keeps infecting and reinfecting.

[@dianasimplifies]

The Minimal Mom I had a spare bedroom that had turned into a junk room and I trashed a lot of it. Sometimes it just gets done faster that way! 🤷🏻‍♀️I say do whatever works! I gave a lot to a thrift store but they have a huge dumpster next to their building. How do we know a lot of mine didn’t end up inside that??? We don’t!

[@samanthaquant7411]

I have NEVER noticed or cared that you weren’t looking at the lens.

[@vsvizcarra]

Me either!

[@chrissyf5045]

Me either😁

[@FFETGB]

Me either.

[@vzimmer1951]

I would never have picked up on that if you hadn't told me. I live your videos! Wish you had one a day!!!

[@natashafisher793]

That's what I was going to say, I always care more about what you're saying, than if you were looking at the lens. I never even noticed. We (my husband & I) love you and Tom, we find you inspiring in so many areas of our life. Thank you ♡♡♡

[@angelalopez7704]

I recently became a widow, suddenly, at 55, and found your channel in one of my grief-desperate-for-relief moments. My children are all grown and I am alone. Your sweet, relatable, friendly disposition has reached out to me somehow, and honestly, some days cleaning out a drawer, or closet, has saved me. Little by little, my house is becoming less stressful and conducive to my healing. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for making it feel like it's okay to not be perfect.

[@ellen8996]

I am so sorry Angela. I became a widow at 53 and disabled in a car accident at 55. My life is good again now, but Dawn's inspiration has brought much more peace to my life lately as well.

[@gayleklein8890]

Good for you! Some cranky pants might say "that's not the way to handle grief " but there is great healing in trying to take control of the things you can in a positive way and you are doing just that and it's healthy! You go girl! Sorry for your loss 💜

[@donnacrowe4184]

I literally could have written this post myself! I lost my husband 2 years ago at the age of 52. I too have found peace and joy in so many things that I have learned from Dawn and her family. Prayers for you and God bless!

[@Soo_Blessed]

How wonderful to hear that you're doing this They say that hoarders have had a great loss and that's why they buy up things but your loss your comfort is the opposite to de-stress your life When my husband left us I have two daughters I did the same thing I went out and shopped to the point that my children never want to go back in a store or mall I didn't even realize I was doing it but how wonderful for you to meet Dawn my life would have been very different and financially in better shape I'm sorry for your loss Prayers for you🍃

[@shallimolinda]

Angela, so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. I can only imagine the changes ahead. I'm 56 and my husband has been diagnosed with MS. I too am appreciating the peacefulness brought to our home by these simple steps. May you find continued comfort and little sparks of joy in your journey.

[@alexissmith2368]

I think you’re missing one really important thing in the “landfill” question - that over your lifetime you’re actually putting WAY LESS into the landfill than the average person. By not collecting & keeping items stashed away, and by not continually purchasing things, your “landfill load” is likely so much less. Whereas someone who keeps (and continually buys) all this crap in the storage or in their home until they die, it’ll all likely go straight to the landfill, rather than being donated gradually when someone could actually use it (like you do). Great video!

[@rebeccajacklin3976]

Great point!!

[@marijkekohler574]

Totally agree!!

[@jessicanewburn2281]

I just logged on to write the same thing. Yes!

[@amburkajama]

Yes, exactly!

[@sarasuperid]

Yes and chances are she donates things when they are still somewhat in style or relevant to people who might purchase them. Like if she donates some of her farmhouse modern decor, then another person who wants that type of thing. If its kept in a garage for 50 years, it will likely be in poor shape, dried out, and maybe way out of style or relevance when it makes its way to donation centers (or just the dump).

[@vanillaskye55]

I would argue that as a minimalist you throw out less, because you accept less inventory and you buy less clutter. And minimalism is fluid. What works for me as a married person without kids will be different than what works for you as a married person with 4 kids. Also, Dr. Seuss said it best.. "Those who mind, don't matter.. Those who matter, don't mind." I love your content and find it very helpful. Keep on doing you. :)

[@aplacetoshare573]

That is so true! As minimalists we have to do that initial purge, but from there, we accumulate way less stuff and therefore throw out less. We are able to be more intentional with our stuff and purchase things that are going to last.

[@kindasavvy4566]

💯

[@katiebeantown7355]

Try this one! Them: “that’s not minimalist” You: “we are APPLYING minimalism to our lives, not trying to DEFINE it.” It’s minimalistic practices for the sake of happiness.. not just for the sake of doing it

[@douglasmcclintic404]

So good!

[@thriftywifehappylife7385]

Boom!

[@felientorreslyn2172]

Gonna keep this - will need it for sure - thanks!

[@ga6589]

Here's the thing. I don't want to leave my kids with the task of having to deal with all our stuff when we pass away. We went through that with my parents and in-laws and much of our accumulation was from them. I get intense satisfaction with getting rid of things we simply have no use for and now the house and garage are in pretty good shape. Our next big project is to work on the barn!

[@colette9495]

I agree.

[@estherrivers6164]

Agreed. I am mostly using the Swedish death cleaning methods but find the information on this channel very helpful and relevant. My pets appreciate having more space and the toys i found when i was decluttering their shelves.

[@loril2466]

Same.

[@pitsnipe5559]

Leo54 Oh yeah, after my father in law passed it took an entire year to go through all his “paperwork “.

[@sorokabarr8825]

Same

[@kimbucha2949]

you can take your non-reusable things to the landfill or your house will be a landfill. its a matter of location.

[@cindyhand3008]

Yes! Well said!

[@Baileybooandecho]

Excellent point!👍

[@peggyperkinson9798]

😂 so true!

[@Snapwhiz]

This right here is the truth!

[@judysbakeryandtestkitchen1654]

Love that!

[@jencrews]

A very wise woman once said to me, “When people judge you, they’re revealing more about themselves then about you.” It’s hard at first to recognize that, but it gets easier with practice over time. And it got WAY easier after turning 50...at this point I can literally care less what random people think. Something to look forward to!

[@reginafetherolf6796]

Aren't people "interesting"?

[@katiecarruthers6267]

So true! It just highlights their own insecurities

[@gratefulketo2211]

@@katiecarruthers6267... sometimes, as well, it just highlights the fact that they are on a different path than you are.

[@NormalJenniferG]

Honestly the landfill question is a terrible one. The alternative is living in a landfill in your house.

[@soniaspangenberg8557]

Excellent point.

[@cyndiemorin7500]

Amen!!! Good one!!

[@teliciamckee9477]

🤣

[@stinaljungstrom8691]

🤣 True! 🤣

[@stacyhigginson170]

EXACTLY

[@gdsgrl4468]

Dawn, a while back( when covid first started) You had put out a collab video with Cass(Clutterbug) and I left a very negative comment implying(and unfortunately probably flat out saying or criticizing y’all) for your response to covid. I was in a panic at the time about it. I just wanted to take the time to apologize for that. I judged your response to it and I’m deeply sorry for that. I know my comment doesn’t really have to do with your video today directly, but it was on my heart to address the negative comment I left months ago. I’ve felt bad about it for a while. I’ve prayed about it and God is so good, that today He gave me an opportunity to apologize to you. I hope you will accept my apology and know that I appreciate your channel and all that I have learned from it. God Bless you and yours and I look forward to many more videos.🤗🙏🏻💖

[@Hazel_Fox22]

This is true grace. You wrestled with something and then fixed it. Good for you! I hope you have found a bit of peace with this one. Love and light to you and may you be the example of what we all need to do more frequently.

[@smcb2202]

So lovely to read! Thank you for sharing. Your humility encouraged me today! -Lindsay

[@dianasimplifies]

gdsgrl44 that’s so awesome of you!

[@rebeccaarcher3851]

gdsgrl44- I so appreciate you being transparent and you humble apology makes me so happy. Blessings. We all need to go back and make amends for our misdeeds.

[@johnafagerquist8235]

I'm so with you! I have left negative and, perhaps, aggressively angry comments, only to have my conscience get the best of me. I'm happy for you, because you are not tormented by guilt on this issue anymore. I've apologized a time or ten, and, sometimes, I've just deleted my comment, leaving a strange response, from someone who was offended, just flapping in the breeze.

[@lindseyheringer2641]

You have such class the way you handle criticism, not only in this video but in others where you’ve defended your stance on things. You do it so nicely and positively. I want to be more like that.

[@minini5571]

The older I get, the less others’ opinions matter to me....and the less judgmental I am. Each of us will travel through this life according to God’s unique plan for us. And how truly wonderful it is that no two journeys will look exactly the same! I’m so thankful for all that you teach and share with us. Always positive and uplifting!😍

[@HF-eu2ei]

Amen! 😉

[@TravisAndCarma]

There are so many comments, I'm not sure you'll ever read this one, but you have changed my life. I used to feel that I was bad at organizing, and my house was always an embarrassing mess. I've tried Marie Kondo, but was sometimes left with a bigger mess than when I started. I have 4 kids too, and your thoughts on inventory management, the stress relief that comes from living with less, kids playing better with fewer toys--it was the missing link for me. Between you and Cas "the Clutterbug" I have felt empowered to first pare down and then organize what's left in a style that works for my family. We simplified the kids' clothes closets, and now my 10yo tells me about how much less stress he feels about picking what to wear in the morning. We took away all the dishes and silverware except one set per person, and now my 7yo says she loves how clean the kitchen is, even though she has to wash her own dishes. My husband loves that there is always a clean fork for him in the drawer, and he doesn't have to hunt for one in the sink or dishwasher. We simplified the kids toys, and now my 4yo can clean up after himself. We simplified the shoe closet and now the 2yo can find his shoes to put them on or put them away (correctly!) on his own. I spend a fraction of the time tidying up and enjoy a relatively clean home all the time. In the past, I'd give a mighty effort organizing and tidying up only to watch it unravel disappointingly fast, but this time, we're about 2 months in, and things just keep improving, not backsliding. A million thank you's. Thank you for taking the time, thank you for sharing, thank you for pushing past the detractors. And since a thumbs up is the best compliment--we've done that, too. 😊 Thank you!

[@nd4539]

I think people make snarky comments like “so you’re just throwing everything out” because they feel defensive. If every time they come over, your house is clean and neat looking, it makes them aware of the state of their own home. Or if they know their kids have wayyyy too many toys and they see your kids don’t and they are still happy and healthy. Same reason overweight people get offended when the see other overweight people start to eat healthy and lose weight. It makes them aware of their own issues and they don’t like it.

[@elle580]

or they are just crabby people that feel better by knocking others down....

[@AnimalFarm341]

Agreed. A parent of my daughters friend made some really snide comments that took me off guard. I recognize it was her issue not mine.

[@deborahsandell3823]

I never noticed you didn't look at the lens. You do a fantastic job. X

[@mweinheim7911]

Me too!!

[@fulltimelife1248]

Great video. I am 72 years old and just started on this journey two years ago. So I have a lifetime of consumption to deal with and decided to deal with it and not pass the job on to my children. So I have guilt for buying too much stuff, guilt for disposing of all this stuff and guilt walking around a huge house with way too much stuff. So I agree if you need a dumpster then you need a dumpster. I help the earth by not buying much of anything anymore. I repurpose, donate and yes send a lot of stuff to the landfill.

[@janeas3201]

Your comment brings so much happiness to me! My mother passed 8 years ago and I’m still dealing with her stuff - thankfully, there’s a lot less now than there was then. I’ve learned that, when dealing with my mother’s belongings, I wasn’t just merely going through ‘stuff’ but I was also working through the emotional and mental baggage she taught me about material objects and the baggage she learned from her mother as well. Dealing with the remnants of her life has contributed to the difficulty I’ve had in focusing on my own life, goals, dreams, and desires. Your decision to take on the work of dealing with your stuff now will come to be one of the greatest blessings you can give to your children upon your passing. Keep it up!! 👏👏 I wish my mother had made that same choice.

[@BohemiaGirl331]

ignore the trolls. You guys are adorable.

[@eileenlester4342]

Amen.

[@laurie3881]

Best reply ever!

[@juliairvin1606]

When my husband was a pastor, we learned the saying, "You can please some of the people some of the time, but you can't please all of the people all of the time." Like you said, its important to choose which people you're prioritizing because of that. 😉

[@Ann.shecopeswithhope]

So we were taught once that: 1/3 of the people “out there” will not “like” us, 1/3 won’t care, and 1/3 will connect in a friendly way. That was SO helpful to me to be able to dismiss criticism, rejection and even apathy for what I bring to any given situation by thinking oh, well there in that 1/3 category... I also remember Joshua saying the items are already on the earth, so you do not have to accept your home being the landfill they live in! And anyone can see, if they think for a moment, that these decisions live into the future choices that really DO make a difference!! Keep up the good work! You guys bless many many families with your guidance. Thank you 🤩.

[@teresawilson1850]

The fact that you’re teaching your kids a minimalistic lifestyle IS doing good for the world. Your kids won’t consume as much as you did, and hopefully they’ll improve as they continue on a minimalistic journey.

[@andreamiller6200]

The immediate thought I had on hearing that you might be targeted with "you're just throwing that away?" would be to answer (blandly), "I am, unless you would like to take it!" ;-)

[@charleneburroughs6920]

Perfect answer!!!

[@stinaljungstrom8691]

😁

[@helenheggadon6324]

I was thinking the same thing! ‘Oh I’m so sorry I didn’t think to ask you if you wanted it, here you go!’ 😂

[@margarethopkins7030]

Great responses. If you can perfect your delivery and invite the right people over, you won’t need to load up the SUV and make a charity shop or dump run.

[@maryyeager9610]

I have said this to my mom and she ends up putting it in the basement we all the other stuff

[@SugarMamma]

Love the way you respond to criticism. I definitely get so much criticism about being a real minimalist. Applying minimalism to your life is a personal choice and can be tailored to your needs! xCC

[@njoybaker6475]

From one mom to another... you videos have given me permission to get rid of the huge dark cloud hanging over my head. I can't keep up with the house no matter how hard I try and it has severely impacted my identity, mood, relationships and time. There is something liberating to what you're doing and I just want to thank you for letting us take a peek into your life. I've been on a long journey and found that I was keeping stuff because I didn't trust God to provide for me...I was living like an orphan! I've gotten better but as a mom of 5 kids the load is large and I'm constantly looking for solutions and asking God for wisdom on how to manage this giant ship. You just came up in my feed a few days ago and have already super inspired me. God bless you and your family. I'm incredibly thankful for you! We live in MN too! You have a fan in St. Peter! Rock it girl❤

[@falasteen2723]

Okay! I watch you for a long while now and NEVER realized to the point to get bothered by you not looking in to the lenses 😅

[@agkcate1627]

Dawn, When I first heard you speak about decreasing our “mental inventory,” it was like the clouds opened up and the angels sang. Your perspective completely resonates with me. As for “essentialism,” I think that if items are used regularly (such as throw pillows for comfort or coziness), there is reason to keep them. If things just sit around because we “might need them later,” it’s clutter that increases cortisol, as you said, and makes a home feel like a storage unit.

[@kathrynbaker5188]

Love the term essentialist vs minimalist 😁

[@laurawade6335]

It is really sad that anyone would have to defend having less “stuff” in this world. We truly are a materialistic society 😩😞

[@DivyaSelvakumarSamuel]

I was thinking the same!! Shouldn’t we applaud the one who cares less about material stuff ?!

[@soniaspangenberg8557]

Things, it's almost a form of idolatry I'm am noticing, as I cull my own things. That in of itself is a scary thought. Not where I want to be. Isaiah 44:9-20. Not that I pray or worship my belongings but the importance I have given them can become concerning. I love Dawn's comment about relationships being a higher priority than things. I dread having one day to deal with my Mom's things and have decided I don't want my son and daughter-in-law to have to deal with my things.

[@laurawade6335]

Sonia Spangenberg ...exactly! I am sad to say it angers me that my 82 year old mother has so much stuff! It is so important to her that she won’t get rid of it, and I know I will have to deal with it one day 😩

[@soniaspangenberg8557]

@@laurawade6335 my mom is 82 as well.

[@Joy-ky7kg]

@@laurawade6335 , it will be easy for you now that you understand these principles.. but let her enjoy herself and be grateful you have her! She is probably from the depression era and worried that she won't have what she needs.

[@anngallenberger6455]

Dawn Madsen I used to follow a lady on Facebook that occasionally would talk about minimalism. Whenever she did, I just turned to another channel. I thought minimalism was just a crazy fad! THEN I discovered you and your channel. Your bubbly, upbeat, sweet, and caring personality, as well as your entirely different way of discussing minimalism, completely changed my mindset, and made me want to jump aboard the minimalism train! For me, minimalism is just another way of saying I’ve reached my clutter threshold! That threshold looks different for everyone,so to me, minimalism is not a cast in stone word, it’s a fluid state of having only the amount of inventory in our home that will bring us, our spouse, and our children, calm, peace of mind and happiness. THANK YOU, DAWN for being the wonderful person you are, and for changing the lives (for the better) of so many people.😊❤👍

[@kimtaff1932]

Re: the "throw things in a landfill" comments - I think being a minimalist and not buying so much stuff as a consumer also helps planet earth in the long run.

[@SBSunshine]

I like Fiery Dawn! All of these points you explained well. And something so many people need to learn - you don't owe every person who makes a snarky comment (in person or by video) an explanation. This served my sister well when a neighbour passed through our park and criticized her "parenting" as she stopped pushing my son on the swing for a minute to answer a message from me. What the lady saw: Person on a phone in a park - child nearby. Bad Parenting. What she didn't see: my sister dropping everything in her life to come help us with childcare during the pandemic for my special needs son, my sister taking him to his appointment that day, doing this therapy activities, and spending an hour with him minutes before hunting for acorns. My sister said: I don't owe you an explanation. Lady walked away. I've never been more proud. ❤️

[@NickiHorn78]

Was her name Karen? I bet it was Karen! 😂😂😂

[@lilyandrosehomestead3979]

I can’t believe anyone would ever have something negative towards you! Your videos have truly helped me immensely! I cannot thank you enough, honestly.

[@deannaaldridge1610]

My mental health is the reason I choose to simplify my house. I'm well over a year into simple living and I'm actually able to spend more of my time building relationships, self improvement and hobbies.

[@deb664]

This maybe long but... Long ago, (60 yrs), my favorite aunt, a wife and mother of three children had a nervous break down. It was very sad. Before the Psychiatrist discharged her , he told her to go home and give each child 3 shirts, pants,socks and shoes. She was to have 1 cup,plate, bowel for each family member. He told her that she would get better much sooner if she minimized her life and the people and things she was responsible for. Happily, she followed his instruction and lived like this for many,many years. We LOVED visiting her home. My cousins were calm and their home was peaceful and always tidy. This guy was way ahead of his time. I followed this pattern for most of my “mothering” years and still own very little. Minimalist NOTHING new. The technology to talk about it is!

[@dianekreuzer3854]

After finding your channel I feel like a new person. It started all with 1 video. I didn’t go looking for minimalism but it found me through your videos. After watching a few I then binge watched your channel...something clicked. The whole idea of inventory as I looked around the house it was then I realized my anxiety was all this inventory. It wasn’t that I was a bad mom, wife or homemaker. It was that we consumed way too much stuff! It was then I decided I would start the journey. I call it de-clutter because minimalism scares my husband. We are no where close to what I want to be but the anxiety & depression doesn’t control my life anymore. Thank you for sharing your story. Thank you for saving my mental health!

[@marebear09]

Many people try to make a religion out of everything (minimalism, health/diet, etc, etc, etc.). It's exhausting! I have a religion - my relationship with Christ. That gives me freedom to follow Him, and everything else falls into place without stress. Love your videos!

[@way108]

Couldn’t agree more! 🙌🏽

[@netamorton6187]

I’m sorry Dawn but what the heck? There are more important things than you looking at the camera! These people have way to much time on there hands. My goodness, I’m just Thankful I found you and your sister on You Tube! I can’t express how grateful that this Girl is to have found you all! It’s your life and you do what’s best for you and your family! God knows your heart and that’s all that matters! If they are going to complain just don’t watch people! I’m on the journey too with you!❤️

[@AJ-ng6js]

I agree! I'm so interested in the CONTENT of her videos that I don't notice any of that petty stuff.

[@unitedheartsamerica5924]

Agreed!! Its You Tube people, not Hollywood with many overpaid employees. Aye yi yi! SJWs can learn some manners and settle down. Dawn, you look wherever you darn want to! 🤪🤪🤪

[@jgheart3018]

Please don't lose sight of the fact that those words shared were probably said as feedback and were probably never meant to be taken in a harsh, critical way. I know I am more relaxed when Dawn looks right at me when she's talking because I really feel this is a friendship we are establishing here.

[@ShiningStarStudios]

@@jgheart3018 I agree. I never said anything before bc it's not about being critical... Sometimes I miss her message because I'm so distracted by her being distracted. I'm thinking, "Why does she keep looking at herself?" But I appreciate the content so much that I started listening to the videos instead of watching them. If she says something that needs my visual attention, I just go back a few seconds. :) The fact that she's so willing to address this speaks volumes to me about her character and wanting to improve for her audience's sake. I just LOVE her!

[@tbbart6463]

I'm of a different mindset. Constructive criticism can be super beneficial to those of us that value life long education and improving on the skill set of our craft. It is the difference between growth and stagnation in creativity and life. Healthy internal self talk and boundaries are a prerequisite to allowing a new perspective to be entertained without becoming the burn victims that fear rejection or a differing opinion. If you are seeing feedback as negative, you may want to let a little Dr. Brene Brown into your life. Resilience is a skill set and practice that is often derailed by shame.

[@NLY1WAY4U]

I am so sorry that people sometimes forget about others feelings. Some do not understand....thank you for being so caring and considerate.

[@judydunker3312]

It’s just so crazy that people have to “label” every single thing!! I admire what you are doing. I go through stages of wanting to pare things down and purge and then I go through stages of wanting “stuff”. I love looking at that spotless, everything in its place home! And you two are so funny together! Tom is a doll!! Keep the vlogs coming and dump the bad comments in the dumpster!!!!!!

[@WalkingwithLaura]

Dawn!!! I am just reading Josh Beckers book ... That stuff is junk at your house OR in a landfill it doesn't matter. It was already manufactured. My hope is that through my minimalism and me knowing what I want and shopping less (and others) that the production slows down and that more peoples life focus (and the way our economy functions) is not stuff!!!

[@emmar641]

I’ve completely decluttered my apartment and sold 80% of my wardrobe using tips from your channel! My low-buy lifestyle (currently doing a NO-buy October!) has redirected my energy toward better and more fulfilling things. Shopping is not a hobby for me anymore. I’m 20 years old, and I think that growing up on the internet/KZbin where the “lifestyle” my generation was exposed to = constant spending, eating out, fast fashion, etc. made me feel like I constantly needed more of everything. Thank you for being a positive role model 💓

[@DD-xf1yd]

Wow! Congratulations on learning such a valuable lesson, at such a young age!! I'm decades older than you, and wish I'd learned this lesson, sooner. Thanks to Dawn, thousands of us are tackling this issue, and happy with the results.

[@thestrugglingperfectionist]

Emma R you are clearly wise beyond your years! You took some great advice and your lifestyle will serve you well! If only I could go back in time... we call those ‘lessons learned’! ❤️

[@katevoris8811]

This has to make Dawn smile. ❤️

[@seh0041]

Good for you for being able to look inward and make these choices at such a young age. You are the future!

[@LavenderandLinen]

The, “That’s not minimalist,” comment is funny to me. The fact that you have a few pretty things and that your home still looks so inviting and cozy is the reason that you are encouraging to me! I want to fit in my house but still feel at home. I feel like you’ve accomplished that. I love how your home looks!

[@dawandabocanegra8935]

Your beautiful home is what stood out for me not how many throw pillows you have.I have watched so many videos about frugal living and minimalist living and the houses are decorated very expensively. Some minimalist have less stuff but it's still expensive stuff. Seeing your house doesn't make me feel like shopping or redecorating my house after watching a video.I love decorating and HGTV but it had me wired to think that I had to spend a lot of money to make my home perfect for entertaining.There have been times I've purchased new items for my home just for company.Then I watched an episode of your show and how you talked about having friends over and I thought wow. You don't need to go in debt decorating your home to entertain. I love and watch Jordan page but her house is so lavish even though she talks about frugal living. You are the real deal you buy from thift stores that's something I hadn't seen on Utube.And it's interesting to see someone do something different because I usually pay more thinking it's will last longer. Even if you watch cleaning video it's women in full make cleaning her elaborate house.

[@anaalves3658]

She does have a beautiful welcoming home and it's NEAT!😁😁😁😁

[@rubytook8067]

Yes!!! Please do a video on how to decorate a home without cluttering it!

[@Firstfalconfree]

Absolutely right! It is always weird to hear folks who call themselves minimalists loudly judging others by their own arbitrary standard. I believe it is likely a pretty small minority, and likely mostly folks who are new to minimalism, so they have that zealous fever. I once had someone judge me for having storage totes under my bed, because "a real minimalist wouldn't do that". The totes contained winter blankets for my horses, because I didn't have a barn I could store them in. 🤣 I'm glad that lady was able to keep under her bed clear, but minimalism looks different for different lifestyles.

[@sj6728]

keep doing the video the way you have been. I never notice where you were looking. lol. you are doing just fine.

[@kaleenasowell9140]

Dawn I just found your channel and I love it!! I love how you are a minimalist, but your house doesn't look drab or sparce. It looks friendly, inviting and clutter free, which is what I want!! Thank you for sharing with us, even when there are critics. This has been life changing.

[@donnaschmitt49]

Hello! I can’t even begin to tell you how truly grateful I am for your videos. Finally I have found someone who can articulate the way I feel with clutter and excess. For years I have been overwhelmed in trying to keep my house in order and tidy and get so frustrated with a couple of my family members. We are not the worst but we have lots to improve for sure. My 13 year old daughter is the one who discovered your channel. Now we both value the idea of living minimally and this has been a way for us to connect and have something in common. We just started 2 months ago..,. I guess we are in the “ big purge” . Already I have noticed I am so much for thoughtful in the things I buy. The idea of someone else truly finding joy in whatever item it is you are giving away truly helps! That has helped my daughters a lot. Thank you so much for your positive influence!

[@lindamaglione7189]

I started on my journey with a book called "The Gentle Art of Swedish Death Cleaning". I had just had to help my elderly parents move from their home into a senior apartment facility. I never want my kids to have to go through all the stuff I did. Most of it had not been used or probably even thought of in years but was still in the house. Then I found Marie Kondo...and you...and Erica Lucas...and Josh Becker and have read numerous books on the minimalist lifestyle. I have passed on some family heirlooms to my sons instead them having to wait until I was gone. It is unbelievable how "good" and relaxing my house feels and how much easier it is to clean! Better to take things to the landfill than have your house and/or garage become a landfill! Keep up the good work, you have helped me immensely!

[@seedylee]

the first time you explained "inventory" on your videos, I *TOTALLY* got the goal. I really didn't 'get' people who were 'minimalists' before that explanation.

[@WaitIHaveQuestions]

That term helped my boyfriend too and now he’s inspired to go through his ‘inventory’... he’s not as hardcore as I am but it’s a start and I’m proud of him trying

[@kathysheeran6589]

I love the inventory term. Makes it seem Less personal - easier to rid of stuff

[@beckynchrisplsek3558]

It's refreshing to hear someone respectfully address the negative comments that get posted out there in this day and age (not just this wonderful channel). It can be tempting to write whatever is on our mind especially when it seems like there are no consequences, but all that negative energy is affecting us. We all need to speak with love and be even more careful when we write that we are not misunderstood in our intentions. Love that your channel is positive and encouraging, Dawn. God bless all of you reading this!

[@simply.cozyhome]

I never even noticed where you were looking, I was paying more attention to your message.

[@LavenderandLinen]

One comment that I got when we first started purging was from the ladies at the local thrift store; “Do you even have anything left?” She said it with such an attitude of judgement. I just laughed and said, “yep, I’ll be back with more in a couple of days!” Ha ha

[@grannysquareswagonwheels2604]

Yeah, I never really notice you looking off the lens enough to be bothered by it. Same as when you mentioned that Diana was always fussing at you over your hands. Just seems like I'm in the room with you talking like a friend, we don't make eye contact constantly and it's ok to talk with your hands. I love how you put it with mental health being number one, that is why I've been working towards minimalism (essentialism).

[@mweinheim7911]

I never notice where you were looking!! Just love your videos!!

[@sheilaenglish7329]

Granny Squares & Wagon Wheels Essentialism is a good word , perhaps better than minimalism, as it implies you have in your life what you consider essential to you - which can be different for each person.

[@SpanishwithNeena]

I'm always amazed that some people have the audacity to ask these "nosy" type questions. We have a saying in our family. "It's not my stewardship." When we're tempted to judge someone else's choice or decision, we remind each other..."not our stewardship."

[@meaganramer1556]

I just want to say, you can call it whatever you want to, but you have definitely changed my life regardless of the name. For a year, I’ve been needing to decluttering my kitchen utensils and today was finally that day. We’ve moved twice in the last two years and lived with my parents temporarily last winter so it just wasn’t a priority. I caught the decluttering bug today and finally got it done. It felt SO GOOD!! I went back and used your 15 minute guided declutter video for support. I’m slowly making our new house feel like a home but it has felt SO nice that there hasn’t been so much stuff to manage! I started watching your channel three years ago and my home is night and day different. ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Thank you, Dawn!!

[@rebeccamooney4187]

I think every person in our country needs to embrace this concept if they haven't already. We are drowning in stuff, it eats up our time, gives anxiety and is causing major anxiety and depression. Marketers are evil geniuses leading us down a rabbit hole. I think people would be shocked at how much happier and "lighter" they felt if their homes had less in them. You and Tom are doing the best parenting by teaching your children these concepts before they get so attached to things and end up going thru the struggles of managing an excess of inventory and then decluttering, stop it before it starts, it's a wonderful concept ❤ I am so glad these comments don't discourage you so that hopefully more people can be saved from their stuff! And if we all become more conscious of our consumption then the earth wins too! Thank you, you are an amazing teacher and encourager, keep the videos coming! ❤

[@brettturner6586]

My husband and I have been living minimally for our entire lives together-37 years. Some areas of our home are very lean and others are not and it is based on what we use and our needs. One example would be our bath towels and kitchen towels. We each have two each. Two are in the bathroom and two are in the cabinet but in our kitchen we have 7 dish towels because we use one a day and sometimes two. It just makes our lives easier but it definitely isn't minimal. Everyones definition needs to be based on what works and is manageable to them. You keep doing you.

[@j.m.7056]

But, it is YOUR minimal. Bravo to you!

[@pitsnipe5559]

Naysayer: So, your just getting rid of everything? You: yup As far as people criticizing you, they need to remember that it is better to be thought a fool than to open your mouth and remove all doubt.

[@cathycoryell2351]

This is an emotional question, me re than criticism. People can be initially "mind blown" when first learning about minimalism. They are trying to understand it, mentally process this concept. Not necessarily criticize. Yes! Is definitely the simple, respectful and confident answer to the question.

[@Brideyfiore]

Hahaha. I’m loving this. I should probably have this where I can see it often.

[@denisecarner2024]

My reply might be: "Yes! What can I get you to take withyou?" ;)

[@lisadearing5960]

I can’t imagine why it’s anyone’s business how your family chooses to live or that they have a right to question it. Would these same people ask a hoarder why they live in all of their clutter and mess? 🤔 Social media has definitely given some people the green light to be rude and disrespectful. As a child, my mom always told me if I don’t have something nice to say, don’t say anything at all. I feel that still applies. Especially in the world we are living in right now. Everyone is dealing with something. A little kindness goes a long way. 🙂

[@Unothedoggy]

Simplifying your life...might just end up being a blessing to others in some way. Ursula from South Africa

[@rosemariealvarado9902]

Reminds me there are no u-hauls behind a hearse. I'm giving away things now so others can enjoy them while I can enjoy their using them . If they don't want it I'm fine with that. Just don't want others to have to decide what to do with stuff. Lots is just junk. Your heart is to help us and you have. Thank you and bless you for all your hard work on our behalf

[@1974AMDG]

I can honestly say I have NEVER, EVER noticed you not looking directly at the camera lens! In fact, one of the things I have always LOVED about watching your videos is that it feels just like you are sitting across from me talking to me like we are friends! You are all such beautiful people and I get so much inspiration from you to help me in my own minimalism journey, so a thousand thank yous! And as for donating or dumping stuff, the bottom line is everything is eventually going to end up in landfill, so it really makes no difference whether it's YOU who sends it there now, or 3 or 4 people down the track who have been using what you donated! I wouldn't worry about the negative comments, Dawn. Just keep on doing what you are doing. You are really helping a lot of people! God's blessings on you all!

[@shannontorrens1]

I deal with all these comments too 💛, I think a lot of these comments come from people that don't understand or have never gone through the decluttering process themselves. Even if we all kept everything, eventually when we aren't here on earth anymore all that stuff will end up in the dump. It is sad but very true, but being minimalist helps because we aren't buying as many new things. 💛

[@andreamiller6200]

I found your channel from Dawn's and I want to say that I *love* it. I feel your positive energy and enthusiasm in full and appreciate what you are offering. Thank you for the inspiration, Shannon!

[@shannontorrens1]

@@andreamiller6200 thank you Andrea! I hope you are having a good week 💛

[@cindytaylor235]

My parents grew up during the Great Depression. My dad grew up in such hard times and he could not bring himself to throw things away that he might “need” in the future. My mom went along with that. When they passed away it took 5.....that’s FIVE .....of the BIGGEST size dumpsters to empty the junk left in the three homes they owned after numerous garage sales, donating useful items, passing along to family, etc. I cannot express how physically and emotionally exhausting it was! I do not want my children to have to deal with anything like we did. That experience is always in the forefront of my mind as I realize that minimizing is a constant work in progress. Anyone who criticizes the use of a dumpster has never experienced the overwhelming feeling all that “junk” can give you.

[@unitedheartsamerica5924]

God bless you in all you went through. I can imagine how long and difficult that was.

[@biggyziggy5777]

Cindy Taylor ... reading your comment was so interesting to me ... and how you felt about the junk and being left with it all the stuff and the overwhelming feeling of getting rid of it ... and then thinking of your Dad collecting and keeping the stuff because he never wanted the overwhelming feeling of not having things he might need ! ... My Nana lived through the Great Depression as well ... she is 105 and doing really well ... she lives in a low care nursing home and l have discussed this with her at length and l think we have come to the conclusion that l will never understand the feeling of having nothing !! .. no food to feed your kids, no shoes, clothes that are falling apart , no money, the absolute feeling of despair ... my Nana says that l was not born in that time and she in her heart is so happy that l don’t understand that feeling ... 🤗 😊

[@nancyrampmeyer8492]

@@biggyziggy5777 God Bless your Nana! 105! That's awesome! About inheriting lost loved ones stuff, I made the same comment to Jeannette Elizabeth who lists some Pro's about minimalism. It took us months (mainly weekends--work and all) to clean out my parents home. I feel ya!!

[@rockymom624]

I completely agree. After having to deal with emptying out my parents' totally crammed full house AND storage units, I see the value of having only what is necessary. I don't want my children to have to suffer through what I did. It was exhausting and frustrating and stressful.

[@robinwallace9655]

It’s SO hard on the one that has to come behind you and sort and decide what to do with it! When my grandparents passed (they saved everything!) I told my mom that she better get started on her “ collection” because I would be the one to clean her mess up! Did she do it? NO! Took the biggest dumpster and over a week! I am not doing that to my kids!

[@helenascribe210]

I like your comment about being "in survival mode," as that's where I was at when I started my journey towards minimalism. I really like that I can now be more spontaneous and put relationships above stuff--I don't have to take time to clean my house before people come over, I can drop everything and go for a walk in the woods with husband and kids, and I can look around my house and feel calm.

[@loritompkins6333]

Complainers & negative people are either jealous/envious, always grumpy/negative, or just having a bad day… don’t let them live rent free in your head! You’re awesome & inspiring, and brave! THANK YOU!!

[@christinewatson8954]

Every time I watch your videos I remember the house I grew up in. In the 1950s and 60s, everyone's house looked like yours. I had three pairs of shoes: good ones, school ones, and old go out and play ones. I had three coats: a church one, a go to school one, and an old go out and play one. We had a new 1950s house but the closets were infinitesimal by today's standards. We had food in the cupboards and food in the fridge and not a lot of stuff on the counters. It was actually no different than your home. How you are living used to be normal. Then excessive consumerism became the norm. I really like your use of the term "essential." "Minimal" denotes lack. "Essential" denotes thinking about your choices. That is exactly what you are doing. And that is exactly why you are my favourite person on KZbin.

[@rosezingleman5007]

Our county landfill used to have a “too good to toss” area, but Covid killed that, and most thrift stores won’t take A LOT of what they used to. It’s just the way it is. You’re right on target. If you agonize over where every item will end up-you get Nowhere. Love you guys!

[@marieavila7100]

I started donating to a non profit clothing donation center and women 's center and I no longer feel like I have to throw out items. It goes to women restarting their lives. ❤️

[@samanthaquant7411]

It IS painful to see how much gets thrown away but that should motivate us to be more careful about what we BUY in the first place!

[@lelexoxo303]

It sure is...

[@nancyrampmeyer8492]

I was thinking the same thing!

[@sonyasylvester100]

I think you are so lovely in every way..kind compassionate and so grounded..I simply adore you and ALL your content.you have been a tremendous source of inspiration to me.I am a minimalist. I began my journey three years ago.And I cant begin to tell you how wonderful the journey has been...💓God Bless you and your family💕

[@bethreisman8869]

Amen, Dawn. These are personal decisions. Shame on them for being so self righteous. I'm tired of the overwhelming self righteous demeanor of so many people now. My response "first, check the mirror" before you criticize.

[@richardsondeb1]

so, when someone makes a critical comment to me like the "landfill comment" I found if my come back is "I'm sorry, what have you found to work for you, when downsizing, to not use the landfill as an option?" If you ask it in a sincere tone it totally changes the person's tone toward yourself. You put them in the Advisor position then. It puffs them up even if the conversation concludes with....they don't have any better suggestion. The outcome is, you didn't become defensive and you didn't make them defensive with your reply. I love it when others makes suggestion on your video's about what worked for them. We're all in different 'seasons' of our life and it's not a one size fits all. Love your channel. Thank you & your family for letting us ride along. New Senior Citizen.

[@brittanys.7191]

“You have throw pillows.” Well I guess I’m not a minimalist either then lol. I love decorating but I try to keep It within boundaries of my home so I don’t feel overwhelmed. I’ve also had a grandparent recently pass so ya I’m going enjoy those happy memories associated with some sentimental decor. My paw paw had an old barn scene on his mantel and he held me up to it and asked me what each piece was. I was little child and he used it as a teaching tool. Sparks joy to look at it now. ❤️

[@peggyprose]

This was interesting, but not necessary. If it made YOU feel better, good. But you owe an explanation to NO ONE!!!

[@jessicalantz4428]

My mom has been giving me a hard time when I'm decluttering and she notices I'm getting rid of something she gave me in the past. Mind you she might have given the item to me 15 years ago, but to her I'm getting rid of things she gave me and it's in some way insulting. It was YOUR WORDS Dawn, that finally got her to see things from a new perspective! I told her what you said in another video about loving things for a season, using things for a season, and then letting them go for others to enjoy and use. Now she understands a little better, and even had me help her thin out her extensive Christmas decor! Love your channel and love you! Thanks Dawn!

[@sheilaenglish7329]

Jessica Lantz Do you remember which video she talked about loving and using things for a season? That sounds like one I need to watch.

[@jessicalantz4428]

@@sheilaenglish7329 she's referenced it several times recently, but I do remember her talking about it in this video with the little owl about how it sparked joy but now it's just become background noise. kzbin.info/www/bejne/i3aYnWptYt2cY8U

[@natalieeubank4533]

Absolutely im ok with letting some things go, my mom reacts the same way is always asks me why I'm getting rid of something, and it's usually bc we just don't use it which she doesn't understand, we have 3 kids and a bigish house i dont need more than what I have or more toys to clean up

[@jessicalantz4428]

@@natalieeubank4533 yes exactly! We have 3 kids and a small house so the excess just makes it look messy even when it's clean. I'm loving living with less, and we still have absolutely everything we need.

[@natalieeubank4533]

@@jessicalantz4428 I now have one in school and two at home and its amazing how easily my house can look like a tornado hit it

[@BelovedSigel]

Well, I like you, for whatever it’s worth. It’s your show... no explanations needed.

[@barbaravoneitzen7729]

It’s all about inventory like you said. Been married along time and I was sick of the inventory shuffle.. Hubby and I are living stress free because 4 years ago we did what you did. No Regrets. Don’t miss a thing.. And that’s a fact...

[@238blonde]

You have no idea the impact you’ve had on my life personally, by doing what you do & providing this information! I’m a mom of a toddler & newborn, & I’m still “peeling the onion” with our stuff right now lol I still have a long ways to go, but can already see results showing from downsizing my household inventory. I watch a video of yours just about every day to help me stay motivated lol So God bless you, & THANK YOU for the encouragement!! 💖

[@bluegrassgirl2972]

I like the phrase, "you do you." Every family is different, thankfully!

[@SL123abc]

Whatever happened to, "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." Not everything is donate-able anyway. People often donate crap that should be garbage. And if someone said "you're just going to throw that away?" I would suggest they can take it off my hands. See if they want to deal with extra stuff that no longer has a purpose. And... You're awesome!

[@seh0041]

I came here to say this - sometimes what people deem "acceptable" for donation is really sad and crappy. Some of our stuff is just junk, plain and simple. (And I consider myself an environmentalist, so don't get me wrong!)

[@janemichael9433]

You have helped me so so so much. I’m a 66 year old senior citizen. It is giving me such a renewed sense of being able to control my life. Thank you. Ignore the critics. ♥️☺️

[@oumaclubbe522]

You are amazing. Don’t change! We watch you as much as we do because we love you as you are! You are precious. Praying for you. The dumpster is not your landfill problem, those with the problem should take on the council problem if they believe it.

[@rosarioortiz93]

That's exactly the approach I took this time around (with having a new baby and this year being so stressful) I opted to go ahead and throw away more than creating a "donating" pile that would sit in the corner staring at me day in and day out; I heard that thrift stores are being overwhelmed right now because so many people are decluttering (which is great!) and donating. lol

[@heartsandmindsathome]

I'm about to do the same, I think! I have a few donate bags that have sat around too long, which is starting to stress me out lol. This year, donation sites were closed for so long, I think they were bombarded when they finally reopened, and I would almost feel guilty about giving them more junk to sort! 😆 Maybe I'll give myself an ultimatum --- drop off this week, or leave at the curb next trash day. 😬

[@rosarioortiz93]

@@heartsandmindsathome There you go😉

[@TheDriftwoodlover]

Hearts & Minds at Home if it helps, I think donations have tapered off. My favorite local charity had only accepted donations twice a week post shutdown; now they are accepting five days a week.

[@heartsandmindsathome]

@@TheDriftwoodlover that's good! Thank you. I would certainly prefer the stuff go to someone who would appreciate it!

[@olivemaycards]

@@heartsandmindsathome I think the donations might be slowing down but it depends on the situation in your area whether anyone is actually thrift shopping now. Our area is still quite restricted and most people are not spending a lot of time browsing in shops so the donations are still tending to pile up. I'm going to offer some of my donations for free on Marketplace/my local Fbk group.

[@susanspianostudio7057]

To me minimalism is living with less in your OWN home. So that'll look different for everyone. 😘

[@allisonc9645]

I love that you go in your car to do these sometimes. The only place it is quiet and calm! I sat in my car to read my Bible today. Your idea of "inventory" has been a game changer for me - thank you!!

[@lucycaldwell7113]

You have been a God-send to me. I stumbled on your videos "by accident" (thanks, God!) a couple of weeks ago and I have been de-cluttering my house and my mind ever since. I've struggled with depression the last year or so and today was the first day in a LONG time that I left my house (to go to work) and I felt GOOD about not only myself, but my house (I was picturing my de-cluttered freezer in my head, LOL!!). I've learned that I'm angry all the time because of all the clutter I live in. I like to call it "controlled chaos" but if it's hurting my mental health, it's not controlled! So THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU for what you do. I wouldn't feel this way today if God hadn't "hooked us up" on You Tube!!!

[@dbartz5510]

Dawn is a library full of information on simplifying. She is not forcing anyone to watch or even do the things she suggests. You can read/hear all the knowledge you need to know. In the end, we all have to decide how much, and how far we want to take our journey. You do you, and quit with the negative comments. Thank you Dawn for inspiring and showing us the way to a simple life. You have helped so many, and you have a small army of friends that have your back. Stay healthy!🤗👍♥️

[@louisaseapy6117]

I don't miss a single episode. I love your channel. Your style of minimalism is practical and doable. I simply couldn't do with an empty house and only a spoon and bowl and toothbrush. I like stuff around me and I like comfort. But you've taught me that LESS stuff is much better. Thank you thank you thank you!!

[@barbarakandel2790]

We had to deal with all of their "things", when all four of our parents passed. We never want our children to have to go through that. Living Simply is "so freeing". It's a lifestyle that makes room for relationships instead of "stuff". It also makes things much easier for those left behind to deal with "our things".

[@diedrecowart684]

As a retired teacher, your outlook on a persons needs is spot on. Education psychology... Marlowe hierarchy of needs. Students can't learn if their base needs aren't met. You go girl.

[@adarnoult]

Your channel has been so helpful to me. After my husband passed away, I had to get rid of so much in order to move into a smaller space. I have lugged tons of stuff, including lots of paper too, around with me for years, always thinking I'd need it or would eventually use it. I am so liberated by getting rid of stuff. I call this my year of letting go. I'm still letting go of stuff. It is therapeutic. I actually FEEL lighter. And your videos, which I love, have helped me through that journey. Thank you a million times over. I enjoy you and your family. Keep on going!

[@nicholetteburris3925]

I remember a video where Tom and Diana got on to you about your eye contact and hand motions ... I got SO defensive FOR you. I love that you are not staring us down and that you move your hands to keep us on track for what you are saying. I seriously wanted to shout into the phone, "She's our friend, not our professional speaker!" 😂 But, for real, you are one of the most sincere people "I know" and your nerves and personal quirks make you my favorite KZbinr. I truly think we could be friends. 💕 (I think Diana's professionalism is awesome for her personality and job, btw.)

[@patriciaday7416]

Minimalist is all subjective, so if that’s what we’re looking for, that’s what it is! Some people 🤪 always are critical. I’m just sad that they feel so much negativity.

[@karenvivian2194]

You were on fire!!! I really don’t care what others think of my journey. I’m feeling so much better everyday because of this! Remember what Joshua Becker says: it was already on earth, whether it is in your home or at the landfill. It’s here! So going forward, but less. Love you Dawn!

[@dorothydaniels8184]

For my family, we are working toward the minimal way of life daily. That means, I am cleaning out closets, storage areas, etc...when I have time. It's not everyday, all day. It is also making the conscious effort when I shop to keep it minimal. I don't need all the "stuff" I see or the impulse items. It is saving me money and keeping clutter out of my house. We donate to our local charities/churches anything that is in good shape and that can continue to be used by others. Sadly though, sometimes things do just end up in the trash/landfills. That is a much larger global issue that we all need to address. It's not going to be solved because I kept old children's toys in my closet. If the toys are broken or out of date they gotta go. I love your vlogs and keep the tips and encouragement coming! It has relieved so much stress in my home I cannot even express my joy about minimalism!! Thank you!

[@eahuebner1]

I'm learning to tell my loved ones: "I'm on a journey."

[@gratefulketo2211]

I’ll have to remember that one! :-)

[@desij.4060]

I love your videos! I told my husband I've been watching a mom on youtube that helps you become minimalist and he laughed that I need videos to guide me to kick out my hoarder tendencies 😂 thank you for the videos! 💜

[@mintbutterfly10]

You are beautiful 🌻 I love this video. It's a good example for those of us who feel a lot of guilt, to hear your thoughts and how you think your way through the stress. Or at least minimalize your stress 💗 That's very important to us all.

[@allthemomthings9897]

I’m a Mom of 4 also and your tips help me so much! We have been living I’m full time in an RV for 9 months. I’m really seeing what we are using everyday day. We are buying a house and I can’t wait to have a simple and minimalistish house! Thank you for your video and I love how you bring up the relationship first! ❤️ Blessings!

[@meganrasey4377]

I'm about to have our 4th! Any advice? My oldest is 4 😆 I'm definitely continuously simplifying!

[@tammiemonahan9644]

I have reached a point in my life (3 older kids at home) that we are all too big to be in our apt with all my stuff - stuff that now that we have reached these points in our lives - I truly just don't need. I want to thank you for showing me/us ways that we can maintain a de-cluttered lifestyle and be HAPPY & CONTENT ... with throw pillows! I have been thinning the house, or trying to, and I will put stuff out for neighbors to take, piece by piece, and if no one wants it, I will throw it away. With everything going on right now, our local donation centers are not receiving items, but I can drive 45 minutes each way to where they are. Not ideal when I'm doing one small corner at a time. So if there is not an immediate need for something that I have by someone in my 'local (250 unit apt complex)', it stresses me out more to have a pile of stuff that I already made a decision that I don't need any longer. You do you and direct those Negative Nellies to me - I've had a rough week already and need to let off some steam!!! Take Care & Thanks for all you share.

[@christinareynolds8542]

I think my favorite part of watching you and Tom is how real you are … you are honest and upfront and that is refreshing. And none of us are perfect. I can tell you honestly that what I love the most about you, Cas, and Dana is that there is truly no judgement. We are all free to take and use what works for us and pass on whatever doesn’t. But your reassurance that progress is better than perfection and improvement is still better. You make me feel encouraged daily. Thank you for all you do !! ❤

[@mcdc101201]

Love that you addressed these with grace and poise. I love the idea of determining your priorities and goals for what you are doing and let that drive your choices.

[@findingaway5512]

I love your inventory reference every time you say it.

[@ryanjacobson4637]

One other thing that helped me was this year when we were on evacuation watch over and over. My perception of what I really needed totally changed.